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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    I know this world everybody going to judge u n

    you have to accept it even if it's good r bad but damn I hate it people should WANNA get to know me b4 u judge me the worst when it's by your own family .
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    Seriously, just because I like to stay in the

    library during lunch doesn't mean that I have no friends. If you actually asked me why I do it then you would know that I feel much more comfortable on my my own doing my own thing than going into one of my friend's groups where I only know that one person... Don't just assume...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28, 2014

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    Why is everyone so focused on what I'm doing?

    Mind your own damn business.
    missANONYMOUS13 missANONYMOUS13 18-21, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    My friend Seth in England calls this 'pigeon

    holing'. Judging someone without really knowing them. It is a hateful and impolite aspect of modern life. If you want to be well received you must be prepared to put yourself out getting to know someone.
    Corzomec Corzomec 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate that some people come to say mean things

    about me and they don't even know me... What have I done that makes them hate me?
    shethia shethia 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    True what we can do. What

    if the one meant to did or didn't what if it was you. Those are called keys and what you did too. Keep your heads up on the last replay I got!!! I'm sorry
    Rcity5 Rcity5 26-30, M Dec 29, 2014

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    The one thing that irritates me more is

    when people from other countries just see me as a 'Typical English white guy' type and instantly tarnish me with the same brush as their own perception of what english guys/Brits are like in a negative and demeaning way in many topics, yes we are not perfect and no we don't know...
    xxSTEVE7xx xxSTEVE7xx 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    Well I am sorry I can't help it

    that I am a certain way. Geez people really wanna get on my nerves sometimes!!!
    DrPepperFanatic97 DrPepperFanatic97 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    Yeah. I'm annoyed by this.

    There are people in my school who know me as the 'Fat retarded gay' simply because I have had an awful year with death (Look at some of my old stories) and so I acted like an idiot to hide my feelings and ate a lot from sadness. I hid my feelings because I feel so awkward...
    goldenlord52 goldenlord52 13-15, M 5 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Yeah, but no matter what I'll be judged like

    having too big boobs a bum, being too short being black :(
    ashleyrocksxoxo ashleyrocksxoxo 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Earlier today, I was at the mall buying gifts

    for a few friends and all of a sudden, an old acquaintance shows up and starts mouthing off at me. She tells me how useless I am, how I am still a baby over the death of my parents. The most insulting one she said was how my parents (she called them "f**kwads") gave birth to me...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 6 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20, 2014

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    I have a secret that no one knows not

    even my family cuz I'm afraid they will think of me differently
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19, 2014

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    I'm constantly catching myself erasing an

    experience I might post, thinking "I can't post this, they will judge me."
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 10 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a

    distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually speak to me you have no idea what I'm actually like. Just wish people understood that more :(
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2014

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    If you judge people based on looks

    or rumors you have heard, then you deserve the **** you get from those you deem 'worthy' of talking to you. I never judge a person without trying to talk to them and get to know them
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jan 1

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    Like seriously, you don't know me,

    you just don't like me. Just stay away from me or just talk it out. I don't care I just don't want it to be a drama series. Just give me a break thanks.
    InsanelyCrazy InsanelyCrazy 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    I am trying to introduce people to this guy I

    fell in love with who is in all probability my soulmate. Nobody seems to really get it though. :::sigh Then I remember why it is I moved as far away around the world as I could. I miss the closeness of people but at the same time I do not miss the judgement. While my family...
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2014

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    arlineswift arlineswift 18-21, F Dec 25, 2014

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    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    F**king hate it when people are judged by

    strangers; just because you know exactly what they like/love, and know what you want in life. Don't judge me when you don't know me personally. -__-
    Varjo Varjo 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    You will always run away from me sandy.

