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I Hate Being a Burden

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    It Feels So Weak...

    i was always taught to never rely on others, to always try and do things by yourself cuz you could only trust yourself to do it right...and that meant to me, everything...and when i tell how i feel..when i show how easily i get depressed i feel so weak and open....and yet if i...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive 18-21, M Mar 23, 2011

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    I Know I Am

    I am getting the feeling that I am a burden on the friend I am living with, I have asked her if she would like me to look for another place to live. She always tell me no, but I think she is just trying to be nice. I will eventually move out, she says she loves me. I just get a...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Being a Burden Sux

    Its hard being a burden having to rely on others turns love to hate passion to disgust friends into ememys always needing something having to ask for help rides favors ect..ect.. ect.. it gets old to bad its my life oh well life is as it is no reason to whine it will be then...
    meanmeanymetx meanmeanymetx 46-50, F May 5, 2008

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    Why Is It So?

    I was told many time by everyone. Including all my love ones. I have no talent. Downright moron. Useless. Troublemaker. And what-so-ever which cause them to hate me of what I have. Why is it whenever I did something for someone or at work, there will be stuff happening e.g...
    BlackKirin BlackKirin 22-25 Feb 18, 2013

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    More On Me

    I have seizures  uncontrolled seizures I've never been able to go very long with out having a seizure so driving is out of the question so I am totally Dependant on others to do the simplest things i can't go shopping or to the park or the Dr with out someone taking time...
    meanmeanymetx meanmeanymetx 46-50, F 1 Response May 6, 2008

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    Unfortunately, For All the People I Love...

    i am somehow a burden. when someone you love is unhappy, of course you will feel burdened by it. but, this has gone on for so long. the stress, the toll it has taken on them is unbearable to watch. how do i somehow unmake the scars, the years?......  
    opheliaophelia opheliaophelia 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2009

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