I Hate Arguments That Get Personal

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    Stick to the Subject

    Many times the reason for the argument gets lost and all that is left is a personal attack on each other. That's when a time out is needed to redirect the conversation and put things back into perspective.....
    cinfullynn cinfullynn
    46-50, F
    Jul 24, 2008

    Depends Who Its With

    I always find it somewhat entertaining to upset people more by using their own mind and truths against them. Just have to be cautious that the knife isn't turned in the opposite direction and if it happens to be, you need to know how to enjoy the jabs of the knife until you turn...
    akkikitsune akkikitsune
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 20, 2013

    There's No Need

    There's no need,None at all,Arguments,Especially personal ones,Can't stand them,If you want to argue,Take it,Somewhere else!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    Dec 5, 2011


    losing side always seems to get personal, its an irritating way to direct a well thought argument, i think its just petty and shows a gret degree of childishness
    Donalh Donalh
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 8, 2008

    Just Calm Down, People!

    I understand that people are different. Everyone has their own set of thoughts and opinions and beliefs, and a good many people are passionate about them. Now obviously, we can't all expect to agree on stuff. But in discussions about differing thoughts and opinions, many...
    BookNerd BookNerd
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 7, 2008

    So 1 week ago, my sister

    and I had a big argument over Religion. She said she hated that I had changed and that she wanted me back the way I was before. She thinks that I judge her now and I told her I didn't..I don't know how to react to it anymore cause well we are upset with each other..I want to be...
    CountryPayton CountryPayton
    22-25, F
    Jun 28, 2015

    Hey Now! Thats Below The Belt.

    Yeah, for example. My son's fathers family. They hate me for some nonsense reason because every single one of them are nonsensical. So, the mom in law was talking about JESUS. And how I'm going to hell and i need to go get baptized because that's what she did and even tho your...
    UnderTheBridge UnderTheBridge
    22-25, F
    Jan 19, 2011

    And More Often Than Not They Do

    I have many "problems" that people can pick at. I'm bisexual, bipolar, I have ADHD, I am photophobic, Jashinist, depressed, bulimic, anorexic, and in a girl-girl relationship. Basically, I am a walking disease, and most everything ****** me off. Most everything that could have...
    MaiaTheBroken MaiaTheBroken
    18-21, F
    Jan 22, 2012

    People insult my mom

    for being fat.
    lilygaga lilygaga
    41-45, T
    Jul 7, 2015

    ::fetal Position::

    my idea of hell is being trapped in a room with people debating free-will vs. predestination, everyone talking over each other, shouting, crying, and quoting scripture at the top of their lungs. i've been there. i went to school there. for years. i hate conflict. i hate "...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jan 7, 2008

    That's What People Will Often Do...

    ...when they have no real validity to speak of on the actual subject of what the argument is about.
    eleanorssong eleanorssong
    56-60, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2012
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