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I Hate Being Ignored

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    He keeps on ignoring myessages

    and he doesn't even know that I like him . I'm sad but also curious.
    MartinJust MartinJust 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    Its like i am invisible .

    . When i am being ignored it is like that person is slowly killing me inside. I absolutely hate it with a passion, that most people would not understand. I have been ignored my entire life, by everyone I know. Nobody ever listens to me, it's like I'm not there. Expect I am there...
    ItsAllASecret ItsAllASecret 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    kimmykins kimmykins 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate when I clearly get ignored

    when I send messages countless times without any replies, if you don't wanna talk to me, let me know I ain't going to throw a hissy fit lol but completely ignoring someone is just beyond me
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 5 Responses Feb 11

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    A big pet hate if mine being ignored.

    .. Cannot stand it... Not trying to be disrespectful to men or anything... Or cause a stir there, I know all men are different. I have had a few men ask me for my number want to be involved with me, and I have had each of these men say how beautiful I am, even one of them I...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I was getting a coffee

    and met this guy.i was attracted to his accent. I decided to stay a little and had a conversation. He finally ask my number because he thought that I'm stunning and Beautiful. She said right there and then that he liked me blah blah blah...... We were planning to meet but...
    Yojj13 Yojj13 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    So, I know she ignores me

    because she's seeking my attention, but when I ignore her back, she gets all emotional. **** you.
    honestadvisegiver25 honestadvisegiver25 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    Am I not good enough

    for your attention right now?
    iiArial iiArial 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I just hate those types of friends

    when you're talking to them and they ignore the crap out of you for no reason at all and make you look like a fool in front of others like they think they're important or some ****.
    keij10307 keij10307 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Honestly, it's like one of the most frustrating

    things ever. Especially when people ignore you on purpose won't no good reason.
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why would you talk to me everyday,

    and then just stop? Like, that's not okay.
    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    katelve katelve 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's funny how you told me you'd never be one

    of those people that cast me aside yet I knew you would in the end. I was right again. And to think that if anyone could make things work out, it'd be us. I guess I spoke too soon huh? Maybe we're just better off without one another.
    GinaBina45 GinaBina45 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Especially by people

    who complain no one ever talks to them, even though when people try they ignore them completely. It's even more fu*king arrogant when they do it in person,. when you know they can hear you when they are stood right next to you but they pretend you do not exist. These are the...
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    I hate it when my husband just ignore me

    everytime he hears the truth.
    ShanSai ShanSai 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I hate when someone insults you

    and then you say something back and they ignore you because you had a good comeback,its lame
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Its sucks that i dont want to go to camp this

    up coming month because my friends ditch me or they make me feel like im a bother to them but fck i wish they could walk in my shoes and see how it feels to be me but im to shy to say and thing so i just go along with it fml
    desitor desitor 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I don't have the heart to ignore someone I care

    about. I don't understand how other people can do this with no remorse. People suck.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 5

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    I think it's rude for people to ignore messages

    or phone calls. Why do they do it? I don't mean the odd message or call. Do some think they are more important than others?
    Lonelyone6 Lonelyone6 46-50, F 15 Responses May 12

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    I hate it so much. I feel invisible

    and I feel like no one remembers me. My parents always focus on my brother because he ODed three years ago. (Wow... It's really been that long.) I know they have their reasons but I have problems too. When I get home can you ask me about MY day not HIS?
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    onedirectionlover123 onedirectionlover123 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Happens Constantly Though Lol

    I've always been a doormat (not saying I still like it, not saying I want to be this way either) Granted I've been an ******* to my fair share of people. But some of it has came back to bite me in the ***. Putting your effort completely into a friendship or whatever, just for...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Jun 16, 2012

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    I hate when people take to long to answer my

    questions. It literally ****** me off. I feel unimportant
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I hate it. It's my pet peeve

    when I ask something and the clearly hear it but don't answer. It's the thing that will set me off. A kid 5'9 in a town of people mostly shorter than me (lol idk why but it is) that can bench 230 and is 195 pounds who also happens to have a temperament type of ADHD is NOT. A...
    TheStillmanator TheStillmanator 13-15, M Aug 6

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    Ignore me and I will virtually smack you upside

    the head and fly kick you in the face. :'c I don't like it! It's not nice! D: It makes me feel small.
    ThatAwkwardPanda ThatAwkwardPanda 13-15 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate when you think you have a connection

    with someone and then you don't hear from them.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    It Sucks...

    Being ignored is not cool at all, but what can you do if someone or some people ignore you. Sometimes I take it personally when "friends" ignore me because I'm not as "cool", as "smart", or as "good-looking" for them to be interested...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 13 Responses Jul 14, 2008

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    moonlightdancer1967 moonlightdancer1967 46-50, F 3 Responses May 30

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    I hate being ignored.

