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I Hate Baby Mama Drama

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    15 Years Later.

    Wow... Just sitting here thinking!! 15 years ago, I started having BABY MAMA DRAMA. Once my son lil Earl was born, the only way I seen him was to set in his mother and family face. I was never aloud to take him around my girlfriend, which is now my wife, but it was ok for me to...
    eodb17 eodb17 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    Ok so I have a bf who has a son with someone

    else and me and him also have a daughter together. Since day one of me and him being together she's been a pain. She hates me with a passion. He has cheated on me multiple times with her but took him back because Iwant my daughter to have both parents. I want to be able to say I...
    rrhdh rrhdh 18-21, F Jul 21

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    My Own Insecurities

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and our relationship is getting very serious. Even though I am young I have had a couple other serious relationships and I believe this one stands out from the rest. He is everything I want. He is smart, driven, adventurous, funny...
    dreamingwabrokenheart dreamingwabrokenheart 18-21 3 Responses Sep 20, 2011

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    Boyfriend Always Depressed, Babymama Acts Like A Wild Animal...baby Curses Like A Damn Sailor!!! Help

    Boyfriend always depressed, babymama acts like a while ****** animal and the baby curses like a damn sailor!!!! I mean I don't know what to do.....he is always depressed and ignoring me whenever he gets in these moods where he feels like because he isn't with his baby mama who...
    Shoner Shoner 22-25 2 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    (Controlling BM) About a year ago I met my bf,

    I truely enjoy his company and we have alot in common, but the only problem is that he has a crazy bm, who controls his life. Before we started dating she didnt want anything to do with him, but when she found out about me "all of a sudden" she wanted him back.She would...
    Kera12 Kera12 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 18

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    I Need Real Love

    I don't think am in love with the man that's in my house he has hurt me in so many ways that I feel trap inside the only reason why am here is because of the business we have togather until then I want leave because I made it to easy for him so I rather cheat and let him fall on...
    dishellwynne dishellwynne 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 11, 2013

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    So we just got back from our vacation to

    Florida, and originally my husband's 10 year old wasn't suppose to go. School doesn't let out for him until June 2 and his grades have been horrible this year. My husband didn't want him to miss any days of school to go on a trip when he has been making all D's this year. He let...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 1 Response May 28

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    Will It Work, Or Am I Wasting My Time?

    My bf and i have been together for 4 years. Last summer he went out with friends while i was at home for a week (we were both away at school, but we lived together, it was our last year of school) and got drunk at a house party and ended up having a one night stand (with a girl...
    Simply0223 Simply0223 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 7, 2013

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    Bf Bm Making Me Want To Move On ...

    My boyfriend has a crazy baby momma that just will not stop. She stalks me, calls me, texts me and has went so far as to put a picture of her and him up and tag people I know so they can see it. It is embarrassing, and I don't know what to do. He and I have been together going...
    phillyhuny phillyhuny 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    Use The Law Against Crazy Baby Mommas

     In July 2008, I met my husband. We instantly fell in love and him being stationed (he's military) abroad soon after for 6 months did nothing to shake our bond. In January of 2009 when he returned from overseas, he mentioned to his baby mother that he had met somebody and...
    caderona caderona 26-30 13 Responses Oct 15, 2010

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    Did I Do The Right Thing??

    I truly thought I was being the bigger person by getting my husband involved in his son life. He got a married woman pregnant before we met but after she had the child he had mixed feelings about the child being his. I cant begin to tell you the drama and craziness I have been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    I Started A Petition To End Baby Mama Drama

    Sign the petition to end baby mama drama. http://chn.ge/1d622
    grandmasandi grandmasandi 46-50, F Sep 12, 2013

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    Boyfriend Moved Out For His Baby Mama

    My boyfriend and I met online. I was aware that he had a daughter but at first I did not realize that he was stilling living with his baby mama. They have never been married, but he claims that he was only there for his daughter and him and her does not get along. So we kept...
    shortsweet2 shortsweet2 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    Disrespected Women

