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I Hate Being Compared To People

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    But Never To My Face?

    My mom always talks about me in front of others, and just today she was talking to my brother [Jay] about me, saying I was like my older brother and my dad. This is not a complement. She kept on saying how im selfish and inconsiderate like my dad and older brother. And she was...
    RainbowDaisys RainbowDaisys 13-15, F May 1, 2012

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    My family always compares me to my younger

    sister. Why can't you be better at school like your sister? Why can't you be as outgoing? Why can't you be a great dancer like your sister? Why can't you study something that is an actual career like your sister will be doing? I'm sick and tired of being compared to her because...
    lovelybones14 lovelybones14 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 9

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    If you ******* compare me to someone else i

    will write down what you told me and put it in a blender and then shove it down your throat so you eat your ugly words.
    Kitry Kitry 16-17, F Oct 21, 2014

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    I hate being compared to my sister.

    My friends and family compare the 2 of us, but it is mostly me that does the comparing and I wish I could stop. I just hate how she has everything that I want. She has the better body, gets way more attention from boys, she has more friends, and she's more successful. I also...
    anonymoussssss321 anonymoussssss321 18-21, F Jul 8

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    Feel Lost

    My best friend told me she was "struggling" with our level of intimacy and closeness. She said she did not want to send me mixed messages and would never be unfaithful to her husband of 27 years but loves being with me and loves the feeling she has when we are together (although...
    littleunsure littleunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    Seems like people around me love to compare me

    to other people. My mom, my dad, my acquaintances, my relatives, everyone. I'm really tired of it. Like for real, I am not them, I am me, a lazy perv that loves to eat, play games, sleep and eat again.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M Sep 29, 2014

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    Everyone wants to be heard but no one wants to listen. There are so many sad depressed lonely people just looking for people to talk to and understand, just reaching out. But you...
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    My head hurts so baddd. I hate being sick 😭😷
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    What about being judged by those who do know you!? I just got home today from a psych ward after an attempt. It feels like the whole world is judging me. From the psychiatrist at...
    staceyg685 staceyg685 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Thanks for reminding me for the thousandth time that "I am just like my friend, _____". It's greatly appreciated that I can still feel like an ******* when you feel the need to do...
    JK7448 JK7448 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    I hate myself. I hate being me. There's nothing good about being me. I wish I was dead. I can't wait till I die.
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    I hate myself because people use me, I'm not attractive, I'm so awkward that I stand out in a really bad way and most of the time I feel invisible. No one makes time for me because...
    Crazydollz Crazydollz 22-25 5 days ago

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    Instead of having the nerve to tape the fight to your phone, speculate about it, and post it on Social Media and on You Tube, why did you not do anything to help the situation...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I am incredibly sad and lonely. We moved across the country so that we could be near my husband's children and grandchildren. Instead, I've been shunned. I don't know if it's...
    jennifr1966 jennifr1966 46-50, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Being judged? hate it more than almost anything but I'm learning that if they're so judgemental and bold enough to keep saying it your face, you need to do the same! And not fight...
    Clipz4her Clipz4her 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    allenmra1 allenmra1 36-40, M 9 Responses a week ago

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    if you hate being lied to then why are you so upset when you hear the truth ?
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 25

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    Silently crying to myself under my covers because I'm ugly. I hate the way I look. No matter what I tell myself & what people tell me I still feel like such an ugly ******. Really...
    CryingMyselfToSleep CryingMyselfToSleep 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I Hate being around negative people. Maybe it is because I am from Africa and those "big problems" you have is nothing compared to what you should be THANKFULL for!! Ungratefull...
    VuurenMickey VuurenMickey 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    xnikkkix xnikkkix 13-15, F Aug 22

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    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 21

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    I hate it when people judge me as lazy and feel it's okay to make snarky comments about my weight and food purchases.
    CapeTern CapeTern 61-65, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    When I look at the definition of social anxiety it doesn't totally match my issue. I guess I am just different. First off, I get sick of being so "me oriented" but realize to...
    LaGentilleDame LaGentilleDame 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I can't stand it.. It brakes me, it steals my strength! My love for you was bullet proof, but your the one who shot me. Man oh man.. Love it when your boyfriend isn't much for...
    Catho Catho 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Its just so hard to be the ugliest one especially when they complain about how they're fat and how they're ugly when they aren't. I don't really like my face but every ones like...
    nignig1 nignig1 18-21 Aug 19

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    Ive been married for a year and a half to my husband. When we were dating I didn't mind he was previously married but now that we are married I hate being number two like it's bad...
    bchp1963 bchp1963 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I hate being a stay at home mom but at least she has started pre-k now so i get time alone finally! Finally i get some time for myself
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    I hate being deleted for no reason as well especially by a blood family member. Over the stupidest thing. I sent My aunt a video I thought was funny. I was a man changing His baby...
    jamielove7777 jamielove7777 26-30, F Aug 16

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    ab4801 ab4801 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    90% of people I talk to use me and I hate it. Oh it's okay if they have problems and they want to tell me however if I have a problem, they go quiet or just don't listen. Really, I...
    lunamoon12 lunamoon12 16-17, F Aug 15

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    When we broke up, he was VERY sad and cried openly in front of me for several hours. We actually had some of the most productive talks in the whole relationship, after breaking up...
    ExperienceisMyProject ExperienceisMyProject 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 15

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    It happens to me more often than most people think. They think that I am just another dumb girl and that I must like to go shopping and paint my nails and talk about boys all the...
    jillmyers91901 jillmyers91901 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    My grandma was a widow with seven children. My grandpa was a widower with fourteen children. They had three girls together (my mom and her sisters). Their days took place in the...
    momstermom momstermom 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Step son (17) gets away with everything and I am the evil one for pointing a few things out.... for instance...brushes his teeth and smears the tooth paste all over the mirror and...
    Mtume777 Mtume777 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    Overtherainbow66 Overtherainbow66 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 13

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