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I Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me

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    I hate when people stare at me

    because of my wheelchair. I understand your not used to seeing a teenager in a wheelchair but I would rather you ask questions than stare it just makes me super uncomfortable
    Kaylamay17 Kaylamay17 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    I don't know that being judged actually bothers

    me much, but I find it interesting when people have things to say regarding my preferences. What I eat doesn't make you ****, so if I choose to be in interracial relationships it has no impact on anyone else. Yet people feel the need to comment on it. It astounds me at times.
    LovelyEvelyn LovelyEvelyn 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    "Looks Can Be Decieving"

    It's so frustrating having someone judge you from the way you look, and just base what they think of you from first glance and assume that is how your personality is. That's why I never judge a person and get to know them properly for their personality.
    Alabastrefay Alabastrefay 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Don't Judge A Banana By It's Skin

    (sorry bad eng) I still remember when i was in elementary school. I was in 6th grade. I'm the kid they look all trashy and slow (mentally and physically). Other students will laugh at me when i'm in front of the class. So do the teachers. Even there's this teacher who always made...
    OverMyHead95 OverMyHead95 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 23, 2012

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    I get judge because of my religion,

    my piercings, my height, my weight, even my hair color. Some people need to notice that everyone's different and don't always have the same views as them. 😒
    Emberrsky Emberrsky 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    This is a pet hate of mine.

    It's a perfect example of 'don't judge a book by it's cover' everybody always wonders why people have such low self esteem; it's because they're constantly judged because of their size, their accent, their skin colour, their sexuality etc. Its as if society has made this an...
    AlaiahMay AlaiahMay 18-21, F Mar 23

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    To the People Who Want to Give Up Let me tell

    you something: Everyone has problems. Everyone has fears. But not everyone chooses to acknowledge them. Many people try to push their problems aside because it makes them feel brave. Well, it's not. Running away from your fears is cowardly. Kudos to the ones who stand tall in...
    blondequeen51296 blondequeen51296 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    Don't judge me unless you can walk my life in

    my shoes. Sometimes i wish others could see what all i been through especially the ones who judge me on how i act and what i do. Most of then only know the bad things because of rumors.they think they can change me by cramming things down my throat like religion, advice, or just...
    badgirlbee badgirlbee 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    Older women and girls my age are hard on me.

    My intentions are pure yet I must justify myself to almost every woman I meet. Ladies, media and society in general berate us enough, raise each other up, don't bring eachother down! ❤️
    penilane penilane 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I'm consistently judge

    because of my attitude and skin color. I'm literally the nicest person who can understand you, that you'd ever meet. To the ones that say I'm black, you're wrong. I'm mixed. Get your facts right, before you try to check someone. Momentary thoughts, because I'm gay doesn't mean I...
    LilRedFoxTail LilRedFoxTail 18-21, M Mar 26

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    Why do people judge you easily

    when they don't even know you at all? Just because they didn't like my question, they reacted like as if I degrade people based on their orientation! I just ASKED, okay? What's wrong with my question anyway?! Just because I specified "gay" as someone whom I would like to be...
    MissPurple912 MissPurple912 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Size...

    Everyone thinks I'm soo small and since I'm shy, people think I have depression! Small things come in big packages! (Shout out to all you age 13 that are under 5 ft! 😊)
    cotygal123 cotygal123 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    I swear teenage girls can be

    so mean ARRGH!! they're part of the reason I'm self conscious . ):
    lani007 lani007 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 18

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    I Don'T Understand It...

    I hate the fact that people will always judge you by what you look like no matter what you do, no matter how much education you have received, or that you are an honest and decent person that would never hurt anyone, or the fact that you don't have a lot of money or are not...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 1, 2013

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    You can say that again.

    There is nothing more irritating than being hated on by people who do not take the time to look passed all the rumours and speculation and get to know the real me. I'm definitely worth at least that much. I don't often disappoint either.
    nainaii nainaii 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 3

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    People look at me and see a white,

    green eyed, blond haired (currently red) American teenager and the expect me to be slightly stuck up. Then they look at what my parents do for a living, an engineer and a nurse, and automatically I am a ***** and people don't want to talk to me. Still, there are a few who have...
    LittleMsGreenEyes LittleMsGreenEyes 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    shadow010 shadow010 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    Ignorance

    Ignorance stems from the act of judging someone without any regards for their origins or upbringing. I hate how people are busy judging you for something when they have done something much worse.
    aoutdouze aoutdouze 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    It Seems...

