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I Hate Being Married But Love My 2 Kids

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    He Promised He'll Help..

    It's my second marriage.. I should have known better..  My first marriage.. We left it on a good note..  A mutual agreement.  I should have known better than to just jump into another one.. Shame on me. My new husband..  Sure.. We were in love.. Or lust.. One...
    JULIET2009 JULIET2009 26-30 2 Responses May 16, 2009

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    Don't Love Him Or Like Him

    I ASK MYSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN WHY DID I GET MARRIED?  I ALREADY HAD TWO CHILDREN WHEN WE MET, THAN HAD TWO MORE WITH HIM. PERHAPS  I THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE A BETTER LIFE BEING MARRIED BUT BOY WAS I WRONG.  PERHAPS I'M STAYING BECAUSE OF THE CHILDREN AND I DON'T HAVE THE...
    nikkisall nikkisall 31-35 5 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Im Over It

    I have been married for almost 15 years...and i hate it i dont hate him we are just so different he is 13 years older,i thought i was doing the right thing i got preg at 16 and wanted a better life for my kids than i had growing up with 2 alcoholics...he made me feel safe,i know...
    brandishell brandishell 31-35 1 Response Jan 23, 2013

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    This Faker For 8 Yrs

    I married a man I dated for 8 yrs. I got pregnant and thought "we dated this long were having a baby why wouldn't we get married? Especially since he strongly believes in it and comes from a happy home! Well boy oh boy was I the fool! This bum *** loser has no job smokes weed...
    shootmefirst shootmefirst 26-30 2 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    We have been married

    for 5 years but together for 12 years. We have 2 wonderful kids but I hate being stuck in this one way marriage. He hasn't worked in almost 5 years. I work 45-50 hours a week and then on my days off I have to clean the entire house because he won't get off his *** and even do...
    NoelleRose NoelleRose 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 16

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    I Hate Being Married

    after 36 years of married life i cant stand it anymore Just the sound of her voice send shivers up my spine. we dont have anything in common
    ddaley ddaley 56-60 6 Responses Jul 17, 2010

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    I Hate Him, Specifically

    Being married is work, I know that and have worked my *** off for 14 years to try to have a happy marriage, and a normal happy family for my kids, but he just will not let that happen. He tells me I am stupid and an idiot on almost a daily basis, even though I am sure enough of...
    Michiganmom Michiganmom 46-50, F 8 Responses Jan 22, 2008

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    I Want Out Of My Marriage...

    I’m 24 and my husband is 26. We’ve been together for 5 years married 11 months. We have a 3 year old girl. We planned to get married a year before I found out I was pregnant. When I fell pregnant we postponed to have the baby first (financial issues). We’re both working and...
    sssy sssy 22-25 May 20, 2012

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    Marriage Sucks.

    I've been married for 16 years and have two beautiful kids. My husband is a big load of no help. Not wih cooking, not with cleaning, and hardly ever with the kids. He is the type of man that approaches me when the kids are in the tub and I'm doing dishes and asks me what else I...
    16awfulyears 16awfulyears 41-45, F 1 Response May 27, 2011

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    I Question It Everyday

    Some days I love being married..... other days I hate it.  And I hate the constant back and forth, rollercoaster ride.   When I was single life was one big crazy but fun rollercoaster ride.   Howver I ventually outgrew all that, wanted a simpler, calmer, more stable life...
    hiredhelp hiredhelp 36-40, F 1 Response May 20, 2012

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now

    I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I could've listened and I would've listened knowing what i know now. I have two sons that i love with my life and thank God for having...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 4 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    If I Only Knew What I Know Now

    I know we shouldn't regret the things we've done in life. Well, this is one regret...marrying the man in the living room. I should've listened..I could've listened and I would've listened knowing what i know now. I have two sons that i love with my life and thank God for having...
    canionero25 canionero25 31-35 3 Responses Jun 11, 2011

