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I Hate Being Ugly

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    There's nothing I can do about it.

    Getting over it won't make me not hate it. I hate being questioned about my gender. I hate mirrors. I just. Ugh. I can't even type with how upset I am. It's proven that ugly people are just treated worse for no reason. And I get it all the time. Guys even say that unattractive...
    MissBlackrose MissBlackrose 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 8, 2014

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    I Hate This Ugly Face

    i hate my ugly face.i can't go out, i can't make friens, i can't marry , i can't go for job . my school friends of my age have good job , good social life, they will marry n have kids.i have nothing .no one likes me. i wish if i could change it my ugly face. but i can't. i hate...
    uglygirl2 uglygirl2 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    Sometimes I fantasize about pouring petrol over

    my body and setting myself alight, to burn the ugliness.
    foreversadsam foreversadsam 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 22

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    I am what is called an "average girl".

    I get called cute more often than beautiful or pretty, and usually its out of pity. But the most frustrating thing about being average is not the beauty part: Whenever a beautiful girl says something, everybody listens. Everybody likes or comments on her posts. Everybody turns...
    KaliG15 KaliG15 18-21, T 1 Response Apr 21, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 17, 2015

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    Okay, So I Am Ugly.......

    Okay so I am ugly. That's just how it is. And when someone tries to tell me I'm attractive, it ****** me off to no end, not because I don't want it to be true...I want more than anything to be beautiful, but because I KNOW it is bullsh#t and the person giving the "compliment" is...
    yummytush yummytush 31-35, M 14 Responses Oct 9, 2010

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    A Challenge For People Who Give Advice To Ugly People

    I have a challenge for people who like giving advice such as: 1. it’s what inside that count 2. Beauty is eyes of the beholder 3. were all beautiful in god eyes 4. There’s someone out there for everyone 5. Impacting the family Go to the store or restaurant with no make-up on...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 2 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Why can't I be more like those beautiful girls

    out there that are just stunning with perfect boobs,perfect face and a perfect body? I hate who I am I wish I was more like those girls :/
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    I hate being single😒😏I guess

    why I am single is because I am ugly 👀🙊
    Alka198 Alka198 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 29, 2015

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    I'm Sorry My Physical Form Makes You Want To Flee.

    I remember vividly one afternoon riding the school bus home. The other kids surrounded me, kneeling in the seats before and behind me, or crowding the space to my side in the aisle. In those days there was an expression for taunting someone so violently the person would cry...
    EK2020 EK2020 46-50 4 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    i hate it when all people find in me are faults

    how i have dark circles and look ugly. how short i am how ******* obese i am. i am suck of this materialistic world. i wish i could kill them all or kill myself. its not my fault if i am born with dark circles or that i am 73 kg with 5'1. i didn't create my self
    Jaderuby Jaderuby 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 13, 2015

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    People get so bent out of shape

    when you say you're ugly. Like it's such a taboo to actually be aware of and admit that you are indeed ugly. People say "No you're not! That's a terrible thing to say!". Well, guess what? IT'S A TERRIBLE THING TO BE! And chances are the same people who think you're ugly are...
    themikerose themikerose 36-40, M Jan 20, 2015

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    You Can Disagree With Me All You Want

    Likr many people have told me once before you can look like they just got off a ranway and feel like they are soo unattractive, being attractive has nothing to do with having high self esteem or feeling like you're worth something.I wake up and 70 % of the time I am like ew I am...
    xdarkangelx666 xdarkangelx666 22-25, F 10 Responses Aug 25, 2011

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    I feel like the moment you realize it,

    and accept it, you can move on from it and I feel as though I'm at that moving on part but it's just so hard seeing guys hit on your friends right in front of you, and you're just sitting there looking dumb as hell and ugly if I might add. Or when guys flock to exoctic looking...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F 6 Responses Sep 27, 2015

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    Unfortunately I inherited the looks of my father

    as opposed to that of my beautiful Mother. Once a boy jeered at me "your Dad must be gay for you to come out looking like that". It's funny because I think my father was probably repressed somehow with his gender identity. As am I. I hope to lose weight so I can perhaps lose...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Dec 28, 2015

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    Sometimes I think Id have better luck with men

    if I was more attractive. I feel like my flaws stand out to everyone. Unfortunately we can't all be a size 2 or have perfect skin. I try to work with what I have at least.
    VirgoBeauty VirgoBeauty 18-21, F 19 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    Why is it so hard for me to accept it?

