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I Hate Being Lied to

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    My "friend" isn't telling me the truth,

    & it's hard to have people you think you're so close to you lie to you.
    jojojojo207 jojojojo207 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 22

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    jaecx jaecx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    Spent the day busy with relatives helping unpack

    and hubs had an attitude with me all day. I only know half of what he did. And there's several hours between each "thing he did" that's unaccounted for. (He has a history of being unfaithful) And of course when I ask in detail what he did, I get yelled at for asking "21...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't you just hate those moments,

    when someone you consider a friends says they went through with something you asked them, While, unbeknownst to them, you know how to check if they did and it turns out that they did not. I hate that so much. Why not just be honest and tell me you don't feel like it. It would...
    1stepforward3shovesback 1stepforward3shovesback 16-17, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    “A storyteller makes up things to help other

    people; a liar makes up things to help himself.” ~ Daniel Wallace
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    if i say i am bored i meant "i need someone

    that could make some sense" not "someone who wants skype and ask me nasty question" grrrr! stressful!
    littleana littleana 18-21, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I look at your profile

    when you leave me at night, reading your lovely story's. I finish, a warmness has filled me. I scroll down to leave my response and one catches me eye. Something that blows what you told me earlier that night before you went to bed to complete ****!!! I knew something was up...
    ErinTripp94 ErinTripp94 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Evidence~ you blatantly lied to me natedog1 !

    ! Don't message me again I came on this site to get to know a few people and talk to people of similar experiences.
    AmberFenning AmberFenning 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    He said to me "all men

    and women are liars." I disagreed at first, then compared my standards to a higher plane, realized he was right. It was my pride that tripped me and your pride that proved his point
    larrlee larrlee 61-65, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    Who would think that the person you trust the

    most can be the biggest liar? I thought this person was honest in every way. Instead his words and his actions were just all lies from the moment we met so long ago. I believe in karma and it will come back to him fourfold. Venting done. Thank you ep
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    my ex said that he needed to get his stuff

    together and he didnt want to worry about getting in trouble over my age...he told me "lets be friends for now" ...i turn 18 in a few months...im not sure whether hes planning on getting back with me when i become of age or not...him saying "for now" got my hopes up
    marielea061214 marielea061214 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 8

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    I trust you 100% but i want you to tell me the

    truth. If you think I'm ugly.. Tell me. I'd rather have you say it to my face than to everyone else but me.. Yeah it hurts.. But I'll get over it...
    NobodyCaresOkai NobodyCaresOkai 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 11

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    You made me love you

    and now it seems like you're pushing me away You say you've been dealing with a few things but really I was going though some things too but I never left you Just tell me what you want I can't read your mind Are you talking to someone else Do you really love me
    zoee01 zoee01 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    That moment when you expect him to do what he

    promised. And then break it.
    LemonadeStash LemonadeStash 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 25

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    But I love listening to lies

    when I know the truth :))))
    snee2 snee2 36-40, M 2 Responses Aug 24

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    One thing I hate the most is someone

    who lies to me... Even more so when it's a silly lie that could easily have been avoided! I don't get it why do it?
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Faiithh Faiithh 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    Fooled

    I've been gone for a while...there are two reasons why.  First, I fell into a very bad relationship with someone here and needed to get beyond it.  Second, I was taken for a huge ride by another friend here, female this time, and she broke my heart.  She lied to me for years...
    Whym Whym 36-40, F 44 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    i know when i'm being lied to by just the look

    of someone's face. you might be telling me im crazy but when you know that your "friend" is forcibly smiling at you everytime you talk to them (and i mean the kind of smile that doesn't reaches his or their eyes) while their eyebrows are pointing downward in a frown like...
    Ryel004F Ryel004F 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    ............Lying is

    for COWARDS
    lovinlife27 lovinlife27 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 10

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    I do NOT care if you cry me a river,

    just as long as you drown in it after.
    PANDASAREAWESOME67 PANDASAREAWESOME67 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    So many *** Holes lie.

    .. Enough Is Enough.
    BeautifulPurpose BeautifulPurpose 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Lying to me is the one way to break any type of

    relationship you have with me whether you are a relative or a friend.
    Unhappilymarried34 Unhappilymarried34 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 24

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    Or do I? Has anyone ever felt like they should

    lie because being honest can cause more fuss than it's worth? I often refuse to censor my language and you would drown in all the tears every little crybaby has to shed because I just so happened to be raised on a different discipline from them. It's aggravating to say the least...
    Unalike Unalike 18-21, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Seriously ******* hate it.

