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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    I am a black woman. I work.

    I have a bachelor's degree. I have goals. I don't twerk. I have manners. I respect myself and others. I care. Don't judge me when you don't even know me. I'm offended.
    youreable youreable 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 28

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    nobody knows the real me.

    nobody knows how many times i've cried in my room when nobody was watching. nobody knows how many times i've lost hope, how many times i've been let down. nobody knows how many times i've felt like i'm about too snap, but i just don't, for the sakes of others. nobody knows the...
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    It used to happen all the time.

    'Oh you are amazing at spelling and reading and writing?' Smartass! That's pretentious! 'You don't understand Math?' You are so stupid! 'You help people online who you don't know?' That's naΓ―ve and stupid! 'You are so boring! Sometimes you need to shut the **** up!' 'You are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 5

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    I hate it when people judge me

    as lazy and feel it's okay to make snarky comments about my weight and food purchases.
    CapeTern CapeTern 61-65, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    Its funny how the people

    that know the least about you have the most to say.
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 5 Responses May 19

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    One of my sister in laws has never stopped just

    to get to know me . Ever since I met my husband she has judged me and mine and my husband relationship . She has felt she can judge how we run our marriage and she is not even married . She judges how we raise our kids and she does not even have any kids. So because of that we...
    princessandravensmom princessandravensmom 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 7

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 5 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    I hate people. I really do.

    I'm just too mind independent. I hate crowd places. I hate when people just can't keep things to themselves. I hate rude, judgmental comments they always have to make. I'm literally sick of people. I just want to do my things and avoid as much bull **** as possible. I work...
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I am a receptionist and I am getting sick

    and tired of people asking me personal questions and then judging me from my answers. People are always asking me if I have kids and I do not for a host of reasons that not really any one persons business. People respond with really you don't like kids, you didn't want any and...
    WarriorCatGrl WarriorCatGrl 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 21

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    itz..very.... painful

    for me...cz..I don't lyk them who judge me..."! specially I hate those. people...who judges me..bt they don't even know..me... sometimes its happens with me ..when.. my results are published at the notice board!!!!!! "! aaah!!!
    gaziraisa gaziraisa 13-15, F Jul 28

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 8

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    I hate being judge, especialy by my teacher

    what gives him the right to judge me! You don"t even know me much! so what if i have low self esteem! What"s your problem anyway?!
    nagaseiori nagaseiori 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    As much as I say and I don't a flying ****,

    I secretly do. I wish people would get to know me instead of hearing about me from other people. Most people think i'm some mean *** lunatic. Ok fine I admit to having a temper and who doesn't have one. I tend to get mad when I feel threatened, or if someone I care about gets...
    DeathSaw DeathSaw 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    No one is busy. It just depends on what number

    you are in their priorities.
    DeathThrone DeathThrone 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    GaleTheSwift GaleTheSwift 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 24

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    Love makes the world go around loving one

    another is also sexy. Remember love is a four letter word Just like sexy lust **** anal and many more Love all for me the sexy hot ladies.
    Zzzzya Zzzzya 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    so yesterday, I was messaged by a guy saying he

    was new to EP, so I said welcome, told him how much I loved EP... usual small talk. Then he messaged me "wtf!!!! you're all sympathetic to your kids and then you have all this secs stuff and nasty fetisshes.... I don't want to talk to you, you're a bad butterfly" he then told me...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 20

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    It's funny how people can judge me without

    walking in my shoes. My parents don't understand the anger I have built inside of me. Everytime I sit down, I think about the past and how everyone was teasing me. I tried getting help everywhere I went and people told me it wasn't a big deal until I tried to commit suicide in...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F Jul 31

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 16

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    what doesn't kill you might kill someone else.

    so dont sat "i`ve seen worese" or "it could be worse" Before you know me
    adamnk11 adamnk11 16-17, M Jul 28

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    It's just not right that people will judge you

    know matter where you go. Everywhere people judge. Even on EP they judge. Some people text you then you talk for a while and they just block you. Block you out. They ask for a pic and you give them one and they just stop messaging you. They unfriend you. People everywhere judge...
    AlphaSolaAmator AlphaSolaAmator 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    So taking it slow and trying to focus not on

    what someone says about me but my reaction to it. days in progress
    Clipz4her Clipz4her 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Like bruh. You've never talked to me,

    that's your fault for not wanting to get to know me. So stop talking **** ok πŸ˜‚ lol
    Ch3y Ch3y 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 19

