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I Hate Being Married But Love My 2 Kids

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    This Faker For 8 Yrs

    I married a man I dated for 8 yrs. I got pregnant and thought "we dated this long were having a baby why wouldn't we get married? Especially since he strongly believes in it and comes from a happy home! Well boy oh boy was I the fool! This bum *** loser has no job smokes weed...
    shootmefirst shootmefirst 26-30 1 Response Jun 8, 2012

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now

    I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I could've listened and I would've listened knowing what i know now. I have two sons that i love with my life and thank God for having...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 3 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    He Promised He'll Help..

    It's my second marriage.. I should have known better..  My first marriage.. We left it on a good note..  A mutual agreement.  I should have known better than to just jump into another one.. Shame on me. My new husband..  Sure.. We were in love.. Or lust.. One...
    JULIET2009 JULIET2009 26-30 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    I Want Out Of My Marriage...

    I’m 24 and my husband is 26. We’ve been together for 5 years married 11 months. We have a 3 year old girl. We planned to get married a year before I found out I was pregnant. When I fell pregnant we postponed to have the baby first (financial issues). We’re both working and...
    sssy sssy 22-25 May 20, 2012

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now

    I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I could've listened and I would've listened knowing what i know now. I have two sons that i love with my life and thank God for having...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    Im Over It

    I have been married for almost 15 years...and i hate it i dont hate him we are just so different he is 13 years older,i thought i was doing the right thing i got preg at 16 and wanted a better life for my kids than i had growing up with 2 alcoholics...he made me feel safe,i know...
    brandishell brandishell 31-35 2 Responses Jan 23, 2013

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    Marriage Sucks.

    I've been married for 16 years and have two beautiful kids. My husband is a big load of no help. Not wih cooking, not with cleaning, and hardly ever with the kids. He is the type of man that approaches me when the kids are in the tub and I'm doing dishes and asks me what else I...
    16awfulyears 16awfulyears 41-45, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    Don't Love Him Or Like Him

    I ASK MYSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN WHY DID I GET MARRIED?  I ALREADY HAD TWO CHILDREN WHEN WE MET, THAN HAD TWO MORE WITH HIM. PERHAPS  I THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE A BETTER LIFE BEING MARRIED BUT BOY WAS I WRONG.  PERHAPS I'M STAYING BECAUSE OF THE CHILDREN AND I DON'T HAVE THE...
    nikkisall nikkisall 31-35 5 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    I Hate Being Married

    after 36 years of married life i cant stand it anymore Just the sound of her voice send shivers up my spine. we dont have anything in common
    ddaley ddaley 56-60 6 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    I Question It Everyday

    Some days I love being married..... other days I hate it.  And I hate the constant back and forth, rollercoaster ride.   When I was single life was one big crazy but fun rollercoaster ride.   Howver I ventually outgrew all that, wanted a simpler, calmer, more stable life...
    hiredhelp hiredhelp 36-40, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    I Hate Him, Specifically

    Being married is work, I know that and have worked my *** off for 14 years to try to have a happy marriage, and a normal happy family for my kids, but he just will not let that happen. He tells me I am stupid and an idiot on almost a daily basis, even though I am sure enough of...
    Michiganmom Michiganmom 46-50, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    I hate being married to my husband he is a big disappointment. I can't believe I have wasted 13 years of marriage and over 18 years with him. We have 4 children who are embarrassed...
    SkylarPeach SkylarPeach 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    My husband is such a liar. I can't stand being married. He is selfish and inconsiderate. If it wasn't for the kids, I would be driving to the divorce attorney's office today. Ugh...
    marriedtoaturd marriedtoaturd 46-50, F 2 Responses Sep 29

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    I have been married for almost two years. I recently begun hating it. My wife is controlling. She questions everything in my bank account even for a soda. I can't purchase anything...
    justsayin14 justsayin14 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    My mom loves me because I am her kid, but she hates what I've become and constantly calls me a selfish ***** which little does she know is one of my worst insecurities. I used to...
    lydiathethingy lydiathethingy 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I hate it when my mom doesn't answer the damn phone, and then she calls back while I'm calling her again... So we never get to actually converse. It's super annoying.
    JordanAsh JordanAsh 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I hate my mom and her boyfriend and my little sibling cause it made me feel like I wasn't enough for her the day I found out about her dating I asked why she said "I don't want to...
    Cuteycake26 Cuteycake26 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    She just it's a manipulative *****
    kitty465 kitty465 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    well......my mom's a perfectionist.
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F Oct 4

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    I actually hate being cold but I honestly love this weather because that means it's time to wear my hoodies:) current favorite is the one I bought yesterday from the bookstore at...
    fallout07 fallout07 18-21, F Oct 7

