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I Hate Being Left Out

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    Even The Most Simple

    things make me feel left out. On my first job the big mouth *****..she threw a halloween party. ANd the way that place functioned-if u were around her and told her ur biz then u were in "the circle". But..i refuse to let ANYBODY know anything about me that's personal on a job. So...
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F 3 Responses May 29, 2010

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    Its A Routine I Tend To Supress

    Just going to everyday stuff like my classes or activities, i still tend to feel sick inside. It's kinda frustrating that of all the 30+ classmates, i could get someone to talk to but i didn't It is also wierd that i have no one sitting next to me in some of my classes. I kinda...
    MHInnocent MHInnocent 22-25, M Nov 30, 2010

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    Left Out For New Year.

    Alright where should I start.. I recently believed in Christ. I met this group of people in church and became good friends with them. People say church friends are one of those that will always be there for you. Its going to be new year in 3-4 days, I was inviting them to go...
    blackblackk blackblackk 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I Am Not Invisible...

    I totally hate being left out. But then again who doesn't. I hate it when me and my friends sit together at a table and they were talking. They were on about a certain celebrity topic which I know very little of. But I do want to be involve in it when they talk. It's like they...
    LuCiFeRz LuCiFeRz 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2013

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    I'm Lonely, I'm A Looser!

    I've been an average girl. I always used to have many friends since elementary school.I have always hang out in a group. I love to party. Life in high school was awesome.I used to hang out with popular girls. And I was also very popular. I had so many friends. There were...
    missimperfectt missimperfectt 18-21 Dec 30, 2012

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    Left Out Once Again

    i hate being left out, i don't think anybody does. i remember when i was a child and i was playing in a field with two other girls my age. we were laughing and playing and everything was ok. one of the girls said "Judy lets go to our fort you know?" (judy was one of the girls) i...
    Scarlettshadowkeeper Scarlettshadowkeeper 16-17 1 Response Apr 28, 2012

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    It's Lonely...

    I used to be left out a lot as a child because I think I was too intense for other kids. I had so many things going on in my home life that everyone knew about, and I think that made me not able to relate to the other kids. It got really lonely, but I found myself able to write...
    earth2bella earth2bella 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 9, 2008

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    Always Am..

    I often am the one who's left out. There's only one thing you can do: Say something completely crazy just to do something against being left out. Maybe you're getting weird looks at first, but as you keep talking to them, they might include you and tada.. not left out anymore...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 29, 2008

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    I just don't know why some people disappears

    all of a sudden like bubbles. You've talked and you thought that you are good but then they'll left you hanging. Bless them :)
    Mrclubhouse Mrclubhouse 18-21, M Jun 22

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    Been Left Out Often

    I dislike being left out.  I am often left out of groups but from my observation I usually wouldn't have any to contribute to the group anyhow.  If they ask me to join then I could at least feel noticed and I could politely decline joining.  I guess its more of a dislike of...
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 1 Response Jan 23, 2012

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    Church

    Well.. Ive been at this church for a couple years and it started in jr.high and the girls in my grade wouldnt include me at ALL and i figured it was becuz i was new.. It was torture!!! I was awkwardly standing around and i tried SOOOO hard to be friends with them and create a...
    Jesusfreak2444 Jesusfreak2444 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8, 2013

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    Is It My Fault?

    I am living with 7 friends in an apartment at my college. I didn't know any of them before.. As time goes on we became closer. They have planned many things such as ordering McDonald's, buying food outside, hanging out and such. Unfortunately, I didn't join them for personal...
    chlorinefly chlorinefly 18-21, F Jul 30, 2013

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    I Hate It

    Im left out because i dont let myself be me. Im no different from anyone else but yet i tend to put myself down.
    theylaughtheyyell theylaughtheyyell 18-21, F Aug 19, 2009

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    Dancing Through Life

    so basically i used to love to dance. twirling around the room feeling pretty, it was my thing. i ended up getting really good and a lot of the teachers liked to tell me and others that i guess. i started noticing that people were treating me different after a while because i was...
    wibty wibty 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2013

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    Left Out Is Just a Matter of a State of Thought

    Being left out is horrible trust me.  I know. But you know it is all a matter of thinking that you are being left out.  Truly if you don't want to be left out. Don't make it possible to be left out. All yo have to do is put yourself in the group, don't give them the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 24, 2009

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    Am I That Weird?

