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I Hate Baby Mama Drama

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    I have a few questions

    for all of you ladies dealing with baby mama drama. Should the baby mama and the current wife or girlfriend have any contact with each other? In case of emergencies, does the baby mama have your cell phone number as well, if she can't reach your husband/boyfriend? Do you feel at...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2014

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    So we just got back from our vacation to

    Florida, and originally my husband's 10 year old wasn't suppose to go. School doesn't let out for him until June 2 and his grades have been horrible this year. My husband didn't want him to miss any days of school to go on a trip when he has been making all D's this year. He let...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 2 Responses May 28, 2014

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    So I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend is 19.

    He has a 2 year old son. My mom won't let me "date him" because he has a child. She loves him though, which is so difficult to understand. I come from a split family so I'm not sure why she is so judgmental. It's gotten a little better over time, before it was she refused to...
    bellaxoxo2 bellaxoxo2 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2014

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    Iam Sooo Over Her Drama!

    My boyfriend(baby daddy2 be/fiance)'s baby mama is sooo ridiculous. I really cant stand her. Their baby is only a few months old but she fails to realize he does NOT want to be with her. He has told her so many times and she clings on the fact that they should be together and...
    AydensMommyo AydensMommyo 18-21 10 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    I Hate My Husband's Baby's Mama!

    Hi, all. My husband & I have been married for 5 years & have two beautiful children together. Life would be be perfect except he shares a daughter w/ a crazy baby's mama! I get along well with my step daugther & my husband is a devoted & wonderful father to all his children. He...
    QueenMamaO QueenMamaO 26-30, F 24 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    My Own Insecurities

    I've been dating my boyfriend for a while now and our relationship is getting very serious. Even though I am young I have had a couple other serious relationships and I believe this one stands out from the rest. He is everything I want. He is smart, driven, adventurous, funny...
    dreamingwabrokenheart dreamingwabrokenheart 18-21 4 Responses Sep 20, 2011

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    I Have Learned

    Hello All,I have learned, the best way to deal with baby mama drama, or baby daddy drama is not too.  The best thing you can do is support, love and trust your signifigant other.  I feel as though your heart will tell you if something is not right.  Since being involved with...
    angelkey75 angelkey75 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 3, 2011

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    I'm Just Fed Up With Bull- Crap

    I just be glad when the kids are grown and don't have to worry about them Baby Mama problems because on the real it's just another way of the baby mama wanting the the man back in her live and a excuse to see them.  I'm just fed up with the bull-****.  I just one woman...
    lisahill lisahill 31-35, F 23 Responses Jan 6, 2009

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    Rid Yourself Of Baby Mama Drama Today And Forever

    I am proud to inform you that after 2 years and 6 months, I have finally discovered the cure to rid your life of baby mama drama. Now before I tell you of my revelation I must tell you that my husband’s baby mama, is one bitter soul. She has threatened me with bodily harm...
    caderona caderona 26-30 18 Responses Nov 8, 2010

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    My son's mother has crossed the line with me.

    We've been over since February 2014 and it feels like she hasn't gotten over it yet despite dating a few men since that time. We've always kinda agreed we never wanted to put our son to through court. However, she has constantly threatened me with court and over time has...
    Namelessga Namelessga 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    So my husband's baby mama is showing her a**

    again! They have gone a really long time without any drama, and I thought things were getting better. I was completely wrong, it seems like ever since she found out that my husband and I are expecting another child she wants to get ignorant. Now my husband doesn't have a...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    Its barely been less

    than 2 weeks since my last post about the wicked witch of the west and now she's back at it again, only this time I can't tell if she's lying about the second part I'm going to share with you. Its been very quiet since her last time reaching out to my fiancé about the lies...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    Cray Baby Mama Drama

    I have been with my husband for over 5 yrs. before we got married and his baby mama hasn't changed a bit. Ever since we became a couple years ago all she does it try to cause confusion. Her ultimate goal is to keep their 10 yr old son away from his father. Ever since 2006 she has...
    reene198321 reene198321 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 14, 2011

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    Boyfriend Always Depressed, Babymama Acts Like A Wild Animal...baby Curses Like A Damn Sailor!!! Help

    Boyfriend always depressed, babymama acts like a while ****** animal and the baby curses like a damn sailor!!!! I mean I don't know what to do.....he is always depressed and ignoring me whenever he gets in these moods where he feels like because he isn't with his baby mama who...
    Shoner Shoner 22-25 2 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    Okay so here is my problem.

