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I Hate Being Alone

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    I'm fifteen and have never had a real boyfriend.

    It drives me crazy. It sucks to see most of your friends dating and no matter what you try you are still alone. Always alone.
    SalemKat SalemKat 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    It sux being here alone wit no one to tlk to.

    ..hate being alone...just lookn for sumone to make me feel good
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 20

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    I just wish I had someone to talk to .

    Like possibly a boyfriend or a friend who's always there. I haven't had a boyfriend for almost year a now, which is really weird for me. I want one but then again I don't want to fall in love and get hurt. I hate that feeling of being so attached to someone and then out of...
    jasminemillsxo jasminemillsxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    I m just down DOWN i feel like im nothing :( am

    alone all the time hangin out alone go to coffes alone :( need a sincere company
    typic1990 typic1990 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I Hate Being Alone But I Am Doom To It.

    I have been alone for 24 years and i didn't know that there is a higher disadvantage of this kind of routine in one's daily life. I am asking myself wither this thing is inborn or not, however, i always ended up to nothing. I want to be around with people, get to know them...
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    If I'm ever alone, I instantly try

    and find something or someone to be with. Sometimes I get my wish and sometimes not. Luckily, I've never had any suicidal thoughts, just the bottomless pit of anguish when I get a little lonely.
    jamierhoden jamierhoden 16-17, M Jun 29

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    I have very little friend

    who barley talk to me. I want more friend willing to talk to me trust me and laugh with me.
    crazygamerleo crazygamerleo 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 8

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    Lovechriscornell Lovechriscornell 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 8

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    If I'm all alone all day yes I would hate that.

    I like to keep myself occupied or for someone to talk to me
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses May 29

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    Sigh... I'm alone tonight.

    .. Haven't felt like this in awhile.... Can someone tell a joke or something???!!!!
    IloveLife14 IloveLife14 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    I hate being alone...

    . Being alone gives me anxiety... Sometimes I think about killing myself but I can't.... I'm pregnant and have a daughter to raise. How do I fight these feelings ?
    Juliaw08 Juliaw08 18-21, F 3 Responses May 27

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    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Jul 12

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    lilybird18ee lilybird18ee 13-15, F Jul 21

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    I Think Ive Figured Out Why....

    its not that i dont like being by myself... its just the implications of being alone.... i was directed to a website on Borderline Personality Disorder by one of my therapist people. it puts my feelings into words better than i could. also makes me sound like a complete crazy...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2008

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    Yhh im alone i have friends

    but im that kinda person who you would never expect to be upset and because you would see me smiling alot i like helping people but when it comes to be no one helps me i have no one to share my feelings to and sometimes it feels like all my friends are just faking and i feel so...
    xhumairax xhumairax 13-15, F 7 Responses May 27

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    Virginia Beach And Lonely

    tired of being alone and want friends....anyone from Virginia Beach, VA out there?
    jmanbme jmanbme 46-50 Oct 6, 2012

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    Sooo.... I'm so freakin stupid.

    I decided to break up with my boyfriend and move out two days ago. I'm 26 weeks pregnant. I have these stupid mood swings. But I also had my reasons, I felt like he wasn't paying attention to me... He would work ... Play video games or go out with friends.. While I sat at home...
    Juliaw08 Juliaw08 18-21, F Jun 11

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    I love to talk and get a response.

    I love to see someone smile or laugh because of something I did or said. I don't like it when I'm alone, it just feels so empty.
    wonderstar wonderstar 16-17, F 1 Response May 29

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    I'm scared to get close

    and i hate being alone,i long for that feeling to not feel at all,the higher i get,the lower i sink,i can't drown m demons they know how to swim
    TheDaysAreADeathWish TheDaysAreADeathWish 16-17, F May 30

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    I feel like im on my own!

    ! I have friends and talk to them everyday but it seems like somthing is missing. I should be grateful for everything that i have just like every1 else but im not. Ive been single for 8/9 years now and have problems with conversation for some unknown reason, does any1 have any...
    louisjsmith louisjsmith 22-25, M May 9

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    I tell myself that I am ok with it

    and subconsciously push people away. But I look at how awesome my sisters life is and how she is surrounded by friends who include her in everything and how she has people to fall back on and I realize I have no one to talk to or do things with. I want to belong.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 25

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    I hate spending time by myself.

    . Don't get me wrong there are times when I need alone time,but I only want this time to happen by my own doing not by people being too busy to hangout.. I know it makes me selfish -_-" I wish I could change
    1eyeliner1 1eyeliner1 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    ...no one likes me, nor spend time with me.

