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I Hate Being Married But Love My 2 Kids

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now

    I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I could've listened and I would've listened knowing what i know now. I have two sons that i love with my life and thank God for having...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    I Hate Being Married

    after 36 years of married life i cant stand it anymore Just the sound of her voice send shivers up my spine. we dont have anything in common
    ddaley ddaley 56-60 6 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    This Faker For 8 Yrs

    I married a man I dated for 8 yrs. I got pregnant and thought "we dated this long were having a baby why wouldn't we get married? Especially since he strongly believes in it and comes from a happy home! Well boy oh boy was I the fool! This bum *** loser has no job smokes weed...
    shootmefirst shootmefirst 26-30 2 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    Don't Love Him Or Like Him

    I ASK MYSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN WHY DID I GET MARRIED?  I ALREADY HAD TWO CHILDREN WHEN WE MET, THAN HAD TWO MORE WITH HIM. PERHAPS  I THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE A BETTER LIFE BEING MARRIED BUT BOY WAS I WRONG.  PERHAPS I'M STAYING BECAUSE OF THE CHILDREN AND I DON'T HAVE THE...
    nikkisall nikkisall 31-35 5 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    I Want Out Of My Marriage...

    I’m 24 and my husband is 26. We’ve been together for 5 years married 11 months. We have a 3 year old girl. We planned to get married a year before I found out I was pregnant. When I fell pregnant we postponed to have the baby first (financial issues). We’re both working and...
    sssy sssy 22-25 May 20, 2012

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    Im Over It

    I have been married for almost 15 years...and i hate it i dont hate him we are just so different he is 13 years older,i thought i was doing the right thing i got preg at 16 and wanted a better life for my kids than i had growing up with 2 alcoholics...he made me feel safe,i know...
    brandishell brandishell 31-35 2 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now

    I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I could've listened and I would've listened knowing what i know now. I have two sons that i love with my life and thank God for having...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 3 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    I Hate Him, Specifically

    Being married is work, I know that and have worked my *** off for 14 years to try to have a happy marriage, and a normal happy family for my kids, but he just will not let that happen. He tells me I am stupid and an idiot on almost a daily basis, even though I am sure enough of...
    Michiganmom Michiganmom 46-50, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    He Promised He'll Help..

    It's my second marriage.. I should have known better..  My first marriage.. We left it on a good note..  A mutual agreement.  I should have known better than to just jump into another one.. Shame on me. My new husband..  Sure.. We were in love.. Or lust.. One...
    JULIET2009 JULIET2009 26-30 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    I Question It Everyday

    Some days I love being married..... other days I hate it.  And I hate the constant back and forth, rollercoaster ride.   When I was single life was one big crazy but fun rollercoaster ride.   Howver I ventually outgrew all that, wanted a simpler, calmer, more stable life...
    hiredhelp hiredhelp 36-40, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    Marriage Sucks.

    I've been married for 16 years and have two beautiful kids. My husband is a big load of no help. Not wih cooking, not with cleaning, and hardly ever with the kids. He is the type of man that approaches me when the kids are in the tub and I'm doing dishes and asks me what else I...
    16awfulyears 16awfulyears 41-45, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    If I didn't work with kids who this would affect. I would quit my job today. But instead I'm in a continuous argument with my boss! Ahhhhhhh
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    my mom she simply is argutive, rude, judgemental, disrespectful. im an infp, we need lots of affection and care. you see the problem. I naturally hate arguments and ugly heart...
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    He treats me like ****. Every life problem he has is my fault...he cheated on his girlfriend with a friend of mine and that was my fault he and his girlfriend broke up. He's dating...
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    I might be getting a divorce in January - I want to shout it from the rooftops!!! A chance to find happiness, peace and freedom to go places and do things without some joyless...
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    Runawaywithme123 Runawaywithme123 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 15

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    I really hate being a stepmom...which knowing me you would find so hard to believe. Due to having endometriosis and losing the only baby I ever conceived to a miscarriage caused by...
    Maylissa Maylissa 41-45 2 Responses Dec 15

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    Being alone makes my depression worse , people think I enjoy being being alone, but I don't . I'm just feeling so lonely and down and I wish I had someone who I could actually...
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    To me, having kids is basically sacrificing your life to a child who doesnt care. They ruin your body, take up all your time, money, and energy, ruin your sex life, put on stress...
    tessagj14 tessagj14 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 13

