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I Hate Being Treated Like a Doormat

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    I Stilll Havent Connected With Anyone.

    I feel like im even the loner online, LMAO
    fuckerdoodles fuckerdoodles 18-21, F Mar 28, 2013

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    Doormat..

    ive always been treated like a doormat and i hate it! im having a hard time saying no to other people's demands.. i wonder why they cant do things on their own.. i wonder why they still have to let other people do it for them.. im not their slave and yet i wonder why i cant say...
    songrii songrii 21-25, F 1 Response Dec 1, 2007

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    So Dont

    if you mistreat me or dont respect me as an equal, i dont have any interest in getting to know you, i dont need to be walked upon i have feelings and emotions too, so try it and feel my wrath
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Apr 15, 2008

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    I Let Them

    my brothers,and some of my freinds.they took advantage of my kindness.but l knew better.i shouldn`t have even considered it .but that was then and this is now.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 1 Response Mar 14, 2009

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    Nobody Deserves It

    Not only that, but if they do "deserve it" then who is to decide that in the first place? I just wish whatever gene in humans causes them to see themselves as superior to everyone else could be eradicated.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 8, 2011

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    I love to help people

    who suffer any problem here but aslong as they got my advice, i dont hear from them anymore! So its like i am used here and win no real friends! So i stop being a doormat now. Looks like this site is really helpful for one day friendship. You write with someone and next day they...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    NO Doormats Allwd!!!

    Oh yes i was a complete and utter doormatt for a long time!!! Not any more tho, I believe you should treat someone how u would wan't to be treated. (alot of people don't in this world!)  
    Feflower Feflower 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 1, 2008

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    It Knows No End

    I feel like I'm treated like a maid. Just because I'm the youngest doesn't mean I'm the only one who has to do everything. Before my sister's best friend moved in, I was the only one cleaning day after day. From dishes to vacuuming and dusting. I'd spend hours cleaning up the...
    ButterflyGirl9521 ButterflyGirl9521 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 31, 2013

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    I am a nice person. Always have been

    and always will be. Dumbledore said it best, "You are unfailingly kind: a trait people never fail to undervalue, I'm afraid." Everyone tells me i'm far to kind and that it hurts me. But you see everyone seems to believe that to get anything done you have to be mean and I would...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 6

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    I'm Fighting It

    I always seem to get myself into these situations where people step all over me.  I'm sure that I manifest them although, I'm not sure how. My family has done it for years, and so called friends love to take advantage of my kindness and inability to say no.  It took...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    I Have A Serious Problem With Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer.

    At the beginning of the Rudolph story I could completely identify with him. He was an outcast, unloved, unwanted, ostracized by peers who judged him only on his appearance. He just wants to be accepted, but more than anything he is defined by his status as not-accepted. Then he...
    MechanicalBull MechanicalBull 36-40, M 8 Responses Nov 30, 2009

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    Waiting For Less Pain Alone

    Many years have passed and I have had many husbands who never have respected me.  They got what they wanted and I was left with nothing.  I must have a sign on me that says "Go Ahead and Abuse Me" I can take it. I took so much from many men that I got used to...
    ladyinpain ladyinpain 61-65, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2008

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    Don't Abuse It.

    Friendship is a privilege. If you abuse it then there are consequences to your actions. Ruining a friendship can never be worth the gain you wanted. Always treate others like you want to be treated.
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy 41-45, M Jun 17, 2008

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    But I Was Trained to Let It Happen

    A control-freak abusive dad and a people-pleaser mom will do that. Now I'm having to reverse all the wrong thinking I learned when I was a little girl. In the meantime, all those type-A personalities out there seem to gravitate toward me. They must sense I'm a pushover, like...
    BookNerd BookNerd 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2008

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