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I Hate Being Compared To People

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    My best friend told me she was "struggling" with our level of intimacy and closeness. She said she did not want to send me mixed messages and would never be unfaithful to her husband of 27 years but loves being with me and loves the feeling she has when we are together (although...
    littleunsure littleunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    But Never To My Face?

    My mom always talks about me in front of others, and just today she was talking to my brother [Jay] about me, saying I was like my older brother and my dad. This is not a complement. She kept on saying how im selfish and inconsiderate like my dad and older brother. And she was...
    RainbowDaisys RainbowDaisys 13-15, F May 1, 2012

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    Okay time for a rant. I honestly hate being tall. People constantly asking "How tall are you?", "How's the weather up there.", "Hey, come help me reach this!" and many more! People...
    jasonpw jasonpw 16-17, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I know it's wrong to hate who I am. God made me this way for a reason. But I hate being female. It doesn't feel right. I can't relate to other girls. I mean, I can relate to girls...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I would yell at my mom sometimes as a teen because she was a very aggravating person to deal with and on top of that I already had anger issues (don't really any more). I got up...
    boastroasttoast boastroasttoast 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    Is it just me or are loads of (young) people just signing up to attack what you wrote just for the fun of it?? Some haven't even read through the whole story and based their...
    makingimpossiblepossible makingimpossiblepossible 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I really do hate being judge by people but somehow I always end up not caring about it or even pay attention about it since I don't wake up everyday to please everyone nor look...
    Acesha16 Acesha16 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Me and my boyfriend were going through a rough patch and I missed him a lot. Most people say young people cant be in love and most of the time I agree but I love this guy to bits...
    courtneytaylor courtneytaylor 13-15, F Apr 5

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    It is tough for me because as much as I hate being in crowded places and surrounded by too many people, I really do love going to concerts.. More crowded it can't really get, right...
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I hate being mad at other people and my self. When I get mad I get really confused because I don't want to be mad at someone and it doesn't make sense to be mad at nothing or no...
    Potter66 Potter66 16-17, F Apr 7

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    Being Alone is the suckiest feeling in the world!!! I would be stuck to someone 24-7 if I could.... People say it's not healthy.... But I say, it's the way I'm made!! I hate being...
    DeeDee32 DeeDee32 31-35 a week ago

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    I hate hate hate hate communicating with people whom I'm not close with, especially new ones. I hate it the most because I'm ugly and tall and weird, I'm always standing out and...
    Planetweird Planetweird 16-17, F Mar 28

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    I really hate it, some people here use it to call the people they don't even know. I think you can call me by my username. because dear is used for a loved one either she is a girl...
    visibleme visibleme 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My parents sometimes have these little outbursts for no reason and sometimes I get the blame for said outbursts even though I didn't do anything wrong. The only times i've...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 28

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    I hate being in pain... It makes me feel sad and alone. I have poor tolerance in pain... And I hate it even more... When I am sick and weak, I just think that physical pain is just...
    graceyflux graceyflux 26-30, F Mar 29

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    Well, I hate being the youngest eldest one in our family. I'm almost 20 years old, and my family still treats me as if I'm 15 years old. Like for instance, my cousin had thrown a...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I hate being desperate for love but it is such a great feeling. I wish I never had that first relationship so that I wouldn't have to deal with this ****
    Pain1374 Pain1374 18-21, M Mar 19

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    I hate being me. My husband died of ALS, Lou Gherigs disease, and has been rotting in the ground for almost 3 years. He abused me and didn't help me in my hour of need. I now have...
    justmealaone justmealaone 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I feel like every one is using me for something I hate being used
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I hate being sick I can never do anything
    amarie0710 amarie0710 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I hate being so tall. Most of my friends my age are shorter and I look like a giant. I have only two older friends who are taller and they are male! So that doesn't really count
    Diana14R Diana14R 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I hate being ignored especially by the person I really like and care for. I know I sometimes I can be annoying I think but I think you should just tell me instead of me loving you...
    iloveyoutooboo iloveyoutooboo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I Hate Being a Teenager But I still kinda Like it .
    yoyo526 yoyo526 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I hate how some people have to freak out and argue with you about the smallest things.If my opinion is different than yours you don't have to get mad. Especially over a very...
    bunnybear321 bunnybear321 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I jusy hate it when people spell my name wrong its Tristen not Tristan or Triston or Tristian or even Tristin get it right
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M Apr 3

