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I Hate Being Married But Love My 2 Kids

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now

    I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I could've listened and I would've listened knowing what i know now. I have two sons that i love with my life and thank God for having...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    This Faker For 8 Yrs

    I married a man I dated for 8 yrs. I got pregnant and thought "we dated this long were having a baby why wouldn't we get married? Especially since he strongly believes in it and comes from a happy home! Well boy oh boy was I the fool! This bum *** loser has no job smokes weed...
    shootmefirst shootmefirst 26-30 2 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    I Hate Him, Specifically

    Being married is work, I know that and have worked my *** off for 14 years to try to have a happy marriage, and a normal happy family for my kids, but he just will not let that happen. He tells me I am stupid and an idiot on almost a daily basis, even though I am sure enough of...
    Michiganmom Michiganmom 46-50, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now

    I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I could've listened and I would've listened knowing what i know now. I have two sons that i love with my life and thank God for having...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 3 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    I Question It Everyday

    Some days I love being married..... other days I hate it.  And I hate the constant back and forth, rollercoaster ride.   When I was single life was one big crazy but fun rollercoaster ride.   Howver I ventually outgrew all that, wanted a simpler, calmer, more stable life...
    hiredhelp hiredhelp 36-40, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Im Over It

    I have been married for almost 15 years...and i hate it i dont hate him we are just so different he is 13 years older,i thought i was doing the right thing i got preg at 16 and wanted a better life for my kids than i had growing up with 2 alcoholics...he made me feel safe,i know...
    brandishell brandishell 31-35 2 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Don't Love Him Or Like Him

    I ASK MYSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN WHY DID I GET MARRIED?  I ALREADY HAD TWO CHILDREN WHEN WE MET, THAN HAD TWO MORE WITH HIM. PERHAPS  I THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE A BETTER LIFE BEING MARRIED BUT BOY WAS I WRONG.  PERHAPS I'M STAYING BECAUSE OF THE CHILDREN AND I DON'T HAVE THE...
    nikkisall nikkisall 31-35 5 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    I Hate Being Married

    after 36 years of married life i cant stand it anymore Just the sound of her voice send shivers up my spine. we dont have anything in common
    ddaley ddaley 56-60 6 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    I Want Out Of My Marriage...

    I’m 24 and my husband is 26. We’ve been together for 5 years married 11 months. We have a 3 year old girl. We planned to get married a year before I found out I was pregnant. When I fell pregnant we postponed to have the baby first (financial issues). We’re both working and...
    sssy sssy 22-25 May 20, 2012

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    He Promised He'll Help..

    It's my second marriage.. I should have known better..  My first marriage.. We left it on a good note..  A mutual agreement.  I should have known better than to just jump into another one.. Shame on me. My new husband..  Sure.. We were in love.. Or lust.. One...
    JULIET2009 JULIET2009 26-30 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    Marriage Sucks.

    I've been married for 16 years and have two beautiful kids. My husband is a big load of no help. Not wih cooking, not with cleaning, and hardly ever with the kids. He is the type of man that approaches me when the kids are in the tub and I'm doing dishes and asks me what else I...
    16awfulyears 16awfulyears 41-45, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    I can honestly say I hate being married to my wife! I never wanted to get married in the first place but she was pregnant at the time so I thought it was the right thing to do...
    foreverbroken84 foreverbroken84 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 18

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    I have never in my life been as miserable as I am since I have been married! My husbands a cheap sob that demands if I spend any of his money that I have to pay him back ASAP and...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    At first i hated her but loved her. Now i simply hate her. She makes me so mad i was break something And sometimes that something is my skin. I hate her! She makes me so mad i wana...
    EverMoree EverMoree 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 2

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    this is a painful relationship. it all started because my sister died in a car accident and my spouse was the last person she knew. he claims that while she was sick with a...
    LitamalianTherpo LitamalianTherpo 26-30, M Nov 8

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    Had a long talk with the hubby tonight and he admitted to me that his life started going to hell the year our daughter was born and the year we got married wtf??? Cannot wait to...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 9

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    My wife never ever cleans. I'm the one that is always doing the cleaning around the home. Never does the dishes. Never cleans up after herself. Never cleans the cats' litter...
    Benster5 Benster5 36-40 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I hate my husband being home every freaking night! It's one screaming session after anther about stupid **** ugh
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    My husband called my mother and told her that his therapist he is going to see is advising him that i am abusive wtf??? If it's important my mom will tell me anything, we have no...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    At first it was new and exciting. He was so different then me an I thought we could learn and grow together but instead he's Shrunk me. I use to go out and have friends and party...
    TheLovelyOne86 TheLovelyOne86 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    im always late to bed but have to be up early.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 16

