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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    Hi I would like to vent a bit.

    I am often judge by people that dont even know me.Here is a few example.Me and my spouse moved to this apartment complex last year.And when my spouse goes to work.I am busy cleaning and taking care of my pets and looking for a job.So after a long day I like to sit on my patio and...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 Response Jun 15

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    Chpt16 Chpt16 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 7

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    Colby. You pathetic excuse

    for a human being. Why cant you just **** off? You cant judge me just because you're dating my friend. Especially when you've hurt her again. Don't ever think for one moment that I will hesitate to snap your pathetic neck you lying son of a *****.
    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446 13-15, F 8 Responses May 6

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    I've always thought that I shouldn't judge

    people I don't know until I've walked a mile in their shoes. People come from all walks of life. We can't be sure what they're going through at a given moment so we should always be kind, or at least have the sense not to think badly/speak unkind words about each other until we...
    Stratosara Stratosara 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 6

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    I hate being judged and have people make their

    assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what they want to without getting to know me first.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    I hate this. a girl who I don't

    even know.. she's like 11?? called me a hoe bc I was texting one of her older friends ex .. we were just friends anyway ..
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jun 9

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    Yeah I know, most of you probably think I'm sl*t

    because my profile picture is me in a bikini with edited clip art. If you knew me in person you'd find I'm far from a sl*t - I'm a very proud person so there's no way I would be okay with a crowd of guys being able to claim they "did me." Not in the least. I know judgment is a...
    Dezaria Dezaria 18-21, F a week ago

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    Sometimes I kinda do

    so I can see flaws, or errors that I do. It would depend on who says it and how it was said. Other times I just ignore and keep being myself. It can be very tiring though and it makes me want to take naps when some people do it. It can also make me laugh when I make someone eat...
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 1 Response May 28

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    so yesterday, I was messaged by a guy saying he

    was new to EP, so I said welcome, told him how much I loved EP... usual small talk. Then he messaged me "wtf!!!! you're all sympathetic to your kids and then you have all this secs stuff and nasty fetisshes.... I don't want to talk to you, you're a bad butterfly" he then told me...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 6 Responses Jun 20

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    I hate it when people label me

    as someone who is tough, feeling-less, serious etc… and make all kinds of jokes about the way I would treat my partner. Just because I don’t fake being all girly around men, I don’t get all flirty, I talk about men’s bad behaviour and I state clearly how I will accept...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    It used to happen all the time.

    'Oh you are amazing at spelling and reading and writing?' Smartass! That's pretentious! 'You don't understand Math?' You are so stupid! 'You help people online who you don't know?' That's naïve and stupid! 'You are so boring! Sometimes you need to shut the **** up!' 'You are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 5

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    No one is busy. It just depends on what number

    you are in their priorities.
    DeathThrone DeathThrone 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    I had to delete a post today

    because I was bombarded by a bunch of ugly people with hateful words and I haven't even had this app a full 24hrs. def not what I expected
    Tiffany0911 Tiffany0911 26-30, F 6 Responses May 29

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    Hi I'm 15 years old and I'm gay

    and I'm still in the closet. I am often bullied and judge in school for my voice and I'm a shy person. I told my friends that I was gay and they supported me and told them to keep it as a secret. But everytime I have a crush on a boy on school, I found out that he is straight...
    simplyrebelliouz simplyrebelliouz 13-15, M 7 Responses Apr 27

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    this account is just

    for fun with a bf, we're never sexual IRL, but people judge me so much, its not fair. I'm in a depression due to it. plus I lost my friends. I'm a nice girl, almost 16, I don't like roleplaying with older men, of just Ransome people. sure I'm diffrent, im me.
    shybirdy shybirdy 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    So random people may you please stop acting

    like you know what I'm going through, K?
    XavierSenpai XavierSenpai 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 6

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    I heard a girl talking bad about me

    because I was wearing my cheer uniform. She thought I couldn't hear her but she was right behind me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 10

