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I Hate Being Undesirable And Unattractive

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    I Guess I Joined This Group On A Bad Day!

    I mean, I don't think I'm THAT ugly. (I have some pictures on my profile if you want to make your own decision!). But I am definately undesirable to most of the boys I know. I'm quiet and not very outgoing. I'm also not easy or desperate, which is what most boys go for at my age...
    LittleMissLucky LittleMissLucky 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    One Begets The Other...

    Which came first, the chicken or the egg? Does someone who is physically attractive become more desirable, or are desirable traits more attractive? Not sure, but I have neither. I suppose I could get plastic surgery to fix the physical aspects, but not sure if science knows how...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    I Hate It Because..

    People make fun of me all the time. I hate how people single me out in front of others and tell me my exterior flaws. I am sick of hearing: -"You've always had a big stomach" -"You carry most of your weight in your thighs" -"You need to do something to fix your face, you're...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25, F 68 Responses Nov 26, 2010

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    Yeah I Do....

    But i know that is all that i will ever be, it has been pointed out to me more than once, that that is all that I will ever be, and I hate it, and I wish that it wasn't the case, but i know im an ugly fat no one, who isn't really wanted by anyone. i hate it, but it sucks.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 26, 2010

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    The Picture

    I DONT THINK THAT THE PICTURE THAT I SEE RIGHT NOW TO DESCRIBE THIS  GROUP IS THAT FUNNY!!  IT'S ALMOST MAKING FUN OF EVERYONE THAT FEEL'S THIS WAY!!  HAVING SOME GUY WITH SPIT HANGING OUT OF HIS MOUTH TO REPRESENT THIS GROUP IS  BULLSHIT!!  I KNOW THAT JUST BECAUSE WE FEEL...
    sue75 sue75 36-40, F Mar 19, 2011

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    Perception

    Since attractiveness and desirability are such subjective terms it's not something most people can make a sound judgement about.I hear a lot of people complain about being unattractive or undesirable.  I do it myself.  And sadly sometimes it's true.Mostly though it's...
    DarknessFallen DarknessFallen 16-17 6 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Okay. I've been asked out more than a few times by more than a few guys. I don't know why, but I take it horribly. The first time I was asked out I was a young girl, completely...
    theopposite theopposite 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I hate being ignored! I can't stand when I ask someone a question then they don't respond to me and when I ask again they Yell the answer at me Like im annoying them with my...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 2

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    I hate being the last person on his list.. Outside of work & the kids - I am last. I'm tired of him getting calls/texts everyday from his ex.. Interrupting anytime I ever get with...
    patientlove patientlove 22-25 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Lying is such a big turn off, I hate being lied too! Usually I already know what's going to happen, what the answer is, if I have this feelings that I'm being lied too..don't you...
    lifelessons15 lifelessons15 16-17, F Oct 9

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    I only hate being ignored by the close people in my life. Anyone else feel like being ignored is one of the worse feelings to feel? Ugh I hate it. Maybe cause it annoys me lol
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I hate being lied to and I hate lying but I had to tell my boyfriend a little bit of a lie about his birthday present since i want it to be a surprise but he guessed what it is :(
    behappy4 behappy4 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I hate being in a house with a woman who's supposed to be my companion but more of a roommate! The passion is gone. The warmth is gone. The companionship is gone. All there is are...
    SweetHugs SweetHugs 41-45, M Sep 29

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    I hate being in a house with a woman who's supposed to be my companion but more of a roommate! The passion is gone. The warmth is gone. The companionship is gone. All there is are...
    SweetHugs SweetHugs 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 29

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    I hate being clod in bed especially my feet . I hate it when my feet's cold .
    wildman43055 wildman43055 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 11

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    My husband has gone out and my son has gone to his grandmas and I hate being myself because I realise I have no meaning other than being a wife and a mother is that sad?
    ThoughtIknewLove ThoughtIknewLove 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 5

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    I'm trying to keep myself From being extremely bored while I'm on fall break from school. I still hate being extremely bored and most times I feel like no one wants to talk to me...
    wmc1244 wmc1244 16-17, M Oct 9

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    Srsly? Just cos I'm a teenager doesn't mean i live to egg peoples houses and kick bins over. To be honest, i do practically the opposite. I'm not trying to say i have super powers...
    TheKidInTheCorner TheKidInTheCorner 13-15, M Oct 10

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    Attention Stepmom's: Put yourself first. I recently left my husband this week after 10 years of marriage. I was unhappy with the conditions of our home and how he never held his...
    Februarychic Februarychic 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 15

