I Hate Being the Last to Know

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    No Matter How Much I May Hate It...

    I still am always the last to know.  At least, that is how it feels.  Especially at work, where I feel there may be a conspiracy to withhold information from me.  The communication is so dysfunctional there that maybe I don't want to know!
    debmichelle debmichelle
    36-40
    May 29, 2008

    Sometimes I feel It will be my Autopsy

    before I find out I'm dead
    Ishapian Ishapian
    36-40, M
    Apr 3

    Somehow Always Am

    I think maybe because I don't act interested in gossip so people don't bother to tell me anything.  Then when I do hear about it, I'm like, "What"!??? Not being a gossip monger has it's privileges, like being told secrets, but it sure does s uck not hearing about...
    darlene darlene
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Feb 23, 2008

    What Are You Afraid Of?

    For some reason, almost no one I know (especially family) wants to tell me anything. About me. I'm a great listener & secret keeper so they freely give me sordid unsolicited personal details. But when it comes to me, it's like they're walking on eggshells. They're also...
    QuixoticKidEternity QuixoticKidEternity
    31-35
    10 Responses Feb 26, 2008

    I Hate Being The Last To Know

    Where I'm staying is in assisted living place and sometimes wants scheduled is cancelled and I tend to be one of the last to find out. I don't like being the last to know.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    66-70
    Dec 8, 2011

    Annoying!!

    omfg. its so irrating.....i hate when someone is suppost to tell you something and you hear it from everyone but that person and then the next week they come up to you and tell you and all you can say is i know or ohhh i mean i think if it is about you or something i belive that...
    rockinkandy rockinkandy
    18-21, F
    Sep 3, 2008

    BFF

    Being the last to know is purley the worst thing. I was the last person to know about Travis's death and funeral. It almost killed me.
    FolsomOrchid FolsomOrchid
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 12, 2008

    Don`t I Matter?

     i have feelings.why is it everyone thinks i don`t have the right to know?when my mom found out she was ill every one else knew before i did.but it isn`t the first time.every time something major comes along,i am told last.it is hurts.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself
    36-40
    Oct 25, 2009

    Big Time

    I can usually see it before everyone ... if it's right in front of my eyes. However most things occur away from me. Gossip and the grapevine have way far out (I think) and I get to be the last to know.   I'd like to think they save the best for last ... but I know that's...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    1 Response Nov 16, 2009

    Its Horrible

    i think its horrible to be the last to know especially when it is something to do with you, like about to get the sack, or partner cheating on you. i reacently was one of the people that knew there were two people up for losing your job, and it felt horrible knowing it...
    jossiemarie jossiemarie
    22-25, F
    May 10, 2008

    About Anything..........

    I was the last one to know my uncle had passed away. I was the last one to know that a certain someone was sleepin' with my ex. P!sses me off when all this sh!t hits the fan & I'm not told anything til I'm covered in it. With the friends I've had........Who the HELL needs...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 11, 2009

    Oh No No No!

    When everyone else around you already knows the truth and they're just waiting for you to fall on your face...yeah that sucks......:( it's not fun not fun at all. they'll just take from you what they want when you fall.. that's why you're the last to know... so they can take...
    PMCLaura13 PMCLaura13
    16-17, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2008

    Self-Inflicted Misery

    Hope...It is a blessing, and a curse.I do hate being the last to know, but I am starting to see that I bring these things on myself. When I believe in something, I have this hope that nothing can kill. This determination that everything will be okay eventually. But that's not...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2013

    ...

    ...If you have something to tell me do it straight up and honestly. Don't wait for someone else to tell me because it makes it so much worse.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    18 Responses Dec 10, 2009

    And Yet

    I always seem to be :( I will sign my name so this piece can go through. MsD
    MsSerendipity MsSerendipity
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 3, 2010

    Stupid

    Sometimes, I just completely miss out on things. And then someone speaks about something and I have absolutely no idea what they're talking about. And then they explain it to me and say "Didn't you know that?" I hate that..
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente
    18-21, F
    Jun 25, 2008

    I Am a Know It All

    I am not one of those know it alls that think they know everything, I am the kind that likes to know what's going on.  I don't like being out of the loop with my friends, so when someone says, oh yeah did you hear this about so-and-so and I haven't heard, I fell left out.
    institches1981 institches1981
    26-30, F
    Apr 21, 2008
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