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I Hate Being Taken For Granted

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    Taken For Granted - You interrupt me when im doing something Important. You moan and moan. You rush me and rush me. When ive got it all sorted u **** off out and don't even want it...
    Tori91 Tori91 22-25, F May 28, 2013

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    It'S A Crying Shame - It is a crying shame that people think that they can take me for granted. Just because I wear my heart on my sleeve, I am a genetic female, and that I will...
    Bubbles48509 Bubbles48509 36-40, F Feb 15, 2013

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    For Some It Becomes a Way of Life - If you have it done to you for a long time, it just becomes second nature to expect it from those that you know are doing you wrong.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 27, 2008

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    I Do - i hate to be taken for granted . especially in my personal life . i just feel like some days that no one relaizes how hard it is for me to function as a human being and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 14, 2010

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    Look Out For You - I like to help people.  I find it hard to say no to most things.  This is especially true with good friends and people i look up to.  I help them...
    cnherr cnherr 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 28, 2010

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    As the saying goes: You never know what you really had until it's gone! Do not take me granted, being nice is not a sign of weakness, it a matter of choice.
    001goodguy65 001goodguy65 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 13

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    The Doormat - I usually quietly give my help, affection, and services. I do not see the point in constantly reminding people that I am giving. They should know since they get so...
    Thepinkcoconut Thepinkcoconut 18-21, F Mar 7, 2013

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    Taken For Granted - I hate the way in all my worlds in life people just take me for granted, its not very often people actually appreciate what I do for them. I dont need a lot...
    Supagloo Supagloo 41-45, F May 27, 2010

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    I'm constantly being taken for granted. Just because I'm nice doesn't mean I'm weak. Why is it that I have to disappear for any of them to realize I mattered. It's not only my...
    MHam0528 MHam0528 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'M Not A Little Girl Anymore! - My mom thinks I'm a little stupid child. Two years ago I was at my aunts house downloading songs into my iPod and my brother noticed that I was...
    Maggotgirl Maggotgirl 16-17, F Mar 16, 2013

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    What Do You Get When You Cross.. - a good looking guy that is too nice with any number of girls? "friendship"
    EntrepGuy EntrepGuy 22-25, M 7 Responses Dec 1, 2007

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    When people expect me to drop everything and do what they want. Then the worse part is if I do help them, then ask for help myself they tell me no or the majority of the time just...
    CowboyFarmer CowboyFarmer 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 12

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    Don't Like Being Taken For Granted - Don't like being taken for granted but that's the way it seems here where I live in an assisted living place.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 Dec 8, 2011

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    Fool Me Once..... - I am honest, kind, caring, empathetic and generous,and sometimes too soft hearted for my own good.... I hate injustice, intolerance and persecution, and...
    lostlittlefirefly lostlittlefirefly 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 23, 2011

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    Many People Take Me For Granted - My kids (the younger ones) take for granted that Mom is always going to be there for them.  Of course they are young, and consider me to be...
    angeleyes2009 angeleyes2009 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 20, 2009

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    Granted - I think people might be taking me for granted. They are thinking that I will always be doing that, or always be doing this. And it got me thinking, what if I died in that...
    Y23Y Y23Y 16-17, M Nov 14, 2013

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    Don't Take Me For Granted! - I think far too many people take me for granted and one day i want to disappear and then they will realize how much they took me for granted. People...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 30, 2013

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    I'm Not Your Chicken-hearted Man. - If you think you can play with me, come ... I waits behind the hedge, we will explain !
    juliegirlie juliegirlie 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 15, 2012

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    I Do It All and It's Still Not Good Enough! - I'm sick of doing it all and its still not good enough!  Why do you always bring me down! Why is it your still are able to do...
    tks tks 36-40, F 9 Responses Nov 22, 2007

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    Taken For Granted - Taken for granted,Hate it,Shouldn't be,Not on,Not my style.
    startinover1 startinover1 46-50 Oct 28, 2012

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    With a Passion! - I can't stand it when someone takes me for granted.  Sometimes I take people for granted. I try not to but it's kinda something that just happens with time...
    marinewife24 marinewife24 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 15, 2007

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    So Sick - I seriously can't take it anymore. It's ridiculous, why do people think they can walk all over me? What is it about me in particular that leads people to believe they can...
    mandi2590 mandi2590 22-25, F Sep 12, 2012

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    The One That Loves to Say It Can Get Taken For Granted - I have always left little as mystery to those I care about. If I like you you will have little doubt.  If I love you...
    purepotential purepotential 36-40, M 2 Responses Feb 17, 2008

