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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 9 Responses Jun 16

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    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11

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    A lot of people would say I looked a bit ugly

    and that I seem weak. But trust me—if they mess with me, I'll knock them out in one punch. I'm not what I seem to other people.
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    The judges. Are judges.

    And has beens. And fake christians. And malcontents. And peers having a bad head day. And lazy pigs who dont do research. Fokyn idiots.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 10

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    people should not be judged by their skin color,

    sexuality, or the way that they dress. People should only be judged by the way they act towards you as well as how they act towards other. so don't judge anymore before you know the real truth.
    madiek madiek 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    As I enter Year 6, everything in my life

    altered. I dread my class, my so called 'friends', and the crazy events.. I can't handle it anymore! My class MOSTLY FRIENDS- Not to be rude, but there were new people (from the year before) that already made good friends however, I didn't. All of my best friends were in...
    ihatemylife236 ihatemylife236 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    Those people who take one look at you

    and decide what kind of person you are, who do not even say one word to you or give you the opportunity to talk to them because their arrogance controls them and they MUSt be right.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3

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    I hate when people stare at me

    because of my wheelchair. I understand your not used to seeing a teenager in a wheelchair but I would rather you ask questions than stare it just makes me super uncomfortable
    Kaylamay17 Kaylamay17 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    So my friend out of nowhere asks me

    if I asked a guy we go to church together if I asked him to smoke. **** him lieing. I quit that ****. Then people judge me for ever doing it. Ya I drank, smoked cigs, smoked pot, popped and snorted pills but you have no right to judge. You don't know what I've been through that...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Aug 25

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    People are so ******* messed up.

    They suck.Society tells you to be yourself and then judges you and messes with you and make you fall. They don't know anything about you, and then judge you.
    SerialChiller SerialChiller 13-15, M 3 Responses Sep 12

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    ohhh you're a princess well.

    ....I''M THE QUEEN *****!
    Yovanna Yovanna 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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    If you dont know me dont judge me i may look

    like a weird person to begin with but im always nice and good to get along with
    mrgears20 mrgears20 13-15, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Absolutely !

    Forever, I feel, I have had a bee in my bonnet about people presuming things about me that don't really know me... Firstly, being a woman, I am not meek and mild, ok? I'm not helpless and defenceless.... Then....ok, I AM young, but I know my own mind, y'know? Don't treat me...
    AmberDuponte AmberDuponte 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    maybe i have a disability?

    ?? before some of them talk about how im slow and lazy... i just dont tell ppl i have this **** :/ so they judge.. even if i told them theyd still judge
    kellys7 kellys7 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 2

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    lani007 lani007 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    It's part of my reason

    for choosing anonymity and wanting to preserve it. Honestly, people are so stupid and judgemental sometimes using nothing but prejudice they're too blind to even see. We all have prejudices if we're honest, but we could at least have the civility to not let them become strong...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    Ok so I say I admire inner beauty .

    .. And someone points out that that can't be true because my shirts off in my profile picture ..? I worked so hard for the body I have. I obsessed over my body image juggling eating disorders and depression. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad for me by any means , we all...
    anthonymusto55 anthonymusto55 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Ok so I hate being judged in general.

    I would be more open about my crossdressing to people I know IRL but I'm afraid to hear there reactions and they would think differently of me. That's why I go on EP, because I believe it is a judgement free zone where people of similar intrest can share experiences and message...
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Sep 3

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    seriously it hurts to be judged

    when they don't even know you and you can't do anything but to just cry inside. really what does it takes to give hurtful comments to someone who's in a depressed state? Rubbing salt onto their wounds don't make them feel better. Have more empathy guys
    trappedpixies trappedpixies 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    You don't know my struggle you don't know my

    weaknesses so why form an opinion without getting to know someone first? Why judge when you yourself are imperfect
    AliyahXXX AliyahXXX 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 27

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    It's rather annoying.

    I get adults assuming I'm stupid because of my age (and what some girls my age did last year...), I have people tell their kids not to socialize with me, that I'm a bad influence because of the way i dress. How exactly am i a bad influence? I don't dress in revealing clothing, I...
    SilenceInBlackAndWhite SilenceInBlackAndWhite 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I hate it. Life sucks sometimes.