    The earliest memory of being called ugly was in 3rd grade. I did not think it would follow me all the way in my 30s. I use to think I would grow up to be pretty because why wouldn't God make a woman beautiful?
    boo864 boo864 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2015

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    It's actually the worst.

    Spots, hair, skin everything I'm like a -12 on everything
    MrHandsomeJack MrHandsomeJack 18-21, M Dec 19, 2015

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    This Is Truth, Not A Pity Party.

    I'm ugly, I'm fat, I always have been, and I really hope it changes soon. I really, REALLY want to be a part of this fashion forum I found back in May, but I know it will never happen. There's a beauty standard everyone needs to meet in order to be a member, or at least a...
    pengimachine pengimachine 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    I hate it :( and idk

    who to blame but this is ridiculous :(
    DessyLove DessyLove 18-21, F 9 Responses Apr 8, 2015

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    Silently crying to myself under my covers

    because I'm ugly. I hate the way I look. No matter what I tell myself & what people tell me I still feel like such an ugly ******. Really tired of my life at this point. Tired of going after dudes a littler older cause boys my age don't want me. I'm tired of looking like a boy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 23, 2015

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    I know appearances don't matter

    but I feel like people generally are nicer and are more drawn to you if you have a nice image, at least that's what I see in the real world and online.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    Everyone always calls me ugly.

    It's so annoying if you think I'm ugly then so be it. There is no reason to say it out loud...
    Lancelot22 Lancelot22 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 10, 2014

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    Ugly Is Too Pretty to Describe Me.

    Every day when I look in the mirror all I see if pure disgust. My face is hideous, my noes is too big, my eyes are too small, my cheeks are too fat and my skin is coverd in acne scars. I'm almost 19 and never had a boyfriend no guy in the world will ever want to be seen in public...
    SUGARxANDxLIES SUGARxANDxLIES 18-21 13 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    I am fat and ugly and old.

    ..I truly hate who I am and what I look like but I haven't got the willpower to change these things (or the money). The ugly part is what bothers me the most and there is nothing that can be done about that.
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 24, 2015

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    I probably won't ever find someone

    that want to be with me besides for my money. I hate being so ugly.
    Hailey7685 Hailey7685 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 23, 2015

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    hi i'm new here. i'm izzy :) today i'll be

    writing about how much i hate my face. i have struggled with acne for 3 years (I'm 14) and I've been using a special acne medicine for my face. I can't take it it smells like alcohol and it gets in my nose and eyes. My face is oval and I hate it i wish it didn't look so fat. I...
    moonbewwie moonbewwie 26-30, F Jul 16, 2015

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    Plain n' simple. I'm not the pretty girl at

    school at all, every time I'm friends with or sit next to the pretty girl of course all the time the boys give them the attention. Fml. I hate being ugly. 😑
    Summer147648 Summer147648 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Its The Worst

    The thing I hate the most about being ugly is that im always feeling inferior to other people so i rarely stand up for myself. Im always lonely, ive never had a best friend or even a person to call an actual friend since the 6th grade. I remember when I actually realized I was...
    letsgotobritain letsgotobritain 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7, 2011

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    People admitting that they are ugly now?

