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I Hate Being Ignored

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    I hate it when my "friends" ignore my messages

    on purpose. I tried talking to a friend all day yesterday. Sent them 4 messages - and each one said it was read. So I send two angry face emojis - and I get a reply - "is there something wrong?" and I said - "not really. Just thought you were ignoring me all day." And he tells...
    PsychGirl94 PsychGirl94 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    if i know a person well i hate being ignored

    especially when they just suddenly stop responding for no apparent reason!
    romell romell 41-45, M Dec 2, 2014

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    Like come on.. Totally not cool guys!

    I'm not THAT bad. I think ._. I'd like to think I'm cool and a nice person
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Is everyone too busy on valentines day to talk

    to me ?!?!? I'm bored out of my mind ­čś▒
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 4 Responses Feb 14

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    Why would you talk to me everyday,

    and then just stop? Like, that's not okay.
    BeccaK1 BeccaK1 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    I think it's rude for people to ignore messages

    or phone calls. Why do they do it? I don't mean the odd message or call. Do some think they are more important than others?
    Lonelyone6 Lonelyone6 46-50, F 17 Responses May 12, 2014

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    I don't know how long I should beg others to

    talk to me. I'm fed up with it. I know I'm useless but still I want to be cared now I'm confused of what decision to take. I want to talk to someone to get rid of my pain. I think now it's better to lock everything in me till I can and then I know what to do
    97vicky 97vicky 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Every time you ignore me I regret every text

    message I sent to you everything I've ever said to you and everything I've ever done to or for you
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Mar 11

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    Just Tell Me What's Up And I Will Leave You Alone

    People who know me well know I hate being ignored. It's not a narcissitic thing by any means. I don't feel that I am God's gift to anyone or that anyone owes it to me to pay attention to me at all times. I don't expect much out of any of my friends....just be there for me, share...
    Txsmom Txsmom 41-45, F 12 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    I was leaving the gym this evening

    after my workout and was approaching the front desk heading toward the exit. These two guys were standing there, both employees, having a conversation, and as I was passing them I said, "Have a good one!" They were no more than a foot or two away... No reply/wave from either...
    beachgirl73 beachgirl73 41-45, F 10 Responses Aug 6, 2014

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    I hate being ignored

    for many reasons, but one of the main reasons is cus then you have me thinking like what the **** did I do to you for this to happen and then that ends up being the only thing on my mind.
    drunkpunker drunkpunker 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I just wish girls wouldn't ignore me.

    They answer me and we get too talking. Everything feels like it's going fine. Than the day after I never hear back from them. Why do they gotta be so sensitive... Like I never even said anything strange or off too know. I can't understand girls these days. They really changed...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    I hate feeling like an option

    when I should be a priority
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    I love meeting new people.

    . getting to know them. a total stranger and only learning the little portion of their life they want me to know. and the best part is when we engage in coversation and you start to trust them and you start to open up and talk more often and then they ignore you. completely. cut...
    hannahrose29 hannahrose29 13-15, F Apr 12

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    well all these months of being in a long

    distant relationship has just come to an end bye the looks of it ,he said so many things i love you so much cant wait til we meet ,ur my everything.he seemed so nice and sweet and caring talked everyday on skype on whatsapp and just because i say when do u want to meet i get...
    stacey8 stacey8 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    How hard is it to text some one

    when you text them I am just saying it takes about two seconds to tell the person look I am busy or don't want to talk to you I can't stand being ignored just be honest up front and then we will have no problems
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 24, 2014

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    I am not married to my cell phone by any means,

    but I happen to believe that out of respect, if someone takes the time to send you an electronic message, you should at least respond, even if its just to say "im busy at the moment, but I'll get back to you as soon as I can".That at least let's someone know that you care enough...
    Cuddlingsoul Cuddlingsoul 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    If you don't want to talk to me then say it to

    me. That hurts a whole lot less then ignoring me does.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Its like a digital slap in the face

    when you reach out to somebody to help them with their problems and they just ignore you. DON'T POST ABOUT IT IF YOU DON'T WANT THE HELP THEN. its just embarrassing when you try and then it gets thrown back at you, im also a shy person and this doesn't help.
    BulletproofLoneliness BulletproofLoneliness 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 19, 2014

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    WHY ARE YOU IGNORING ME?

    like ******* jesus man, if you knew how much I would do for you ugh
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 22

