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I Hate Being Treated Like a Doormat

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 113 People

    I Have A Serious Problem With Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer.

    At the beginning of the Rudolph story I could completely identify with him. He was an outcast, unloved, unwanted, ostracized by peers who judged him only on his appearance. He just wants to be accepted, but more than anything he is defined by his status as not-accepted. Then he...
    MechanicalBull MechanicalBull 36-40, M 8 Responses Nov 30, 2009

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    I Stilll Havent Connected With Anyone.

    I feel like im even the loner online, LMAO
    fuckerdoodles fuckerdoodles 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    I Let Them

    my brothers,and some of my freinds.they took advantage of my kindness.but l knew better.i shouldn`t have even considered it .but that was then and this is now.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Mar 14, 2009

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    I am a nice person. Always have been

    and always will be. Dumbledore said it best, "You are unfailingly kind: a trait people never fail to undervalue, I'm afraid." Everyone tells me i'm far to kind and that it hurts me. But you see everyone seems to believe that to get anything done you have to be mean and I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 6, 2014

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    Waiting For Less Pain Alone

    Many years have passed and I have had many husbands who never have respected me.  They got what they wanted and I was left with nothing.  I must have a sign on me that says "Go Ahead and Abuse Me" I can take it. I took so much from many men that I got used to...
    ladyinpain ladyinpain 61-65, F 1 Response Mar 20, 2008

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    NO Doormats Allwd!!!

    Oh yes i was a complete and utter doormatt for a long time!!! Not any more tho, I believe you should treat someone how u would wan't to be treated. (alot of people don't in this world!)  
    Feflower Feflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    So Dont

    if you mistreat me or dont respect me as an equal, i dont have any interest in getting to know you, i dont need to be walked upon i have feelings and emotions too, so try it and feel my wrath
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 15, 2008

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    But I Was Trained to Let It Happen

    A control-freak abusive dad and a people-pleaser mom will do that. Now I'm having to reverse all the wrong thinking I learned when I was a little girl. In the meantime, all those type-A personalities out there seem to gravitate toward me. They must sense I'm a pushover, like...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    Doormat..

    ive always been treated like a doormat and i hate it! im having a hard time saying no to other people's demands.. i wonder why they cant do things on their own.. i wonder why they still have to let other people do it for them.. im not their slave and yet i wonder why i cant say...
    songrii songrii 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2007

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    Nobody Deserves It

    Not only that, but if they do "deserve it" then who is to decide that in the first place? I just wish whatever gene in humans causes them to see themselves as superior to everyone else could be eradicated.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 8, 2011

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    I'm Fighting It

    I always seem to get myself into these situations where people step all over me.  I'm sure that I manifest them although, I'm not sure how. My family has done it for years, and so called friends love to take advantage of my kindness and inability to say no.  It took...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    It Knows No End

    I feel like I'm treated like a maid. Just because I'm the youngest doesn't mean I'm the only one who has to do everything. Before my sister's best friend moved in, I was the only one cleaning day after day. From dishes to vacuuming and dusting. I'd spend hours cleaning up the...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2013

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    Don't Abuse It.

    Friendship is a privilege. If you abuse it then there are consequences to your actions. Ruining a friendship can never be worth the gain you wanted. Always treate others like you want to be treated.
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M Jun 17, 2008

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    BryFrost1 BryFrost1 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I've allways liked nappies ever since I was at my childminders and was curious as to how the other younger kids felt like, I stole a few nappies and it was amazing so I'm now 16...
    Morganwilliams49 Morganwilliams49 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 23

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    I love diapers if anyone else does to I hope we can meet but I just wanted to say I like to be acting like a baby when my dad isn't home for a couple of days when I have extra...
    diaperlover789 diaperlover789 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I'm in for treating anyone like a baby. I would prefer a female
    BlondeBisexual20 BlondeBisexual20 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Hey, I really like acting little and I love it when someone babies me. I want to tell my mom, but I don't know how. Does anyone have any tips?
    kaoruredfox kaoruredfox 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    Does anyone know how I tell my mom about this? Any ideas or tips?
    kaoruredfox kaoruredfox 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    any girls On this experience that can talk to me?
    Morganwilliams49 Morganwilliams49 16-17, M Mar 25

