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I Hate Being a Lesbian

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    I always loved Barbies. She was so fabulous, fearless, fashionable and could take on anything. I had a huge house for my barbies fully furnished, lots of other barbies who were friends and neighbors, kellies, a stacy, and only two Kens. They were never in the picture. My...
    mixedtape mixedtape 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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    Im A Bi G Fat Disgusting Lesbian I Put Burgers Before Me Kids

    I was always in to **** because i liked the cheese then me mum said your putting on weight sucking all them ***** . She said get down on your knees i pulled her knickers down and from that day to this my life has always been ****** up./ lesbians are filth.
    dyke12589 dyke12589 13-15 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    It Would Be Better to Not Be Me

    I hate being a Lesbian in my head. I hate that I don't like being a man. I hate that dressing as a woman makes me more at peace with myself. It would be better to not be a woman inside. No lesbian would ever want me and no straigh woman really can either. I am...
    Kris99 Kris99 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 29, 2009

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    Hate Being A Lesbian??? Craziness!!!

    In looking at what I went through so that I could live my life as a lesbian which is who I truly believe what I was BORN to be I cannot think of one time when I was leaving my marriage and coming out that I ever had one thought that I hated being a lesbian. I love being a...
    giayesim12 giayesim12 46-50, F 2 Responses Apr 19, 2013

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    I Hate It

    So I'm a lesbian. And in short, as you can guess, I'm not pleased about it. I really don't like it. I really just wish I could be normal. Well I suppose I'll get grief by saying normal. I wish I was straight. That I could fit more into the steriotyphical society that we live in...
    Arago Arago 22-25, F 7 Responses Feb 10, 2011

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    Am i the one on earth

    who thinks its not okay and the one who didnt acted on it?
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 3 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I Hate Being A Lesbian

    I'm 37 years old and have only just been able to admit to myself that I am gay. The problem is all I have ever wanted was a husband and a family. To think that I will never be able to have that breaks my heart. I don't know how to live with this. I don't think the people around...
    dollydoodah dollydoodah 36-40 2 Responses Aug 16, 2012

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    I am comfortable with my sexual orientation in

    terms of knowing nothing is wrong with me, but I can't help but feel I will be alone forever. I work in a field that is predominantly male, and, especially at my current job, I have so much male interest that it is completely ridiculous. I am not even that attractive. Yet it...
    chickiebos chickiebos 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

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    Someone Please Help Me!

    The thing is I think I started liking girls when I saw a music video that had girls kissing (and somehow got interested) so I searched up more on YouTube. Then I really got into it and watched loads of **** videos. I ended up going onto a **** site on my dads work laptop and then...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    I Hate This!!

    I'm 16 and have known i was gay for 3 years. i was in my first relationship with a girl last year, I thought it wasn't going to be an issue. i loved my girlfriend, wholeheartedly, but being with her destroyed me, i went out every weekend drinking, started to cut myself and burned...
    candg candg 16-17 3 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    More Problems

    I don't really hate being lesbian but it would be so much easier if I was straight. Now I have to deal with keeping it a secret to some of my friends and my parents until I'm ready to get 100% out of the closet. That isn't the worst part, the only friend I've told is very...
    unsure1996 unsure1996 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    I Hate Being A Lesbian But I Can't Stop Myself

    My sex life; my love life; my social life; it's all simple. I've recently come to the conclusion that I hate being lesbian.I'm a small town girl who first realised she was gay when she was 15, and then she didn't come out till she was 17. I moved to a city in hopes of finding...
    Callalaylah Callalaylah 18-21 31 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    This Lesbian Life Is Becoming A Daily Struugle.

    As I get into my late 40's I'm finding that trying to fully accept that I'm a gay woman is harder than ever!  I had that first attraction to women when I was around 9. It wasn't sexual..I was only an innocent kid..but found myself daydreaming about being around beautiful women...
    Mysoulsgoal Mysoulsgoal 46-50, F 8 Responses Mar 22, 2011

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    I Hate Myself For Being A Lesbian.

    I knew I was a lesbian at a early age, but didn't really understand all the struggles that came with it. I unintentionally came out when I was 16 when people caught me with a girl at a house party, and rumours spred around like a forest fire. Some of my friends accepted me, many...
    Hayley1591 Hayley1591 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    I've been a lesbian for 8 years

    now which is my whole entire dating life. I'm sure somewhere along my young years I developed an insecurity and trust issues with men and fell in love with the nurturing of women. Needless to say 8 years later and so many failed relationships with other women I hate being a...
    Leenalove Leenalove 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 14, 2014

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    I Am Bi. I....

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    It Will Get Better.

    Hey Girls!Well I understand where every single one of you are coming from. You are not alone. Sexuality, like many things in life can change, depending on the people you meet and the experiences you have. Don't be too harsh on yourself. Be your own best friend--caring, gentle...
    rxcsoccerstar rxcsoccerstar 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 12, 2011

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    I Hate Being A Lesbian

    when I start getting to know a woman, i can't help but be attracted to her. and those feelings make me unhappy. i feel disgusted and scared. i wish it wasn't so much weight to carry. and that my feelings where just a natural part of life like eating or going to the grocery store...
    paqitta3 paqitta3 26-30 2 Responses Jan 25, 2013

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    ?

