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I Hate Being Ugly

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    There's nothing I can do about it.

    Getting over it won't make me not hate it. I hate being questioned about my gender. I hate mirrors. I just. Ugh. I can't even type with how upset I am. It's proven that ugly people are just treated worse for no reason. And I get it all the time. Guys even say that unattractive...
    MissBlackrose MissBlackrose 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Okay, So I Am Ugly.......

    Okay so I am ugly. That's just how it is. And when someone tries to tell me I'm attractive, it ****** me off to no end, not because I don't want it to be true...I want more than anything to be beautiful, but because I KNOW it is bullsh#t and the person giving the "compliment" is...
    yummytush yummytush 31-35, M 11 Responses Oct 9, 2010

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    I look in the mirror

    and I literally hate myself. Nobody sees me because they're too focused on my face. They don't realize how much it hurts to be called ugly and know it's true.
    racheltaytay racheltaytay 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    Still Struggling With Being Ugly

    I've been like this all my life, but I haven't gotten used to it. Each time I go out in public, it's just as hard as the last time, it doesn't get better. The only time in life where it didn't hurt so much was when I was a kid, and had friends, I was even a bit naive to my...
    kuze kuze 22-25, M 7 Responses Nov 8, 2010

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    Excuse Me.

    So, I KNOW I'll be using foul language in this, if you aren't okay with that. I'm sorry, leave if you must. I am really ******* sick of those rotten ****** who want to come into my inbox with 'anonymous' accounts and hating on me. Like back the **** up, you don't know me or...
    QueenJayde16 QueenJayde16 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    I Feel Like Khloe Kardashian

    From the interviews I heard, people bullied Khloe for being the least attractive sister and called her ugly in school. I don't think Khloe is unattractive at all but she has a different look from her sisters. I think it's horrible that people treated her that way when she seems...
    CookiesNCupcakes CookiesNCupcakes 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    You don't have to tell me I'm ugly.

    Tell me something I don't know. It's hard getting a date being this ugly.
    socalsissi socalsissi 36-40, T 2 Responses Apr 23

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    Its The Worst

    The thing I hate the most about being ugly is that im always feeling inferior to other people so i rarely stand up for myself. Im always lonely, ive never had a best friend or even a person to call an actual friend since the 6th grade. I remember when I actually realized I was...
    letsgotobritain letsgotobritain 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 7, 2011

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    I'm a big believer in helping people like the

    people on this post to love themselves more. I'm slightly hypocritical though. I'm a teen and this I have my bad days (every other day) where I feel as though I am the ugliest being to curse this earth. Everyone has these days. A woman could be the most beautiful in the world...
    sfairy27 sfairy27 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Neverending Pain

    I have hated myself since I was 12 years old. I can't remember going a day without someone saying that I was ugly..this is no lie. I am in college right now and it's so hard and painful when no one wants to sit next to you because of the way you look. It's not like those...
    DianeDiane DianeDiane 22-25 13 Responses Jan 13, 2009

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    Look, I know it's such a superficial complaint,

    honestly. But it's just very difficult to be unattractive in society like ours, that's how it's always been, ya know? Most people who've been endowed with good looks probably wouldn't understand. You can feel people looking at you in disgust. I'm not ungrateful by any means...
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 5

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    I hate my scars.😣 childhood accident,

    there's some scars on my chest. Ashamed and embarrassed about it. Haven't shone my chest in public for 4 years now :/
    depressedandana depressedandana 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    A girl said I'm ugly.

    What do you think?
    crookedjay crookedjay 26-30, M 6 Responses Jun 6

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    I'm Sorry My Physical Form Makes You Want To Flee.

    I remember vividly one afternoon riding the school bus home. The other kids surrounded me, kneeling in the seats before and behind me, or crowding the space to my side in the aisle. In those days there was an expression for taunting someone so violently the person would cry...
    EK2020 EK2020 41-45 3 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I wish my parents never conceived

    so I would never have to live with this face.
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 16-17, F Mar 10

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    Hate my face . A lot .

