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I Hate Being Lied to

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    If you feel the need to lie to me,

    I would rather you not talk to me.
    Sunnysmile36 Sunnysmile36 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 21

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    Being Lied To

    Funny thing is that if they were the person they should be and acting right there would be no need to lie. Lies are only an attempt to cover the truth of ones actions or the person they really are. The problem is always bigger than the lie used to attempt to cover it up.
    Donotpassgo Donotpassgo 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    They say the 2 things you should never lie

    about in a marriage are finances and cheating. I caught my husband red handed. I didn’t purposely catch him. I was the wife who stumbled into the situation completely blinded. Sparing the details. Sorry. My world was turned upside down. If I didn’t know how I felt about my...
    NurseK101 NurseK101 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    So i recently told my exfirlfriend

    that i was in love with her and she said the same thing. Later she tells me that she also loves my best friend. She has lied to me many times and that is why we are no longer together. All i want in a relationship is someone who loves me and someone who will never lie to me
    Grantt821 Grantt821 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I hate being lied to especially If i'm honest

    with you 24/7. If I lied to you like you lie to me, you would hate me, think about how it would feel before you constantly lie and make excuses.
    Faithlovee Faithlovee 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    He's not single. He has had me on a carrot

    stick system for 16 years. No marriage. No children. We concentrate on his career and subsequently, my life has been consumed and I am at the end of his list of importance. You are not single. Not coming home and staying out all night is not okay. It's never been okay. It...
    OnceHalcyon OnceHalcyon 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    That moment when you expect him to do what he

    promised. And then break it.
    LemonadeStash LemonadeStash 13-15, F 8 Responses a week ago

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    I'm tired of getting 500 different stories from

    everyone, I just want to know the truth
    l3x1l0v3 l3x1l0v3 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Yes I hated it!! Just tell me the truth no

    matter how hard it is. I hate wondering and guessing!
    001goodguy65 001goodguy65 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 22

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    ............Lying is

    for COWARDS
    lovinlife27 lovinlife27 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 10

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    “A storyteller makes up things to help other

    people; a liar makes up things to help himself.” ~ Daniel Wallace
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    I dislike being lied to.

    Especially when i know when they are lying.
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    One of the rules you hear

    for a lawyer is to never ask a question if you don’t know the answer. Not always applicable to real life, because if we didn't ask we'd never learn. But sometimes asking the question when you know the answer reveals something about a relationship, about a level of trust and...
    BeauDaddy BeauDaddy 61-65, M 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    justkeepslying justkeepslying 46-50, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    For those of you prepared to read my rant,

    i thank you for your time. I have this, i want that, i need it. Fvck I! What we all want and need; is Love and security. That's all we need and all we could ever want. BUT we are prayed upon by the greedy. Our every desire is turned into a marketing scheme by those who have...
    Sublimelovecuts Sublimelovecuts 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    you would tell 10 more lies to support one,

    and eventually it will lead to bigger problems. Rather if you can tell the truth once, i'll accept that.
    kinkprime kinkprime 22-25, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm so fed up of being lied to.

    I don't understand the meaning of it. Why do you lie to me even when you know I'll figure it out? Lies destroy EVERYthing; from friendships...To anything. We gotta act keeping in mind that our actions can hurt somebody. Anyway, if you act not being aware of it...Tell it. Don...
    msslonely msslonely 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 15

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    We are taking dove machine away from her this

    week All failed efforts and I'm in another world for 2 years......tenor the scumbag ex
    gether5050 gether5050 46-50, F Jul 21

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    I don tolerate being lied to .

    You lie to me Better be saying goodbye
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband decided to have a different

    spiritual outlook then our family has had about a year ago. This is not a problem for me but it seems to be one for him! He started an account in a social site and become obsessed. He stopped talking to us staying in our room all day on weekends! I have caught him attempting...
    sweetmelissa77 sweetmelissa77 36-40, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Scumbag is still replying

    as my friends my Facebook page
    cammer4646 cammer4646 46-50, F a week ago

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    Too bad. All the woman I ever loved lied to me.

    I hate lies. I hate what it did to me.
    Atromitos Atromitos 31-35 2 Responses Jul 22

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    Why did you need to lie to me.

    I caught you in a lie. Now you won't even talked to me because I caught you in a lie. You nearly poked me in my with you lies
    SummerLove16 SummerLove16 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    Mrd34 Mrd34 31-35, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    You seriously thought cheating was the answer

    to get me back? And got mad at me when I got suspicious and texted your other girlfriend. Wow Bitchh
    Garner3 Garner3 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    Lying to me is the one way to break any type of

    relationship you have with me whether you are a relative or a friend.
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 24

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    Honestly, who DOESN'T hate being lied to?

