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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    Yourguardianangel9613 Yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 24 Responses Mar 12

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    Don't judge the place I'm at

    if you don't know where I've been
    Heartbeatangel Heartbeatangel 18-21, F 2 Responses May 23

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    What's It To You :/

    Yes i've tryed to kill myself OKAY so i dont get why people that dont know me can judge me like you dont know what the **** i go though every day So who the **** are you to judge me.
    ohmylife ohmylife 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    I hate the fact people can be

    so closed-minded and judgemental about things that don't directly affect them, if somebody is happy leave them be, as an adult I can make my own decisions and mistakes.. My life is my time to use as a please, I'm fed up of having to explain my choices to people that don't know...
    DaddysLittleLiarna DaddysLittleLiarna 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 10

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    Lables can hurt. For many big parts of my life

    I've found myself painted in the wrong light, and for many of the wrong reasons. "Irresponsible" because I walk my dog at 9:00am instead of 6:30am, and because I forget a few socks on the bathroom floor sometimes. "Disrespectful" because I disagreed with someone who's older...
    GraceJediHeart GraceJediHeart 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    EP has proven to me how much people can judge.

    Let me start off by saying that it's taken me 12 years to show my face on a social networking site because long ago when I first did it, I was humiliated, harassed and bullied for my looks. I was terrified to take a picture of myself, I was worried that people wouldn't like me...
    Shinook26 Shinook26 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 29

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    I Don'T Understand It...

    I hate the fact that people will always judge you by what you look like no matter what you do, no matter how much education you have received, or that you are an honest and decent person that would never hurt anyone, or the fact that you don't have a lot of money or are not...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    Imagine posting a comment

    and you're trying to help them out....posting a few kind words....letting them know that they do matter and that they have a future. You're just trying to make thier day a little better....hoping that they don't pick up that knife today. Then somebody else bluntly calls you a...
    shakenama shakenama 41-45, M 5 Responses Jun 11

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    Before anyone assumes things they need to make

    sure they know everything about the whole story.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    lani007 lani007 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 18

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    Tough Position

    I model for art classes and I'm pretty sure when that robe drops people form opinions of what kind of person I am.
    embraced embraced 26-30, M 36 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    When people judge you

    for being a country girl who got abused since you were two grow up I am who I am!!
    maddog1000 maddog1000 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Absolutely !

    Forever, I feel, I have had a bee in my bonnet about people presuming things about me that don't really know me... Firstly, being a woman, I am not meek and mild, ok? I'm not helpless and defenceless.... Then....ok, I AM young, but I know my own mind, y'know? Don't treat me...
    AmberDuponte AmberDuponte 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Don't Judge A Banana By It's Skin

    (sorry bad eng) I still remember when i was in elementary school. I was in 6th grade. I'm the kid they look all trashy and slow (mentally and physically). Other students will laugh at me when i'm in front of the class. So do the teachers. Even there's this teacher who always made...
    OverMyHead95 OverMyHead95 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    People on here judge me

    because of my religion before even getting to know me they assume I am evil or bad because I'm a satanist. I'm a decent person with a family and a job. I do not try to convert people to what I believe and as long as you don't knock my beliefs I won't say anything about whatever...
    nyx39 nyx39 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Ok so I say I admire inner beauty .

    .. And someone points out that that can't be true because my shirts off in my profile picture ..? I worked so hard for the body I have. I obsessed over my body image juggling eating disorders and depression. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad for me by any means , we all...
    anthonymusto55 anthonymusto55 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    Ok so I have DID (dissociative identity

    disorder aka multiple personality disorder) and I wanted to be on EP to meet others that have my disorder and become friends with them. But when one of my Alters, Delta, posted an a sorta journal of his talking about two other alters of mine, this person says that "I" obviously...
    MultipleRex MultipleRex 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    People think that all women

    that are pretty are dumb but I'm a lot smarter than you think
    Adrianacute Adrianacute 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 18

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    All we want is a little appreciation.

    All we want is to be acknowledged. All we want is to be taken into account. All we want is to flee pain through temporary satisfaction. All we want is to be loved unconditionally. And our struggle comes from not finding these too easily. Sometimes not even in our own selves.
    honestyreality honestyreality 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    Those people who take one look at you

    and decide what kind of person you are, who do not even say one word to you or give you the opportunity to talk to them because their arrogance controls them and they MUSt be right.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 11

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    Don't you jus hate that?

    Heart if this has happened to you before.
    Moonywolf Moonywolf 13-15, F 9 Responses Jun 16

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    I just got blocked by someone

    who is courage enough to judge me behind a screen even though she doesn't know me and smart enough to know that I'm a liar! Ms Brunette4U your comment to one of my confessions you are accusing me of being a liar and you didn't give me the chance to explain everything to you by...
    Allurance Allurance 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 17

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    I come from and live in a place

    where people make others feel bad for being themselves. In this city, people have the same personality and style. I'm different. I thinks it's nothing wrong with being different. I get judged for the personality I have; caring, creative, shy, etc. I get judged for the music I...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    Don't judge me unless you can walk my life in

    my shoes. Sometimes i wish others could see what all i been through especially the ones who judge me on how i act and what i do. Most of then only know the bad things because of rumors.they think they can change me by cramming things down my throat like religion, advice, or just...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    So my friend out of nowhere asks me

    if I asked a guy we go to church together if I asked him to smoke. **** him lieing. I quit that ****. Then people judge me for ever doing it. Ya I drank, smoked cigs, smoked pot, popped and snorted pills but you have no right to judge. You don't know what I've been through that...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 25

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    People are so judgemental it's pathetic.

    They don't realise how much their actions or words can be damaging to someone especially when they don't know the situation in full
    arabella1108 arabella1108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    What Is This, Court?