    It seems that most of the people who judge you are the ones that know you the least. And the ones that know you the most are the ones who are able to accept you for who you are. I started to realize this a few years ago, and I finally now accept it. I try my best to be myself...
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F Apr 11, 2013

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    It's like if I make one bad mistake they judge

    me on that one thing I did when there was a lot of other things that I did to make them happy!
    sweetcrystalynn sweetcrystalynn 13-15, F 5 Responses Dec 29, 2013

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    A friend of mine in school told something.

    .... Of which to my foolishness as well 'cause I'm the one who broached about that topic in the first place. Unbeknownst to her, those words of her was actually similar to those kinds of words that was referred to me before by another person... Of which made me ponder: There must...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 24

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    You Don'T Know Me!

    Those that see me on Q & A who have never spoken to me through PMs or otherwise,you DON'T know me at all ,you only see the silly side of me ,the side that shows me having fun....this place is my escape from lifes drama! I don't seek attention in the least in fact i avoid it in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    As soon as I walk into a place,

    people immediately start judging me and I don't even know them. Part of the reason is because I'm a twin..maybe if they get to know us, they'll think we're the best friends they could ever have..We accept anyone and anybody/thing..but sadly, others choose to prejudge and twist...
    LPr0cker LPr0cker 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 21

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    Never judge a book by its cover.

    I'm a bigger gal and I don't think I'm cute but I can be your greatest friend or your greatest nightmare
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I Am Being Judged

    In Australia, teachers are entitled to 14 days sick leave. I have used about half my sick leave so far this year. But some of the parents in the school are complaining to the Principal that they can never tell if I am going to be in or not, which I feel is slanderous and...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 9 Responses May 30, 2013

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    Every single person on the planet has a story.

    Don't judge people before you truly know them. The truth might surprise you
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    Everyone is adamant that people care more about

    what the heart has to offer rather than appearance, but the reality is, people DO judge us and people DO judge us based on our APPEARANCE. At first, that's all they see, and they usually make a decision based on that, that's just how most people are. I have really bad skin, I...
    MissMisunderstood1 MissMisunderstood1 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 29

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    I am greatly hurt today :(.

    I don't know how to define the feelings I have inside. I felt so helpless. I felt that no one loves me. I know i am being dramatic. Can you blame me? I am not with my family, and i stayed in boarding house with my sister. We are not close, we are just civil with each other. I...
    ilovesakura ilovesakura 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    What Is This, Court?

    Don't judge a book by its's cover. I don't pass judgement and I don't like being judged. Especially by people who don't know me from Adam. Leave the judging to the Almighty.
    AwesomeAngel AwesomeAngel 22-25, F 1 Response May 13, 2012

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    I don't think anyone will recognize how

    difficult and awkward it is to talk about what I want to do when I'm older, simply because I've finally set my mind on something, but it's something that people are uncomfortable talking about. And I can almost see why, except, it shouldn't be this way. Okay, so, just the...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    What's It To You :/

    Yes i've tryed to kill myself OKAY so i dont get why people that dont know me can judge me like you dont know what the **** i go though every day So who the **** are you to judge me.
    ohmylife ohmylife 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Ok so I say I admire inner beauty .

    .. And someone points out that that can't be true because my shirts off in my profile picture ..? I worked so hard for the body I have. I obsessed over my body image juggling eating disorders and depression. I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad for me by any means , we all...
    anthonymusto55 anthonymusto55 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 5

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    I really do hate being judge by people

    but somehow I always end up not caring about it or even pay attention about it since I don't wake up everyday to please everyone nor look good for everyone. I wake up and will take time to dress and look pretty for MYSELF. Its hard when people thinks that your trying to hard and...
    Acesha16 Acesha16 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Some 55-60 year old just called me "an

    attention ho" and basically told me that I'm either lying or need psychological help. Kay. However true that may be, why. First she calls me retarded and then that. I'm sorry if this is rude but I really hope you're reading this. I'm already sitting here crying and hating myself...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F 26 Responses Mar 12

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    I don't like to be judged

    for being gay by random ppl. I was kissing my boyfriend and everyone gave me dirty looks,being judged is wrong on any level for any reason
    13andGay 13andGay 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I get that I may not be

    that pretty And I play around when I sing I get that I have my bad hair days And just don't give a crap about it I get that my family has issues And I don't talk about it I get that my friends are loud And I'm louder with them I get that I'm kind of quiet and shy And I'm used to...
    BabyDgay BabyDgay 16-17, F Apr 5

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    Tough Position

    I model for art classes and I'm pretty sure when that robe drops people form opinions of what kind of person I am.
    embraced embraced 26-30, M 31 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    Some people on here p**s me right off.