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    Why do people judge you easily when they don't even know you at all? Just because they didn't like my question, they reacted like as if I degrade people based on their orientation...
    MissPurple912 MissPurple912 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Oh god how I hate lies and fake complements , being honest isn't a crime !
    nero1991 nero1991 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I don't know I hate this world you know? it sucks feeling tired of life when your only 16 I tell myself , "man your barely living" ... my mistakes and pain may not me compared to...
    pangelica pangelica 16-17 Apr 10

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    I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. I moved in with him many states away and choose to leave my daughter behind with my parents so I could settle down...
    gracepinkham gracepinkham 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I feel my parents love my older brother more than me. Even though they've never said so, even though they rarely directly compares me to my brother - I know they do, all the time...
    dysfori dysfori 16-17, M Mar 26

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    I love attention, so I hate when I don't get it, especially from the people I love most, I like being the center of everything and people rely on me. I like being the one who's...
    mrij mrij 22-25, F Mar 30

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    All right, I know people come on here to either wine, or try to think about nothing but sunshine and rainbows...no offense, being positive and hopeful is good for moral.... but i...
    Dayzdreamer Dayzdreamer 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I think every day the fact I live in the world being judged. Everyone in the world is judged in some way. But one thing is very common people judged people how they talk or...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I have never felt beautiful in my entire 19 years. A few years ago, my cousins who I have always been close to told me I was ugly. I felt really horrible and my self-esteem...
    willneverbepretty willneverbepretty 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Everyone is adamant that people care more about what the heart has to offer rather than appearance, but the reality is, people DO judge us and people DO judge us based on our...
    MissMisunderstood1 MissMisunderstood1 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 29

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    All most everyday I get pick on for being shy not just by people at my school but mostly by my family and I hate it. I'm trying so hard not to be shy. I want to be an actress when...
    SandraArdell SandraArdell 16-17, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I hate when people stare at me because of my wheelchair. I understand your not used to seeing a teenager in a wheelchair but I would rather you ask questions than stare it just...
    Kaylamay17 Kaylamay17 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    During childhood I felt alone, different, and anxious. Later I became moody. I never exposed my real feelings but rather hid them away. To friends and teachers I was a happy...
    Jal172 Jal172 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I just hate the feeling of when I'm with a friend or someone I care about and they have to leave for any reason...I start to feel very heartbroken, though I don't show it on the...
    SarahBear907 SarahBear907 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    i hate people judging me the way i act and the speak.Why?simple every where go i ware boys staff and look like a boy talk like a boy even walk like a boy.I dont care,i let them...
    AthlexnaLeeJJ191001TOMBOYHD AthlexnaLeeJJ191001TOMBOYHD 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    This is a pet hate of mine. It's a perfect example of 'don't judge a book by it's cover' everybody always wonders why people have such low self esteem; it's because they're...
    AlaiahMay AlaiahMay 18-21, F Mar 23

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    What the **** is wrong with me why do people hate me so much even my twin sister hates me why am I so unlikeable
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if...
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Ran out of room for being stabbed in my back, now haters are jabbing at my sides twisting their blades. some of these wounds weren't meant to heal But every time they send me to...
    AngelaBelievesInLove AngelaBelievesInLove 22-25, F Apr 4

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    I'm constantly being taken for granted. Just because I'm nice doesn't mean I'm weak. Why is it that I have to disappear for any of them to realize I mattered. It's not only my...
    MHam0528 MHam0528 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Some people on here p**s me right off. If you ask a question or create a post, some People will just decide to comment on it even if it's not an interest or experience. They won't...
    Morninglory69 Morninglory69 26-30, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I don't think anyone will recognize how difficult and awkward it is to talk about what I want to do when I'm older, simply because I've finally set my mind on something, but it's...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I don't get why people even judge other people. Understand that they may have problems you couldn't dream of. Understand that maybe they think of suicide. Some people seem...
    rapfordays rapfordays 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    People keep missing my name by one "N". so it keeps being mispelled "Glen" instead of "Glenn"!!!! STOP IT PEOPLE! LOOK AT HOW I FREAKING SPELL IT!
    glennglog22 glennglog22 13-15, M Mar 20

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    People keep missing my name by one "N". so it keeps being mispelled "Glen" instead of "Glenn"!!!! STOP IT PEOPLE! LOOK AT HOW I FREAKING SPELL IT!
    glennglog22 glennglog22 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    I fcking hate it but it always happens especially with the people i rly care the most thats why it hurts so much. /:
    Ali7890 Ali7890 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22