I Hate Arguing And Fighting

"Can't we all just get along?!" 2,389 People

    Arguing and fighting makes me ill.

    I prefer a life in peace and harmony.
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    I just got into a bad argument with my

    boyfriend over something completely not worth widening the rift between us: a stupid videogame. I suppose that the conflict had nothing so much to do with the game as it did with underlying issues regarding respect but I don't even want to play it at all now after this although...
    ginaramone ginaramone
    18-21, F
    Aug 17, 2015

    Tired of the bs I need to make a change

    for the better. Why is it so hard to please someone
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 29, 2015

    It must be a holiday,

    because all I can hear is people fighting. Hey, at least the food was good :P
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic
    31-35, F
    Nov 26, 2015

    Love fighting hate arguing

    but if I'm not in the mood to fight don't try to hit me I think you would know by now that I always win!
    Rhea03811 Rhea03811
    16-17, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    Why do people try to hide their true feelings?

    Your saying one thing but your body language says another. So let's pick another fight. Another Sunday of arguing and crying. Might as well just be at work all the time. Can't wait for this day to end.
    Cilly32 Cilly32
    36-40, F
    Mar 15, 2015

    I can't stand confrontation,

    I will run a mile to avoid it .
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 29, 2016

    I hate arguing and fighting.

    It makes me shake like a nervous wreck, even if I'm standing up for someone.
    fullen fullen
    26-30, M
    Jul 21, 2014

    I Loathe It

    I grew up in a house that had 2 alcoholics fighting in it every single day and I just couldn't wait to be gone. When I got married, I married someone who at the time, I did not know was addicted to stress and drama and all she ever wanted to do was argue about anything she could...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 17, 2011

    I just don't fall for it.

    It's not worth the energy. But there are people that still persist unfortunately.
    theblacksuggestionbox theblacksuggestionbox
    26-30, M
    1 Response Nov 19, 2015

    I really hate arguing,

    it's killing me. I never ever start a fight, I'm not that kind of person. So it's really fun when someone starts one with me, claiming that I am the one who started it. Really wish it didn't stress me out so much, I want to be a cold fish ...
    maybemaybenotwhat maybemaybenotwhat
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 28, 2016

    i fight hate with love,

    and fire with water. all hateful people are, are people who feel powerless and sad. they shouldnt be hated, they should be loved. by helping a bully realize that there are other ways to feel better about themselves, you are helping the people who were bullied by them.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 16, 2015

    I won't! I refuse and honestly I'm like Sooooo

    sensitive (shhh) I lived with a man for years that was violent and screamed and I can't do it! But I also tend to be the one to quickly make up ! Put it behind us and move on
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    man oh man...hearing people fighting outside

    the room I'm currently in makes me just feel queasy and drives my anxiety through the roof...I don't do so hot with fighting, never have, even if I'm not involved in the fight...
    701TaintedLove 701TaintedLove
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2015

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    toriccaa toriccaa
    26-30, F
    Nov 26, 2015

    My Fiance' Is Mad...

    A few friends and I went out for drinks and karaoke tonight after a long week of standardized state testing. I texted my fiance', or so I thought. I typed my text and thought I hit "send" but I didn't. He has had no idea where I have been for 4 hours. He was texting and calling...
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2013

    Especially with my family.

    Although I get along well with my family; so much that we rarely ever fight. It takes something pretty bad for us to start getting into it and that's what makes our rare feuds so dreadful. We don't fight a lot but when we do, it's never pretty. :(
    CarverReturns CarverReturns
    26-30, F
    Mar 18, 2016

    There is no time and no place in my life

    for either action, life is too short.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    So much time and effort is wasted over

    such simple disagreements or misunderstandings. Wait am I talking about my marriage here?
    TowerJimmyDabzs TowerJimmyDabzs
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 31, 2016
    ubahn1000 ubahn1000
    22-25, M
    Dec 13, 2015
    Lynlove Lynlove
    22-25, F
    Jan 2, 2016

    I would love it if we could not fight about

    every little issue that pops up in our faces! Problems are not solved and everyone is left empty and sick! And then it carries on and on until someone snaps and makes it worse! NOTHING is solved through violence unless it is done with mutual respect and in a safe manner like a...
    Spitbak Spitbak
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 4, 2016

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    chavacc11 chavacc11
    26-30, F
    Jul 28, 2015

