I Hate Being Single Whats Wrong With Me

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 555 People

    seriously, I know I'm not

    that good looking, but I just hate being alone. I atleast want a best friend to talk to :(
    izzyyxo izzyyxo
    16-17, F
    34 Responses Feb 7, 2015

    So I guess I'm an alright guy

    and I feel kinda stupid posting this. But I've never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone, never even been on a date. And it's not like that that is what my entire life is revolving around right now, and everyone says I am young and still have a lot of time to find a girl, but...
    PatDGE PatDGE
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 10

    Is hard to find someone,

    the crushes I've had doesn't like me, and I don't like the people that haved crushes on me (Not precisely a lot)
    toeichi toeichi
    22-25, M
    Jul 11, 2015

    I don't like being single.

    I hate coming home with no one to look foreword to seeing me or vice versa. I hate going to bed alone and I hate taking care of my own "needs"
    myshell91 myshell91
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 28, 2015

    Single life sucks! -.

    - #HateBeingSingle
    mariah109 mariah109
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 10, 2014
    Nautica1416 Nautica1416
    16-17, M
    Mar 11, 2015

    Seems like whenever I'm single no one wants me

    but as soon as I start talking to someone ppl want to talk to me and **** everything up and I loose that person like fml what's wrong with me
    longboarder22 longboarder22
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    Being single stinks. So far I have been single

    about 4 or 5 months. Though the shortest time I was single was for 5 DAYS.
    urmurgurd urmurgurd
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I don't get it, I'm fun,

    sweet, nice, oh well
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 3, 2014

    I'm sick of being single.

    I'm almost 21 and have never had a girlfriend. What is wrong with me? I'm not ugly or creepy. Every time I think I've found a nice girl they leave and decide they don't want me for whatever reason suits them. I feel so alone.
    Derfthequantumpotato Derfthequantumpotato
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Apr 19, 2015

    I know my issue. I have major commitment issues.

    I will want a relationship so bad but when I finally get that, I want to break up with the guy or start "looking" at other guys (I never actually cheated, but I have flirted. O.o which made me feel guilty). I basically ruin it myself by acting distant or like a jerk. I don't...
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog
    70+, F
    Sep 7, 2014

    ... Girls sometimes act weirdly at my school

    sometimes making me feel like that chair up there^^. I feel mistreated. Honestly, they seem to go for just the ones that cheat on them and never hang out with them and do illegal stuff. They wonder why they dump them in 2 days or no reason and find another girlfriend then dump...
    GingaJustice GingaJustice
    16-17, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2014

    i like girls i get turned on by some.

    .. but why cant i get a girlfriends ugh it annoying and i cant even tell if a girl is lesbian or not
    marsjay143 marsjay143
    18-21, F
    Jul 10, 2015

    Hi. I'm 25 years old,

    and I think I would consider myself a bit of a romantic. I really don't like being single and it genuinely gets me down I'm not with anyone. I'm busy studying a masters, working and have a good social life, but being single knocks my self confidence... A lot of my friends are...
    elliecara elliecara
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I feel like no one gets me

    and just want someone who does
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 3, 2014

    Hi guys so I'm new at this

    so I'm figuring everything thing out so Ya. But I go to an all girls high school. It's great I made new friends but at my old school we had mixers are school doesn't have mixers or proms. All my old friends that went on to different schools have boyfriends. It makes me feel sad...
    tuonogyrl tuonogyrl
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I tend to push people away

    when they get to close.. I let my emotions get the best of me and I just react out of fear, then I regret it so much after because really all I've done is make myself alone again. I have intimacy issues I don't know what they stem from but it's really hard for me to open up to...
    xplisit xplisit
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 1, 2014

    I wish I had someone to go home to on this

    rainy day. Someone to tell me I'm beautiful, someone to wait up for me. Being single is not fun anymore, wish I had someone to talk to throughout the day. Just someone to check on me. I truly do not understand what it is that I'm doing wrong for someone to not like me.... For...
    sweetbee221 sweetbee221
    22-25, F
    Apr 9, 2015

    tbh I don't mind being single,

    but sometimes I hate it BC I feel like there's something wrong with me. I ask myself.... Am I not worth it? Is there something about me that guys can love or like ? what am I doing wrong? I just don't get it.
    Kayla0504 Kayla0504
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    Have you ever felt like slowly dying

    because you have no one next to you to cuddle and hold onto? That's me right now πŸ˜” I really wanna know what love feels like and I want someone to cuddle with...sigh
    osnapitzama osnapitzama
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2014

    ... been single for a

    while now and it sucks haha
    adventuretimer adventuretimer
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2014

    Why does my ex girlfriend

    and I keep talking even though she knows she was wrong cheating and breaking it off .Maybe its the two years we shared and I'm the only guy who treated her good
    LoztSoul LoztSoul
    26-30, M
    May 23, 2015

    I have had a enormous crush on my sister's

    friend Maria We meet when my sister invited her to out house and we just stared at each other as soon as we saw each other At first my parents used to joke about us being together When she spend a night at are house I usually stay up but she would stay up with me after me...
    legalcobra6886 legalcobra6886
    13-15, M
    May 17, 2015

    let's have a vote. what is better,

    being single or being in a relationship?
    zakarmo14 zakarmo14
    13-15, M
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    Hate being so ugly...

