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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    Size...

    Everyone thinks I'm soo small and since I'm shy, people think I have depression! Small things come in big packages! (Shout out to all you age 13 that are under 5 ft! ๐Ÿ˜Š)
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I'm always being judged everywhere I go.

    I have never judged a person in my life so why do people judge me? People always assume that because I believe in the supernatural that I'm a delusional teen and that it's a "fad" that will slowly loose my interest. No, I will always believe in the supernatural and nothing...
    wolflover1648 wolflover1648 16-17 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Yeah i didn't know where to put this

    so I picked a random one. Okay so, about a year ago I was a different person. I was still depressed and self conscious but i always liked wearing low cut shirts and showing off the girls (if you know what I mean๐Ÿ˜‰) lol but this year I've been more self conscious and started...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Seriously, just because I like to stay in the

    library during lunch doesn't mean that I have no friends. If you actually asked me why I do it then you would know that I feel much more comfortable on my my own doing my own thing than going into one of my friend's groups where I only know that one person... Don't just assume...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Don't judge the place I'm at

    if you don't know where I've been
    Heartbeatangel Heartbeatangel 18-21, F 2 Responses May 23

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    Really like if you don't know me dont say ****

    about me. Because if u gonna say it behind my back why not just say it to my face *****!! #makes me pissed!!!๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ 
    lonleygurl23 lonleygurl23 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate people who judge me

    when they have never met me and don't know me... Like, for example, on social media.... When people think they can judge me.. Telling me what I am and what I'm not... It really ****** me off
    mmello00 mmello00 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Imagine posting a comment

    and you're trying to help them out....posting a few kind words....letting them know that they do matter and that they have a future. You're just trying to make thier day a little better....hoping that they don't pick up that knife today. Then somebody else bluntly calls you a...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 11

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    Ok so I say I admire inner beauty .

    .. And someone points out that that can't be true because my shirts off in my profile picture ..? I worked so hard for the body I have. I obsessed over my body image juggling eating disorders and depression. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad for me by any means , we all...
    anthonymusto55 anthonymusto55 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Title says it all thanks

    for y'know talking I guess :/ whatever just me heh.
    haylieloupii haylieloupii 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    like really? Youre gonna make fun of the way I

    dress or look and you don't even know me? At least get to know me before youre rude to me. Welcome to my life- Simple plan. You don't know what its like to be me. If I were you id just shut my mouth.
    lolnahhh5 lolnahhh5 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't really care cause

    if you judge me I'll judge you regardless if I know you or don't know you whether verbally or as a thought. For those of you that don't agree I say It's life, Deal with it. -.-"
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    -_- ..." oh look, it's her.

    ..I don't like her she's weird" These are the comments I hate-_- like seriously...do you wanna keep your nose on your face -_-
    sawahdwaine sawahdwaine 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I'm afraid of posting my info .

    ... I don't wanna end up getting judged for talking online about my life /:
    sf619 sf619 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    quanclopes quanclopes 16-17, M Jun 30

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    Not looking for a response

    or a comment by someone that wants to give me a life lesson or thinks he or she is a miss or mr know it all. However I just wanted to say don't judge me just because of something I posted or said especially not cause of my age. If you don't know me than you most certainly DO NOT...
    SimplyAmazingx SimplyAmazingx 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    seriously it hurts to be judged

    when they don't even know you and you can't do anything but to just cry inside. really what does it takes to give hurtful comments to someone who's in a depressed state? Rubbing salt onto their wounds don't make them feel better. Have more empathy guys
    trappedpixies trappedpixies 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    What Is This, Court?

    Don't judge a book by its's cover. I don't pass judgement and I don't like being judged. Especially by people who don't know me from Adam. Leave the judging to the Almighty.
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2012

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    lani007 lani007 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    Think About It......

    There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why there the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone.
    Miss25234 Miss25234 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I just made this account

    and was somewhat enjoying a place where I can be completely honest and speak about situations that I gave never once spoken about or feelings but already I'm getting rude people so I'll probably be deleting this soon . FYI if your on here to judge , leave , this is a place for...
    oabutler oabutler 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    EP has proven to me how much people can judge.

    Let me start off by saying that it's taken me 12 years to show my face on a social networking site because long ago when I first did it, I was humiliated, harassed and bullied for my looks. I was terrified to take a picture of myself, I was worried that people wouldn't like me...
    JudeLeDude JudeLeDude 22-25, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    At school, there are these girls

    that judge every one. They spread rumors about every one too. They become your friend so you can tell them your secrets and then they tell the whole school about them. They have made my friends cry. Luckily I have never hanged out with them and never plan to. But they also judge...
    Musicgirl32558 Musicgirl32558 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    Absolutely !