    They had class reunion June 22-23 of 2013 class of 1987-1991 And I really didn't feel like going because I was tried when I got off work those 2 days, I was just waiting on the right time for me to move around my work and life is more important than just going to some class...
    dishellwynne dishellwynne 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 2, 2013

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    The Ultimate User

    I have been dating my boyfriend  (who we will call Sean)  for a little over 3 years now. He is my everything, my best friend, my drinking buddy, my shoulder to cry on, my room mate, everything. Shortly after we started dating, I met his son. I absolutely fell...
    QueenBeeLM QueenBeeLM 26-30 5 Responses Nov 15, 2010

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    Just Move On Already

    I get no one ever invisions themself being a single parent but the perfect families we see on television are not always our realities! I get this and most other people in the world do too but for some reason my boyfriend's baby mama and other baby mamas as well seem to not be...
    mrams19 mrams19 18-21 2 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Let's Put An End To All Of This Baby Mama Drama!

    I am desperately trying not to have a third stroke. However, everytime I turn around...here comes the baby mama drama from my son's baby mama. I thought I was going to have the chance to be the loving and nurturing grandmother that my maternal and paternal grandmothers were to me...
    grandmasandi grandmasandi 46-50, F Sep 12, 2013

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    Never Will Get Easy

    I BEEN WITH MY HUSBAND FOR 5 YEARS, HE HAS A BOY THAT WAS 5 AT THE TIME AND NOW IS 11. I BEEN TAKING CARE OF THIS KID FOR 5 YEARS AND IT HAS BEEN HELL BUT I LOVE HIM LIKE HE IS MY OWN, WE BEEN REALLY CLOSE TO EACHOTHER BUT THIS LAST 4 MONTHS BEEN HELL BECAUSE OF THE BABY MAMA...
    honeyjay honeyjay 22-25 3 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    Ridding Yourself Of Drama Between You And The Birth Mother.

    This is a subject that I have had a lot of frustrations with in the past. For quite some time now I have had a very strong urge to give advice to those in similar situations. Though not every case is the same, there are specific matters in which all of us (step mothers and new...
    RefinedStateOfMind RefinedStateOfMind 22-25, F Dec 11, 2012

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    Cray Baby Mama Drama

    I have been with my husband for over 5 yrs. before we got married and his baby mama hasn't changed a bit. Ever since we became a couple years ago all she does it try to cause confusion. Her ultimate goal is to keep their 10 yr old son away from his father. Ever since 2006 she has...
    reene198321 reene198321 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    I'm Just Fed Up With Bull- Crap

    I just be glad when the kids are grown and don't have to worry about them Baby Mama problems because on the real it's just another way of the baby mama wanting the the man back in her live and a excuse to see them.  I'm just fed up with the bull-****.  I just one woman...
    lisahill lisahill 31-35, F 23 Responses Jan 6, 2009

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    Baby Mama

    My husband is really making me anger with how he handle his baby mothers. He has 4 kid with 4 different women, but with his youngest son mother he call her everyday no less than 5 times a day. He all way say its about his son. I sorry I just don't believe that. What is going...
    ddlw ddlw 41-45 4 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    So Done With The Drama

    I can't understand why she can't get over the fact that we're happy together. She give him up the day she brought another man to their bed just because he was working all the time. He was there not only just for her and his daughter but her mother and her son as well. She lost a...
    writingtoheal writingtoheal 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 15, 2009

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    So my husband has decided

    that he wan't an extra day during the week as far as visitation goes with his son. Our normal schedule is once a week and every other weekend. He feels that since his son is getting older he needs to have more of an influence on him which I totally understand. My stepson will be...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    Rid Yourself Of Baby Mama Drama Today And Forever

    I am proud to inform you that after 2 years and 6 months, I have finally discovered the cure to rid your life of baby mama drama. Now before I tell you of my revelation I must tell you that my husband’s baby mama, is one bitter soul. She has threatened me with bodily harm...
    caderona caderona 26-30 17 Responses Nov 8, 2010

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    Crazy Ex Gf/Baby Mama Won't Stop!