    Not ever being good enough for everyone else . I mean they say it doesn't matter what society has to say but at the end it hurts what they have to say . Being ugly, you're looked at differently like if we're much less of people than everyone else ,
    Keeplurkinggg Keeplurkinggg 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    komjd komjd 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 5

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    I just hate being judged

    and picked on by skinny girls, becuase I'm not "good looking" or fit. I also hate when they call me a creep, just becuase I try to interact with them, and make friends. I am probably less than 20 of the most ugliest people where I live. It would explains why I get judged so...
    NovaScotia902 NovaScotia902 22-25 2 Responses May 27

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    As much of a hot head I can occasionally be,

    I could never rightfully get angry at someone for calling me ugly. It's a different kind of ugly. I cringe when I think about how other people, especially those my own age, see me. God. I've been painfully aware of how grotesque I look since I was about 11, and still have the...
    Plutonianbabe Plutonianbabe 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 5

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    I Hate It

    I hate it when people say im pretty or cute when I know im not it makes me really very sad though I know im not pretty it still hurts to hear people call me pretty when I know their lying. I wish I could lose weight and improve myself a lot but I just dont have the motivation to...
    MyHeartStillBeats MyHeartStillBeats 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21, 2013

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    There's Nothing To Fix Ugly

    It's been like this ever since I was 5 and my face started to change. I am now 15 and my ugly has been progressively getting worse as I get older. Although I'm a female, I'm often mistaken for a boy as I have no body shape, my face is masculine, and my voice is deep. I really...
    MissBlackrose MissBlackrose 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2013

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    My sister is beautiful!

    She is always complemented by the family even when in right there. I'm just the odd one out.
    DarcyCats DarcyCats 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 23

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    It Won't Let Go, And Neither Can I.

    My story is nothing substantial. I'm ashamed of how I feel, really. It's honestly pathetic, because I really do know how fortunate I actually am. It's just that also know I don't deserve it. One look in the mirror is all it takes to send me spiraling back into secret places of my...
    mirrorscantlie mirrorscantlie 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2012

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    Ugly And Gay

    im ugly and gay  iwant to die :(
    xtah21 xtah21 22-25, M 13 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    What Is Ugly About Me To You I Would Like To

    Know? Here's Sum Reasons I've Heard And Why I Think Im Ugly: I Have No Curves Im Skinny And Tall I Have Acne Not To Bad And Not To Good. I Have Good Teeth But One Is Cricket But You Can Only See It If You Look Very Hard. My Nose Is Big. My Lips Are Small. I Have SideBurns.
    jordan1hunnit jordan1hunnit 13-15 Mar 23

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    I was voted number 11,

    of the most uglies people in Nova Scotia, or Canada. Girls often give me a disgusted look, generally the skinny ones. I am working to lose weight. I am not obese, just fat. I'm not that heavy looking. My overall appearance is ugly.
    NovaScotia902 NovaScotia902 22-25 2 Responses Jun 12

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    It really sucks :( I am honestly

    so done. Why couldn't God let me have a pretty face? Seriously, it's not fair. Not fair at all :'(
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 16-17, F 4 Responses May 2

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    Trying Not To Fall Into Depression

    I'm 21 but no one has ever shown any interest in dating me or anything else except for two very unattractive girls, which doesn't work because I'm gay. I don't feel like my face or my body matches who I am inside. Attractive or cool people never want to hang out with me at all. I...
    resonantD resonantD 18-21, M 12 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I'm Ugly And It Makes Me Suffer.

    I perfectly know how I look like.How my body and face looks.Constantly I hear from people how disgusting and ugly I look,i try to don't react but I know when I be going home i'm gonna think about it and wonder why?.That has to be..I know it.I can do a lot of improvments but it...
    MissAgni MissAgni 26-30, F 17 Responses Sep 7, 2012

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    Public

    going out, something that never used to be a task. something that wasn't tedious or unwelcome. now, the whole experience is a barrage of uneasy emotion, paranoia and fear. i feel the gaze of eyes i've never met, and i wonder what their lips are speaking. i don't dare to look up...
    burrowbunni burrowbunni 18-21, F Apr 14, 2013

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    This Is Truth, Not A Pity Party.

    I'm ugly, I'm fat, I always have been, and I really hope it changes soon. I really, REALLY want to be a part of this fashion forum I found back in May, but I know it will never happen. There's a beauty standard everyone needs to meet in order to be a member, or at least a...
    pengimachine pengimachine 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2012

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    You Can Disagree With Me All You Want

    Likr many people have told me once before you can look like they just got off a ranway and feel like they are soo unattractive, being attractive has nothing to do with having high self esteem or feeling like you're worth something.I wake up and 70 % of the time I am like ew I am...
    xdarkangelx666 xdarkangelx666 22-25, F 11 Responses Aug 25, 2011

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    I am so sorry but I am just tired of people

    that don't understand what it's like to be unattractive saying "be confident and you'll be attractive." NO. Confidence enhances what physical beauty you already have. It doesn't create some if there isn't any. I'm taking a stand for, for lack of a better term, "the uglies". No...
    tonib123 tonib123 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Our Society...