    "Yeah I'll come over tonight" "can't wait to cuddle" "I need some kisses" "see you soon" ....... Nope, not coming. "Would you mind if I just stayed home instead? I really wanna lay with you tho" Really cause if you wanted to so bad, you'd be here..... UGH. Not to mention...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 11

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    Being Lied To

    Funny thing is that if they were the person they should be and acting right there would be no need to lie. Lies are only an attempt to cover the truth of ones actions or the person they really are. The problem is always bigger than the lie used to attempt to cover it up.
    Donotpassgo Donotpassgo 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    You have all my trust 100%

    when I first meet you, you lie once and you have 0%. Shame on you!
    Viccigee Viccigee 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 10

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    My "friends" lie to me all the time over small

    things. If they lie over small things how can I trust them with the big things?
    Monet0623 Monet0623 13-15, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    I would rather somebody tell me something

    that might upset me than decide to lie to me I HATE that more than anything is to be lied to. I do NOT lie to anyone if I did something or said somethings I will admit it I have no reason to lie to anyone.
    Krimsonraine Krimsonraine 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 17

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    Say what you mean, mean what you say.

    What's so wrong with honesty?!
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 10

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    He is under the assumption

    that I have no idea and that hes pulled the shades over my eyes.I know he's sneaking out to talk to other women.I will uncover it all and iam Not oblvious.
    Lp82 Lp82 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    You know what's worse,

    when your helping someone through their pain , and are putting aside your emotions, and your problems, and they feel the need somehow to lie about certain things .why? You only trying to help them! That's why in my life I count on one hand the people I trust! I can handle the...
    aboutdone728 aboutdone728 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I dislike being lied to.

    Especially when i know when they are lying.
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    When a man tells you he's single

    and you find out he's married - hate that
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 10 Responses Jul 26

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    I can't stand being lied to.

    However I do believe that there is a such thing as a lie so that you don't hurt the person you are lieing to but even those have a limit. Like when a parent tells their kid Santa is real. It's a lie but it gives the child belief that miracles can happen and It would be upsetting...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    Let me say this as most people think

    that i do never mean it when i say it. I can always take the truth even if it was the worst thing to tell. But hell cos my ex lied at me for her medical condition and now become like don't know what to believe and what to not believe from her words. I am so confused and that is...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 4 Responses Sep 8

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    I cannot stand cheats

    and liars I have learned my own lessons and now I just cannot stand them
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Being lied to changes you in

    so many ways. You become guarded, less trusting, more suspicious and sooo hurt and betrayed on the inside. You feel vulnerable, even stupid, almost beating yourself up for believing and trusting someone... Sound familiar?.....
    Rubyfusion410 Rubyfusion410 41-45, F 7 Responses Aug 29

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    You know what....I hate nothing

    but lying....you can do whatever you want with me....destroy me, ruin me, punch me but not lie to me...........it makes me feel I can't trust anyone anymore............why are you like this, as soon as I trust you, you just try to abuse it........... (you I meant everyone who...
    00Lordiran00 00Lordiran00 18-21, M 4 Responses Sep 6

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    I have a friend at my new college she is 26

    and she is 5 years older than me. One of my lecturer have told me and my other friends that she is into a man who is getting married to someone else and that is why her parents have restricted her from talking and meeting him and our lecturer have advised us for not helping her...
    oceanend oceanend 18-21 1 Response 4 days ago

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    If you lie to me once,

    I'll never ever forget it or forgive you. I am a one chance person. Don't ever lie to me.
    lonewolfxx lonewolfxx 22-25, F 13 Responses Aug 31

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    Hubby's brother living with us

    and being a total slob, he's already 31 and jumping from job to job complaining about life. I think life is what you make it, and he's bringing so much negativity into this house! He needs to move but every time we tell him it's time to move out he refuses saying he does not...
    Verop101 Verop101 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    If you feel the need to lie to me,

    I would rather you not talk to me.
    Kfsgirl88 Kfsgirl88 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 21

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    JenZ10 JenZ10 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 8

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    Victims Over The Internet

    Have you been a victim of someone over the internet?  Someone who lied to you or pretended to be someone else?  I would like to know how often this happens to people.A friend had mentioned the movie, Catfish, so I watched it this week.  It brought home the very real drama that...
    Vignette Vignette 51-55, F 40 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    OdeSlinger OdeSlinger 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 9

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    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17 3 Responses Sep 11

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    I'm scared of dying lonely,

    most of the guys I've had feelings for lie..
    lm1993 lm1993 18-21, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Don't do it, if you lie to me

    and I actually care enough about you, eventually I will figure it out. When I do, whatever we have or had, will end instantly, whether you are my friend or otherwise. :)
    CongratulationS CongratulationS 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 10

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    I don't understand...

    .. How some people can tell so many lies & never feel bad about it.
    BrutallyHonest316 BrutallyHonest316 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 2

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    It's funny how people sit

    and lie to you and they really think you believe them. I'm not that stupid. You should really think about your lie before telling it. It really made no since.
    Kfsgirl88 Kfsgirl88 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 29

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    Deceit

    This one is fairly simple. I've been fortunate enough to have had many people in my employ. I had two rules, don't lie to me and don't steal from me. Everything else could be worked through with diplomacy. Lying is a form of manipulation, a means for one to gain favor in a...
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 9 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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