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I Hate Being Taken For Granted

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    I'M Not A Little Girl Anymore!

    My mom thinks I'm a little stupid child. Two years ago I was at my aunts house downloading songs into my iPod and my brother noticed that I was getting a song by Nirvana called "Rape Me'', and my brother told my mom and asked me if I knew what that meant. I did, so she asked me...
    Maggotgirl Maggotgirl 16-17, F Mar 16, 2013

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    Taken For Granted

    You interrupt me when im doing something Important. You moan and moan. You rush me and rush me. When ive got it all sorted u **** off out and don't even want it. Do you even care about me and my feelings?
    Tori91 Tori91 22-25, F May 28, 2013

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    Don't Take Me For Granted!

    I think far too many people take me for granted and one day i want to disappear and then they will realize how much they took me for granted. People expect too much of me at times and i hate it. If i was't about would they miss me or just my presence? I think my problem i care...
    Raindrops18 Raindrops18 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    Fool Me Once.....

    I am honest, kind, caring, empathetic and generous,and sometimes too soft hearted for my own good.... I hate injustice, intolerance and persecution, and arrogance.... I will stick up for those i feel need it and deserve it, I will help anyone if it is in my power to do so.... for...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2011

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    Emotional Immaturity.

    That's all I have to say about it.
    Infinite9 Infinite9 70+, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    I Hate When My Generousity ...

    I hate when my generousity is taken for a weakness, and it's even worse when people just assume that I'm going to do something for them.
    evilkittymew evilkittymew 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 24, 2008

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    With a Passion!

    I can't stand it when someone takes me for granted.  Sometimes I take people for granted. I try not to but it's kinda something that just happens with time. It sucks. Especially when someone takes me for granted because I have had self esteem issues for most of my life...
    marinewife24 marinewife24 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2007

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    Don't Like Being Taken For Granted

    Don't like being taken for granted but that's the way it seems here where I live in an assisted living place.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 8, 2011

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    Taken For Granted

    I hate the way in all my worlds in life people just take me for granted, its not very often people actually appreciate what I do for them. I dont need a lot from anyone but just to be acknowledge sometimes, can make the world of difference. Maybe I am just to giving and that is...
    Supagloo Supagloo 41-45, F May 27, 2010

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    What Do You Get When You Cross..

    a good looking guy that is too nice with any number of girls? "friendship"
    EntrepGuy EntrepGuy 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    The One That Loves to Say It Can Get Taken For Granted

    I have always left little as mystery to those I care about. If I like you you will have little doubt.  If I love you its easy to tell (If I ever dote on your your health this is a huge tell..that I am well beyond liking you).  I have lost dear friends to simple health...
    purepotential purepotential 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    So Sick

    I seriously can't take it anymore. It's ridiculous, why do people think they can walk all over me? What is it about me in particular that leads people to believe they can take me for granted? Sometimes I honestly wish I wasn't so giving/caring. I'm not trying to act like I'm...
    mandi2590 mandi2590 22-25, F Sep 12, 2012

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    I'm Not Your Chicken-hearted Man.

    If you think you can play with me, come ... I waits behind the hedge, we will explain !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    Granted

    I think people might be taking me for granted. They are thinking that I will always be doing that, or always be doing this. And it got me thinking, what if I died in that car accident? Then what would people be doing without me.
    Y23Y Y23Y 18-21, M Nov 14, 2013

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    Truly

     I truly do hate it.. problem is i never see it in time. I always take a hit right were it hurts. The thing that hurts the most is it is usually my so called friends that do it. But i crave real friends i become blind to there real intentions... It has happened to me so many...
    LunaWolff LunaWolff 18-21, F Aug 30, 2009

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    The Doormat

    I usually quietly give my help, affection, and services. I do not see the point in constantly reminding people that I am giving. They should know since they get so much from me, right? No. No. and NO! One girl whose vomit I have clean, to whom I have given my bed and slept on the...
    Thepinkcoconut Thepinkcoconut 18-21, F Mar 7, 2013

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    Quietguy1234 Quietguy1234 18-21, M Aug 23

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    I Do It All and It's Still Not Good Enough!

    I'm sick of doing it all and its still not good enough!  Why do you always bring me down! Why is it your still are able to do this to me!  Why can you make me feel this way!  Why do you push me so far that I'm broken!  I've done it all for so long...
    tks tks 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    I tell you, "I miss you"

    and you reply with only a "hi". How cruel and heartless is that.
    kikimyst kikimyst 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Look Out For You

    I like to help people.  I find it hard to say no to most things.  This is especially true with good friends and people i look up to.  I help them out in the hopes that it will make me feel good and that maybe that i might be helped someday in return when i really...
    cnherr cnherr 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 28, 2010

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    I am married to a woman

    that has 4 kids with 3 different guys none are mine I love her and the kids I work hard and want the best for them but my wife doesn't let me parent and never tries to help pay the bills even though she works she and the kids do not seem to care if I am happy or anything my...
    fraiser1977 fraiser1977 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 22

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    I married my husband five years ago today.

    He spent the day with his brothers and wanted me to make him a snack when he got home. No flowers, no card, no kiss. He offered to take me to the pizza place up the street. I should be trilled, but after five years of marriage and close to ten of dating, don't I deserve a little...
    Sarcasticvixen Sarcasticvixen 36-40, F 9 Responses Aug 9

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    For Some It Becomes a Way of Life

    If you have it done to you for a long time, it just becomes second nature to expect it from those that you know are doing you wrong.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 27, 2008

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    Why Do People Do This?

