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I Hate Being Unattractive

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    I Hate It

    I really do hate it.  I'm unattractive in every sense of the word.  I'm short, fat and ugly.  I don't have a good job - I have a rubbish temp job that pays poorly.  I'm not confident, and any time I do have the confidence to stand up for myself or ask a...
    MurdochHM MurdochHM 26-30, M 5 Responses Sep 7, 2008

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    I'm Physically Attractively Challenged!

    Yeah, that's right, I'm no Sandra Bullock. I think she's very pretty. I wish I was. I'm not. Inside I'm very desirable, though outside I leave a lot to be desired. I'm a long way from eye candy. I've been funny looking my entire life. I did have a an attractive phase between 16...
    4vrUnique 4vrUnique 46-50 7 Responses Oct 12, 2009

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    It's Too Bad I Am So Vain.

    I want nothing more than to be attractive. My unattractiveness cannot be categorized. That is, I am not that fat, I still have hair (thank God), I am not missing any limbs, I haven't been shot in the face with a shotgun (or have a "shotgun face" as medical scientists put it), I...
    TheEvilLeaper TheEvilLeaper 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 18, 2010

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    I Feel Ugly :/

    I feel extremely unattractive. :( I feel like a blob with arms and legs. :/
    LonersNook LonersNook 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2012

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    pangelica pangelica 16-17 Apr 10

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