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I Hate Being Ignored

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    I HATE apologizing when I've done nothing wrong

    just to keep them around and happy because I love them and can't live without them. No worries now tho!
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    I hate when I clearly get ignored

    when I send messages countless times without any replies, if you don't wanna talk to me, let me know I ain't going to throw a hissy fit lol but completely ignoring someone is just beyond me
    AbdulRaheem123 AbdulRaheem123 18-21, M 6 Responses Feb 11

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    BigMtnMnds BigMtnMnds 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    For the past two days,

    I've been totally craving Caesar salad, and I've been bugging my dad. He promised that he would go to the store and buy the stuff today for dinner, my sister came home, and mentioned hamburgers. They're getting hamburgers now -.- My dad forgot about me, and now I locked myself...
    CastleSky4067 CastleSky4067 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Just Tell Me What's Up And I Will Leave You Alone

    People who know me well know I hate being ignored. It's not a narcissitic thing by any means. I don't feel that I am God's gift to anyone or that anyone owes it to me to pay attention to me at all times. I don't expect much out of any of my friends....just be there for me, share...
    Txsmom Txsmom 41-45, F 13 Responses Apr 28, 2012

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    Nothing ****** me off more

    than being ignored... You could call me names, slap me, or almost anything else. Being ignored is the worst!!!
    Jpb8773 Jpb8773 36-40, M Feb 15

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    I was there when your life was falling apart,

    when you cried I was the one who tried to soothe you. I was the one who you ignored for days but was there as soon as you was bored and needed someone. I was the one who despite people telling me you would break my heart still stood by you. I was the one who picked you up when...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I hate being ignored I hate being ignored I

    have being seeing this guy on the side and this is twice he has stopped talking to me!!! He said the first time is because he's falling for me but now idk!! It's very confusing. Plus he's 20 yrs older than thought he would do better
    Jessmesspen Jessmesspen 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 9, 2013

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    Its Just Plain Rude

    I have this feeling at the moment that I am being ignored....They used to speak to me all the time,Sending messages and love,Yet now there is nothing....And no reason that I can see.If you have a problem with me, Dont ignore me like a child,Just block me and have it done with.I...
    TalkN3rdy2Me TalkN3rdy2Me 26-30, F 9 Responses Apr 17, 2011

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    I get ignored quite frequently.

    Mainly it's by my friends. We'll be talking and while I'm saying something they either won't hear it or will have another conversation while I'm still talking. Sometimes I feel ignored when we're walk. I will sometimes be left out if the group and just linger behind them. It...
    TianaHunter TianaHunter 13-15, F Jan 22

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    I fcking hate it but it always happens

    especially with the people i rly care the most thats why it hurts so much. /:
    Ali7890 Ali7890 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    What is ignoring someone supposed to do exactly?

    Maybe ignoring is something to do to other people but i don't like being ignored, that means we aren't friends; So i soon think to erased the person from existence...In my phone and laptop and stuff like that. Ignoring just doesn't work on me. I'll never talk to the person...
    Yogurtree Yogurtree 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Hello? Where Did I Go??

    I don't mind if you don't like me.  I don't care if you don't want to talk to me.  I'm actually ok with it if you are angry with me...or disappointed, or annoyed, or angered.  I'm very happy to talk it out, with honesty and transparency.  I'm not into games...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 3 Responses May 27, 2010

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    I hate it, it gives me

    so much anxiety and puts me in my head, if your going to ignore me just at least be honest enough to tell me u want nothing to do with me, nothing more disrespectful than leaving ppl hanging not knowing what is going on!! Seriously, you think your not going to hurt me just by...
    Lilmomma1617 Lilmomma1617 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    To My Beloved One

    I'm hurt all the time. I don't want to cry for the way I feel inside. I just want someone to hold me... I'm alone in the dark, please try to find me. If no one cares, I don't see a point to go on. Anyone find me! Anyone care! I'm sorry, I just don't want to be alone anymore. I...
    moonlightwizard moonlightwizard 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 20, 2012

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    If You Ever Wanna Make Me Mad

