I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    Wow. There are over 35,

    000 people in this group and less than 1,000 have posted a story. If someone doesn't like me because they THINK that I'm a certain way based on what I look like can go jump off a bridge. Or if they think I'm a bad person because I'm transgender or because I have a pit bull or...
    sexyalyssagurl sexyalyssagurl
    41-45, T
    2 Responses Feb 23, 2016

    Its funny how the people

    that know the least about you have the most to say.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses May 19, 2015

    As I was going into SUBWAY with my mom

    and little brother the store owner a middle eastern man was outside talking to a friend. As my family approached the entry doors the store owner ended his conversation with his friend and started playing with my little brother. He told my little brother he was going to grow up...
    GabbyWoodBerry GabbyWoodBerry
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Feb 22, 2016

    so yesterday, I was messaged by a guy saying he

    was new to EP, so I said welcome, told him how much I loved EP... usual small talk. Then he messaged me "wtf!!!! you're all sympathetic to your kids and then you have all this secs stuff and nasty fetisshes.... I don't want to talk to you, you're a bad butterfly" he then told me...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 20, 2015

    Ok. So for all of you f******

    who want to judge me for my experiences! I would just like to tell you that all of you can go dig a hole and bury yourselves. This is a place to share experinces not bash those who share them and not belittle them so that they get hurt.
    Zachary95 Zachary95
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Mar 16, 2016

    The story of my life.

    Every day in school, and outside on the streets. Usually it endures at school the most though. I constantly undergo such judgement by not only people who've had me in their class previous years, but by their friends, and their friends of friends, and so on until the whole entire...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1
    18-21, M
    Apr 11, 2016

    Useless comments by people here on me too.

    I thought this was supposed to be a friendly place
    riseandshine18 riseandshine18
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Jul 22, 2015

    I keep saying in my head about people

    that I know in real life including my parents, "i'm sorry. who's life is it again?"
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2016

    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 18, 2014

    In class I'm usually the quiet kid in the

    corner. People didn't even know I existed. Until some people confronted me, they couldn't utter a word. I would be pretty mad if they kept thinking I'm the quiet girl. They know they're wrong when they met me. COMPLETELY OFF!!!
    MikuMouse123 MikuMouse123
    18-21, F
    Apr 19, 2016

    What awful world this Universe would be,

    if we all be the same. Difference is a bless
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2015
    alyssiabeth alyssiabeth
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2016

    We've all been through something

    that has literally broke us. All of us. Your mom, your aunt, your best friend, your teacher, your preacher, your boss, etc... Some of us manage to move on, but others are haunted every hour, of every minute, of every second throughout the day. So the next time you decide to...
    ExploreroftheUnknown ExploreroftheUnknown
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Feb 14, 2016

    Not that I care what any random stranger thinks

    of me. Hell, if they're so quick to judge then that's plenty reason not to care what they think. What bothers me is when people take an instant dislike to someone just for something about them that they don't agree with and feel the need to try and shame them for it. That type...
    CarverReturns CarverReturns
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 31, 2016

    It used to happen all the time.

    'Oh you are amazing at spelling and reading and writing?' Smartass! That's pretentious! 'You don't understand Math?' You are so stupid! 'You help people online who you don't know?' That's naΓ―ve and stupid! 'You are so boring! Sometimes you need to shut the **** up!' 'You are...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Jun 5, 2015

    I love how people look at me.

    .. decide for me who I am when they have no idea where I have been and how strong I must have become to survive. I love it when people look at me and think what a **** or ******* because I am the way I am. I love how people warn other people against people like me. Reject...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 4, 2016

    This person is trying to make me look bad

    because she is jealous of me and the bad thing is that people believe her because she is outgoing and always buying stuff for people and I am quiet and don't want to defend myself.
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2016

    I am not you We should not be the same I'm me

    And you are you Don't try to judge without knowing me .
    Noha4 Noha4
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2016
    AfricanGirl19 AfricanGirl19
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 14, 2016

    It's just not right that people will judge you

    know matter where you go. Everywhere people judge. Even on EP they judge. Some people text you then you talk for a while and they just block you. Block you out. They ask for a pic and you give them one and they just stop messaging you. They unfriend you. People everywhere judge...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 3, 2015

    So what's the point if I'm different from you,

    we still are human...deep down I wish you would realize I'm not just a punchbag or someone to talk your mess to πŸ˜·πŸ’€πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠβœŒ
    Peaceloveflowerchild Peaceloveflowerchild
    22-25, F
    Jul 24, 2015

    Yes i had to post this So here i was chatting

    to lady, i would like to mention her/his profile i.e "girls2015" don't if they are being Fake. She asked me that from where do i belong to, so i mentioned my country's name. The very next moment she blocked me out of no where, despite of knowing who i am. I mean this was...
    Whatisthereinname Whatisthereinname
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2016

    I have come to believe We all,

    are gulity of judging other people. Sad but true
    butterflylady21 butterflylady21
    51-55, F
    Jul 11, 2015

    Personal preferences!

    I hate being judged for what I like and personal preference and then made to feel like **** for what I DO like! Great example is health shaming that I dealt with when I lived in Wisconsin. If you weren't fat they picked on you. And if you liked an in shape woman whether she was...
    MiamiMexirican MiamiMexirican
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 20, 2016

    Why are people so mad at girls

    who are okay with themselves? Like damn do you know how many problematic things I've had to unlearn? How much self destructive **** I had to erase from my memory? We beg women to be themselves, but tell confident women to calm down. Sit down with your talk of arrogance...
    MissQueenB MissQueenB
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 21, 2016

    I'm constantly catching myself erasing an

    experience I might post, thinking "I can't post this, they will judge me."
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Dec 4, 2014

    Watch out for"Adaydreambeliever".

