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I Hate Being Compared To People

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    If you ******* compare me to someone else i

    will write down what you told me and put it in a blender and then shove it down your throat so you eat your ugly words.
    Kitry Kitry 13-15, F Oct 21, 2014

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    Feel Lost

    My best friend told me she was "struggling" with our level of intimacy and closeness. She said she did not want to send me mixed messages and would never be unfaithful to her husband of 27 years but loves being with me and loves the feeling she has when we are together (although...
    littleunsure littleunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    But Never To My Face?

    My mom always talks about me in front of others, and just today she was talking to my brother [Jay] about me, saying I was like my older brother and my dad. This is not a complement. She kept on saying how im selfish and inconsiderate like my dad and older brother. And she was...
    RainbowDaisys RainbowDaisys 13-15, F May 1, 2012

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    My family always compares me to my younger

    sister. Why can't you be better at school like your sister? Why can't you be as outgoing? Why can't you be a great dancer like your sister? Why can't you study something that is an actual career like your sister will be doing? I'm sick and tired of being compared to her because...
    lovelybones14 lovelybones14 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    Seems like people around me love to compare me

    to other people. My mom, my dad, my acquaintances, my relatives, everyone. I'm really tired of it. Like for real, I am not them, I am me, a lazy perv that loves to eat, play games, sleep and eat again.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M Sep 29, 2014

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    I hate the arrogance with which people declare that they know exactly who I am. I just came back to my hometown from college and I have changed a lot. In particular, I have become...
    puppywoof puppywoof 22-25, M 28 mins ago

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    I may live in the greatest city in the world and I love being in NYC, but dear god there is nothing more annoying than slow walking people on the sidewalks!
    AEJeansLover AEJeansLover 26-30, M 3 hrs ago

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    I swear whenever I see people being mean to others, especially if the person they're being mean to has their own problems and **** that's going on I just get fuvking pissed, like...
    drunkpunker drunkpunker 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I hate being a step mother!!! I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! I know that blending families is a hard thing to do, and I love all of my children. I am tired of feeling wrong...
    Wzv63w Wzv63w 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Damn hate being bored anyone up to chat message me
    dom8869 dom8869 26-30, M 13 hrs ago

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    IDK why he has to lie to me about things I'm not dumb he has lied in the past and still continues to lie even now. I have been lied to so many times in my life by a few ex...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate it when people accuse me or others of something they didn't do just because they only see from their eyes an not the actual event. Thy don't see why, how, or what happened...
    hallow1331 hallow1331 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I hate being lesbian because my parents are extremely homophobic and i hate i always fall in love with women i can never have. :( :(
    Iloveowl Iloveowl 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost three years. We have been together for just about seven years. I love him dearly. We are undoubtedly soul mates. People go years and...
    mottkat mottkat 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Hi I would like to vent a little bit.I Hate getting treated like I am stupid in front of my spouse friends and in laws.They treat me like I am garbage or treat me like I am stupid...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 3 days ago

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    I hate being at the bottom of the dating pool, the fact that people go out of their way just to remind us how ugly and inferior we are Life is horrible being trapped in this...
    ebonytabicat ebonytabicat 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    In my childhood, I cry easily. My mom hate it, she told me to stop crying. Crying is only for babies. I'm not a baby anymore. I know the way she said that to make me independent...
    yumemi yumemi 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Absolutely hate being sick. Hurting and running fever and it bites.
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My mom always compares me to... Herself. That's right. My mother compares her daughter to herself. She always says that she knows best, she's always right, she knows how to do...
    salmon140301 salmon140301 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    so if you don't know me please don't judge or hate me and so far people has welcomed me and I'm thankful for that :)
    AdorableBubz AdorableBubz 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    People will lie about anything these days. So pathetic! No one knows how to just be who they truly are anymore. So annoying bc I'm nothing if not honest, open, and REAL and I feel...
    UnfulfilledMe UnfulfilledMe 31-35, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    I hate being lied to if I ask something just be honest that is all
    hornywife18 hornywife18 31-35, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    I hate perverts on this site! Teenagers go on this site to help others and receive advice and actually make an effort to make someone's life a bit brighter, You guys deserve to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jun 19

