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I Hate Being Undesirable And Unattractive

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    One Begets The Other...

    Which came first, the chicken or the egg? Does someone who is physically attractive become more desirable, or are desirable traits more attractive? Not sure, but I have neither. I suppose I could get plastic surgery to fix the physical aspects, but not sure if science knows how...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    I Guess I Joined This Group On A Bad Day!

    I mean, I don't think I'm THAT ugly. (I have some pictures on my profile if you want to make your own decision!). But I am definately undesirable to most of the boys I know. I'm quiet and not very outgoing. I'm also not easy or desperate, which is what most boys go for at my age...
    LittleMissLucky LittleMissLucky 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    Perception

    Since attractiveness and desirability are such subjective terms it's not something most people can make a sound judgement about.I hear a lot of people complain about being unattractive or undesirable.  I do it myself.  And sadly sometimes it's true.Mostly though it's...
    DarknessFallen DarknessFallen 16-17 6 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    The Picture

    I DONT THINK THAT THE PICTURE THAT I SEE RIGHT NOW TO DESCRIBE THIS  GROUP IS THAT FUNNY!!  IT'S ALMOST MAKING FUN OF EVERYONE THAT FEEL'S THIS WAY!!  HAVING SOME GUY WITH SPIT HANGING OUT OF HIS MOUTH TO REPRESENT THIS GROUP IS  BULLSHIT!!  I KNOW THAT JUST BECAUSE WE FEEL...
    sue75 sue75 36-40, F Mar 19, 2011

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    Yeah I Do....

    But i know that is all that i will ever be, it has been pointed out to me more than once, that that is all that I will ever be, and I hate it, and I wish that it wasn't the case, but i know im an ugly fat no one, who isn't really wanted by anyone. i hate it, but it sucks.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 26, 2010

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    I Hate It Because..

    People make fun of me all the time. I hate how people single me out in front of others and tell me my exterior flaws. I am sick of hearing: -"You've always had a big stomach" -"You carry most of your weight in your thighs" -"You need to do something to fix your face, you're...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 68 Responses Nov 26, 2010

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    I know it's wrong to hate who I am. God made me this way for a reason. But I hate being female. It doesn't feel right. I can't relate to other girls. I mean, I can relate to girls...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Okay time for a rant. I honestly hate being tall. People constantly asking "How tall are you?", "How's the weather up there.", "Hey, come help me reach this!" and many more! People...
    jasonpw jasonpw 16-17, M 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    My parents sometimes have these little outbursts for no reason and sometimes I get the blame for said outbursts even though I didn't do anything wrong. The only times i've...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 28

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    Is it just me or are loads of (young) people just signing up to attack what you wrote just for the fun of it?? Some haven't even read through the whole story and based their...
    makingimpossiblepossible makingimpossiblepossible 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I hate being in pain... It makes me feel sad and alone. I have poor tolerance in pain... And I hate it even more... When I am sick and weak, I just think that physical pain is just...
    graceyflux graceyflux 26-30, F Mar 29

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    Well, I hate being the youngest eldest one in our family. I'm almost 20 years old, and my family still treats me as if I'm 15 years old. Like for instance, my cousin had thrown a...
    CharleeLuv CharleeLuv 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    It is tough for me because as much as I hate being in crowded places and surrounded by too many people, I really do love going to concerts.. More crowded it can't really get, right...
    Ortolan Ortolan 26-30, F Mar 31

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    I hate being mad at other people and my self. When I get mad I get really confused because I don't want to be mad at someone and it doesn't make sense to be mad at nothing or no...
    Potter66 Potter66 16-17, F Apr 7

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    Being Alone is the suckiest feeling in the world!!! I would be stuck to someone 24-7 if I could.... People say it's not healthy.... But I say, it's the way I'm made!! I hate being...
    DeeDee32 DeeDee32 31-35 a week ago

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    I hate being desperate for love but it is such a great feeling. I wish I never had that first relationship so that I wouldn't have to deal with this ****
    Pain1374 Pain1374 18-21, M Mar 19

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    I hate being me. My husband died of ALS, Lou Gherigs disease, and has been rotting in the ground for almost 3 years. He abused me and didn't help me in my hour of need. I now have...
    justmealaone justmealaone 56-60, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I feel like every one is using me for something I hate being used
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I really do hate being judge by people but somehow I always end up not caring about it or even pay attention about it since I don't wake up everyday to please everyone nor look...
    Acesha16 Acesha16 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I hate being sick I can never do anything
    amarie0710 amarie0710 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I hate being so tall. Most of my friends my age are shorter and I look like a giant. I have only two older friends who are taller and they are male! So that doesn't really count
    Diana14R Diana14R 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Me and my boyfriend were going through a rough patch and I missed him a lot. Most people say young people cant be in love and most of the time I agree but I love this guy to bits...
    courtneytaylor courtneytaylor 13-15, F Apr 5

