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I Hate Being Lied to

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    If your husband said he didn't have Any web

    sites that you didn't know about,,but then you found some,,and all the friends on it were girls,,,wouldn't you think he was cheating ??? Why lie in the first place if your not hiding something,,gets me to wondering what else is in hiding !!!!
    nottotouch nottotouch 41-45, F 53 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Alonzoisgay Alonzoisgay 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 18

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    I've been lied to by a lot of people!

    Been lied to by my friends, my family, aunts and uncles, adults, every single person in the world, expect my aunt and uncle in VA cuz I can always trust them.
    craz3f8g craz3f8g 18-21 21 hrs ago

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    I tell myself and others the truth may hurt me

    now but a lie will scar me forever.
    bystarlight2 bystarlight2 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 10, 2014

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    to think that you believe

    that I am soo gullible. that I really believed your stories. what you must think of me. just because I am quiet and try to avoid confrontation doesn't mean that I am stupid. I know the truth. I know what I saw. I know what I heard. the question I have is, am I the idiot for...
    littlesadone littlesadone 41-45, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    My best friend and me made a promise to never

    date each other's exs. Today I found out for the past month her and my ex, who I still have feelings for, have been dating.. I am so hurt I don't even know what to say to her or if I want to say anything..
    Muppo23 Muppo23 13-15, F 27 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    You meet someone. You have a good chemistry.

    The flow is so smooth. You feel the connection. You asked if he is single or married...he said he is single. You became comfortable communicating with him. Then after a month, while you're talking on the phone you heard a woman's voice. You asked him who's that woman, he said...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 21 Responses Dec 28, 2014

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    Why fall in love with someone

    who only wants U for ur body and money
    laila654 laila654 13-15, F 8 Responses Jan 19

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    When you think someone cares

    and you find out they really don't... Worse feeling ever. It seems like everyone wants something from me even my "friend"..
    tigersfan195 tigersfan195 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    If you feel the need to lie to me,

    I would rather you not talk to me.
    Fluffy88 Fluffy88 36-40, F 9 Responses Jul 21, 2014

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 7 Responses Jan 8

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    I don't understand...

    .. How some people can tell so many lies & never feel bad about it.
    SunshineAnderson13 SunshineAnderson13 22-25, F 10 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    Wht do people feel the need to lie.

    While in the bank today the bank officer told me she had to ring a branch to find out if the bank cheque i had purchased had been presented and then told me only my husband could do it as the money was in his account. The truth, i found out later, was the only thing she needed...
    unme1 unme1 56-60, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    What is even the point of dating .

    ... You give a person everything .... Your trust your love .... Everything ... And you think they feel the same way ... But then they rip out your heart and stomp all over it
    dyinginside4 dyinginside4 16-17, F 14 Responses Nov 28, 2014

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    I don't see what's so hard in telling the truth.

    I asked my husband where he was going and he completely lied straight to me for what I don't understand. I know where he really went and it would have been an issue if he just told the truth in the first place.
    nisa890 nisa890 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    WeCouldBeDead WeCouldBeDead 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    I really hate being lied to especially

    if you're lying to me to protect my feelings. I can handle the truth even if it's something I might not want to hear. I can't handle being lied to.
    jamesmarie09 jamesmarie09 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    The one thing that hurts me

    so much is when someone lies to me. The fact that they know I will get hurt when I figure out sooner or later, they still do it. Why lie? It's one of the worst moves you can make. Honestly, I can't believe people anymore once they lie. One wrongful lie, and you can break me...
    AndyL567 AndyL567 13-15, M 11 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    I know it's wrong but I think it's hilarious

    when little kids lie and come up with these elaborate stories. My Niece for example cut her bangs off last night. After the initial shock wore off and listening to my sister cry about it, we questioned why she did it and she says (mind you she's only 4 years old) "The Scissors...
    Refugeblue83 Refugeblue83 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    dealing with liars. i just dont understand

    why one feels the need to lie especially when im so accepting. im so forgiving but at the point where i catch u in a lie and he turns around and tried to cover it up by saying hurtful things about me, you have crossed the line. i have finally got the confession and its time to...
    snelletrail snelletrail 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Probably because I see straight through the

    lies. I have a very good memory, and if my gut tells me it's a lie, then it is.
    bonkers772 bonkers772 31-35, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    If i tell you something I'm only telling you.

    Not your mom, dad, grandmother, grandfather ect. Just you. So if you can't keep it to yourself, don't expect me to tell you anything. I don't trust you after that.
    Euphoricbunnymaster Euphoricbunnymaster 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 19

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    BloodyVictim BloodyVictim 13-15, F 15 Responses Jan 10

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    Larry Robert Bauman.

