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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    Because they haven't walked in my shoes.

    How can u say...This and that about a person when u know nothing about them on a deep level. then old expression " ***** face" and "*** hole" face is a look. take the time to look past that
    alackeret alackeret 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    nobody knows the real me.

    nobody knows how many times i've cried in my room when nobody was watching. nobody knows how many times i've lost hope, how many times i've been let down. nobody knows how many times i've felt like i'm about too snap, but i just don't, for the sakes of others. nobody knows the...
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    You guys on Ep judge also.

    Everyone post stories and comment how they feel expecting people to be there but half you judge the people here. It's annoying grow up and learn the story.😤😤
    beatrice69 beatrice69 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 12, 2014

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    For the past (about) eight years I've been

    raising my two children without much help from their dad (who now has another kid with someone else) I can't even call him for any kind of help without him yelling at me about how he has to work. Nevermind the fact that I always have to take off work to tend to their needs (I.e...
    Hteag Hteag 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 22

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    I hate the fact my mother

    and younger brother do this to me. they dont have to hear my story because im not important not until i lash out at them.
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    ok so when i was 15 i was dating a girl

    who introduced me to this 21 year old guy. i fell madly in love with him lost my virginity to him and wanted to be with him more than anything. because of age difference we had to split up and in the mean time the girl i was dating ended up being with the guys younger brother...
    lostwithlovewithbrothers lostwithlovewithbrothers 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i hate being judged by people.

    i know what is right for me . some people are making me mad
    jeniferpokharel jeniferpokharel 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    No one is busy. It just depends on what number

    you are in their priorities.
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a

    distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually speak to me you have no idea what I'm actually like. Just wish people understood that more :(
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    I am judged all the time.

    mostly by people who don't even know me. It really sucks
    TheRebel28 TheRebel28 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I do it seems so far on here

    that I get nothing but judgemental comments and attacks. I believe the way I believe for a reason. It was what I was raised to believe, and how my church interprets the bible. instead of attacking people who are different from you than ask bout it. You may actually learn...
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    Everyone always has to stare at me.

    They always have to say something to others about me, they glare at me, laugh at me, and start rumors about me, and I never know where this hatred is coming from. I just don't know what I did to deserve this.
    phillxp phillxp 13-15, M 3 Responses Apr 9

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    sazzle17 sazzle17 16-17, F Apr 13

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    I hate and have a distain

    for being judged by idiots who do not even know me. I just ripped into three guys who responded with a judgmental attitude toward me being single and pregnant. Who died and made some of these EP God? If you do not know me, then shut the hell up with your judgmental attitudes...
    jessicabeth jessicabeth 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 20

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    nikkiluv87 nikkiluv87 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 8

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    I know this world everybody going to judge u n

    you have to accept it even if it's good r bad but damn I hate it people should WANNA get to know me b4 u judge me the worst when it's by your own family .
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Everyone gets at one point in there lives

    where they question their existence and I am in this situation with my ex girlfriend and she keeps on hating me and I ignore her and idk even why she says you hurt me enough yet all I did was break up with her and also in just having stress and people are just ..... And I have a...
    Lifeishopeles Lifeishopeles 18-21, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    why is it that our would has gotten

    so bad that just because people are older and talk to some younger doesn't mean theor isn't anything but trying help or just have fun:-)people also judge your profile name and don't check ito you before assuming the worst): people need to do research and find all sides before...
    daddytothefatherless daddytothefatherless 46-50, M 5 Responses Feb 5

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    They judge me like a picture book ,

    By the colours like they forgot to read..
    rubylilyrose rubylilyrose 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I love how a lot of you judge me

    when you don't even know who I am. How about before you start being a smartass thinking you're right all the time, how about you get to know me and see my point of view of things before running your mouth like a ******* idiot. When I make a post, it isn't to start a problem...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I detest others who judge me

    and don't know a damn thing about me or my family at all. If you do not know me shut the hell up and move on. You have no idea what I have faced in life and what I have done to correct the situations I have endured.
    juliewardatbeach juliewardatbeach 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Why is it that people think they can "change"

    my sexuality. I never made a choice about who i was attracted to. It wasnt because of a bad experience, it wasnt because i woke up one day and thought gee girls look great. When you tell a girl she made a mistake about being a lesbian you are being offensive, even if you dont...
    Ashleyy2 Ashleyy2 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    i had this a few days

    or weeks but i always hate poeple who dont like me in short shorts and dont tell me
    madi107 madi107 18-21, M Apr 11

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    silverxrose silverxrose 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I find the fact that today’s society finds it

    perfectly acceptable to judge a person based on appearance alone, or that the media would have us believe that in order to be attractive you MUST have a 6pack, or look like some movie star. And even for women, they are force fed this image of skinny thin women in bikinis and...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Mar 17

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    Ok so I'm half Mexican half hondurien

    and people seem to think that just cause I'm Latina and at a young age I'm going to be like the typical crazed Latina girl. Like come on not every girl wants to grow up at 14-17 and become pregnant.
    HeidiBD HeidiBD 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    People always tell me to try

    and be happy but how can I when it seems like every person is on a mission to make me feel absolutely miserable and self conscious about my existence.
    michellerozsa michellerozsa 18-21, F 5 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    hope1022 hope1022 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    Judging me from the messages?

    Ha. See you in hell.
    WinchesterLover WinchesterLover 18-21, F Mar 21

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    Went for a career path interview at the large

    corporate I was working for at the time, after five minutes of inane questions, these fools who I had never met in my life decided I had no future at that company! Note - they didnt have the guts to tell me in person, all I got was a report. Not my loss, I left not long after...
    csouls csouls 31-35, M Apr 15

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    One of the worst things you can do to another

    human being is not give them a chance, sometimes people aren't as bad as they first appear to be. Sometimes the strongest of people are the most sensitive inside, and sometimes what you think to be a quiet person are the loudest when you catch them alone. We all have that...
    TropicalArctic TropicalArctic 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I hate being judged and have people make their

    assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what they want to without getting to know me first.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    When people get to know me

    and we're having a conversation about first meeting, people usually say that they thought I was mean or something along those lines... Me, I don't have a poker face at all. Also, when I'm not smiling or anything, my facial structure is I guess where I look 'mean' or 'sad'. This...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know

    Me and saying things on here that are not true..............?
    hope1022 hope1022 22-25, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just hate people so much sometimes.

    I try to give advice and help on here but I have been attacked by feminists, christians and people that think I'm a pervert. No I'm just trying to help people. But I wont help those people. If I could harm them I probably would. I never did anything to anybody but I get treated...
    canusernamebemyusername canusernamebemyusername 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    shazzarr shazzarr 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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