    Don't judge a book by its's cover. I don't pass judgement and I don't like being judged. Especially by people who don't know me from Adam. Leave the judging to the Almighty.
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2012

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    We judge others instantly by their clothes,

    their cars, their appearance, their race, their education, their social status. The list is endless. What gets me is that most people decide who another person is before they have even spoken to them. What's even worse is that these same people decide who someone else is, and...
    bitchybeck bitchybeck 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    Seriously, just because I like to stay in the

    library during lunch doesn't mean that I have no friends. If you actually asked me why I do it then you would know that I feel much more comfortable on my my own doing my own thing than going into one of my friend's groups where I only know that one person... Don't just assume...
    Redhy11 Redhy11 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    like really? Youre gonna make fun of the way I

    dress or look and you don't even know me? At least get to know me before youre rude to me. Welcome to my life- Simple plan. You don't know what its like to be me. If I were you id just shut my mouth.
    lolnahhh5 lolnahhh5 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    people should not be judged by their skin color,

    sexuality, or the way that they dress. People should only be judged by the way they act towards you as well as how they act towards other. so don't judge anymore before you know the real truth.
    madiek madiek 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    Came across this in lifehacker: titled ' Those

    who do not give a fcuk change the world. Rest do not ' It may not have been said by a famous philosopher or former president, but some of the best advice we've ever heard is that no matter what you do, people will judge you. You'll never be able to escape it. Luckily, you don't...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M Jan 9

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    I'm always being judged everywhere I go.

    I have never judged a person in my life so why do people judge me? People always assume that because I believe in the supernatural that I'm a delusional teen and that it's a "fad" that will slowly loose my interest. No, I will always believe in the supernatural and nothing...
    wolflover1648 wolflover1648 16-17 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Really like if you don't know me dont say ****

    about me. Because if u gonna say it behind my back why not just say it to my face *****!! #makes me pissed!!!๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ฃ๐Ÿ˜ ๐Ÿ˜ 
    lonleygurl23 lonleygurl23 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    Stop It

    You don't know anything about me, You don't know how i feel, you don't even know what i have been through, So keep your mouth shut and stop judging me "friends".
    AngelsOnFires AngelsOnFires 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm afraid of posting my info .

    ... I don't wanna end up getting judged for talking online about my life /:
    sf619 sf619 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 31

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    I hate it. Life sucks sometimes.

    People judge me with the way I look.
    Music4Us Music4Us 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Think About It......

    There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why there the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone.
    Miss25234 Miss25234 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    The judges. Are judges.

    And has beens. And fake christians. And malcontents. And peers having a bad head day. And lazy pigs who dont do research. Fokyn idiots.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I hate when people judge me

    and don't take the time to get to know me. I had to find out the hard way that people like that aren't even worth my time. People tend to judge me because I have no job, car, the fact that I still live with my parents, etc. How about I had all those things and lost them. If you...
    rayray87 rayray87 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    So my friend out of nowhere asks me

    if I asked a guy we go to church together if I asked him to smoke. **** him lieing. I quit that ****. Then people judge me for ever doing it. Ya I drank, smoked cigs, smoked pot, popped and snorted pills but you have no right to judge. You don't know what I've been through that...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Aug 25

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    Yeah i didn't know where to put this

    so I picked a random one. Okay so, about a year ago I was a different person. I was still depressed and self conscious but i always liked wearing low cut shirts and showing off the girls (if you know what I mean๐Ÿ˜‰) lol but this year I've been more self conscious and started...
    DepressingKayla DepressingKayla 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    Not only does it make me mad,

    it makes me feel bad about myself. I start thinking maybe they are right and I'm just a *****. I get frustrated because I'm trying to change, but I can't change everything. I want to be a like-able person not this girl that no one likes and thinks she is just a whiny pathetic...
    Brookiecookie2000 Brookiecookie2000 13-15, F 6 Responses Jun 3

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    Judge By People Who Don't Know Me

    Do I hate being judged by people who don't even know me?ย  No!ย  I also can't do anything about it too.ย  You can judge me if you'd like and it won't do nothing to me cause I don't know you and you don't know me either.ย  I won't waste my time worrying about what you think of me...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 9 Responses May 15, 2011

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    That's pretty much everyone,

    but I'm starting not to care what they think, but it's that no one would want to be my friend
    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    It's part of my reason

    for choosing anonymity and wanting to preserve it. Honestly, people are so stupid and judgemental sometimes using nothing but prejudice they're too blind to even see. We all have prejudices if we're honest, but we could at least have the civility to not let them become strong...
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 18

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    seriously it hurts to be judged

    when they don't even know you and you can't do anything but to just cry inside. really what does it takes to give hurtful comments to someone who's in a depressed state? Rubbing salt onto their wounds don't make them feel better. Have more empathy guys
    trappedpixies trappedpixies 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    I have been judge so many times just

    for be black. I have been told that I won't amount to any thing, I'm just a waste of space, and so many more hurtful thing. The saying "sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt" didn't help, words do hurt but then I realized words hurt only because I let...
    Frannyj Frannyj 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I hate when people stare at me

    because of my wheelchair. I understand your not used to seeing a teenager in a wheelchair but I would rather you ask questions than stare it just makes me super uncomfortable
    Kaylamay17 Kaylamay17 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 19

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    I'm British i do stuff extreme

    for fun my **** is 9 1/2in i look funny but hey you don't know me and I bet you rape kids you ******* pedo I love myself and that's all that matters
    TheGuyThatsBritish TheGuyThatsBritish 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    OK target me for being

    who I am just because you do not agree or like what I say. I'm a sub in an open D/s relationship,i watch **** with or without my master, I was abused by my mother, i was abused very young sexually, I am just me if you dislike me then I'm lucky I do not need judgemental people...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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