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I Hate Being Lied to

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    I want a relationship

    that stay truthful to each other. No lie, just us being truth to each other. Lie doesn't get you anywhere. If you lie, eventually in the end people will know the truth. Why being in a relationship, if all you do is lie.. I don't like when people have to lie about their self...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F 6 Responses Jan 4

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    Imbatgirl Imbatgirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 6

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    why is it that people think they need to lie to

    me? come on people stop trying to pass other peoples photos as urself. do u think im dumb and wont figure it out? just tell me the truth from the start.
    Curiouslexy Curiouslexy 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 3

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    Honesty is more important

    than anything . Even when I lose out I tell the truth . If it's possible to talk then the truth is the only thing that should come out of your mouth or my . So many people lie now days even a small white lie is a lie . Or think they can change their mind whenever they want so...
    Chris4man Chris4man 26-30, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Deceit

    This one is fairly simple. I've been fortunate enough to have had many people in my employ. I had two rules, don't lie to me and don't steal from me. Everything else could be worked through with diplomacy. Lying is a form of manipulation, a means for one to gain favor in a...
    pentupfreedom pentupfreedom 46-50, M 9 Responses Apr 7, 2012

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    When someone lies to me,

    what they are actually telling me is that they do not trust me enough to tell me the truth. That is insulting and painful.
    miles2gob4isleep miles2gob4isleep 56-60, F 9 Responses Feb 6

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    especially with someone

    that i trust. oh! **** up all those ****!
    red4x red4x 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 26

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    Lying is so overrated .

    <<< ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ค Once you lie to me .. your done . Its over . ๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ™…๐Ÿ™…
    LuhParisss LuhParisss 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 16, 2013

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    Just once id like people to be honest with me,

    to mean it when they say theyll be there, not to vanish without a thought.
    Wi5huponastar Wi5huponastar 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Being Lied To

    Funny thing is that if they were the person they should be and acting right there would be no need to lie. Lies are only an attempt to cover the truth of ones actions or the person they really are. The problem is always bigger than the lie used to attempt to cover it up.
    Trustedlies Trustedlies 70+, M 4 Responses Jul 25, 2013

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    I would rather be hurt by your honesty,

    than be made happy by your lies! Honesty is the best policy & just remember, the truth always comes out I'm the end!!
    Kee17 Kee17 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    They say the 2 things you should never lie

    about in a marriage are finances and cheating. I caught my husband red handed. I didnโ€™t purposely catch him. I was the wife who stumbled into the situation completely blinded. Sparing the details. Sorry. My world was turned upside down. If I didnโ€™t know how I felt about my...
    NurseK101 NurseK101 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 26, 2013

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    back in November I stopped seeing

    and speaking to my 'friend' he had hid gong on a trip w/ another woman; but he admitted it when asked. He called me last week, he was in town...I let him come "see me". Now His ex that he sees is back to posting pcs n comments about him, I know it's intended for me...that annoys...
    iNEED2talkAlot iNEED2talkAlot 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    Since when is lying ever okay?

    Trust is earned not given ๐Ÿ‘
    XVGlitters XVGlitters 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    My family has fooled me

    for such a long time; so are people around me. I am just so tired of it. I will explain more after I am cooled down.
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Let's be real, everyone lies

    and gets lied to. That doesn't make it okey or hurt less though. Getting lied to is really one of the worst things there is, it hurts. Someone goes behind your back and unfortunately it's usually the people you love and trust the most who lies to you. Sometimes it's cause they...
    ihavenoideawhatsoever ihavenoideawhatsoever 70+, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    Fake

    There are fake flowers.Fake baked skin. Fake hair pieces. Fake grass. Fake boobs. Fake people. The last one I really do not have time for. Fake men faking a relationship. What a waste of time. Faking compliments faking the future with plans that will never ever never in a million...
    CatalinaMagoo CatalinaMagoo 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 1, 2013

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    Hurt me with the truth

    but never comfort me with a lie. ~It's a rule
    KristineVL KristineVL 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 14

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    But sometimes I understand it,

    even though I don't do it myself, apart from by keeping silent and I've never been certain if that counts (drat my dodgy moral compass). I don't like liars who lie for its own sake, or who get a kick out of it, and I'd hope someone I cared about would be kind enough to tell me...
    Brangwen Brangwen 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    โ€œA storyteller makes up things to help other

    people; a liar makes up things to help himself.โ€ ~ Daniel Wallace
    sciguy18 sciguy18 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 11

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    What's the point of lying?

