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I Hate Being Rejected

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    It just hurts so much,

    its unexplainably painful.
    69allnightlong 69allnightlong 36-40, M Apr 6

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    So for valentines day i planned to ask out this

    girl i liked. She found out early and told me that she was sorry, but no. I hate this feeling. I always doubt myself, and this is not helping... I was always to afraid to ever try asking someone out because i was deathly afraid of being rejected. Because i know im not an...
    KiritoKazuto KiritoKazuto 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 8

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    Ever since I was 12 years of age,

    I've lived with my father. My mother left me with my dad. I have three other siblings that were also hurt by my mothers actions. I've been rejected by her on many occasions, sometimes even seeking support and affection. I'm a current year 12 student working my butt off to get...
    jcindp jcindp 18-21, F Jul 10

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    I Love Being Rejected By Day9

    I hate being rejected. It's horrible. My friends always say I'm a great guy and even my girl friends say any girl would be lucky to have me. They point out my good qualities. I don't think I'm a bad guy. I think I'm a great catch, so why is it that when I ask out a girl I'm...
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 3 Responses May 21, 2013

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    I Love Him

    i love him but he doesnt love me back :( i need him. he makes me forget everything i cant get over him cause iv never met someone like him...i just wish he liked me back. i keep convincing myself he will eventually like me but im so stupid. he wont. watching him like someone else...
    lonelyalways96 lonelyalways96 16-17, F Jan 7, 2013

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    i hate being rejected ,

    makes me feel worthless , thats why i turn into a complete ******* when it happens , it somehow makes me feel better
    isaagrinz isaagrinz 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    I Have Been Rejected In Love Too Many Times

    I feel the best way to surmise my experience is to quote what a girl said to me when i had told her i had feelings for her She told me without batting an eyelid. to go "suck a lemon".  This sets the undercurrent of my current plight. or is it a plight? I still havent...
    moltenjohn moltenjohn 26-30, M 3 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    Seems like when I try to move on,

    my heart pulls me back in a hole. I still am hooked on my ex crush and it hurts. He would have dated me if it wasn't a complicated triangle between ex co-workers, two women, one guy, lots of emotions. I got rejected because I was a bit clingy, but honest, I didn't lie and was...
    meleternal meleternal 26-30, F Jun 2

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    My plans never work out

    and I just feel like its always a waste of my time to try anymore. All the plans I try to make with people get so far an then something comes up the ruins everything so now when If I go on a date it's always at home dates cause trying to go out never works. I feel so done with...
    JenKnibs JenKnibs 16-17, F Jul 31

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    Rejecting Me

    I do not consider myself beautiful or clever. My body is it's age. I have self confidence issues and no matter what I do I cannot ever truly love myself. I have a wall around me that protects me from harm. I am truly ugly on the inside. I have some really beautiful friends...
    living4now living4now 41-45, F 10 Responses Feb 17, 2013

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    Ok.

    You pull back from our kiss and sigh. You take my face in your hands and I know what's coming. The apology, the "I really want to, but we can't". You tell me to look at you. I try to turn away but you cup my chin and turn me to face you. I close my eyes. "Look at me. Please...
    Sum1calledMe Sum1calledMe 22-25, F Nov 2, 2012

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    When Rejection Is Not The End-Game...

    None of us likes to be rejected, but it is a fact of human existence that we will be rejected sooner or later. My story of rejection goes back to my childhood. I was never "good enough" as a person to be loved for who I am. My acceptance was always based on my performance...
    pipermac pipermac 56-60, M Aug 9, 2013

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    Not The First, Not The Last ó_ò

    A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success – Bo Bennett I’ve been rejected more times than I care to remember (lol) and even though I prepare myself for it, KNOWING a negative outcome is more than likely, I still get the wind knocked out of me...
    ActionMax ActionMax 26-30, M 1 Response May 8, 2013

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    Rejected

    This is hard to write about, but if I don't let it out of me I feel like I'm going to explode. This morning I wake up, my husband is rubbing up next to me... obviously wanting sex. He goes to the restroom and comes back to bed and takes off his pants, then I go to the restroom...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 17, 2012

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    It really sucks that unfortuantely I couldn't

    fight the feelings of affection towards someone straight. I know they probably aren't interested in me, but I still went in and asked. After getting rejected, I feel like I don't belong anywhere, like a giant hole is just there. Now, every time I walk the hallways and he sees me...
    Unraveledghoul Unraveledghoul 16-17, M Oct 29

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    I have many tExt i send 2 him

    but He didn't Reply :'( #LQ </3
    BunsongBugaii BunsongBugaii 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 10

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    Especially by someone

    who you like :(
    JelloPixel JelloPixel 13-15 1 Response Feb 3

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    The Worst Feeling

    Rejection is the worst feeling ever. It brings along humiliation, depression, sense of worthlessness. I am feeling very rejected right now; it is a rejection that keeps me from having what I want the most. Oh, how it hurts and how familiar it is. I feel like I want to die...
    thinkandfeel thinkandfeel 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 5, 2009

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    Happens every time...

