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I Hate Being Compared To People

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    But Never To My Face?

    My mom always talks about me in front of others, and just today she was talking to my brother [Jay] about me, saying I was like my older brother and my dad. This is not a complement. She kept on saying how im selfish and inconsiderate like my dad and older brother. And she was...
    RainbowDaisys RainbowDaisys 13-15, F May 1, 2012

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    I hate being compared to my sister.

    My friends and family compare the 2 of us, but it is mostly me that does the comparing and I wish I could stop. I just hate how she has everything that I want. She has the better body, gets way more attention from boys, she has more friends, and she's more successful. I also...
    anonymoussssss321 anonymoussssss321 18-21, F Jul 8

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    If you ******* compare me to someone else i

    will write down what you told me and put it in a blender and then shove it down your throat so you eat your ugly words.
    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F Oct 21, 2014

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    Feel Lost

    My best friend told me she was "struggling" with our level of intimacy and closeness. She said she did not want to send me mixed messages and would never be unfaithful to her husband of 27 years but loves being with me and loves the feeling she has when we are together (although...
    littleunsure littleunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    Seems like people around me love to compare me

    to other people. My mom, my dad, my acquaintances, my relatives, everyone. I'm really tired of it. Like for real, I am not them, I am me, a lazy perv that loves to eat, play games, sleep and eat again.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M Sep 29, 2014

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    My family always compares me to my younger

    sister. Why can't you be better at school like your sister? Why can't you be as outgoing? Why can't you be a great dancer like your sister? Why can't you study something that is an actual career like your sister will be doing? I'm sick and tired of being compared to her because...
    lovelybones14 lovelybones14 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    RogueBarroness RogueBarroness 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    cairah cairah 18-21, F a week ago

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    can you like stop saying what you think i want to hear as i hate being lied to because i know its not the truth because what i want to hear is the truth so don't act like a mind...
    Multicolour12 Multicolour12 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I really hate being ignored... if you don't want to talk to somebody just be upfront about it instead of acting like a child and not saying anything
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I am a receptionist and I am getting sick and tired of people asking me personal questions and then judging me from my answers. People are always asking me if I have kids and I do...
    WarriorCatGrl WarriorCatGrl 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    I just got grounded again yesterday. I'm grounded for a whole stinking week. Man I HATE BEING GROUNDED!!!!!
    naughtyboyneedsspanked naughtyboyneedsspanked 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I really hate being sick cause Whenever i'm sick i get dizzy caugh alot have fever, headaches and stomach ache so i always end up in the ER or in my doctor's office. And i get sick...
    naomie10210 naomie10210 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Ugh i hate being stressed so much :/ it makes my head hurt.. I feel like i live the same routine over and over again, whens it going to change? I dont doubt anything, but im just...
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 Jul 18

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    My parents always compared me to other people. It became so bad that I started comparing myself to other people. I would even start trying to fit other people's ideals... I want it...
    aarigel aarigel 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    My mom constantly compares me to my father. Any time I don't do something as good as she wants me to (not acing a test, not placing in a competition, not actually doing something...
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    I hate this site, full of creepy people and I'm tired of getting back! Seriously! I'm deleting my account! But for all you other nice kind people who are perverts, I am sorry. Very...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 16

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    hi i'm new here. i'm izzy :) today i'll be writing about how much i hate my face. i have struggled with acne for 3 years (I'm 14) and I've been using a special acne medicine for...
    moonbewwie moonbewwie 13-15, F Jul 16

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    I absolute hate it. Someone I thought was my best friend has just stopped speaking to me for no reason at all. This is why I hate people.
    WhiskeyRoger369 WhiskeyRoger369 16-17, M Jul 15

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    Rebecca1402 Rebecca1402 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I hate being stare at by children.I am like what the hell are you staring at me for? Do i have horn sticking out at the back of my head? Do your mom ever tell you that it's...
    Iloveowl Iloveowl 26-30, F Jul 13

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    I am seriously considering getting a tattoo which reads "Mr. nice guy." As a gay man, how can I compete for the attention of one man when he is being courted by others? The fact I...
    Lalin9090 Lalin9090 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    OMG! I totally agree with this! Like guys, I'm just lazy to talk to people which I know that they are fake and totally don't mean what they said. To me, I would rather be quiet...
    konocatherina konocatherina 18-21, F Jul 13

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    So I've decided that tomorrow I will start the ABC Diet. I can't keep being fat like this, I hate myself. If there are people out there who have done this (or is doing this...
    underwaterlilly underwaterlilly 16-17, F Jul 13

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    Lmao, I'm posting this here because the person im attempting to reply to made it so I can't say anything. So here you go: I was not looking to brag when I posted this. I was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 12

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    Hate being so ugly... That's the main reason why I've been single for so long...
    gillbobaggins gillbobaggins 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I ******* hate people! Can someone prescribe me a chill pill? That would be like the best miracle drug money can buy. Anything to keep those people off the face of the earth would...
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