    So today, was a great day. :/ No, not really. I had this Cancer walk. You should walk 2 km in the park. So i went with my "so called friends" in my former school.As i'm a dropout. My ex friends think i'm worthless. So they hardly knew i was there. So, I have my prom this Friday...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 29, 2013

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    Okay so I need some advice here

    because this problem is actually making me really upset. So I have this huge group of 'friends' (girls and boys) and in the past 6 months, I have stopped being invited to their events. Like they would all go shopping, to the cinema or for a meal, or even an amusement park...
    Lovingchocolate14 Lovingchocolate14 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    So I AMD just about done with 70% of my friends

    , that I can actually visit, we have a group chat , I'll say something that matters , no response, other person says "biceps" suddenly the world moves again, like , she makes fun if me for having all these social apps and making friends on them , but she isn't even being a good...
    sommer02 sommer02 16-17, F Jul 2

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    Just Hate It, Such A Terrible Feeling

    I hate being left out, if its not being in a conversation, being the odd one out, not fulfilling people's expectations, being the last one etc etc, i hate it. i have gone through this throughout my school years and i am soooooo over it. i remember being the one that wasnt good...
    jonnyronny jonnyronny 18-21, M 6 Responses May 23, 2010

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    Family Events

    It is one sad thing to be left out with friends, but when your family does it? That leaves a scar. A few months ago, I got to see my brother and his step-kids. I haven't seen them in years, and I nearly hugged the life out of them. Their names were Britani, 14, and Seth, 12. So I...
    SquirrelBoy1997 SquirrelBoy1997 16-17, M Nov 4, 2013

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    I Hate Being Left Out

    everytime im left out i feel like there are ppl around me that dont like me and just want me to feel bad and wabt to see me down and when that hppens i have to sit out and watch all the other ppl having so much fun without me and i feel like they know how i feel and they r just...
    evilbutterfly54 evilbutterfly54 13-15, F Jun 21, 2010

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    Being left out is like not knowing your

    existence. There was an activity that needs a partner. Almost all the people got their seatmates to be their partners, while I was left out. My friends were faraway and thought that I already had one since I kept on asking on other people but little did they know that I didnt...
    sukkiteiinayo sukkiteiinayo 13-15, F Aug 6

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    Really Guys?

    There have been times recently where I was in a group of people and we were talking about many things...Then somehow the topic gets onto something I have absolutely no knowledge of, so I just stand/sit there, for hours, having absolutely nothing to say. Though it doesn't stop me...
    LylaRocks LylaRocks 26-30, F Jan 29, 2012

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    I Hate It

    I hate being left out by everybody who has facebook because I don't have one Everyone always puts everything on there like any news in their lives and party invites and pics So half the time I don't know what they r talking about it and they r like yea I said in fb They get mad...
    willieverbegoodenough willieverbegoodenough 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 12, 2013

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    Outside Looking In

    I hate to watch others having fun, when I'm not invited to join. Of course I do ask to be, but am turned away often. And I feel like I'm trapped outside, looking in. I often find myself wishing I was one of the laughing people, included in the group. And for life things... with...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 10, 2008

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    Me Too

    But there's too many groups like this. I think we all need to elect a "capital city"group on EP and all discuss this problem on that one...
    ILoveMarie ILoveMarie 36-40 Jul 17, 2010

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    My Whole Life

    I've been being left out of things my entire life, I just dont know why its always me. I have friends, or people I would consider friends, but it seems like Im always on the outside of whats going on, no matter how hard I try to be involved. I am a nice person, and I try to...
    romanticide romanticide 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    On The Outside Once Again - So a couple of days

    ago, I was hanging out with some friends. One friend, H asked C if she was attending a surprise birthday party of someone we all knew right in front of me. I jokingly asked "What about me?" then H just gave me a blank stare and said "I don't think you're invited..were you?" So I...
    jadetheloner jadetheloner 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    That's Life

    I used to get left out all the time. I guess I still do in a way. My friends would ditch me and stuff. I hated it. My anxieties just made it a whole lot worse though. My self confidence was really low and then I just stopped trying. Now I don't really have any friends, but that's...
    Melody08 Melody08 18-21, F Mar 6, 2008

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    Dammit I just want someone to actually listen

    to what I have to say and not just ignore me.
    tolii tolii 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 28

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    My Ex

    ...and my best friend recently got together which was bad enough. anyway after a lot of drama about that, I hear last night that they are moving to Bristol together which was always OUR plan. to top things of about 4 of my best mates are moving with them so I will be completely...
    juniper juniper 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2007

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    I just wish you could love me,

    like I love you...
    ohhmyitshenna ohhmyitshenna 16-17, F Sep 21

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    Sucks When It Happens

    I have had this happen to me a few times throughout my life and I have always been annoyed by it. There's just something about knowing you were left out of something that was probably really fun that gets to me. I'm not jealous of the people that were included... I just wonder...
    paramore814 paramore814 16-17 Mar 23, 2008

