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I Hate Being Compared To People

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    My family always compares me to my younger

    sister. Why can't you be better at school like your sister? Why can't you be as outgoing? Why can't you be a great dancer like your sister? Why can't you study something that is an actual career like your sister will be doing? I'm sick and tired of being compared to her because...
    lovelybones14 lovelybones14 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2015

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    Feel Lost

    My best friend told me she was "struggling" with our level of intimacy and closeness. She said she did not want to send me mixed messages and would never be unfaithful to her husband of 27 years but loves being with me and loves the feeling she has when we are together (although...
    littleunsure littleunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    I hate being compared to my sister.

    My friends and family compare the 2 of us, but it is mostly me that does the comparing and I wish I could stop. I just hate how she has everything that I want. She has the better body, gets way more attention from boys, she has more friends, and she's more successful. I also...
    anonymoussssss321 anonymoussssss321 18-21, F Jul 8, 2015

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    If you ******* compare me to someone else i

    will write down what you told me and put it in a blender and then shove it down your throat so you eat your ugly words.
    Kitry Kitry 16-17, F Oct 21, 2014

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    Seems like people around me love to compare me

    to other people. My mom, my dad, my acquaintances, my relatives, everyone. I'm really tired of it. Like for real, I am not them, I am me, a lazy perv that loves to eat, play games, sleep and eat again.
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M Sep 29, 2014

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    Not everyone's life is same.

    I like to learn from other people's lives. But I don't like to compare myself with them.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 24, 2015

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    But Never To My Face?

    My mom always talks about me in front of others, and just today she was talking to my brother [Jay] about me, saying I was like my older brother and my dad. This is not a complement. She kept on saying how im selfish and inconsiderate like my dad and older brother. And she was...
    RainbowDaisys RainbowDaisys 13-15, F May 1, 2012

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    I hate being compared to my older sister. She got amazing grades and when I come home with a C I get screamed it. I hate it.
    rexhuggles rexhuggles 16-17, F 12 hrs ago

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    it's funny... some people says that they hate lies but they lied to themselves in the first place, calling "white lies" just to not feel bad with themselves, for me, a white lie...
    ladywarrior100 ladywarrior100 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just found out I was blocked by 14 people since I made this profile.I always thought they deleted their account lol.I don't hate it but I kinda want to know why.
    heltel heltel 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I don't understand why people feel that you have to love their children. I feel as though he should be content with the fact that I accept that he has a daughter. The fact that I...
    Jaymarie1008 Jaymarie1008 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love how people look at me... decide for me who I am when they have no idea where I have been and how strong I must have become to survive. I love it when people look at me and...
    Backspaceblogger Backspaceblogger 26-30 2 days ago

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    I'm not officially a step-mom yet and before anyone tells me that I shouldn't marry this man...I am going to someday. But...I cannot stand his children. His son, in particular...
    mmbvt mmbvt 36-40, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    i feel like people with anxiety/depression are left without a rope in terms of working society. It debilitates me in a way that i never knew the full scope of until now. Every job...
    Outoforbits Outoforbits 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    what upsets me is some people lie then they admit they lied then they say they hate being lied to. what is that called?
    myame1 myame1 46-50, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    absolutely despise it. For example i was grocery shopping at Walmart, and when I was checking out and paying for my groceries, the cashier saw the lunchables I purchased for my...
    moonlightflower moonlightflower 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    The fake people never bother to read about you, and lairs just don't care. I have added lines to let people know who I am and that I am really seeking and trying to find my long...
    manofintegrity manofintegrity 56-60, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    There are people who may judge me without even having spoken to me once and there are people who are/were my closest "friends" who judge me too. But in the end, they're not the...
    10786y 10786y 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate being judged by people about my grandma and when I try to put a sentence together sometimes I get treated as a kid when People don't let me explain things when trying to...
    Kittymad1968 Kittymad1968 46-50, M 5 days ago

