I Hate Being Judged

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    I'm new in ep and I'm afraid to post a real

    photo because I hate being judged. >.<
    siony siony
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 12, 2014

    Just because im Asian doesnt mean I live/raised

    by Asian parents, im not a straight A student, im bad at math (great at science) i dont play violin, I dont speak mandarin, & I dont have an accent, also yes i understand English very damn well
    SempiternalDream SempiternalDream
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2014
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow
    18-21, F
    Nov 13, 2015

    I wont fit in someone's idea of what's

    "acceptable", and might fit in another person idea very well. I may be a bad image to someone and a great role model to another, either way I would be judged for who I am and what I have done in my life, to what just crossed my mind that it really doesn't matter how others view...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 27, 2014

    Turn the Other Cheek

    I can't stand being judged by others for being different. I'm ginger:so what? What's so bad about that? Just because you put expensive and (frankly rather crappy) highlights in your hair to make yourself look pretty,I have had to sacrifice my hair colour just because you...
    orangeblossom89 orangeblossom89
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 30, 2008

    There Words Hurt.

    There jugments about me are never true. The girls at school do it sometimes but whats the worst is my parents. They think they no everything but really they don't know anything. There words hurt.
    Horsegeek99 Horsegeek99
    13-15, F
    May 16, 2012

    I am tired of people giving me disgusted looks

    when I'm out with my Wife. People laughed at her at my sisters wake, at a company Christmas party, it goes on and on. She may not be a 10 but she's perfect to me. Screw you all for making me feel any doubts about my choice. I hate all of you and your pretentiousness. I have had...
    Burnoutasaurus Burnoutasaurus
    36-40, M
    Aug 22, 2014

    Oftentimes, your biggest effort will be ignored.

    But your smallest mistakes will be judged...
    xxTakenxx xxTakenxx
    16-17, F
    Sep 14, 2015

    Don't Judge Me, Please.

    I think it's some phobia in my case. I've always hated being judged. It's like judging person is better than me. Like they are a judge and their sentence is putting me in a prison of their judgement forever.
    amlost amlost
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 6, 2010
    Lesbianmum Lesbianmum
    22-25, F
    Jan 2, 2015

    I enjoy being judged by my outside cover,

    and being told I'm not "hang-out" material, yep and one last thing, it's hilarious how people underestimate me, and what I can do. Yeah, there's totally something wrong with me.... Ohhhhh, darn.
    Versipora Versipora
    26-30, M
    Oct 30, 2014

    Screw religion. Born

    and raised in a Christian family in a country torn apart by religious differences. Brain washed into believing my faith was the right and only faith. That all others were wrong. For all I know, there is a God. But it's not God I am attacking. It's the religions, the churches...
    VoicesInTheShadows VoicesInTheShadows
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2015

    I don't know why but people dont understand me

    and often get mad at me for jumping to conclusions and I know I sometimes say rude things without realizing I hate being judged. I can't help it I don't understand why I hate people regular people, not because that they are people it's just I don't like being judged so harshly...
    ErbiumbInTheEr ErbiumbInTheEr
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2016

    Judgements Are Nasty

    Being judged really sucks, but it depends on whether the judgement comes before people really get to see you for a while or after they've seen your actions. I hate it in both cases, 'cause I don't often do things with wrong intentions, but actually I don't believe it's possible...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2008

    **** You

    Don't Judge me I am Not on Trial. Don't treat me as If I am. I Judge myself enough. Least you Judge me. You can't Judge me based on What you think you do or don't know. So Stop and ******* think again before you Try and Judge me. Thank you Karie Lynn
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 2, 2008

    So why is it that there are people in the world

    that think they have somehow earnt the right to judge others? Im assuming they think they are right as in correct about all the world has to offer......I say to them walk a mile in my shoes before you pass judgement...then if you feel you have earnt the right to judge dont be...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 17, 2014

    Nobody is perfect, and nobody deserves to be

    perfect. Nobody has it easy. Everybody has issues. You never know what people are going through. So pause before you start judging, criticizing or mocking others. Everybody is fighting their own unique war. =)
    XxHeyyTherexX XxHeyyTherexX
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Jan 26, 2015

    by anyone except me..