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    I hate being single I've never had a girlfriend, never even had a female friend tbh I suffer from social anxiety so I hate being round lots of people plus I'm super shy and I just...
    ajit1995 ajit1995 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    What is wrong with me? I can't stand being alone with new people or even people I know but just don't speak to a lot. I panic at the thought of it. I can't order food at a...
    RadiateLove RadiateLove 16-17, F Jun 19

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    I hate it when people label me as someone who is tough, feeling-less, serious etc… and make all kinds of jokes about the way I would treat my partner. Just because I don’t...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    I hate it when people try to manipulate the situation to make you feel like you did something wrong or to make you feel horrible. I'm not stupid! I know what you're doing and I'm...
    MyEpochStory MyEpochStory 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I cannot stand being lied to. I'll find out soon enough and then it'll be harder to earn back my trust. Liars are just unnecessary in this world. I'd rather someone tell me the...
    bookaholic14 bookaholic14 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    And yet I do it to myself all the time....
    WinnieTheBear WinnieTheBear 18-21, F Jun 16

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    We have been married for 5 years but together for 12 years. We have 2 wonderful kids but I hate being stuck in this one way marriage. He hasn't worked in almost 5 years. I work...
    NoelleRose NoelleRose 36-40, F Jun 16

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    even though I hate being compared to other people my own age, I do it to myself. it's a bad habit that I wish I would break.
    bretneyc bretneyc 26-30, F Jun 16

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    It is irksome to have people in my personal space. If I invite you in, great. No worries. But when you invade my personal space, I feel so uncomfortable and violated. I hate it...
    Espiallidocious Espiallidocious 22-25, F Jun 15

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    I received a letter addressed to my now ex wife some time ago. It was from a company with Revenue Services in the title so naturally I was suspicious. I texted and asked if...
    enjoymentofquiet enjoymentofquiet 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 15

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    Hi I would like to vent a bit.I am often judge by people that dont even know me.Here is a few example.Me and my spouse moved to this apartment complex last year.And when my spouse...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 Response Jun 15

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    Being single sucks and I tried to talk to some females , but no luck. #I Hate Being Single
    antwhite22 antwhite22 22-25, M Jun 15

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    I hate being skinny. I have an athletic build and absolutely no curves. It's like I'm a a square with legs and arms and a butt. I hate my waist because it'll never be tiny compared...
    MPsWoman MPsWoman 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    I don't judge anyone everybody should be able to live the life they want to live as long as they're not hurting anybody physically I don't like being judged because I would rather...
    satinbitch58 satinbitch58 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 14

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    So, I got a new job after slaving in a hellhole for 5 years for minimum wage, that killed my self confidence and lowered all my options of my self. At one point I believed that it...
    VoicesInTheShadows VoicesInTheShadows 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 14

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    There is nothing I hate more than being compared to someone. I go absolutely crazy inside my head like a lunatic out for bloodshed. The irony of this situation is that my own...
    MynameisSei MynameisSei 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I Hate Seeing Other People Sad Or Depressed Because God Knows What They're Feeling. It's Just Incredibly Sad To Me How I Feel Like That For Others And Yet No One Does The Same For...
    STOMECOLDBABEYYY STOMECOLDBABEYYY 18-21, F Jun 13

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    u can always tell me what you feel or what u think.. true.. truth hurts sometimes but it is better to hear always the truth whether negative of positive it is.. i just hate...
    empire28 empire28 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 12

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    Everyone around me seems the hate me, the person I love is completely gone from my life, and everything just feels so empty. I miss being able to have friend to hang out with and...
    ThePiggycorn ThePiggycorn 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 12