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I Hate Being Treated Like a Doormat

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    I Let Them

    my brothers,and some of my freinds.they took advantage of my kindness.but l knew better.i shouldn`t have even considered it .but that was then and this is now.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Mar 14, 2009

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    Nobody Deserves It

    Not only that, but if they do "deserve it" then who is to decide that in the first place? I just wish whatever gene in humans causes them to see themselves as superior to everyone else could be eradicated.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 8, 2011

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    I am a nice person. Always have been

    and always will be. Dumbledore said it best, "You are unfailingly kind: a trait people never fail to undervalue, I'm afraid." Everyone tells me i'm far to kind and that it hurts me. But you see everyone seems to believe that to get anything done you have to be mean and I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 6

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    I Have A Serious Problem With Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer.

    At the beginning of the Rudolph story I could completely identify with him. He was an outcast, unloved, unwanted, ostracized by peers who judged him only on his appearance. He just wants to be accepted, but more than anything he is defined by his status as not-accepted. Then he...
    MechanicalBull MechanicalBull 36-40, M 8 Responses Nov 30, 2009

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    NO Doormats Allwd!!!

    Oh yes i was a complete and utter doormatt for a long time!!! Not any more tho, I believe you should treat someone how u would wan't to be treated. (alot of people don't in this world!)  
    Feflower Feflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    But I Was Trained to Let It Happen

    A control-freak abusive dad and a people-pleaser mom will do that. Now I'm having to reverse all the wrong thinking I learned when I was a little girl. In the meantime, all those type-A personalities out there seem to gravitate toward me. They must sense I'm a pushover, like...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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    I love to help people

    who suffer any problem here but aslong as they got my advice, i dont hear from them anymore! So its like i am used here and win no real friends! So i stop being a doormat now. Looks like this site is really helpful for one day friendship. You write with someone and next day they...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Doormat..

    ive always been treated like a doormat and i hate it! im having a hard time saying no to other people's demands.. i wonder why they cant do things on their own.. i wonder why they still have to let other people do it for them.. im not their slave and yet i wonder why i cant say...
    songrii songrii 21-25, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2007

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    So Dont

    if you mistreat me or dont respect me as an equal, i dont have any interest in getting to know you, i dont need to be walked upon i have feelings and emotions too, so try it and feel my wrath
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 15, 2008

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    Waiting For Less Pain Alone

    Many years have passed and I have had many husbands who never have respected me.  They got what they wanted and I was left with nothing.  I must have a sign on me that says "Go Ahead and Abuse Me" I can take it. I took so much from many men that I got used to...
    ladyinpain ladyinpain 61-65, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Don't Abuse It.

    Friendship is a privilege. If you abuse it then there are consequences to your actions. Ruining a friendship can never be worth the gain you wanted. Always treate others like you want to be treated.
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M Jun 17, 2008

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    I'm Fighting It

    I always seem to get myself into these situations where people step all over me.  I'm sure that I manifest them although, I'm not sure how. My family has done it for years, and so called friends love to take advantage of my kindness and inability to say no.  It took...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    It Knows No End

    I feel like I'm treated like a maid. Just because I'm the youngest doesn't mean I'm the only one who has to do everything. Before my sister's best friend moved in, I was the only one cleaning day after day. From dishes to vacuuming and dusting. I'd spend hours cleaning up the...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2013

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    I Stilll Havent Connected With Anyone.

    I feel like im even the loner online, LMAO
    fuckerdoodles fuckerdoodles 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    Everyone says 12 is a little kid I'm not little i say cuss words I have a phone and i bring it to school everyday i don't see why I'm so young to do more things
    JohnnyMaron JohnnyMaron 13-15, M Aug 12

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    I am looking for a mommy, preferably near my age range 14-20. I would like to be treated like a bad baby boy. strict mommy please message me.
    abdl72 abdl72 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I just love being a big baby with a full diaper
    diaperboy1290 diaperboy1290 13-15, T Aug 4