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    I don't know what to do. My mother took away my childhood by beating and neglecting me. Making me take care of her. Then she leaves me and runs off to New York. Leaving me with my...
    omfgitsabbs omfgitsabbs 13-15, F Nov 15

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    I hate her and I don't think she can do anything to make me like her like I once did. Yes, I love her, but only because I have to. It's only right. Don't say this is a phase...
    BrownSugar96 BrownSugar96 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm dreading going into work today...my boss hates me and makes my work day hell...
    MrsWrong1 MrsWrong1 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 1

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    I have always been that good little girl. Never done anything my parents would not let me to do. But i am still not good enough for her...my mom She always yells at me how bad I...
    girlwith100problems girlwith100problems 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 16

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    She blames me for everything. Dad loses his temper and I stand by and watch. Mom blames me. Dad loses temper again. I was gonna step in but she deserved to be yelled at. She...
    BeautyInBlack BeautyInBlack 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    There is a lot of dirty politics and tactics at work. I want to leave but can't find a new job and feel stuck.
    PowertoFlower PowertoFlower 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 5

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    No matter what, she will always be my weakness.
    Sicknconfused Sicknconfused 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate being yelled. But what's worse? Being yelled at by an obvious immature moron; or being talked to dangerously calm by someone civil and mature? When I'm being yelled at I...
    XxDorkyBoyxX XxDorkyBoyxX 18-21, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    i know we all hate being ignored, but FYI if i ignore you there's a reason
    freshy15 freshy15 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 7

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    I want a lot of odd things from my mate and on top of everything is the fact that I don't want to be married or have kids. For many those two things are the climax of a LTR so a...
    newasexy newasexy 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    Since my husband of 15 years left our 4 kids and myself for another mother at our kids school, I have become a person consumed with anger. He has had little contact with the...
    40startingagain 40startingagain 36-40, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    It happens quite often, I find myself sitting alone at lunch in the cafeteria. Now this isn't exactly how I thought things would turn out, but unfortunately, they are turing out...
    coleej1345 coleej1345 16-17, M Nov 12

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    :( that's all I want in life it's my dream to get married and have kids I can't we it happening but I have pland what I would really like the wedding to be like but the girl gets a...
    Rossthayer Rossthayer 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 30

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    I really love my body, but I hate being naked. Showers are alright when there's damp everywhere and I can lock the door, but I don't like being naked at any other point. I hate the...
    Colourfi Colourfi 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    I had only 3 or 4 relation ships my whole life. For 98% of my life I been alone. I never liked it, Never chose it, Never thought I would not be married by now. I have always...
    Niko864 Niko864 41-45, M 4 days ago

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    My husband and I got married because I was pregnant with our daughter, which was fine, but neither of us really wanted to get married. Our families pressured us into it (both are...
    katinbell katinbell 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 30

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    I hate being told what to do when I'm being told to do something I have no interest in doing and will get very angry if told to do something I have no interest in doing. Like...
    DasTres DasTres 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 28

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    its funny because I love being outside in the snow and everything but I really do hate being cold. if it could be 70 and snowing I'd be the happiest.
    laurenstone97 laurenstone97 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    I really wish I was okay just being alone.. I hate being alone. I hate having a phone when I nobody wants to talk to me. I'm incredibly boring and I'm sorry for that but I still...
    LeslieMarie247 LeslieMarie247 18-21, F Nov 18

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    I hate being home alone. I'll go out with friends and family and have a blast but in the end I'm alone in my room. sometimes it irritates me and I make a quick decision to go out...
    Spiritm Spiritm 26-30, M 5 days ago

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    It's quite hypocritical of me to say I hate being lied to since I myself in many cases am a liar. Everything I post on here is true. No if and's or buts. But in the real world I...
    chaoshead chaoshead 13-15, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I've taken a few art classes but I've hated every one of them. I hate being told what to draw and how to draw it .-. I'm more of an independent learner I guess
    KuroKitsune KuroKitsune 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 18

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    Sometimes I hate being a black female. Why because white guys and men dislike black girls. The only reason they would date them is for the sexxxx. Which is wrong but it's true...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate being yelled at. I hate to argue. I shut down and shut out. I won't participate. amazingly enough this action of doing nothing causes some to yell more.
    regalshewolf regalshewolf 41-45, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    I really like it when it comes to taking care of kids. I know it may be hard but since I love kids, I always try to have fun while taking care of them. I like it when I create a...
    tinypoop tinypoop 16-17, F Oct 28

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