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I Hate Being Ignored

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    I think it's rude for people to ignore messages

    or phone calls. Why do they do it? I don't mean the odd message or call. Do some think they are more important than others?
    Lonelyone6 Lonelyone6 46-50, F 17 Responses May 12, 2014

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    katelve katelve 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    If there was an award

    for most ignored person, id win
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 29 Responses Jan 26

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    celinecc11 celinecc11 26-30, F Feb 2

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    I have a side of my fathers side of the

    family(who only live in Texas) Every time I go to one of their party's I get neglected,rejected,ignored and stomped by my very own cousins They never hugged me or noticed that I'm there I hate them,hate,hate,hate THEM!!! They never say hi or wave At least say something!! I have...
    AjaxJaxson AjaxJaxson 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 8

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    acidblue02 acidblue02 18-21, F Oct 1, 2014

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    I hate when I clearly get ignored

    when I send messages countless times without any replies, if you don't wanna talk to me, let me know I ain't going to throw a hissy fit lol but completely ignoring someone is just beyond me
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 11, 2014

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    WHY ARE YOU IGNORING ME?

    like ******* jesus man, if you knew how much I would do for you ugh
    lilbiatch lilbiatch 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    Really? I deserve better.

    That's all to be said.
    findingfae findingfae 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    How rude is it to not return someone's message

    if you see they have good intentions? How rude is it that "friends" just stop replying to your texts or people don't return your calls.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    I know he's awake. He's on social media

    and active at the moment. I texted him hours ago, and I know he's seen it, but he's ignoring me and I'm pissed. I'm alone all day, the least he could do is send an "I love you, have a good day" text.
    libbyslice libbyslice 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 4

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    How hard is it to text some one

    when you text them I am just saying it takes about two seconds to tell the person look I am busy or don't want to talk to you I can't stand being ignored just be honest up front and then we will have no problems
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    I was leaving the gym this evening

    after my workout and was approaching the front desk heading toward the exit. These two guys were standing there, both employees, having a conversation, and as I was passing them I said, "Have a good one!" They were no more than a foot or two away... No reply/wave from either...
    beachgirl73 beachgirl73 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    I hate it when my "friends" ignore my messages

    on purpose. I tried talking to a friend all day yesterday. Sent them 4 messages - and each one said it was read. So I send two angry face emojis - and I get a reply - "is there something wrong?" and I said - "not really. Just thought you were ignoring me all day." And he tells...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Someone starts a text conversation,

    you answer and they don't respond for 3 hours. Opinion?? Rude
    janestays janestays 36-40, F 9 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    It hurts when someone

    who means a lot ignores me but all I wanna do is just talk to them so badly and ask how's their day
    Likeylalayys Likeylalayys 16-17, F Jan 7

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    I love how when you send a message on facebook

    you can see when the person has read the message. So when I send a message to my bf casually saying we need to take pics and have them on facebook coz he just has of his ex, he reads it but doesnt reply. ah people are interesting creatures
    confusednormalness confusednormalness 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Every time you ignore me I regret every text

    message I sent to you everything I've ever said to you and everything I've ever done to or for you
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Mar 11

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    emily036 emily036 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    Its Just Plain Rude

    I have this feeling at the moment that I am being ignored....They used to speak to me all the time,Sending messages and love,Yet now there is nothing....And no reason that I can see.If you have a problem with me, Dont ignore me like a child,Just block me and have it done with.I...
    TalkN3rdy2Me TalkN3rdy2Me 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 17, 2011

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    Why is Isn't he answering me?

