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I Hate Being Disabled

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    Everything Changed In The blink Of An Eye

    I was 6 months pregnant and teetering at the top of the stairs.I started to have severe pain in my back and left hip which made walking difficult. My excited puppy had run underneath my feet and caused me to trip the entire way down. Falls happen all the time. I would have to...
    Gwenevieve Gwenevieve 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2012

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    Since my son: I was born with severe Cerebral

    Palsy that, as near as I can figure out, affects the Motor and Broca's areas of my brain. I cannot, talk, feed, bathe, and can barely control how I move myself. Now up until about ten months ago I was more annoyed by my lack of capabilities then angry. Then my girlfriend became...
    DisabledBoy DisabledBoy 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 14

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    Hate Being Disabled

    The countless things I am unable to do, can really put a strain on my mental strength sometimes. I was born with multiple epiphyseal dysplasia. Basically, I am a dwarf with fused bones in my knees, arms, feet, and fingers. I can't stand people who stare, yes, I am disabled thank...
    jbone35 jbone35 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I Wiish I Was Normal Like Everyone Else

    I became disabled after my son's birth. The doctors told me oh you'll get better. This is common for a woman. Well it didn't get better. I've had 2 surgeries for it. One of my doctors said another surgery probably would not help me. I'm getting reevaluated for disability. I know...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    I don't like being different from everybody

    else. I get called disabled just because of my eyesight problem, why? Things that are really easy for lots of people are really hard for me. If I want to go to a shop, I first have to learn the rout to there and practise it lots of times. I'm being ungrateful I know, but you...
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I Dont Do Hurricanes Well

    i was in the miami area for my third hurricane of the 2008 season and i was crushed when the wind caught the trailer door (i am a truck driver) it was Ivan not a very devastating storm but i was crush @ stomach area @the bottom of ribs i cant seem to come to terms with all...
    lookininem1 lookininem1 46-50 2 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    I Absolutley Love My Life

    I hate being disabled.Kids stare at you, Adults think of you as frail creatures, and teens reject you all together. I also hate the praying people. The " If you pray, God will cure you" people. I mean No amount of Scientific treatment can cure it, what makes you think...
    Disabledhero Disabledhero 18-21 4 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Love Lost, Love Found, The One I Thought I Knew

    I had been holding a torch for a man I met when I was in high school and It continued for several years after.  I knew I was in love with him because I let stupid sh** fly with him, I was severely crushed when he called to talk to me one day after I found out he cheated and that...
    mek241 mek241 31-35, F Apr 19, 2011

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    It's The Worst Thing In My Life

    It is difficult to know where to start on the topic of disability. It casts it shadow over the whole of my existence. Being disabled is awful. Truly awful. The disabled of this world are rejected, forgotten, and pitied as second class citizens. Think: when was the last time you...
    loveland loveland 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    is There Anyone Out There?

    l cnt do enithing with my life becos there are so many complications, is t wrong 2 wish l was dead? No-one understands wht l have to deal with evriday, pple think am lazy or pretending 2 b n dis situation. l dnt knw wht to do ,l juc wanna jump off a cliff or sumthing bcos...
    Nisha89 Nisha89 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    'don't Ruin His Illusions'

    I had a friend at school who was disabled like myself. He was desperate for a girlfreind so several of the schools support assistants convinced him that various girls fancied him but they didn't even talk to him in fact they completely ignored him.But he completely beleived he...
    james666 james666 16-17 2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    I Love Cyber Sex.

    I have just been over to the adult section, and i came upon lots of cyber sex groups, and yes!! there was not one for the disabled!!, Do they think just because we are disabled that we dont have sexual feeling!!. Why dont you just join one of the ordinary one you may ask!, well...
    Leslieonline Leslieonline 51-55, M Nov 8, 2010

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    Used To Hate It

    When I was young, I used to hate my disability. I never even thought of it as disability, but as personal shortcoming. But now I accept and embrace my situation.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 17, 2010

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    Astounding But True

    I actually don't like being disabled. I don't like being the odd one out. I actually don't enjoy walking through a shopping mall and seeing every second 4 year old say "mummy, why does that man walk like that" and then seeing mummy looking mortified at her child for...
    Musical Musical 36-40, M 17 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    I hate being judged by pathetic nasty people who have **** all better to do than be nasty and horrible to me and call me a creep etc for no ******* reason Just because I actually...
    caringcutie caringcutie 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
    kikinators kikinators 26-30, F Aug 26

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    I'm gay. Last September, I met this guy online a week before he moves to Edinburgh to study abroad for a year. I grew fond of him almost immediately and stayed in touch with him...
    Canonea Canonea 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    i hate being a twin. Im the ugly one. everyone choses her over me. imagine being IDENTICAL and people chosing her over you . it ****** sucks. hatebeing a twin
    whoami7 whoami7 13-15, F Sep 1

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    I hate the fact i still need to wait 4 years to drive a car. I love the fact that i dont need to work yet. I hate the fact that i have to go to school. I love the fact that i have...
    iTzzMike iTzzMike 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Okay seriously. If your busy tell me!!! I friggin hate being ignored. Like I can't even tell you how much I hate. & especially when it comes to clueless D.A guys. You can't say you...
    Country00Girl Country00Girl 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 25