    I keep learning new things daily. Good thing because I must take things I see here, and use it when I inevitably start dating. In 2017.
    BenedictJones BenedictJones 13-15, M 1 Response May 14, 2015

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    Hopefully 2k16 is the year puberty gets to the

    part that makes me attractive :P
    OVOowl OVOowl 13-15, M 1 Response Dec 30, 2015

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    None of you are ugly.

    Please stop hating on your bodies, loves. It will get better and I hope that you'll all eventually realize your worth in this world. Strength starts with self confidence. Love your bodies, they're only here to help you survive.
    shannon1620 shannon1620 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 21, 2015

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    Being ugly just plain sucks

    but what adds to the suckiness of being ugly is the dating game. Just because I'm ugly doesn't mean I don't want to date, but I'm a realist, and I know that I need to go after a certain look, but I can't go up to a girl and say "Wow! You are so ugly just like me! I can't...
    Answerswouldbenice Answerswouldbenice 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 21, 2015

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    As much of a hot head I can occasionally be,

    I could never rightfully get angry at someone for calling me ugly. It's a different kind of ugly. I cringe when I think about how other people, especially those my own age, see me. God. I've been painfully aware of how grotesque I look since I was about 11, and still have the...
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 5, 2014

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    I know I should be stronger

    and not care that I am ugly but I do. I hate that I feel so jealous of other women who post their pictures on facebook and are called stunning and beautiful by their friends. I am almost 30 but look 16. I am flat chested, have a large nose, big cheeks and a boyish body. I own no...
    Jenni855 Jenni855 26-30, F 9 Responses Jan 24, 2015

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    purplesprinkles411 purplesprinkles411 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2015

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    Neverending Pain

    I have hated myself since I was 12 years old. I can't remember going a day without someone saying that I was ugly..this is no lie. I am in college right now and it's so hard and painful when no one wants to sit next to you because of the way you look. It's not like those...
    DianeDiane DianeDiane 22-25 12 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    I want to be pretty ;(

    and popular :( and skinny :( why can't I be :( it's just not fair! I would do anything to be pretty and popular
    TankTopQueen TankTopQueen 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 16, 2015

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    I am wishing that the men

    who have rejected even having general conversations with me because I am ugly would at least tell me I was right instead of going silent. Something like, "I know we've been texting for three months and you didn't want to send me a picture of yourself because you knew I would...
    Myzery Myzery 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    So Tired Of It

    I always ask myself, "What did I do to deserve this?" Being ugly is probably one of the worst things in today's society. The worst part is it never goes away, it will ALWAYS be with you, and that is an incredibly depressing thought. Now that school is out, I've been down on...
    errky errky 16-17, M 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    When you realize the girl you've been trying to

    get for months almost went out with some dude you don't like after one conversation. Bruh.
    THWIZT THWIZT 13-15, M Jan 7

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    Is it bad that I feel no sympathy/empathy

    for the attractive eomen who call/message me about how they're going to be homeless or stuck with a "jerk" because their boyfriend left them or they got knocked up yet again? It's like, "Well...at least somebody found you worth their time for a while...pick better next time...
    Myzery Myzery 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 9, 2015

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    Trying Not To Fall Into Depression

    I'm 21 but no one has ever shown any interest in dating me or anything else except for two very unattractive girls, which doesn't work because I'm gay. I don't feel like my face or my body matches who I am inside. Attractive or cool people never want to hang out with me at all. I...
    resonantD resonantD 18-21, M 12 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I'm Ugly And It Makes Me Suffer.

    I perfectly know how I look like.How my body and face looks.Constantly I hear from people how disgusting and ugly I look,i try to don't react but I know when I be going home i'm gonna think about it and wonder why?.That has to be..I know it.I can do a lot of improvments but it...
    MissAgni MissAgni 26-30, F 18 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    I'm a big believer in helping people like the

    people on this post to love themselves more. I'm slightly hypocritical though. I'm a teen and this I have my bad days (every other day) where I feel as though I am the ugliest being to curse this earth. Everyone has these days. A woman could be the most beautiful in the world...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 19, 2014

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