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I Hate Being Undesirable And Unattractive

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    One Begets The Other...

    Which came first, the chicken or the egg? Does someone who is physically attractive become more desirable, or are desirable traits more attractive? Not sure, but I have neither. I suppose I could get plastic surgery to fix the physical aspects, but not sure if science knows how...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Perception

    Since attractiveness and desirability are such subjective terms it's not something most people can make a sound judgement about.I hear a lot of people complain about being unattractive or undesirable.  I do it myself.  And sadly sometimes it's true.Mostly though it's...
    DarknessFallen DarknessFallen 16-17 6 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    I Hate It Because..

    People make fun of me all the time. I hate how people single me out in front of others and tell me my exterior flaws. I am sick of hearing: -"You've always had a big stomach" -"You carry most of your weight in your thighs" -"You need to do something to fix your face, you're...
    TheRoseThatGrewFromConcrete TheRoseThatGrewFromConcrete 70+, F 68 Responses Nov 26, 2010

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    The Picture

    I DONT THINK THAT THE PICTURE THAT I SEE RIGHT NOW TO DESCRIBE THIS  GROUP IS THAT FUNNY!!  IT'S ALMOST MAKING FUN OF EVERYONE THAT FEEL'S THIS WAY!!  HAVING SOME GUY WITH SPIT HANGING OUT OF HIS MOUTH TO REPRESENT THIS GROUP IS  BULLSHIT!!  I KNOW THAT JUST BECAUSE WE FEEL...
    sue75 sue75 36-40, F Mar 19, 2011

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    Yeah I Do....

    But i know that is all that i will ever be, it has been pointed out to me more than once, that that is all that I will ever be, and I hate it, and I wish that it wasn't the case, but i know im an ugly fat no one, who isn't really wanted by anyone. i hate it, but it sucks.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 26, 2010

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    I Guess I Joined This Group On A Bad Day!

    I mean, I don't think I'm THAT ugly. (I have some pictures on my profile if you want to make your own decision!). But I am definately undesirable to most of the boys I know. I'm quiet and not very outgoing. I'm also not easy or desperate, which is what most boys go for at my age...
    LittleMissLucky LittleMissLucky 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    I can't say that I hate being a stepmom because I'm not one. honestly reading some of these stories mine either seems hopeless or trivial. But I've been with my BF for almost one...
    arcee15 arcee15 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I enjoy being alone. I am able to entertain myself in ways I can't when I'm around others. But I hate being lonely and left or forgotten. That causes a person to be lonely.
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M Mar 1

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    I really hate being a girl. Everyday, I go through boys trying to talk to me when I don't want to. They always ask me am I single and Can I get to know them. That's why I never...
    WeirdOtaku WeirdOtaku 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    I hate being gay because it means that I will be alone for the rest of my life. The feeling of liking someone is so wonderful yet you should stop right aways cause that guy that...
    johnlee1527 johnlee1527 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 13

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    I honestly hate being the most responsible and the "mom" in my group of friends, like I like to have fun and stuff too, just it sucks having to leave to go to work and it,sucks...
    kaylakanoelani kaylakanoelani 16-17, F Feb 28

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    You know what, I don't exactly hate being blocked by someone I haven't met. In fact, I want to thank the spineless cowards who decided to block me before I could talk to them. Oh...
    BloodFanatic BloodFanatic 18-21, M Mar 8

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    I hate being alone but would rather be alone than with someone who doesn't understand me
    mtbmitch mtbmitch 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 9

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    I hate being sick ugh i cannot deal
    NorthCarolinaNC NorthCarolinaNC 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 12

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    I hate being single. What is wrong with me? Am I not likeable? I lost a girl now a guy. I dont think I would be in a relationship. I am going to be someone raising cats in my house...
    elephant17 elephant17 18-21, F Mar 14

