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I Hate Being Alone

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    Darkness

    I need to have contact with people. Too much time alone and I start thinking dark things, mostly about myself. No, not suicidal, or homicidal, but still dark. It feeds a loop, I think dark things, they make me sad and feel lonely, I feel lonely and think dark things. I'm always...
    St0rmDancer St0rmDancer 22-25, F 5 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    im so tired of being alone all the time.

    .. im married but i havent seen my husband in 5 months. i have no one to talk to about anything. fml. sorry just had to rant.
    tehkittehh tehkittehh 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I'm Socially Awkward

    I'm alone primarily because I've never been a people person....I WANT to be in a group...but folks aren't drawn to me....I've been sitting here listening to folks around me in my neighborhood carry on and enjoy each other's company....while I suffer alone.    I suppose...
    Stahl Stahl 31-35, M 6 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    I'm sure its my own fault

    but I do hate being alone. I've moved across the country to start a new life about 4 years ago and though there's been a lot of benefits I do miss my friends. I've made do with life as it is and know that I need to stop sleeping around, and hooking up with the same type of...
    shortsguy27 shortsguy27 26-30, M Jan 11

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    My Boyfriend Is In Jail And I Need Him

    I am in love with a guy who is a sex offender but he really did nothing wrong in my eyes .....the girl asked him to crack her back and it led him on you know what I mean? He really did nothing! He comes home in febuary I hope but I'm scared he doesn't want me no more I just love...
    KIki309 KIki309 16-17 3 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I don't really know if its the idea of not

    having anyone care about you or just the fact that there isn't anyone around you can turn to when you need a shoulder in a single moment that frightens me more. I only really know that the thought of being alone, in all aspects of the word, has proven to be enough to send me...
    GvKr GvKr 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    ...no one likes me, nor spend time with me.

    . I can understand I use to be a pest and be annoying. But.. I just wish I could have a girl a girl to laugh with, cuddle with, kiss with, more importantly but be myself around... I am a nice person, not the annoying pest I use to be... I'm caring, loving, respectful and...
    sch4denfr3ude sch4denfr3ude 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 13

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    TALK to Me!!! Talk to Me!!!

    I am in need of a chat. I need to talk to someone!!!!
    rikki60 rikki60 36-40, F 12 Responses Aug 24, 2007

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    I m just down DOWN i feel like im nothing :( am

    alone all the time hangin out alone go to coffes alone :( need a sincere company
    typic1990 typic1990 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    Dislike My Own Company

    I'm rubbish being alone, I hate my own company most of the time and would much rather just be sitting in silence in a room with someone then being left totally alone to my own thoughts - because when I'm alone I think too much and drive myself crazy by thinking stupid things and...
    lostinthebigwideworld lostinthebigwideworld 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 19, 2011

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    Yet I absolutely love it

    and its complicated...
    MyHeadsUnderWater MyHeadsUnderWater 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    I don't like it ... I don't look

    for it , it just happens.. Sucks how there's moments where someone can get lonely and won't care who they are talking to just as long as they are talking to someone .. I don't mind being alone sometimes .. But the majority of the time I hate it that I prefer not even existing
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F Dec 30, 2013

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    I just hate the feeling of

    when I'm with a friend or someone I care about and they have to leave for any reason...I start to feel very heartbroken, though I don't show it on the outside.. I enjoy being close to my friends and people I care about, I feel like I am wanted and loved to some extent. I guess I...
    SarahBear907 SarahBear907 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I Wish...

    I had someone I could trust. Someone who just liked me for me. Someone who could get the "real me" out. Someone who could make me smile and laugh without me feeling embarrassed. Someone who didn't judge me. Someone I could talk to about everything and nothing. Just a friend...
    SeekingAnswersInTheRain SeekingAnswersInTheRain 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 31, 2013

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    Well Its My Own Fault

    I tend to block people out of my life. I've been hurt so much that I can't even stand to be around family anymore. I feel as if everyone is judging me. I hate this feeling. I crave to be with someone. Its my fault. I guess I can't be with someone because I don't allow them into...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 2, 2012

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    A Loser

    I am 18 years old, and i have been single my whole life, i have never even kissed a girl, I dont know whats wrong with me. i must just be a compleate loser..
    Nuni1620 Nuni1620 18-21 3 Responses Jan 17, 2011

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    Loneliness, a Horrible Way of Life

    Being alone is very difficult and has lead to alcohol abuse.  I laid in bed last night wishing someone was just there to hold me and tell they had my back, they cared, they loved me.  It got so bad last night I tried to kill myself and obviously failed.  So I...
    emotionallyindifferent emotionallyindifferent 26-30 2 Responses Jun 9, 2009

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    All By Myself

    Everyone who knows me knows I hate being alone.. It has nothing to do with not being independent by myself.. Its crazy though.. saying "By Myself" makes me shiver in a good and bad way at the same time. In a positive way "By Myself" feels great because I feel like I...
    CrazyBabe2788 CrazyBabe2788 18-21, F Apr 11, 2010

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    Anxiety And Being Alone

    I dread being told that I might have to be in the house on my own for a period of time. I can cope with a day, say whilst my housemate is at work, but not longer, and I hate evenings alone. I live quite far out, and its lonely. My social network is very small, and I suffer...
    Tinkerbell246 Tinkerbell246 22-25, F 3 Responses May 15, 2010

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    I just wish I had someone to talk to .

    Like possibly a boyfriend or a friend who's always there. I haven't had a boyfriend for almost year a now, which is really weird for me. I want one but then again I don't want to fall in love and get hurt. I hate that feeling of being so attached to someone and then out of...
    jasminemillsxo jasminemillsxo 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 21

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    It always seem like I'm alone,

    I always have a feeling of loneliness hovering over me and I don't know why.
    dontfeartheripper dontfeartheripper 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Being Independent Sucks!

