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I Hate Being Single Whats Wrong With Me

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    I tend to push people away

    when they get to close.. I let my emotions get the best of me and I just react out of fear, then I regret it so much after because really all I've done is make myself alone again. I have intimacy issues I don't know what they stem from but it's really hard for me to open up to...
    xplisit xplisit 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    Everyone around me is in a thriving relationship

    and I'm like the odd man out. They all tell me I'm sweet and caring... Then why does no one want me? That's the question of the century.
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Mar 1

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    I really hate being single.

    I've been single for a while. Is it that hard to find someone?
    ToWonderlandAlex ToWonderlandAlex 18-21, T Mar 18

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    My Life Sort Of Sucks.

    I'm average looking. and scared to death to be in a relationship. as soon as a guy expresse feelings towards me I run. Thinking what the hell is wrong with this dude? what do u see in me? All I'll do is end up hurting you or I'll not be good enough for you. Anyone else have a...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    My Next Six Years Alone

    Well this should be fun, I get to watch other people fall in love have sex and be happy. I will get to pursue my life alone and wait for people to criticize me on how pathetic my life is. When really, I am getting my associates degree and getting a job at a school, soon. I just...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 4 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I've been single for

    so long I can't remember what it feels like to be in a relationship w/someone. Everyone, even my most sketchiest friends are in some sort of relationship. I hate feeling left out when I'm amongst friends. Wtf! This sucks.
    FrenchBlues FrenchBlues 31-35 May 4

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    pikachuux pikachuux 18-21, F Jun 28

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    VictorFernando18 VictorFernando18 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Have you ever felt like slowly dying

    because you have no one next to you to cuddle and hold onto? That's me right now 😔 I really wanna know what love feels like and I want someone to cuddle with...sigh
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    Everytime I like a guy they screw me over

    and just stop talking to me even after things are going really well. Today is the 3rd time its happened this month. This guy I like was supposed to pick me up and we were going to watch netflix at his house. He stood me up..he couldve atleast told me he couldnt make it. Instead...
    x0dollface x0dollface 18-21, F May 31

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    How I Want To Feel Loved ...

    Gosh it bothers me that im single... i mean, i see all these cute couples and they holds hands in the hallways all cute and i wish i could be that girl. One day. Just, I mean i want to wait for that special guy, but sometimes i feel left out... Every one is like, guys will be all...
    16berga 16berga 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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    I hang out with my group of friends

    and they are all in relationships. I'm the only single one. Every time I try to get to know a guy they leave before they get to know me because I respect myself and don't put myself out there like a lot of girls. I just want someone who wants me for me. They are all talking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 23

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    Being Single Is Horrible But I'Ve Got To Do It.

    The boy I loved doesn't love me at all. We've been split for 3 weeks and I've found out he is back with his ex girlfriend. His childhood sweetheart who he always longed to be with. Which means our year long relationship was all a lie. The problem is, I have never been loved like...
    notperfectbutgoodenough notperfectbutgoodenough 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    Women say they want a man to treat them right.

    I am always a gentleman and ensure that if I take a woman on a date, that I am all for her and no other woman matters. I am kind, I care, I listen, but I feel I'm never good enough. Just took a woman out on a date and was a complete gentleman in every way. Her words not mine...
    Art2Design Art2Design 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 28

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    I hate being single. People tell me enjoy your

    time alone & find yourself.....funny thing is they are in a relationship or married. I cant stand being single it makes me feel bad
    Mysterygirl2694 Mysterygirl2694 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    We don't need someone to be happy ,

    SO STOP ******* WHINING THAT YOU'RE SINGLE MAYBE BEING TAKING CAUSES A LOT OF STRESS OK HAVE ******* PATIENT ENJOY THE LITTLE THINGS OF BEING SINGLE NOW OK BYE.
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Terrible Fate

    I am twenty three and single. Both my sisters are married. Am I just meant to be single? I want so find someone just like anyone else. Grew up some what of a tomboy. But now am more into fashion finally. is my fate supposed to be single rest of my life? I really hope not, I...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 3 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    Seriously I can't figure out

    why I struggle to meet guys my age... Been single for 3years and with the big quarter century birthday approaching and friends all engaged. Married or having babies I feel like "will this ever happen?" I need my prince charming... Not because I NEED a man... I'm not that type of...
    lonelylady11109 lonelylady11109 22-25 1 Response May 11

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    Single life sucks! -.

    - #HateBeingSingle
    mariah109 mariah109 18-21, F 5 Responses May 10

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    Whats Wrong With Me

    I'm tired of being single all my life I wanna have someone to love and to be loved by someone. I hate the fact I've been single for this long while friends had and have girfriends/ boyfriends what's wrong with me. I think I'm a pretty good guy I'm loving and caring. Everytime I...
    jrdkoch jrdkoch 18-21, M Apr 13, 2010

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    I'm single I'm a virgin I'm a pile of crap no

    girl has ever liked me and no girl ever will. Every time I want a relationship it ends up with the girl telling me that we should stay friends because I believe in abstinence. Girls talk a lot of crap about the type of guy they want and then when I come along the virgin nerd I'm...
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 4 Responses May 21

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    ... been single for a

    while now and it sucks haha
    adventuretimer adventuretimer 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    I have been single for 3 years

    now :/, I've been looking for a new girlfriend but girls now just don't like me. I don't know why, I respect girls, I give them what they want and all girls want is guys who give them nothing but ****
    pantylover95 pantylover95 18-21, M Nov 27, 2013

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    I don't get it, I'm fun,

    sweet, nice, oh well
    msg767 msg767 18-21, F Mar 3

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    Loneliness Sucks!