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    a lot of people in my university thought I was

    dumb and that I only have the looks. I get this a lot. I may be a charmer (lol) but that doesn't mean I'm dumb. Looks + Brain = Sexy
    BlackAJFrost BlackAJFrost 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    like wtf people don't know me

    and think i'm stupid and creepy
    schoolisnotforeveryone schoolisnotforeveryone 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 2

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    I couldn't give a poo about what people think

    about me, I only bothers me when they set an opinion on me while knowing nothing about me at all. I have the real me and the me that I let people see.
    nathanielphantomhive nathanielphantomhive 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    i think there are people

    that just want to hurt for any reason .I myself have been rediculed and judge .i have good days and bad days trying to stay postieve.
    hopelessathappiness hopelessathappiness 51-55, F 2 Responses May 29

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    i hate to judge by others,

    and i m not here to judge others too
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 16

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    I hate the arrogance with

    which people declare that they know exactly who I am. I just came back to my hometown from college and I have changed a lot. In particular, I have become more comfortable with my introvertedness and I just stay peacefully quiet during stupid conversations my high school friends...
    puppywoof puppywoof 22-25, M 24 mins ago

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    Somebody whom I don't

    even know called me an autistic retard because I was speaking politely to them during an argument. I have never spoken to them in my life and yet the choose to act like they can insult me like that. I know an autistic person. It infuriated me.
    MyLivingLife MyLivingLife 13-15, M 4 Responses May 28

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    I hate and have a distain

    for being judged by idiots who do not even know me. I just ripped into three guys who responded with a judgmental attitude toward me being single and pregnant. Who died and made some of these EP God? If you do not know me, then shut the hell up with your judgmental attitudes...
    jessicabeth jessicabeth 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 20

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    I do it seems so far on here

    that I get nothing but judgemental comments and attacks. I believe the way I believe for a reason. It was what I was raised to believe, and how my church interprets the bible. instead of attacking people who are different from you than ask bout it. You may actually learn...
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 2

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    I am a black woman. I work.

    I have a bachelor's degree. I have goals. I don't twerk. I have manners. I respect myself and others. I care. Don't judge me when you don't even know me. I'm offended.
    youreable youreable 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 28

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 12, 2014

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    im tired of waiting for someone to love me the

    way i love her, i want to be happy with someone
    erichi erichi 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate perverts on this site!

    Teenagers go on this site to help others and receive advice and actually make an effort to make someone's life a bit brighter, You guys deserve to have only the harshest punishment, you guys are sick. You are damaging young people's minds and you don't understand the effect it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jun 19

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    Its funny how the people

    that know the least about you have the most to say.
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 5 Responses May 19

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    Like bruh. You've never talked to me,

    that's your fault for not wanting to get to know me. So stop talking **** ok 😂 lol
    Ch3y Ch3y 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 19

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    I am sure that I am not everyone's cup of tea.

    I tend to be controversial at times when discussing certain family and political issues. I let people know immediately that I do not appreciate their rude comments and being judged by others who have not been in or walked in my shoes. If you do not know what you are talking...
    housewifeandmommy housewifeandmommy 36-40, F 8 Responses Jun 22

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    shortfry3 shortfry3 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    so if you don't know me please don't judge

    or hate me and so far people has welcomed me and I'm thankful for that :)
    AdorableBubz AdorableBubz 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I hate people. I really do.

    I'm just too mind independent. I hate crowd places. I hate when people just can't keep things to themselves. I hate rude, judgmental comments they always have to make. I'm literally sick of people. I just want to do my things and avoid as much bull **** as possible. I work...
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    I wish the world was blind.

    Too many times I have been categorised by people solely based on my appearance.
    Messytree Messytree 22-25, F Jun 3

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    I live in a small town

    where everyone seems to judge everyone else. Just going to the store,or listening to people around here makes me sick. If you had a life,you wouldn't have to spend your time spreading rumors about people.
    Nate2488 Nate2488 31-35, M 2 Responses May 23

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    nobody knows the real me.

    nobody knows how many times i've cried in my room when nobody was watching. nobody knows how many times i've lost hope, how many times i've been let down. nobody knows how many times i've felt like i'm about too snap, but i just don't, for the sakes of others. nobody knows the...
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 8

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