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I Hate Being Rejected

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 343 People

    Especially by someone

    who you like :(
    JelloPixel JelloPixel 13-15 1 Response Feb 3, 2014

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    I Have Been Rejected In Love Too Many Times

    I feel the best way to surmise my experience is to quote what a girl said to me when i had told her i had feelings for her She told me without batting an eyelid. to go "suck a lemon".  This sets the undercurrent of my current plight. or is it a plight? I still havent...
    moltenjohn moltenjohn 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    I have many tExt i send 2 him

    but He didn't Reply :'( #LQ </3
    BunsongBugaii BunsongBugaii 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I've been rejected by a group of my friends

    for like 3 weeks then one of them called me and asked if I wanna hang out? You dumb little *****, I don't **** with you! I didn't even feel mad or angry or sad- I rejected and moved on... Like they did to me...
    Zineq Zineq 16-17, F Nov 8, 2014

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    It really sucks that unfortuantely I couldn't

    fight the feelings of affection towards someone straight. I know they probably aren't interested in me, but I still went in and asked. After getting rejected, I feel like I don't belong anywhere, like a giant hole is just there. Now, every time I walk the hallways and he sees me...
    Unraveledghoul Unraveledghoul 16-17, M Oct 29, 2014

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    i have been talking to a girl online

    and the day before yesterday she deleted her account completely out of the blue, without telling if something was wrong or anything and i hate the way i feel right now
    gekko112 gekko112 22-25, M Aug 3, 2014

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    Rejecting Me

    I do not consider myself beautiful or clever. My body is it's age. I have self confidence issues and no matter what I do I cannot ever truly love myself. I have a wall around me that protects me from harm. I am truly ugly on the inside. I have some really beautiful friends...
    living4now living4now 41-45, F 9 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Rejected

    This is hard to write about, but if I don't let it out of me I feel like I'm going to explode. This morning I wake up, my husband is rubbing up next to me... obviously wanting sex. He goes to the restroom and comes back to bed and takes off his pants, then I go to the restroom...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 17, 2012

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    i hate being rejected ,

    makes me feel worthless , thats why i turn into a complete ******* when it happens , it somehow makes me feel better
    isaagrinz isaagrinz 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9, 2014

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    I Love Being Rejected By Day9

    I hate being rejected. It's horrible. My friends always say I'm a great guy and even my girl friends say any girl would be lucky to have me. They point out my good qualities. I don't think I'm a bad guy. I think I'm a great catch, so why is it that when I ask out a girl I'm...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 3 Responses May 21, 2013

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    It just hurts so much,

    its unexplainably painful.
    69allnightlong 69allnightlong 41-45, M Apr 6, 2014

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    I'm tired of wanting something

    so bad, and trying so hard to make it happen over and over. Only to be rejected time and time again. I've cried at least 3 times today so far because of it. It's just not fair!
    DustToDust97 DustToDust97 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    But I'm learning to deal with it!

    As a child, I was seldom told no by my loving family. Then I entered the world of strangers and failed to realize I would not be treated the same. I used to think I was better then other people and would become silently enraged when they got higher opportunities then me. Now, I...
    PersianPeasant PersianPeasant 18-21, F Jan 7, 2014

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I don't even know where to write this, but need to write it to feel better. I feel so lost in my life at the moment. I make plans with friends (I don't have that many) and then they end up canceling on me. I never ever want to cancel anything I promise. Keep your damn promises...
    2BrokeN 2BrokeN 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    So for valentines day i planned to ask out this

    girl i liked. She found out early and told me that she was sorry, but no. I hate this feeling. I always doubt myself, and this is not helping... I was always to afraid to ever try asking someone out because i was deathly afraid of being rejected. Because i know im not an...
    KiritoKazuto KiritoKazuto 18-21, M Feb 8, 2014

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    Not The First, Not The Last ó_ò

    A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success – Bo Bennett I’ve been rejected more times than I care to remember (lol) and even though I prepare myself for it, KNOWING a negative outcome is more than likely, I still get the wind knocked out of me...
    JulianLucci JulianLucci 26-30, M May 8, 2013

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    I have this problem. Like I dwell

    when someone turns me down. Even if it's just on a phone conversation, even if I don't see the person or know the person at all. It's kinda dwell in me for hours. I hate the feeling. Even though my logic tells me that it's the reality. That life is like that. Still I can't get...
    imkryptonian imkryptonian 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    My plans never work out

    and I just feel like its always a waste of my time to try anymore. All the plans I try to make with people get so far an then something comes up the ruins everything so now when If I go on a date it's always at home dates cause trying to go out never works. I feel so done with...
    JenKnibs JenKnibs 16-17, F Jul 31, 2014

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    When Rejection Is Not The End-Game...