    ...event some bad investments i made over the years.... You will always run away from me.....your jealous Even with me being heavy....Your jealous You dont have the poplarity, our band leader wants you now where near our shows......the customers always ask for ME if they do...
    ajgriff ajgriff 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    I hate it. They thing of me

    as a mean person or stuck up , I think they judge me on the because I never really talk & don't bother anyone because I don't want any drama with anyone haha but it's whatever I guess :/
    ashleeyj5 ashleeyj5 13-15, F Jan 15

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    I hate being judged and have people make their

    assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what they want to without getting to know me first.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm in college, 3rd year,

    and I will admit I don't really know any people like that and I never tried to make an effort to. Sure I talk to others, but I've always been that one to keep my closets "Day 1's" the ones who have been with me before college. My roommate is my bestfriend who is a guy and also...
    vadupree vadupree 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I just hate when people judge me

    even though they never met me and dont know who i am. Just gimme a steel chair and i'll wack their *****. Like, who raised you people ? Dont you ever think that words do hurt people ?
    annaambrose annaambrose 13-15 Jan 12

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    One of the worst things you can do to another

    human being is not give them a chance, sometimes people aren't as bad as they first appear to be. Sometimes the strongest of people are the most sensitive inside, and sometimes what you think to be a quiet person are the loudest when you catch them alone. We all have that...
    TropicalArctic TropicalArctic 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    leahedmonds leahedmonds 13-15, F Dec 30, 2014

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    When people get to know me

    and we're having a conversation about first meeting, people usually say that they thought I was mean or something along those lines... Me, I don't have a poker face at all. Also, when I'm not smiling or anything, my facial structure is I guess where I look 'mean' or 'sad'. This...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7, 2014

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    lovelinessbathes lovelinessbathes 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    I hate when people judge my interests

    (including sexual interests) without even knowing me. I admit I have what are considered "creepy interests", but when people get to know me well they say I'm not that creepy, after all. I consider myself to be a respectful and polite person, but if you judge me before knowing me...
    styxc styxc 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    No matter what happens,

    people will always judge you. It depends on you if you'll give a damn **** about them :)
    SweeterThanToblerone SweeterThanToblerone 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Why is it that people think they can "change"

    my sexuality. I never made a choice about who i was attracted to. It wasnt because of a bad experience, it wasnt because i woke up one day and thought gee girls look great. When you tell a girl she made a mistake about being a lesbian you are being offensive, even if you dont...
    Ashleyy2 Ashleyy2 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 4

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    First time going to school in 6 months.

    My dad has been dead for about a year now. I've already moved to a new area and school. I'm ******* dead inside. Everything's changed. I can't even bring myself to end it all. It hurts, so ******* much.
    Montikristo Montikristo 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 23, 2014

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    blueworldsapart blueworldsapart 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    Whether it is about my looks

    or the way I act.......obviously I'm not perfect and I know that but why bother bringing someone down with criticism....you don't want to lie of course but rather how about just not say anything at all. Everyone is different and beautiful in their own ways whether you are able...
    NataliaHeart21 NataliaHeart21 18-21, F 13 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Just because you post pictures of your body

    does not mean you are a conceited sut or whatever others chose to call you. It means you are happy enough in your own skin, and that is all that matters. I encourage everyone to post a pic of their body, thick or thin, and allow the ignorant fools to judge you. Laugh at their...
    lindseysway lindseysway 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    In high school I was bullied by my best friend

    he was "in the closet" homosexual and wanted to prove his masculinity by abusing my sensitive side, I was an outcast, I would cry often because I have feelings and hate it when that is abused. I am in the late 20's and I rarely go out, my house mate who is in his 40's judges me...
    Selflesswarrior Selflesswarrior 26-30, M 5 Responses Nov 17, 2014

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 18, 2014

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    don't judge me by the questions i've answered.

    judge me by the answers i've given to them. ;)
    alexgabriel alexgabriel 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2014

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    nobody knows the real me.

    nobody knows how many times i've cried in my room when nobody was watching. nobody knows how many times i've lost hope, how many times i've been let down. nobody knows how many times i've felt like i'm about too snap, but i just don't, for the sakes of others. nobody knows the...
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 12, 2014

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    DehYah DehYah 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 8

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