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I Hate Being Ignored

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    I hate being ignored especially when it's continuously and endlessly. You start to question why, you start believing there's something wrong with you, you start thinking they must...
    phoebe098 phoebe098 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I hate being ignored especially by the person I really like and care for. I know I sometimes I can be annoying I think but I think you should just tell me instead of me loving you...
    iloveyoutooboo iloveyoutooboo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I fcking hate it but it always happens especially with the people i rly care the most thats why it hurts so much. /:
    Ali7890 Ali7890 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I hate being ignored I hate being ignored I have being seeing this guy on the side and this is twice he has stopped talking to me!!! He said the first time is because he's falling...
    Jessmesspen Jessmesspen 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    ✨ I escape from this ugly feeling just listen to my favorite music.🎧🎶🎶
    Omar023 Omar023 22-25, M Mar 16

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    It's A Pet Peeve - I hate getting the silent treatment irl. Taking a time out, or sleeping on something is one thing.. but I find longer term deliberate avoidance to be childish...
    Moonflower42 Moonflower42 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    I hate talking to someone and being completely disregarded as if what I say has no importance. People in my family do that and it makes me feel like no one cares enough to listen...
    Bre0610 Bre0610 18-21, F Dec 31, 2013

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    Ignoring - If I make someone mad or annoyed, I would like to know why and not just be ignored. How can I fix it if I don't know what I did?
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    I feel as soon as I start to share about myself, especially with women on this site, that there generally is no response, and the few women that I have gotten closer with are now...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 8

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    Just Tell Me What's Up And I Will Leave You Alone - People who know me well know I hate being ignored. It's not a narcissitic thing by any means. I don't feel that I am God's gift...
    Txsmom Txsmom 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    I have a very close friend who I text a lot with, but every time I ask him to meet he makes up some excuse. It really makes me mad!! If he calls me his bff why doesn't he want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 27

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    I hate when I clearly get ignored when I send messages countless times without any replies, if you don't wanna talk to me, let me know I ain't going to throw a hissy fit lol but...
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 11

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    This is one of my pet peeves because I don't do it to others, so I cannot stand it when someone does it to me. And I'm not enough of an a**hole to actually do it to them even...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F Feb 23

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    Happens Constantly Though Lol - I've always been a doormat (not saying I still like it, not saying I want to be this way either) Granted I've been an ******* to my fair share of...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Jun 16, 2012

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    I'd think I'm a pretty interesting person, but when I talk it seems like suddenly mid-sentence everyone loses interest and starts talking to someone else. My friends and family all...
    Schism7 Schism7 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 23

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    I will never ignore you, not in any way, shape, or form.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 8

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    I don't have the heart to ignore someone I care about. I don't understand how other people can do this with no remorse. People suck.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 5

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    Oh ya... Ignore me without any valid reason and basically you're on my black list.
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Mar 24

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    I hate it when you are just outside the conversation and making all the greatest comments or jokes and no one listens....
    Astrellen Astrellen 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 13

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    Espically when they said they never hurt you and then started ignoring you when they had no reason to and you, the one being ignored had every right to ignore them but you don't...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I feel like the whole world closes in on me and no one cares. It used to be worse in school but now it's better but I get ignored by some people which isn't nice To be honest...
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 22

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    If You Ever Wanna Make Me Mad - Ignoring me is the way to do it. I would rather be told to go to hell, than be ignored.
    wonderstruck77 wonderstruck77 31-35, F Apr 4, 2013

