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I Hate Being Single Whats Wrong With Me

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    I've been single for

    so long I can't remember what it feels like to be in a relationship w/someone. Everyone, even my most sketchiest friends are in some sort of relationship. I hate feeling left out when I'm amongst friends. Wtf! This sucks.
    FrenchBlues FrenchBlues 31-35 1 Response May 4, 2014

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    I know my issue. I have major commitment issues.

    I will want a relationship so bad but when I finally get that, I want to break up with the guy or start "looking" at other guys (I never actually cheated, but I have flirted. O.o which made me feel guilty). I basically ruin it myself by acting distant or like a jerk. I don't...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F Sep 7, 2014

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    Everytime I like a guy they screw me over

    and just stop talking to me even after things are going really well. Today is the 3rd time its happened this month. This guy I like was supposed to pick me up and we were going to watch netflix at his house. He stood me up..he couldve atleast told me he couldnt make it. Instead...
    x0dollface x0dollface 18-21, F May 31, 2014

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    Everyone around me is in a thriving relationship

    and I'm like the odd man out. They all tell me I'm sweet and caring... Then why does no one want me? That's the question of the century.
    13tides31 13tides31 18-21, M Mar 1, 2014

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    My Next Six Years Alone

    Well this should be fun, I get to watch other people fall in love have sex and be happy. I will get to pursue my life alone and wait for people to criticize me on how pathetic my life is. When really, I am getting my associates degree and getting a job at a school, soon. I just...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 4 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    ... been single for a

    while now and it sucks haha
    adventuretimer adventuretimer 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2014

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    I feel like no one gets me

    and just want someone who does
    Sparkles4Soul Sparkles4Soul 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 3, 2014

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    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 17, 2014

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    Single life sucks! -.

    - #HateBeingSingle
    mariah109 mariah109 18-21, F 5 Responses May 10, 2014

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    Women say they want a man to treat them right.

    I am always a gentleman and ensure that if I take a woman on a date, that I am all for her and no other woman matters. I am kind, I care, I listen, but I feel I'm never good enough. Just took a woman out on a date and was a complete gentleman in every way. Her words not mine...
    Art2Design Art2Design 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 28, 2014

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    I tend to push people away

    when they get to close.. I let my emotions get the best of me and I just react out of fear, then I regret it so much after because really all I've done is make myself alone again. I have intimacy issues I don't know what they stem from but it's really hard for me to open up to...
    xplisit xplisit 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 1, 2014

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    traciexxxx traciexxxx 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I dont know if I want to be single

    or not... Sometimes I feel why am I single but then other times I feel like I don't want to be in a relationship... @love_thechase follow me Instagram
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 16-17, F Aug 2, 2014

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    I hate being single. People tell me enjoy your

    time alone & find yourself.....funny thing is they are in a relationship or married. I cant stand being single it makes me feel bad
    Mysterygirl2694 Mysterygirl2694 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 2, 2014

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    I don't get it, I'm fun,

    sweet, nice, oh well
    msg767 msg767 18-21, F Mar 3, 2014

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    I'm single I'm a virgin I'm a pile of crap no

    girl has ever liked me and no girl ever will. Every time I want a relationship it ends up with the girl telling me that we should stay friends because I believe in abstinence. Girls talk a lot of crap about the type of guy they want and then when I come along the virgin nerd I'm...
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 4 Responses May 21, 2014

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    Seriously I can't figure out

    why I struggle to meet guys my age... Been single for 3years and with the big quarter century birthday approaching and friends all engaged. Married or having babies I feel like "will this ever happen?" I need my prince charming... Not because I NEED a man... I'm not that type of...
    lonelylady11109 lonelylady11109 22-25 1 Response May 11, 2014

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    Men Want Someone Hot.

    As soon as they see someone that look like Megan Fox they automatically want to marry her. If they look like Emma Stone...they automatically wanna marry her. If they see someone average like us girls....it takes years of them to get attracted to us. US average looking girls...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 27 Responses Nov 25, 2012

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    VictorFernando18 VictorFernando18 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12, 2014

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    I really hate being single.

    I've been single for a while. Is it that hard to find someone?
    ToWonderlandAlex ToWonderlandAlex 18-21, T Mar 18, 2014

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    I hang out with my group of friends

    and they are all in relationships. I'm the only single one. Every time I try to get to know a guy they leave before they get to know me because I respect myself and don't put myself out there like a lot of girls. I just want someone who wants me for me. They are all talking...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 23, 2014

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    As much as I hate being single,

    it's better than being used and getting hurt.
    Frankiehw Frankiehw 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 5, 2014

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    ... Girls sometimes act weirdly at my school

    sometimes making me feel like that chair up there^^. I feel mistreated. Honestly, they seem to go for just the ones that cheat on them and never hang out with them and do illegal stuff. They wonder why they dump them in 2 days or no reason and find another girlfriend then dump...
    GingaJustice GingaJustice 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2014

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    We don't need someone to be happy ,

    SO STOP ******* WHINING THAT YOU'RE SINGLE MAYBE BEING TAKING CAUSES A LOT OF STRESS OK HAVE ******* PATIENT ENJOY THE LITTLE THINGS OF BEING SINGLE NOW OK BYE.
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    When I tell people I'm single they look

    surprised. I don't know whether to feel flattered or think wtf is wrong with me then? I hate being single but I'm starting to think it's maybe for the best as I appear to only attract twats. And there's only so much disappointment a person can take... I think I'm going to just...
    0justme0 0justme0 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 5

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    Terrible Fate

    I am twenty three and single. Both my sisters are married. Am I just meant to be single? I want so find someone just like anyone else. Grew up some what of a tomboy. But now am more into fashion finally. is my fate supposed to be single rest of my life? I really hope not, I...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 3 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    I give up...I will be the old spinster woman

    who everyone feels sorry for...no one wants me or even looks twice... I'm so sick of being unwanted
    Mls1954 Mls1954 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2014

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    Being Single Is Horrible But I'Ve Got To Do It.

