I Hate Arguing

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    I Hate It When We Argue

    You said something that intrigued me.Man, that I am went silent.Woman, as you are thought I had upset.What followed was a wee brouhaha.Its time we learned to relax.I love to love you.But hate it when we fight.Words can become daggers.Hurt with a single blow forwards.I would die a...
    CMA1234 CMA1234
    46-50, F
    Dec 24, 2011

    I Think He Still Likes Me.

    I've had this guy friend, who's like my best friend for many years. I found out, later in high school when we were best friends, that he liked me but I didn't want to date him on a romantic level, but I still hung round with him. We left high school, we talked less and less but...
    FadedSilhouette FadedSilhouette
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

    The Fire Starter

    For a person who hates arguing, I sure know how to start an argument. I never do it on purpose. I'll do pretty much anything to avoid them. In group projects, I pretend that I'm not upset with people when they don't do their work because they'll just get mad. And it's not my job...
    num83rs num83rs
    41-45
    Feb 18, 2013

    Enough Allready

    Arguing for me is like someone running their nails on a blackboard.  It just goes up my spine and drives me nuts and most of the time the people who are doing it don't know how annoying it is.
    shadowgirl shadowgirl
    26-30, F
    Nov 28, 2008

    I Am A Person Who Does Not Like A Lot Of Confrontation Or Yelling To Sort Out Issues

    I hate arguing and I think if you have something to say just say it as calmly as possible and talk through the issuesits the same in business and in law or commerceits the same with anything ...bullying, and Not Listening is the biggest barriers to human sharing and carewin win...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Jun 12, 2012

    I suck at any argument .

    But more than that , I think of what's it's going to be ten day to a year later ... Would this argument actually be worth it ?? And most of the times I manage to avoid it all together :) and it makes me happy from inside :) So yeah arguing and making a big deal is not my thing...
    ddanny80 ddanny80
    36-40, M
    Feb 27

    Everyday, All The Time

    i swear..im in love with my girlfriend..she makes me who i am. but we argue SSSSOOOO much over the stupidest ****..i take her pillow, i answer her in a way she doesn't like, i say something she didn't wanna hear, i say something she didn't understand i was joking about and here...
    HERChikken HERChikken
    18-21, F
    Jan 27, 2011

    I Argue, But Don't Like To See People Arguing.

    Why do people argue? It's a simple question with an also simple answer: humans are known to not be the same, so a lot of them argue because of the loss of things in common. But did you know that if it will be repeatedly for over years, it can become a habit? Just for the fun of...
    Wicked21 Wicked21
    13-15
    1 Response Apr 8, 2012

    Arguing Is So Stupid!

    OK if your reading this then you already know that i hate arguing like yea i understand that you are fighting for what you think is right or wrong but its so annoying!Like it gives me such a headache!also your just yelling back and forth its so stupid like who cares who gives up...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Oct 14, 2011

    I Know How to Make One Simple

    I never understand Why We argue.. Is it about Being right or Wrong? Justification? What Nots. I mean When I Argue with someone I make it A strong Point not to raise my Voice. To Make my Point Known, And Then Relax. I Never See Argueing as right or Wrong Justification Process. I...
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2008

    Some Is Necessary

    Every healthy relationship has some arguing in it. What is not healthy is when it continues on and on every day. I grew up watching my parents argue constantly and I can't stand to do it myself with anyone. Most of the time an argument only drags on because both sides are too...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 21, 2010

    It Doesn't Feel Rewarding To Be Right When You Are Wrong..

    This is a feeling that came to my heart after winning an argument with someone really close to my heart. I hate when that happens...  makes me sad....
    jazzME jazzME
    26-30, F
    Sep 16, 2011

    Arguing with an idiot is like playing chess

    with a pigeon. No matter how good you are, the bird is going to **** on the board and strut around like it won anyway.
    ChasingNovelty ChasingNovelty
    18-21, M
    Feb 18, 2014

    Im so tired of arguing.

    For the last 3 days ive done nothing but fight over dumb s**t i dont feel like talking about. I dont like to argue i actually hate it. It makes my nerves fly and its hard as hell to calm down and feel content. I think arguing is pointless. This week needs to be over already.
    xxladyjadedxx xxladyjadedxx
    26-30, F
    Jul 31, 2014

    I hate when you disagree with someone

    and then they accuse you of not knowing anything about that topic. I've been getting into an argument with someone on another site regarding iPhones and Androids. And because I said my iPhone works better than a Galaxy S6, he loses it and gets all mad because I said that. He...
    DiabolusInMusica DiabolusInMusica
    31-35, F
    Jan 20

    I Hate Arguing

    I hate,hate,hate,hate arguing with passion. It's horrible and mainly causes pain.its so negative and hurts people and yet we still do it. Guess it just happens but I'd love a world without arguing.
    DEXTER134 DEXTER134
    16-17, M
    Jan 14, 2013

    My Perspective On Racism.

    Racism means a discrimination against people from other races. But in my opinion, racism is a word that shouldn't have existed in the first place. People say they're over it, but are they really? Won't you ever feel disgusted like that other white person standing in the same bus...
    Wicked21 Wicked21
    13-15
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    I Hate Argueing

    some people thrive and love argueing others dont. iam one of those who dont. arguing to me can sometimes be pointless. it works better to talk things out than to sit and argue. plus often more than not in the heat of an arguement things can be said, things you cant take back that...
    echosofdarkness echosofdarkness
    26-30, F
    Oct 13, 2011

    I hate it mainly cus I'm not good at it lol.

    If I'm trying to get my point across and the person isn't getting it I immediately shut down and don't want to talk anymore. I hate raising my voice and getting frustrated. I hate arguing because once I start getting angry I feel myself boiling over and start to black out. My...
    Overtherainbow66 Overtherainbow66
    22-25, F
    Sep 14, 2015

    Yep

    I hate arguing, I do. Growing up in a house full of constant yelling, its bound to happen. Now the only good reason I see to argue is to keep someone to understand your point of view. Ok, that may sound weird. What I mean is I will argue or at least talk it over with someone...
    EurydiceKallos EurydiceKallos
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2013
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