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I Hate Being Disabled

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    Love Lost, Love Found, The One I Thought I Knew

    I had been holding a torch for a man I met when I was in high school and It continued for several years after.  I knew I was in love with him because I let stupid sh** fly with him, I was severely crushed when he called to talk to me one day after I found out he cheated and that...
    mek241 mek241 31-35, F Apr 19, 2011

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    It's The Worst Thing In My Life

    It is difficult to know where to start on the topic of disability. It casts it shadow over the whole of my existence. Being disabled is awful. Truly awful. The disabled of this world are rejected, forgotten, and pitied as second class citizens. Think: when was the last time you...
    loveland loveland 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    I don't like being different from everybody

    else. I get called disabled just because of my eyesight problem, why? Things that are really easy for lots of people are really hard for me. If I want to go to a shop, I first have to learn the rout to there and practise it lots of times. I'm being ungrateful I know, but you...
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Hate Being Disabled

    The countless things I am unable to do, can really put a strain on my mental strength sometimes. I was born with multiple epiphyseal dysplasia. Basically, I am a dwarf with fused bones in my knees, arms, feet, and fingers. I can't stand people who stare, yes, I am disabled thank...
    jbone35 jbone35 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    is There Anyone Out There?

    l cnt do enithing with my life becos there are so many complications, is t wrong 2 wish l was dead? No-one understands wht l have to deal with evriday, pple think am lazy or pretending 2 b n dis situation. l dnt knw wht to do ,l juc wanna jump off a cliff or sumthing bcos...
    Nisha89 Nisha89 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    I Wiish I Was Normal Like Everyone Else

    I became disabled after my son's birth. The doctors told me oh you'll get better. This is common for a woman. Well it didn't get better. I've had 2 surgeries for it. One of my doctors said another surgery probably would not help me. I'm getting reevaluated for disability. I know...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    'don't Ruin His Illusions'

    I had a friend at school who was disabled like myself. He was desperate for a girlfreind so several of the schools support assistants convinced him that various girls fancied him but they didn't even talk to him in fact they completely ignored him.But he completely beleived he...
    james666 james666 16-17 2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    Everything Changed In The blink Of An Eye

    I was 6 months pregnant and teetering at the top of the stairs.I started to have severe pain in my back and left hip which made walking difficult. My excited puppy had run underneath my feet and caused me to trip the entire way down. Falls happen all the time. I would have to...
    Gwenevieve Gwenevieve 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2012

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    I Dont Do Hurricanes Well

    i was in the miami area for my third hurricane of the 2008 season and i was crushed when the wind caught the trailer door (i am a truck driver) it was Ivan not a very devastating storm but i was crush @ stomach area @the bottom of ribs i cant seem to come to terms with all...
    lookininem1 lookininem1 46-50 2 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Astounding But True

    I actually don't like being disabled. I don't like being the odd one out. I actually don't enjoy walking through a shopping mall and seeing every second 4 year old say "mummy, why does that man walk like that" and then seeing mummy looking mortified at her child for...
    Musical Musical 36-40, M 17 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    Used To Hate It

    When I was young, I used to hate my disability. I never even thought of it as disability, but as personal shortcoming. But now I accept and embrace my situation.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 17, 2010

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    I Absolutley Love My Life

    I hate being disabled.Kids stare at you, Adults think of you as frail creatures, and teens reject you all together. I also hate the praying people. The " If you pray, God will cure you" people. I mean No amount of Scientific treatment can cure it, what makes you think...
    Disabledhero Disabledhero 18-21 4 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    I Love Cyber Sex.

    I have just been over to the adult section, and i came upon lots of cyber sex groups, and yes!! there was not one for the disabled!!, Do they think just because we are disabled that we dont have sexual feeling!!. Why dont you just join one of the ordinary one you may ask!, well...
    Leslieonline Leslieonline 51-55, M Nov 8, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    It didn't use to be this bad. I just felt like being a guy was better, but now it's at a whole other level. I look into a mirror and I see breasts, I see a vagina, and I hate...
    WhiteSparrow127 WhiteSparrow127 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I dislike talking about this sort of thing. I suppose it is because it makes me feel weak, I don't know. I have not felt right since I was really little. I have been anxious...
    jord4567 jord4567 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I don't like being black. From my experience being black is the worst thing ever that happened to me. Black? What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    Okay first off, I'm not homeless poor but I also struggle. I'm still in high school, and I don't have a job at the time being. I feel like expressing myself right now, so if I...
    sapphireveins sapphireveins 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    i really, really ******* hate being an introvert. maybe "introvert" isn't really the right word though, i think that something along the lines of a person who suffers from social...
    BlaRiix BlaRiix 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I think its called monophobia. The fear of being alone. I've always just thought that it was normal, that feeling you get when you're alone. I found out recently it wasn't...
    NyBrid NyBrid 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate being lied to especially If i'm honest with you 24/7. If I lied to you like you lie to me, you would hate me, think about how it would feel before you constantly lie and...
    Faithlovee Faithlovee 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I hate being angry. And one of those instances is now when I get accused for something which I am sure wasn't my fault. And even if there was a chance it was my fault then why is...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I hate being lied too I'm sure everyone does so why it go on? It's the golden rule treat others the way you'd like to be treated so I expect you to not lie to me and I won't lie to...
    chickensoup17 chickensoup17 18-21, M Jul 22