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    Quiet Abuse - He didn't say anything to hurt me at times. He didn't say a thing at all   Moved his head to look by me.  Walked out of a room or simply didn't show.  This was a...
    flodials flodials 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    -To some one in my circle- It's really not nice to just ignore peeps :/ You've just left me emotionally scared for life ;'p
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    I constantly have to text my friend first to start the conversation but it bugs me because if I don't text first they simply won't text me first . What should I do :/
    newmark08 newmark08 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    Especially it's from the person you need the attention from when you need it 😓
    edgarr edgarr 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    Its like i am invisible .. When i am being ignored it is like that person is slowly killing me inside. I absolutely hate it with a passion, that most people would not understand. I...
    imjustemma imjustemma 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    Being Ignored - When you write and post a story on EP and it sits there getting viewed but not commented on It really feels bad. I wish people would comment on my stories if only...
    AlmostAristotle AlmostAristotle 61-65, M 6 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    Especially If I Go Out Of My Way To Talk To You.. - If I like a person and I'm bold enough to reach out to them first and they ignore me, thats a dagger to my pride. Its...
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Need-Advice-On-Relationships/4006242
    ozgirl25 ozgirl25 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    What is ignoring someone supposed to do exactly? Maybe ignoring is something to do to other people but i don't like being ignored, that means we aren't friends; So i soon think to...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Hello? Where Did I Go?? - I don't mind if you don't like me.  I don't care if you don't want to talk to me.  I'm actually ok with it if you are angry with me...or...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 3 Responses May 27, 2010

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    I HATE apologizing when I've done nothing wrong just to keep them around and happy because I love them and can't live without them. No worries now tho!
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Nothing ****** me off more than being ignored... You could call me names, slap me, or almost anything else. Being ignored is the worst!!!
    Jpb8773 Jpb8773 36-40, M Feb 15

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    How hard is it to text some one when you text them I am just saying it takes about two seconds to tell the person look I am busy or don't want to talk to you I can't stand being...
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 24

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    It's as if I am invisible, Someone is taking my heart and squeezing the warm life out, Enjoying my pain, My fear, My wonderment, My anxious curiosity. Nothing matters to them...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Feb 28

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    Its Just Plain Rude - I have this feeling at the moment that I am being ignored....They used to speak to me all the time,Sending messages and love,Yet now there is nothing....And...
    TalkN3rdy2Me TalkN3rdy2Me 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 17, 2011

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    Being Ignored - makes me feel worthless. makes me feel like i am not good enough. makes me feel bad about who i am as a person. but then i try hard to remember that other peoples...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 5, 2011

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    Fading Away - I think being ignored so long by my husband has made me start to disappear. I ignore myself. Maybe it hurts too much to pay attention. There are moments I glance in...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Apparently Im Such A Inconvience - Is it so much to ask that you just call? Why am I always the one who has to take the first step to making anything work. I give all that I have...
    diabloess diabloess 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2012

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    It Sucks... - Being ignored is not cool at all, but what can you do if someone or some people ignore you. Sometimes I take it personally when "friends" ignore me...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 13 Responses Jul 14, 2008

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    My Week At Kinver Scout Camp - ok i told you about my college how they totally screwed me over well my princes trust team leader pasted my number onto kinver scout camp and they...
    dreamgirl444 dreamgirl444 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2012

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    I hate when my friends,my twin and little sister just leave me to do something better and then ignore me
    twinpower twinpower 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    When I choose to share my feelings with someone I am close to they turn it into a convo about them.. I feel ignored that makes me mad and I shut down
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind 22-25, F Mar 16

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    I wish I could explain this in a short, sweet story.
    BigMtnMnds BigMtnMnds 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    I was there when your life was falling apart, when you cried I was the one who tried to soothe you. I was the one who you ignored for days but was there as soon as you was bored...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    It's funny how you told me you'd never be one of those people that cast me aside yet I knew you would in the end. I was right again. And to think that if anyone could make things...
    GinaBina45 GinaBina45 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I seriously hate being ignored. It makes me feel like I'm invisible or that I'm nothing and it lowers my self-esteem and increases my anxiety and makes me feel bad on the inside. I...
    SgtRecker06 SgtRecker06 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2013

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    To My Beloved One - I'm hurt all the time. I don't want to cry for the way I feel inside. I just want someone to hold me... I'm alone in the dark, please try to find me. If no one...
    moonlightwizard moonlightwizard 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2012

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    Whenever people ignore me, it ****** me off badly. I take it VERY personal. I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it. Like I never ignored you before. I try to give you a good laugh...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I get ignored quite frequently. Mainly it's by my friends. We'll be talking and while I'm saying something they either won't hear it or will have another conversation while I'm...
    TianaHunter TianaHunter 13-15, F Jan 22

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