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I Hate Being Compared To People

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    Seems like people around me love to compare me

    to other people. My mom, my dad, my acquaintances, my relatives, everyone. I'm really tired of it. Like for real, I am not them, I am me, a lazy perv that loves to eat, play games, sleep and eat again.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M Sep 29, 2014

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    But Never To My Face?

    My mom always talks about me in front of others, and just today she was talking to my brother [Jay] about me, saying I was like my older brother and my dad. This is not a complement. She kept on saying how im selfish and inconsiderate like my dad and older brother. And she was...
    RainbowDaisys RainbowDaisys 13-15, F May 1, 2012

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    If you ******* compare me to someone else i

    will write down what you told me and put it in a blender and then shove it down your throat so you eat your ugly words.
    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F Oct 21, 2014

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    Feel Lost

    My best friend told me she was "struggling" with our level of intimacy and closeness. She said she did not want to send me mixed messages and would never be unfaithful to her husband of 27 years but loves being with me and loves the feeling she has when we are together (although...
    littleunsure littleunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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