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I Hate Being Lied to

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    I want a relationship

    that stay truthful to each other. No lie, just us being truth to each other. Lie doesn't get you anywhere. If you lie, eventually in the end people will know the truth. Why being in a relationship, if all you do is lie.. I don't like when people have to lie about their self...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Fooled

    I've been gone for a while...there are two reasons why.  First, I fell into a very bad relationship with someone here and needed to get beyond it.  Second, I was taken for a huge ride by another friend here, female this time, and she broke my heart.  She lied to me for years...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 40 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    I hate being lied to,

    but I lie all the time.
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    If you feel the need to lie to me,

    I would rather you not talk to me.
    Sunnysmile36 Sunnysmile36 36-40, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    Deceit

    This one is fairly simple. I've been fortunate enough to have had many people in my employ. I had two rules, don't lie to me and don't steal from me. Everything else could be worked through with diplomacy. Lying is a form of manipulation, a means for one to gain favor in a...
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 9 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    I hate when people lie to me,

    even if its a little lie. I've been through so many lies & broken promises that I developed trust issues & just shrug whenever I'm told something. Why lie about anything? To spare someone's feelings or something? I would rather someone hurting my feelings with the truth rather...
    thesilentchef thesilentchef 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    unluckysarah unluckysarah 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    “A storyteller makes up things to help other

    people; a liar makes up things to help himself.” ~ Daniel Wallace
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    ............Lying is

    for COWARDS
    lovinlife27 lovinlife27 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 10

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    Honestly, who DOESN'T hate being lied to?

    Well maybe Rihanna but who else? Nobody I know wants to be lied to ._.
    Idril Idril 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 13

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    Janelaa Janelaa 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I have a rule; if you lie to me once,

    you lose all credibility with me, period. If you lie to me twice, I'll never trust you again. I don't make exceptions to this rule, and I've been lied to so much in my life that I have learned to recognize it from a mile away. I don't offer second chances because people never...
    Iamalpha Iamalpha 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I would rather be hurt by your honesty,

    than be made happy by your lies! Honesty is the best policy & just remember, the truth always comes out I'm the end!!
    Kee17 Kee17 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Lying to me is the one way to break any type of

    relationship you have with me whether you are a relative or a friend.
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 24

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    Two weeks ago I picked my sister up from the

    airport and brought her over to my boyfriends house where we all were planning to spend the 4th of July together. To make a long story short, I left the two of them alone together for 24 hours. When I returned back to my ex's house they both were acting very funny. When I...
    usabrighteyes usabrighteyes 51-55, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    cammer4646 cammer4646 46-50, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    They say the 2 things you should never lie

    about in a marriage are finances and cheating. I caught my husband red handed. I didn’t purposely catch him. I was the wife who stumbled into the situation completely blinded. Sparing the details. Sorry. My world was turned upside down. If I didn’t know how I felt about my...
    NurseK101 NurseK101 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    I hate being lied to especially If i'm honest

    with you 24/7. If I lied to you like you lie to me, you would hate me, think about how it would feel before you constantly lie and make excuses.
    faithomfg faithomfg 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    That moment when you expect him to do what he

    promised. And then break it.
    LemonadeStash LemonadeStash 13-15, F 7 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    When someone lies to me,

    what they are actually telling me is that they do not trust me enough to tell me the truth. That is insulting and painful.
    miles2gob4isleep miles2gob4isleep 56-60, F 4 Responses Feb 6

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    I can handle almost anything,

    but I cannot handle a liar.
    lookingforrea lookingforrea 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    Too bad. All the woman I ever loved lied to me.

    I hate lies. I hate what it did to me.
    Atromitos Atromitos 31-35 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I met a girl 17 years ago

    while working, 2 separate lives and 2 different paths, 17 years later our paths crossed again. The same feelings I had 17 years ago were as strong as ever. We started dating and after 2 months I started seeing the same red flags and feeling the betrayal I felt when I was married...
    confidentguy confidentguy 41-45, M 11 Responses Jan 2

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    He's not single. He has had me on a carrot

    stick system for 16 years. No marriage. No children. We concentrate on his career and subsequently, my life has been consumed and I am at the end of his list of importance. You are not single. Not coming home and staying out all night is not okay. It's never been okay. It...
    OnceHalcyon OnceHalcyon 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel really guilty

    because of how much I did for my ex and now realizing he didn't do much **** for me. I feel so used. How can I stop thinkin about him? He broke up with me claiming he doesn't love me enough, but he was the one texting me and caring for me the most like we would have so much "I...
    Cdb15 Cdb15 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 17

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    I never understood the appeal of lying.

    Like it isn't beneficial in anyway and majority of the time the thing you lied about comes to light sooner or later. Then whatever it was is now much worse than it would have been if you had been honest to begin with.
    IamMell IamMell 26-30, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Whilst the truth can be hard to tell sometimes,

    a lie doesn't last for long.. neither does it overtake the strength of the truth, or even erase the existence of the truth.. Whilst the truth can be hurtful sometimes, a lie can leave a scar, break trust, and create doubts in any relationship..
    Starz93 Starz93 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    cammer4646 cammer4646 46-50, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    Okay. So my bf is stupid.

