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I Hate Being Disabled

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 86 People

    I Wiish I Was Normal Like Everyone Else

    I became disabled after my son's birth. The doctors told me oh you'll get better. This is common for a woman. Well it didn't get better. I've had 2 surgeries for it. One of my doctors said another surgery probably would not help me. I'm getting reevaluated for disability. I know...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 19, 2009

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    Used To Hate It

    When I was young, I used to hate my disability. I never even thought of it as disability, but as personal shortcoming. But now I accept and embrace my situation.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 17, 2010

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    Astounding But True

    I actually don't like being disabled. I don't like being the odd one out. I actually don't enjoy walking through a shopping mall and seeing every second 4 year old say "mummy, why does that man walk like that" and then seeing mummy looking mortified at her child for...
    Musical Musical 36-40, M 18 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    I Love Cyber Sex.

    I have just been over to the adult section, and i came upon lots of cyber sex groups, and yes!! there was not one for the disabled!!, Do they think just because we are disabled that we dont have sexual feeling!!. Why dont you just join one of the ordinary one you may ask!, well...
    Leslieonline Leslieonline 51-55, M Nov 8, 2010

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    'don't Ruin His Illusions'

    I had a friend at school who was disabled like myself. He was desperate for a girlfreind so several of the schools support assistants convinced him that various girls fancied him but they didn't even talk to him in fact they completely ignored him.But he completely beleived he...
    james666 james666 16-17 2 Responses Sep 16, 2008

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    Hate Being Disabled

    The countless things I am unable to do, can really put a strain on my mental strength sometimes. I was born with multiple epiphyseal dysplasia. Basically, I am a dwarf with fused bones in my knees, arms, feet, and fingers. I can't stand people who stare, yes, I am disabled thank...
    jbone35 jbone35 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 30, 2013

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    I don't like being different from everybody

    else. I get called disabled just because of my eyesight problem, why? Things that are really easy for lots of people are really hard for me. If I want to go to a shop, I first have to learn the rout to there and practise it lots of times. I'm being ungrateful I know, but you...
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 16-17, F 6 Responses Jul 12, 2014

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    I Dont Do Hurricanes Well

    i was in the miami area for my third hurricane of the 2008 season and i was crushed when the wind caught the trailer door (i am a truck driver) it was Ivan not a very devastating storm but i was crush @ stomach area @the bottom of ribs i cant seem to come to terms with all...
    lookininem1 lookininem1 46-50 2 Responses Mar 31, 2010

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    Everything Changed In The blink Of An Eye

    I was 6 months pregnant and teetering at the top of the stairs.I started to have severe pain in my back and left hip which made walking difficult. My excited puppy had run underneath my feet and caused me to trip the entire way down. Falls happen all the time. I would have to...
    Gwenevieve Gwenevieve 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 3, 2012

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    Since my son: I was born with severe Cerebral

    Palsy that, as near as I can figure out, affects the Motor and Broca's areas of my brain. I cannot, talk, feed, bathe, and can barely control how I move myself. Now up until about ten months ago I was more annoyed by my lack of capabilities then angry. Then my girlfriend became...
    DisabledBoy DisabledBoy 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    I Absolutley Love My Life

    I hate being disabled.Kids stare at you, Adults think of you as frail creatures, and teens reject you all together. I also hate the praying people. The " If you pray, God will cure you" people. I mean No amount of Scientific treatment can cure it, what makes you think...
    Disabledhero Disabledhero 18-21 4 Responses Aug 25, 2009

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    Love Lost, Love Found, The One I Thought I Knew

    I had been holding a torch for a man I met when I was in high school and It continued for several years after.  I knew I was in love with him because I let stupid sh** fly with him, I was severely crushed when he called to talk to me one day after I found out he cheated and that...
    mek241 mek241 31-35, F Apr 19, 2011

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    is There Anyone Out There?

    l cnt do enithing with my life becos there are so many complications, is t wrong 2 wish l was dead? No-one understands wht l have to deal with evriday, pple think am lazy or pretending 2 b n dis situation. l dnt knw wht to do ,l juc wanna jump off a cliff or sumthing bcos...
    Nisha89 Nisha89 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

