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I Hate Being Lied to

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    I just found out my boyfriend

    for over a year has been chatting with other women behind my back at the dating website we met at. Yeah, there were everyday texts with words of love, support, encouragement, etc., I thought he was great! What fool I was! This happens every time I have courage to get out and...
    jrice356 jrice356 46-50, F 9 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    “A storyteller makes up things to help other

    people; a liar makes up things to help himself.” ~ Daniel Wallace
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    Me and my boyfriend recently broke up,

    and he says it's because of something totally irrelevant, but I think he lied to me...
    DesireeNicole27 DesireeNicole27 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The first guy I had strong feelings

    for lied to me so much that I can't be with another guy because I feel everything they are telling me is a lie. The worst part is that after I got over it a little I dated a guy and he lied to me. I want to be comfortable with a guy. I wanna love someone who loves me back the...
    lexm lexm 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Every day, I am afraid

    that some turkey will try to con me, manipulate me, take advantage of me or stuff like that. I'm not the most gullible person in the world, but still, I hope I don't meet anyone like Iago.
    nightpatroller78 nightpatroller78 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    When someone lies to me,

    what they are actually telling me is that they do not trust me enough to tell me the truth. That is insulting and painful.
    miles2gob4isleep miles2gob4isleep 56-60, F 4 Responses Feb 6

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    Chantellelikemeetingnewpeople Chantellelikemeetingnewpeople 13-15, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've never been able to stand being lied too.

    But last year I got cheated on. It's was slyly public In the way he went about it by tweeting things that I thought would be relevant to me when instead it was about someone else. I found out everything yet he never admitted to it. I just wanted closure but I never got it.
    LiveLongerIfYouLaugh LiveLongerIfYouLaugh 26-30, F 6 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Honestly, who DOESN'T hate being lied to?

    Well maybe Rihanna but who else? Nobody I know wants to be lied to ._.
    Idril Idril 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 13

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    Fooled

    I've been gone for a while...there are two reasons why.  First, I fell into a very bad relationship with someone here and needed to get beyond it.  Second, I was taken for a huge ride by another friend here, female this time, and she broke my heart.  She lied to me for years...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 41 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    I'm so sick and tired of girls telling me

    that I would go out with you if I didn't know you or something like that. They're just trying to tell me what I want to hear so I don't feel like ****. I know for a fact they would never notice someone like me or even pause to look in my direction. And that just makes me feel...
    TheGuy147 TheGuy147 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My "friend" isn't telling me the truth,

    & it's hard to have people you think you're so close to you lie to you.
    jojojojo207 jojojojo207 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 22

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    If you feel the need to lie to me,

    I would rather you not talk to me.
    Backroadskindagirl Backroadskindagirl 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 21

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    When i noticed he does,

    thats the end of it. Let me just play games with u then. I tell the truth im expecting for u to do so.
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    jaecx jaecx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I'm so tired of being hurt

    and being lied to, it's almost like now a days you can't be a good person if you want to die in peace.
    endlessdreeamer endlessdreeamer 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've been cat fished by a guy

    who uses Nash Aguas photos for a year. ****. .-.
    InnerEgo InnerEgo 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    For the second time as ep Allie removes

    anything I write about cheating. Cheating is the worst? Cheat on me and you can go live with them but they do not want that why have the whole person when you can only have the good side. I'm in an open relationship that does not mermaids we sleep around in fact the opposite...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Being lied to changes you in

    so many ways. You become guarded, less trusting, more suspicious and sooo hurt and betrayed on the inside. You feel vulnerable, even stupid, almost beating yourself up for believing and trusting someone... Sound familiar?.....
    Rubyfusion410 Rubyfusion410 41-45, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    unluckysarah unluckysarah 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    Lying to me is the one way to break any type of

    relationship you have with me whether you are a relative or a friend.
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 24

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    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 22

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    It's the worst feeling in the world to watch

    someone you've given years of your life too, walk out the door saying theyre going to go run some errands but finding out they've been out cheating on you. I've asked myself time and time again what else could I be doing to satisfy or make this person happy with me ... Even...
    cate86 cate86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 15

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    Well where do I start,

    recently separated from my partner of 14 years (married 11) after she told me she had been lying to me from day 1, she thinks she's bisexual and has been up to all sorts behind my back for years, we have an 8 yr old daughter together who is taking the breakup very hard, as am I...
    rij1uk rij1uk 41-45, M 8 Responses a week ago

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    I'm so open and honest,

    so I am offended when someone takes advantage of that. It makes me feel like i should more guarded. When i feel like there's something shady going on, I have to drop you like a hot potato. Be authentic and you will get the same in return. I am now less trusting of people. Sad...
    2manysides 2manysides 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    It's funny how people sit

    and lie to you and they really think you believe them. I'm not that stupid. You should really think about your lie before telling it. It really made no since.
    Backroadskindagirl Backroadskindagirl 36-40, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    You know what's worse,

    when your helping someone through their pain , and are putting aside your emotions, and your problems, and they feel the need somehow to lie about certain things .why? You only trying to help them! That's why in my life I count on one hand the people I trust! I can handle the...
    aboutdone728 aboutdone728 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    When a man tells you he's single

    and you find out he's married - hate that
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 26

