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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    I Don'T Understand It...

    I hate the fact that people will always judge you by what you look like no matter what you do, no matter how much education you have received, or that you are an honest and decent person that would never hurt anyone, or the fact that you don't have a lot of money or are not...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    Wtf why is it that ur *** is

    so ******* rude if you know I can beat the crap out of you and you just made me so dahm awkward lets see if you have ******* balls to do something like me. ******** <3 Love The queen *****
    NOEDABOSS NOEDABOSS 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    it is sad how some people become the all in one

    judging machines labbeling people as they feel..i think such people seriously need help.as have some serious complexes in life!
    romell romell 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 11

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    Well I am sorry I can't help it

    that I am a certain way. Geez people really wanna get on my nerves sometimes!!!
    sarahspanked43 sarahspanked43 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Seriously, just because I like to stay in the

    library during lunch doesn't mean that I have no friends. If you actually asked me why I do it then you would know that I feel much more comfortable on my my own doing my own thing than going into one of my friend's groups where I only know that one person... Don't just assume...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    arlineswift arlineswift 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 12

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    One thing I've noticed about ep is a lot of

    people will judge you based off one experience or question b*tch you don't even know me I can run laps around your head with just my experiences in this lifetime thus far lmao
    CrownedWoman CrownedWoman 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 14

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    People should not judge me

    for they don't know the full story people who have no idea who i am its disgusting tbh
    babytia20 babytia20 16-17, F a week ago

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    Whether it is about my looks

    or the way I act.......obviously I'm not perfect and I know that but why bother bringing someone down with criticism....you don't want to lie of course but rather how about just not say anything at all. Everyone is different and beautiful in their own ways whether you are able...
    NataliaHeart21 NataliaHeart21 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 28

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    What right do you have too judge me based on

    what I have done or the scars on my wrists?! You don't know what I have been through..what I am going through..you have no right too talk behind my back..why don't you put yourself in my shoes...then tell me I am a freak, that I don't belong..
    SnowBunny246 SnowBunny246 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 27

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    whitestain whitestain 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 24

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    I have a secret that no one knows not

    even my family cuz I'm afraid they will think of me differently
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 19

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    I come from and live in a place

    where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's nothing wrong with being different. I get judged for the personality I have; caring, creative, shy, etc. I get judged for the music I...
    sammisanin sammisanin 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    some ppl who think they no me assume they know

    what I'd do think and say without me even saying doing or thinking them. The irony is they couldn't be more off from what I really am like and it just creates more problems and issues for me based on others assuming who I am. I wish I could just get them all to see that's not me...
    TheAnonymous99 TheAnonymous99 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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    Oh wow oh man where do I

    even begin! People have called me gay, a tranny, a fairy and all of that isn't true. Loads of people assume I'm a dumb, ditzy little airhead because I'm hyper and have a bubbly type of personality. Like some of the people in my classes in college they are like ugh not this guy...
    HollywoodBlonde HollywoodBlonde 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I just need someone to listen to me without

    judging me.I feel like an absolute crap.... A lot of drama is going on in my life. I just can't take it anymore
    Khushaali Khushaali 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    Story The plea of

    a condemned man Hey U ladies, please don’t wear gilding panties while going to ur bf s...... I would be so thankful of that... Now, that’s about two weeks when I’m going to sleep my wife, at nights.... after turning the lights off , my C**k starts to shining , like a...
    dumanfree dumanfree 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 29

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 18

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    blueworldsapart blueworldsapart 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    Think About It......

    There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why there the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone.
    Miss25234 Miss25234 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    At my last job I was extremely professional.

    My approach to work in the past has always been keep personal and private separate. I was nice to everyone and had a good haha everyone and then but mostly in my office. I was a junior there and lowest in ranking. New girl. Inventible there were some people I did not like. I...
    SpiritualBunny SpiritualBunny 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    Judge me and I'll prove you wrong,

    tell me what to do and I'll tell you off. Say I'm not worth it and watch where i end up. Call me a ***** and i show you one. **** me over and I'll do it to you twice as bad. Call me crazy, but you really have no idea -_-
    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    The only person that never judges me is my

    amazing boy:) we have never had a fight and he is truly incredible! I love him to death and will do anything for him:) he's my king and I'm his queen <3 I love u baby!
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F Nov 26

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    When people get to know me

    and we're having a conversation about first meeting, people usually say that they thought I was mean or something along those lines... Me, I don't have a poker face at all. Also, when I'm not smiling or anything, my facial structure is I guess where I look 'mean' or 'sad'. This...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a

    distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually speak to me you have no idea what I'm actually like. Just wish people understood that more :(
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 6

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    So let me start from the beginning.

