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I Hate Being Rejected

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    Happens every time...

    :( not once has it worked out
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    When Rejection Is Not The End-Game...

    None of us likes to be rejected, but it is a fact of human existence that we will be rejected sooner or later. My story of rejection goes back to my childhood. I was never "good enough" as a person to be loved for who I am. My acceptance was always based on my performance...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Aug 9, 2013

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    I have many tExt i send 2 him

    but He didn't Reply :'( #LQ </3
    BunsongBugaii BunsongBugaii 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 10, 2014

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    I Have Been Rejected In Love Too Many Times

    I feel the best way to surmise my experience is to quote what a girl said to me when i had told her i had feelings for her She told me without batting an eyelid. to go "suck a lemon".  This sets the undercurrent of my current plight. or is it a plight? I still havent...
    moltenjohn moltenjohn 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    I've been rejected by a group of my friends

    for like 3 weeks then one of them called me and asked if I wanna hang out? You dumb little *****, I don't **** with you! I didn't even feel mad or angry or sad- I rejected and moved on... Like they did to me...
    Zineq Zineq 16-17, F Nov 8, 2014

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    So for valentines day i planned to ask out this

    girl i liked. She found out early and told me that she was sorry, but no. I hate this feeling. I always doubt myself, and this is not helping... I was always to afraid to ever try asking someone out because i was deathly afraid of being rejected. Because i know im not an...
    KiritoKazuto KiritoKazuto 18-21, M Feb 8, 2014

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I don't even know where to write this, but need to write it to feel better. I feel so lost in my life at the moment. I make plans with friends (I don't have that many) and then they end up canceling on me. I never ever want to cancel anything I promise. Keep your damn promises...
    2BrokeN 2BrokeN 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    But I'm learning to deal with it!

    As a child, I was seldom told no by my loving family. Then I entered the world of strangers and failed to realize I would not be treated the same. I used to think I was better then other people and would become silently enraged when they got higher opportunities then me. Now, I...
    PersianPeasant PersianPeasant 18-21, F Jan 7, 2014

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    I have this problem. Like I dwell

    when someone turns me down. Even if it's just on a phone conversation, even if I don't see the person or know the person at all. It's kinda dwell in me for hours. I hate the feeling. Even though my logic tells me that it's the reality. That life is like that. Still I can't get...
    imkryptonian imkryptonian 26-30, M 1 Response Jan 22

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    Rejecting Me

    I do not consider myself beautiful or clever. My body is it's age. I have self confidence issues and no matter what I do I cannot ever truly love myself. I have a wall around me that protects me from harm. I am truly ugly on the inside. I have some really beautiful friends...
    living4now living4now 41-45, F 9 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    I Love Being Rejected By Day9

    I hate being rejected. It's horrible. My friends always say I'm a great guy and even my girl friends say any girl would be lucky to have me. They point out my good qualities. I don't think I'm a bad guy. I think I'm a great catch, so why is it that when I ask out a girl I'm...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 3 Responses May 21, 2013

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    My plans never work out

    and I just feel like its always a waste of my time to try anymore. All the plans I try to make with people get so far an then something comes up the ruins everything so now when If I go on a date it's always at home dates cause trying to go out never works. I feel so done with...
    JenKnibs JenKnibs 16-17, F Jul 31, 2014

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    Not The First, Not The Last ó_ò

    A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success – Bo Bennett I’ve been rejected more times than I care to remember (lol) and even though I prepare myself for it, KNOWING a negative outcome is more than likely, I still get the wind knocked out of me...
    JulianLucci JulianLucci 26-30, M May 8, 2013

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    It really sucks that unfortuantely I couldn't

    fight the feelings of affection towards someone straight. I know they probably aren't interested in me, but I still went in and asked. After getting rejected, I feel like I don't belong anywhere, like a giant hole is just there. Now, every time I walk the hallways and he sees me...
    Unraveledghoul Unraveledghoul 16-17, M Oct 29, 2014

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    Rejected

    This is hard to write about, but if I don't let it out of me I feel like I'm going to explode. This morning I wake up, my husband is rubbing up next to me... obviously wanting sex. He goes to the restroom and comes back to bed and takes off his pants, then I go to the restroom...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 17, 2012

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    Seems like when I try to move on,

    my heart pulls me back in a hole. I still am hooked on my ex crush and it hurts. He would have dated me if it wasn't a complicated triangle between ex co-workers, two women, one guy, lots of emotions. I got rejected because I was a bit clingy, but honest, I didn't lie and was...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F Jun 2, 2014

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    Ever since I was 12 years of age,

    I've lived with my father. My mother left me with my dad. I have three other siblings that were also hurt by my mothers actions. I've been rejected by her on many occasions, sometimes even seeking support and affection. I'm a current year 12 student working my butt off to get...
    jcindp jcindp 18-21, F Jul 10, 2014

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    The Worst Feeling

    Rejection is the worst feeling ever. It brings along humiliation, depression, sense of worthlessness. I am feeling very rejected right now; it is a rejection that keeps me from having what I want the most. Oh, how it hurts and how familiar it is. I feel like I want to die...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    I'm tired of wanting something

    so bad, and trying so hard to make it happen over and over. Only to be rejected time and time again. I've cried at least 3 times today so far because of it. It's just not fair!
    DustToDust97 DustToDust97 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 10

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    Especially by someone

    who you like :(
    JelloPixel JelloPixel 13-15 1 Response Feb 3, 2014

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    i have been talking to a girl online

    and the day before yesterday she deleted her account completely out of the blue, without telling if something was wrong or anything and i hate the way i feel right now
    gekko112 gekko112 22-25, M Aug 3, 2014

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    Ok.

    You pull back from our kiss and sigh. You take my face in your hands and I know what's coming. The apology, the "I really want to, but we can't". You tell me to look at you. I try to turn away but you cup my chin and turn me to face you. I close my eyes. "Look at me. Please...
    Sum1calledMe Sum1calledMe 22-25, F Nov 2, 2012

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    i hate being rejected ,

    makes me feel worthless , thats why i turn into a complete ******* when it happens , it somehow makes me feel better
    isaagrinz isaagrinz 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9, 2014

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    It just hurts so much,

    its unexplainably painful.
    69allnightlong 69allnightlong 41-45, M Apr 6, 2014

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    It's hating my family for abandoning me, despising my friends for always leaving me, having to endure real loneliness, just being completely on my own through life and I'm so sick...
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    I HATE being ignored yesterday at school I asked someone a question and all he did was... Well NOTHING and I have a bit of a temper!!! Anyone else hate being ignored???
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    I hate being ignored for many reasons, but one of the main reasons is cus then you have me thinking like what the **** did I do to you for this to happen and then that ends up...
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    If you yell at me I am either get really angry and yell at you and been told when I do I am very intimidating or I am gonna totally ignore you and walk away . I hate being yelled...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 6

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