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I Hate Being Rejected

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    The Worst Feeling

    Rejection is the worst feeling ever. It brings along humiliation, depression, sense of worthlessness. I am feeling very rejected right now; it is a rejection that keeps me from having what I want the most. Oh, how it hurts and how familiar it is. I feel like I want to die...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    Seems like when I try to move on,

    my heart pulls me back in a hole. I still am hooked on my ex crush and it hurts. He would have dated me if it wasn't a complicated triangle between ex co-workers, two women, one guy, lots of emotions. I got rejected because I was a bit clingy, but honest, I didn't lie and was...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F Jun 2

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    It just hurts so much,

    its unexplainably painful.
    69allnightlong 69allnightlong 36-40, M Apr 6

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    Rejected

    This is hard to write about, but if I don't let it out of me I feel like I'm going to explode. This morning I wake up, my husband is rubbing up next to me... obviously wanting sex. He goes to the restroom and comes back to bed and takes off his pants, then I go to the restroom...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses May 17, 2012

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    So for valentines day i planned to ask out this

    girl i liked. She found out early and told me that she was sorry, but no. I hate this feeling. I always doubt myself, and this is not helping... I was always to afraid to ever try asking someone out because i was deathly afraid of being rejected. Because i know im not an...
    KiritoKazuto KiritoKazuto 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I don't even know where to write this, but need to write it to feel better. I feel so lost in my life at the moment. I make plans with friends (I don't have that many) and then they end up canceling on me. I never ever want to cancel anything I promise. Keep your damn promises...
    2BrokeN 2BrokeN 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    i hate being rejected ,

    makes me feel worthless , thats why i turn into a complete ******* when it happens , it somehow makes me feel better
    isaagrinz isaagrinz 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    Not The First, Not The Last ó_ò

    A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success – Bo Bennett I’ve been rejected more times than I care to remember (lol) and even though I prepare myself for it, KNOWING a negative outcome is more than likely, I still get the wind knocked out of me...
    OvOBrien OvOBrien 26-30, M 1 Response May 8, 2013

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    i have been talking to a girl online

    and the day before yesterday she deleted her account completely out of the blue, without telling if something was wrong or anything and i hate the way i feel right now
    gekko112 gekko112 18-21, M Aug 3

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    I Have Been Rejected In Love Too Many Times

    I feel the best way to surmise my experience is to quote what a girl said to me when i had told her i had feelings for her She told me without batting an eyelid. to go "suck a lemon".  This sets the undercurrent of my current plight. or is it a plight? I still havent...
    moltenjohn moltenjohn 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    But I'm learning to deal with it!

    As a child, I was seldom told no by my loving family. Then I entered the world of strangers and failed to realize I would not be treated the same. I used to think I was better then other people and would become silently enraged when they got higher opportunities then me. Now, I...
    PersianPeasant PersianPeasant 18-21, F Jan 7

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    My plans never work out

    and I just feel like its always a waste of my time to try anymore. All the plans I try to make with people get so far an then something comes up the ruins everything so now when If I go on a date it's always at home dates cause trying to go out never works. I feel so done with...
    JenKnibs JenKnibs 16-17, F Jul 31

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    I was talking to this guy on a few different

    things of social media and I thought we were cool I mean he was like my version if perfect. He had the looks the personality even the weird little quirks that I did. Then he just up and deletes all of his accounts in everything without saying a word to me. Was a simple, "I didn...
    Hamwill2765 Hamwill2765 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 16

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    Ever since I was 12 years of age,

    I've lived with my father. My mother left me with my dad. I have three other siblings that were also hurt by my mothers actions. I've been rejected by her on many occasions, sometimes even seeking support and affection. I'm a current year 12 student working my butt off to get...
    jcindp jcindp 18-21, F Jul 10

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    Happens every time...

    :( not once has it worked out
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 16

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    Ok.

    You pull back from our kiss and sigh. You take my face in your hands and I know what's coming. The apology, the "I really want to, but we can't". You tell me to look at you. I try to turn away but you cup my chin and turn me to face you. I close my eyes. "Look at me. Please...
    Sum1calledMe Sum1calledMe 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2012

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    I Love Being Rejected By Day9

    I hate being rejected. It's horrible. My friends always say I'm a great guy and even my girl friends say any girl would be lucky to have me. They point out my good qualities. I don't think I'm a bad guy. I think I'm a great catch, so why is it that when I ask out a girl I'm...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 2 Responses May 21, 2013

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    I Love Him

    i love him but he doesnt love me back :( i need him. he makes me forget everything i cant get over him cause iv never met someone like him...i just wish he liked me back. i keep convincing myself he will eventually like me but im so stupid. he wont. watching him like someone else...
    lonelyalways96 lonelyalways96 16-17, F Jan 7, 2013

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    When Rejection Is Not The End-Game...