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    I hate it, I hate being lied to, I mean it. So since I don't trust anyone, the good thing for me that I have found out is just don't f****** care about it. Because It's gonna hurt...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21, T 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't hate being an adult, but has anyone realized how fast your days are going by based on when your bills are due? Every week a bill is due, lol.
    MetaKat MetaKat 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Hate being ignored .. I want a sincere one around me always
    kevinmattt kevinmattt 46-50, M Aug 25

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    I hate being nice to little ***** who don't deserve it. *******....
    BrutallyHonest316 BrutallyHonest316 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I hate being skinny. There's nothing more to say about it. My friends are always telling me how I should eat more, but really I eat just as much as any person, or even more! I just...
    xgirlyx xgirlyx 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    Ok so I hate being judged in general. I would be more open about my crossdressing to people I know IRL but I'm afraid to hear there reactions and they would think differently of me...
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Sep 3

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    I love someone, he was once my close friend, we sometimes spend our times together, swimming, bicycling, and many more. Everytime i looked at his face, i just want to say, i love...
    Freimm Freimm 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I hate being sick. Now for some reason, I've been sick (cold, flu) for past two weeks. It's so horrible. I've been few days at work and tried to live my life, but it just doesn't...
    ddaa0 ddaa0 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    I really hate being tickled.... I get violent. I literally have hurt people for tickling me. Not on purpose! But if you tickle me expect my physical reaction to be a punch, a kick...
    dazikame79 dazikame79 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I hate being bored stuck in a big city no friend hear and don't know what to do. why did I move?
    num1nat num1nat 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate the fact that I'm turning into what I hate. I hated pervs and I became one, I hate cheaters yet I became one, I hated mean people yet I became one, and I hate people who...
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M Aug 29

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    I see so many comments about how so many people stereotype and hate Americans based on our movies, tv shows and even worse our government... I.e. "way to go you arrogant americans...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 14

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    Before I start, please know I try to do all I can to be a great mom to my SD. I am involved with her school/ activities, homework, I take her places, make her meals, buy her...
    MargeSimpson31 MargeSimpson31 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I am 38 weeks +3 days now. This whole pregnancy pretty much has beena nightmare come true. I never wanted another child. I sure as hell do not want to experience labor again but...
    dollhex dollhex 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Okay so im 14 and im 5"10 and i wear a size 10. Btw im a girl. I really hate my height. Like idky other girls are like being tall is so cool n blah blah saying they wish they were...
    imbeyonce imbeyonce 13-15, F Aug 31

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    I'm exactly five feet tall and I absolutely hate it. Sure it great because you are "little and cute" but what if I don't want to be portrayed as that? Here's what it's like...I...
    LovelyLuna253 LovelyLuna253 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I hate the fact that he's not here anymore. I hate the fact that we can't talk anymore. I hate the fact that we can't think of meeting each other anymore. But worst of all, I hate...
    Moon95 Moon95 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Well, the title says it all. I hate when people tell me fake lies so I give them sympathy. People in school tell me bunch of lies which are super unbelievable. For example...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    (From my other account that's being deleted) The touch of a hand on my shoulder, the contact of a kiss on my head, or the feel of a hug, I cannot bare. Not even a friendly...
    kelseytoby1337 kelseytoby1337 16-17 Sep 2

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    It's not that hard just to say "I'm busy", "I hate you", or "I don't want to talk to you anymore". I'd rather hear the reason no matter how hard to accept it than being ignored or...
    Rinkika Rinkika 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 25

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    I've always hated it since I was a kid being alone even though publicly I like to have somebody with me but be independent aswell even though I'm shy I always like to be around...
    Cloclo1234 Cloclo1234 13-15, F Aug 27

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    So, I am Native American and where I live there are plenty of them. Many of my friends are hispanic and to them, my race is a joke. I constantly hear how Native Americans are...
    anonn93 anonn93 18-21 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I love my time all to myself but hate the feeling that I'm all alone. To be surrounded by so many people kind of freaks me out but I also need that one person to talk too so I won...
    honeybree20 honeybree20 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    i like being alone but i hate feeling alone i wish people would text me more so it felt like someone is thinking of me or misses me
    justashyguy87 justashyguy87 26-30, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    Or do I? Has anyone ever felt like they should lie because being honest can cause more fuss than it's worth? I often refuse to censor my language and you would drown in all the...
    Unalike Unalike 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 13

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    My husband and I met a year and a half ago and fell in love super fast. When we started dating he said he was divorced and had a son who was 6. I found that cute. Being a teacher...
    expressmom expressmom 26-30, F 7 Responses Aug 24

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    I absolutely hate it when people ask me to smile. The strange thing is, is that it's always men who tell me to do this and its happened multiple times and still happens to this day...
    teeohfancy teeohfancy 18-21, F Sep 7

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    Don't you just hate those moments, when someone you consider a friends says they went through with something you asked them, While, unbeknownst to them, you know how to check if...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 10