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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    At my last job I was extremely professional.

    My approach to work in the past has always been keep personal and private separate. I was nice to everyone and had a good haha everyone and then but mostly in my office. I was a junior there and lowest in ranking. New girl. Inventible there were some people I did not like. I...
    SpiritualBunny SpiritualBunny 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    Oh wow oh man where do I

    even begin! People have called me gay, a tranny, a fairy and all of that isn't true. Loads of people assume I'm a dumb, ditzy little airhead because I'm hyper and have a bubbly type of personality. Like some of the people in my classes in college they are like ugh not this guy...
    HollywoodBlonde HollywoodBlonde 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 7

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    lani007 lani007 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I hate when people stare at me

    because of my wheelchair. I understand your not used to seeing a teenager in a wheelchair but I would rather you ask questions than stare it just makes me super uncomfortable
    Kaylamay17 Kaylamay17 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    it is sad how some people become the all in one

    judging machines labbeling people as they feel..i think such people seriously need help.as have some serious complexes in life!
    romell romell 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 11

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    unless you have walked the path ov the person

    you are judging you have no right to judge as you have no idea the pain they are going through
    stonerr686 stonerr686 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 22

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    What right do you have too judge me based on

    what I have done or the scars on my wrists?! You don't know what I have been through..what I am going through..you have no right too talk behind my back..why don't you put yourself in my shoes...then tell me I am a freak, that I don't belong..
    SnowBunny246 SnowBunny246 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 20

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    Seriously, just because I like to stay in the

    library during lunch doesn't mean that I have no friends. If you actually asked me why I do it then you would know that I feel much more comfortable on my my own doing my own thing than going into one of my friend's groups where I only know that one person... Don't just assume...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    The worst thing that happen to me this year was

    message by my husband mistress friends. That rather bothering them I should have good relationship to my husband first. This is coming from woman who been mistress but rather apologize they think high of themselves. The statement was a slap, a reality that it was my husband who...
    ezzy2014 ezzy2014 26-30, F Nov 22

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    Yeah. I'm annoyed by this.

    There are people in my school who know me as the 'Fat retarded gay' simply because I have had an awful year with death (Look at some of my old stories) and so I acted like an idiot to hide my feelings and ate a lot from sadness. I hid my feelings because I feel so awkward...
    goldenlord52 goldenlord52 13-15, M 5 Responses Nov 8

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    Don't judge me unless you can walk my life in

    my shoes. Sometimes i wish others could see what all i been through especially the ones who judge me on how i act and what i do. Most of then only know the bad things because of rumors.they think they can change me by cramming things down my throat like religion, advice, or just...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    I have a secret that no one knows not

    even my family cuz I'm afraid they will think of me differently
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 19

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    Wtf why is it that ur *** is

    so ******* rude if you know I can beat the crap out of you and you just made me so dahm awkward lets see if you have ******* balls to do something like me. ******** <3 Love The queen *****
    noelol noelol 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    You can't hear what I am saying,

    only what I have said. There are days when I don't know if I am fully living, because it feels like I am already partly dead. I really don't know what I'm doing; I can only see what I have done. I don't know if I'm winning; only know what I feel I have won...
    justcallmelizzy justcallmelizzy 31-35, F Nov 21

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    Happens all day everyday

    but the best thing to do is to not care.No matter what you do most people that come along will misjudge you and not know a thing about you.
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F Nov 21

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 26-30, F 8 Responses Jun 16

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    Story The plea of

    a condemned man Hey U ladies, please don’t wear gilding panties while going to ur bf s...... I would be so thankful of that... Now, that’s about two weeks when I’m going to sleep my wife, at nights.... after turning the lights off , my C**k starts to shining , like a...
    dumanfree dumanfree 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 29

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    i am mad at people on ep they say there friend

    they block you so not real friends
    vamp4 vamp4 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 29

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 10

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    So what if I'm married!

    Just because I'm on EP doesn't mean I'm a cheat! I don't have to prove my wife is on EP. You don't know what works for us, you don't know all the new things we've done and added into our sex life from others experiences. You don't know all the things we've learned about each...
    Jpfunjunky Jpfunjunky 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14

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    So let me start from the beginning.