    People judge me with the way I look.
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    im at scool all the time n ppl say tht im ugly

    n i need 2 die b4 they no me wht the hell is wrong with ppl these days
    acoburn acoburn 13-15, F 7 Responses May 17

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    Well this week was almost ****

    but almost great at the same time. Like what do you expect for a 13 year old girl that's still learning the rules of life? I mean it's irritating I get these comments from some people. Just **** it I'm going to drink a can of soda...
    DysfunctionalPiano DysfunctionalPiano 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a

    distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually speak to me you have no idea what I'm actually like. Just wish people understood that more :(
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 6

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    I hate when people judge me

    and don't take the time to get to know me. I had to find out the hard way that people like that aren't even worth my time. People tend to judge me because I have no job, car, the fact that I still live with my parents, etc. How about I had all those things and lost them. If you...
    rayray87 rayray87 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 2

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    They say be yourself,

    but people today judge you quickly . For example, I am always called a weirdo behind my back at school because when I clap I do it like a seal or because when I laugh sometimes I'm like a mental hospital patient. DAMN IT PEOPLE... Judge yourself first before the others
    loonylynx loonylynx 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't judge me unless you can walk my life in

    my shoes. Sometimes i wish others could see what all i been through especially the ones who judge me on how i act and what i do. Most of then only know the bad things because of rumors.they think they can change me by cramming things down my throat like religion, advice, or just...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    What Is This, Court?

    Don't judge a book by its's cover. I don't pass judgement and I don't like being judged. Especially by people who don't know me from Adam. Leave the judging to the Almighty.
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2012

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    So my friend out of nowhere asks me

    if I asked a guy we go to church together if I asked him to smoke. **** him lieing. I quit that ****. Then people judge me for ever doing it. Ya I drank, smoked cigs, smoked pot, popped and snorted pills but you have no right to judge. You don't know what I've been through that...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 24 Responses Mar 12

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    Seriously, just because I like to stay in the

    library during lunch doesn't mean that I have no friends. If you actually asked me why I do it then you would know that I feel much more comfortable on my my own doing my own thing than going into one of my friend's groups where I only know that one person... Don't just assume...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    That's pretty much everyone,

    but I'm starting not to care what they think, but it's that no one would want to be my friend
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    When people judge you

    for being a country girl who got abused since you were two grow up I am who I am!!
    maddog1000 maddog1000 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I come from and live in a place

    where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's nothing wrong with being different. I get judged for the personality I have; caring, creative, shy, etc. I get judged for the music I...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    Think About It......

    There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why there the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone.
    Miss25234 Miss25234 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    All we want is a little appreciation.

    All we want is to be acknowledged. All we want is to be taken into account. All we want is to flee pain through temporary satisfaction. All we want is to be loved unconditionally. And our struggle comes from not finding these too easily. Sometimes not even in our own selves.
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    What's It To You :/

    Yes i've tryed to kill myself OKAY so i dont get why people that dont know me can judge me like you dont know what the **** i go though every day So who the **** are you to judge me.
    ohmylife ohmylife 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    OK target me for being

    who I am just because you do not agree or like what I say. I'm a sub in an open D/s relationship,i watch **** with or without my master, I was abused by my mother, i was abused very young sexually, I am just me if you dislike me then I'm lucky I do not need judgemental people...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I Don'T Understand It...

    I hate the fact that people will always judge you by what you look like no matter what you do, no matter how much education you have received, or that you are an honest and decent person that would never hurt anyone, or the fact that you don't have a lot of money or are not...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Imagine posting a comment

    and you're trying to help them out....posting a few kind words....letting them know that they do matter and that they have a future. You're just trying to make thier day a little better....hoping that they don't pick up that knife today. Then somebody else bluntly calls you a...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 4 Responses Jun 11

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    I just got blocked by someone

    who is courage enough to judge me behind a screen even though she doesn't know me and smart enough to know that I'm a liar! Ms Brunette4U your comment to one of my confessions you are accusing me of being a liar and you didn't give me the chance to explain everything to you by...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    People are like your to small to carry

    that giant backpack or why are you such a short nerd. Well just because im smart and short doesnt give you any damn right to judge me Excuse my language
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Stop It

    You don't know anything about me, You don't know how i feel, you don't even know what i have been through, So keep your mouth shut and stop judging me "friends".
    AngelsOnFires AngelsOnFires 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    Judge By People Who Don't Know Me

    Do I hate being judged by people who don't even know me?  No!  I also can't do anything about it too.  You can judge me if you'd like and it won't do nothing to me cause I don't know you and you don't know me either.  I won't waste my time worrying about what you think of me...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 9 Responses May 15, 2011

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