    I have been "working" for my grandparents for about 9 months now. my schedule use to be 1 to 3 days a week depending on what my grandma had to do that week. Now that my grandpa has started to fall and hes started to forget things she needs someone around at all times. shes hired...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Jan 7, 2011

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    I Dont Like Being Alone,

    It's A Part Of Time That Lets My Brain Wonder.. It Brings Me Down Sometimes. I Just Need Someone In The House Or Somewhere With Me So I Can Focus On A Certain Something And Not Let My Mind Think Of Bad Memory's And Subjects
    KateMost KateMost 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    AussieListener AussieListener 18-21, M 4 Responses Feb 26

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    I truly do. I just want someone to talk to,

    to laugh with. Someone who won't immediately judge me based on the scars on my wrists. Someone to be happy with.
    BloodintheWater BloodintheWater 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    Being Alone Too Much Is Not Good.

          I have been single for over a year. Most of my family dislikes my lesbian lifestyle so they do not invite me over for the holidays or birthday celebrations. My mom passed away one day after Thanksgiving, last year. The past two years has...
    confusedone confusedone 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2009

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    Sigh... I'm alone tonight.

    .. Haven't felt like this in awhile.... Can someone tell a joke or something???!!!!
    IloveLife14 IloveLife14 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    People Only Care About People Who People Care About

    Hi, Sorry in advance to spew negativity out there but this is how i feel and i have no one to talk to. I can't seem  to keep friends. I can make them but its almost as if my friends have a "best before" date as eveything seems to be going fine, they will call me often...
    theemptyvase theemptyvase 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    Being alone sucks. Sure it can have it's perks

    like doing what you want, when you want, with whomever you want, but I would be much happier if I just had someone to be there. Somone who I can just lay in bed with all day and talk about anything and everything. I need someone who I can wrap my arms around and love. Sadly for...
    LuckyWolf61 LuckyWolf61 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 26, 2013

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    I Hate Being Alone But I Am Doom To It.

    I have been alone for 24 years and i didn't know that there is a higher disadvantage of this kind of routine in one's daily life. I am asking myself wither this thing is inborn or not, however, i always ended up to nothing. I want to be around with people, get to know them...
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 27, 2011

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    fionacc11 fionacc11 26-30, F Mar 21

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    What Do You Do?

    I don't know what to do any more my wife doesn't want me any more i'm so sad.
    help05 help05 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 11, 2012

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    I Think Ive Figured Out Why....

    its not that i dont like being by myself... its just the implications of being alone.... i was directed to a website on Borderline Personality Disorder by one of my therapist people. it puts my feelings into words better than i could. also makes me sound like a complete crazy...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2008

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    I love people! Just being around them makes me

    so happy. Whenever I'm alone or no body's around I feel all sad for some reason but whenever there are lots of people present, non stressful and minding their own business, I just feel at piece. Can't wait to move to the city! Everyone that walls by me has a different world in...
    sattva101 sattva101 13-15, F Feb 5

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    I Hate This Feeling

    Plain ans simple is that I hate being alone. I hate doing things on my own, having "alone" time. My husband says its good for me because then I can be alone with my thoughts. I dont even like that. It's mostly with my husband though. I hate it so much because it makes me feel...
    LUVLYDESI LUVLYDESI 26-30 3 Responses Oct 9, 2010

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    Being Alone

    I am a social person so being alone is like being put in prison. Social contact is what makes me happy. Circumstances find me alone in a small town where interaction with a lot of people is limited. Not being one to spend time at the local taverns limits access to a lot of the...
    dayminder2012 dayminder2012 61-65, M 1 Response Jan 6, 2013

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    Being Alone

    I don't know why but my whole life I was afraid of being alone. I was always in a relationship.. not always the same person, but no matter what I found somebody new. Of course, I'm married now and that will hopefully NEVER change, but even now being married, when my husband goes...
    crstow89 crstow89 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    I seriously have a problem.

    I really hate being alone. It's not that I can't be, but I strongly dislike it. I'm overall scared to be alone with my own thoughts, or at least that's what I think the reason is...
    yahfeelme yahfeelme 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I Just Want To Be Happy And Not Alone

    Things just isn't going well for, sometimes I just want to have a happier life with someone who actually cares and can promise me that I'll never have to be lonely again what's the point. no one understands me!!! so now I'll have to start getting used to doing things alone...
    unknown89 unknown89 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 7, 2012

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    We All Do: We all do it.

    . We wonder if that one person is out there. That one person that looks at us and sees no wrong. They look beyond our faults and recognize our needs and spends life filling our love tank. You can't eat, you can't sleep, every thought leads back to her. She even flashes before...
    SignalSarge SignalSarge 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I hate watching all of these happy couples

    around me. Don't I deserve to be happy too? What have I done that makes me deserve this pit of loneliness. I try so hard, and no one cares.
    lostandlonleysoul lostandlonleysoul 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Virginia Beach And Lonely

    tired of being alone and want friends....anyone from Virginia Beach, VA out there?
    jmanbme jmanbme 46-50 Oct 6, 2012

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    Scared of My Own Thoughts

    Maybe if I wasn't alone so much, I wouldn't hate it so much.  But I'm alone all the time, everyday.  I live alone with my two cats.  I'm fairly new to the area where I live and don't have any friends here.  Basically I moved and shortly thereafter my world...
    ShatteredSilk ShatteredSilk 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 12, 2008

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    emmmybloo emmmybloo 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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