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    If your relationship is based upon lies,

    let it go. It may be hard but in the future it will be the best thing for your heart.
    FlyShawtyyy FlyShawtyyy 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I met a girl 17 years ago

    while working, 2 separate lives and 2 different paths, 17 years later our paths crossed again. The same feelings I had 17 years ago were as strong as ever. We started dating and after 2 months I started seeing the same red flags and feeling the betrayal I felt when I was married...
    confidentguy confidentguy 41-45, M 11 Responses Jan 2

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    onomatopoeiaCA onomatopoeiaCA 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    I gave up everything

    for a relationship and just found out I had been cheated on... He told me... And in our place we made together.... As much as I appreciate the honesty... The betrayal I will never get over... I walked n on my mom cheating on my dad when I was little... He walked n behind me and...
    EricaAshli EricaAshli 22-25, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    But I love listening to lies

    when I know the truth :))))
    snee2 snee2 36-40, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I extend the respect to others not to lie to

    them, and I hope they do the same. I'd rather hear the hurtful truth and correct it than to hear a blissful lie and never know.
    QuietViolets QuietViolets 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    That moment when you expect him to do what he

    promised. And then break it.
    LemonadeStash LemonadeStash 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 25

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    Being Lied To

    Funny thing is that if they were the person they should be and acting right there would be no need to lie. Lies are only an attempt to cover the truth of ones actions or the person they really are. The problem is always bigger than the lie used to attempt to cover it up.
    Donotpassgo Donotpassgo 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    I dislike being lied to.

    Especially when i know when they are lying.
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    Hey! This is one of the things I dislike the

    most but specially when it comes in terms of feelings. Saying "I love You, i like You, You are the one i wanna be with" and then You see them with someone else and flirting all around. Why the guy keep lookng for You when You see he doesn't actually love You or like You, he...
    clauyellowled clauyellowled 26-30, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    So why did he tell me he loved me?

    Was it all a lie? Or did he once love me?
    sunnychoke sunnychoke 16-17, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am so frustrated that I am portrayed

    as a bad person for wanting to cut people out if my life who have done nothing but lie. You lied to me, I don't need this crap in my life, I'm not interested anymore. But I'm the selfish one.
    laurengrace24 laurengrace24 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm gay. Last September,

    I met this guy online a week before he moves to Edinburgh to study abroad for a year. I grew fond of him almost immediately and stayed in touch with him since it was hard for him being alone the first couple of weeks. What started as friendly chats developed into intense late...
    Canonea Canonea 22-25, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been seeing this guy

    for almost 3 yrs now. He lied to me. Cheated on me. Not once but twice. Finally got the courage to leave today. But I feel like I am dying inside. I breakup with him and go back all the time. I feel the pain in my heart and then I go back to him and the cycle continues. We fight...
    NotGoodAtLove NotGoodAtLove 26-30, F 11 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    One thing that will make me mad

    and that is when someone I care about lie to me and I find out about it from someone else. Have gone through it and it hurts. Just don't lie and be upfront. All I ask...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Evidence~ you blatantly lied to me natedog1 !

    ! Don't message me again I came on this site to get to know a few people and talk to people of similar experiences.
    AmberFenning AmberFenning 13-15, F 8 Responses Aug 19

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    My parents told me something I didn't want to

    hear today.They told me I was British but I'm not from the Uk I'm from Australia I was like how am I British and they told me they raised me in London.Then they said that my real name is Iggy not Jay I was excited for a bit cause that's the name of my favorite female rapper.Im...
    SonOfTheSky SonOfTheSky 13-15, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    For those of you prepared to read my rant,

    i thank you for your time. I have this, i want that, i need it. Fvck I! What we all want and need; is Love and security. That's all we need and all we could ever want. BUT we are prayed upon by the greedy. Our every desire is turned into a marketing scheme by those who have...
    Sublimelovecuts Sublimelovecuts 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Victims Over The Internet

    Have you been a victim of someone over the internet?  Someone who lied to you or pretended to be someone else?  I would like to know how often this happens to people.A friend had mentioned the movie, Catfish, so I watched it this week.  It brought home the very real drama that...
    Vignette Vignette 51-55, F 40 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Deceit

    This one is fairly simple. I've been fortunate enough to have had many people in my employ. I had two rules, don't lie to me and don't steal from me. Everything else could be worked through with diplomacy. Lying is a form of manipulation, a means for one to gain favor in a...
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 9 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    ............Lying is

    for COWARDS
    lovinlife27 lovinlife27 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 10

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    I would rather somebody tell me something

    that might upset me than decide to lie to me I HATE that more than anything is to be lied to. I do NOT lie to anyone if I did something or said somethings I will admit it I have no reason to lie to anyone.
    Krimsonraine Krimsonraine 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    takiswaki takiswaki 16-17, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't believe that love really exists.

    Or maybe I don't feel it or I have never really felt it. Which is a little scary. Of course there is my love for my cats, or for music, or whatever but I think every relationship I've ever been in actually made my life more difficult. There has to be value in being patient with...
    sunkern sunkern 18-21, M 5 Responses Aug 15

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    If you lie to me once,

    I'll never ever forget it or forgive you. I am a one chance person. Don't ever lie to me.
    lonewolfxx lonewolfxx 18-21, F 14 Responses