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I Hate Being Compared To Other People My Age

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    Help Me. Bullied By Friends Mom

    Okay, so I had this really good friend, that was always Kinda a *****. And my family owns a campground. so one day my friends who camps their comes and tells me that this friend has been telling all my other friend and people in our campground that I am depressed, and my parents...
    foreverdamaged foreverdamaged 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2012

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    Even Now, It Doesn't Stop...

    You'd think that after turning 21 you'd stop being compared to others of your age group. Wrong. I'm 24, so people automattically think I'm doing crazy stuff and getting into a ton of trouble. To be honest I'm pretty quiet and conservitive. I do my work at work - even take some...
    jondoen jondoen 22-25, M Aug 26, 2012

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    I don't like being compare to someone else !

    Because we grow up in a different way of life and deferent race, even if we're same Asian but we have a different culture.
    Bluejec19 Bluejec19 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 19

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    My Age Is A Number.Not A Deffinition.

    Im melisa and im 18 years old. Everyone around me looks at me like a child. dont get me wrong, i have a lot to learn and more things to go through in life... but dont treat me like im stupid. I may be 18 but ive lived on my own. takin care of two kids that wernt even mine. cook...
    mmr607 mmr607 70+ Mar 18, 2013

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    People My Age...

    Are not always good examples of human beings lol...so I don't really like being compared to them. Also I've always felt older than people my age anyway.
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2012

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    Coz I Am Who I Am

    I don't like to be compared with anyone actually because I am a masterpiece who is not looking for a mini me...well if it sounds arrogant..then be it. I would not appreciate anyone comparing me with anyone. Some questions that often arise in my mind after such ugly situations...
    Unchainedthoughts Unchainedthoughts 26-30, F Dec 27, 2012

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    13 And- We Can't Trust You!!!

    People always hated the idea of me going out side at night. At first it was "You are 5! it is too scary for you!" I snuck out anyway to see the stars. Then at seven they were like, " Oh you'll get stolen, you are too cute, don't go alone! Take someone with you!" so I asked my...
    FistOfLove FistOfLove 13-15, F Jun 14, 2012

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    When Someone Asks

    How does it feel to be your age?I ask, how is it supposed to feel? I am 68 years old. I am old in some ways, but in other ways, I am very youthful. I am not *typical* for my age. I don't want anyone telling me that I should be retired. Really? Why should I be retired, because it...
    Serenitree Serenitree 70+, F Oct 10, 2012

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    I Am Very Mature For My Age

    So don't hold presuppositions about me based on my age.  Get to know me and see for yourself. I feel that the world as a whole today is corrupt.  Childhood comes and goes like a vapor in the night.  So it was with me.  
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 24, 2013

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    analeeah98 analeeah98 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 18-21, M Apr 7

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    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Everyone is adamant that people care more about what the heart has to offer rather than appearance, but the reality is, people DO judge us and people DO judge us based on our...
    MissMisunderstood1 MissMisunderstood1 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 29

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    As soon as I walk into a place, people immediately start judging me and I don't even know them. Part of the reason is because I'm a twin..maybe if they get to know us, they'll...
    LPr0cker LPr0cker 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    I am greatly hurt today :(. I don't know how to define the feelings I have inside. I felt so helpless. I felt that no one loves me. I know i am being dramatic. Can you blame me? I...
    ilovesakura ilovesakura 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I hate when people stare at me because of my wheelchair. I understand your not used to seeing a teenager in a wheelchair but I would rather you ask questions than stare it just...
    Kaylamay17 Kaylamay17 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    i hate people judging me the way i act and the speak.Why?simple every where go i ware boys staff and look like a boy talk like a boy even walk like a boy.I dont care,i let them...
    AthlexnaLeeJJ191001TOMBOYHD AthlexnaLeeJJ191001TOMBOYHD 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    This is a pet hate of mine. It's a perfect example of 'don't judge a book by it's cover' everybody always wonders why people have such low self esteem; it's because they're...
    AlaiahMay AlaiahMay 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if...
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Ran out of room for being stabbed in my back, now haters are jabbing at my sides twisting their blades. some of these wounds weren't meant to heal But every time they send me to...
    AngelaBelievesInLove AngelaBelievesInLove 22-25, F Apr 4