    Ignoring me is the way to do it. I would rather be told to go to hell, than be ignored.
    wonderstruck77 wonderstruck77 31-35, F Apr 4, 2013

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    Oh ya... Ignore me without any valid reason

    and basically you're on my black list.
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M Mar 24

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    I have a very close friend

    who I text a lot with, but every time I ask him to meet he makes up some excuse. It really makes me mad!! If he calls me his bff why doesn't he want to see me. It baffles me. Aren't you supposed to have a good time with friends??? Why is he so sweet to me on text and share so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 27

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    -To some one in my circle- It's really not

    nice to just ignore peeps :/ You've just left me emotionally scared for life ;'p
    BeatTheBest BeatTheBest 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 2

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    How hard is it to text some one

    when you text them I am just saying it takes about two seconds to tell the person look I am busy or don't want to talk to you I can't stand being ignored just be honest up front and then we will have no problems
    slynn999 slynn999 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 24

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    ✨ I escape from this ugly feeling just listen

    to my favorite music.🎧🎶🎶
    Omar023 Omar023 22-25, M Mar 16

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    Especially it's from the person you need the

    attention from when you need it 😓
    edgarr edgarr 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    This is one of my pet peeves

    because I don't do it to others, so I cannot stand it when someone does it to me. And I'm not enough of an a**hole to actually do it to them even though they deserve it. For example, if I ask a friend if they can get together on a certain date, and I hear nothing back, that...
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F Feb 23

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    It's funny how you told me you'd never be one

    of those people that cast me aside yet I knew you would in the end. I was right again. And to think that if anyone could make things work out, it'd be us. I guess I spoke too soon huh? Maybe we're just better off without one another.
    GinaBina45 GinaBina45 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    I constantly have to text my friend first to

    start the conversation but it bugs me because if I don't text first they simply won't text me first . What should I do :/
    newmark08 newmark08 16-17, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    Whenever people ignore me,

    it ****** me off badly. I take it VERY personal. I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it. Like I never ignored you before. I try to give you a good laugh, or a good conversation. I try. So why don't you ever talk to me anymore??? Oh well. People come and go.......
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Happens Constantly Though Lol

    I've always been a doormat (not saying I still like it, not saying I want to be this way either) Granted I've been an ******* to my fair share of people. But some of it has came back to bite me in the ***. Putting your effort completely into a friendship or whatever, just for...
    Greeneyedandcurious Greeneyedandcurious 22-25, F Jun 16, 2012

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    Its like i am invisible .

    . When i am being ignored it is like that person is slowly killing me inside. I absolutely hate it with a passion, that most people would not understand. I have been ignored my entire life, by everyone I know. Nobody ever listens to me, it's like I'm not there. Expect I am there...
    imjustemma imjustemma 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    It's A Pet Peeve

    I hate getting the silent treatment irl. Taking a time out, or sleeping on something is one thing.. but I find longer term deliberate avoidance to be childish, and more likely to wind me up than the original cause of the argument. It's always much more of a factor online. It's...
    Moonflower42 Moonflower42 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2011

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    I hate when my friends,

    my twin and little sister just leave me to do something better and then ignore me
    twinpower twinpower 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    Quiet Abuse

    He didn't say anything to hurt me at times. He didn't say a thing at all   Moved his head to look by me.  Walked out of a room or simply didn't show.  This was a common theme from my day's with him.  It's amazing how this action can make you feel so insignificant.  No words...
    flodials flodials 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    Fading Away

    I think being ignored so long by my husband has made me start to disappear. I ignore myself. Maybe it hurts too much to pay attention. There are moments I glance in the mirror and look away. Feeling that I don't want to see whose standing there. Not paying attention to what I...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 6 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    I feel like the whole world closes in on me

    and no one cares. It used to be worse in school but now it's better but I get ignored by some people which isn't nice To be honest especially when I want them to reply no one cares
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M 3 Responses Feb 22

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    I hate being ignored especially by the person I

    really like and care for. I know I sometimes I can be annoying I think but I think you should just tell me instead of me loving you even more and getting hurt even more by you just ignoring me I will be ok if you do not like me but can you please be straight up with me so I don...
    iloveyoutooboo iloveyoutooboo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I will never ignore you,

    not in any way, shape, or form.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 8

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    Especially If I Go Out Of My Way To Talk To You..

