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I Hate Being Undesirable And Unattractive

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    I Hate It Because..

    People make fun of me all the time. I hate how people single me out in front of others and tell me my exterior flaws. I am sick of hearing: -"You've always had a big stomach" -"You carry most of your weight in your thighs" -"You need to do something to fix your face, you're...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 68 Responses Nov 26, 2010

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    The Picture

    I DONT THINK THAT THE PICTURE THAT I SEE RIGHT NOW TO DESCRIBE THIS  GROUP IS THAT FUNNY!!  IT'S ALMOST MAKING FUN OF EVERYONE THAT FEEL'S THIS WAY!!  HAVING SOME GUY WITH SPIT HANGING OUT OF HIS MOUTH TO REPRESENT THIS GROUP IS  BULLSHIT!!  I KNOW THAT JUST BECAUSE WE FEEL...
    sue75 sue75 36-40, F Mar 19, 2011

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    I Guess I Joined This Group On A Bad Day!

    I mean, I don't think I'm THAT ugly. (I have some pictures on my profile if you want to make your own decision!). But I am definately undesirable to most of the boys I know. I'm quiet and not very outgoing. I'm also not easy or desperate, which is what most boys go for at my age...
    LittleMissLucky LittleMissLucky 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    Yeah I Do....

    But i know that is all that i will ever be, it has been pointed out to me more than once, that that is all that I will ever be, and I hate it, and I wish that it wasn't the case, but i know im an ugly fat no one, who isn't really wanted by anyone. i hate it, but it sucks.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 26, 2010

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    One Begets The Other...

    Which came first, the chicken or the egg? Does someone who is physically attractive become more desirable, or are desirable traits more attractive? Not sure, but I have neither. I suppose I could get plastic surgery to fix the physical aspects, but not sure if science knows how...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Perception

    Since attractiveness and desirability are such subjective terms it's not something most people can make a sound judgement about.I hear a lot of people complain about being unattractive or undesirable.  I do it myself.  And sadly sometimes it's true.Mostly though it's...
    DarknessFallen DarknessFallen 16-17 6 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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