    .. my boyfriend now still talks to the mother of his kids about their relationship....about how she cheated on him multiple times... about how he would have been there for her thru thick and thin if she would have let him... He is angry and says he hates her... says he wants to...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 19, 2014

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    His Ex

    His Ex is moving back here ( Florida ) from Texas in a week . What the hell am I going to do . She is a total ***** and muniplates everone even my husban
    wendy1972 wendy1972 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 13, 2012

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    Don't like being judged by baby mama.

    ...don't like that I have to remain quiet...
    anniloo anniloo 31-35, F Feb 24, 2014

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    Baby mamas are DEPRESSED with no real life

    passions or goals other than CHASING the men who decided long ago they aren't the ONE. THEY consistently use the children and try to manipulate the situations its sad but true
    Ladonya24 Ladonya24 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    So my husband has decided

    that he wan't an extra day during the week as far as visitation goes with his son. Our normal schedule is once a week and every other weekend. He feels that since his son is getting older he needs to have more of an influence on him which I totally understand. My stepson will be...
    tjones44 tjones44 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2014

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    So Done With The Drama

    I can't understand why she can't get over the fact that we're happy together. She give him up the day she brought another man to their bed just because he was working all the time. He was there not only just for her and his daughter but her mother and her son as well. She lost a...
    writingtoheal writingtoheal 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 15, 2009

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    After almost 2 years of dating,

    1 year being long distance, my boyfriend and I were more in love and excited about our future together than ever, but we've had one issue that has created a strain, his baby mama. She has physically attacked me, name called, tried to pursue him and throughout this I've remained...
    msao msao 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I have to say, for me,

    when i hear this term, it still makes me cringe with the utmost contempt. i find it so sad, that we as 'women' choose to attack and diminish one anothers existance with negative stereotypes. not every 'babymama' brings drama, not all of us are crazy. if your going to report a...
    sugabuga1 sugabuga1 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2014

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    I’ve been together with my Fiancé

    for 4 years almost, we have known each other since we were 14, and we are now 26. His last relationship he was seeing a girl for approx. 3 months, he started noticing her lying a lot and ended their relationship, she then came out in what was an attempt to try and keep him...
    Leanne9089 Leanne9089 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    So recently I have been talking to this guy I

    work with (bad idea I know) . Last week was my first on the job ,he was my trainer . I thought he was pretty cute and sweet. He was flirtatious and I was flattered by that anywho before I knew it we were in a "relationship"the next day after meeting each other, he seemed perfect...
    Anaya18 Anaya18 18-21 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    Somehow she manages to do it again.

    .... This time its one of her older children from another man. She calls, knowing that she shouldn't call but the trick uses lie after lie after lie after lie just to make contact with my fiancé and I'm sure she knows that it annoys the hell out of me. Sometimes I think she's...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 7 Responses Apr 2

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    My boyfriend and I live together,

    Three months ago his son's mother dropped by explaining that she no longer wants her son.and he has no choice but to take him. Ask I agreed to let his son stay with us, I never thought
    mssmurf mssmurf 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    Ok so I have a bf who has a son with someone

    else and me and him also have a daughter together. Since day one of me and him being together she's been a pain. She hates me with a passion. He has cheated on me multiple times with her but took him back because Iwant my daughter to have both parents. I want to be able to say I...
    rrhdh rrhdh 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21, 2014

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    My husband and I have been together

    for over 6 years and married only a year. We have a beautiful almost 1 year old. The day we met he didn't keep a secret that he had a daughter. Back then I didn't really take it serious because I didn't think I would end up with him long term. I've never had a problem with him...
    sublimefiore sublimefiore 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 1, 2014

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    I don't know if this has been said before,

    but im going to say this for me- I wish the new girlfriends, boo-thangs, fiances, wives, whatever, STOP blaming everything on the BABY MAMAS! uggh, even hearing that word is disgusting. Iknow, I know, too many bad apples spoiled the bunch, oh well. If you choose to be with that...
    sugabuga1 sugabuga1 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 19, 2014

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    Use The Law Against Crazy Baby Mommas

     In July 2008, I met my husband. We instantly fell in love and him being stationed (he's military) abroad soon after for 6 months did nothing to shake our bond. In January of 2009 when he returned from overseas, he mentioned to his baby mother that he had met somebody and...
    caderona caderona 26-30 21 Responses Oct 15, 2010

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    (Controlling BM) About a year ago I met my bf,

    I truely enjoy his company and we have alot in common, but the only problem is that he has a crazy bm, who controls his life. Before we started dating she didnt want anything to do with him, but when she found out about me "all of a sudden" she wanted him back.She would...
    Kera12 Kera12 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 18, 2014

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    Late Night Phone Calls...

