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I Hate Back Stabbers

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    Knives In The Back

    We have plenty at work, it's a wonder i can sit back in a chair because of the knives in my back. I know who they are but they are at least better than the "smiling assassins" who appear friendly and then stab you from the front.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    but I Can't Say That I ...

    but i can't say that I am not guilty. I do think that there is a difference between back stabbing and talking about someone you are concerned about.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 15, 2009

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    Don't Mind Bein Stabbed

    I feel the jabs of knives all over the place.  Most of the time I just ignore it. Living in a neighborhood where everyone talks its bound to happen!!! They talk about you like a dog then they say, Hi, how are you!  I love you!!!! It doesnt bother me at all. LOL.
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2008

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    I Repay the Favor

    The trick is to watch what you say and do. The  rule is to never  HAND them the knife  that will land in your back.  People don't need to know every little weakness and all your assets. 
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    After My Job

    Now I work in the media, so it goes without saying that there will always be people after your job, however this really boils my blood. I havn't been in the industry all that long. In fact, I've only been a journo for say 6months. My editor comes round to me and asks if i'll...
    KurtAustin KurtAustin 18-21, M 2 Responses May 3, 2010

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    The Best Of Friends

    i had a best friend meet up with me regularly in recent years..., we had some laughs, smoked some weed, talked about girls and shot the ****..., until he started judging me on... i dont know what? from the conversations that began to take place it seems to me that he had a real...
    deadcitystreets deadcitystreets 31-35 Jan 10, 2011

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    O Yes I Do..

    I have back stabbers so much. I have had so many back stabbers in my life.. And yes I do hate them all.... I hate it when people back stab me... Mainly if they are family... I just hate that.... Back stabbers shouldn't have friends but that's only my opinion...
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    Ex Friend

    I never been back-stabbed like this before, I trusted you. We were like sister but I guess that meant nothing to you.You didn't even have the decency to tell it to my face & honestly if I had the chance back then I would of liked to pop you in the face but im not that kind of...
    violetscars violetscars 18-21, F Aug 12, 2011

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    Makes Me Angry.

    I suppose I've become somewhat cold, and expectant of the worst, due the amount of knives in my back. I just decided a protective vest was in order.
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2008

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    http://m.wikihow.com/Pick-Up-on-Manipulative-Behavior
    Blessings76 Blessings76 36-40, F Dec 18, 2014

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    After My Job

    Now I work in the media, so it goes without saying that there will always be people after your job, however this really boils my blood. I havn't been in the industry all that long. In fact, I've only been a journo for say 6months. My editor comes round to me and asks if i'll...
    KurtAustin KurtAustin 18-21, M May 3, 2010

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    GwydionFrost GwydionFrost 46-50, M Aug 31, 2013

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    My Favourite Quotes On Backstabbing

    -All the mistakes in the world couldnt measure up to the day i thought i could trust you. -Yeah, being apathetic is a pathetic way to be... but I don't care, what matters to you does not matter to me -When your up, your friends know who you are. When you're down, you know...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    I would absolutely love to know

    which of my "friends" has back stabbed me. I am pretty sure it would be the majority of them. I could just cleanse them out of my life and be a lot happier and secure.
    SmileBecauseItHappened SmileBecauseItHappened 18-21, F Mar 9, 2014

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    Mason400 Mason400 13-15, M Jul 23, 2014

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