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I Hate Being Single Whats Wrong With Me

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    I know my issue. I have major commitment issues.

    I will want a relationship so bad but when I finally get that, I want to break up with the guy or start "looking" at other guys (I never actually cheated, but I have flirted. O.o which made me feel guilty). I basically ruin it myself by acting distant or like a jerk. I don't...
    ChanelLove12 ChanelLove12 70+, F 3 Responses Sep 7

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    Have you ever felt like slowly dying

    because you have no one next to you to cuddle and hold onto? That's me right now 😔 I really wanna know what love feels like and I want someone to cuddle with...sigh
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    Being Single Is Horrible But I'Ve Got To Do It.

    The boy I loved doesn't love me at all. We've been split for 3 weeks and I've found out he is back with his ex girlfriend. His childhood sweetheart who he always longed to be with. Which means our year long relationship was all a lie. The problem is, I have never been loved like...
    notperfectbutgoodenough notperfectbutgoodenough 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    Loneliness Sucks!

    I'm 28 years old. Almost thirty soon. I hate being single as I'm gonna die alone. I spoil the woman I'm too loving caring and affectionate sexaholic. I have multiple sclerosis, degenerative disc disease, anemic. I have a 11in long and 3 in wide **** girls complain about. I'm very...
    kinkyjunebug13185 kinkyjunebug13185 26-30, M Apr 2, 2013

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    We don't need someone to be happy ,

    SO STOP ******* WHINING THAT YOU'RE SINGLE MAYBE BEING TAKING CAUSES A LOT OF STRESS OK HAVE ******* PATIENT ENJOY THE LITTLE THINGS OF BEING SINGLE NOW OK BYE.
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I feel like no one gets me

    and just want someone who does
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    My Life Sort Of Sucks.

    I'm average looking. and scared to death to be in a relationship. as soon as a guy expresse feelings towards me I run. Thinking what the hell is wrong with this dude? what do u see in me? All I'll do is end up hurting you or I'll not be good enough for you. Anyone else have a...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    ... been single for a

    while now and it sucks haha
    adventuretimer adventuretimer 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I hate being single. People tell me enjoy your

    time alone & find yourself.....funny thing is they are in a relationship or married. I cant stand being single it makes me feel bad
    Mysterygirl2694 Mysterygirl2694 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    How I Want To Feel Loved ...

    Gosh it bothers me that im single... i mean, i see all these cute couples and they holds hands in the hallways all cute and i wish i could be that girl. One day. Just, I mean i want to wait for that special guy, but sometimes i feel left out... Every one is like, guys will be all...
    16berga 16berga 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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    Single life sucks! -.

    - #HateBeingSingle
    mariah109 mariah109 18-21, F 6 Responses May 10

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    Everytime I like a guy they screw me over

    and just stop talking to me even after things are going really well. Today is the 3rd time its happened this month. This guy I like was supposed to pick me up and we were going to watch netflix at his house. He stood me up..he couldve atleast told me he couldnt make it. Instead...
    x0dollface x0dollface 18-21, F May 31

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    I hang out with my group of friends

    and they are all in relationships. I'm the only single one. Every time I try to get to know a guy they leave before they get to know me because I respect myself and don't put myself out there like a lot of girls. I just want someone who wants me for me. They are all talking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 23

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    My Next Six Years Alone

    Well this should be fun, I get to watch other people fall in love have sex and be happy. I will get to pursue my life alone and wait for people to criticize me on how pathetic my life is. When really, I am getting my associates degree and getting a job at a school, soon. I just...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 4 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I'm single I'm a virgin I'm a pile of crap no

    girl has ever liked me and no girl ever will. Every time I want a relationship it ends up with the girl telling me that we should stay friends because I believe in abstinence. Girls talk a lot of crap about the type of guy they want and then when I come along the virgin nerd I'm...
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 4 Responses May 21

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    I dont know if I want to be single

    or not... Sometimes I feel why am I single but then other times I feel like I don't want to be in a relationship... @love_thechase follow me Instagram
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F Aug 2

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    I tend to push people away

    when they get to close.. I let my emotions get the best of me and I just react out of fear, then I regret it so much after because really all I've done is make myself alone again. I have intimacy issues I don't know what they stem from but it's really hard for me to open up to...
    xplisit xplisit 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    I've been single for

    so long I can't remember what it feels like to be in a relationship w/someone. Everyone, even my most sketchiest friends are in some sort of relationship. I hate feeling left out when I'm amongst friends. Wtf! This sucks.
    FrenchBlues FrenchBlues 31-35 May 4

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    Whats Wrong With Me

    I'm tired of being single all my life I wanna have someone to love and to be loved by someone. I hate the fact I've been single for this long while friends had and have girfriends/ boyfriends what's wrong with me. I think I'm a pretty good guy I'm loving and caring. Everytime I...
    jrdkoch jrdkoch 18-21, M Apr 13, 2010

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    Terrible Fate

    I am twenty three and single. Both my sisters are married. Am I just meant to be single? I want so find someone just like anyone else. Grew up some what of a tomboy. But now am more into fashion finally. is my fate supposed to be single rest of my life? I really hope not, I...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 3 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    I have been single for 3 years

    now :/, I've been looking for a new girlfriend but girls now just don't like me. I don't know why, I respect girls, I give them what they want and all girls want is guys who give them nothing but ****
    pantylover95 pantylover95 18-21, M Nov 27, 2013

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    I don't get it, I'm fun,

    sweet, nice, oh well
    msg767 msg767 18-21, F Mar 3

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    Everyone around me is in a thriving relationship

    and I'm like the odd man out. They all tell me I'm sweet and caring... Then why does no one want me? That's the question of the century.
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Mar 1

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    pikachuux pikachuux 18-21, F Jun 28

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    VictorFernando18 VictorFernando18 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Men Want Someone Hot.

