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I Hate Being a Burden

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    I have seizures  uncontrolled seizures I've never been able to go very long with out having a seizure so driving is out of the question so I am totally Dependant on others to do the simplest things i can't go shopping or to the park or the Dr with out someone taking time...
    meanmeanymetx meanmeanymetx 46-50, F 1 Response May 6, 2008

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    I Just Dont Like It

    i don't like it i guess it has to do with the fact that when i was little i was always annoying to people i hated the look on there faces ...... they see me as pain ....sometimes i would get into fghts with my old so called friends or ....tthey'll just simply ignore me .....i...
    moodyconfusion moodyconfusion 13-15, F Apr 15, 2012

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    Being a Burden Sux

    Its hard being a burden having to rely on others turns love to hate passion to disgust friends into ememys always needing something having to ask for help rides favors ect..ect.. ect.. it gets old to bad its my life oh well life is as it is no reason to whine it will be then...
    meanmeanymetx meanmeanymetx 46-50, F May 5, 2008

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    It Feels So Weak...

    i was always taught to never rely on others, to always try and do things by yourself cuz you could only trust yourself to do it right...and that meant to me, everything...and when i tell how i feel..when i show how easily i get depressed i feel so weak and open....and yet if i...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 23, 2011

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    Why Is It So?

    I was told many time by everyone. Including all my love ones. I have no talent. Downright moron. Useless. Troublemaker. And what-so-ever which cause them to hate me of what I have. Why is it whenever I did something for someone or at work, there will be stuff happening e.g...
    BlackKirin BlackKirin 22-25 Feb 18, 2013

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    I Know I Am

    I am getting the feeling that I am a burden on the friend I am living with, I have asked her if she would like me to look for another place to live. She always tell me no, but I think she is just trying to be nice. I will eventually move out, she says she loves me. I just get a...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    Unfortunately, For All the People I Love...

    i am somehow a burden. when someone you love is unhappy, of course you will feel burdened by it. but, this has gone on for so long. the stress, the toll it has taken on them is unbearable to watch. how do i somehow unmake the scars, the years?......  
    opheliaophelia opheliaophelia 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 6, 2009

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    I think its called monophobia. The fear of being alone. I've always just thought that it was normal, that feeling you get when you're alone. I found out recently it wasn't...
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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
    kikinators kikinators 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    Okay seriously. If your busy tell me!!! I friggin hate being ignored. Like I can't even tell you how much I hate. & especially when it comes to clueless D.A guys. You can't say you...
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    I absolutely hate being cold in bed. I am so glad to be married and we keep each other warm all night long. We both love being woken up during the night for some great hot sex...
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    It sux being here alone wit no one to tlk to...hate being alone...just lookn for sumone to make me feel good
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    When I'm rushed just to be annoying I take even longer. I just hate being rushed so much!
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    sashimi9 sashimi9 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Anxiousgirl13 Anxiousgirl13 18-21 2 Responses Aug 16

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    It was a rainy day and I woke up feeling like ****. My tummy was aching like crazy and I was dizzy. I was to weak to even get out of bed. "Muum" I groaned. "Muuuuuumm!!" I couldn't...
    GingaJustice GingaJustice 13-15, M Aug 17

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    I don't hate being an adult, but has anyone realized how fast your days are going by based on when your bills are due? Every week a bill is due, lol.
    MetaKat MetaKat 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hate being ignored .. I want a sincere one around me always
    kevinmattt kevinmattt 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    I hate being nice to little ***** who don't deserve it. *******....
    Persayous Persayous 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am 38 weeks +3 days now. This whole pregnancy pretty much has beena nightmare come true. I never wanted another child. I sure as hell do not want to experience labor again but...
    dollhex dollhex 22-25, F 16 mins ago

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    Dang it I have a cold :( I hate this
    SolarSkyDiver SolarSkyDiver 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    I'm sick every single day I hate it. Doctors have been trying to figure out what is wrong but are unsuccessful so far
    anestacia anestacia 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    My mom always compares me with my sister. Like she is so ******* good and I need (or should I say HAVE) to be like her. She was accepted in the best university in my country. And...
    candy8ar candy8ar 18-21, F 38 mins ago

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    I don't hate you. I don't hate that we failed. I don't hate myself. I don't hate that it was a mistake to marry you. But I hate that you lied to me over and over. More, I hate...
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    bridgetdarcy998 bridgetdarcy998 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Cinderellany Cinderellany 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I hate the fact that I'm turning into what I hate. I hated pervs and I became one, I hate cheaters yet I became one, I hated mean people yet I became one, and I hate people who...
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I like my alone time now and then, but seeing a group of my (once) I think?, friends is really upsetting. And seeing the one person there who I was basically my friend and I was...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    Appolo123 Appolo123 13-15, M Aug 14

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    I'm so sick:P I hate I being sick, I can't do anything I want and I'm hurting and I can't eat anything. Ugh.
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I hate having to stand outside the bar but love being young and taken care of
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 6