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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    Ok so here's the story.

    I kept forgetting to turn a contract paper for facs and on the second day of the class the teacher said she was disappointed in me! Like wtf it's been a really difficult year and your going to judge me for not turning in a piece of paper!!! She was the newest teacher in the...
    Hersheykisses4love Hersheykisses4love 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 14

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    unintentionalninja unintentionalninja 16-17, T 4 Responses Feb 17

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 12, 2014

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    I'm constantly catching myself erasing an

    experience I might post, thinking "I can't post this, they will judge me."
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Whether it is about my looks

    or the way I act.......obviously I'm not perfect and I know that but why bother bringing someone down with criticism....you don't want to lie of course but rather how about just not say anything at all. Everyone is different and beautiful in their own ways whether you are able...
    NataliaHeart21 NataliaHeart21 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Yes, I am an Emo. Yes,

    I am Depressed. Yes, I Self-Harm. No, I don't believe in senseless Violence. I just have different motives than normal people. Yes, I idolize people like Jeffery Dommer and Michael Myers. But that doesn't mean I strive to be like then. Yes, I'm a Metal Head. No, I'm not a...
    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 10

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    You guys on Ep judge also.

    Everyone post stories and comment how they feel expecting people to be there but half you judge the people here. It's annoying grow up and learn the story.😤😤
    beatrice69 beatrice69 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Went to a restaurant

    and the first thing I saw was people started talking about me and judging me for the way I look I guess I just don't fit in anywhere.....
    Ki123 Ki123 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 9

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    goodnites1011 goodnites1011 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    It's stupid how we do

    that get to know a person first at least
    Wolfy14 Wolfy14 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Yeah. But I don't really give a what they think

    to be honest. I reckon deception only exists because people judge before knowing how the person really is like.
    timeisvaluable timeisvaluable 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    No one is busy. It just depends on what number

    you are in their priorities.
    KarenIsMyName KarenIsMyName 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Yeah. I'm annoyed by this.

    There are people in my school who know me as the 'Fat retarded gay' simply because I have had an awful year with death (Look at some of my old stories) and so I acted like an idiot to hide my feelings and ate a lot from sadness. I hid my feelings because I feel so awkward...
    goldenlord52 goldenlord52 13-15, M 5 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    I am tired of people judging me.

    .do you think I asked to be this way?! I am a mistake child..my mom got drunk one time and had s*x with another man and I was born..the man I call my dad isn't even my real dad..I have lung trouble and I get judged for it cause I am different..
    SunshineAndSmiles1 SunshineAndSmiles1 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Seriously, just because I like to stay in the

    library during lunch doesn't mean that I have no friends. If you actually asked me why I do it then you would know that I feel much more comfortable on my my own doing my own thing than going into one of my friend's groups where I only know that one person... Don't just assume...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    I get judged all the time,

    its really annoying. I am a vary sweet person. I get judged cuz of my disabilitys.
    themagijudal themagijudal 22-25, F 8 Responses Feb 8

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    nobody knows the real me.

    nobody knows how many times i've cried in my room when nobody was watching. nobody knows how many times i've lost hope, how many times i've been let down. nobody knows how many times i've felt like i'm about too snap, but i just don't, for the sakes of others. nobody knows the...
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    I don't like having eyes on me

    when I walk into places. I hate it when people talk about me , about what they HEARD about me and never approach me to confirm rumours. Most of the time I shy away and stay by myself, but sometimes , I just want to flip the bird and spew out a long line of bad words. Maybe I'm...
    swimswithcrocs swimswithcrocs 18-21, F Feb 14

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a

    distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually speak to me you have no idea what I'm actually like. Just wish people understood that more :(
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    I still hate it but I've recently started to

    not care anymore. I've tried for years and years to impress people. It never usually worked and I felt alone and different because of it. At some point, I stopped trying to be someone else and I got so tired of pretending. People continue to judge me but the difference is I'm...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 5

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    no one have the right to judge any one else

    until he knows him very well
    girlyboy83 girlyboy83 31-35, T 1 Response Feb 13

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    Not everyone will appreciate what you do

    for them. You have to figure out who’s worth your attention and who’s just taking advantage of you.
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 3 Responses Feb 21

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    why is it that our would has gotten

    so bad that just because people are older and talk to some younger doesn't mean theor isn't anything but trying help or just have fun:-)people also judge your profile name and don't check ito you before assuming the worst): people need to do research and find all sides before...
    daddytothefatherless daddytothefatherless 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 5

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    just because i don't smile all the time

    or speak when people stare at me doesn't mean I'm a mad sad or grumpy person . I'm in the store looking for a shirt the guy going to tell me if you smile a little maybe someone will help you . like if that's your pick up line your weak . second nobody know what i like so they...
    brittany111 brittany111 18-21, F Feb 25

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    My name is Heaven. I simply searched my name

    not to long ago, and the cruel comments from peoples opinions of my name is terrible!!! Saying, the girl will grow up to do drugs or be a **** star??? Excuse me but this is a name, not a frick'in horoscope!!! First off, even the slightest smell of even cigarettes disgusts me...
    HeavenElizabeth6262 HeavenElizabeth6262 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    What is it with people

    who assure you that they will listen to any problem you have and then judge you for being who you are?! If you can't help, why bother offering it in the first place!!!!
    LoneViolet LoneViolet 26-30, F Feb 6

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    You can't go anywhere

    now without people judging you yet they know nothing about you how poor has society become now
    stephenh95 stephenh95 18-21, M Feb 20

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    I have a secret that no one knows not

    even my family cuz I'm afraid they will think of me differently
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    ScarredVelvet ScarredVelvet 22-25, F Feb 9

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    a lot of people in my university thought I was

    dumb and that I only have the looks. I get this a lot. I may be a charmer (lol) but that doesn't mean I'm dumb. Looks + Brain = Sexy
    BlackAJFrost BlackAJFrost 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    One of the worst things you can do to another

    human being is not give them a chance, sometimes people aren't as bad as they first appear to be. Sometimes the strongest of people are the most sensitive inside, and sometimes what you think to be a quiet person are the loudest when you catch them alone. We all have that...
    TropicalArctic TropicalArctic 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    The only thing worse

    than being judged by people who don't know me is by being judged by people who barely know me, but for some reason think they know me on a deep level.
    sweeterthansugar95 sweeterthansugar95 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I know this world everybody going to judge u n

    you have to accept it even if it's good r bad but damn I hate it people should WANNA get to know me b4 u judge me the worst when it's by your own family .
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    When people get to know me

    and we're having a conversation about first meeting, people usually say that they thought I was mean or something along those lines... Me, I don't have a poker face at all. Also, when I'm not smiling or anything, my facial structure is I guess where I look 'mean' or 'sad'. This...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    god1011 god1011 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Someone slid into my messages telling me how

    gorgeous and beautiful I supposed to be and then first if all is cowardly enough to not even put a picture of himself on the thing when he has a profile name of charming and cute and wonders why girls are trying to get on him. so I ask for a pic and he says no because he thinks...
    thebladeisbae0718 thebladeisbae0718 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 12

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    goodnites1011 goodnites1011 22-25, M Feb 25

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    People are just jealous

    or don't understand.
    MaxyD MaxyD 18-21, F 1 Response