    I'm 28 years old. Almost thirty soon. I hate being single as I'm gonna die alone. I spoil the woman I'm too loving caring and affectionate sexaholic. I have multiple sclerosis, degenerative disc disease, anemic. I have a 11in long and 3 in wide **** girls complain about. I'm very...
    kinkyjunebug13185 kinkyjunebug13185 26-30, M Apr 2, 2013

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    Men Want Someone Hot.

    As soon as they see someone that look like Megan Fox they automatically want to marry her. If they look like Emma Stone...they automatically wanna marry her. If they see someone average like us girls....it takes years of them to get attracted to us. US average looking girls...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 29 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    I feel like no one gets me

    and just want someone who does
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I dont know if I want to be single

    or not... Sometimes I feel why am I single but then other times I feel like I don't want to be in a relationship... @love_thechase follow me Instagram
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Related Experiences

    Being single is so boring. I'm 20 and STILL never had a proper relationship. And I do go out..not a shut-in. Women my age that I know already have/had relationships lasting years...
    naddo630 naddo630 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Idek why I feel this way... I cry myself to sleep thinking I'm not good enough.,, I'm the problem child.. If my parents knew half the crap I've done.. They'd disown me... I feel...
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Am I crazy? I'm not your average teenager. I flip desks. I have anger issues. I punch walls. I pull my hair. I like playing with knives. I'm not afraid of bad news I just hate the...
    GisselleButCallMeGiGi GisselleButCallMeGiGi 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Lately for a little over a week now I've been feeling so emotional, super sad, all I want to do is cry. I'm a junior in high school and my boyfriend is leaving for college next...
    vaugustine vaugustine 16-17, F Aug 16

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    Be 100%. Do ya guys like girls with flat ***? Or some what of a ***? Not everyone blessed to have a ***. I'm on of them. The gym isn't working when I work out. Squats ain't working...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Jul 31

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    I've been sick with nausea, acid reflux, stomach pains, fatigue, constipation, and dizziness for a month and half. I've been to my personal doctor, the G.I. Specialist, the...
    gaileysarah gaileysarah 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    The weirdos just keep coming!
    SammySnm SammySnm 16-17, F 18 Responses Aug 3

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    It's So Boring. No Morning Calls. No GoodNight Texts. No One To Hug Or Kiss. Or Sit In Their Lap. No One To Just Be Sweet To... Distance.... ******* Sucks.
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I Hate Being Single , it Feels Like When Your Single . . You Find Yourself , I Have Been Single For 4 years . I Just Haven't Found The Right One Yet , I Want Someone I Can give My...
    DeeplyLoved43 DeeplyLoved43 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I hate how I cant find that one person who completes me I hate being single
    kikolola kikolola 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 4

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    I just love being by myself. I have time to think. My friends keep trying to hook me up with thier friends. I hate it though. I love being able to have peace and quiet in my life...
    sfdrboy sfdrboy 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    Now I tend to find being alone all the time isn't as fun loving as some folks see it. Now the other night I was sat down at the pub bar, drinking vodka & coke. Now I ain't a beer...
    ilikenetflix ilikenetflix 26-30, M Aug 1

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    I've been single for over a year. Everytime I talk to a guy either I PUSH them away or they just want sex from me cause I have big boobs. Lol I don't know what's wrong with me. I...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 1

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    I hate being in school because of all the mean ****** old teachers that make you run 4 laps around the astro or write the rules out 15 times for doing something wrong... But then...
    otakugamerwolf otakugamerwolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I have come to embrace being single. I've started to realized that being single isn't a curse but a gift. I'm not in some waiting room waiting for "real life" to start with my...
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    After my last relationship I think I will just wait until college before dating again. To me I don't see a point when most guys my age don't know how to treat a girl and how to...
    BeautifulCatastr0phe BeautifulCatastr0phe 16-17, F Aug 4

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    I am so tired of being single. But I am aware that one of the reasons I am still single is because I can't bring myself to be with someone just so I could be with someone. I can...
    rarariri rarariri 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I am sick of being single. I've been single for 3 years now and I have reached a point where it's really starting to get to me. Everyone I know is in already in a relationship or...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 29

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    Who isnt scared of this, but at this point who knows., finding a good partner n someone u can trust is soooooo hard. Sometimrs id rather b single 4ever than constantly meeting...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    Being single is awesome times. You don't have to worry about someone constantly wanting to talk, asking what your doing or where your at, you can hang out with whoever you want, do...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm tired of being single. Being alone. No one to talk to. No one to share my love & laughter with. I don't understand. I just want to be happy for once in my life. I want someone...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F Aug 1

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    I don't like being single. And I would love to meet a girl who loves to sing, who listens to almost all kinds of music, and who doesn't care about looks. And also someone who lives...
    JohnF1997 JohnF1997 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 28

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