    If the answer is to spare someone's feelings you're wrong
    marinasayshi marinasayshi 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 22

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    I hate when people act like they like me

    and then get mad and leave for no reason.
    SorrybutIamnolongerhere SorrybutIamnolongerhere 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 4

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    Why Must Men Feel The Need To Lie

    About any little thing.... I find many men who are just complete and absolute liars, even when I tell them I hate being lied to. I am a very upfront person and can handle the truth even the hard truth. So if for some reason you don't have time to spend with me or talk to me why...
    kindacurious2 kindacurious2 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    Long but need advice.

    .....I have been dating this guy for 10 months, we have had some up and downs in the past, with him not being honest.... Months into dating I found out that he was married, I asked him about it and he was saying how unhappy he was and that it was only to get his papers, do he can...
    cutensweet31 cutensweet31 31-35, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    This is one thing I will not tolerate from

    anyone. I'd rather be hurt by the truth than made happy with a lie.
    headfuckery headfuckery 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    Well I'm a soldier and my commander asked me to

    go somewhere with some people to check that everything is fine and then, I told him if imma go I will miss the bus (I should have went home today) and then he said it will be ok that I wouldn't miss it that he will take care of it and it wouldn't take so long .. And well then...
    frozenteer frozenteer 18-21, M 6 Responses Mar 12

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    Iโ€™ve lost count of the times Iโ€™ve been lied

    to over the years and ok sometimes itโ€™s done with the best intentions, i.e. to protect someone or to save their feelings, but lying to someone you love hurts, a lot.. Iโ€™d much rather know the truth than be lied to and find out the truth later. I canโ€™t remember one time...
    liberosis liberosis 41-45, F 7 Responses Apr 5

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    Victims Over The Internet

    Have you been a victim of someone over the internet?ย  Someone who lied to you or pretended to be someone else?ย  I would like to know how often this happens to people.A friend had mentioned the movie, Catfish, so I watched it this week.ย  It brought home the very real drama that...
    Vignette Vignette 51-55, F 41 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    unluckysarah unluckysarah 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 10

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    I can agree with this experience

    but then I would be a hypocrite. Some people may disagree with what I am about to say, but EVERYONE has lied to someone in there life before. It isn't a good thing or to be proud of , but you are not perfect no one is. An if you are the type that say's "I've never lied before in...
    ShaddFreshboiii ShaddFreshboiii 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Whenever someone tells me they will be there

    for me and that i can trust them it's hard to believe because every time the same thing happens over and over again i open up to people and then they leave.. They promise they will stay and then they leave.
    lunarfaerie lunarfaerie 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm so fed up of being lied to.

    I don't understand the meaning of it. Why do you lie to me even when you know I'll figure it out? Lies destroy EVERYthing; from friendships...To anything. We gotta act keeping in mind that our actions can hurt somebody. Anyway, if you act not being aware of it...Tell it. Don...
    msslonely msslonely 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 15

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    I tell the truth all the way

    so when i know someone lied at me while i am too truthful with...i get so much stressed and start to stop believing everything they say. Telling the truth is what makes me always know i am real...so lying at me make me get away from anyone and everyone and i am sick from people...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 4

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    OMAGERD! If I get even the slightest inkling

    that I'm being lied to, I get ticked. I got a built in B.S. detector and when I'm being lied to, a lot of the times its by someone who thinks I can't see through them and most often than not, after one time I get lied to, I never look at that person the same again.
    Mariposa85 Mariposa85 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 8

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    onomatopoeiaCA onomatopoeiaCA 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    It's kind of insulting to be lied to.

    If someone I like lies to me and I know it's a lie, I will be more hurt than angry. When you lie to my face about something important that tells me you don't care about. I would wonder why we are in a relationship in the first place.
    purplezebra14 purplezebra14 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    Why lie, when you can just tell tha truth?