    Forever, I feel, I have had a bee in my bonnet about people presuming things about me that don't really know me... Firstly, being a woman, I am not meek and mild, ok? I'm not helpless and defenceless.... Then....ok, I AM young, but I know my own mind, y'know? Don't treat me...
    AmberDuponte AmberDuponte 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    "Looks Can Be Decieving"

    It's so frustrating having someone judge you from the way you look, and just base what they think of you from first glance and assume that is how your personality is. That's why I never judge a person and get to know them properly for their personality.
    Alabastrefay Alabastrefay 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I come from and live in a place

    where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's nothing wrong with being different. I get judged for the personality I have; caring, creative, shy, etc. I get judged for the music I...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    "Look at her cloths".

    " look at her,she's such a nerd"! I hate it when people judge me even thought they don't know me,they don't know how many problems I have,they don't know how many tears I cry.so before you judge take a step in their shoes!
    smiliefacewithnosmile smiliefacewithnosmile 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    Ok so I have DID (dissociative identity

    disorder aka multiple personality disorder) and I wanted to be on EP to meet others that have my disorder and become friends with them. But when one of my Alters, Delta, posted an a sorta journal of his talking about two other alters of mine, this person says that "I" obviously...
    MultipleRex MultipleRex 16-17, M 1 Response 19 hrs ago

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    Why does this always happen to me?

    At every party someone comes up to me and says "oh you're Leila , ivรฉ heard **** about you". Really?
    LeilaOlivia LeilaOlivia 13-15, F Jul 13

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    I Am Being Judged

    In Australia, teachers are entitled to 14 days sick leave. I have used about half my sick leave so far this year. But some of the parents in the school are complaining to the Principal that they can never tell if I am going to be in or not, which I feel is slanderous and...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 8 Responses May 30, 2013

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    Judge By People Who Don't Know Me

    Do I hate being judged by people who don't even know me?ย  No!ย  I also can't do anything about it too.ย  You can judge me if you'd like and it won't do nothing to me cause I don't know you and you don't know me either.ย  I won't waste my time worrying about what you think of me...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 9 Responses May 15, 2011

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 24 Responses Mar 12

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    I hate when people stare at me

    because of my wheelchair. I understand your not used to seeing a teenager in a wheelchair but I would rather you ask questions than stare it just makes me super uncomfortable
    Kaylamay17 Kaylamay17 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I Don'T Understand It...

    I hate the fact that people will always judge you by what you look like no matter what you do, no matter how much education you have received, or that you are an honest and decent person that would never hurt anyone, or the fact that you don't have a lot of money or are not...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 13-15, F 9 Responses Jun 16

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    Came across this in lifehacker: titled ' Those

    who do not give a fcuk change the world. Rest do not ' It may not have been said by a famous philosopher or former president, but some of the best advice we've ever heard is that no matter what you do, people will judge you. You'll never be able to escape it. Luckily, you don't...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M Jan 9

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    We judge others instantly by their clothes,

    their cars, their appearance, their race, their education, their social status. The list is endless. What gets me is that most people decide who another person is before they have even spoken to them. What's even worse is that these same people decide who someone else is, and...
    bitchybeck bitchybeck 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Before anyone assumes things they need to make

    sure they know everything about the whole story.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    People judge me Right

    when they look at me they think I'm a stuck up ***** that's looks for a hot guy and that's all we'll I'm not and all I want is for people to know me before they judge me I have learned not to care but it still hurts to know I can't be pretty with out being called a ***** funny...
    Angel2345 Angel2345 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I am always judged by people around me.

    People think I am slow or too weird and its really hurtful. I am never nasty to people I go out of my way to be nice to them, but everyone still thinks I am weird. Its often because of some of the thinks I like like Science Fiction or old music and its always really hurtful.
    joelex300 joelex300 18-21, M Jul 4

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    What's It To You :/

    Yes i've tryed to kill myself OKAY so i dont get why people that dont know me can judge me like you dont know what the **** i go though every day So who the **** are you to judge me.
    ohmylife ohmylife 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    I'm British i do stuff extreme

    for fun my **** is 9 1/2in i look funny but hey you don't know me and I bet you rape kids you ******* pedo I love myself and that's all that matters
    TheGuyThatsBritish TheGuyThatsBritish 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I just got blocked by someone

    who is courage enough to judge me behind a screen even though she doesn't know me and smart enough to know that I'm a liar! Ms Brunette4U your comment to one of my confessions you are accusing me of being a liar and you didn't give me the chance to explain everything to you by...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    Silfverberg Silfverberg 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Stop It

    You don't know anything about me, You don't know how i feel, you don't even know what i have been through, So keep your mouth shut and stop judging me "friends".
    AngelsOnFires AngelsOnFires 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    Tough Position

    I model for art classes and I'm pretty sure when that robe drops people form opinions of what kind of person I am.
    embraced embraced 26-30, M 36 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    It's like if I make one bad mistake they judge

    me on that one thing I did when there was a lot of other things that I did to make them happy!
    sweetcrystalynn sweetcrystalynn 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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