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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    ohhh you're a princess well.

    ....I''M THE QUEEN *****!
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 13

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    It's rather annoying.

    I get adults assuming I'm stupid because of my age (and what some girls my age did last year...), I have people tell their kids not to socialize with me, that I'm a bad influence because of the way i dress. How exactly am i a bad influence? I don't dress in revealing clothing, I...
    CanYouHearTheSilence CanYouHearTheSilence 13-15, F Sep 15

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    "Your to young for me to talk to" Bla bla bla

    I hate people who are like that!
    Forders2 Forders2 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 28

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    Hey! Who's sick of judgment

    and ready to take back their power? Who's ready to take it to the "JUDGY" people in their life? You can challenge your "judgers" to a fight court, where you battle it out MMA-style after being trained by pro MMA legends! I'm casting a new show for SPIKE TV and if you are...
    CastNow CastNow 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    What's It To You :/

    Yes i've tryed to kill myself OKAY so i dont get why people that dont know me can judge me like you dont know what the **** i go though every day So who the **** are you to judge me.
    ohmylife ohmylife 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    I Don'T Understand It...

    I hate the fact that people will always judge you by what you look like no matter what you do, no matter how much education you have received, or that you are an honest and decent person that would never hurt anyone, or the fact that you don't have a lot of money or are not...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    We all judge people I understand that.

    What I hate when I say judge.. I mean.. being misunderstood. Being misjudged because of someone's assumptions & prejudice. After a long summer of having no friends to spend time with. I rather enjoyed the prospect of going to university and making friends, because I had been...
    Noobzz Noobzz 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    People should just mind their own business

    and shut up. It's my life, not theirs.
    jerseyjade jerseyjade 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    You don't know my struggle you don't know my

    weaknesses so why form an opinion without getting to know someone first? Why judge when you yourself are imperfect
    AliyahXXX AliyahXXX 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 18

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    People are like your to small to carry

    that giant backpack or why are you such a short nerd. Well just because im smart and short doesnt give you any damn right to judge me Excuse my language
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 16

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    Absolutely !

    Forever, I feel, I have had a bee in my bonnet about people presuming things about me that don't really know me... Firstly, being a woman, I am not meek and mild, ok? I'm not helpless and defenceless.... Then....ok, I AM young, but I know my own mind, y'know? Don't treat me...
    AmberDuponte AmberDuponte 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 10

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    lani007 lani007 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    If you dont know me dont judge me i may look

    like a weird person to begin with but im always nice and good to get along with
    mrgears20 mrgears20 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 19

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    Don't judge the place I'm at

    if you don't know where I've been
    Heartbeatangel Heartbeatangel 18-21, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Imagine posting a comment

    and you're trying to help them out....posting a few kind words....letting them know that they do matter and that they have a future. You're just trying to make thier day a little better....hoping that they don't pick up that knife today. Then somebody else bluntly calls you a...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 11

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    All people ever do is judge me.

    Im picky about my friends at school and kids im not friends with who I have never spoken to call me sl-ut and attention seeker and cocky and stuff. And ever adult in our town thinks I'm stupid and bad news and the mums of this town have a email and posters they send out that...
    QuinnMac12 QuinnMac12 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 5

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    Don't judge me unless you can walk my life in

    my shoes. Sometimes i wish others could see what all i been through especially the ones who judge me on how i act and what i do. Most of then only know the bad things because of rumors.they think they can change me by cramming things down my throat like religion, advice, or just...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    All we want is a little appreciation.

    All we want is to be acknowledged. All we want is to be taken into account. All we want is to flee pain through temporary satisfaction. All we want is to be loved unconditionally. And our struggle comes from not finding these too easily. Sometimes not even in our own selves.
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    As I enter Year 6, everything in my life

    altered. I dread my class, my so called 'friends', and the crazy events.. I can't handle it anymore! My class MOSTLY FRIENDS- Not to be rude, but there were new people (from the year before) that already made good friends however, I didn't. All of my best friends were in...
    ihatemylife236 ihatemylife236 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I come from and live in a place

    where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's nothing wrong with being different. I get judged for the personality I have; caring, creative, shy, etc. I get judged for the music I...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    Ok so I say I admire inner beauty .