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    It hurts when someone

    who means a lot ignores me but all I wanna do is just talk to them so badly and ask how's their day
    Likeylalayys Likeylalayys 16-17, F Jan 7

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    I'm being ignored by someone

    who meant a lot to me... It's funny how someone you used to tell everything doesn't even talk to,you anymore
    Naniebananie Naniebananie 13-15, F 6 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 1, 2014

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    When people ignore me it bothers the hell out

    of me ESPECIALLY on TEXT Like I know u read the text I know ur on just text me back like wtf -,-
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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    Someone starts a text conversation,

    you answer and they don't respond for 3 hours. Opinion?? Rude
    janestays janestays 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 15, 2014

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    When your own cousin ignores your text

    but you see her commenting on fb and she whines a lot that no one gives a flying firetruck about her - Makes sense a lot doesn't it #YoungLadiesTheseDays
    XwonderlustX XwonderlustX 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 13

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    All my life, ive gotten shrugged aside lime its

    nothing. Sometimes, i do like my privacy. But when i speak, you listen. People always think that they are right when they are not. In the end, im usually right and people wish they didnt ignore me. I have ideas. I have advice. And ive found that those who dont listen, end up...
    ForeverJashinist ForeverJashinist 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    First of all I'm not

    that great with social situations to begin with, but I know when in being ignored because they aren't replying to my inbox or texts or actual speech, or whatever else. If they would just say what I have done I could adapt to the situation and possibly resolve the conflict, like...
    thedimone thedimone 13-15, F Mar 12

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    Why Does no one post anything

    when I put something up here? I need help, support, some guidance from someone.....ANYONE!! I thought this was the whole F***** point of this site was to find some kind of comfort or even just a friendly ear to listen to me for once instead of the other way around. Most of these...
    jayc408 jayc408 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 19

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    Especially here on EP.

    .. The whole point of me being here is to interact with people but I guess no one cares...
    adriana0102 adriana0102 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really dislike when my mom knows I need

    something and kind of acknowledges it, then just "forgets" and never gets it. She knows I don't have a job and therefor no money. Like I don't want to be a bum, butttt I'm barely a legal adult and I'm unemployed and you're my parental figure, it's kind of you job to make sure I...
    anonymouslymysterious anonymouslymysterious 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Mar 11

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    I hate when you think you have a connection

    with someone and then you don't hear from them.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 20, 2014

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    I am a pretty easy going guy

    but this is something that heats me up rather quickly. These days where you get told when someone reads your texts or e-mails and they don't respond...just a level of rudeness that bothers me. Seems silly as the wide world is busier then my personal needs but just can't shake it...
    JackisMe JackisMe 41-45, M 2 Responses May 17, 2014

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    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    It's common manners to respond

    when spoken to especially if that person is being generous and nice... I can find better things to do with my time then be nice to those who cannot seem to repay it.
    Daivancey Daivancey 18-21, M Mar 15

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    well sometimes i feel

    that my friends ignore me and they dont give much attention as they have to and what bothers me the most is that they are willing choose their boyfriends instead of me and give more attention to them, i sometimes wish i was their boyfriends so they can give me attention like...
    Lifesucks94 Lifesucks94 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    emily036 emily036 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    I love how when you send a message on facebook

    you can see when the person has read the message. So when I send a message to my bf casually saying we need to take pics and have them on facebook coz he just has of his ex, he reads it but doesnt reply. ah people are interesting creatures
    confusednormalness confusednormalness 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    Its Just Plain Rude

    I have this feeling at the moment that I am being ignored....They used to speak to me all the time,Sending messages and love,Yet now there is nothing....And no reason that I can see.If you have a problem with me, Dont ignore me like a child,Just block me and have it done with.I...
    TalkN3rdy2Me TalkN3rdy2Me 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 17, 2011

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    How rude is it to not return someone's message

    if you see they have good intentions? How rude is it that "friends" just stop replying to your texts or people don't return your calls.
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M Mar 22

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    *Urgh*....that moment

    that the person goes offline without saying bye...fell so damn ignored...
    anderlr anderlr 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Unless its beneficial

    for health.
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 22

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    He is ignoring me, well thanks

    for letting me know you don't want a conversation with me you stupid *******.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Feb 26

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    I hate messaging someone

    and find that they are still answering post while they are messaging you I mean like before they answer you they have to view and answer posts ? Lol I don't have time for that
    wolffive wolffive 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 15

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