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    I hate being lied to! And I'm sick of being lied to! What do I have to be a FBI agent!
    AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR AnOtHaJaZzYDrEaMeR 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really hate being shy and it's annoying. I really can't stand my ground that much and Im shy in front of the classroom giving a speech or something like that. I wish I wasn't...
    KiaraTheLioness KiaraTheLioness 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    I hate being married to my husband he is a big disappointment. I can't believe I have wasted 13 years of marriage and over 18 years with him. We have 4 children who are embarrassed...
    SkylarPeach SkylarPeach 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    I'm literally the most stubborn person ever. I hate being wrong! I will literally argue all day just for someone to say "I give up, you win." This is an awful way to be, and I...
    desired101 desired101 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    Yes. I hate being sick. I have a cold and I feel like ****. Ugh.
    LittleKandi LittleKandi 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    Ugh i really hate being sick 😔 I need some soup aha😊
    xoSaraPaigexo xoSaraPaigexo 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 6

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    I actually hate being cold but I honestly love this weather because that means it's time to wear my hoodies:) current favorite is the one I bought yesterday from the bookstore at...
    fallout07 fallout07 18-21, F Oct 7

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    I personally hate being lied to because that means there's a lack of trust, and it makes me so mad when I find out someone's been lying to me. I've been recently lied to by my...
    marinnam marinnam 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I hate being lied to by by best friend's boyfriend He asked me what kinda flowers she liked and I said lilies cause she loves lilies. Their two year anniversary was coming up so...
    andyrazor andyrazor 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    I hate being alone. especially on important days. I think I've had to make my own cake for three years now. Everyone always forgets. This year my parents went out bowling with my...
    FiftyLyricsInAMiracle FiftyLyricsInAMiracle 13-15, F 6 Responses Oct 11

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    I hate being lied to. That's it. Cuz it will drive me NUTS!! So yep, don't lie it's not ok. Be Awesome! It works trust me!! :) :P
    JazLife21 JazLife21 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Would you lie I someone you love?? If you said yes to this then your not any where close to the right kind but I hate being lied to but think about this why do we lie?? Why do you...
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    How do you ever trust someone? How do I confront the fears without letting them consume my thoughts? What am I so afraid of? What if everything is a lie? Why do they hurt me so...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 31-35, F 22 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate being 5'5'' **** this ****, nobody will never be in love with me because I am a ******* dwarf. Killing myself right now
    andrespm andrespm 18-21, M 11 hrs ago

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    I ******* hate not being able to tell people to **** Off....>:( I hate not being able to hate someone, I hate caring about everyone even the people that bully me.... I just...
    Chocolate29 Chocolate29 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    Today my younger brother came to me and said "how is it that you have no friends? No one in this world lives the way you do, they all have friends! I mean you look hot, you are...
    AstridPhotographer AstridPhotographer 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 26

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    I'm 29 years old and I don't have breasts, anything at all; I always feel angry for being an incomplete woman. My mom has normal breasts, I don't understand why I had this terrible...
    MinekoChan MinekoChan 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 29

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    I hate all of my "friends" being only 14 i have been treated like crap, need to fix anything related to a computer? Call jp, the project we were supposed to give this morning? Its...
    JPwolf JPwolf 13-15, M 5 days ago

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    I love it but I hate it. I miss my boyfriend. I hate that all my friends want me to go out with them and their boyfriend, though I hate third wheeling. One friend even asked me to...
    queennahbe queennahbe 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    Its the worst thing! I hate when I get yelled at especially when it's my parents or my older sis cause then I know I'm in trouble.. Being yelled at makes me feel sad cause I know I...
    Williamm001 Williamm001 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 16

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    People who don't even know me should just keep their thoughts to themselves... rather than, "No, no, no. That don't go with that," or anything like that. When I go and try on new...
    SamHarris SamHarris 22-25, M Oct 17

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    I am wishing that the men who have rejected even having general conversations with me because I am ugly would at least tell me I was right instead of going silent. Something like...
    Myzery Myzery 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 6

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    I really shouldnt hate it, but it is the hardest most hurtful thing in the world. Especially when the stepkids have a bio mom like the one i deal with. I really need some...
    Kcmomof5 Kcmomof5 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 13

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    The most thing i hate is being lied to specially when i know its a lie and i know that person is lying
    sweetx95 sweetx95 18-21, F 12 Responses Oct 15

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    If theres one thing i hate is a damn *** liar especially when its a man who's playing games. On top of that they want to act like they did nothing wrong smh i hate liars and man.
    RoughLife88 RoughLife88 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    We battle it everyday some corporation or person trying to pin a label on us. Or we do it to ourselves. I absolutely hate it with a passion. Don't ever let someone pin a label on...
    brfic brfic 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Mum and I went to KFC to get lunch and had to pass the supermarket car park and a couple with two little kids got out of their car nearby us and as we were walking past the little...
    Foxie913 Foxie913 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    What I really hate is when it's cold outside, and my room is cold but my den is warm. I don't do well with cold weather. In bed, I have to wear socks on my feet and worse i catch a...
    SentimentalMood SentimentalMood 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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