    I was born on December 28 1999. I had a fabulous childhood. I had friends, a family that loved me, and much more... or so I thought. Family fights are a big thing in my house. My dad is not an alcoholic or a druggie. He just has anger issues. He believes that our house and lives...
    itsash itsash 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Some people take a look at me

    and think I do drugs, or they label me as "emo" or "goth". The only thing I want to be is me. I don't want to be labeled. If they really knew me, they'd realize that's not me at all. Sadly, it's human nature, though, to take a look at somebody, and judge them in your mind...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    I'm so sick of people labeling me from a

    distance as some weirdo that shouldn't be associated with :( I get that I'm not exactly normal by anyones definition but until you actually speak to me you have no idea what I'm actually like. Just wish people understood that more :(
    Kurokat Kurokat 13-15, F 6 Responses Sep 6

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    When people get to know me

    and we're having a conversation about first meeting, people usually say that they thought I was mean or something along those lines... Me, I don't have a poker face at all. Also, when I'm not smiling or anything, my facial structure is I guess where I look 'mean' or 'sad'. This...
    xxblasianxx xxblasianxx 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 7

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    there was this girl. i dont like her

    but i help her. not because im plastic but because i can put aside my feelings just to help someone. she thinks im plastic. she doesnt like me either. one night, she told her ate how unfair i was because im the president of the class. then her sister talked to me. her sister...
    wednesdayabbey wednesdayabbey 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 18-21, F 23 Responses Mar 12

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    I Don'T Understand It...

    I hate the fact that people will always judge you by what you look like no matter what you do, no matter how much education you have received, or that you are an honest and decent person that would never hurt anyone, or the fact that you don't have a lot of money or are not...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    I wish I knew some of the people on here in

    person because is knock some sense into there stupid ****** heads. Some people just need a good reality smack and wake up call. Some people deserve to be hit and I enjoy hitting rude, disrespectful people so ******' bring it.
    NoRegretsAndNoRemorse NoRegretsAndNoRemorse 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 1

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    One thing I've noticed about ep is a lot of

    people will judge you based off one experience or question b*tch you don't even know me I can run laps around your head with just my experiences in this lifetime thus far lmao
    CrownedWoman CrownedWoman 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I come from and live in a place

    where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's nothing wrong with being different. I get judged for the personality I have; caring, creative, shy, etc. I get judged for the music I...
    sammisanin sammisanin 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 20

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    whitestain whitestain 22-25, M 3 Responses Nov 24

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    The only person that never judges me is my

    amazing boy:) we have never had a fight and he is truly incredible! I love him to death and will do anything for him:) he's my king and I'm his queen <3 I love u baby!
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F Nov 26

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    joevenables3 joevenables3 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 20

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    okay so, when i went to school,

    (i'm homeschooled now) people would judge me, based on my looks or how many people i sit with at lunch. i feel that, that can cause serious issues for some people. it did for me. and i still have issues. i have no self confidence at all because of this. i have self harmed. and i...
    courtneythepizzaqueen courtneythepizzaqueen 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 21

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    I know as human beings

    that we all judge people. We all do! For example, if your at a bar and you look across the room at a person, you most definitely don't think "wow! I bet they have an awesome personality!" no! You think "they're attractive." It's because you feel an attraction to them. Then you...
    actiegirl actiegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    blueworldsapart blueworldsapart 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    Whether it is about my looks

    or the way I act.......obviously I'm not perfect and I know that but why bother bringing someone down with criticism....you don't want to lie of course but rather how about just not say anything at all. Everyone is different and beautiful in their own ways whether you are able...
    NataliaHeart21 NataliaHeart21 18-21, F 14 Responses Oct 28

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    Story of my freaking life.

    The quiet, poor girl is obviously weird and a b****.
    morgggan morgggan 18-21, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I just need someone to listen to me without

    judging me.I feel like an absolute crap.... A lot of drama is going on in my life. I just can't take it anymore
    Khushaali Khushaali 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    nobody knows the real me.

    nobody knows how many times i've cried in my room when nobody was watching. nobody knows how many times i've lost hope, how many times i've been let down. nobody knows how many times i've felt like i'm about too snap, but i just don't, for the sakes of others. nobody knows the...
    jjj1996 jjj1996 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    Absolutely !

    Forever, I feel, I have had a bee in my bonnet about people presuming things about me that don't really know me... Firstly, being a woman, I am not meek and mild, ok? I'm not helpless and defenceless.... Then....ok, I AM young, but I know my own mind, y'know? Don't treat me...
    AmberDuponte AmberDuponte 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    I'm constantly catching myself erasing an

    experience I might post, thinking "I can't post this, they will judge me."
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 12 Responses Dec 4

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    Think About It......

    There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why there the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone.
    Miss25234 Miss25234 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    One of the worst things you can do to another

    human being is not give them a chance, sometimes people aren't as bad as they first appear to be. Sometimes the strongest of people are the most sensitive inside, and sometimes what you think to be a quiet person are the loudest when you catch them alone. We all have that...
    TropicalArctic TropicalArctic 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 8

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3

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    some ppl who think they no me assume they know

    what I'd do think and say without me even saying doing or thinking them. The irony is they couldn't be more off from what I really am like and it just creates more problems and issues for me based on others assuming who I am. I wish I could just get them all to see that's not me...
    TheAnonymous99 TheAnonymous99 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 24

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