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I Hate Being Married But Love My 2 Kids

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    Im Over It - I have been married for almost 15 years...and i hate it i dont hate him we are just so different he is 13 years older,i thought i was doing the right thing i got preg...
    brandishell brandishell 31-35 2 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now - I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    Marriage Sucks. - I've been married for 16 years and have two beautiful kids. My husband is a big load of no help. Not wih cooking, not with cleaning, and hardly ever with the kids...
    16awfulyears 16awfulyears 41-45, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    This Faker For 8 Yrs - I married a man I dated for 8 yrs. I got pregnant and thought "we dated this long were having a baby why wouldn't we get married? Especially since he...
    shootmefirst shootmefirst 26-30 1 Response Jun 8, 2012

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    Don't Love Him Or Like Him - I ASK MYSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN WHY DID I GET MARRIED?  I ALREADY HAD TWO CHILDREN WHEN WE MET, THAN HAD TWO MORE WITH HIM. PERHAPS  I THOUGHT I...
    nikkisall nikkisall 31-35 5 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    I Hate Him, Specifically - Being married is work, I know that and have worked my *** off for 14 years to try to have a happy marriage, and a normal happy family for my kids, but he...
    Michiganmom Michiganmom 46-50, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    I Want Out Of My Marriage... - I’m 24 and my husband is 26. We’ve been together for 5 years married 11 months. We have a 3 year old girl. We planned to get married a year...
    sssy sssy 22-25 May 20, 2012

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    I Hate Being Married - after 36 years of married life i cant stand it anymore Just the sound of her voice send shivers up my spine. we dont have anything in common
    ddaley ddaley 56-60 6 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    He Promised He'll Help.. - It's my second marriage.. I should have known better..  My first marriage.. We left it on a good note..  A mutual agreement.  I should...
    JULIET2009 JULIET2009 26-30 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now - I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 3 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    I Question It Everyday - Some days I love being married..... other days I hate it.  And I hate the constant back and forth, rollercoaster ride.   When I was single life was one...
    hiredhelp hiredhelp 36-40, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    My whole married life has been a challenge. I've been married for over 20 years and the urges to have a connection with another woman are consuming me.
    Kamon123 Kamon123 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    she doesnt understand that who your child becomes is based on the examples they were shown. 20 years later she has more kids and does the same, but takes not weight of her effects...
    meowmistidawn meowmistidawn 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My mom just said something very hurtful to me I broke down in tear I'm grateful for having a mom but .. It's like I don't even have one idk she hates much I wish my daddy was alive...
    keishay keishay 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Lately since I've been in this anxiety episode, I haven't been able to easily sleep in our dark room. My stress sort of projects onto the dark and it makes my brain constantly wake...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F Apr 7

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    My wife even tells people I am a big flirt. I find that honesty is the key. As long as both people are open and honest with each other that not fun. Also it keeps things spiced up...
    mlh078 mlh078 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    I hate being desperate for love but it is such a great feeling. I wish I never had that first relationship so that I wouldn't have to deal with this ****
    Pain1374 Pain1374 18-21, M Mar 19

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    Most people do. Before I had my own I really hated it when people would say you don't understand what its like to be a parent unless you are one. I had so much love for my friends...
    xSCARx xSCARx 26-30, F 9 hrs ago

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    I'm a single mom of an 11th grader. I met the most wonderful guy who happens to be a father of 3. He has a 19, 15, & 12 year old. The 19 year old lives on her own. This guy...
    stepmominpgh stepmominpgh 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 16

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    I married out of need. When my ex dropped the pregnant bomb I freaked. Not cause of that, but cause I really didn't love her that much. At the time . Then she said it was twins. So...
    IyaAveer IyaAveer 41-45, M Mar 20

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    Is it sad to say I don't want to have kids? Unless I was very wealthy and able to no worry about my kids babysitter or daycare etc. I think I am being very realistic. I love kids...
    memarried memarried 22-25, F Mar 21