    Being looked over. Being passed by. I say this because I learned I was placed in a Junior choir rather than the Senior choir I auditioned for (I'm gonna be a senior this upcoming year). It peeves me that there is some debate as to my placement, as one choir teacher says its the...
    SavedByMCR SavedByMCR 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    This is mostly for people

    who have tried to contact me recently. I apologise if you have tried to contact me, recently I haven't been able to get wifi unless my brother lets me use his. So I haven't been able to get on here to see if anybody has messaged me. I'm not ignoring you, I will respond as soon...
    EmmaLL1999 EmmaLL1999 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I get really upset if people don't answer

    when I text them or don't respond when I write them something on Facebook. That happens to me very often, way more often than it should. I feel like nowadays young adults and teens show a total lack of responsability and committment when it comes to friendships.
    Tarik19 Tarik19 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 8

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    Being Ignored

    makes me feel worthless. makes me feel like i am not good enough. makes me feel bad about who i am as a person. but then i try hard to remember that other peoples issues should not make me feel bad about myself. only i can make me feel bad about myself. its hard, so very hard to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 5, 2011

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    I may be mad. But it's more maddening to be

    ignored. Well? you think I'm talking bullshit aren't you? Well truth is, facts and my feelings are **** and bull. I'm real. I don't give stupid excuses because even my reasons sound like stupid excuses. But those are my reasons and they're real. Really? Who says truth isn't...
    MeXYours MeXYours 16-17, F Aug 9

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    I am a pretty easy going guy

    but this is something that heats me up rather quickly. These days where you get told when someone reads your texts or e-mails and they don't respond...just a level of rudeness that bothers me. Seems silly as the wide world is busier then my personal needs but just can't shake it...
    JackisMe JackisMe 41-45, M 2 Responses May 17

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    When people ignore me it bothers the hell out

    of me ESPECIALLY on TEXT Like I know u read the text I know ur on just text me back like wtf -,-
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    Don't Stop Talking To Me,

    Then Decide You Want To Talk To Talk To Me Again And Think Everything Is Gonna Be Ice Cream And Lollipops...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 28

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    Im in this sort of long distance relationship

    with a guy, but its all new. So today we afreed to come on Skype to videochat for the first time. Its been 1,5 hour and im still waiting. He didnt show up and when i ask him on text like where are you? You said you wanted to see me? He just goes yeh be patient. This really sucks...
    fvckimfaded fvckimfaded 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I hate it when someone hasn't talked to you all

    summer and when you get to school they're all like "ugh you got so anti over the summer" ***** wtf. You're the one that hasn't texted me for 3 months -,- ****.
    XCameronnXx XCameronnXx 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I keep being ignored by people around me

    whether in skul ,home or public .I used to be able to talk cheerfully around ppl but ,after being ignored many times i became scared and now i get really nervous and uncomfortable around ppl.I don't really blame any of them ,because sometimes i would talk a lot crap ,even i oso...
    Appolo123 Appolo123 13-15, M a week ago

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    I hate feeling like an option

    when I should be a priority
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I hate waiting for a text.

    Im super awesome and u're missing out!
    jumpingoffthecliff jumpingoffthecliff 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    itsmebtw17 itsmebtw17 16-17, F 3 Responses May 20

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    Its Just Plain Rude

    I have this feeling at the moment that I am being ignored....They used to speak to me all the time,Sending messages and love,Yet now there is nothing....And no reason that I can see.If you have a problem with me, Dont ignore me like a child,Just block me and have it done with.I...
    TalkN3rdy2Me TalkN3rdy2Me 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 17, 2011

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    I hate being ignored by the people

    that I care about and that claim they care about me. I don't really mind so much if a stranger, someone that I just meet, or someone that I'm slowly getting to know ignores me. I don't really expect them to make a huge effort toward me. But when I have an emotional connection...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 17

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    Ergh. I've hated this

    for the longest time. (As a kid I could literally yell at people and they wouldn't give the slightest inkling that they knew I existed.) I even hate it on the internet when people don't reply and I really wanted to hear their thoughts. ergh. *sigh*
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F Aug 9

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    I seriously hate being ignored.

    It makes me feel like I'm invisible or that I'm nothing and it lowers my self-esteem and increases my anxiety and makes me feel bad on the inside. I also hate being ignored on more serious situations, like if I'm going through serious emotional stress and I need someone to talk...
    SgtRecker06 SgtRecker06 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2013

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    I was leaving the gym this evening

    after my workout and was approaching the front desk heading toward the exit. These two guys were standing there, both employees, having a conversation, and as I was passing them I said, "Have a good one!" They were no more than a foot or two away... No reply/wave from either...
    beachgirl73 beachgirl73 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    How hard is it to text some one

    when you text them I am just saying it takes about two seconds to tell the person look I am busy or don't want to talk to you I can't stand being ignored just be honest up front and then we will have no problems
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 24

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    Quiet Abuse

    He didn't say anything to hurt me at times. He didn't say a thing at all   Moved his head to look by me.  Walked out of a room or simply didn't show.  This was a common theme from my day's with him.  It's amazing how this action can make you feel so insignificant.  No words...
    flodials flodials 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    Assalam, i'm here because My Childhood Crush

    hates me...it bothers me for knowing the truth. i was devastated because i was too warped up for her and i paid the price. if you see the screenshot that i take...you will see why i cry, why i was devastated, why i make her angry. people changes so does she. I know she's has a...
    Iqbal13 Iqbal13 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Fading Away

    I think being ignored so long by my husband has made me start to disappear. I ignore myself. Maybe it hurts too much to pay attention. There are moments I glance in the mirror and look away. Feeling that I don't want to see whose standing there. Not paying attention to what I...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Just Tell Me What's Up And I Will Leave You Alone

    People who know me well know I hate being ignored. It's not a narcissitic thing by any means. I don't feel that I am God's gift to anyone or that anyone owes it to me to pay attention to me at all times. I don't expect much out of any of my friends....just be there for me, share...
    Txsmom Txsmom 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Someone starts a text conversation,

    you answer and they don't respond for 3 hours. Opinion?? Rude