    . I can understand I use to be a pest and be annoying. But.. I just wish I could have a girl a girl to laugh with, cuddle with, kiss with, more importantly but be myself around... I am a nice person, not the annoying pest I use to be... I'm caring, loving, respectful and...
    sch4denfr3ude sch4denfr3ude 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 13

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    I took my boyfriend home tonight

    and I miss him so much. I now have to sleep in my bed alone and it's going to be so hard.
    sydneycaroline sydneycaroline 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    I have plenty friends & most of them are busy

    with work & studies for me I'm just busy at work after work I stay home some days I'm off & I hate being alone.. Most of the time I am alone I try to call friends to figure something out they end up giving me huge excuses about not showing up I really hate it. My life has it...
    billyaldo billyaldo 22-25, M May 30

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    Silence Kills

    I completely Hate being alone but I cant help it introverted & anti-social I try to talk to people I try to be in good relationshpis but I just cant think of anything to say during a conversation any girl I like or ever somehow end up with keeps rejecting me over being so quiet...
    FMML FMML 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 21, 2012

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    I've always hated it

    since I was a kid being alone even though publicly I like to have somebody with me but be independent aswell even though I'm shy I always like to be around someone :(
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 13-15, F Aug 27

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    Moonlightwolf6 Moonlightwolf6 13-15, F Aug 14

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    I hate watching all of these happy couples

    around me. Don't I deserve to be happy too? What have I done that makes me deserve this pit of loneliness. I try so hard, and no one cares.
    lostandlonleysoul lostandlonleysoul 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I like my alone time now

    and then, but seeing a group of my (once) I think?, friends is really upsetting. And seeing the one person there who I was basically my friend and I was there for her when we were bestfriends but now we aren't she seems to be taking my place in my friends group. Even admitting...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    emmmybloo emmmybloo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I think its called monophobia.

    The fear of being alone. I've always just thought that it was normal, that feeling you get when you're alone. I found out recently it wasn't. When I'm alone I get this sudden jolt. I start panicking and my emotions get the better if me. Its usually the urge to cry. Its worse...
    NyBrid NyBrid 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I'm Socially Awkward

    I'm alone primarily because I've never been a people person....I WANT to be in a group...but folks aren't drawn to me....I've been sitting here listening to folks around me in my neighborhood carry on and enjoy each other's company....while I suffer alone.    I suppose...
    Stahl Stahl 31-35, M 6 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    jamesthehuman26 jamesthehuman26 16-17, M 3 Responses May 9

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    I Hate Being Alone.

    I hate the feeling of being alone. And not just any kind of alone, but COMPLETELY alone. Like when you lose your best friend, or when all your friends seem to want nothing to do with you, or when your laying in bed at night, wishing someone was laying next to you and holding you...
    Br0kenAngel Br0kenAngel 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2007

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    It's like there's an empty hole in my body

    waiting to be filled in order to carry on through life. Most of the time that hole is being filled with my ex boyfriend. Terrible, I know. I can't seem to shake it and move on. Why do I feel like I need him to suck the life into me?
    Ashleyjoan Ashleyjoan 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Especially on holidays.

    Even this stupid holiday that I don't even believe is worth celebrating. I wish I had someone.
    niceusername niceusername 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 20

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    People always talk to me then they leave me- I

    attract em then after a while I'm nothing to them they just dump me- I hate it and I hate people
    internallybroken internallybroken 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 26

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    I must be the only introvert

    who hates being alone. Because no one hates me more that I hate myself.
    solidactyl solidactyl 18-21 1 Response Jun 12

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    GalaxyJumper GalaxyJumper 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Being Alone Is Definitely Not Healthy For Me

    I have been alone for many years. I am now 41 and I can never look back and say those were the best years of my life. It's very sad even when I was married, I was not happily married. My love life has been nonexistent and for many years DEAD. I was even celebate for many years. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M Jul 28

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail And I Need Him

    I am in love with a guy who is a sex offender but he really did nothing wrong in my eyes .....the girl asked him to crack her back and it led him on you know what I mean? He really did nothing! He comes home in febuary I hope but I'm scared he doesn't want me no more I just love...
    KIki309 KIki309 16-17 3 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    A Loser

    I am 18 years old, and i have been single my whole life, i have never even kissed a girl, I dont know whats wrong with me. i must just be a compleate loser..
    Nuni1620 Nuni1620 18-21 3 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    I hate feeling alone.

    I try so hard to make new friends, and I am incapable. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. My best friend and I are slowly drifting apart and it kills me. I don't know what else I can do, but I hate feeling worthless.
    gilliand17 gilliand17 16-17, F 2 Responses May 7

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    TALK to Me!!! Talk to Me!!!

    I am in need of a chat. I need to talk to someone!!!!
    rikki60 rikki60 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 24, 2007

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    Darkness

    I need to have contact with people. Too much time alone and I start thinking dark things, mostly about myself. No, not suicidal, or homicidal, but still dark. It feeds a loop, I think dark things, they make me sad and feel lonely, I feel lonely and think dark things. I'm always...
    St0rmDancer St0rmDancer 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Hate being alone and at times it always happens.

    Was the happiest I ever been end of last year and January. Then because of actions of a few I am now the loniest I have ever been. It's depressing and I can't stand it
    Formylostones1282 Formylostones1282 31-35, M 2 Responses May 23

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    I'm scared to get close

    and i hate being alone,i long for that feeling to not feel at all,the higher i get,the lower i sink,i can't drown m demons they know how to swim
    TheDaysAreADeathWish TheDaysAreADeathWish 16-17, F May 30

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