    :( not once has it worked out
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 16

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    i have been talking to a girl online

    and the day before yesterday she deleted her account completely out of the blue, without telling if something was wrong or anything and i hate the way i feel right now
    gekko112 gekko112 18-21, M Aug 3

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    I was talking to this guy on a few different

    things of social media and I thought we were cool I mean he was like my version if perfect. He had the looks the personality even the weird little quirks that I did. Then he just up and deletes all of his accounts in everything without saying a word to me. Was a simple, "I didn...
    Hamwill2765 Hamwill2765 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 16

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    What Is Wrong With Me?

    I don't even know where to write this, but need to write it to feel better. I feel so lost in my life at the moment. I make plans with friends (I don't have that many) and then they end up canceling on me. I never ever want to cancel anything I promise. Keep your damn promises...
    2BrokeN 2BrokeN 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    But I'm learning to deal with it!

    As a child, I was seldom told no by my loving family. Then I entered the world of strangers and failed to realize I would not be treated the same. I used to think I was better then other people and would become silently enraged when they got higher opportunities then me. Now, I...
    PersianPeasant PersianPeasant 18-21, F Jan 7

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    I've been rejected by a group of my friends

    for like 3 weeks then one of them called me and asked if I wanna hang out? You dumb little *****, I don't **** with you! I didn't even feel mad or angry or sad- I rejected and moved on... Like they did to me...
    Zineq Zineq 16-17, F Nov 8

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    It's quite hypocritical of me to say I hate being lied to since I myself in many cases am a liar. Everything I post on here is true. No if and's or buts. But in the real world I...
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    I moved to Texas 12 years ago, and rarely have I spent the holidays alone. I have traveled to see family or been with friends but I still feel alone or like I am crashing someone...
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    I hate being ignored but I also like being alone sometimes . I think we all hate being ignored but like alone time also
    Runawaywithme123 Runawaywithme123 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate being home alone. I'll go out with friends and family and have a blast but in the end I'm alone in my room. sometimes it irritates me and I make a quick decision to go out...
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    I hate being yelled. But what's worse? Being yelled at by an obvious immature moron; or being talked to dangerously calm by someone civil and mature? When I'm being yelled at I...
    XxLittleBrotherxX XxLittleBrotherxX 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 26

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    I had lived a very tough life. We are poor. I encountered bullying, discrimination, have been mocked and my father hates me. He even denied that I am his daughter and he seldom...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 8

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    "I wish I had a twin!", "If I pinch you will your twin feel it?", and "I like you better than your twin." All of those things have been asked/told to me in the past week alone...
    sarahjohnsony sarahjohnsony 18-21, F Dec 8

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    I really hate being a stepmom...which knowing me you would find so hard to believe. Due to having endometriosis and losing the only baby I ever conceived to a miscarriage caused by...
    Maylissa Maylissa 41-45 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Since my husband of 15 years left our 4 kids and myself for another mother at our kids school, I have become a person consumed with anger. He has had little contact with the...
    40startingagain 40startingagain 36-40, F 6 Responses Nov 25

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    I hate being yelled at. I hate to argue. I shut down and shut out. I won't participate. amazingly enough this action of doing nothing causes some to yell more.
    regalshewolf regalshewolf 41-45, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    I absolutely hate being lied to. I was seeing this boy and he told a really severe lie. We'll we were seeing each other for a bit. We decided to take things to the next step. I...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    As much as I hate being single, it's better than being used and getting hurt.
    Frankiehw Frankiehw 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5

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    I was molested and raped and ever since I hate being touched especially by men... I don't know why things like this happens but I wish it didn't.... know one ever cared enough to...
    cattie1283 cattie1283 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    I have my own children and I hate being a step mom! I know that doesn't sound right, but that's the way I feel. I met my partner about over a year ago. We've had a rough...
    Jeshayna Jeshayna 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I do hate being ditched.. I hate the fact that I still do care for the person who ditched me for no reason.. hell yeah, I want to stop caring but not able to :/
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Sometimes I hate being a black female. Why because white guys and men dislike black girls. The only reason they would date them is for the sexxxx. Which is wrong but it's true...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 21

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    I can't really say i hate being lied to because i also lie to other people all the time :o
    MariexOkay MariexOkay 13-15, F Nov 23

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    I hate being sick... Come kill me now so I don't have to suffer
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 24

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    I seriously hate being told no that's by I make my younger brother ask for me so my parents would say no to him not me.
    KyraAnia KyraAnia 13-15, F Nov 24

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    I hate being single around the holidays ugh
    adeechloe adeechloe 13-15, F Nov 27

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    I hate being ugly smh why do i gotta look like this
    miz0217 miz0217 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 1

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    if i know a person well i hate being ignored especially when they just suddenly stop responding for no apparent reason!
    romell romell 41-45, M Dec 2

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