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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    People love to just judge me!

    ! I don't know, do I look like a bad a guy. Then why is it like that XD even little brats think I am lol
    Notimeline Notimeline 18-21, M May 9

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    No one is busy. It just depends on what number

    you are in their priorities.
    ElizabethSwanTurner ElizabethSwanTurner 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    One of the worst things you can do to another

    human being is not give them a chance, sometimes people aren't as bad as they first appear to be. Sometimes the strongest of people are the most sensitive inside, and sometimes what you think to be a quiet person are the loudest when you catch them alone. We all have that...
    TropicalArctic TropicalArctic 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Why is it that people think they can "change"

    my sexuality. I never made a choice about who i was attracted to. It wasnt because of a bad experience, it wasnt because i woke up one day and thought gee girls look great. When you tell a girl she made a mistake about being a lesbian you are being offensive, even if you dont...
    Ashleyy2 Ashleyy2 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    Horseofdiffcolor Horseofdiffcolor 22-25, T 1 Response May 19

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    you may know me by my name,

    face,personality but you really dont know the true me so back off *******
    GeramieKrissia GeramieKrissia 18-21, F May 13

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    Don't we all..... Lol.

    Sometimes it's not as bad as you first thought. Other times it's way worse then you could have imagined. But it does blow over if enough time goes by..... Or you leave town. Lol
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses May 13

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    even my mom doesn't know anything about me

    so who are u to judge me ?????
    GeramieKrissia GeramieKrissia 18-21, F 5 Responses May 17

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    "You," he said, "are a terribly real thing in a

    terribly false world. And that, I believe, is why you are in so much pain."
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 days ago

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    I tell u something. I dont care.

    I will never change, for no soul. I love my interests, i love who i am and to become who i am i worked on me hard. I was depressed and sick, but i got out of it and became a strong woman.
    tokyo60s tokyo60s 31-35, F May 13

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    Hi I'm 15 years old and I'm gay

    and I'm still in the closet. I am often bullied and judge in school for my voice and I'm a shy person. I told my friends that I was gay and they supported me and told them to keep it as a secret. But everytime I have a crush on a boy on school, I found out that he is straight...
    simplyrebelliouz simplyrebelliouz 13-15, M 7 Responses Apr 27

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    I am a black woman. I work.

    I have a bachelor's degree. I have goals. I don't twerk. I have manners. I respect myself and others. I care. Don't judge me when you don't even know me. I'm offended.
    youreable youreable 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 28

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    a lot of people in my university thought I was

    dumb and that I only have the looks. I get this a lot. I may be a charmer (lol) but that doesn't mean I'm dumb. Looks + Brain = Sexy
    BlackAJFrost BlackAJFrost 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    I think it's ironic that with all the equal

    rights awareness and no bullying campaigns people still not only judge harshly but use cruel words. I believe instead of improving as hoped individuals are instead going backwards and displaying unkind behavior. In my understandimg also, when 2 or more friends give all...
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 2 Responses May 7

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    Sometimes I kinda do

    so I can see flaws, or errors that I do. It would depend on who says it and how it was said. Other times I just ignore and keep being myself. It can be very tiring though and it makes me want to take naps when some people do it. It can also make me laugh when I make someone eat...
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    When people get to know me

    and we're having a conversation about first meeting, people usually say that they thought I was mean or something along those lines... Me, I don't have a poker face at all. Also, when I'm not smiling or anything, my facial structure is I guess where I look 'mean' or 'sad'. This...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    So I am a single dad of two kids.