    None of us likes to be rejected, but it is a fact of human existence that we will be rejected sooner or later. My story of rejection goes back to my childhood. I was never "good enough" as a person to be loved for who I am. My acceptance was always based on my performance...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Especially by someone

    who you like :(
    JelloPixel JelloPixel 13-15 1 Response Feb 3

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    Rejecting Me

    I do not consider myself beautiful or clever. My body is it's age. I have self confidence issues and no matter what I do I cannot ever truly love myself. I have a wall around me that protects me from harm. I am truly ugly on the inside. I have some really beautiful friends...
    living4now living4now 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
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    iTzzMike iTzzMike 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Okay seriously. If your busy tell me!!! I friggin hate being ignored. Like I can't even tell you how much I hate. & especially when it comes to clueless D.A guys. You can't say you...
    Country00Girl Country00Girl 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 25

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    I hate it, I hate being lied to, I mean it. So since I don't trust anyone, the good thing for me that I have found out is just don't f****** care about it. Because It's gonna hurt...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21, T 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I don't hate being an adult, but has anyone realized how fast your days are going by based on when your bills are due? Every week a bill is due, lol.
    MetaKat MetaKat 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Hate being ignored .. I want a sincere one around me always
    kevinmattt kevinmattt 46-50, M Aug 25

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    I hate being nice to little ***** who don't deserve it. *******....
    BrutallyHonest316 BrutallyHonest316 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I hate being skinny. There's nothing more to say about it. My friends are always telling me how I should eat more, but really I eat just as much as any person, or even more! I just...
    xgirlyx xgirlyx 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    Ok so I hate being judged in general. I would be more open about my crossdressing to people I know IRL but I'm afraid to hear there reactions and they would think differently of me...
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Sep 3

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    I love someone, he was once my close friend, we sometimes spend our times together, swimming, bicycling, and many more. Everytime i looked at his face, i just want to say, i love...
    Freimm Freimm 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I hate being sick. Now for some reason, I've been sick (cold, flu) for past two weeks. It's so horrible. I've been few days at work and tried to live my life, but it just doesn't...
    ddaa0 ddaa0 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    I really hate being tickled.... I get violent. I literally have hurt people for tickling me. Not on purpose! But if you tickle me expect my physical reaction to be a punch, a kick...
    dazikame79 dazikame79 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I hate being bored stuck in a big city no friend hear and don't know what to do. why did I move?
    num1nat num1nat 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Well, the title says it all. I hate when people tell me fake lies so I give them sympathy. People in school tell me bunch of lies which are super unbelievable. For example...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    I hate rejection. I just got rejected earlier!! It feels so painful :( **** love
    Firdvxs Firdvxs 18-21, M Sep 5

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    (From my other account that's being deleted) The touch of a hand on my shoulder, the contact of a kiss on my head, or the feel of a hug, I cannot bare. Not even a friendly...
    kelseytoby1337 kelseytoby1337 16-17 Sep 2

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    This class makes my self esteem go to a maximum low.... Too many arrogant attractive guys in here. :'( I hate the fact that I'm so ugly...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 8 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I suppose it isn't so much rejected as overstaying my usefulness. As people exit I hear that I am a great person, a great friend and help people realize they have value. Sadly...
    GleefulLaughs GleefulLaughs 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate the fact that I'm turning into what I hate. I hated pervs and I became one, I hate cheaters yet I became one, I hated mean people yet I became one, and I hate people who...
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M Aug 29

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    I see so many comments about how so many people stereotype and hate Americans based on our movies, tv shows and even worse our government... I.e. "way to go you arrogant americans...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 14

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    Before I start, please know I try to do all I can to be a great mom to my SD. I am involved with her school/ activities, homework, I take her places, make her meals, buy her...
    MargeSimpson31 MargeSimpson31 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I am 38 weeks +3 days now. This whole pregnancy pretty much has beena nightmare come true. I never wanted another child. I sure as hell do not want to experience labor again but...
    dollhex dollhex 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Okay so im 14 and im 5"10 and i wear a size 10. Btw im a girl. I really hate my height. Like idky other girls are like being tall is so cool n blah blah saying they wish they were...
    imbeyonce imbeyonce 13-15, F Aug 31

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    I'm exactly five feet tall and I absolutely hate it. Sure it great because you are "little and cute" but what if I don't want to be portrayed as that? Here's what it's like...I...
    LovelyLuna253 LovelyLuna253 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I don't think anybody really enjoys being yelled at, but I particularly hate everything about it. First of all, it happens a lot in my house because my mother has a very short...
    KatieRosess KatieRosess 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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