    Well maybe Rihanna but who else? Nobody I know wants to be lied to ._.
    Idril Idril 18-21, F 6 Responses Jun 13

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    I hate it I really do I mean

    when you think you can trust your best friend and then they lie to you..... I HAD a friend who I asked of she could spend the night and she said no my grandma died I have to go to her funeral. So of course I was like I'm so sorry😊 but then that night she posted and pic to...
    Rachelelizabeth417 Rachelelizabeth417 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I haaaate when ppl lie

    and when u confront them the pretend like nothing happen , I mean seriously who can trust such a person again .am i right??
    splashh splashh 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    When a man tells you he's single

    and you find out he's married - hate that
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I would rather be hurt by your honesty,

    than be made happy by your lies! Honesty is the best policy & just remember, the truth always comes out I'm the end!!
    Kee17 Kee17 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    I met a girl 17 years ago

    while working, 2 separate lives and 2 different paths, 17 years later our paths crossed again. The same feelings I had 17 years ago were as strong as ever. We started dating and after 2 months I started seeing the same red flags and feeling the betrayal I felt when I was married...
    confidentguy confidentguy 41-45, M 11 Responses Jan 2

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    I Was Lied To

    My boyfriend lied to me for months. He kept a secret girlfriend all the while telling me he loved me but couldn't see me much because he was so busy at work. I found her on facebook and confronted him. He said it was her who assumed the relationship. Yet he went to meet her...
    Francesca004 Francesca004 22-25, F 15 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    unluckysarah unluckysarah 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    Victims Over The Internet

    Have you been a victim of someone over the internet?  Someone who lied to you or pretended to be someone else?  I would like to know how often this happens to people.A friend had mentioned the movie, Catfish, so I watched it this week.  It brought home the very real drama that...
    Vignette Vignette 51-55, F 40 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    What's the point of lying.

    ..what's could be so bad about yourself that you have to lie about it? If you feel like you have to lie about yourself then you should find new friends that like you for who you are!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have dealt with liars my whole life just like

    most have. If you talk to me on here there's no reason to lie to me I'm not the judgmental type . I just want someone that I can trust, it's been so long since I could look someone in the eyes and say "I believe you". Overall, I just want honest people in my life that won't hurt...
    carroyo18 carroyo18 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F 1 Response May 21

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    It's not a nice experience

    but hey you get used to it, so you just shake your head, or just think WTF. Lol
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate girl say I love you

    and she say no just lie to you like don't play with people feeling like that
    jaymoney1992 jaymoney1992 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I met a really nice person here

    who struck up a conversation. Had a picture of himself adjusting a tie, which I admired. I think a man in a suite an tie is impressive, when it's fitted correctly. It's just a style preference. Well during the conversation I asked him about it. He became dodgy. I let it slide. I...
    thetruthaboutthedollhouse thetruthaboutthedollhouse 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 14

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    Deceit

    This one is fairly simple. I've been fortunate enough to have had many people in my employ. I had two rules, don't lie to me and don't steal from me. Everything else could be worked through with diplomacy. Lying is a form of manipulation, a means for one to gain favor in a...
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 9 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    When someone lies to me,

    what they are actually telling me is that they do not trust me enough to tell me the truth. That is insulting and painful.
    miles2gob4isleep miles2gob4isleep 56-60, F 4 Responses Feb 6

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    onomatopoeiaCA onomatopoeiaCA 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    jaecx jaecx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    Lauren106 Lauren106 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    :EDIT: found out my boyfriend of two years has

    been lieing to me since we got together. he wants me to lose weight. he always thought that I could weight and he hasn't told me. he said he'd be honest with me from the start then, finally today, decided to tell me I could lose weight, 150 lbs of it: I was upset. not about how...
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 16-17, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want a relationship

    that stay truthful to each other. No lie, just us being truth to each other. Lie doesn't get you anywhere. If you lie, eventually in the end people will know the truth. Why being in a relationship, if all you do is lie.. I don't like when people have to lie about their self...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I just caught my husband speaking with his

    secretary late night hours . She knew we were married with three kids. They both State it was just a friendship . He was caught 10 years ago cheating . What do I do ?
    sigi4895 sigi4895 36-40, F 17 Responses 5 days ago

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    I joined this group as,

    like most people, I really don't like being lied to. You take me as you find me, and I don't put on heirs and graces, so there's no need to lie or be false with me. I carry no expectations, and I'm not the judgmental type. So please, please, be honest and truthful with me.
    ConcreteSleeper ConcreteSleeper 31-35, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Fooled

    I've been gone for a while...there are two reasons why.  First, I fell into a very bad relationship with someone here and needed to get beyond it.  Second, I was taken for a huge ride by another friend here, female this time, and she broke my heart.  She lied to me for years...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 41 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    I hate it. Though i love it to.

    If you think about it, a movie is a big lie. It depends on the lie. I guess what I hate most is betrayal.
    NuuIdeas NuuIdeas 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I hate when people lie to me,

    even if its a little lie. I've been through so many lies & broken promises that I developed trust issues & just shrug whenever I'm told something. Why lie about anything? To spare someone's feelings or something? I would rather someone hurting my feelings with the truth rather...
    thesilentchef thesilentchef 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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