I Hate Being Told What I Can Or Can't Do

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    and who i can and cant hang out with

    and stuff! it annoys me so much!
    NicoleGabriella NicoleGabriella
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 31, 2014

    Throughout my high school career I've become

    closer and closer to one of my teachers. No, not in a sexual way, but in a string friendship bond. She knew how to help me when I had panic attacks and she knew when to listen to my problems. It seemed as if she were a better mom than my own real mom. So, I went through...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 26, 2015

    Actually I do enjoy it.

    It give me a reason to question and judge someone's self proclaimed authority. That and to prove them wrong through my abilities.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits
    22-25, M
    Nov 12, 2014

    Oh I Can't?

    JUST   WATCH   ME !!!!!!!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 8, 2009

    :)

    It causes me to try to do just the opposite of what the demander wants.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    Nov 7, 2009

    I Am The Arbiter Of My Own Life...

    The "people who know" think they can control my every action. They have a so-called "duty of care" because I am obligated to let them do my personal and domestic care. The ONLY disability I have is social... I wish they'd just GO AWAY.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 7, 2009

    I hate when people I don't think you can handle

    this job. Before I can even do the job People think worst about me. I hate it. They don't know what I can handle or not
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    Nov 12, 2014

    Even when I know I actually can't do something,

    I still hate hearing someone tell me I can't. For once I want someone to actually believe in me, not just some empty words, but actual belief I can do something.
    catvoid catvoid
    18-21, F
    Nov 11, 2014
    kyanitestone186 kyanitestone186
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2015

    And yet i am not a leader !

    Boy i am messed up lol kind a woman who wants snow in June lol ;)
    anasteel2 anasteel2
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 11, 2014

    I had a dad. I don't need your opinion on what

    you feel is right or wrong. I've been making my own decisions for decades now.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 11, 2014

    "You can't be friends with him cause I said so!

    He creeps me out." "WOW I can't believe you like that guy he looks so ****** ratty." Bla bla ****** bla. Always trying to control my life and make sure I never leave your claws. Well guess what? You will never have to deal with my taste in men or the people I like being friends...
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa
    18-21, F
    Jan 31, 2014

    I work over 9000x harder

    when told when I can't do something.
    Tak162015 Tak162015
    18-21, M
    Apr 12, 2015

    I hate more or less the condescending attitude

    that comes along with it more than anything. However I don't listen to if I feel forced too. So it doesn't really work on me.
    FreightTrainOG FreightTrainOG
    22-25, M
    Apr 4, 2015

    by guys with no authority over me

    or my life like take several seats. .
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies
    18-21, F
    Apr 3, 2015

    I have a great example

    for this one. In middle school we were required to read books for language arts as expected. I have no issue with reading. I've consistently read above the stupid grade level system. If I don't have at least one book with me then something is wrong because that almost never...
    BleedingOrchids BleedingOrchids
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 3, 2015

    Even Though It's Sometimes Necessary!

    It's just a thing and I think it's much worse with boys than it is with girls. Just my opinion!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 25, 2011
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