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I Hate Being Compared To People

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    My best friend told me she was "struggling" with our level of intimacy and closeness. She said she did not want to send me mixed messages and would never be unfaithful to her husband of 27 years but loves being with me and loves the feeling she has when we are together (although...
    littleunsure littleunsure 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    But Never To My Face?

    My mom always talks about me in front of others, and just today she was talking to my brother [Jay] about me, saying I was like my older brother and my dad. This is not a complement. She kept on saying how im selfish and inconsiderate like my dad and older brother. And she was...
    RainbowDaisys RainbowDaisys 13-15, F May 1, 2012

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    I hate feeling as if I have to explain who I am to people. I hate feeling uncomfortable in my skin. I'm sick of feeling like I'm never good enough. I'm tired that I let things get...
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    So I just really need to get this off my chest as it is taboo to mention such things anywhere else! I hate being a stepmom!! Yes I hate it... I didn't say I hate my step kids... I...
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    I hate being alone. But its even worse whe youre surrounded by people and you still feel alone and empty. Im trying really hard to be happy but its so hard.
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    I hate being ignored by the people that I care about and that claim they care about me. I don't really mind so much if a stranger, someone that I just meet, or someone that I'm...
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    Hate being this tired and can't sleep when it's too warm arghhhhhh 😕😕😕
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    XFallingAngelX XFallingAngelX 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Hate my face . A lot . Not ever being good enough for everyone else . I mean they say it doesn't matter what society has to say but at the end it hurts what they have to say...
    Keeplurkinggg Keeplurkinggg 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    People judge me Right when they look at me they think I'm a stuck up ***** that's looks for a hot guy and that's all we'll I'm not and all I want is for people to know me before...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I hate people who judge me when they have never met me and don't know me... Like, for example, on social media.... When people thin