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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    I don't mean to sound pissed,

    but how much bulls**t can happen to me when I try to do something or be somebody when people who don't even know me as a human being don't give me a f****** chance!! I don't mean to sound upset either. We all make mistakes and we learn from those mistakes. I bet everyone on this...
    JK7448 JK7448 18-21, F Mar 20

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    I know this world everybody going to judge u n

    you have to accept it even if it's good r bad but damn I hate it people should WANNA get to know me b4 u judge me the worst when it's by your own family .
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I am tired of people judging me.

    .do you think I asked to be this way?! I am a mistake child..my mom got drunk one time and had s*x with another man and I was born..the man I call my dad isn't even my real dad..I have lung trouble and I get judged for it cause I am different..
    SunshineAndSmiles1 SunshineAndSmiles1 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 2

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    Judging me from the messages?

    Ha. See you in hell.
    WinchesterLover WinchesterLover 18-21, F Mar 21

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    I'm constantly catching myself erasing an

    experience I might post, thinking "I can't post this, they will judge me."
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    Okay, I just posted something about "I love

    people I can't have" and this douchebag "GOOGLESPAMCANDY" posted something very rude. Also, his profile says he's 51-55. I'm really ******* pissed right now.
    lunarsolar36 lunarsolar36 13-15, T 2 Responses Mar 21

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    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M Mar 21

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    When people get to know me

    and we're having a conversation about first meeting, people usually say that they thought I was mean or something along those lines... Me, I don't have a poker face at all. Also, when I'm not smiling or anything, my facial structure is I guess where I look 'mean' or 'sad'. This...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a

    distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually speak to me you have no idea what I'm actually like. Just wish people understood that more :(
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F Mar 15

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    why is it that our would has gotten

    so bad that just because people are older and talk to some younger doesn't mean theor isn't anything but trying help or just have fun:-)people also judge your profile name and don't check ito you before assuming the worst): people need to do research and find all sides before...
    daddytothefatherless daddytothefatherless 46-50, M 5 Responses Feb 5

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    When people tell me to grow up it's honestly

    kind of sad. They think that because I'm happy and optimistic that I'm also naive. What classifies me as an adult? A job? A husband? A number? Bad credit? Stress? A strong disposition to lasting joy? People can know so little about a person but still judge them and it's sad to...
    soulfreedom soulfreedom 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I've been through a lot growing up

    as a totally blind girl in PA. I've taken physical and verbal abuse, and tons of judgement. I've recently realized that I'm a llesbian, but my family won't accept it, and has called me various types of ugly most of my life. Maybe that's why I'm so shy. I would love to be in a...
    blindangel92 blindangel92 22-25, F Mar 16

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    I am judged all the time.

    mostly by people who don't even know me. It really sucks
    TheRebel28 TheRebel28 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    One of the worst things you can do to another

    human being is not give them a chance, sometimes people aren't as bad as they first appear to be. Sometimes the strongest of people are the most sensitive inside, and sometimes what you think to be a quiet person are the loudest when you catch them alone. We all have that...
    TropicalArctic TropicalArctic 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it

    perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be attractive you MUST have a 6pack, or look like some movie star. And even for women, they are force fed this image of skinny thin women in bikinis and...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I have a secret that no one knows not

    even my family cuz I'm afraid they will think of me differently
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate and have a distain

    for being judged by idiots who do not even know me. I just ripped into three guys who responded with a judgmental attitude toward me being single and pregnant. Who died and made some of these EP God? If you do not know me, then shut the hell up with your judgmental attitudes...
    jessicabeth jessicabeth 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 20

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    For the past (about) eight years I've been

    raising my two children without much help from their dad (who now has another kid with someone else) I can't even call him for any kind of help without him yelling at me about how he has to work. Nevermind the fact that I always have to take off work to tend to their needs (I.e...
    Hteag Hteag 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 22

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 12, 2014

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    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 14

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    I hate the fact my mother

    and younger brother do this to me. they dont have to hear my story because im not important not until i lash out at them.
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    Look out for Codycope17.

    He's some guy who just randomly judged me about trusting people on here when half the people here are fake a holes. How can you blame me for warning people about that in some posts I make? But now it just seems like I **** people off no matter what it is that I do and no matter...
    BrandonVidya2014 BrandonVidya2014 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    It's really annoying honestly.

    People can be so stupid lol.
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 6

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    Why do I hate people

    so much :/ gr.
    XXimdeadinsideXX XXimdeadinsideXX 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 14

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Ok so I'm half Mexican half hondurien

    and people seem to think that just cause I'm Latina and at a young age I'm going to be like the typical crazed Latina girl. Like come on not every girl wants to grow up at 14-17 and become pregnant.
    HeidiBD HeidiBD 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    nobody knows the real me.

    nobody knows how many times i've cried in my room when nobody was watching. nobody knows how many times i've lost hope, how many times i've been let down. nobody knows how many times i've felt like i'm about too snap, but i just don't, for the sakes of others. nobody knows the...
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    I just hate people so much sometimes.

    I try to give advice and help on here but I have been attacked by feminists, christians and people that think I'm a pervert. No I'm just trying to help people. But I wont help those people. If I could harm them I probably would. I never did anything to anybody but I get treated...
    canusernamebemyusername canusernamebemyusername 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M Mar 23

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    Whether it is about my looks

    or the way I act.......obviously I'm not perfect and I know that but why bother bringing someone down with criticism....you don't want to lie of course but rather how about just not say anything at all. Everyone is different and beautiful in their own ways whether you are able...
    NataliaHeart21 NataliaHeart21 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    Soloy0 Soloy0 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    shazzarr shazzarr 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    i hate being judged by people.

    i know what is right for me . some people are making me mad
    jeniferpokharel jeniferpokharel 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    People are just jealous

    or don't understand.
    MaxyD MaxyD 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    It's stupid how we do

    that get to know a person first at least