I Hate Asking For Help

I am so bad at asking for help.  If something is to heavy and I have to move it I will try everything before I give up but I won't ask for help.  That is a bad thing too because I usually end up hurting myself.  I don't ask for help...

OK this might sound petty compared to other things but it matters to me. Once again I've let down somebody I really look up to and now I don't even want to go to school tomorrow..... what do I do?

I had this recording test for...

Although I've recently figured out its actually okay to ask for help, its still hard for me. People think I give great advice, so they always come to me with their problems. I will sit with a person for hours on end listening to their...

Particularly with accent and writings, if someone from America is willing to spare a few hr a week , please shoot me a mail.

Asking for help is very hard for me. I don't want others to think I'm dumb or not capable of doing something. I have had people laugh at me and make fun of me just because I couldn't remember how to spell a word. I stopped asking for...

The only reason I hate to ask for help is because
a lot of people take you on a wild goose chaste with excuses.
Listen! If I ASK! This says...... a person can say, "Yes!" or "NO!"
I hate it when people start making up excuses man...

I'm a man.

I'm stubborn.

And, asking for directions is a last resort.

It all started about a month ago, when my son got sick. And then I got sick, and it turned into double pnuemonia. Ever since then things have gotten worse. Now I find out thanks to years of drinking during my 20's and early 30's, my...

Asking for help has always been a frightening prospect to me. The shame of failure, feelings of neediness, and fear of being an unwelcomed burden are horrifying. I'd rather suffer the consequences of my own failures than to have to deal...

I don't hate asking for help, but I am a shy type and I always hesitate in terms of asking for help of any kind. But I have to speak up, or else I'll fall behind

I'm forced to ask for help as far as my physical needs are concerned. I like to figure other things on my own- I find it easier to go at my own pace then have someone who's very impatient showing me). I'm embarrassed to ask for help on...

As a child, I was always ridiculed for showing emotion. When I cried, my mother used to say that I was being ridiculous or silly. I guess since then, I have grown up to think my feelings dont matter. I feel I always have to be strong...

I have such high expectations of myself and have always held myself responsible and accountable beyond all others regardless.
Asking for help, as my upbringing would make you believe, is a weakness from within, a character flaw of...

I hate asking for help too. For me, I don't really think it's about pride. I think it's more about low self-esteem. I feel like if I ask someone for help, I'm bothering them. And why should I expect anyone to drop what they're doing to...

We are a helpful family. Always have been. We are firm believers in Karma. And we were blessed with a beautiful son with down syndrome who is the world to us. When he was born we were told he wouldnt make it to age 5. But he is, and he...

I was always afraid of letting anyone close to me--much less ask or let them help me. It's still a little hard to allow someone to help, and I rarely ask, but I am slowly growing toward being able to be real and open with others...

When I was a kid, we struggled somewhat financially due to my mom's alcoholism. Every time my sister used to ask for something my parents couldn't afford, I saw how much it upset my dad that he couldn't give it to her. So I learned not...

I guess this is one of the things people can agree on about me. I'm not good with asking for help or wanting help. I've always relied on "me" and no one else. I've always had a "Plan B" and always go through what I go through on my own...