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    I have decided that's it ok to admit I can't handle this situation. I did not gain a partner when I married this man, but just another child to be responsible for. His kids are bad...
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    It's hard enough being a part time stepmom, but it's absolutely frustrating and at times unbearable being a full time stepmom to two teens. And when husband doesn't follow through...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    AmyPond11th AmyPond11th 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hey everyone I'm new here. I have no children of my own, but I am engaged to someone with three daughters. We have been together for more than 6 years. He has three daughters who...
    stepmom2be1990 stepmom2be1990 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well isn't it fun being tired but you can't fall asleep?
    insanecrazyweird insanecrazyweird 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hello I'm new but I really do need advice. I never thought I'd be a stepmom and I hate being one. I dated a guy and already knew he had a daughter from a previous relationship. He...
    AsianBlonde AsianBlonde 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Joined a few months ago & my husband said he will try to make our relationship better so I left the site & devoted everything to make it work.. Celebrated our 20th year in Vegas to...
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    I hate being a stepmom! I am tired of wasting my life and time raising someone else's child. I sit in the house all day bc I had to be available to babysit when his daughter got...
    amlesa amlesa 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Are there any pretty women out there (age irrelevant) who'd like to meet an erudite, highly-educated, (very) well-preserved guy (58) with a wicked sense of humor? The man to whom...
    JimmyLonesome JimmyLonesome 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I just hate being lied to especially in a relationship don't tell me you love me if you don't💔😣😢😡
    Jones62 Jones62 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 25

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    I'd hate being a step mom If I ended up in such an unlucky position. That's why I don't date someone with extra baggage from a previous relationship. The Mommy drama. The Kid...
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 25

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    No contact with other guy in a week and I'm truly ok with it. I've taken a long hard look at the situation and can no longer deny that for him I was just filling in the gaps in his...
    Queenbee1960 Queenbee1960 51-55, F Jul 25

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    I accidentally slammed my door ( with my foot ) so I could change into today's clothes and she took my f*cking door ! I told her It was an accident and she did that annoying " mhm...
    Hatfield24 Hatfield24 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    can you like stop saying what you think i want to hear as i hate being lied to because i know its not the truth because what i want to hear is the truth so don't act like a mind...
    Multicolour12 Multicolour12 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    I really hate being ignored... if you don't want to talk to somebody just be upfront about it instead of acting like a child and not saying anything
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 22

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    My previous post sheds light into why but what im seeking now is what to di...is it worth it?! I was a single mom for over 7yrs& i really honestly MISS it so bad! Am i only one? I...
    mammamialove mammamialove 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I don't like being lied to especially when I'm close you and trust you and are always honest to you bc I expect the same curtsy. The worse is when I ask if your lying and you lie...
    Alex288837359 Alex288837359 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I am a receptionist and I am getting sick and tired of people asking me personal questions and then judging me from my answers. People are always asking me if I have kids and I do...
    WarriorCatGrl WarriorCatGrl 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 21

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    I just got grounded again yesterday. I'm grounded for a whole stinking week. Man I HATE BEING GROUNDED!!!!!
    naughtyboyneedsspanked naughtyboyneedsspanked 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I really hate being sick cause Whenever i'm sick i get dizzy caugh alot have fever, headaches and stomach ache so i always end up in the ER or in my doctor's office. And i get sick...
    naomie10210 naomie10210 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Ugh i hate being stressed so much :/ it makes my head hurt.. I feel like i live the same routine over and over again, whens it going to change? I dont doubt anything, but im just...
    beautifulego beautifulego 16-17 Jul 18

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    venting for the sake of a place to vent to...I could scream and scream at the stupid, selfish, heartless things my mother is responsible for. it was one thing when I was the target...
    cdawn1980 cdawn1980 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    I have been a stepmom to two boys, who are now 6 and 10 for nearly four years now. I have my own biodaughter who is 12 and awesome. Neither my husband nor I look forward to our...
    whydopeoplelie whydopeoplelie 31-35 1 Response Jul 16

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