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    I'm 5'1 and I hated being short all my life . I don't get it my brother is 6'1 and my younger sister is 5'4 . What happened to me !! Lol. When I was in my twenties people use to...
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F Jul 27

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    I absolutely hate being cold in bed. I am so glad to be married and we keep each other warm all night long. We both love being woken up during the night for some great hot sex...
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F Aug 9

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    I friggin hate being sick. Just started last night with a stuffy nose & today I've been sneezing all day & my throat hurt a little now I keep feeling the urge to sneeze & my throat...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It sux being here alone wit no one to tlk to...hate being alone...just lookn for sumone to make me feel good
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 days ago

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    I fking hate being misunderstood. It makes my blood boil, and makes me want to cry. I'm a good person, I take the time to figure out what someone is trying to say. I hear them out...
    dat1kiid dat1kiid 16-17 Jul 24

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    I hate being angry because when I am angry I sin and I feel so badly and fear I disappoint God. I always apologize to God when I calm down but I feel so guilty because the next...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jul 26

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    I hate being used by players. I always tell myself that I'll never fall for another one again and yet I do, over and over again. I feel like, to guys, I'm only good enough for sex...
    xkylie xkylie 18-21, F Jul 28

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    I hate being ignored because wen im trying to talk with someone , and they dont say say nothing . I feel like im a ghost or something , like today i try to tell my mom something...
    paola93 paola93 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 28

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    I really hate being the youngest. My family blames everything on me & constantly tells me to shut up. Like that's their favorite saying. I won't even be saying anything and my mom...
    isabellamancini isabellamancini 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    When I'm rushed just to be annoying I take even longer. I just hate being rushed so much!
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F Aug 3

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    If you don't like me then tell me. If you don't want to talk to me tell me. If you decide I'm too broken for you to be around or that you can't stand me, tell me. I hate being...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I hate being yelled, so I help them who yelled at me by doing the oposites so they yell more until it reach the top of their lung. I tried that last time. And it works. Someone...
    sashimi9 sashimi9 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I can't be lied too. I see the truth always. It is the worst. Its like when people talk I can hear and see what's true and what's not. I got engaged recently and I'm so scared...
    seistafiesta seistafiesta 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    I hate being in school because of all the mean ****** old teachers that make you run 4 laps around the astro or write the rules out 15 times for doing something wrong... But then...
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    Ugh... Have the stomach flu. Came out of NOWHERE last night... Up vomiting all night long, so achey and exhausted this morning. I feel horrible. I really hate being sick! It's...
    Anxiousgirl13 Anxiousgirl13 18-21 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    It was a rainy day and I woke up feeling like ****. My tummy was aching like crazy and I was dizzy. I was to weak to even get out of bed. "Muum" I groaned. "Muuuuuumm!!" I couldn't...
    GingaJustice GingaJustice 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    :L Me and my step brother have had a very complicated relationship (romantic/s*x*al) in the past, but it stopped (please look at my other posts for further details on that)Anyway a...
    OtakuGirl911 OtakuGirl911 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    All my life I have been insecure. I was born with spina bifida. I was the only disabled kid in my town growing up and always felt like a bit of an outsider. I've always been a bit...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M Aug 11

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    I am tired of people giving me disgusted looks when I'm out with my Wife. People laughed at her at my sisters wake, at a company Christmas party, it goes on and on. She may not be...
    Burnoutasaurus Burnoutasaurus 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    Life itself takes effort and wisdom; patience and self control. Some people have mastered self discipline while others are slaves to every desire even though they find themselves...
    Mirandaluvslife Mirandaluvslife 36-40, F Jul 23

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    I don't hate you. I don't hate that we failed. I don't hate myself. I don't hate that it was a mistake to marry you. But I hate that you lied to me over and over. More, I hate...
    icandoit13 icandoit13 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I hate it, and i know this sounds crazy, but i hate missing school and staying in bed, almost more than i hate the actual symptoms. Dad told me this morning i wasn't allowed to go...
    bridgetdarcy998 bridgetdarcy998 18-21 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Everyone, even family members talk about how skinny I am. My mom and sister both have curves. Whenever I talk about trying to gain weight, my mother tells me I should be happy. She...
    Cinderellany Cinderellany 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    I like my alone time now and then, but seeing a group of my (once) I think?, friends is really upsetting. And seeing the one person there who I was basically my friend and I was...
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I keep being ignored by people around me whether in skul ,home or public .I used to be able to talk cheerfully around ppl but ,after being ignored many times i became scared and...
    Appolo123 Appolo123 13-15, M Aug 14

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    I hate always finishing last and being used I guess it's my own fault cuz I can't say no or be mean I can be honest but I can't be the complete jerk who takes advantage of whoever...
    Waqasauce01 Waqasauce01 16-17, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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