    He is like the only person that can make me happy right now
    lilbiatch lilbiatch 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I don't like when people just ignore me

    or judge me without knowing me i have so many people hating on me but in the end if u get to know me u will know that all I want is to care for u and be there when u need it
    Jonathan9800 Jonathan9800 13-15, M Feb 11

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    Honestly, it's like one of the most frustrating

    things ever. Especially when people ignore you on purpose won't no good reason.
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16, 2014

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    how dare u ignore me

    after ive made 0 attempts at talking to u
    Angelcum Angelcum 18-21, F 15 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    When your own cousin ignores your text

    but you see her commenting on fb and she whines a lot that no one gives a flying firetruck about her - Makes sense a lot doesn't it #YoungLadiesTheseDays
    XwonderlustX XwonderlustX 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    We have been like talking

    for two weeks and I don't like him like him but he makes me happy and i really need that right now - so I found out he deleted me on snapchat and I texted him and he didn't answer and this hurts so bad, should I text him again or what? I hate this ****
    lilbiatch lilbiatch 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    First of all I'm not

    that great with social situations to begin with, but I know when in being ignored because they aren't replying to my inbox or texts or actual speech, or whatever else. If they would just say what I have done I could adapt to the situation and possibly resolve the conflict, like...
    thedimone thedimone 13-15, F Mar 12

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    Why would you talk to me everyday,

    and then just stop? Like, that's not okay.
    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    All my boyfriend's family does is keep me an

    outsider and he tends to ignore me like he doesn't wanna be around me when we are out around others. We are on a break now and need it. Hard times, probably gonna be a hard week or so.
    countrygirl52 countrygirl52 18-21, F Jan 30

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    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Mar 11

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    if i know a person well i hate being ignored

    especially when they just suddenly stop responding for no apparent reason!
    romell romell 41-45, M Dec 2, 2014

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    Just Tell Me What's Up And I Will Leave You Alone

    People who know me well know I hate being ignored. It's not a narcissitic thing by any means. I don't feel that I am God's gift to anyone or that anyone owes it to me to pay attention to me at all times. I don't expect much out of any of my friends....just be there for me, share...
    Txsmom Txsmom 41-45, F 12 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Like when your pouring out your heart

    and soul, and they just sit there.
    littlejxoxo littlejxoxo 26-30, F Feb 1

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    HE DELETED ME ON SNAPCHAT?

    should i ask him why or what? Help
    lilbiatch lilbiatch 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    Unless its beneficial

    for health.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    People have done this to me my entire life.

    I have always been abandoned by people who I thought care about me since I was like 4. Things will be going fine, we contact each other regularly and then suddenly they will just stop responding to me. Days turn to weeks of no contact. I used to chase people to try to get them...
    hypnotika hypnotika 22-25, F Jan 31

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    It's common manners to respond

    when spoken to especially if that person is being generous and nice... I can find better things to do with my time then be nice to those who cannot seem to repay it.
    Daivancey Daivancey 18-21, M Mar 15

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    well sometimes i feel

    that my friends ignore me and they dont give much attention as they have to and what bothers me the most is that they are willing choose their boyfriends instead of me and give more attention to them, i sometimes wish i was their boyfriends so they can give me attention like...
    Lifesucks94 Lifesucks94 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    I wish he needed me as much

    as I need him.. I want to talk to him everyday at least even though I would want to video chat as often as possible too. But he rarely writes me first, almost never and when we are chating he doesnt even say much.. Since we live in different countries and met only once, I...
    GRda GRda 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 6

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    Seriously when a guy says how much he likes a

    girl and then ignores her is total crap,same for girls ignoring boys.
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31, 2014

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    *Urgh*....that moment

    that the person goes offline without saying bye...fell so damn ignored...
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    I hate when you think you have a connection

    with someone and then you don't hear from them.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    If you don't want to talk to me then say it to

    me. That hurts a whole lot less then ignoring me does.
    ningqin ningqin 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Honestly, I ******* hate being ignored.

    I think being ignored is one of the worse feelings. I hate when I message my friends, and they don't answer, and it shows that they actually read the message. I hate when i'm talking to someone in person, and they just totally disregard what i'm saying, and it takes them forever...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 10

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    He is ignoring me, well thanks

    for letting me know you don't want a conversation with me you stupid *******.
    lilbiatch lilbiatch 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 26

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