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    What awful world this Universe would be,

    if we all be the same. Difference is a bless
    colonparentheses colonparentheses 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    TheKittehWarrior TheKittehWarrior 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I will never even be close to perfect,

    I openly admit that...so being told how awful I am for my choices in life, is redundant...I already know that some of my choices are not within the spectrum of eternal redemption.
    BackedByNeeds BackedByNeeds 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 14

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    Before you judge me in a negative way you

    probably ought to take some time to get to know me first. Why is it that so many people look at a person and judge them negatively without taking the time to get to know them? What's that old saying? You can't judge a book by it's cover?
    olivia81401 olivia81401 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    im tired of waiting for someone to love me the

    way i love her, i want to be happy with someone
    erichi erichi 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    well, strongly dislike.

    but, i'm gonna be added onto this experience anyway, so whatever
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 10

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    man I hate being judged by people I did 17

    years in prison just to get out to go back to do 15 more months in prison I mean I got locked out when I was 15 for assault kidnapping robbery I did my time respectfully then I got out of 33 got lunch backed up and I was 35 for a drug case in Seattle Washington now that I met...
    allenmra1 allenmra1 36-40, M 9 Responses a week ago

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    Useless comments by people here on me too.

    I thought this was supposed to be a friendly place
    riseandshine18 riseandshine18 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 22

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    What about being judged by those

    who do know you!? I just got home today from a psych ward after an attempt. It feels like the whole world is judging me. From the psychiatrist at the hospital to my family who I'm staying with. It's as though they are all saying to me "why would you do this to all the people...
    staceyg685 staceyg685 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm constantly catching myself erasing an

    experience I might post, thinking "I can't post this, they will judge me."
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Why is it that people think they can "change"

    my sexuality. I never made a choice about who i was attracted to. It wasnt because of a bad experience, it wasnt because i woke up one day and thought gee girls look great. When you tell a girl she made a mistake about being a lesbian you are being offensive, even if you dont...
    Ashleyy2 Ashleyy2 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    I have come to believe We all,

    are gulity of judging other people. Sad but true
    butterflylady21 butterflylady21 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    To any individual who is quick to judge oneself,

    are the people who feed off of actions, making their own look like pure gold. It only takes one person to look down upon and it's such a high, everyone engages, so we cut deeper and deeper until we've ******** them of nothing. Yet the ones who damage the mentality of a person...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It happens to me more often

    than most people think. They think that I am just another dumb girl and that I must like to go shopping and paint my nails and talk about boys all the time. While it is true that I like to do all of those things I don't think it's fair when people take a look at me and make...
    jillmyers91901 jillmyers91901 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I do it seems so far on here

    that I get nothing but judgemental comments and attacks. I believe the way I believe for a reason. It was what I was raised to believe, and how my church interprets the bible. instead of attacking people who are different from you than ask bout it. You may actually learn...
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 2

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    People mostly judge someone just bcos we dnt

    agree to follow certain social convention....but then what is the point in faking something when i know what i am doing is right...
    sanjuguha sanjuguha 26-30, F Aug 20

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    It's funny how some people make assumptions of

    who I am based on a few posted experiences. A few parts doesn't make the whole.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I keep a lot of anger inside of me from putting

    up with people ****. I can control myself and be the bigger person from many heavy situations. I have a high tolerance from drinking but when I drink so so much, I become someone different and say bad things. Even get aggressive. And when that happens, I'm getting judged looking...
    ladylush13 ladylush13 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So what's the point if I'm different from you,

    we still are human...deep down I wish you would realize I'm not just a punchbag or someone to talk your mess to πŸ˜·πŸ’€πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠβœŒ
    Peaceloveflowerchild Peaceloveflowerchild 18-21, F Jul 24

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    Being judged? hate it more

    than almost anything but I'm learning that if they're so judgemental and bold enough to keep saying it your face, you need to do the same! And not fight fire with fire but water with fire. Shut em down and ask why they even took time out of there day to make you feel bad or sad...
    Clipz4her Clipz4her 26-30, F 1 Response