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    I hate being ignored especially by the person I really like and care for. I know I sometimes I can be annoying I think but I think you should just tell me instead of me loving you...
    iloveyoutooboo iloveyoutooboo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I Hate Being a Teenager But I still kinda Like it .
    yoyo526 yoyo526 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Oh god how I hate lies and fake complements , being honest isn't a crime !
    nero1991 nero1991 22-25, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Why do people judge you easily when they don't even know you at all? Just because they didn't like my question, they reacted like as if I degrade people based on their orientation...
    MissPurple912 MissPurple912 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I love attention, so I hate when I don't get it, especially from the people I love most, I like being the center of everything and people rely on me. I like being the one who's...
    mrij mrij 22-25, F Mar 30

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    I would yell at my mom sometimes as a teen because she was a very aggravating person to deal with and on top of that I already had anger issues (don't really any more). I got up...
    boastroasttoast boastroasttoast 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    All right, I know people come on here to either wine, or try to think about nothing but sunshine and rainbows...no offense, being positive and hopeful is good for moral.... but i...
    Dayzdreamer Dayzdreamer 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    I have been with my partner since October of 2011 and love him very much. I have never been crazy about children but decided to give it a try. His son is almost 5 now and it really...
    gagnone19 gagnone19 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I have never felt beautiful in my entire 19 years. A few years ago, my cousins who I have always been close to told me I was ugly. I felt really horrible and my self-esteem...
    willneverbepretty willneverbepretty 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I just hate the feeling of when I'm with a friend or someone I care about and they have to leave for any reason...I start to feel very heartbroken, though I don't show it on the...
    SarahBear907 SarahBear907 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    At times I really hate it. Accepting myself for who I was changed my life, but at the same time I'm scared of being this way for the rest of my life. I can't force myself to be...
    Rayonkier Rayonkier 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Ran out of room for being stabbed in my back, now haters are jabbing at my sides twisting their blades. some of these wounds weren't meant to heal But every time they send me to...
    AngelaBelievesInLove AngelaBelievesInLove 22-25, F Apr 4

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    What I hate overall about being a "step parent" is the fact that all I really equate to is a wallet.
    sobackwards sobackwards 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    Raising a child that isn't your own. Such fun! When things get tough, there are no sweet memories of them being cute because you weren't around for that part. No biological love...
    Countrychicky Countrychicky 26-30 4 Responses Apr 10

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    All most everyday I get pick on for being shy not just by people at my school but mostly by my family and I hate it. I'm trying so hard not to be shy. I want to be an actress when...
    SandraArdell SandraArdell 16-17, F 2 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    What the **** is wrong with me why do people hate me so much even my twin sister hates me why am I so unlikeable
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I hate how my sister is trying to use me to get to my boyfriends money that's bullshit I hate when she does this she will never see a penny of his money
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 26

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    it's honestly the number 1 thing i hate about myself amongst my list of things i hate. i will never be perfect and thats all i want. i starve and starve and no matter how much...
    hypnoticz hypnoticz 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 10

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    I hate when people stare at me because of my wheelchair. I understand your not used to seeing a teenager in a wheelchair but I would rather you ask questions than stare it just...
    Kaylamay17 Kaylamay17 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    I married out of need. When my ex dropped the pregnant bomb I freaked. Not cause of that, but cause I really didn't love her that much. At the time . Then she said it was twins. So...
    IyaAveer IyaAveer 41-45, M Mar 20

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    During childhood I felt alone, different, and anxious. Later I became moody. I never exposed my real feelings but rather hid them away. To friends and teachers I was a happy...
    Jal172 Jal172 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I'm known as "termite" in school for tripping on something and hotting my teeth on a wooden locker. I tremendously hate it. I wish i didn't trip or at least wish I didn't hit the...
    SecretsNeverHidden SecretsNeverHidden 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    back in November I stopped seeing and speaking to my 'friend' he had hid gong on a trip w/ another woman; but he admitted it when asked. He called me last week, he was in town...I...
    iNEED2talkAlot iNEED2talkAlot 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I fcking hate it but it always happens especially with the people i rly care the most thats why it hurts so much. /:
    Ali7890 Ali7890 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    i hate people judging me the way i act and the speak.Why?simple every where go i ware boys staff and look like a boy talk like a boy even walk like a boy.I dont care,i let them...
    AthlexnaLeeJJ191001TOMBOYHD AthlexnaLeeJJ191001TOMBOYHD 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    This is a pet hate of mine. It's a perfect example of 'don't judge a book by it's cover' everybody always wonders why people have such low self esteem; it's because they're...
    AlaiahMay AlaiahMay 18-21, F Mar 23

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    I hate when I get cold and wet from the rain but getting home and having a hot bath always help
    Lisalocket1225 Lisalocket1225 18-21, F Mar 24

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    I think every day the fact I live in the world being judged. Everyone in the world is judged in some way. But one thing is very common people judged people how they talk or...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    There are people that I would be ok with then controlling me but its the amount of control my parents think they have over ne that i hate. They control what i wear, how i do my...
    LizWasNotHere LizWasNotHere 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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