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    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    I probably won't ever find someone that want to be with me besides for my money. I hate being so ugly.
    Hailey7685 Hailey7685 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hate Being Judged By People That Dont Even Know Me
    goodnites25 goodnites25 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    As much as I hate being alone with my thoughts, I'm terrified to talk about certain things. I don't want to scare people away. I have certain people in my life that I trust, but I...
    untamedx3heart untamedx3heart 22-25, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I don't like being single. I hate coming home with no one to look foreword to seeing me or vice versa. I hate going to bed alone and I hate taking care of my own "needs"
    myshell91 myshell91 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 28

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    I HATE IT I HATE IT I HATE IT I HATE I HATE I HATE I HATE IT I HATE ME! :'( >_< Why can't i just be more fun? :
    DessyLove DessyLove 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 9

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    This so so true for me. I like to be by myself, but i hate the feeling of being lonely and feeling like you have nobody.
    JustineMusey JustineMusey 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 1

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    When I was 16 I got pregnant. Lost 25 lbs in 2 weeks and was 10 lbs away from going back to my regular weight. I honestly got careless and kept gaining weight I hated it but couldn...
    Confusedfordummys Confusedfordummys 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    UGHHHHHH! Just a note, this is not for compliments or reassurements...those who have spoken to me know by now I post to rant and spill excess emotion. So, -ahem-, 'tis rant time. I...
    littleprincesslulu littleprincesslulu 18-21, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a stepmom of a girl age 13, been for a little over a year. I hate it. When I see her all i see is my husband (her dad) old wife and old life. We have a real daughter that is 4...
    StepmomLife StepmomLife 26-30, F 5 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    First thing's first. I hate it when people in my generation act like we are the worst generation known to man. We are not. We are just getting started and we have our pros and cons...
    Allforaview Allforaview 18-21, F Mar 1

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    Being lied to and/or ignored.. :/ Hate it!
    Majin1712 Majin1712 22-25, F 18 Responses Mar 4

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    I hate it when my "friends" ignore my messages on purpose. I tried talking to a friend all day yesterday. Sent them 4 messages - and each one said it was read. So I send two angry...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    My psychologist and me get along, but he's extremely judgemental and really gets on my nerves at times and is seriously such an a**hole. The other day, I told him about me wanting...
    MegaManZero97 MegaManZero97 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am with one of the BIGGEST liars ever. I have been with him for over6+ years. I hate it. Back when we were younger I broke up with him because he was a liar. I guess I thought...
    giggles1469 giggles1469 46-50, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    Why??!! I not doing everything right.. Wasting my life.. ****.. I hate this thing.. I hate it!!
    WayangPanda WayangPanda 18-21, M Mar 8

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    I hate hearing fighting and yelling in general, but its bad people so this at all. i hate it because when i hear it i yell back nd i feel wrong.
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    I just hate people so much sometimes. I try to give advice and help on here but I have been attacked by feminists, christians and people that think I'm a pervert. No I'm just...
    canusernamebemyusername canusernamebemyusername 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I hate when guys lie to me. Just be real and honest. That's all I ask. I hate when guys want to continue to use you for there own selfish good because they are ********.
    Damien92 Damien92 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate it when people say "why do you never talk" or " why are you shy"... Well the thing is i have social anxiety. I didnt choose to have it, it just happened and i hate it...
    JustineMusey JustineMusey 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I really shouldn't complain, I have a good life, I have a very good family. But I'm just so tired of being single, I'm so tired of waking up in the morning, and not having that one...
    Elkins91 Elkins91 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I hate liars ! just be real with me. don't lead me on because you do not want my bad side
    cmorri18 cmorri18 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 28

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    I really hate when people ignore me after I have taken the time and effort to make contact or say hi!!!!!
    Orangeman2 Orangeman2 36-40, M Feb 28

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    let's have a vote. what is better, being single or being in a relationship?
    zakarmo14 zakarmo14 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 1

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    Isn't this like every introvert ever...we like the space , our " me" time is important to us. It's because when we do spent time with people; bestfriends or strangers we use up...
    hadidamshah hadidamshah 22-25, M Mar 1

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    Hi guys so I'm new at this so I'm figuring everything thing out so Ya. But I go to an all girls high school. It's great I made new friends but at my old school we had mixers are...
    tuonogyrl tuonogyrl 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 1

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