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I Hate Being Taken Advantage of

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 477 People

    Enough Is Enough!

    Ok, I have finally snapped! I enjoy helping people, I like to be nice and treat others fairly, I have great work ethics and have always busted my back in doing my job to the fullest. I am sick and tired of having to cover for everyone's bloody laziness when it comes to work. I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 25, 2012

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    I Just Feel Used

    when you bend over backwards to help others and in return they take full advantage of it and keep coming back and when its time to say thanks or show appreciation, like at christmas or your birthday, your forgotten. all year long no one helps you out or even offers to help you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 5, 2009

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    So Wrong...

    I don't know why people think it's a good idea to take advantage of others. It just makes me so sad and tearful. And recently, I've been taken advantage of, by someone claiming to be my "friend". I was only used to give her and her boyfriend advice all the time. But...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 29, 2008

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    It is a shame when a woman is taken advantage

    of. Woman was created to enhance not be token down by a man. I really try to avoid being used. It is bad enough what could happen out of our control. It is really not good to take woman for granted.
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    This Is So Freaking True For Me.

    EVERYONE ALWAYS USES ME!!! I've been told many times that being good is what matters most in this lifetime but I disagree with every single person who says that. Sometimes, I wish I had no feelings. I wish I was a selfish, greedy person who knew how to take advantage of people. I...
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2012

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    I always feel that if something has to be done

    I am always the first to be asked.. I mean I am flattered but it gets so overwhelming when everyone asks you to do so much.. It's like you feel that that's the only reason they like you.. Everyone including church people family friends.. And even the people I work with.. I know...
    mydarkangel mydarkangel 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    I Really , Really Hate Being Lied To

    .............and treated like a fool, just because I am nice and trusting. I hate being taken advantage of . There are times in life when you just have to trust a person ( a doctor, a lawyer, a partner and at this particular time.......... a plumber ). I wouldnt´t hire their...
    underconstruction underconstruction 41-45, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2010

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    When people think u will always be there.

    .. That's how they'll treat u.... From today say bye to Martha ungrateful *** people 👋
    marthabenzis marthabenzis 22-25, F 1 Response May 18, 2014

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    *me Too*

    Man. In the motel I'm working at. Frankly the some men ********. They think they can take an advantage of me. Yes. I got taken an advantage because I guess I'm nice or they see something is wrong with me. Frankly I'm a slow learner but I can still learn but at the slower pace...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2011

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    And It's Worse

    when it's quiet at night, and the whole inncodent plays over and over in your head. ANd it REALLY sinks in..
    lostprophet lostprophet 22-25, F Jan 24, 2010

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    Jilted Brain

    These words dieing to flow out, if only i could find a way to overcome this blockage of being able to express myself freely and openly and write the essence that is struggling to come out. Why do I need to feel guilty or bad for being who I am? Why this shame that boils inside me...
    fiercefoxyfire fiercefoxyfire 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 20, 2011

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    At school, even if I try talking nobody notices

    me or pays me any attention. Only when they absolutely need something do they acknowledge my existence.
    Rhinestoneyes Rhinestoneyes 16-17 Apr 18

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    TheVirginRapids TheVirginRapids 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I feel so frustrated sometimes.

    so incredibly angry and frustrated when people don't understand. they don't seem to get it. when i try to say that we don't talk as much, and he doesn't get it. i feel like i don't matter. and i just stay quiet. and when people take advantage of me I do their work for them. I do...
    n706 n706 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 5

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    So many times I try to give ppl "the benefit of

    the doubt" that they won't take me for granted... Not take advantage of my kindness and won't hurt me because I would never do those things to them. I grew up believing treat ppl like u want to be treated and they will do the same..I've learned this is not true. Whether it's in...
    restor3 restor3 36-40, F 1 Response May 3, 2014

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    I have this friend that is needy,

    dependent, and relies on others. She asked me for rides a lot along with other favors. We’ve been friends for a long time, since high school. I’ve helped her or done her favors. A while ago, I started to notice that she doesn’t really help me or do me favors. When I...
    hiitsme15 hiitsme15 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    No 'welcome' Stamp, I Checked.

    I looked everywhere, twice, and there is no welcome stamp on my body so why in the hell am I always treated like a door mat? Work, family, home, all day long I get swarmed with people wanting my help, asking me to fix this or that, and damn it all I can't say no to people who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 29, 2012

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    I had a bonfire for some close friends

    and my "best" friend invited her bf just so I can get grounded and **** so she can make out w/ her bf on my couch. This is bs. She hasn't spoken a word to me the whole time.
    CarCarVrumVrum CarCarVrumVrum 18-21, F Apr 18, 2014

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