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    I Don't Like It Either

    I hate being left out of conversations. For instance, If I am sitting with more than one or two people and they are conversing for a long time, I get annoyed when they do not include me into the conversation. Then whenever I try to cut through and talk about something I either...
    angelofthenight angelofthenight 21-25, F 3 Responses Mar 6, 2008

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    My Story Of Being Left Out

    All through elementary, i've been left out on many things. Sometimes, even my teacher forgets i EXIST! I would ask her for help, she says wait, and then she starts helping another student! like what the hell?! In kindergarten, no one wanted to play blocks with me. In 1st grade, i...
    Emjayyy515 Emjayyy515 13-15, F Jul 23, 2013

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    My Ex

    ...and my best friend recently got together which was bad enough. anyway after a lot of drama about that, I hear last night that they are moving to Bristol together which was always OUR plan. to top things of about 4 of my best mates are moving with them so I will be completely...
    juniper juniper 21-25, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2007

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    Left Out As A Child Always

    Let's see where to start! Well I'm currently 21 and I feel like my social awkwardness is winning in every part of my life. I really wish I had friends I could call up on weekends to hang out or even a boyfriend I can hold hands with at the mall or movies. I get so jealous when I...
    Jubit720 Jubit720 18-21 Feb 13, 2012

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    I Feel Silly...

    I'm at work at the moment, and I'm actually crying at my desk (fortunately no one can see me). There's something that's been really getting to me for the past few days, and I feel really silly that I'm letting it upset me, but I can't seem to help it. On Monday, there were quite...
    sevvysebby sevvysebby 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 9, 2008

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    This Is Just How I Feel

    When I told everyone that I'm not going anymore they didn't seem to care, they didn't even look at me, they just continued to use their phones and ignored me. She said to everyone how come you guys aren't telling her to go, they still didn't look nor did the look like they cared...
    mdkayvee mdkayvee 16-17, F Nov 17, 2013

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    When you think you're close to someone

    but they're involved in their own clique anyway. So annoying.
    dannyjc93 dannyjc93 18-21, M Mar 10

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    Lunch Time Alone

    Everyday at school at lunch my friends make this excuse. " we have to go to the washroom". And Tell me not to follow them and they will be back soon. Later after lunch period is over they come back don't even talk to me. I seriously don't know what to do
    Bluerose7 Bluerose7 13-15 Apr 4, 2012

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    I hate when my family just leaves the house

    and doesn't even tell me or invitee to go.. Really makes me feel like crap. Like I'm not important. It hurts my feelings
    lowe1993 lowe1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 8

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    Weekday Friends

     Growing up through grade school, intermediate, junior high and high school, I have had my share of friends. But most of these are what I now call "Weekday friends." I thought this childishness would be lest behind in high school, but it has followed me to college. Let me...
    mandascooby mandascooby 18-21, F Jan 24, 2010

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    I wish I could be included in something...anything....it almost feels like people hate me or something
    jinxxedforlife jinxxedforlife 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I was left out and sometimes bullied in school, so I know how it feels I wish I was the person that I am now, back then. But I cant do that what I can do is help people like me or...
    sagard1994 sagard1994 18-21, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Would you lie I someone you love?? If you said yes to this then your not any where close to the right kind but I hate being lied to but think about this why do we lie?? Why do you...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Attention Stepmom's: Put yourself first. I recently left my husband this week after 10 years of marriage. I was unhappy with the conditions of our home and how he never held his...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate being the last person on his list.. Outside of work & the kids - I am last. I'm tired of him getting calls/texts everyday from his ex.. Interrupting anytime I ever get with...
    patientlove patientlove 22-25 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I hate it, I hate being lied to, I mean it. So since I don't trust anyone, the good thing for me that I have found out is just don't f****** care about it. Because It's gonna hurt...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21 2 Responses Sep 21

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    Lying is such a big turn off, I hate being lied too! Usually I already know what's going to happen, what the answer is, if I have this feelings that I'm being lied too..don't you...
    lifelessons15 lifelessons15 16-17, F Oct 9

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    Srsly? Just cos I'm a teenager doesn't mean i live to egg peoples houses and kick bins over. To be honest, i do practically the opposite. I'm not trying to say i have super powers...
    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner 13-15, M Oct 10

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    I hate being ignored! I can't stand when I ask someone a question then they don't respond to me and when I ask again they Yell the answer at me Like im annoying them with my...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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