I Hate Being Called Baby By a Man I Don't Know

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    Please do not message me calling me baby

    or any other intimate term of endearment unless we are engaged in some kind of relationship. I honestly don't know why anyone would feel it's acceptable to do so if we just met.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Nov 28, 2014

    Or babe. Or beautiful by someone

    who has never seen my face. Just say hi and be a normal person. You'll get farther with me by not trying too hard. I'm a person first and a woman second.
    orchid24 orchid24
    Feb 15, 2014

    *** Smiles

    Please call me ryan. That's how I feel starting with a stranger.
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2011

    The Only One

    I remember when my husband started calling me baby.  I was at work one day and we just started talking.  We was texting each other and he said "Do you wanna be my baby?  Lol".  And I said "Yeah you know I do."  And ever since then he calls me baby.  Very seldom does he call...
    tngurl25 tngurl25
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 30, 2013


    You're seriously creeping me out. So cut it the **** out or get the **** out of my life. Seriously, you creepy old *** mother ******.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2009

    Sweet For Others

    baby, sweetheart.. darling, honey? those are sweet, for others..   but i can't take it. they're annoying it can ruin someone's day ^^,
    dazzlingeyes dazzlingeyes
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 17, 2010

    I Hate It!

    When I'm at work and the guys come there and they need something or when they say baby or mami it makes me so mad. I hear it all day. Darling, baby, mami, cutie,sweetie..etc. I am not any of that to you. I don't know you like that. Only boyfriend should call me that. Very...
    Darkfarey Darkfarey
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 17, 2009

    Don't Go There!

    I hate being called baby by a man i don't know. Its a sure way to get me to bite his head off. I don't want to be called baby, honey, sweet thing, sugar, or darling. Call me nothing, or B**ch just not any of those names.  If he is calling me those names, what does he call...
    ConfusionOfTheMind ConfusionOfTheMind
    1 Response Sep 25, 2008

    Yea, this has been happening a lot recently.

    I don't know when and I don't know why it began but id like it to stop. Do not make your first message to me along the lines of "Hey babe?" or anything of this nature. Babe, Baby, Baby girl, Sexy, Sweety, Hun, Honey, Little girl, etc, need to stay out of the mix! Unless I have...
    SylenaEverlasting SylenaEverlasting
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 18, 2014

    omg. they all seem to do it too.

    or, you know, babe. I find I start calling them "my pet" if I speak to them at all. so They know I'll whack them in the face with rolled up paper if They displease me. lol.
    ZombieBaitMaiden ZombieBaitMaiden
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2014

    Uggggg , I just met u ,

    don't call me lovely , babe, darling, dear or any pet name, I'm not ur gold fish , I have a name , use it
    sommer02 sommer02
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 9, 2014

    Hate it! You do not know me

    so miss me with the baby, babe, bae and any other variation of the word baby. I'm not a mushy kind of girl so I don't even want to hear that from somebody I know, so definitely not from a stranger. Do not give me a pet name (hate it), do not give me a nickname ( hate it...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2014

    Don't Call Me, Baby, Jerk!

    I'm not a stranger's pet. Few men call me baby and they -earned- the right to through respecting me for a long time. If I don't know you, don't call me a pet name. Here are some lyrics of one of the few pop songs that speak to me. "Don't Call Me Baby"- Madison Avenue...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2008

    No, I'm Not Your Baby...

    I'd rather some strange dude call me the other "B" word - *****.  If he kept it up, he'd no doubt find that description closer to the truth.
    mysticsovereign mysticsovereign
    56-60, F
    1 Response Oct 23, 2008

    I Just Dont Get It -.-

    ok my boyfriend calling me that is fine, i think its cute random strangers in the street is just wierd. why exactly guys do that i just dont get it, i mean what do the guys want me to say back? like do guys think that it really works? calling random girls baby? it just bugs me...
    UmbraEyes UmbraEyes
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2011

    Excuse Me !!

    I cant stand when a man is trying to talk to me and cant think of anything else to call me but baby,Lil mama or shawty. It ****** me off can they think of another name how about sister or miss how about you ask my name and then go from there. This is not to be touchy...
    Braveheart4real Braveheart4real
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 6, 2008

    I really hate it to be called baby dear honey

    sweetheart etc by men I dunno or I m not dating... I m not a dog/ cat/ any pets. Thats so degrading. Would u call a man baby / dear ? Just call my ******* name... Or Miss/ madam if u dunno it
    thousandcuts thousandcuts
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 12, 2015
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