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    First off, this is completely new to me. I don't even no where to begin. So, here goes and it will be long, cause I want to put everything out there. This is my 2nd marriage and...
    Mountainsandnaturestorms Mountainsandnaturestorms 36-40, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    Omg if only i could turn back time, i would never have married my husband and realize that i dont like living with his kids. It was just the two of us when we got married but then...
    missmiserable32 missmiserable32 31-35, F 6 Responses Sep 27

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    Attention Stepmom's: Put yourself first. I recently left my husband this week after 10 years of marriage. I was unhappy with the conditions of our home and how he never held his...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    I hate being the last person on his list.. Outside of work & the kids - I am last. I'm tired of him getting calls/texts everyday from his ex.. Interrupting anytime I ever get with...
    patientlove patientlove 22-25 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Looking for my soulmate to get married and have kids with, i believe I'm going to meet u... I have faith...
    vavaeast vavaeast 31-35, F 2 Responses Oct 13

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    The joy of marriage is not being married, the joy comes from staying married.
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 7 hrs ago

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    Okay. I've been asked out more than a few times by more than a few guys. I don't know why, but I take it horribly. The first time I was asked out I was a young girl, completely...
    theopposite theopposite 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I hate being ignored! I can't stand when I ask someone a question then they don't respond to me and when I ask again they Yell the answer at me Like im annoying them with my...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    I only hate being ignored by the close people in my life. Anyone else feel like being ignored is one of the worse feelings to feel? Ugh I hate it. Maybe cause it annoys me lol
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I hate being lied to and I hate lying but I had to tell my boyfriend a little bit of a lie about his birthday present since i want it to be a surprise but he guessed what it is :(
    behappy4 behappy4 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I hate being in a house with a woman who's supposed to be my companion but more of a roommate! The passion is gone. The warmth is gone. The companionship is gone. All there is are...
    SweetHugs SweetHugs 41-45, M Sep 29

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    I hate being in a house with a woman who's supposed to be my companion but more of a roommate! The passion is gone. The warmth is gone. The companionship is gone. All there is are...
    SweetHugs SweetHugs 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    I personally hate being lied to because that means there's a lack of trust, and it makes me so mad when I find out someone's been lying to me. I've been recently lied to by my...
    marinnam marinnam 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I hate being lied to by by best friend's boyfriend He asked me what kinda flowers she liked and I said lilies cause she loves lilies. Their two year anniversary was coming up so...
    andyrazor andyrazor 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Lying is such a big turn off, I hate being lied too! Usually I already know what's going to happen, what the answer is, if I have this feelings that I'm being lied too..don't you...
    lifelessons15 lifelessons15 16-17, F Oct 9

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    I hate being clod in bed especially my feet . I hate it when my feet's cold .
    wildman43055 wildman43055 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 11

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    Would you lie I someone you love?? If you said yes to this then your not any where close to the right kind but I hate being lied to but think about this why do we lie?? Why do you...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I hate being 5'5'' **** this ****, nobody will never be in love with me because I am a ******* dwarf. Killing myself right now
    andrespm andrespm 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    I really hate being shy and it's annoying. I really can't stand my ground that much and Im shy in front of the classroom giving a speech or something like that. I wish I wasn't...
    KiaraTheLioness KiaraTheLioness 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I'm literally the most stubborn person ever. I hate being wrong! I will literally argue all day just for someone to say "I give up, you win." This is an awful way to be, and I...
    desired101 desired101 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    My husband has gone out and my son has gone to his grandmas and I hate being myself because I realise I have no meaning other than being a wife and a mother is that sad?
    ThoughtIknewLove ThoughtIknewLove 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    Yes. I hate being sick. I have a cold and I feel like ****. Ugh.
    LittleKandi LittleKandi 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    Ugh i really hate being sick 😔 I need some soup aha😊
    xoSaraPaigexo xoSaraPaigexo 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    I'm trying to keep myself From being extremely bored while I'm on fall break from school. I still hate being extremely bored and most times I feel like no one wants to talk to me...
    wmc1244 wmc1244 16-17, M Oct 9

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    Srsly? Just cos I'm a teenager doesn't mean i live to egg peoples houses and kick bins over. To be honest, i do practically the opposite. I'm not trying to say i have super powers...
    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner 13-15, M Oct 10

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    I hate being alone. especially on important days. I think I've had to make my own cake for three years now. Everyone always forgets. This year my parents went out bowling with my...
    FiftyLyricsInAMiracle FiftyLyricsInAMiracle 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 11

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    I hate being lied to! And I'm sick of being lied to! What do I have to be a FBI agent!
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate being lied to. That's it. Cuz it will drive me NUTS!! So yep, don't lie it's not ok. Be Awesome! It works trust me!! :) :P
    JazLife21 JazLife21 13-15, F 5 days ago

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