    My boyfriend & I met in college as friends then got really serious within months of always being together. Lets say we are inseparable, we shared about our past relationships & accepted each other. Our love has grown so much each passing day that we both decided on getting...
    Ririlove25 Ririlove25 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Put Them In Thier Place

    I have no tolerance for baby momma drama. If she think I'm being a ***** now, wait until I get that ring on my finger. The times he get his son will be according to a schedule that's suitable for both of you, not just you and I will have a say in that. Asking to send the child...
    girloduval girloduval 26-30 7 Responses Jul 3, 2010

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    I don't know if this has been said before,

    but im going to say this for me- I wish the new girlfriends, boo-thangs, fiances, wives, whatever, STOP blaming everything on the BABY MAMAS! uggh, even hearing that word is disgusting. Iknow, I know, too many bad apples spoiled the bunch, oh well. If you choose to be with that...
    sugabuga1 sugabuga1 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    If You Can't Beat 'em, Join 'em!

    I am the baby mama. I've recently become friends with my ex's (baby's father) girlfriend. It has been quite a ride for her and I over the past few years. It tooks some time and growth to be able to see eye to eye. We were similar to many stories on here from what I've seen. We...
    WomanReclaimingSelf WomanReclaimingSelf 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 2, 2011

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    I Hate My Husband's Baby's Mama!

    Hi, all. My husband & I have been married for 5 years & have two beautiful children together. Life would be be perfect except he shares a daughter w/ a crazy baby's mama! I get along well with my step daugther & my husband is a devoted & wonderful father to all his children. He...
    QueenMamaO QueenMamaO 26-30, F 23 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    First Relationship & Comes With A Baby Mama?!?>!

    ok heres my little......well actually BIG story of dealing with a baby mama. allright i just turned 18 and i got with my bf when i was 17 which was back in september. he's my first relationship ever, my first kiss and all =))) he thinks the world of me, and im very shy and...
    atanamarang atanamarang 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2012

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    Ready To Fight!!!!

    I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and he has a four year old son and also a crazy baby mama. Things are great between my boyfried, his beautiful son and I, but this girl throws temper tantrums once in a while...literally. I moved away for to finish school, but we...
    misstallandindependent misstallandindependent 18-21, F 4 Responses May 26, 2011

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    Don't like being judged by baby mama.

    ...don't like that I have to remain quiet...
    anniloo anniloo 31-35, F Feb 24

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    Iam Sooo Over Her Drama!

    My boyfriend(baby daddy2 be/fiance)'s baby mama is sooo ridiculous. I really cant stand her. Their baby is only a few months old but she fails to realize he does NOT want to be with her. He has told her so many times and she clings on the fact that they should be together and...
    AydensMommyo AydensMommyo 18-21 10 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    Why The Babymama Drama????

    Okay I have been with my boy for almost 2 years now I have a son and he has a daughter they both 3 so the drama all started when his babymama found out we were in a relationship so she got jealous, mad, etc knowing they were not together at the time of our relationship. She...
    ravensosweet ravensosweet 18-21, T 3 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    I have a few questions

    for all of you ladies dealing with baby mama drama. Should the baby mama and the current wife or girlfriend have any contact with each other? In case of emergencies, does the baby mama have your cell phone number as well, if she can't reach your husband/boyfriend? Do you feel at...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Trash Or Class?

    So my boyfriend and me have been dating for two years. He is a single father, and it never bothered me before. However, as of late I met his baby's mam finally at his son's pre school graduating event. She was nice to my face, in a fake way... Then later that day/weekend, she...
    0delam416 0delam416 22-25 3 Responses May 28, 2013

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    3 Years Still Haven'T Met My Boyfriends Son'S Mother

    Is it weird that I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and I still have not met his 5 year old sons mother yet? She wants nothing to do with me - he says because shes unhappy with our age difference. Why should I care about her? Well I was not welcomed to a big...
    mamandmore10 mamandmore10 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    I’ve been together with my Fiancé

    for 4 years almost, we have known each other since we were 14, and we are now 26. His last relationship he was seeing a girl for approx. 3 months, he started noticing her lying a lot and ended their relationship, she then came out in what was an attempt to try and keep him...
    Leanne9089 Leanne9089 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 24

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    His Ex

    His Ex is moving back here ( Florida ) from Texas in a week . What the hell am I going to do . She is a total ***** and muniplates everone even my husban
    wendy1972 wendy1972 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    My husband and I have been married

    for almost three years and have been together for almost 11. When we met, he didn't have any kids but apparently he had a girlfriend that I knew nothing about until two or three months after we were together he told me that he had a baby on the way. He said he broke it off with...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    His Baby Mama Drive Me Insane!

