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I Hate Being Taken Advantage of

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    When people think u will always be there.

    .. That's how they'll treat u.... From today say bye to Martha ungrateful *** people đź‘‹
    marthabenzis marthabenzis 22-25, F 2 Responses May 18

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    Jilted Brain

    These words dieing to flow out, if only i could find a way to overcome this blockage of being able to express myself freely and openly and write the essence that is struggling to come out. Why do I need to feel guilty or bad for being who I am? Why this shame that boils inside me...
    fiercefoxyfire fiercefoxyfire 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2011

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    *me Too*

    Man. In the motel I'm working at. Frankly the some men ********. They think they can take an advantage of me. Yes. I got taken an advantage because I guess I'm nice or they see something is wrong with me. Frankly I'm a slow learner but I can still learn but at the slower pace...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    No 'welcome' Stamp, I Checked.

    I looked everywhere, twice, and there is no welcome stamp on my body so why in the hell am I always treated like a door mat? Work, family, home, all day long I get swarmed with people wanting my help, asking me to fix this or that, and damn it all I can't say no to people who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    I Really , Really Hate Being Lied To

    .............and treated like a fool, just because I am nice and trusting. I hate being taken advantage of . There are times in life when you just have to trust a person ( a doctor, a lawyer, a partner and at this particular time.......... a plumber ). I wouldnt´t hire their...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    And It's Worse

    when it's quiet at night, and the whole inncodent plays over and over in your head. ANd it REALLY sinks in..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Jan 24, 2010

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    This Is So Freaking True For Me.

    EVERYONE ALWAYS USES ME!!! I've been told many times that being good is what matters most in this lifetime but I disagree with every single person who says that. Sometimes, I wish I had no feelings. I wish I was a selfish, greedy person who knew how to take advantage of people. I...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2012

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    Enough Is Enough!

    Ok, I have finally snapped! I enjoy helping people, I like to be nice and treat others fairly, I have great work ethics and have always busted my back in doing my job to the fullest. I am sick and tired of having to cover for everyone's bloody laziness when it comes to work. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    So Wrong...

    I don't know why people think it's a good idea to take advantage of others. It just makes me so sad and tearful. And recently, I've been taken advantage of, by someone claiming to be my "friend". I was only used to give her and her boyfriend advice all the time. But...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 29, 2008

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    So many times I try to give ppl "the benefit of

    the doubt" that they won't take me for granted... Not take advantage of my kindness and won't hurt me because I would never do those things to them. I grew up believing treat ppl like u want to be treated and they will do the same..I've learned this is not true. Whether it's in...
    restor3 restor3 36-40, F 1 Response May 3

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    I always feel that if something has to be done

    I am always the first to be asked.. I mean I am flattered but it gets so overwhelming when everyone asks you to do so much.. It's like you feel that that's the only reason they like you.. Everyone including church people family friends.. And even the people I work with.. I know...
    mydarkangel mydarkangel 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 19

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    I had a bonfire for some close friends

    and my "best" friend invited her bf just so I can get grounded and **** so she can make out w/ her bf on my couch. This is bs. She hasn't spoken a word to me the whole time.
    CarCarVrumVrum CarCarVrumVrum 16-17, F Apr 18

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    I Just Feel Used

    when you bend over backwards to help others and in return they take full advantage of it and keep coming back and when its time to say thanks or show appreciation, like at christmas or your birthday, your forgotten. all year long no one helps you out or even offers to help you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 5, 2009

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    Because I have a soft heart and can't really say no to people or shout, some tend to take advantage of me..... how do I harden up.... saying I should just say no is easier said...
    Ashy0328 Ashy0328 22-25, F 16 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I don't like being used. At all
    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M Aug 23

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    I've had a day to think about it. And the more I think about it, the sicker I feel. I feel like sharing it here will help. That's all I can hope for at least. Last night I was...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I hate being judged by pathetic nasty people who have **** all better to do than be nasty and horrible to me and call me a creep etc for no ******* reason Just because I actually...
    caringcutie caringcutie 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I'm gay. Last September, I met this guy online a week before he moves to Edinburgh to study abroad for a year. I grew fond of him almost immediately and stayed in touch with him...
    Canonea Canonea 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 30

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
    kikinators kikinators 26-30, F Aug 26

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    i hate being a twin. Im the ugly one. everyone choses her over me. imagine being IDENTICAL and people chosing her over you . it ****** sucks. hatebeing a twin
    whoami7 whoami7 13-15, F Sep 1

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    I hate the fact i still need to wait 4 years to drive a car. I love the fact that i dont need to work yet. I hate the fact that i have to go to school. I love the fact that i have...
    iTzzMike iTzzMike 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 9