    As soon as they see someone that look like Megan Fox they automatically want to marry her. If they look like Emma Stone...they automatically wanna marry her. If they see someone average like us girls....it takes years of them to get attracted to us. US average looking girls...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 29 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    Seriously I can't figure out

    why I struggle to meet guys my age... Been single for 3years and with the big quarter century birthday approaching and friends all engaged. Married or having babies I feel like "will this ever happen?" I need my prince charming... Not because I NEED a man... I'm not that type of...
    lonelylady11109 lonelylady11109 22-25 1 Response May 11

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    I really hate being single.

    I've been single for a while. Is it that hard to find someone?
    ToWonderlandAlex ToWonderlandAlex 18-21, T Mar 18

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    Women say they want a man to treat them right.

    I am always a gentleman and ensure that if I take a woman on a date, that I am all for her and no other woman matters. I am kind, I care, I listen, but I feel I'm never good enough. Just took a woman out on a date and was a complete gentleman in every way. Her words not mine...
    Art2Design Art2Design 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    Related Experiences

    Being single is so boring. I'm 20 and STILL never had a proper relationship. And I do go out..not a shut-in. Women my age that I know already have/had relationships lasting years...
    naddo630 naddo630 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    Idek why I feel this way... I cry myself to sleep thinking I'm not good enough.,, I'm the problem child.. If my parents knew half the crap I've done.. They'd disown me... I feel...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I think I may just be sub-human because no normal human being thinks like I do. -.-
    ifearsnowmen ifearsnowmen 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    It's So Boring. No Morning Calls. No GoodNight Texts. No One To Hug Or Kiss. Or Sit In Their Lap. No One To Just Be Sweet To... Distance.... ******* Sucks.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I feel this way all the time. I'm such a failure in life. I try to stay positive, but it just doesn't work anymore. Sometimes, I wish somebody would put a bullet in my head and...
    NegativePulse NegativePulse 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I miss having someone there, that feeling of always nervousness when he was coming over or when I saw him. I just want the small things back of holding hands and pecks on the...
    ShatteredButNotLost ShatteredButNotLost 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I hate being single i want someone to love me and for me to love!
    Imaloner99 Imaloner99 13-15, F 22 hrs ago

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    I absolutely hate it when people ask me to smile. The strange thing is, is that it's always men who tell me to do this and its happened multiple times and still happens to this day...
    teeohfancy teeohfancy 18-21, F Sep 7

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    So it's me again. The guy that people seem to love to hate but I accepted the hate. I admit that a part of me miss having to think about someone else then me all the time. What I...
    ilikenetflix ilikenetflix 26-30, M Aug 30

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    I just love being by myself. I have time to think. My friends keep trying to hook me up with thier friends. I hate it though. I love being able to have peace and quiet in my life...
    sfdrboy sfdrboy 22-25, M Aug 26

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    I'm gay. Last September, I met this guy online a week before he moves to Edinburgh to study abroad for a year. I grew fond of him almost immediately and stayed in touch with him...
    Canonea Canonea 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    So...I am just going to do some point forms here to give a basis: I cannot combine the past 5 years into one story but as I go I would like to share my experiences and would love...
    Deflatedone Deflatedone 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 9

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    Can someone just hold me please? I hate being 13. I just got thrown out into puberty like a piece of crumbled paper, I have no idea what's going on at all. My life IS tough and...
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    For a while now, I have stopped thinking that I am ugly, I have stopped analysing what's wrong with my face. Today, I continued my old habit, which is sad, real sad. I looked into...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    So I've liked this girl in my 1st block for weeks. We talked for hours today. Somehow our conversation came to a point where she said I was too young for her. She's a junior. She...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Sep 4

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    So I've liked this girl in my 1st block for weeks. We talked for hours today. Somehow our conversation came to a point where she said I was too young for her. She's a junior. She...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 13-15, M Sep 4

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    I'm six feet tall and everyone "congratulates" me for that. They wish they were me, wanna be as tall as me. But I never wanted to be tall. The average hight in the PH is like 5"4...
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    I love being single :) I can do whatever I want :) No one to b**ch and moan and want to know what you're doing every second of the day!! Haha
    youaretheonlyexception youaretheonlyexception 26-30, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I'm not sure if I'm strange or normal but I just love being single & my friends don't get it . I like my life simple uncomplicated & most of all fun is that such a bad thing ?
    londonboy1 londonboy1 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I dislike talking about this sort of thing. I suppose it is because it makes me feel weak, I don't know. I have not felt right since I was really little. I have been anxious...
    jord4567 jord4567 18-21, M Aug 21

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    Say what you mean, mean what you say. What's so wrong with honesty?!
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 10

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