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    It's The Worst Thing In My Life

    It is difficult to know where to start on the topic of disability. It casts it shadow over the whole of my existence. Being disabled is awful. Truly awful. The disabled of this world are rejected, forgotten, and pitied as second class citizens. Think: when was the last time you...
    loveland loveland 41-45, M 15 Responses Oct 27, 2012

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    I hate hate hate being a boy. I wish and wish and wish i was born a girl or i can change my gender into a girl. I am a girl trapped in a guy's body which sucks. I hate life like...
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    I HATE being ignored yesterday at school I asked someone a question and all he did was... Well NOTHING and I have a bit of a temper!!! Anyone else hate being ignored???
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    I try to shy away from this experience, but I can't deny the truth. It's not necessarily the fact that I hate being ugly. It's the fact that humans are repulsed by my appearance. I...
    Answerswouldbenice Answerswouldbenice 31-35, M 2 Responses May 12

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    i hate it so much. its the worst curse in this world. all these other races dont know how i lucky they are. they are not darkskin and ugly and have no assets. i hate being black so...
    ineedhelp122 ineedhelp122 18-21, F 2 Responses May 17

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    I hate being lied to cause my friend tell me that they hate me and they say it a lot so I don't know if they are kidding anymore or not😥😥😥
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    I hate being a stay at home Mum to my children, aged 3.5 and 1. I don't find it in the least bit fulfilling. I resent them because I am trapped with them all day, everyday and I...
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    I have been heavy my entire life, except when I was 15. My grandparent were harsh, my grandfather would call me a pig in Greek all the time, tell me im lazy because I was smart but...
    ImOnlyMe84 ImOnlyMe84 26-30, F May 17

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    I despise myself for being so weak, and for showing my weakness to other people. I thought that it was for my best. I thought that it can help me personally, so they can help me...
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    Today has been a pretty rough day, as we're in the middle of a move. I got hit so hard in the with the boat trailer (the tired were flat, so we had to put it in the back of the...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 2 Responses May 3

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    I hate being called (or people insinuating that I'm) worthless, or will never be good enough.
    zydeko zydeko 18-21 May 3

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    Kinda frustrated at this point. It seems like no one cares. I absolutely hate being ignored and stuff. Is that wrong? It sounds bratty, but I guess that's because I always used to...
    lizygurl lizygurl 18-21, F 4 Responses May 6

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    I hate being grounded, its so boring, anyone fancy chatting on yahoo? i'm on as same name. so there goes my weekend grrrr :( Toni (almost 19yo f in uk)
    dancingToni95 dancingToni95 18-21, F 2 Responses May 7

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    I hate being ignored as you try and ask people to come out then they don't bother sending you a message. I was meant to go out with a girl today but could get hold of her.
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    by ANYONE . I mean I am saying anyone and anything ok ? And I hate being judged and misunderstood.
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    I hate being proved wrong.
    vncvmfvrtvble vncvmfvrtvble 18-21, F May 11

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    I hate being sick my stomack is hurting and I don't feel good
    jamesb2244 jamesb2244 22-25, M 1 Response May 12

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    God I hate being sick....life is a fu*king bi*ch..
    CanadianBunny CanadianBunny 16-17, F 2 Responses May 12

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    I Hate being asked irrelevant questions like, why are u soo quiet, why did u move out technically any Question that needs some reason behind it. Especially by peers. Like what will...
    NamzyZizi NamzyZizi 16-17, F May 17

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    I think I hate being yelled at because I didn't have a family that yelled. I know other people that had had alot of yelling in their family and now it's no big deal them. To me it...
    Morrgin Morrgin 31-35, F 4 Responses May 18

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    I hate being alive having to deal with bullies
    lonelybutfriendly lonelybutfriendly 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I think it's ironic that with all the equal rights awareness and no bullying campaigns people still not only judge harshly but use cruel words. I believe instead of improving as...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 2 Responses May 7

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    I wish I was anything else besides human. I hate my life it sucks and I have nobody in my life. Being human means that you have to talk to other people in order to survive and...
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    I don't mind being alone, but I hate the feeling of not having any one... I guess I'm used to it. So many years of being excluded in my class.
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