    The boy I loved doesn't love me at all. We've been split for 3 weeks and I've found out he is back with his ex girlfriend. His childhood sweetheart who he always longed to be with. Which means our year long relationship was all a lie. The problem is, I have never been loved like...
    notperfectbutgoodenough notperfectbutgoodenough 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    I have been single for 3 years

    now :/, I've been looking for a new girlfriend but girls now just don't like me. I don't know why, I respect girls, I give them what they want and all girls want is guys who give them nothing but ****
    Fetish4life Fetish4life 18-21, T Nov 27, 2013

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    My Life Sort Of Sucks.

    I'm average looking. and scared to death to be in a relationship. as soon as a guy expresse feelings towards me I run. Thinking what the hell is wrong with this dude? what do u see in me? All I'll do is end up hurting you or I'll not be good enough for you. Anyone else have a...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322 22-25 10 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    Have you ever felt like slowly dying

    because you have no one next to you to cuddle and hold onto? That's me right now 😔 I really wanna know what love feels like and I want someone to cuddle with...sigh
    osnapitzama osnapitzama 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2014

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    Loneliness Sucks!

    I'm 28 years old. Almost thirty soon. I hate being single as I'm gonna die alone. I spoil the woman I'm too loving caring and affectionate sexaholic. I have multiple sclerosis, degenerative disc disease, anemic. I have a 11in long and 3 in wide **** girls complain about. I'm very...
    kinkyjunebug13185 kinkyjunebug13185 26-30, M Apr 2, 2013

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    Whats Wrong With Me

    I'm tired of being single all my life I wanna have someone to love and to be loved by someone. I hate the fact I've been single for this long while friends had and have girfriends/ boyfriends what's wrong with me. I think I'm a pretty good guy I'm loving and caring. Everytime I...
    jrdkoch jrdkoch 18-21, M Apr 13, 2010

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    pikachuux pikachuux 18-21, F Jun 28, 2014

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    How I Want To Feel Loved ...

    Gosh it bothers me that im single... i mean, i see all these cute couples and they holds hands in the hallways all cute and i wish i could be that girl. One day. Just, I mean i want to wait for that special guy, but sometimes i feel left out... Every one is like, guys will be all...
    16berga 16berga 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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    Really though, is there something wrong with me??? Some kind of defect that makes nobody want to be with me???
    Raewyn95 Raewyn95 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Feel like there is something wrong with me!!! I get sad just seeing something that reminds me of people.
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    I don't want to be anyone else but me, I like me. My therapist says that there are all types of abnormal things about me. Yeah, I'm trying to figure that out, but that doesn't...
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    i just read three articles from chineese news first running sceaming gangs beat stray dogs to death with oars 2nd women accused of cutting of infant rabbits ears and crushing them...
    chuckzares chuckzares 26-30, M Jan 11

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    fuuuuuuuuuuck i feel crazy this dude outside waffle house was like "hey ma i got that medicine" im like "mu'fu*ker do i look sick?!" like dont fu$k wit me im not in the mood...
    snelletrail snelletrail 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Triggers? Maybe? Just be careful. I don't... even know where to begin. I wasn't abused. Nothing in my life has ever gone really, truly wrong. My mother was a young, single mother...
    dpenny96 dpenny96 18-21, F 9 hrs ago

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    Honestly, I ******* hate being ignored. I think being ignored is one of the worse feelings. I hate when I message my friends, and they don't answer, and it shows that they actually...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 10

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    I hate it I hate it, being single sucks and I guess i never be loved. Or ever have that relationship or ever love someone else or have that very special moment in my life, my first...
    Jstaples32 Jstaples32 16-17, M 3 Responses Jan 11

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    Like seriously, I am. It really bugs me when I'm talking to somebody and they tell me they're hungry but wont eat cause they're scared to get fat. Like what? Eating whenever you...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm in college, 3rd year, and I will admit I don't really know any people like that and I never tried to make an effort to. Sure I talk to others, but I've always been that one to...
    vadupree vadupree 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    I don't know where to start with this post, especially not if I don't want to be seen as ungrateful or spoiled. Maybe I am, I don't know. I'm ranting because I hate being...
    artist40 artist40 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    i hate it cause sometimes i think maybe it's a wrong move but i can't contact the person back.. But i won't put too much thought on it, what's done is done and if i'm blocked and...
    breeder18 breeder18 31-35, M 22 hrs ago

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    Damn I hate being a girl right now :/ don't get me wrong I'm not lesbian tho lol
    Hazel216 Hazel216 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Everytime I get sick and go to the doctor they always say I'm fine and there's nothing wrong with me, I'm obviously not fine or something is wrong with me if I came to the doctors...
    kenna760 kenna760 13-15, F Jan 14

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    What's wrong with being honest with someone. People would lie and not blink and eye. I Guess I'm just broken.