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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    Ppl look at my experiences an really dont wanna

    **** wit me, but they feel to realize that im getting out **** that icnt tell nobody so there already is abit of shame about it in my heart so stop judging me!
    lostOne94 lostOne94 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Colby. You pathetic excuse

    for a human being. Why cant you just **** off? You cant judge me just because you're dating my friend. Especially when you've hurt her again. Don't ever think for one moment that I will hesitate to snap your pathetic neck you lying son of a *****.
    KOOLKAT446 KOOLKAT446 13-15, F 8 Responses May 6

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    I do it seems so far on here

    that I get nothing but judgemental comments and attacks. I believe the way I believe for a reason. It was what I was raised to believe, and how my church interprets the bible. instead of attacking people who are different from you than ask bout it. You may actually learn...
    southernlady32 southernlady32 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 2

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    Useless comments by people here on me too.

    I thought this was supposed to be a friendly place
    riseandshine18 riseandshine18 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 22

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    It used to happen all the time.

    'Oh you are amazing at spelling and reading and writing?' Smartass! That's pretentious! 'You don't understand Math?' You are so stupid! 'You help people online who you don't know?' That's naΓ―ve and stupid! 'You are so boring! Sometimes you need to shut the **** up!' 'You are...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 5

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    It sucks telling someone your idea

    and simply just contradicts you! It sucks even more when they start to judge your family which he has no idea about. I wasn't even asking for his opinion I was just telling him my plan!
    Shamdee Shamdee 26-30 Jul 15

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    If you can call it being judged,

    but i get the odd racist remark and there all along the lines of chinese, indian, japanese, nigerian, and similar offensive things
    gwen11ian gwen11ian 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    I am a black woman. I work.

    I have a bachelor's degree. I have goals. I don't twerk. I have manners. I respect myself and others. I care. Don't judge me when you don't even know me. I'm offended.
    youreable youreable 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 28

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    CrimsonShadow CrimsonShadow 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 7

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    No one is busy. It just depends on what number

    you are in their priorities.
    DeathThrone DeathThrone 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 26

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    what doesn't kill you might kill someone else.

    so dont sat "i`ve seen worese" or "it could be worse" Before you know me
    adamnk11 adamnk11 16-17, M a week ago

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    I hate perverts on this site!

    Teenagers go on this site to help others and receive advice and actually make an effort to make someone's life a bit brighter, You guys deserve to have only the harshest punishment, you guys are sick. You are damaging young people's minds and you don't understand the effect it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jun 19

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    Its funny how the people

    that know the least about you have the most to say.
    15ShadesOfBlue 15ShadesOfBlue 16-17, F 5 Responses May 19

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    im tired of waiting for someone to love me the

    way i love her, i want to be happy with someone
    erichi erichi 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me.

    People should just be free to be themselves without worrying about people telling them who they are. I mean if you don't know me than how do you think it's okay to tell me who I am?
    kitty2346 kitty2346 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    so yesterday, I was messaged by a guy saying he

    was new to EP, so I said welcome, told him how much I loved EP... usual small talk. Then he messaged me "wtf!!!! you're all sympathetic to your kids and then you have all this secs stuff and nasty fetisshes.... I don't want to talk to you, you're a bad butterfly" he then told me...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 20

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    So what's the point if I'm different from you,

    we still are human...deep down I wish you would realize I'm not just a punchbag or someone to talk your mess to πŸ˜·πŸ’€πŸ‘ŠπŸ‘ŠβœŒ
    Peaceloveflowerchild Peaceloveflowerchild 18-21, F Jul 24

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    I have come to believe We all,

    are gulity of judging other people. Sad but true
    butterflylady21 butterflylady21 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    I don't know anybody

    who love being judge instantly without getting to know them.
    23rdcamp 23rdcamp 66-70 Jul 25

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    Zzzzya Zzzzya 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    Lmao, I'm posting this here

    because the person im attempting to reply to made it so I can't say anything. So here you go: I was not looking to brag when I posted this. I was saying how awkward I felt. I know I'm selfish. You're selfish too. The whole ******* world is selfish so you need to get the hell...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 12