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    Okay seriously. If your busy tell me!!! I friggin hate being ignored. Like I can't even tell you how much I hate. & especially when it comes to clueless D.A guys. You can't say you...
    Country00Girl Country00Girl 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 25

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    I hate it, I hate being lied to, I mean it. So since I don't trust anyone, the good thing for me that I have found out is just don't f****** care about it. Because It's gonna hurt...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21, T 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't hate being an adult, but has anyone realized how fast your days are going by based on when your bills are due? Every week a bill is due, lol.
    MetaKat MetaKat 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Hate being ignored .. I want a sincere one around me always
    kevinmattt kevinmattt 46-50, M Aug 25

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    I hate being nice to little ***** who don't deserve it. *******....
    BrutallyHonest316 BrutallyHonest316 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    I hate being skinny. There's nothing more to say about it. My friends are always telling me how I should eat more, but really I eat just as much as any person, or even more! I just...
    xgirlyx xgirlyx 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    Ok so I hate being judged in general. I would be more open about my crossdressing to people I know IRL but I'm afraid to hear there reactions and they would think differently of me...
    Poopoohead17 Poopoohead17 18-21, M Sep 3

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    I love someone, he was once my close friend, we sometimes spend our times together, swimming, bicycling, and many more. Everytime i looked at his face, i just want to say, i love...
    Freimm Freimm 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    I hate being sick. Now for some reason, I've been sick (cold, flu) for past two weeks. It's so horrible. I've been few days at work and tried to live my life, but it just doesn't...
    ddaa0 ddaa0 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    I really hate being tickled.... I get violent. I literally have hurt people for tickling me. Not on purpose! But if you tickle me expect my physical reaction to be a punch, a kick...
    dazikame79 dazikame79 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I hate being bored stuck in a big city no friend hear and don't know what to do. why did I move?
    num1nat num1nat 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    If I were to die today I don't know what would become of my family. They would surely make it financially, but would they ever cook, clean, or tend to the home in any way. I am...
    rrainfall rrainfall 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    The amount of times I've been pined down and tickled is ridiculous, I think I'm gonna die everytime, then if my dogs there he'll take advantage and jump on me, lick me and go...
    jolley2k jolley2k 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Starting to feel like a horrible person! A little info on my situation - I am not married. I couldn't actually.. When he proposed I said that we need to do what's best for the...
    patientlove patientlove 22-25 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Before I start, please know I try to do all I can to be a great mom to my SD. I am involved with her school/ activities, homework, I take her places, make her meals, buy her...
    MargeSimpson31 MargeSimpson31 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I'm so open and honest, so I am offended when someone takes advantage of that. It makes me feel like i should more guarded. When i feel like there's something shady going on, I...
    2manysides 2manysides 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 25

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    Every day, I am afraid that some turkey will try to con me, manipulate me, take advantage of me or stuff like that. I'm not the most gullible person in the world, but still, I hope...
    nightpatroller78 nightpatroller78 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 27

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    This isn't my natural state. It's like every day is Halloween. Everyone's in their costumes. I seem to be sewn into mine. But everyone else seems to be enjoying the party, or they...
    Anyiel Anyiel 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have had tons of disgruntled men threaten rule me out as fake from the simple fact I limit my conversations and exchanges here, pixellate my eyes and have absolutely no wish to...
    Dfletch Dfletch 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm a man, even though the majority of the stories are from women, just thought I would add my own, maybe it will help me. When I was at school my nickname was pretty boy, did I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 24

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    I know my parents want the best for me, and that in all they do, they believe in their hearts that it's in my best interest. However, their actions don't always show that.Sometimes...
    EmilyE26 EmilyE26 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    Ya! People that message me if you want to be my friend good but if you just want to see me naked or be my boyfriend it won't work! I'm taken!!
    kaiovinicius kaiovinicius 13-15, M 1 Response Sep 12

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    I hate the fact that I'm turning into what I hate. I hated pervs and I became one, I hate cheaters yet I became one, I hated mean people yet I became one, and I hate people who...
    YLIhououin YLIhououin 18-21, M Aug 29

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    I am 38 weeks +3 days now. This whole pregnancy pretty much has beena nightmare come true. I never wanted another child. I sure as hell do not want to experience labor again but...
    dollhex dollhex 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    Okay so im 14 and im 5"10 and i wear a size 10. Btw im a girl. I really hate my height. Like idky other girls are like being tall is so cool n blah blah saying they wish they were...
    imbeyonce imbeyonce 13-15, F Aug 31

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    I'm exactly five feet tall and I absolutely hate it. Sure it great because you are "little and cute" but what if I don't want to be portrayed as that? Here's what it's like...I...
    LovelyLuna253 LovelyLuna253 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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