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    I am married with 4 kids 5,4, 2 & 14 weeks. I live a life like a single parent. I get the kids up dressed and fed, I do all school work with them, I run them around clubs and...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 23 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have my own children and I hate being a step mom! I know that doesn't sound right, but that's the way I feel. I met my partner about over a year ago. We've had a rough...
    Jeshayna Jeshayna 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 13

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    I hate him. I'm in pain. I hate being rejected. I hate being told I'm not good enough. I hate being taken advantage of. I hate him. I hate feeling this way, like my head is about...
    classicslove classicslove 26-30, F 11 Responses Dec 2

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    I wasn't married but felt it. My bf and I lived together. Things started going wrong... He left me 3 days ago and brought pizza. Over pizza he was staring me on the floor crying...
    honeybee86 honeybee86 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 8

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    I hate being poor... I hate it when I have to save my money for my next week allowance... I hate it when we don't have any television or dvd...I hate it when we have no money to...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 1

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    "I wish I had a twin!", "If I pinch you will your twin feel it?", and "I like you better than your twin." All of those things have been asked/told to me in the past week alone...
    sarahjohnsony sarahjohnsony 18-21, F Dec 8

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    I was already "married but lonely" for quite some time but this past year put a brand new spin on it for me. Due to a job loss and relocation, my wife and I ended up physically...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I moved to Texas 12 years ago, and rarely have I spent the holidays alone. I have traveled to see family or been with friends but I still feel alone or like I am crashing someone...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M Dec 7

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    Like all of you I hate being a stepmom. My husband and I have been together for 4 years and have two children together. He also has a daughter who is 12 with a woman he only dated...
    LisaC617 LisaC617 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I absolutely hate being lied to. I was seeing this boy and he told a really severe lie. We'll we were seeing each other for a bit. We decided to take things to the next step. I...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    As much as I hate being single, it's better than being used and getting hurt.
    Frankiehw Frankiehw 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I was molested and raped and ever since I hate being touched especially by men... I don't know why things like this happens but I wish it didn't.... know one ever cared enough to...
    cattie1283 cattie1283 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I do hate being ditched.. I hate the fact that I still do care for the person who ditched me for no reason.. hell yeah, I want to stop caring but not able to :/
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    It really sucks being married to a bodybuilder. He lives at the gym. Sorry, but I think there is more to life. I don't want to divorce but it's getting really ridiculous. He is...
    Jbe2402 Jbe2402 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate being ugly smh why do i gotta look like this
    miz0217 miz0217 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 1

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    if i know a person well i hate being ignored especially when they just suddenly stop responding for no apparent reason!
    romell romell 41-45, M Dec 2

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    For some reason, I hate being called Dude or Bro. It makes me want to ***** slap someone.
    RyderSebastian RyderSebastian 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 6

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    I absolutely HATE being ignored. it's so irritating! Why?! it just ruins my entire mood. Your supposed to be my best friend but when im talking to you, you wanna look the other way...
    BluntShokz21 BluntShokz21 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 17

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    I used to be content with being single but now I'm not as ease with it. I always knew one day id meet someone and it would all make sense. But nothing seems to make sense. Not many...
    extraordinarygirlll extraordinarygirlll 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    I know as human beings that we all judge people. We all do! For example, if your at a bar and you look across the room at a person, you most definitely don't think "wow! I bet they...
    actiegirl actiegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    I am married but would like another women to share sexual fantasies with online.
    JustTelling JustTelling 51-55, M Dec 20

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    You meet someone. You have a good chemistry. The flow is so smooth. You feel the connection. You asked if he is single or married...he said he is single. You became comfortable...
    lemongrass09 lemongrass09 46-50, F 9 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I was married before for 3 years she had fertility problems but never wanted to get the corrected and just never seemed to care any more so here I am single as can be 27 air force...
    dj2129 dj2129 22-25, M 13 hrs ago

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    Yeah, but no matter what I'll be judged like having too big boobs a bum, being too short being black :(
    ashleyrocksxoxo ashleyrocksxoxo 13-15, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I hate like mid conversation and someone won't respond and reads the message. I get everyone has stuff going on but that's not a good friend
    mermaidlove418 mermaidlove418 18-21, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    So I need to vent and see if I am the only one dealing with this. I am married and miserable we fight all the time and I am happiest when he is at work and I am home alone. He...