    ..enough said
    btrflifree btrflifree 31-35 Jan 22

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    This is why I don't bother to invest feelings

    into anything anymore. The guy I'm seeing is obviously seeing someone else. This isn't my first rodeo I know how to tell. Oh well, such is life. I need another drink.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 19 Responses 2 days ago

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    Being lied to changes you in

    so many ways. You become guarded, less trusting, more suspicious and sooo hurt and betrayed on the inside. You feel vulnerable, even stupid, almost beating yourself up for believing and trusting someone... Sound familiar?.....
    Rubyfusion410 Rubyfusion410 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 29, 2014

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    I know when people lie to me

    but I don't say anything.
    skittlesjkayle skittlesjkayle 16-17, F 19 Responses Dec 26, 2014

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    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 22, 2014

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    The worst part of being cheated is being lied

    to. It would be better to tell the person you fall out of love for her/him. Make a clean sheet before jumping into relationship in that way the pain won't be as much as painful it should be.
    ezzy2014 ezzy2014 26-30, F 9 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    Why do people lie and play games with other

    peoples emotions?What is the point of playing games and leading someone on until theyfall for you? What do you get out of it? How do you sleep at night?
    1Anonymousme 1Anonymousme 70+, F 8 Responses Jan 23

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    I just don't get why people in this day

    and age feel the need to lie. I think lying is stupid, pointless and deceitful. There is no value to a lie and lies can spiral out of control. But do lies have to spiral out of control before you realise that you're in a lot of ****?
    Crena212 Crena212 13-15, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Like really come on. Just say it to my face.

    Yes it's going to hurt but it's better than keeping it a secret like you have something to hide
    ningqin ningqin 13-15, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Fooled

    I've been gone for a while...there are two reasons why.  First, I fell into a very bad relationship with someone here and needed to get beyond it.  Second, I was taken for a huge ride by another friend here, female this time, and she broke my heart.  She lied to me for years...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 42 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    1nicecharmer 1nicecharmer 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just spent seven months getting to know the

    woman who said she was 34 when will issue was 54 she had no intentions of ever coming but said she was not once but twice I don't understand why she had to rip my heart out The Age wasn't even an issue. All she had to do was be honest.
    TEMPOLTON TEMPOLTON 41-45, M 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    cindymariee cindymariee 51-55, F 10 Responses Dec 18, 2014

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    "I'm not going to hurt you.

    " BIGGEST LIE EVER TOLD.
    smeckledorfed smeckledorfed 18-21, F 16 Responses Jan 14

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    I am an open person, whatever you see here

    and read, you can see through me. I am real. And would it sound selfish when all I ever am is being honest, and there you are lying just to get through me. Seriously, I don't fancy being lied to.
    dakilangdreamer dakilangdreamer 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 23

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    I do hate being lied to,

    I hate fake promises and fake words of affection, I think it's always better to be upfront and tell the truth no matter how much it hurts at the end I rather be honest and hurt your feelings a little then be fake and lie to you..
    Marlenyfl83 Marlenyfl83 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Nothing like falling

    for a girl and then her getting engaged to some other guy.
    Mittensss Mittensss 18-21, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Why do some boys feel the need to pull girls

    down? Just let them be!! Pulling them down and trying to get rid of their self esteem just because you know YOU aren't good enough and not worthy enough of her...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 18-21, F 23 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    That funny moment when they lie

    and you later find out the truth. Wow I hate being lied to but it does give me a nice laugh
    Pinkerlove Pinkerlove 18-21, F Jan 20

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    Lying to me is the one way to break any type of

    relationship you have with me whether you are a relative or a friend.
    BlackBeauty35 BlackBeauty35 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 24, 2014

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    Somebody good but actualy evil .

    .dont trust for first sight when you look some one .. It will happen faster destroy yourselves take care and be carefull ..around you hv somebody like that
    nananomi31 nananomi31 46-50, F Jan 21

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    You lie... We're done.

    (Imagine saying this with a Mafioso manner, to understand my point.) LOLOL but seriously, I hate liars.
    italianastrong italianastrong 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I have been with my bf on

    and off for 9 years I am still a virgin , he has cheated the entire time but I still love himÔÇŽI wonder if Im too scared to have sex or if Im emotionally scarred from all the past cheating? I don't know what to do but I'm not happy being a virgin at 25. Nobody I am close too...
    Trixxy22 Trixxy22 22-25, F 18 Responses a week ago

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    InnocentShattered InnocentShattered 18-21 4 Responses Sep 11, 2014

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    Can't stand a liar I want to know the truth

    and if I'm lied to it's hard for me to trust that person again
    Funnychase66 Funnychase66 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    Caspababe Caspababe 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    How do you feel when someone younger

    than you had relationship with your husband? When i first found out, from her mouth admitting everything i ask from her... I feel my world tumbling upside down right on that moment, i felt that suddenly my world has becoming dark and cold... Loneliness starts creeping in! 13 yrs...
    justme1572 justme1572 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 22

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    I tried to explain the tropes

    and representations of Harry Potter to a very clever year 11 student. She couldn't seem to fathom that potter represented a young person trying to make their way in the world. The idea of mud-bloods is like those born without money - the arrogance of full-bloods wants to keep...
    itismichael itismichael 36-40, M 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I hate when I meet someone

    and we hit it off and after a few weeks I start to learn that the whole time we talked they were just trying to deceive me, just be honest and I will respect that. I Hate A Liar
    snowman70 snowman70 41-45, M 7 Responses Nov 13, 2014