    She is an Ep Volunteer who acts like a vigilante, judging people without proof of anything. This is the first story I have posted since joining Ep five months ago (I usually comment on posts, not create posts). I sent her a private message asking for her help because there was...
    Decent86 Decent86
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Mar 6, 2016

    "Something's are more

    than what they appear" - Shrek
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 26, 2015

    My whole life I've been judged.

    The way I look, act, talk. I'm a very straight to the point person. If I have something to say, you will hear it from me and not a third person. I think my "Out there" personality is offensive to most. That's probably why I get judged. Should really get to know me tho. I'm...
    marlymars marlymars
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 3, 2016

    like literally this is seriously one of the

    very most frustrating things in my life, and is a very major one as well. you just have to learn this let go and not care what other people think
    dathglas dathglas
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 1, 2016

    I do it seems so far on here

    that I get nothing but judgemental comments and attacks. I believe the way I believe for a reason. It was what I was raised to believe, and how my church interprets the bible. instead of attacking people who are different from you than ask bout it. You may actually learn...
    southernlady32 southernlady32
    31-35, F
    11 Responses Apr 2, 2015

    No one is busy. It just depends on what number

    you are in their priorities.
    DeathThrone DeathThrone
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 26, 2015

    People just see that I'm a pervert who's never

    going to change my ways. They don't see that I'm a musician who can play three instruments. The bones in my wrists were fused together when I was born so I can't turn my wrists. But, I wanted to play music so badly, that I found a way to play the drums, the piano, and, the...
    Funkystronglover Funkystronglover
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 12, 2016

    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Mar 27, 2014

    I hate ppl who pride themselves on making other

    ppl feel low or beneath them ..
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 19, 2015

    Where would I even begin!

    ?! I will say this though. It is just the greatest feeling in the world when you don't try to prove anything to anyone. You just keep being yourself and they have to apologize for being judgemental A-holes.
    angiepi1206 angiepi1206
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Mar 13, 2016
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 15, 2016

    If there's one thing I've learned,

    it's never to judge someone just because they sin different than you. To each their own.
    Littlemisslollipop Littlemisslollipop
    22-25, F
    Mar 12, 2016

    why is it that our would has gotten

    so bad that just because people are older and talk to some younger doesn't mean theor isn't anything but trying help or just have fun:-)people also judge your profile name and don't check ito you before assuming the worst): people need to do research and find all sides before...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Feb 5, 2015

    I hate people. I really do.

    I'm just too mind independent. I hate crowd places. I hate when people just can't keep things to themselves. I hate rude, judgmental comments they always have to make. I'm literally sick of people. I just want to do my things and avoid as much bull **** as possible. I work...
    masmelo masmelo
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 9, 2015

    All i have to say for people

    who are judging me for my profile type and the kinda experiences i post Read the lines in the above picture ! Period .
    likePheonix likePheonix
    26-30, M
    Apr 11, 2016

    I watched my best friend get stabbed to death

    when I was 11, I joined the gang that killed him, should I get revenge on the murder or not?
    EvilBoyNeedsHelp EvilBoyNeedsHelp
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2016

    I totally hate being judged by people

    who don't bloody know me end of and treat me like a kid I am a sponsible adult age 47 with learning difficulties and emotional feelings
    kittybaby1968age3 kittybaby1968age3
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Feb 22, 2016

    Hello everyone. I have been overweight most of

    my life. And since i was a kid, i have been listening to all kinds of comments regarding my body weight. Kids are very harsh in their comments, let me tell you that. Anyway, i am kind of used to that, but still, even now at 29 years of age, i still get furious when someone gives...
    Fabulitious Fabulitious
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2016

    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    There was this kid I new once,

    who was just unpleasant to be around with. He would make rude remarks whenever he had the chance. I am very socially isolated and had no one to back me up. One day, I stood really close to the bus and the rear view mirror almost hit me. The bus driver admonished me to be...
    WalterKo WalterKo
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    I hate perverts on this site!

    Teenagers go on this site to help others and receive advice and actually make an effort to make someone's life a bit brighter, You guys deserve to have only the harshest punishment, you guys are sick. You are damaging young people's minds and you don't understand the effect it...
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    I love when people question my intelligence just

    because of my appearance. I promise I won't hesitate to make you cry, *****. Try me.
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2016

    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted
    10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

    You know my name,not my story.

    You've heard what i have done,not what i'v been through ,
    cameron1110 cameron1110
    16-17, M
    Apr 9, 2016

    Like bruh. You've never talked to me,

    that's your fault for not wanting to get to know me. So stop talking **** ok πŸ˜‚ lol
    Ch3y Ch3y
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    It's funny how some people make assumptions of

    who I am based on a few posted experiences. A few parts doesn't make the whole.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613
    18-21, F
    18 Responses Mar 12, 2014

    I would be a lesbian

    if girls weren't such *******.
    WrongPage WrongPage
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    A person who's never experienced what I've

    experienced, could never tell me how I should think or act. I repeat A person who's never experienced what I've experienced, could never tell me how I should think or act.
    MissQueenB MissQueenB
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 9, 2016

    Seriously hate people judging people.

    I myself accidentally do it sometimes but I correct myself by saying it wrong and start saying the right things. Don't Judge.
    0to100inaheartbeat 0to100inaheartbeat
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 2, 2015
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