    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2015

    We Don't Think The Same

    People don't know what i was thinking when i made that move they don't like. Everyone is different and handle problems in different ways, just because you don't handle it the same way doesn't mean it's the wrong way!
    Qeenofsolitude Qeenofsolitude
    Dec 12, 2011

    So, I got a new job after slaving in a hellhole

    for 5 years for minimum wage, that killed my self confidence and lowered all my options of my self. At one point I believed that it was fine that the customers and managers all screamed at me all the time. I felt sick before I went to work and had panic attacks on my way to work...
    VoicesInTheShadows VoicesInTheShadows
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 14, 2015

    You'd think I'd be used to people looking at me

    crazy by now; but I'm not, may never be. They take one look at you and what you hold important in your life and walk away, no goodbyes. Glares and stares. I am an empath, I read your thoughts through how you feel around me. And how some people feel around me hurts; I'm not a...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 27, 2015

    People often misunderstand me

    for no absolute reason. They think because I have lots of friends and we hang out a lot, that means I'm acting "bitchy". I'm not a type of person who would sit at home or in general an introvert. Plus, if you really knew me I have exactly 2 best friends. It's true, that I may...
    ReemLucis ReemLucis
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 13, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2016

    Never judge a book by its cover,

    My math book had a picture of someone enjoying themselves, I did not enjoy myself at all.
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    this is pretty spot on.

    I'm not saying all guys are like this, but 85% are.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Mar 8, 2015


    People that I really hate are judgemental people, a lot of people judge me because of my style and my past, but they don't know what I do. Last week I actually talked a girl from Tumblr out of suicide, but nobody knows, and yet they see me as a horrible person. Yesterday I...
    ToniJay ToniJay
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 24, 2012

    i hate being judged, some people may think they

    know me. well they do, but not entirely. if there is a problem, then they should be honest with me, but i wont change, anyway because my opinion matters
    Alyfun Alyfun
    16-17, F
    Jun 9, 2014

    I'm judged by the way I look.

    Apparently I'm automatically emo, and cut my self because I made the choice to wear mostly dark colors. Which is stupid because, I don't cut my self, and pretty much everyone in my school is critic.
    TheNeeded TheNeeded
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 6, 2014

    God I can't stand it.

    People making opinions on me and I haven't even said one word. Especially women. I don't know how many times I've heard girls tell me "yeah when I first saw you didn't think I would like you" how can that even be when I haven't said anything?? How could you know what type of...
    Overtherainbow66 Overtherainbow66
    22-25, F
    Sep 19, 2015

    I'm glad that hear everyone can freely express

    themselves without fear, but it's annoying in life when people drag you down because you like soming weird or unusual.
    An12S An12S
    18-21, M
    Jun 23, 2015

    I am here to be real.

    To bring the light of truth and messages of love, acceptance, encouragement and support to a community that so often is plagued with deceit, abuse, carelessness and purposeful and misleading intent. I have a genuinely loving nature and I embrace my character as a loving husband...
    storyteller4u2 storyteller4u2
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Oct 22, 2015

    by people . I mean your judgements are SO

    UNFAIR AND YOU DON'T GET ME. You don't even know what is like being me as youre NOT ME and CAN NEVER EVER BE . YOU WERE MADE TO BE WHO YOU ARE. So how would you like it if I judge you ? It is simply crazy. I hate you.
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow
    18-21, F
    Apr 12, 2015

    What you see is what you get.

    P.S. Not the ostrich
    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner
    16-17, M
    Sep 11, 2014

    People are judgmental

    and it sucks. Now I'm only 13 almost 14 and I know pretty much everything about being judged which sucks. I want to punch every judgmental person in the face but I can't I've been judged all my life because of my height, red hair, and that my personality was so different than...
    canadaJuly1 canadaJuly1
    16-17, F
    Jul 6, 2014

    Tonight at work I wore all black (nothing new)

    and dark eyeliner and shadow (again nothing new) but instead of my usual red lips I painted them black. I loved it. I look classy, I thought. But my boss said that I was looking for attention...well not those words exactly but that was basically her point...it really hurt. I...
    OddBunnie OddBunnie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 5, 2015
    deleted deleted
    May 23, 2015

    I decided to make my family realize

    and understand me better in a social manner. I decided to brought up some points about my memorization which is often mistaken as oversensitivity. the discussion with my parents about my remembering things are way harder to get my points across than I imagined. it's harder...
    ErbiumbInTheEr ErbiumbInTheEr
    18-21, F
    Apr 14, 2016

    It's hard for me to open up too people

    regardless to me being super friendly but I don't like being judged so sometimes I do shut down.
    BLANKstateofmind BLANKstateofmind
    26-30, F
    Mar 16, 2014


    If I can't tell a friend, loved one, or significant other the truth about me or something that is going on in my life without being judged who can I confide in? Unfortunately this problem is the reason why so many people have pined up issues that they need to let...
    Braveheart4real Braveheart4real
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 28, 2008

    I"m so tired of being judged 24/7,

    everyone judge and comment every single thing I do. Everyday will I be told by both my mom and my "friends" that I need to improve things about myself, things like talking on the right way, smile more, having the right clothes and talking to right people. All of this have...
    afreespirit afreespirit
    18-21, M
    Sep 3, 2014
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