    I mean...Yes I try to be there, yes I try do what I can to help. I do like helping people but...That doesn't mean that I deserve to yelled at because I can't help because I'm dealing with my own problems. Yes I know, the people, most of them, that I help would get offended...
    Treval Treval 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    It'S A Crying Shame

    It is a crying shame that people think that they can take me for granted. Just because I wear my heart on my sleeve, I am a genetic female, and that I will give you the shirt off my back, doesn't mean you can take me for granted. I may help you 99 times out of 100, there is going...
    Bubbles48509 Bubbles48509 36-40, F Feb 15, 2013

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    I'm constantly being taken

    for granted. Just because I'm nice doesn't mean I'm weak. Why is it that I have to disappear for any of them to realize I mattered. It's not only my friends anymore it's also my family. I'm always there for all of them and try my best to always help when I can. Is it too much to...
    MHam0528 MHam0528 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 14

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    Taken For Granted

    Taken for granted,Hate it,Shouldn't be,Not on,Not my style.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Oct 28, 2012

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    I Do

    i hate to be taken for granted . especially in my personal life . i just feel like some days that no one relaizes how hard it is for me to function as a human being and doing some stuff is very hard for me to do . hell even walking some days is hard for me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 14, 2010

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    Generally I am a really nice considerate person.

    I do things for people because i want to help and love to see the smiles on their faces. I offer people things when I know they are lacking of something. And it really sucks, that after, people aren't considerate towards me. I'm not looking for a reward you know.. its hard to...
    acadiaisgone acadiaisgone 13-15, F 3 Responses May 19

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    Many People Take Me For Granted

    My kids (the younger ones) take for granted that Mom is always going to be there for them.  Of course they are young, and consider me to be superhuman and immortal.  My husband takes me for granted.  He is very spoiled.  He tends to balk like a child when...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    When people expect me to drop everything

    and do what they want. Then the worse part is if I do help them, then ask for help myself they tell me no or the majority of the time just laugh.
    CowboyFarmer CowboyFarmer 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    I paid for my fiancé to go to college.

    I worked two jobs, cooked every meal and ran the house so she could study. Her libido disappeared and soon wouldn't touch me at all. After 8 months of this I also discovered that whilst I paid rent and bills, working two jobs to do so, she had been collecting an allowance from...
    deklan deklan 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Yeah, I seriously am. It's probably why I don't have any freakin' friends anymore. I don't even know what a friend means. How messed up is that? I used to be the type where I would...
    NeelraDorianGray NeelraDorianGray 31-35, F Oct 3

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    Every time I enter a relationship, I give it my all. I make that person my sun, moon and stars. I make them my everything. I want to be the perfect girlfriend. I want to give it...
    regretlesswriter regretlesswriter 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 2

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    They are all bitchs hat'em ****'em all them HATE TH EM...
    Demonblood Demonblood 13-15, M Oct 3

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    I got blocked by the user weathermichael just because I lived overseas. Such a dope seriously -.-
    90slove 90slove 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 24

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    Would you lie I someone you love?? If you said yes to this then your not any where close to the right kind but I hate being lied to but think about this why do we lie?? Why do you...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I hate being ignored! I can't stand when I ask someone a question then they don't respond to me and when I ask again they Yell the answer at me Like im annoying them with my...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    I hate being lied to and I hate lying but I had to tell my boyfriend a little bit of a lie about his birthday present since i want it to be a surprise but he guessed what it is :(
    behappy4 behappy4 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I hate being in a house with a woman who's supposed to be my companion but more of a roommate! The passion is gone. The warmth is gone. The companionship is gone. All there is are...
    SweetHugs SweetHugs 41-45, M Sep 29

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    I hate being in a house with a woman who's supposed to be my companion but more of a roommate! The passion is gone. The warmth is gone. The companionship is gone. All there is are...
    SweetHugs SweetHugs 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    I hate being the last person on his list.. Outside of work & the kids - I am last. I'm tired of him getting calls/texts everyday from his ex.. Interrupting anytime I ever get with...
    patientlove patientlove 22-25 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I hate being clod in bed especially my feet . I hate it when my feet's cold .
    wildman43055 wildman43055 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I hate it, I hate being lied to, I mean it. So since I don't trust anyone, the good thing for me that I have found out is just don't f****** care about it. Because It's gonna hurt...
    LuckyLam LuckyLam 18-21 2 Responses Sep 21

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    My husband has gone out and my son has gone to his grandmas and I hate being myself because I realise I have no meaning other than being a wife and a mother is that sad?
    ThoughtIknewLove ThoughtIknewLove 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    Lying is such a big turn off, I hate being lied too! Usually I already know what's going to happen, what the answer is, if I have this feelings that I'm being lied too..don't you...
    lifelessons15 lifelessons15 16-17, F Oct 9

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    I'm trying to keep myself From being extremely bored while I'm on fall break from school. I still hate being extremely bored and most times I feel like no one wants to talk to me...
    wmc1244 wmc1244 16-17, M Oct 9

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    I hate being lied to! And I'm sick of being lied to! What do I have to be a FBI agent!
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I really hate being shy and it's annoying. I really can't stand my ground that much and Im shy in front of the classroom giving a speech or something like that. I wish I wasn't...
    TornadoStar TornadoStar 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29