    Normally I pride myself on being calm, cool and collected.  That being said I do not like being lied too.  I have my boyfriends cell phone password, I have paid his bill, he has paid mine.  I do not think he realizes I have it for some reason, how I do not know b/c I couldnt...
    angelkey75 angelkey75 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 24, 2011

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    She Shouldnt Even Be A Mother!!!!!

    I have been with my husband for over 2 years now. When we met I didnt know that he had 2 daughters.Ofcourse that wouldnt change my mind about how I felt about him.If anything it made me love him more because he's such a great father. I fell in love with his 2 daughters.They're...
    positivegirl5 positivegirl5 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    Hypothetically. Let's say I make more

    than my husband. Can his baby mama touch my money if trying to get child support?
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 29

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    Put Them In Thier Place

    I have no tolerance for baby momma drama. If she think I'm being a ***** now, wait until I get that ring on my finger. The times he get his son will be according to a schedule that's suitable for both of you, not just you and I will have a say in that. Asking to send the child...
    girloduval girloduval 26-30 7 Responses Jul 3, 2010

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    Since my last ranting post,

    she's managed to pull another dramatic scheme. This girl needs to be locked away permanently people. My fiancé told me that he gets a phone call from his child's mother yesterday morning, telling him that his child was involved in a school bus accident. Truth be told, there...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    Okay so I'm new to this.

    ... I have been dating this guy for about a month... things are going great... we both have kids but we haven't went as far as to meet each others kids... but that doesn't stop his ex trying to start crap.... she is young and immature and loves drama... she is always texting him...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2014

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    Bf Bm Making Me Want To Move On ...

    My boyfriend has a crazy baby momma that just will not stop. She stalks me, calls me, texts me and has went so far as to put a picture of her and him up and tag people I know so they can see it. It is embarrassing, and I don't know what to do. He and I have been together going...
    phillyhuny phillyhuny 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 11, 2012

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    Ridding Yourself Of Drama Between You And The Birth Mother.

    This is a subject that I have had a lot of frustrations with in the past. For quite some time now I have had a very strong urge to give advice to those in similar situations. Though not every case is the same, there are specific matters in which all of us (step mothers and new...
    RefinedStateOfMind RefinedStateOfMind 22-25, F Dec 11, 2012

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    If You Can't Beat 'em, Join 'em!

    I am the baby mama. I've recently become friends with my ex's (baby's father) girlfriend. It has been quite a ride for her and I over the past few years. It tooks some time and growth to be able to see eye to eye. We were similar to many stories on here from what I've seen. We...
    WomanReclaimingSelf WomanReclaimingSelf 22-25, F 9 Responses Apr 2, 2011

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    So my stepson is old enough

    for his first haircut and his bio mom wants to be there. Personally I thought it would be a great father son thing but she is insisting on being there. I don't know how I feel about that because I don't know where I fit in. I am not sure if I should just let them be, ask my...
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Never Ending

    My boyfriend and I met at work . I used to always talk to him passively . I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfriend that he had been with for over 6 years . We started talking because I wanted a tattoo and his girlfriend at the time did tattoos . I had his number , and the...
    Andromeda333 Andromeda333 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    She has out done herself this time.

    Crossed the line and my husband is allowing it because of his son. I cannot.
    poojibp poojibp 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Here we go AGAIN!!! I knew it would happen

    sooner or later. I'm not the kind of person that goes around looking for bad things to happen nor expecting the worst but with "certain people", I can't help but expect bad or negative things from them. Here she is the "baby mama" and she has the nerve to call him last night...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11

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    Ok here's my experience.

    ...prepare yourself this is gonna be a bit lengthy in details, but I'll try to make it brief. I'm not here to bash the mother but I'm beyond tired of her issues with me and my fiance's relationship. She uses the child as a pawn all the time and its just a hot mess of a situation...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    Don't get me wrong, I do feel sorry

    for some of these really good guys that have gotten themselves into a bad situation. It happens. People make mistakes. There is only so much that I am willing to put up with though. Yes, it sucks and it's not fair to the the guy, but I am not willing to put up with the baby mama...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 11, 2014

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