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    I hate being judged and have people make their

    assumptions about me and my life without them knowing me. So frustrating. People look at me and my condition and just assume what they want to without getting to know me first.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Like bruh. You've never talked to me,

    that's your fault for not wanting to get to know me. So stop talking **** ok πŸ˜‚ lol
    Ch3y Ch3y 16-17, F 5 Responses Jun 19

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    If you don't get to know me,

    don't bother labelling or judging me. Simple.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 21 Responses Mar 12, 2014

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    It's just not right that people will judge you

    know matter where you go. Everywhere people judge. Even on EP they judge. Some people text you then you talk for a while and they just block you. Block you out. They ask for a pic and you give them one and they just stop messaging you. They unfriend you. People everywhere judge...
    AlphaSanctusFuror AlphaSanctusFuror 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2014

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    We judge people for judging people

    because judging people is wrong
    colonparentheses colonparentheses 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    Love makes the world go around loving one

    another is also sexy. Remember love is a four letter word Just like sexy lust **** anal and many more Love all for me the sexy hot ladies.
    Zzzzya Zzzzya 46-50, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am seriously considering getting a tattoo

    which reads "Mr. nice guy." As a gay man, how can I compete for the attention of one man when he is being courted by others? The fact I don't like to compete this way makes me seem as "not stepping up" or "not man enough." I'd like to show you how good I am by example of...
    Lalin9090 Lalin9090 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I have worn my heart on my sleeve

    for a long time, I find that people judge me based on a whole lot of assumptions which is really backwards to me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Hi I'm 15 years old and I'm gay

    and I'm still in the closet. I am often bullied and judge in school for my voice and I'm a shy person. I told my friends that I was gay and they supported me and told them to keep it as a secret. But everytime I have a crush on a boy on school, I found out that he is straight...
    simplyrebelliouz simplyrebelliouz 13-15, M 7 Responses Apr 27

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    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 8

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I am a receptionist and I am getting sick

    and tired of people asking me personal questions and then judging me from my answers. People are always asking me if I have kids and I do not for a host of reasons that not really any one persons business. People respond with really you don't like kids, you didn't want any and...
    WarriorCatGrl WarriorCatGrl 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 21

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    Why is it that people think they can "change"

    my sexuality. I never made a choice about who i was attracted to. It wasnt because of a bad experience, it wasnt because i woke up one day and thought gee girls look great. When you tell a girl she made a mistake about being a lesbian you are being offensive, even if you dont...
    Ashleyy2 Ashleyy2 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 4

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    Do you ever wonder who has blocked you

    or why someone has blocked you? I don't think I've offended anyone in particular. I see member's posts and see there Essa response but I can't see it. I don't like to block people so I try not to. If I don't particularly care for your post(s), I won't engage in them and skip on...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    Last year was the hardest I almost had to redo

    7th grade and I was determined to finish it but I went to a charter school and I had to drop out for not even a month in cause I needed more brain surgeries and I never told anyone so the school board let me go for half a day and everyone thought I was SOOO lucky but I literally...
    musicspeakstome musicspeakstome 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 23

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    why is it that our would has gotten

    so bad that just because people are older and talk to some younger doesn't mean theor isn't anything but trying help or just have fun:-)people also judge your profile name and don't check ito you before assuming the worst): people need to do research and find all sides before...
    daddytothefatherless daddytothefatherless 46-50, M 5 Responses Feb 5

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    itz..very.... painful

    for me...cz..I don't lyk them who judge me..."! specially I hate those. people...who judges me..bt they don't even know..me... sometimes its happens with me ..when.. my results are published at the notice board!!!!!! "! aaah!!!
    gaziraisa gaziraisa 13-15, F a week ago

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    Is it just me but during the holidays its

    depressing thinking about everyone being with family and friends having parties and get togethers and having fun and ur not but when u do get invited somewhere u dont want to go and just want to stay home?
    keeptrying1234 keeptrying1234 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 27, 2014

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    What awful world this Universe would be,

    if we all be the same. Difference is a bless
    colonparentheses colonparentheses 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    When I confront new people I get really

    uncomfortable and scared that they will be judging me. I wish I could get the courage to express myself
    MurlocHandler MurlocHandler 18-21, M 4 Responses Jul 16

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