    That's the main reason why I've been single for so long...
    gillbobaggins gillbobaggins
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Jul 12, 2015

    Everytime I like a guy they screw me over

    and just stop talking to me even after things are going really well. Today is the 3rd time its happened this month. This guy I like was supposed to pick me up and we were going to watch netflix at his house. He stood me up..he couldve atleast told me he couldnt make it. Instead...
    x0dollface x0dollface
    18-21, F
    May 31, 2014

    I dont know if I want to be single

    or not... Sometimes I feel why am I single but then other times I feel like I don't want to be in a relationship... @love_thechase follow me Instagram
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4
    16-17, F
    Aug 2, 2014

    Men Want Someone Hot.

    As soon as they see someone that look like Megan Fox they automatically want to marry her. If they look like Emma Stone...they automatically wanna marry her. If they see someone average like us girls....it takes years of them to get attracted to us. US average looking girls...
    LonelyGirl322 LonelyGirl322
    22-25
    25 Responses Nov 25, 2012

    i guess i will be single forever.

    ... im not good enough and guys don't like sad girls.....like me :(...
    newcarlis newcarlis
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2015

    As much as I hate being single,

    it's better than being used and getting hurt.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 5, 2014

    Being Single Is Horrible But I'Ve Got To Do It.

    The boy I loved doesn't love me at all. We've been split for 3 weeks and I've found out he is back with his ex girlfriend. His childhood sweetheart who he always longed to be with. Which means our year long relationship was all a lie. The problem is, I have never been loved like...
    notperfectbutgoodenough notperfectbutgoodenough
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2013

    i hate this ok sure i'm not like them,

    i don't talk like them, i don't act like them, i don't dress like them, i'm not as skinny as them so what. does it matter that i'm fat, does it matter that i don't talk to people i don't like, does it matter how i look or act. just why
    trueregret880 trueregret880
    16-17, M
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015

    I will probably always be single.

    as soon as something good comes my way I'm feeling great and bam he's not interested or not interested in a "relationship" or vise versa a guy really likes me I give him the benefit of the doubt after all you never know and once again bam I'm not interested, how do people find...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Sep 18, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    I hate being single. What is wrong with me?

    Am I not likeable? I lost a girl now a guy. I dont think I would be in a relationship. I am going to be someone raising cats in my house
    19BiGirl 19BiGirl
    18-21, F
    Mar 14, 2015

    I am just going to have to go out

    for myself and not be alone anymore.
    asert12345678 asert12345678
    31-35, M
    1 Response Jul 11, 2015
    traciexxxx traciexxxx
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 4, 2015
    benAverdin benAverdin
    13-15, M
    4 Responses Mar 2, 2015

    ugh...im sick of writing love songs I'm not

    even in love not yet anyway I'm sick of being single I'm 16 black chubby message me guys 14-18 if you want or need a boyfriend (I know I do) no one likes me tho they either block me,or ignore me or lead me on and :( I want a bf who loves me for me,someone who is loyal and...
    Nautica1416 Nautica1416
    16-17, M
    Mar 1, 2015

    U & Me forever this way www.

    nidhisuraj.com There are so many Love Stories in this world. Few stories become so famous but few are unsaid and been buried with time. Few others share their love stories with their friends, while some leave them as sweet memories for themselves within their hearts and few...
    evan003 evan003
    22-25, F
    Jul 21, 2015

    I've been single for

    so long I can't remember what it feels like to be in a relationship w/someone. Everyone, even my most sketchiest friends are in some sort of relationship. I hate feeling left out when I'm amongst friends. Wtf! This sucks.
    FrenchBlues FrenchBlues
    31-35
    1 Response May 4, 2014

    Being single is really beginning to suck bad.

    I've been single for way to long now and I think it's really starting to make me question myself a lot more.
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 10, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 1, 2015
    alax20 alax20
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 1, 2015

    i have been single for a while.

    :( i don't like it. but i think my neighbor likes me.
    randomart4lives randomart4lives
    13-15, F
    2 Responses May 8, 2015

    I give up...I will be the old spinster woman

    who everyone feels sorry for...no one wants me or even looks twice... I'm so sick of being unwanted
    Mls1954 Mls1954
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2014

    I hate being single. People tell me enjoy your

    time alone & find yourself.....funny thing is they are in a relationship or married. I cant stand being single it makes me feel bad
    Mysterygirl2694 Mysterygirl2694
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2014

    My relationships never seem to work out

    because I want commitment and they don't
    rebekkajane rebekkajane
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 9

    I hate being single I've never had a girlfriend,

    never even had a female friend tbh I suffer from social anxiety so I hate being round lots of people plus I'm super shy and I just feel like crap thinking about it. I have tried to concentrate on something I love e.g. Gaming but it comes back and haunts me ughh what's wrong with...
    ajit1995 ajit1995
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 19, 2015

    How I Want To Feel Loved ...

    Gosh it bothers me that im single... i mean, i see all these cute couples and they holds hands in the hallways all cute and i wish i could be that girl. One day. Just, I mean i want to wait for that special guy, but sometimes i feel left out... Every one is like, guys will be all...
    16berga 16berga
    13-15, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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