    If I like a person and I'm bold enough to reach out to them first and they ignore me, thats a dagger to my pride. Its embarrassing.. It makes me regret hitting them up first.
    CrystalKlear17 CrystalKlear17 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 10, 2012

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    Espically when they said they never hurt you

    and then started ignoring you when they had no reason to and you, the one being ignored had every right to ignore them but you don't because you want them in your life.
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I don't have the heart to ignore someone I care

    about. I don't understand how other people can do this with no remorse. People suck.
    Dreamer32 Dreamer32 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 5

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    It's as if I am invisible,

    Someone is taking my heart and squeezing the warm life out, Enjoying my pain, My fear, My wonderment, My anxious curiosity. Nothing matters to them except that they have power, Over everyone. Was it something I said? No, it couldn't be, I said nothing. Was it something...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Feb 28

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    Being Ignored

    makes me feel worthless. makes me feel like i am not good enough. makes me feel bad about who i am as a person. but then i try hard to remember that other peoples issues should not make me feel bad about myself. only i can make me feel bad about myself. its hard, so very hard to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 5, 2011

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    I seriously hate being ignored.

    It makes me feel like I'm invisible or that I'm nothing and it lowers my self-esteem and increases my anxiety and makes me feel bad on the inside. I also hate being ignored on more serious situations, like if I'm going through serious emotional stress and I need someone to talk...
    SgtRecker06 SgtRecker06 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2013

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    When I choose to share my feelings with someone

    I am close to they turn it into a convo about them.. I feel ignored that makes me mad and I shut down
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind 22-25, F Mar 16

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    Ignoring

    If I make someone mad or annoyed, I would like to know why and not just be ignored. How can I fix it if I don't know what I did?
    emipurple emipurple 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    My Week At Kinver Scout Camp

    ok i told you about my college how they totally screwed me over well my princes trust team leader pasted my number onto kinver scout camp and they sympathized wit me and said i can do a week residential at they base i was so happy i didnt know who ,what or where i would be so i...
    dreamgirl444 dreamgirl444 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 27, 2012

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    I hate being ignored especially

    when it's continuously and endlessly. You start to question why, you start believing there's something wrong with you, you start thinking they must be talking to someone better, I must be fat? Why am I so imperfect?. But really it's not you. As much as your friends tell you "mr...
    phoebe098 phoebe098 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    It Sucks...

    Being ignored is not cool at all, but what can you do if someone or some people ignore you. Sometimes I take it personally when "friends" ignore me because I'm not as "cool", as "smart", or as "good-looking" for them to be interested...
    Tummie Tummie 26-30, M 13 Responses Jul 14, 2008

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    I feel as soon as I start to share about myself,

    especially with women on this site, that there generally is no response, and the few women that I have gotten closer with are now ignoring me. I had 5 women on this site in my circles, who I started to develop friendships with, one who never said nearly as much to me, as I said...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 8

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    http://www.experienceproject.

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    ozgirl25 ozgirl25 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    Apparently Im Such A Inconvience

    Is it so much to ask that you just call? Why am I always the one who has to take the first step to making anything work. I give all that I have... and your more concerned with everyone else. And yet you say you love me.. how the hell is that love?
    diabloess diabloess 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2012

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    Being Ignored

    When you write and post a story on EP and it sits there getting viewed but not commented on It really feels bad. I wish people would comment on my stories if only to tell me that they're boring or rubbish. That would at least encourage me to try to make my stories more...
    AlmostAristotle AlmostAristotle 61-65, M 6 Responses Feb 12, 2011

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    I'd think I'm a pretty interesting person,

    but when I talk it seems like suddenly mid-sentence everyone loses interest and starts talking to someone else. My friends and family all do this to me. Makes me feel like a boring person.
    Schism7 Schism7 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 23

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