    I was born on December 28 1999. I had a fabulous childhood. I had friends, a family that loved me, and much more... or so I thought. Family fights are a big thing in my house. My dad is not an alcoholic or a druggie. He just has anger issues. He believes that our house and lives...
    itsash itsash 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    Earlier today, I was at the mall buying gifts

    for a few friends and all of a sudden, an old acquaintance shows up and starts mouthing off at me. She tells me how useless I am, how I am still a baby over the death of my parents. The most insulting one she said was how my parents (she called them "f**kwads") gave birth to me...
    NeoxExor NeoxExor 22-25, M 6 Responses Dec 18

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    Thiswillbethelast Thiswillbethelast 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Absolutely !

    Forever, I feel, I have had a bee in my bonnet about people presuming things about me that don't really know me... Firstly, being a woman, I am not meek and mild, ok? I'm not helpless and defenceless.... Then....ok, I AM young, but I know my own mind, y'know? Don't treat me...
    AmberDuponte AmberDuponte 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    nobody knows the real me.

    nobody knows how many times i've cried in my room when nobody was watching. nobody knows how many times i've lost hope, how many times i've been let down. nobody knows how many times i've felt like i'm about too snap, but i just don't, for the sakes of others. nobody knows the...
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    Yeah. I'm annoyed by this.

    There are people in my school who know me as the 'Fat retarded gay' simply because I have had an awful year with death (Look at some of my old stories) and so I acted like an idiot to hide my feelings and ate a lot from sadness. I hid my feelings because I feel so awkward...
    goldenlord52 goldenlord52 13-15, M 5 Responses Nov 8

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    You will always run away from me sandy.

    ...event some bad investments i made over the years.... You will always run away from me.....your jealous Even with me being heavy....Your jealous You dont have the poplarity, our band leader wants you now where near our shows......the customers always ask for ME if they do...
    ajgriff ajgriff 51-55, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate when people judge my interests

    (including sexual interests) without even knowing me. I admit I have what are considered "creepy interests", but when people get to know me well they say I'm not that creepy, after all. I consider myself to be a respectful and polite person, but if you judge me before knowing me...
    styxc styxc 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3

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    don't judge me by the questions i've answered.

    judge me by the answers i've given to them. ;)
    alexgabriel alexgabriel 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    First time going to school in 6 months.

    My dad has been dead for about a year now. I've already moved to a new area and school. I'm ******* dead inside. Everything's changed. I can't even bring myself to end it all. It hurts, so ******* much.
    Montikristo Montikristo 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    One of the worst things you can do to another

    human being is not give them a chance, sometimes people aren't as bad as they first appear to be. Sometimes the strongest of people are the most sensitive inside, and sometimes what you think to be a quiet person are the loudest when you catch them alone. We all have that...
    TropicalArctic TropicalArctic 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 8

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    I know as human beings

    that we all judge people. We all do! For example, if your at a bar and you look across the room at a person, you most definitely don't think "wow! I bet they have an awesome personality!" no! You think "they're attractive." It's because you feel an attraction to them. Then you...
    actiegirl actiegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    I'm constantly catching myself erasing an

    experience I might post, thinking "I can't post this, they will judge me."
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 12 Responses Dec 4

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Story of my freaking life.

    The quiet, poor girl is obviously weird and a b****.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Dec 15

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    I am trying to introduce people to this guy I

    fell in love with who is in all probability my soulmate. Nobody seems to really get it though. :::sigh Then I remember why it is I moved as far away around the world as I could. I miss the closeness of people but at the same time I do not miss the judgement. While my family...
    saturnsdaughter saturnsdaughter 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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