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I Hate Being Rejected

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    You pull back from our kiss and sigh. You take my face in your hands and I know what's coming. The apology, the "I really want to, but we can't". You tell me to look at you. I try to turn away but you cup my chin and turn me to face you. I close my eyes. "Look at me. Please...
    Sum1calledMe Sum1calledMe 22-25, F Nov 2, 2012

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    So for valentines day i planned to ask out this

    girl i liked. She found out early and told me that she was sorry, but no. I hate this feeling. I always doubt myself, and this is not helping... I was always to afraid to ever try asking someone out because i was deathly afraid of being rejected. Because i know im not an...
    KiritoKazuto KiritoKazuto 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 8

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I don't even know where to write this, but need to write it to feel better. I feel so lost in my life at the moment. I make plans with friends (I don't have that many) and then they end up canceling on me. I never ever want to cancel anything I promise. Keep your damn promises...
    2BrokeN 2BrokeN 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    It just hurts so much,

    its unexplainably painful.
    69allnightlong 69allnightlong 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I Have Been Rejected In Love Too Many Times

    I feel the best way to surmise my experience is to quote what a girl said to me when i had told her i had feelings for her She told me without batting an eyelid. to go "suck a lemon".  This sets the undercurrent of my current plight. or is it a plight? I still havent...
    moltenjohn moltenjohn 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    Not concerning love but I got rejected

    for the apartment I wanted really bad only $495 a month all inclusive. They had a clubhouse, computer room, and the property was overall clean. But in life you almost never get what you want. They needed someone with at least a 615 credit score to co-sign and they refused...
    blackxrosexyuuki blackxrosexyuuki 18-21, F Mar 18

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    I Love Being Rejected By Day9

    I hate being rejected. It's horrible. My friends always say I'm a great guy and even my girl friends say any girl would be lucky to have me. They point out my good qualities. I don't think I'm a bad guy. I think I'm a great catch, so why is it that when I ask out a girl I'm...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    Especially by someone

    who you like :(
    JelloPixel JelloPixel 13-15 Feb 3

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    The Worst Feeling

    Rejection is the worst feeling ever. It brings along humiliation, depression, sense of worthlessness. I am feeling very rejected right now; it is a rejection that keeps me from having what I want the most. Oh, how it hurts and how familiar it is. I feel like I want to die...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    But I'm learning to deal with it!

    As a child, I was seldom told no by my loving family. Then I entered the world of strangers and failed to realize I would not be treated the same. I used to think I was better then other people and would become silently enraged when they got higher opportunities then me. Now, I...
    PersianPeasant PersianPeasant 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 7

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    Not The First, Not The Last ó_ò

    A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success – Bo Bennett I’ve been rejected more times than I care to remember (lol) and even though I prepare myself for it, KNOWING a negative outcome is more than likely, I still get the wind knocked out of me...
    ActionMax ActionMax 26-30, M 1 Response May 8, 2013

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    Rejecting Me

    I do not consider myself beautiful or clever. My body is it's age. I have self confidence issues and no matter what I do I cannot ever truly love myself. I have a wall around me that protects me from harm. I am truly ugly on the inside. I have some really beautiful friends...
    living4now living4now 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    I Love Him

    i love him but he doesnt love me back :( i need him. he makes me forget everything i cant get over him cause iv never met someone like him...i just wish he liked me back. i keep convincing myself he will eventually like me but im so stupid. he wont. watching him like someone else...
    lonelyalways96 lonelyalways96 16-17, F Jan 7, 2013

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    Rejected

    This is hard to write about, but if I don't let it out of me I feel like I'm going to explode. This morning I wake up, my husband is rubbing up next to me... obviously wanting sex. He goes to the restroom and comes back to bed and takes off his pants, then I go to the restroom...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 17, 2012

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    Is it just me or are loads of (young) people just signing up to attack what you wrote just for the fun of it?? Some haven't even read through the whole story and based their...
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    I hate being in pain... It makes me feel sad and alone. I have poor tolerance in pain... And I hate it even more... When I am sick and weak, I just think that physical pain is just...
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    Well, I hate being the youngest eldest one in our family. I'm almost 20 years old, and my family still treats me as if I'm 15 years old. Like for instance, my cousin had thrown a...
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    It is tough for me because as much as I hate being in crowded places and surrounded by too many people, I really do love going to concerts.. More crowded it can't really get, right...
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    I hate being mad at other people and my self. When I get mad I get really confused because I don't want to be mad at someone and it doesn't make sense to be mad at nothing or no...
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    I hate being me. My husband died of ALS, Lou Gherigs disease, and has been rotting in the ground for almost 3 years. He abused me and didn't help me in my hour of need. I now have...
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    I feel like every one is using me for something I hate being used
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    Diana14R Diana14R 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    courtneytaylor courtneytaylor 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I Hate Being a Teenager But I still kinda Like it .
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    My husband and I live in Jamaica, I have moved there with him from Canada and he has two kids living there with their mom, sometimes they come visit. We live in an extremely small...
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    Im not desperate for a relationship, but what bugs me is no one seems to give me a chance. Im decent looking, well educated, great self-control and extremely welcoming and nice...
    Jonesing4nice Jonesing4nice 18-21, M Apr 9

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    I love attention, so I hate when I don't get it, especially from the people I love most, I like being the center of everything and people rely on me. I like being the one who's...
    mrij mrij 22-25, F Mar 30

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    I would yell at my mom sometimes as a teen because she was a very aggravating person to deal with and on top of that I already had anger issues (don't really any more). I got up...
    boastroasttoast boastroasttoast 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    All right, I know people come on here to either wine, or try to think about nothing but sunshine and rainbows...no offense, being positive and hopeful is good for moral.... but i...
    Dayzdreamer Dayzdreamer 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I have been with my partner since October of 2011 and love him very much. I have never been crazy about children but decided to give it a try. His son is almost 5 now and it really...
    gagnone19 gagnone19 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have never felt beautiful in my entire 19 years. A few years ago, my cousins who I have always been close to told me I was ugly. I felt really horrible and my self-esteem...
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    SarahBear907 SarahBear907 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    What the **** is wrong with me why do people hate me so much even my twin sister hates me why am I so unlikeable
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I hate how my sister is trying to use me to get to my boyfriends money that's bullshit I hate when she does this she will never see a penny of his money
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    At times I really hate it. Accepting myself for who I was changed my life, but at the same time I'm scared of being this way for the rest of my life. I can't force myself to be...
    Rayonkier Rayonkier 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Ran out of room for being stabbed in my back, now haters are jabbing at my sides twisting their blades. some of these wounds weren't meant to heal But every time they send me to...
    AngelaBelievesInLove AngelaBelievesInLove 22-25, F Apr 4

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    What I hate overall about being a "step parent" is the fact that all I really equate to is a wallet.
    sobackwards sobackwards 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    it's honestly the number 1 thing i hate about myself amongst my list of things i hate. i will never be perfect and thats all i want. i starve and starve and no matter how much...
    hypnoticz hypnoticz 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    Raising a child that isn't your own. Such fun! When things get tough, there are no sweet memories of them being cute because you weren't around for that part. No biological love...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 4 Responses Apr 10

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    All most everyday I get pick on for being shy not just by people at my school but mostly by my family and I hate it. I'm trying so hard not to be shy. I want to be an actress when...
    SandraArdell SandraArdell 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Oh god how I hate lies and fake complements , being honest isn't a crime !
    nero1991 nero1991 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    back in November I stopped seeing and speaking to my 'friend' he had hid gong on a trip w/ another woman; but he admitted it when asked. He called me last week, he was in town...I...
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