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    I hate being a step mom. I made two different cakes for the family birthday on Sunday, took her to dinner and dessert last night for her birthday and today on her actual birthday...
    frecks6 frecks6 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    hate being sick been sick for 4 days now so cranky just want to get better
    Rebecca1402 Rebecca1402 13-15, F 4 Responses Jan 27

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    I'm putting this statement/rant here for a reason. If you're reading this, make sure you read all the way through before commenting, I will try to make it as short as possible. I...
    Dereth Dereth 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 27

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    Hate is such a strong word and I dislike it very much!! But under the circumstances I'm starting to have just those kind of thoughts. I've been with MH off and on for 21 long years...
    jennymike28 jennymike28 36-40, F Jan 26

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    Plain n' simple. I'm not the pretty girl at school at all, every time I'm friends with or sit next to the pretty girl of course all the time the boys give them the attention. Fml...
    Summer147648 Summer147648 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Isn't this the truth!! My wife still compares me to her ex even after being together for almost 9 years!! You would think she should know me by now!??!
    Lust4mee Lust4mee 46-50, M 4 Responses Jan 25

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    I'm afraid of being replaced and getting hurt. I try to not be attached to a lot of people and that's why I don't really have friends that I talk to on a regular basis. but I also...
    tangie00 tangie00 18-21, F Jan 25

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    I hate being sick, but then again who doesn't.
    QueenVen QueenVen 16-17, F Jan 24

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    I ******* hate being lied to. I can usually tell when someone's lying to me. I ******* know this person is lying to me, could tell from when they told me. I've also got 100% proof...
    xcheyennexsmithx xcheyennexsmithx 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    God I hate being dragged to a wedding I don't want to go to! One of the many pitfalls of marriage... Being dragged to places against your will!
    Benster5 Benster5 36-40 Jan 23

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    Hi am being being judge by my messages a my grammar and explaining things on experience project
    Kittymad1968 Kittymad1968 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 23

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    I hate being **** I'm hot I take everything off I'm cold I put everything back on. Then I try a bath to cool down or get hotter . My body so used to anabiotic's that they don't...
    Snowflake107 Snowflake107 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 22

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    About 5/6 years ago I moved to Bournemouth in the uk to start a new life and to get away from my unsupportive and hateful mother who refused to allow me to live with her in the...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    I'm sick and tired of people comparing me to others as if I don't have feelings. Just because I don't self harm, I'm not depressed? So because someone else does they're more...
    AlexisOwO AlexisOwO 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Stuff you often hear from acquaintances you bump into in Macau, my childhood hometown and current location (after being away in Portugal many years): "Waaah, haven't seen much of...
    MarcieRachelFCC MarcieRachelFCC 26-30, F Jan 21

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    oh my goodness I don't like being too hot but I hate being cold even more. tight now I'm at my sisters house and she keeps it so cold I'm bouts to leave soon ugh and it's like...
    AiymaSnikies AiymaSnikies 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 20

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    I keep thinking that with time, my stepdaughter will grow on me, but I still can't stand her. I hate being around her. I hate the fact that she exist. It's so mean, but I have to...
    Jaymarie1008 Jaymarie1008 22-25, F 5 Responses Jan 19

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    I've never had any friends or much of a social life, and this is something I've been working to change. I've been so much more active in trying to get to know people, not in an...
    Caridinals21 Caridinals21 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 18

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    I hate being a black female. Why? Because: - We're the least desirable, 40% of black women in the U.S. aren't married, which could be their choice, or the fact no one wants to...
    Summer147648 Summer147648 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 17

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    Don't most people hate it
    Joanne181 Joanne181 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 17

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    I'm in a real complicated situation in life... Don't gone bring up all here... But my feelings and emotions are not in balance. I have not go to bed togheter with my wife for I...
    realcomplicated realcomplicated 26-30, M Jan 17

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    So true! I know everybody hates liar, fake people... ME TOO! but no one can avoid it! why? IDK, I just know that the big lies of mine is to lie myself everyday and couldn't stop it...
    kimlys kimlys 18-21, F Jan 17