    None of us likes to be rejected, but it is a fact of human existence that we will be rejected sooner or later. My story of rejection goes back to my childhood. I was never "good enough" as a person to be loved for who I am. My acceptance was always based on my performance...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Aug 9, 2013

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    The Worst Feeling

    Rejection is the worst feeling ever. It brings along humiliation, depression, sense of worthlessness. I am feeling very rejected right now; it is a rejection that keeps me from having what I want the most. Oh, how it hurts and how familiar it is. I feel like I want to die...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    Ever since I was 12 years of age,

    I've lived with my father. My mother left me with my dad. I have three other siblings that were also hurt by my mothers actions. I've been rejected by her on many occasions, sometimes even seeking support and affection. I'm a current year 12 student working my butt off to get...
    jcindp jcindp 18-21, F Jul 10, 2014

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    Ok.

    You pull back from our kiss and sigh. You take my face in your hands and I know what's coming. The apology, the "I really want to, but we can't". You tell me to look at you. I try to turn away but you cup my chin and turn me to face you. I close my eyes. "Look at me. Please...
    Sum1calledMe Sum1calledMe 22-25, F Nov 2, 2012

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    Happens every time...

    :( not once has it worked out
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    Seems like when I try to move on,

    my heart pulls me back in a hole. I still am hooked on my ex crush and it hurts. He would have dated me if it wasn't a complicated triangle between ex co-workers, two women, one guy, lots of emotions. I got rejected because I was a bit clingy, but honest, I didn't lie and was...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F Jun 2, 2014

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    i hated it and i hate it now..this sickening pain and throbbing veins..syomach churing in vomiting rising in my chest anf thos dark night
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    I hate it when I send someone a message and they read it and don't even try to get back to me, or just being ignored in general.
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    This is going to be very long winded and I'm posting this because I need to vent and need to know who else is going through something similar and how they're handling it. Here goes...
    Kristy37 Kristy37 36-40, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate the arrogance with which people declare that they know exactly who I am. I just came back to my hometown from college and I have changed a lot. In particular, I have become...
    puppywoof puppywoof 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate being a step mother!!! I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! I know that blending families is a hard thing to do, and I love all of my children. I am tired of feeling wrong...
    Wzv63w Wzv63w 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Damn hate being bored anyone up to chat message me
    dom8869 dom8869 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I am ashamed of being part the male gender. Most offenders that relates to sexual offences(including **********) is mostly male. At least not all males are like this, including me...
    Profweird Profweird 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    IDK why he has to lie to me about things I'm not dumb he has lied in the past and still continues to lie even now. I have been lied to so many times in my life by a few ex...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate being lesbian because my parents are extremely homophobic and i hate i always fall in love with women i can never have. :( :(
    Iloveowl Iloveowl 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost three years. We have been together for just about seven years. I love him dearly. We are undoubtedly soul mates. People go years and...
    mottkat mottkat 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi I would like to vent a little bit.I Hate getting treated like I am stupid in front of my spouse friends and in laws.They treat me like I am garbage or treat me like I am stupid...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 a week ago

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    In my childhood, I cry easily. My mom hate it, she told me to stop crying. Crying is only for babies. I'm not a baby anymore. I know the way she said that to make me independent...
    yumemi yumemi 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    when you have insomnia, and other people are moody, etc and they blame it on being "tired", Really?? Tell me about it! So Am I, but I dont use it as excuse to be moody/bitchy, etc...
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    Strangely. The worst thing that can happen is you'll be rejected. If that happens, you'll feel relieved and can move on. It's better than not ever asking and always having a...
    Jebugo Jebugo 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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