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    I'm looking for a mommy dm if intrested
    kals1234 kals1234 18-21 Mar 30

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    looking for a mummy and a daddy but mostly want a daddy to look after me and to baby me
    UKbabyboi UKbabyboi 13-15 Apr 4

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    looking for a mummy or daddy in the uk
    rochelle1993 rochelle1993 18-21, F Apr 4

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    I would cook and clean and wash cloths and go traveling, give back rubs and food rubs just to have a gal that would give me a bottle and change my diaper once in a while
    ab24months ab24months 56-60, M Apr 7

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    RP Only I would love to be an adult baby girl's or sissy's mommy.I enjoy naming my little babies and all my babies must use baby talk. The rest Mommy will take care of..after all...
    MommyKylie MommyKylie 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 8

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    I am a baby girl looking for a mommy or daddy to take cate of me and spank me when needed
    3bama23girl89 3bama23girl89 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    Looking for a mommy or baby girl to talk with:)
    Billythekid89 Billythekid89 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Who doesn't really. I find it enjoyful
    1Thatonedudeyouknow 1Thatonedudeyouknow 22-25, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I hate people. I really do. I'm just too mind independent. I hate crowd places. I hate when people just can't keep things to themselves. I hate rude, judgmental comments they...
    masmelo masmelo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    When I first met my husband. He swept me off my feet. it was some seriously Disney movie fairy tale..He is from Brazil. charming , beautiful , life of the party personality. and...
    lostinBrazil lostinBrazil 26-30, F Apr 4

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    When I first met my husband. He swept me off my feet. it was some seriously Disney movie fairy tale..He is from Brazil. charming , beautiful , life of the party personality. and...
    lostinBrazil lostinBrazil 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I believe a lady should be treated like royalty. With a flourish as the door is opened for her to pass. A kind smile as a hat is tipped in greeting. By a gentle man who dresses...
    starsabove starsabove 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I've been a stepmom now for about 2 years to a now 4 year old. When I first met my now husband, things were great between me and the child. However as he and I got more involved...
    tcap422 tcap422 26-30, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Ever since I was little, I was jealous of girls at school who's moms seemed to always be there for them. Helping out at school, going with them to Girl Scouts trips, etc. I thought...
    sunnysenpai sunnysenpai 13-15, F Apr 2

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    I hate being ignored for many reasons, but one of the main reasons is cus then you have me thinking like what the **** did I do to you for this to happen and then that ends up...
    drunkpunker drunkpunker 13-15, F Apr 5

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    i like beig alone when im with nature or when i want to be alone with my thoughts but i hate being lonely when im with people and no ones with me xp
    kyanitestone186 kyanitestone186 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Besides the obvious reasons why I hate being sick, I also hate how my dad gets when I get sick. Take today for example. I'm sick, so I didn't go to work today, but even when I was...
    AgentSean AgentSean 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    If you yell at me I am either get really angry and yell at you and been told when I do I am very intimidating or I am gonna totally ignore you and walk away . I hate being yelled...
    nakednudist nakednudist 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I probably won't ever find someone that want to be with me besides for my money. I hate being so ugly.
    Hailey7685 Hailey7685 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    As much as I hate being alone with my thoughts, I'm terrified to talk about certain things. I don't want to scare people away. I have certain people in my life that I trust, but I...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 27

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    i hate being judged by people. i know what is right for me . some people are making me mad
    jeniferpokharel jeniferpokharel 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I hate being skinny. Everyday I get at least 3 comments or strange looks. by strangers, but also by my friends and MY OWN FAMILY. First they call me 'lucky' and the next day ugly...
    zoeverheulen96 zoeverheulen96 18-21, F Apr 5

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