    I cannot stand how our society has defined what good looks are, and how it kicks those of us who are by no means "beautiful" to the curb. I have dealt with it my whole life, and can testify that it is not only women who feel this way. Yes we all have those in our lives who will...
    biggumaiku biggumaiku 46-50, M 3 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    I hate this. I am turning 19 in less

    than a month and I have never dated someone, or being told that I was pretty. I have always had a lot of friends, I am the kind of girl that is always smiling and seems to be always full of energy. Also because I read books, watch TV shows, movies, anime, play video games and...
    nucleardiamond nucleardiamond 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm noticing as I age I'm getting uglier

    and less people hit on me less people are nice to me now and I hate going out in public it's affecting my life please help
    rossp24 rossp24 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 13

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    So Tired Of It

    I always ask myself, "What did I do to deserve this?" Being ugly is probably one of the worst things in today's society. The worst part is it never goes away, it will ALWAYS be with you, and that is an incredibly depressing thought. Now that school is out, I've been down on...
    errky errky 16-17, M 6 Responses Jun 7, 2012

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    Being skinny, you probably think it's a dream,

    but it's a nightmare. It's a nightmare where I can't wake up and live on. No, my name is Rachel and I'm 13-years old, I weigh 30 kg (frightening Ikr), and I'm 5'4. My whole life I've been skinny and thinking that my body is fine, I was wrong. This year I've noticed how skinny I...
    homesweetsuicide homesweetsuicide 13-15, F Jun 25

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    A Challenge For People Who Give Advice To Ugly People

    I have a challenge for people who like giving advice such as: 1. it’s what inside that count 2. Beauty is eyes of the beholder 3. were all beautiful in god eyes 4. There’s someone out there for everyone 5. Impacting the family Go to the store or restaurant with no make-up on...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 3 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    No one realised how ugly I am.

    Do you honestly feel the need to lie to me every single day. I know I'm not, and false hope is not something that's easily come by for me. Mainly thanks to paranoia, that of which am not grateful for ~ Stuck under it's tight grip. I look in the mirror every single day to be...
    JustThatNobody JustThatNobody 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    It's destroying me from the inside out.

    All my life (even elementary) I've been called ugly. People always tell me my imperfections. Such as "your skin is to dark" "you got such a big nose" "your smile is so weird, wtf lol." I also used to be fat, I was 180. I was about 5'3 at the time so I looked big. So I went...
    kittymadness kittymadness 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Just want to feel desirable.

    I feel detached from my body. I wish I was someone else. Someone beautiful.
    Larutan Larutan 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    You may be ugly at the outside

    but in the inside your beautiful
    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    Any one want to trade bodies,

    faces, anything? I hate to look in the mirror, it actually sickens me
    mollykdewar mollykdewar 16-17, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    I Used To Be Cute, Actually At A Time Good Looking Even.

    I am so ugly and I am not being funny or anything , I am being dead serious.  I am so ugly that I always hear people saying that guy is so ugly. The thing that really is killing me is that I am 28 now and I used to be cute as a child and even good looking as an adult. But...
    reallyuglyman reallyuglyman 26-30, M 13 Responses Feb 14, 2010

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    Sometimes I just want to cut my face over

    and over until I'm unrecognizable.
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ugly Is Too Pretty to Describe Me.

    Every day when I look in the mirror all I see if pure disgust. My face is hideous, my noes is too big, my eyes are too small, my cheeks are too fat and my skin is coverd in acne scars. I'm almost 19 and never had a boyfriend no guy in the world will ever want to be seen in public...
    SUGARxANDxLIES SUGARxANDxLIES 18-21 13 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    I Hate This Ugly Face

    i hate my ugly face.i can't go out, i can't make friens, i can't marry , i can't go for job . my school friends of my age have good job , good social life, they will marry n have kids.i have nothing .no one likes me. i wish if i could change it my ugly face. but i can't. i hate...
    uglygirl2 uglygirl2 22-25, F 5 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    I see too many, particularly young,

    women declaring that they don't feel attractive enough. I'm a professional photographer. From time to time, I do model portfolio work and in my experience the models, with all their physical blessings, are the most insecure people I've met regarding their appearance. It makes...
    anyoldrobert anyoldrobert 51-55, M 3 Responses May 18

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    Ugliness Is A Disease

    You think your life been miserable. I have lost my job because I went off (vocal not physical) on a supervisor for make a remark of how ugly I was. There’s a limit of what a person can take before the lid blow off. I went to a new high school, met a friend. He introduced me to...
    vertigo941 vertigo941 46-50 1 Response Aug 28, 2012

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