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I Hate Back Stabbers

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    I would absolutely love to know

    which of my "friends" has back stabbed me. I am pretty sure it would be the majority of them. I could just cleanse them out of my life and be a lot happier and secure.
    SmileBecauseItHappened SmileBecauseItHappened 18-21, F Mar 9

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    After My Job

    Now I work in the media, so it goes without saying that there will always be people after your job, however this really boils my blood. I havn't been in the industry all that long. In fact, I've only been a journo for say 6months. My editor comes round to me and asks if i'll...
    KurtAustin KurtAustin 18-21, M May 3, 2010

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    Knives In The Back

    We have plenty at work, it's a wonder i can sit back in a chair because of the knives in my back. I know who they are but they are at least better than the "smiling assassins" who appear friendly and then stab you from the front.
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F 5 Responses Oct 6, 2010

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    Makes Me Angry.

    I suppose I've become somewhat cold, and expectant of the worst, due the amount of knives in my back. I just decided a protective vest was in order.
    rockyj rockyj 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2008

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    but I Can't Say That I ...

    but i can't say that I am not guilty. I do think that there is a difference between back stabbing and talking about someone you are concerned about.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 15, 2009

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    Don't Mind Bein Stabbed

    I feel the jabs of knives all over the place.  Most of the time I just ignore it. Living in a neighborhood where everyone talks its bound to happen!!! They talk about you like a dog then they say, Hi, how are you!  I love you!!!! It doesnt bother me at all. LOL.
    Neveah Neveah 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20, 2008

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    GwydionFrost GwydionFrost 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 31, 2013

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    O Yes I Do..

    I have back stabbers so much. I have had so many back stabbers in my life.. And yes I do hate them all.... I hate it when people back stab me... Mainly if they are family... I just hate that.... Back stabbers shouldn't have friends but that's only my opinion...
    XLunaXLovegoodX XLunaXLovegoodX 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    My Favourite Quotes On Backstabbing

    -All the mistakes in the world couldnt measure up to the day i thought i could trust you. -Yeah, being apathetic is a pathetic way to be... but I don't care, what matters to you does not matter to me -When your up, your friends know who you are. When you're down, you know...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 9, 2012

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    Ex Friend

    I never been back-stabbed like this before, I trusted you. We were like sister but I guess that meant nothing to you.You didn't even have the decency to tell it to my face & honestly if I had the chance back then I would of liked to pop you in the face but im not that kind of...
    violetscars violetscars 18-21, F Aug 12, 2011

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    I Repay the Favor

    The trick is to watch what you say and do. The  rule is to never  HAND them the knife  that will land in your back.  People don't need to know every little weakness and all your assets. 
    wiseowl wiseowl 61-65, F 6 Responses Nov 20, 2008

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    The Best Of Friends

    i had a best friend meet up with me regularly in recent years..., we had some laughs, smoked some weed, talked about girls and shot the ****..., until he started judging me on... i dont know what? from the conversations that began to take place it seems to me that he had a real...
    deadcitystreets deadcitystreets 31-35 Jan 10, 2011

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    After My Job

    Now I work in the media, so it goes without saying that there will always be people after your job, however this really boils my blood. I havn't been in the industry all that long. In fact, I've only been a journo for say 6months. My editor comes round to me and asks if i'll...
    KurtAustin KurtAustin 18-21, M 2 Responses May 3, 2010

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    There Are No Perfect Friendships

    All the teens I know are either major hypocrites and/or backstabbers. Why won't the bullshit just stop? I don't consider any of my classmates my friends because of their terrible attitude. I hang out with 2 girls I've known for a while now but I never realized how ignorant they...
    BabyBrunette BabyBrunette 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I had a good friend of mine who I really trusted, he will be named M. We were really good friends up to this point. Well it all began when I had a crush on a girl in my class, she...
    Shadow167 Shadow167 18-21, M Mar 24

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    Living is pointless, I'm going to do as i please but I'll never be happy. I don't cut because I'm "emo", trying to fit in, upset about not getting what i want, i cut because i...
    12blueunicorns 12blueunicorns 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    You know I love those people who try to talk to u for a while but then in the end they will never talk to u back there's a reason why I hate being ignored
    skrillex8888 skrillex8888 13-15, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Why does it always seem like teachers have something stuck up their butts? like chill it's only the first week back from holidays and y'all already giving us homework that's due...
    Ashlovert Ashlovert 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    All the work I'm asked to do is trivial, at best. It often goes nowhere, produces no value. After early attempts to get a lot done and prove myself useful and skilled resulted in...
    kope45 kope45 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    I often sit and think about how imperfect and disgusting of a human being i am. I believe im extremely unattractive i have dandruff and pimples only on my chest and back. I have...
    KIRa53 KIRa53 13-15, M 1 Response 21 mins ago

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    "What are you wearing??" I HATE this question with a passion!!!! When I'm asked that I'm like a raging bull seeing red!! I get sooooo angry!! DONT ask me that if you want to...
    crazybeautiful32 crazybeautiful32 31-35, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I hate when my "friends" just don't care. I might be superficial but it really bothers me when I'm ignored in social media for example. I have lost my interest to update anything...
    sukke sukke 26-30, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I recently got my first job at McDonalds. It's been 5 months and I absolutely hate it. I could quit if I wanted to but I am on a pay monthly phone plan so I need to work. It's a...
    biancaaadaisy biancaaadaisy 16-17, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I hate it. Even though once i kicked my doggie in the side. I felt he pushed me to do it. I was having a bad day, but there's no excuse. Luke is an animal but has feelings and...
    KiannaJ KiannaJ 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    I hate when i am sick n i all alone take care of maself :(
    LeakkhenaKL LeakkhenaKL 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I love the fact that I am not even famous and my name is will known around town not because I am a hoe or that I talk **** or that I am a bad person but because I am a good person...
    Ownership Ownership 18-21, F Mar 25