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    Confused, hurt & scared currently... He claims he loves me, but his actions toward me & the children say otherwise. Now granted if there is an actual emergency he will "come to...
    tbzplayplace tbzplayplace 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I was married once and my marriage failed... quite miserably.. I have always thought that I am just one of those people who were never meant to be married; even from a very young...
    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    Is it just me or are loads of (young) people just signing up to attack what you wrote just for the fun of it?? Some haven't even read through the whole story and based their...
    makingimpossiblepossible makingimpossiblepossible 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I've scanned through several stories, most of which I can relate to. I too, hate being a "stepmom". I'm more of a glorified babysitter every other weekend/holiday. Ya know, the...
    JustMe2209 JustMe2209 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I know it's wrong to hate who I am. God made me this way for a reason. But I hate being female. It doesn't feel right. I can't relate to other girls. I mean, I can relate to girls...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    My parents sometimes have these little outbursts for no reason and sometimes I get the blame for said outbursts even though I didn't do anything wrong. The only times i've...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 28

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    I hate being in pain... It makes me feel sad and alone. I have poor tolerance in pain... And I hate it even more... When I am sick and weak, I just think that physical pain is just...
    graceyflux graceyflux 26-30, F Mar 29

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    It is tough for me because as much as I hate being in crowded places and surrounded by too many people, I really do love going to concerts.. More crowded it can't really get, right...
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F Mar 31

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    Me and my boyfriend were going through a rough patch and I missed him a lot. Most people say young people cant be in love and most of the time I agree but I love this guy to bits...
    courtneytaylor courtneytaylor 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I Hate Being a Teenager But I still kinda Like it .
    yoyo526 yoyo526 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Well, I hate being the youngest eldest one in our family. I'm almost 20 years old, and my family still treats me as if I'm 15 years old. Like for instance, my cousin had thrown a...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I hate being mad at other people and my self. When I get mad I get really confused because I don't want to be mad at someone and it doesn't make sense to be mad at nothing or no...
    Potter66 Potter66 16-17, F Apr 7

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    Being Alone is the suckiest feeling in the world!!! I would be stuck to someone 24-7 if I could.... People say it's not healthy.... But I say, it's the way I'm made!! I hate being...
    DeeDee32 DeeDee32 31-35 4 days ago

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    Yeah, Im a stoner. I have no problem telling people that I am, but I hate being sterotyped against. Just because I smoke doesnt mean I dont have a job. I intern for a world...
    TheVampireQueen92 TheVampireQueen92 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Why can't people stay home when they are sick? They have to come to work and spread their germs! For their selfish acts now I'm sick! I hate being sick! I haven't been sick for...
    WhoIsLiz WhoIsLiz 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I hate being me. My husband died of ALS, Lou Gherigs disease, and has been rotting in the ground for almost 3 years. He abused me and didn't help me in my hour of need. I now have...
    justmealaone justmealaone 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    Don't get me wrong. I love kids and hope to adopt one day. But when kids are at the stage where they watch a movie or a favorite TV show over & over again. Normally doesn't bother...
    TheCunylinguist TheCunylinguist 41-45, F Mar 26

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    I feel like every one is using me for something I hate being used
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I really do hate being judge by people but somehow I always end up not caring about it or even pay attention about it since I don't wake up everyday to please everyone nor look...
    Acesha16 Acesha16 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I hate being sick I can never do anything
    amarie0710 amarie0710 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I hate being so tall. Most of my friends my age are shorter and I look like a giant. I have only two older friends who are taller and they are male! So that doesn't really count
    Diana14R Diana14R 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I hate being ignored especially by the person I really like and care for. I know I sometimes I can be annoying I think but I think you should just tell me instead of me loving you...
    iloveyoutooboo iloveyoutooboo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Married but live in isolation, joined this site to see if this is common or not
    lonedogTPA lonedogTPA 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 16

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    Ok I had a story here but deleted it stupidly. I won't delete this one. I am married but its not that great right now. Often I feel ignored. I do not blame him though because...
    charmedrainbow charmedrainbow 41-45, F 9 Responses Mar 17

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    I don't know why I hate people butt love people
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I enjoy being alone but sometimes I want company but, there's never the type of people I want to be around cause they're all stuck up and stupid and doing stupid stuff and looking...
    Loveisupsetting Loveisupsetting 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Long but need advice......I have been dating this guy for 10 months, we have had some up and downs in the past, with him not being honest.... Months into dating I found out that he...
    cutensweet31 cutensweet31 31-35, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    Well, more like an extended engagement - for two reasons, saving money for marriage, and his seemingly disinterest in planning for it. We've been together for 10 years (he ignored...
    irritatednutbar irritatednutbar 36-40 7 Responses Mar 31

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    I am a marriage therapist. I am in individual counseling. I've tried couples counseling ( but he gets in a bad mood each time we go). I've read many books. Spoke to many friends...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 28

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