    When you tell one lie, you have to make up 20 more lies just to cover up that one lie. I appreciate all honesty, no matter what it is.
    Brandonxx Brandonxx 16-17, M 4 Responses Feb 8

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    Raisin cookies are the main reason I have trust

    issues YOU CHOCOLATE CHIP FAKER!!!
    CutieStare CutieStare 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 27

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    For those of you prepared to read my rant,

    i thank you for your time. I have this, i want that, i need it. Fvck I! What we all want and need; is Love and security. That's all we need and all we could ever want. BUT we are prayed upon by the greedy. Our every desire is turned into a marketing scheme by those who have...
    Sublimelovecuts Sublimelovecuts 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    So i recently told my exfirlfriend

    that i was in love with her and she said the same thing. Later she tells me that she also loves my best friend. She has lied to me many times and that is why we are no longer together. All i want in a relationship is someone who loves me and someone who will never lie to me
    Grantt821 Grantt821 16-17, M 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I believe that if I'm there

    for you, the least you can do is not lie to me,...... how am I gona "have your back" if I don't even know if half the stuff you tell me is true?
    Nishanae Nishanae 13-15, F Dec 31, 2013

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    JadenLangVageta JadenLangVageta 13-15, F Apr 9

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    I realized my mom had been lying

    for months about being clean. She was on drugs the whole time... And it hurts.
    Sorendino1 Sorendino1 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Why do people always lie?

    It is not something good to do Especially when it comes to your fav person. It won't be good. I hope the word "lie" means nothing but it usually ruins everything.
    Eleannor Eleannor 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    This couple posts as CEO,

    major SHARE HOLDER of the hotels/ resorts group, they befriended hotel staff members and used them as tools to scam their victims. They reside in hotels across Asia, most Grand Hyatt hotel staff members in Asia treats them as their VVIP. They would offer victims hotel contracts...
    FrancesLa FrancesLa 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I Was Lied To

    My boyfriend lied to me for months. He kept a secret girlfriend all the while telling me he loved me but couldn't see me much because he was so busy at work. I found her on facebook and confronted him. He said it was her who assumed the relationship. Yet he went to meet her...
    Francesca004 Francesca004 22-25, F 19 Responses Nov 10, 2013

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    when i got my first salon job (not

    so great clips) they started me off as a receptionist. i was licensed then too. they sent me to academy and i got somewhat on all my cuts which means i got the idea of the cut, and said after academy they'd let me cut. well a month went on after academy i was still a...
    enemyinthemirror enemyinthemirror 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    So many times it's happened

    and each time it just made me more frustrated. I mean these people I deal with are nothing but jerks who want to use me for sadistic purposes or just because they want to try and control me and tell me how to live my life. I can't believe I let people like that coax me into...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I met a girl 17 years ago

    while working, 2 separate lives and 2 different paths, 17 years later our paths crossed again. The same feelings I had 17 years ago were as strong as ever. We started dating and after 2 months I started seeing the same red flags and feeling the betrayal I felt when I was married...
    confidentguy confidentguy 41-45, M 13 Responses Jan 2

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    I hate that you lie to me,

    you say that you love me. Then you block me. You asked me to be 100% honest with you as I have been. If your blocking me you I feel like you have something to hide and not being honest with me๐Ÿ˜”
    ajl04 ajl04 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 4

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    blahhooplah blahhooplah 18-21, F 7 Responses Mar 12

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    If someone is just going to lie

    when they open their mouth, why speak? I don't wanna hear that BS! Speak to me how I would speak to you.
    TheBlazingRedAugust TheBlazingRedAugust 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    I thought that you LOVED me I thought

    that you'd do ANYTHING for me I thought that I was the ONLY person you were seeing In the end it was all just a LIE Truth be told You made me feel SPECIAL Made me fall so DEEP for you Then I find out that it was all just a GAME to you Hell I'm going to MOVE on Even if it HURTS...
    BabyDgay BabyDgay 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    ... And after, I'd feel

    so ******* stupid, just so ******* stupid for believing and caring for nothing at all. I'm losing confidence in human beings, in myself. This is frustrating.
    SinisterSmile SinisterSmile 22-25 1 Response Mar 17

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    This Evening Could Not Get Any Better...

    Just imagine that you have gone out for the evening with your with co-workers. You are at the new restaurant in town and the place is buzzing. Everyone orders their meals, the drinks are flowing and the evening is just great. Across the way you hear the voices of a couple who are...
    EbonyLady EbonyLady 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2012

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