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    What am I going to say to you? All my life I've probably been suffering because of you. Thinking back, it's pathetic what happened. I don't even know now, I'm tired. Ever since I...
    jxstagirl jxstagirl 13-15, F Mar 24

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    I hate my teeth. I'm seventeen, but my teenage years have sucked. A while back in primary school I was such a happy, care free child. I knew my teeth were different, but it didn't...
    ibak12 ibak12 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    My dad cheated on my mom with my best friend. I had just made friends with this girl and her husband and children. In the short time I've gotten to know them, I became attached...
    duClo duClo 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I was a small child i had this horrible mean teacher she was really old had wrinkles and white hair and she didn't really know how to put make up on it all Started when I first...
    moonshine25 moonshine25 16-17, F Apr 13

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    I'm 16 years old and my older sister (by 17 years) has agreed to let me stay at her house for the rest of the school year until mom gets back from visiting her brother. (I couldn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    All my life all I have ever wanted is to be loved I never thought that it was something to much to ask; Love, it should be something given to you freely never having to seek it out...
    kari16 kari16 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have never hated anyone in my life. My MIL I DO hate she has destroyed my marriage with get son her golden child . I am 45, he is 63, she is 86. Her son divorced his wife 30...
    sueoneil sueoneil 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    So I'm just here to vent basically, so my ex and I just broke up, were in a long-distance relationship btw. He goes to college out in Arizona, and I'm in Cali. Anyways we both have...
    righteousjay righteousjay 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Sometimes I hate guys and sometimes I like them. It's a love and hate relationship. Well anyways when I was in my political science class today in the morning I was putting my...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    People don't like hate, and it's understandable. It's not a pleasant feeling. However, many self-help and New Age books talk longly and vigorously about how to 'extinguish hate in...
    MidsouthGuy MidsouthGuy 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I hate how I changed when I met my ex. I became this girl looking back that I'm ashamed of. I hate myself for it. Why did I become her? When I look in the mirror I don't hate how I...
    Blueberrybliss Blueberrybliss 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Hate is a strong word but yes, I hate my best friend but the only reason is because I love her. I can't stay indifferent to her and when she hurts me, I hate her because I'm angry...
    Bearloveshoney Bearloveshoney 18-21 Mar 24

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    Cold: Every since I was a kid I never understood why my mother treated me so badly. She wouldn't hug me kiss me comfort me say I love you, every time I tried to show affection she...
    mutherlesschild mutherlesschild 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    Can someone please take their time to read this? Its long, 8 pages but it explains a lot about the situation I am currently in. I think a lot of people could relate to this if they...
    elugo12345 elugo12345 18-21, M Apr 1

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    It sucks when you're ignored by the person whose attention is the only thing you want in the world. That's always the situation for me. It also seems like I have crushes on chicks...
    elugo12345 elugo12345 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    I went back and re-read some of my old journals I wrote as a kid. It was strange, full of pride, deep in depression, full of arrogance, filled with hate and incredible loneliness...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Yeah, ironic that today is Sunday and later on I'll be in church and I am thinking this right now. But I've done terrible thing. I slept with my cousin. Since we grew apart, we...
    hazelnuts143 hazelnuts143 22-25, F Apr 6

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    I can't describe my feeling about her I can only think of it and think of it. This feeling is so frustrating and yet so calming. When you show someone what you feel and she is only...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 12

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    Hate is a strong word, but an appropriate one. I hate to love him most of the time. Most amazing yet worst relationship I've ever been in. He cheated, multiple times. I was that...
    93rp 93rp 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I hate my dad. It's legit. I ******* hate his guts. When I was little I thought he was the best person in the world, but I was a child and I worried over myself having fun more...
    gmaingemail gmaingemail 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I hate my mother because she's always messing up my life. I'm not saying this in an angsty teenage way, I'm saying the truth and it's not just my life she's messed up. We're a...
    ChocolateCoveredKFC ChocolateCoveredKFC 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    My love/hate relationship with my dad. I'm thankful for my dad, he has helped me, my brother and mom economically speaking. But I can't bring myself to love him. I hate how...
    Soaringlotus Soaringlotus 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I have always been big and a bit chubby since I was a baby but am now 16 and I don't know if I should really tell you my weight and be personal but I do need to be honest with...
    aliciaxx1407 aliciaxx1407 16-17, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    It's like a constant battle, between two sides of my mind. One part is nice, it's the side that's mental, happy, carefree, intelligent, it has common sense. But the other side, it...
    loveyourselfalwaysxx loveyourselfalwaysxx 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    I long for the day I don't have to come on here to vent. I just found out my SD has been drinking. Like, she's 13! I wasn't of age when I first drank but I sure wasn't drinking...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I wish I was strong all the time. I wish I wasn't mentally sick, I wish I could be a great person for her. I wish I could be happy and make her happy. I wish I could control my...
    DeniedWings DeniedWings 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 27