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    Why Do People Do This? - I mean...Yes I try to be there, yes I try do what I can to help. I do like helping people but...That doesn't mean that I deserve to yelled at because I can...
    Treval Treval 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 10, 2007

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    I Hate When My Generousity ... - I hate when my generousity is taken for a weakness, and it's even worse when people just assume that I'm going to do something for them.
    evilkittymew evilkittymew 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 24, 2008

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    I try everything to keep him happy because I want to, give him the world if I can but somehow I still get treated like **** when he's upset
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    "Oh, you're sad? It's just puberty." "You're just a teenager." How about NOT judging me and actually listening to me? Why the hell can't I be taken seriously? Yes, I'm teenager...
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    Who doesn't -_- ........ ?!
    Ned72 Ned72 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 21

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    I have a boy friend who says he loves me but I don't know sometimes I feel like he only wants sex and I feel like I can't trust him with personal things like this morning he went...
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 22

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    Yesterday something happened in the girl change room Someone put my friend close in bathroom then she blamed me when I did't do it. I got mad punched something hurt my nucleus .
    KMR4632 KMR4632 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I hate being desperate for love but it is such a great feeling. I wish I never had that first relationship so that I wouldn't have to deal with this ****
    Pain1374 Pain1374 18-21, M Mar 19

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    I know it's wrong to hate who I am. God made me this way for a reason. But I hate being female. It doesn't feel right. I can't relate to other girls. I mean, I can relate to girls...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    My parents sometimes have these little outbursts for no reason and sometimes I get the blame for said outbursts even though I didn't do anything wrong. The only times i've...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 28

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    I hate being in pain... It makes me feel sad and alone. I have poor tolerance in pain... And I hate it even more... When I am sick and weak, I just think that physical pain is just...
    graceyflux graceyflux 26-30, F Mar 29

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    I hate being mad at other people and my self. When I get mad I get really confused because I don't want to be mad at someone and it doesn't make sense to be mad at nothing or no...
    Potter66 Potter66 16-17, F Apr 7

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    Being Alone is the suckiest feeling in the world!!! I would be stuck to someone 24-7 if I could.... People say it's not healthy.... But I say, it's the way I'm made!! I hate being...
    DeeDee32 DeeDee32 31-35 4 days ago

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    Is it just me or are loads of (young) people just signing up to attack what you wrote just for the fun of it?? Some haven't even read through the whole story and based their...
    makingimpossiblepossible makingimpossiblepossible 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I hate being sick I can never do anything
    amarie0710 amarie0710 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I hate being so tall. Most of my friends my age are shorter and I look like a giant. I have only two older friends who are taller and they are male! So that doesn't really count
    Diana14R Diana14R 18-21, F Apr 5

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    I Hate Being a Teenager But I still kinda Like it .
    yoyo526 yoyo526 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Well, I hate being the youngest eldest one in our family. I'm almost 20 years old, and my family still treats me as if I'm 15 years old. Like for instance, my cousin had thrown a...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Yeah, Im a stoner. I have no problem telling people that I am, but I hate being sterotyped against. Just because I smoke doesnt mean I dont have a job. I intern for a world...
    TheVampireQueen92 TheVampireQueen92 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    I've scanned through several stories, most of which I can relate to. I too, hate being a "stepmom". I'm more of a glorified babysitter every other weekend/holiday. Ya know, the...
    JustMe2209 JustMe2209 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 18

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    I hate being me. My husband died of ALS, Lou Gherigs disease, and has been rotting in the ground for almost 3 years. He abused me and didn't help me in my hour of need. I now have...
    justmealaone justmealaone 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I feel like every one is using me for something I hate being used
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    It is tough for me because as much as I hate being in crowded places and surrounded by too many people, I really do love going to concerts.. More crowded it can't really get, right...
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F Mar 31

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    Me and my boyfriend were going through a rough patch and I missed him a lot. Most people say young people cant be in love and most of the time I agree but I love this guy to bits...
    courtneytaylor courtneytaylor 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I hate being ignored especially by the person I really like and care for. I know I sometimes I can be annoying I think but I think you should just tell me instead of me loving you...
    iloveyoutooboo iloveyoutooboo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm a single mom of an 11th grader. I met the most wonderful guy who happens to be a father of 3. He has a 19, 15, & 12 year old. The 19 year old lives on her own. This guy...
    stepmominpgh stepmominpgh 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 16

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    Why can't people stay home when they are sick? They have to come to work and spread their germs! For their selfish acts now I'm sick! I hate being sick! I haven't been sick for...
    WhoIsLiz WhoIsLiz 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I really do hate being judge by people but somehow I always end up not caring about it or even pay attention about it since I don't wake up everyday to please everyone nor look...
    Acesha16 Acesha16 18-21, F Mar 31