    I have had women turn me down for dates because I have them 24/. You don't even know me and you judge me. Well I would rather have my kids any day of the week.
    timberland1972 timberland1972 41-45 4 Responses May 9

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    Ever heard the word don't judge a book by it's

    cover. Well that is me. I may seem moody and shy on the outside bit once people see my good side it is respectful and caring because I care of other people feelings at times. I may look smart or like I am good at math cause I am Asian and where glasses but I am not. It's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 3

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    Somebody whom I don't

    even know called me an autistic retard because I was speaking politely to them during an argument. I have never spoken to them in my life and yet the choose to act like they can insult me like that. I know an autistic person. It infuriated me.
    MyLivingLife MyLivingLife 13-15, M 5 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Colby. You pathetic excuse

    for a human being. Why cant you just **** off? You cant judge me just because you're dating my friend. Especially when you've hurt her again. Don't ever think for one moment that I will hesitate to snap your pathetic neck you lying son of a *****.
    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446 13-15, F 10 Responses May 6

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    In high school, even

    though I went to an all-girls school, I knew guys from schools around the area, through my friends. Most guys back in HS seemed to think I was sexually active and therefore "easy" because of my shape. I guess it's also why people find it hard to believe I'm a virgin :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 20

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    https://www.facebook.

    com/video.php?v=1533766690226995 Like seriously.. What the actual Fučk! This video about judgement is very very very real. I guarantee everyone's gonna not read this but okay. You can't just judge a girl by her looks, or anybody for that matter, wether it be an old lady, a...
    3st3ll3 3st3ll3 13-15, F 8 Responses Apr 9

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 12, 2014

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    My thing is that you don't

    even know me so why do you think you have the right to say anything.
    Alex4eve Alex4eve 13-15, F May 8

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    Why people have to: _look down _And Judge

    someone. If they are really good people,They will not spend their time to judge someone or talk behind someone back. I think people like this are absolutely BAD! Not even know someone clearly. And acting like know so so clear. It's a Shame thing!
    Frozzen Frozzen 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I still don't understand how my name ends up in

    the mouths of people I've never spoke to a day in my life.
    Alex4eve Alex4eve 13-15, F 1 Response May 15

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    I know this world everybody going to judge u n

    you have to accept it even if it's good r bad but damn I hate it people should WANNA get to know me b4 u judge me the worst when it's by your own family .
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I don't have time for this.

    Before I even get to talk i get told to shut up. By my cousin. Im tired of being strong. I wanna
    Tdollablind Tdollablind 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    Story of my life. Why they do it is beyond me.

    At a certain point, the "why"s become useless.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19

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    I'm sorry that I have an ***

    and I like to wear shorts...don't see why it's required that I don't wear clothes that other girls can get away with. I have just as much the right as they do. Mine aren't as short as theirs but still...geez.
    Beijodeabacaxi Beijodeabacaxi 18-21, F 3 Responses May 8

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    Its funny how the people

    that know the least about you have the most to say.
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 5 Responses May 19

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    I don't get how people can judge one another

    when they don't even know them. I'm insecure and I have so many things going on in my life. Yes I know I'm not pretty, skinny, not very funny, etc, but can you please not say it to my face?
    bipolardisorder bipolardisorder 13-15, F 2 Responses May 3

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    I hate people. I really do.

    I'm just too mind independent. I hate crowd places. I hate when people just can't keep things to themselves. I hate rude, judgmental comments they always have to make. I'm literally sick of people. I just want to do my things and avoid as much bull **** as possible. I work...
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm constantly catching myself erasing an

    experience I might post, thinking "I can't post this, they will judge me."
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 9 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    This girl texted me roses are red violets are

    blue you look like a ***** and ur friends are too.oker then
    stella2b3 stella2b3 13-15, F 6 Responses May 20

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    why is it that our would has gotten

    so bad that just because people are older and talk to some younger doesn't mean theor isn't anything but trying help or just have fun:-)people also judge your profile name and don't check ito you before assuming the worst): people need to do research and find all sides before...
    daddytothefatherless daddytothefatherless 46-50, M 5 Responses Feb 5

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    I have to remember that some people are

    miserable and it's best not to allow them to make me miserable
    Hteag Hteag 31-35, F 1 Response May 3

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    I am not your expectations,

    I refuse to give somebody the right to call me a thug or something else based on my skin color
    StarGazer88 StarGazer88 26-30, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate being judged and have people make their

    assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what they want to without getting to know me first.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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