    He claims he loves me and is in love with me. But recently he claims he loves a new girl. He never loved me not even for a second. And loving and caring for someone are two totally different things
    Bassfisher67 Bassfisher67 16-17, F 8 Responses Jul 15

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    I Was Lied To

    My boyfriend lied to me for months. He kept a secret girlfriend all the while telling me he loved me but couldn't see me much because he was so busy at work. I found her on facebook and confronted him. He said it was her who assumed the relationship. Yet he went to meet her...
    Francesca004 Francesca004 22-25, F 16 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    For those of you prepared to read my rant,

    i thank you for your time. I have this, i want that, i need it. Fvck I! What we all want and need; is Love and security. That's all we need and all we could ever want. BUT we are prayed upon by the greedy. Our every desire is turned into a marketing scheme by those who have...
    Sublimelovecuts Sublimelovecuts 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    She busted the laptop.

    ..report her...
    moooo5050 moooo5050 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    I'm so fed up of being lied to.

    I don't understand the meaning of it. Why do you lie to me even when you know I'll figure it out? Lies destroy EVERYthing; from friendships...To anything. We gotta act keeping in mind that our actions can hurt somebody. Anyway, if you act not being aware of it...Tell it. Don...
    msslonely msslonely 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 15

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    So i recently told my exfirlfriend

    that i was in love with her and she said the same thing. Later she tells me that she also loves my best friend. She has lied to me many times and that is why we are no longer together. All i want in a relationship is someone who loves me and someone who will never lie to me
    Grantt821 Grantt821 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 4

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    onomatopoeiaCA onomatopoeiaCA 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    Why did you need to lie to me.

    I caught you in a lie. Now you won't even talked to me because I caught you in a lie. You nearly poked me in my with you lies
    SummerLove16 SummerLove16 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F 1 Response May 21

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    We are taking dove machine away from her this

    week All failed efforts and I'm in another world for 2 years......tenor the scumbag ex
    gether5050 gether5050 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    Debra ip just came in We're the best.

    .your just a hacking disrespected punk The haters are the 2nd of them..stay focused on bimbo 2
    dexrerpunk46 dexrerpunk46 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    LOL THE LORD IS GOOD FOLKS!

    !! Just as I was feeling like giving in I see a new friend has joined our site. Reading her post reminds me of why he lost me in the first place and why he will only ever see me again in his dreams... Sweet dreams
    sapphire601 sapphire601 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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    This is one thing I will not tolerate from

    anyone. I'd rather be hurt by the truth than made happy with a lie.
    headfuckery headfuckery 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    You seriously thought cheating was the answer

    to get me back? And got mad at me when I got suspicious and texted your other girlfriend. Wow Bitchh
    Garner3 Garner3 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    hithere50 hithere50 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    Just be honest, even

    if it hurts. I am brutally honest and I prefer to surround myself with people who are the same way. Of course I'll lie when it is necessary to deceive someone but what is it with people who lie for NO reason. I know people who just bullshit about things. Like they feel a sense...
    Blake00048 Blake00048 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    Yes I hated it!! Just tell me the truth no

    matter how hard it is. I hate wondering and guessing!
    001goodguy65 001goodguy65 46-50, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I found out today that my partner lied to me.

    This isn't the first lie he has been caught telling me. What the lie is about is not as big of a deal as the fact that he lied at all. He doesn't seem to think it's a big deal. I'm feeling like my trust in him is at risk.
    julieb27 julieb27 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 9

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    Scumbag is still replying

    as my friends my Facebook page
    cammer4646 cammer4646 46-50, F 9 hrs ago

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    jaecx jaecx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    why is it that people think they need to lie to

    me? come on people stop trying to pass other peoples photos as urself. do u think im dumb and wont figure it out? just tell me the truth from the start.
    Curiouslexy Curiouslexy 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 3

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    Being Lied To

    Funny thing is that if they were the person they should be and acting right there would be no need to lie. Lies are only an attempt to cover the truth of ones actions or the person they really are. The problem is always bigger than the lie used to attempt to cover it up.
    Donotpassgo Donotpassgo 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    I met a really nice person here

    who struck up a conversation. Had a picture of himself adjusting a tie, which I admired. I think a man in a suite an tie is impressive, when it's fitted correctly. It's just a style preference. Well during the conversation I asked him about it. He became dodgy. I let it slide. I...
    thetruthaboutthedollhouse thetruthaboutthedollhouse 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 14

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    Tubbie hips........she asks

    for a pic when ex steps in...
    dexrerpunk46 dexrerpunk46 46-50, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Victims Over The Internet

    Have you been a victim of someone over the internet?  Someone who lied to you or pretended to be someone else?  I would like to know how often this happens to people.A friend had mentioned the movie, Catfish, so I watched it this week.  It brought home the very real drama that...
    Vignette Vignette 51-55, F 40 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Honesty is more important

    than anything . Even when I lose out I tell the truth . If it's possible to talk then the truth is the only thing that should come out of your mouth or my . So many people lie now days even a small white lie is a lie . Or think they can change their mind whenever they want so...
    Chris4man Chris4man 26-30</