    I’m single since birth, I can’t say I’m ugly, though I find myself yes, where my colleagues sees the opposite (huh?). The real reason is that I am having an identity crisis and I’m finding myself now and then. I will not continue something I might regret...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 16, 2010

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    Double Life

    I hate being different. I haven't been in a true relationship since high school. It was with my best friend, a guy. I stayed with him because I loved him. I still love him, just not like he loves me. That all ended when I went off to college. We have stayed friends he just doesn...
    lara91 lara91 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2013

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    Chinese Gay Man Looking For Moc Marriage, Malaysia, Klang

    Hii, Simple intro. about myself. I am a gay man. Age 27. Chinese. Living in Malaysia (state- Selangor). I been thinking about my future a lot. Imagining the family and future that i would like to have. Going out of the closet is definitely not the choice that i will choose. This...
    readfile readfile 26-30 1 Response May 25, 2013

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    I Hate Being A Lesbian

    I got into this lesbianism thing late a few years ago. Before then I wasn't really "straight"...I had never actually dated anyone. I had only gone on dates. I met this girl and she interested me and that pushed me into the idea that maybe I was gay and this was the reason I was...
    Lils21 Lils21 26-30 14 Responses Sep 11, 2011

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    Does It Have To Be So Complicated??

    I'm 27 and have recently come to realize that I am gay. I've not only realized this by falling in love with a straight woman who broke my heart, but I feel even more stupid coming out to people who have known me a long time because I've been married to a man. Realizing I'm gay...
    lezzielinds85 lezzielinds85 26-30 3 Responses Aug 17, 2012

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    I was ridiculed today

    and I felt bad about who I was from what people called me at a skate park.
    AshleysExperience AshleysExperience 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Damn I hate being a girl right now :/ don't get me wrong I'm not lesbian tho lol
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    Well technically I hate having a male body as there's really nothing male about me other than, I love women. Where do I start with why I hate being male? 1) I hate being with...
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    I just hate being lied to, to me it's one of the worst things you can do to someone because that means that I or the other person being lied to can't trust you. Here's a little...
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    Honestly, I ******* hate being ignored. I think being ignored is one of the worse feelings. I hate when I message my friends, and they don't answer, and it shows that they actually...
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    Maybe I shouldn't post in this experience. I don't hate being a stepmom. Not anymore anyway. I don't hate being a stepmom because I am OVER being a stepmom. The "children" are...
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    I don't know where to start with this post, especially not if I don't want to be seen as ungrateful or spoiled. Maybe I am, I don't know. I'm ranting because I hate being...
    artist40 artist40 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I really hate being a black female. It's really hard to know whether a guy likes black girls. People always ask if your hair is "real". If you get mad or upset, boys think you're...
    Theconfused1 Theconfused1 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I hate being lied to and i hate lying but it's a tricky paradox since sometimes lying is to protect someone or protect yourself but at the same time it can be morally taxing
    Horse10202 Horse10202 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 4

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    I hate being the youngest and being the second born. I know my parents always got me everything I wanted. But my sister was the first born and she always got her own way her whole...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 22-25, M Jan 9

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    I hate being lied to or being called a liar . This ****** me off more then anything I can feel my blood pressure raise .
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 11

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    Sometimes I hate being a second wife. I know for a fact that his mother likes his first wife better, she has told me that his first wife is beautiful and I'm ugly. She even...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 14

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    I'm 18 but look like I'm 13. No curves, butt, and boobs are almost nonexistent. I'm 5'8 and weigh 100z I've tried everything to gain weight but it's impossible. It feels like...
    Lalala1996 Lalala1996 18-21 Jan 16

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    I hate being sick ... I hate this life
    regretmyfeelings regretmyfeelings 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 17

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    I really hate being lied to especially if you're lying to me to protect my feelings. I can handle the truth even if it's something I might not want to hear. I can't handle being...
    jamesmarie09 jamesmarie09 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I do hate being lied to, I hate fake promises and fake words of affection, I think it's always better to be upfront and tell the truth no matter how much it hurts at the end I...
    Marlenyfl83 Marlenyfl83 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    i hate it cause sometimes i think maybe it's a wrong move but i can't contact the person back.. But i won't put too much thought on it, what's done is done and if i'm blocked and...
    breeder18 breeder18 31-35, M 1 day ago

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    I hate being a ******* virgin, period. My friends are having sex and I am the only one not having sex. :;
    mynameispaul23 mynameispaul23 18-21, M Jan 4

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    When I tell people I'm single they look surprised. I don't know whether to feel flattered or think wtf is wrong with me then? I hate being single but I'm starting to think it's...
    0justme0 0justme0 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    I hate being called fake. Like seriously if you have a problem, Skype me, snapchat me, FaceTime me. I don't give a ****! My Facebook as disabled because some ******* reported me...
    JanaeB0o JanaeB0o 16-17, F Jan 8

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    I hate being judged and have people make their assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Anyone else hate being sick? I actually feel like I'm dying..
    XxHeyyTherexX XxHeyyTherexX 13-15, F 9 Responses Jan 14

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    That funny moment when they lie and you later find out the truth. Wow I hate being lied to but it does give me a nice laugh
    Pinkerlove Pinkerlove 18-21, F Jan 20

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    well I have to accept the fact that I don't know to swallow tablets :( stop laughing please :( that's actually the main reason why I hate being sick :/ tablets atleast I can manage...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Damn I hate being so bored
    xshilx xshilx 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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