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    I like pee and diapers and all that. I'd like a mommy or daddy. But I don't send pics
    Rielynnx3 Rielynnx3 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I am looking for a "mother" figure to punish me like diaper me treat me like a baby spank my bare *** and shed have to be real mean and harsh if you want to do it comment or...
    carsonreeve carsonreeve 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    Can someone tell me i should punish myself for acting like a little baby
    Finny5 Finny5 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    How should i punish myself for acting like a big big brat baby
    Finny5 Finny5 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    I like to be teased and played with
    Cookiemonstersbae Cookiemonstersbae 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I like it but I pretend I don't. My age please
    Cookiemonstersbae Cookiemonstersbae 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    It would be brilliant :) dummy and everything hahahaha :p
    Joeeee16 Joeeee16 16-17, M Aug 11

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    How do i buy a diaper without my parents finding out
    Finny5 Finny5 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    I am a little brat and a liar and wet the bed how should i punish myself
    Finny5 Finny5 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Okay seriously. If your busy tell me!!! I friggin hate being ignored. Like I can't even tell you how much I hate. & especially when it comes to clueless D.A guys. You can't say you...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I was lied to every day for four years. He lied about being married to another woman and it's only this last week he has come clean about it. I feel used and also like I've been...
    Mimimanxcat Mimimanxcat 31-35, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    Today was the worst! I went to my baby cousins birthday party and I was treated like a baboon😡 the teenagers that were taking care of everybody said that kids are annoying and...
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    noahman97 noahman97 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I dislike talking about this sort of thing. I suppose it is because it makes me feel weak, I don't know. I have not felt right since I was really little. I have been anxious...
    jord4567 jord4567 18-21, M Aug 21

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    I don't like being black. From my experience being black is the worst thing ever that happened to me. Black? What is the first thing that comes to your mind when you hear the word...
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    Okay first off, I'm not homeless poor but I also struggle. I'm still in high school, and I don't have a job at the time being. I feel like expressing myself right now, so if I...
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    I was an Army Wife for 8 years, and I hated it. It's total sacrilege to say that and current Army Wives will totally rip you for saying it. You're supposed to be super proud to be...
    HouseholdSix HouseholdSix 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    I think its called monophobia. The fear of being alone. I've always just thought that it was normal, that feeling you get when you're alone. I found out recently it wasn't...
    NyBrid NyBrid 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    It gets on my nerves, when I realise that somebody has been keeping in touch with me only because I could be useful. Most of the times I already have this feeling of being used...
    kikinators kikinators 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    I really hate being the youngest. My family blames everything on me & constantly tells me to shut up. Like that's their favorite saying. I won't even be saying anything and my mom...
    isabellamancini isabellamancini 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 1

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    If you don't like me then tell me. If you don't want to talk to me tell me. If you decide I'm too broken for you to be around or that you can't stand me, tell me. I hate being...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I can't be lied too. I see the truth always. It is the worst. Its like when people talk I can hear and see what's true and what's not. I got engaged recently and I'm so scared...
    seistafiesta seistafiesta 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F Aug 9

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    I friggin hate being sick. Just started last night with a stuffy nose & today I've been sneezing all day & my throat hurt a little now I keep feeling the urge to sneeze & my throat...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    It was a rainy day and I woke up feeling like ****. My tummy was aching like crazy and I was dizzy. I was to weak to even get out of bed. "Muum" I groaned. "Muuuuuumm!!" I couldn't...
    GingaJustice GingaJustice 13-15, M Aug 17

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    It sux being here alone wit no one to tlk to...hate being alone...just lookn for sumone to make me feel good
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 20

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    I mean don't u hate when u like someone and they like u back but it turns out they don't like u😒😒
    AdrianTooNice AdrianTooNice 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    When I'm rushed just to be annoying I take even longer. I just hate being rushed so much!
    everythingwillbealright everythingwillbealright 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I hate being yelled, so I help them who yelled at me by doing the oposites so they yell more until it reach the top of their lung. I tried that last time. And it works. Someone...
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