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    As soon as people notice that I wear mostly black they assume I am not a good person and they place me in a category like rocker, goth, etc. or because I tend to be quite most of...
    LezPride LezPride 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Makes me giggle I can walk few yards from my house I get men and women just look at me. Went to local store women kept staring I'm like....Jesus never seen women before I do seem...
    blondebunny77 blondebunny77 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    people are such asswipes. People who have known me 10 minutes who notice that I am quiet and therefore usually have a neutral facial expression, who think that I should be...
    Fatfuck55 Fatfuck55 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Day by day my haters are increasing i think i am on a right track!!
    shadow010 shadow010 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I want you to see this if you don't understand Multiple Personality Disorder (MPD), which is also known as Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). Too many people don't understand it...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F Mar 29

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    People look at me and see a white, green eyed, blond haired (currently red) American teenager and the expect me to be slightly stuck up. Then they look at what my parents do for a...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Some people just won't stop....leave me alone ugh! People judge me for my scars..who cares...
    Lostmyselfagain1 Lostmyselfagain1 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Some people on here p**s me right off. If you ask a question or create a post, some People will just decide to comment on it even if it's not an interest or experience. They won't...
    Morninglory69 Morninglory69 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't like to be judged for being gay by random ppl. I was kissing my boyfriend and everyone gave me dirty looks,being judged is wrong on any level for any reason
    13andGay 13andGay 13-15, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I get judged all the time from people I've never met, but I really don't care, if you aren't perfect, then you have no right to judge
    ash5698 ash5698 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm a 16 year old Christian and I'm a virgin. I'm not trying to judge anyone about what they do in their sex life. I don't care what you do. And I'm not saying anyone has to do...
    March7th March7th 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Otto1234566 Otto1234566 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Every single person on the planet has a story. Don't judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    BlueIce612 BlueIce612 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am going to judge you whether you like it or not, grow up and stop trying to be offended people.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    I get judge because of my religion, my piercings, my height, my weight, even my hair color. Some people need to notice that everyone's different and don't always have the same...
    Emberrsky Emberrsky 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel like once I walk into the room.. everyone is judging me. Its like they don't even know me. But they still do it.. Usually I was the one doing it. Now Its them.
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I enjoy happy, upbeat peeps
    dameron dameron 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I'm consistently judge because of my attitude and skin color. I'm literally the nicest person who can understand you, that you'd ever meet. To the ones that say I'm black, you're...
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Mar 26

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    I get that I may not be that pretty And I play around when I sing I get that I have my bad hair days And just don't give a crap about it I get that my family has issues And I don't...
    BabyDgay BabyDgay 16-17, F Apr 5

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    I know it's wrong to hate who I am. God made me this way for a reason. But I hate being female. It doesn't feel right. I can't relate to other girls. I mean, I can relate to girls...
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    Is it just me or are loads of (young) people just signing up to attack what you wrote just for the fun of it?? Some haven't even read through the whole story and based their...
    makingimpossiblepossible makingimpossiblepossible 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    Okay time for a rant. I honestly hate being tall. People constantly asking "How tall are you?", "How's the weather up there.", "Hey, come help me reach this!" and many more! People...
    jasonpw jasonpw 16-17, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I think every day the fact I live in the world being judged. Everyone in the world is judged in some way. But one thing is very common people judged people how they talk or...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I hate being so tall. Most of my friends my age are shorter and I look like a giant. I have only two older friends who are taller and they are male! So that doesn't really count
    Diana14R Diana14R 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    It is tough for me because as much as I hate being in crowded places and surrounded by too many people, I really do love going to concerts.. More crowded it can't really get, right...
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I hate being mad at other people and my self. When I get mad I get really confused because I don't want to be mad at someone and it doesn't make sense to be mad at nothing or no...
    Potter66 Potter66 16-17, F Apr 7

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