    .. And someone points out that that can't be true because my shirts off in my profile picture ..? I worked so hard for the body I have. I obsessed over my body image juggling eating disorders and depression. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad for me by any means , we all...
    anthonymusto55 anthonymusto55 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Like most, I've always been judged either

    as a posh git to the polar opposite who was probably bought over the Internet. Just a quick disclaimer, I have graduated university with an honours degree, grew up in the UK, also have a job and pay all my bills for my flat. I have faced so many individuals who assume I am...
    EstuaryRivers EstuaryRivers 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    Don't even bother judging me,

    not even when you've judged yourself, it's not anyone's place to judge another
    barney45 barney45 46-50, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 16

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    People who don't even know me should just keep

    their thoughts to themselves... rather than, "No, no, no. That don't go with that," or anything like that. When I go and try on new clothes and see how they look, I know what can go with what, and I know for what right occasion to wear it on. Sometimes, I even feel like some or...
    SamHarris SamHarris 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    What Is This, Court?

    Don't judge a book by its's cover. I don't pass judgement and I don't like being judged. Especially by people who don't know me from Adam. Leave the judging to the Almighty.
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2012

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    Judge By People Who Don't Know Me

    Do I hate being judged by people who don't even know me?  No!  I also can't do anything about it too.  You can judge me if you'd like and it won't do nothing to me cause I don't know you and you don't know me either.  I won't waste my time worrying about what you think of me...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 9 Responses May 15, 2011

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    Think About It......

    There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why there the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone.
    Miss25234 Miss25234 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    People are so ******* messed up.

    They suck.Society tells you to be yourself and then judges you and messes with you and make you fall. They don't know anything about you, and then judge you.
    SerialChiller SerialChiller 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 12

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    This always happen to me.

    So I am a not a aggressive stud or a femme I am a tomboy. But it is like every one want me to pick a side. Everyone who has seen me in a dress always ask me. Why don't I dress like that more often? And the girls that I an attracted to like girls that are real aggressive studs...
    lauryn1016 lauryn1016 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Stop It

    You don't know anything about me, You don't know how i feel, you don't even know what i have been through, So keep your mouth shut and stop judging me "friends".
    AngelsOnFires AngelsOnFires 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    seriously it hurts to be judged

    when they don't even know you and you can't do anything but to just cry inside. really what does it takes to give hurtful comments to someone who's in a depressed state? Rubbing salt onto their wounds don't make them feel better. Have more empathy guys
    trappedpixies trappedpixies 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    Judge me and I'll prove you wrong.

    . Tell me what to do and I'll tell you off. Say I'm not worth it and watch where I end up. Call me a ***** and I'll show you one. Fck me over and I'll do it to you twice as bad! Call me crazy but you really have noo idea ;)
    Anngeleyes Anngeleyes 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I am bubbly and crazy.

    But sadly some people think I am attention whoring... *Goes to corner* :c *Le sob*
    ArcticPotato ArcticPotato 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    They say be yourself,

    but people today judge you quickly . For example, I am always called a weirdo behind my back at school because when I clap I do it like a seal or because when I laugh sometimes I'm like a mental hospital patient. DAMN IT PEOPLE... Judge yourself first before the others
    loonylynx loonylynx 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 15

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    I can't stand being looked

    and judged on How I may act based on how im dressed. It's ridiculous! Get to know me and then judge whether you hate me or not please
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 25

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a

    distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually speak to me you have no idea what I'm actually like. Just wish people understood that more :(
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 6

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    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    I dislike that people are unable to engage in

    meaningful discourse if their perception of issues or ideology is compromised in any way, shape, or form.
    trextrex1029 trextrex1029 41-45, M 19 hrs ago

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    Everyone tries to put a label on me.

    Emo, goth, scene, etc... I really don't care what you call me, people will either avoid or bully me. Well, by the end of the day, all I have is me, and i'm fine with that. I won't succumb to pernicious people.
    Lexi3is0dreaming Lexi3is0dreaming 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 26

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    Often times people have different sets of values

    or rules for themselves and quite scathing ones for others !!!!
    anasteel2 anasteel2 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 20

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    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 23 Responses Mar 12

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    Came across this in lifehacker: titled ' Those

    who do not give a fcuk change the world. Rest do not ' It may not have been said by a famous philosopher or former president, but some of the best advice we've ever heard is that no matter what you do, people will judge you. You'll never be able to escape it. Luckily, you don't...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M Jan 9

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    Well this week was almost ****

    but almost great at the same time. Like what do you expect for a 13 year old girl that's still learning the rules of life? I mean it's irritating I get these comments from some people. Just **** it I'm going to drink a can of soda...
    ArcticPotato ArcticPotato 13-15, F Sep 14

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