    So I've been with my man for going on 4yrs now. He is currently incarcerated and has been since we met. he has a son who is now 11 and a pshyco *** baby mama, who does nothing but stir up trouble for everyone around her! Since the day she found out about me, she has used me...
    ashleykrueger89 ashleykrueger89 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    Don't get me wrong, I do feel sorry

    for some of these really good guys that have gotten themselves into a bad situation. It happens. People make mistakes. There is only so much that I am willing to put up with though. Yes, it sucks and it's not fair to the the guy, but I am not willing to put up with the baby mama...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Late Night Phone Calls...

    Normally I pride myself on being calm, cool and collected.  That being said I do not like being lied too.  I have my boyfriends cell phone password, I have paid his bill, he has paid mine.  I do not think he realizes I have it for some reason, how I do not know b/c I couldnt...
    angelkey75 angelkey75 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    My boyfriend and I live together,

    Three months ago his son's mother dropped by explaining that she no longer wants her son.and he has no choice but to take him. Ask I agreed to let his son stay with us, I never thought
    mssmurf mssmurf 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    She Shouldnt Even Be A Mother!!!!!

    I have been with my husband for over 2 years now. When we met I didnt know that he had 2 daughters.Ofcourse that wouldnt change my mind about how I felt about him.If anything it made me love him more because he's such a great father. I fell in love with his 2 daughters.They're...
    positivegirl5 positivegirl5 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    Frustrated

    So, I have dealt with my ex's "baby mama" for 13+ years with threats, cursings, alienation from his daughter, and manipulation, with surprises of kindness in short time periods. Maybe, she suffers from bi-polar disorder. When things are not handed to her exactly how she wants...
    Victoriamonturn Victoriamonturn 36-40, F 1 Response May 31, 2013

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    A 20 Dollar Young Male

    This has been awhile ago, I was talking to young guy that said he like me, When I looked up he had 3 felonies records and no kids, no job and no nothing, but what he had to offer was up under his clothes Yuck . I never really came at him in that way I changed my mind about the...
    dishellwynne dishellwynne 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    So I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 19.

    He has a 2 year old son. My mom won't let me "date him" because he has a child. She loves him though, which is so difficult to understand. I come from a split family so I'm not sure why she is so judgmental. It's gotten a little better over time, before it was she refused to...
    bellaxoxo2 bellaxoxo2 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Where To Start...

    I have been with my fiance for almost 2 years now, the first day I met him, I had no idea what I was in store for... I'm going to do bullet points here because there is just too much... - Met boy, found out boy had a child and was supposedly broken up with the mother - Mother...
    Ruffles22 Ruffles22 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2011

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    Hitting Your Mother In The Face

    I never thought in million years that my daughter would hit me in the face she is sassy and lazy don't want to listen what people tell her what is right to do am not going to worry about the emotions I have now run very deep but I just don't know am taking her off my will I cant...
    dishellwynne dishellwynne 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Never Ending

    My boyfriend and I met at work . I used to always talk to him passively . I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend that he had been with for over 6 years . We started talking because I wanted a tattoo and his girlfriend at the time did tattoos . I had his number , and the...
    Andromeda333 Andromeda333 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    I Have Learned

    Hello All,I have learned, the best way to deal with baby mama drama, or baby daddy drama is not too.  The best thing you can do is support, love and trust your signifigant other.  I feel as though your heart will tell you if something is not right.  Since being involved with...
    angelkey75 angelkey75 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2011

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