    I just had the most awful fight with my

    boyfriend Craig that ended in him storming out of my house (technically my Uncle's house). He thinks that I'm having an affair with a guy from Ballet. I'm not. Josh is totally straight and when I told Craig this he just blew up. I mean sure I spend a lot of time with Josh, we...
    HandsomePrince1 HandsomePrince1
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jul 16, 2015

    My personality type says I hate confrontations

    which am slowly seeing is true..I would rather walk away than argue which I am learning doesn't solve anything..So am working on airing out my views even if it will lead to arguments I just hope never fights
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic
    22-25, F
    Jun 15, 2015

    the one thing I cannot stand is

    when someone wants to start some **** when there is no reason to start anything. This is one of the many reasons I enjoy being a loner and try to stay and chill in my room. My mother is a very outspoken opinionated woman. She says what's on her mind and she does not care if she...
    Perseph0ne Perseph0ne
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 21, 2015

    I really hate it. What bothers me most is

    that I have a friend who I can't seem to stop arguing and fighting with. I feel like I'm trying to keep things ok but it seems like no matter what I do, the result is always the same. We are good for a few days, then we have this huge argument and we both get upset and nothing...
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 12, 2016

    God I was just at my friends house

    and his parents had an epic one...I felt so awkward...
    Wompy52 Wompy52
    18-21, M
    Aug 15, 2015

    he was at it again today.

    ... why does he think screaming at me is ok? I cried almost all day. and why does he think I can't make my own decisions and realize I have my own voice? I just wanna be happy..
    starzzy333 starzzy333
    36-40, F
    Mar 13, 2015

    I fell asleep giving my gf a back massage

    and she woke me and up and got Into a huge argument like wtf! It is okay to keep me up when I don't have to wake up early af in the morning for work but tonight wasn't okay and I became Mr. Grumpy. So I told her to let me go for a walk and she didn't let so I had to force myself...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 27, 2016

    I hate it. I hate violent,

    rude and immature arguments on worthless topics. My personality is that of questioning everything so I get into lotsa arguments (intelligent ones that I personally refer to as debates) and about the fighting bit, I hate fighting myself coz I fear injuries, bleeding and for...
    dollarsigns dollarsigns
    18-21, M
    1 Response Mar 18, 2016

    Why is it every time I tell someone how I feel

    I'm accused of starting a fight. Am I not entitled to discuss how I feel. Or what makes me sad, upset, depressed ect. So I can't discuss my feelings ever cause it always starts a fight. People wonder why I'm done caring
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 7, 2015

    I have been married 20 years

    and ready to throw in the towel. Between the childish attitude and blaming our daughter for anytime his car is moved or the station is changed. She only has her learners and only drive it once without asking. I am so done. I need a miracle in finding a new place to live. We need...
    rollercoaster97 rollercoaster97
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2015

    its crazy how two ppl can be

    so young but have fights about things older ppl in relationships would fight about.
    BlueMoonx BlueMoonx
    18-21, F
    May 31, 2015

    You know...you could always do the moving

    and fixing when i'm not around and stop when i'm around, because I can't stand hearing these people arguing over how the furniture should be positioned. It's just furniture...what does it matter?
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 1, 2016

    I wouldn't mind debating

    if we could just keep them civilized and friendly. The ones I always get into become full with insults to one's intelligence and yelling. Once when I was driving home with some people, we began arguing and they started getting loud. I said, "Don't raise your voice, improve the...
    Corick Corick
    22-25, M
    Nov 19, 2015

    it feels like this is all i ever do anymore.

    I'm either arguing or trying to convince myself not to cut people out of my life.
    CallmeHopelessNotRomantic CallmeHopelessNotRomantic
    36-40, F
    Mar 28, 2016

    Listening to my parents arguing

    yet again. I'd make sure that If I ever had a family and kids of my own I'd never argue in front of them. It can be so damaging.
    Kayleighpie Kayleighpie
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 11, 2014

    Am I the only one who's heart begins to pound

    uncontrollably after arguing or fighting with someone?
    Juliette20 Juliette20
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 19, 2015

    I lie here trying to fall asleep,

    and I just wish for a day I don't hear yelling and fighting through the walls around me.
    TheGirlYouNeverKnew TheGirlYouNeverKnew
    18-21, F
    Nov 18, 2015

    Its Killing Me

    everyday i have to endure it i loathe being in this place in my life i wish i was younger or older but not 15 im to old to be young an im to young to be old but expected to be both everyday starts with me avoiding saying anything that might spark it off i MUST get along with...
    AquilaAqua AquilaAqua
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2013
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