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I Hate Being Compared To People

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    If you ******* compare me to someone else i

    will write down what you told me and put it in a blender and then shove it down your throat so you eat your ugly words.
    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F Oct 21, 2014

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    But Never To My Face?

    My mom always talks about me in front of others, and just today she was talking to my brother [Jay] about me, saying I was like my older brother and my dad. This is not a complement. She kept on saying how im selfish and inconsiderate like my dad and older brother. And she was...
    RainbowDaisys RainbowDaisys 13-15, F May 1, 2012

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    Seems like people around me love to compare me

    to other people. My mom, my dad, my acquaintances, my relatives, everyone. I'm really tired of it. Like for real, I am not them, I am me, a lazy perv that loves to eat, play games, sleep and eat again.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M Sep 29, 2014

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    Feel Lost

    My best friend told me she was "struggling" with our level of intimacy and closeness. She said she did not want to send me mixed messages and would never be unfaithful to her husband of 27 years but loves being with me and loves the feeling she has when we are together (although...
    littleunsure littleunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    i hate being judged by people. i know what is right for me . some people are making me mad
    jeniferpokharel jeniferpokharel 26-30, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I hate being the bad one out of my family but it hurts to know that everyone is comparing me to my older brother...why wont people just get into their heads that I'm not him and I...
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    arcee15 arcee15 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    People see me as the strong person I hate crying in front of people even family I try my best not to and if I do in front of them it's because of someting really bad family wise, I...
    lela201465 lela201465 16-17, F Mar 19

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    You know what, I don't exactly hate being blocked by someone I haven't met. In fact, I want to thank the spineless cowards who decided to block me before I could talk to them. Oh...
    BloodFanatic BloodFanatic 18-21, M Mar 8

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    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M Mar 21

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    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I hate it when people say "why do you never talk" or " why are you shy"... Well the thing is i have social anxiety. I didnt choose to have it, it just happened and i hate it...
    JustineMusey JustineMusey 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    As much as I hate being alone with my thoughts, I'm terrified to talk about certain things. I don't want to scare people away. I have certain people in my life that I trust, but I...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    from now on i will stay sedated i hate life and people some people are cool but most people can go **** themselves very hard in the ***.
    OccultumLapidem OccultumLapidem 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 8

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    why are people so awful. ... why do they do things.... even though they know that it will hurt others.... ugh, I hate everyone, **** people, **** you, and **** everyone anywhere...
    debonaireash debonaireash 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Ugh. I hate it when people misundrestand, especially our friends! I thought that best friends always undersatnd each other. Well, i thought it wrong.
    CNNMelissa CNNMelissa 13-15, F Mar 18

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    I enjoy being alone. I am able to entertain myself in ways I can't when I'm around others. But I hate being lonely and left or forgotten. That causes a person to be lonely.
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M Mar 1

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    I really hate being a girl. Everyday, I go through boys trying to talk to me when I don't want to. They always ask me am I single and Can I get to know them. That's why I never...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I hate being gay because it means that I will be alone for the rest of my life. The feeling of liking someone is so wonderful yet you should stop right aways cause that guy that...
    johnlee1527 johnlee1527 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I hate being alone but would rather be alone than with someone who doesn't understand me
    mtbmitch mtbmitch 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    I hate being sick ugh i cannot deal
    NorthCarolinaNC NorthCarolinaNC 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    I hate being single. What is wrong with me? Am I not likeable? I lost a girl now a guy. I dont think I would be in a relationship. I am going to be someone raising cats in my house...
    elephant17 elephant17 18-21, F Mar 14

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    I probably won't ever find someone that want to be with me besides for my money. I hate being so ugly.
    Hailey7685 Hailey7685 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate it when people post selfies of themselves and ask "am I attractive?" Seriously? You are ALL beautiful in your own ways, and you don't need to listen to others' opinions...
    XPathologyOfInsanityX XPathologyOfInsanityX 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I enjoy being around people who are positive. If your going to smoke, drink or even curse stay away from me. I can't stand guys who curse. Why are you cursing? There no need to...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Mar 15

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    I've been judged all my life, the sickest thing is my aunt who was married with kids had a vendetta against me.. From comparison with her husband against my then fiance, to her...
    Fizzy0875 Fizzy0875 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    A LESSON TO ALL THE DUMMIES IN THIS GROUP! > I'm assuming the majority of people in this group are racist ignorant low lives and the rest of you people in this group obviously are...
    LostEbonyGirl LostEbonyGirl 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Unfortunately I have the privilege to go to school with a bunch of rich snobby kids. I swear, I feel like a homeless person compared to them even if I live in a nice one story...
    trismason trismason 13-15, F Mar 3

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    I just hate people so much sometimes. I try to give advice and help on here but I have been attacked by feminists, christians and people that think I'm a pervert. No I'm just...
    canusernamebemyusername canusernamebemyusername 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    My psychologist and me get along, but he's extremely judgemental and really gets on my nerves at times and is seriously such an a**hole. The other day, I told him about me wanting...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    UGHHHHHH! Just a note, this is not for compliments or reassurements...those who have spoken to me know by now I post to rant and spill excess emotion. So, -ahem-, 'tis rant time. I...
    littleprincesslulu littleprincesslulu 18-21, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ewohluke - that's his EP name. Sometimes I call him Lukie. He's different, you know? As a baby, he was diagnosed with Autism, and he's disabled. He lives with his mom (Who's...
    iFortiTude iFortiTude 31-35 Mar 12

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    I hate it when my "friends" ignore my messages on purpose. I tried talking to a friend all day yesterday. Sent them 4 messages - and each one said it was read. So I send two angry...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Look out for Codycope17. He's some guy who just randomly judged me about trusting people on here when half the people here are fake a holes. How can you blame me for warning people...
    BrandonVidya2014 BrandonVidya2014 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I hate the word SKINNY. People talk about my body so much that I'm crying by the end of today. Just when I get all happy someone brings me down. I've tried so hard to laugh with...
    Whitney4234 Whitney4234 22-25, F Mar 13

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    Isn't this like every introvert ever...we like the space , our " me" time is important to us. It's because when we do spent time with people; bestfriends or strangers we use up...
    hadidamshah hadidamshah 22-25, M Mar 1

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    I have always hated it so much but never confronted any of the people who took advantage of me until yesterday !!! It was the first time I confront this girl with what she does to...
    Nayera Nayera 16-17 1 Response Mar 2

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    I hate hearing fighting and yelling in general, but its bad people so this at all. i hate it because when i hear it i yell back nd i feel wrong.
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    Why do I hate people so much :/ gr.
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 14

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    I don't mean to sound pissed, but how much bulls**t can happen to me when I try to do something or be somebody when people who don't even know me as a human being don't give me a f...
    JK7448 JK7448 18-21, F Mar 20