    If you ask a question or create a post, some People will just decide to comment on it even if it's not an interest or experience. They won't be open minded they just give an opinion to try and make you feel bad or put you down. If you don't want to read te exp or question then...
    Morninglory69 Morninglory69 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want you to see this

    if you don't understand Multiple Personality Disorder (MPD), which is also known as Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). Too many people don't understand it, so they judge those who have it. If you DO understand it, I think that this is still something you should have a look at...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F Mar 29

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    Judge By People Who Don't Know Me

    Do I hate being judged by people who don't even know me?  No!  I also can't do anything about it too.  You can judge me if you'd like and it won't do nothing to me cause I don't know you and you don't know me either.  I won't waste my time worrying about what you think of me...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F 9 Responses May 15, 2011

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    Some people just won't stop.

    ...leave me alone ugh! People judge me for my scars..who cares...
    Lostmyselfagain1 Lostmyselfagain1 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    Came across this in lifehacker: titled ' Those

    who do not give a fcuk change the world. Rest do not ' It may not have been said by a famous philosopher or former president, but some of the best advice we've ever heard is that no matter what you do, people will judge you. You'll never be able to escape it. Luckily, you don't...
    rajblr1970 rajblr1970 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    people are such asswipes.

    People who have known me 10 minutes who notice that I am quiet and therefore usually have a neutral facial expression, who think that I should be intimidated by them ask me, "How come you never smile?" They think just because they haven't seen me smile that means I never do...
    Fatfuck55 Fatfuck55 26-30 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I hate it, just stop you dont

    even ******* know my life, everytime I walk outside of my house people from my school scream "go back inside and cut yourself *****" you dont know why i do it, then you start verbally abusing me because i dont dress like a ***** like you do or wear your stupid 'chavy' clothes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    Ran out of room for being stabbed in my back,

    now haters are jabbing at my sides twisting their blades. some of these wounds weren't meant to heal But every time they send me to hell I come back swinging. I can't settle for falling down I was born a warrior destined for winning! My story has yet to be told, but of corse...
    AngelaBelievesInLove AngelaBelievesInLove 22-25, F Apr 4

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    Makes me giggle I can walk few yards from my

    house I get men and women just look at me. Went to local store women kept staring I'm like....Jesus never seen women before I do seem to attract lot of people always get judged. Sadly we live in a society where we all judge I've done it too. Think ppl think oh blonde hair big...
    blondebunny77 blondebunny77 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Just got the most derogatory

    and self righteous comment on a post I made about losing my virginity. I respect that some people decide not to have sex or to wait to have sex, but it was my choice. And I am happy with it. It's a special memory of mine! And clearly she feels more adept to call me up on my...
    leo1292 leo1292 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I don't get why people

    even judge other people. Understand that they may have problems you couldn't dream of. Understand that maybe they think of suicide. Some people seem shy at first then turn out really crazy? Don't judge people, it's pointless.
    rapfordays rapfordays 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm a 16 year old Christian

    and I'm a virgin. I'm not trying to judge anyone about what they do in their sex life. I don't care what you do. And I'm not saying anyone has to do this, but I WANT to wait until marriage to have sex. It's just for some odd reason people have a problem with me doing this. It's...
    March7th March7th 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I get judged for being gay

    and like wearing tight jeans and stuff, it doesn't get to me I just think its really annoying and who cares?
    Otto1234566 Otto1234566 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    Think About It......

    There's a story behind every person. There's a reason why there the way they are. Think about that before you judge someone.
    Miss25234 Miss25234 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    How can it be that people at a first glance

    tend to belittle me and think less of me, Just because I'm pregnant at a young age. I understand that its frowned upon and that I should have had no business in becoming pregnant in the first place, But who are you to judge the life I live? I knew the consequences. I wouldn't of...
    analeeah98 analeeah98 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    i hate people judging me the way i act

    and the speak.Why?simple every where go i ware boys staff and look like a boy talk like a boy even walk like a boy.I dont care,i let them judge me,cause thise is me and can control me.
    AthlexnaLeeJJ191001TOMBOYHD AthlexnaLeeJJ191001TOMBOYHD 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    Stop It

    You don't know anything about me, You don't know how i feel, you don't even know what i have been through, So keep your mouth shut and stop judging me "friends".
    AngelsOnFires AngelsOnFires 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    I am going to judge you

    whether you like it or not, grow up and stop trying to be offended people.
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 4 Responses Apr 5

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    As soon as people notice

    that I wear mostly black they assume I am not a good person and they place me in a category like rocker, goth, etc. or because I tend to be quite most of the time they just stare at me like I am not even human or something. Why can't people just be open minded to individuals...
    LezPride LezPride 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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