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I Hate Being Undesirable And Unattractive

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    Yeah I Do....

    But i know that is all that i will ever be, it has been pointed out to me more than once, that that is all that I will ever be, and I hate it, and I wish that it wasn't the case, but i know im an ugly fat no one, who isn't really wanted by anyone. i hate it, but it sucks.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 26, 2010

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    I Hate It Because..

    People make fun of me all the time. I hate how people single me out in front of others and tell me my exterior flaws. I am sick of hearing: -"You've always had a big stomach" -"You carry most of your weight in your thighs" -"You need to do something to fix your face, you're...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 22-25 68 Responses Nov 26, 2010

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    Perception

    Since attractiveness and desirability are such subjective terms it's not something most people can make a sound judgement about.I hear a lot of people complain about being unattractive or undesirable.  I do it myself.  And sadly sometimes it's true.Mostly though it's...
    DarknessFallen DarknessFallen 16-17 6 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    One Begets The Other...

    Which came first, the chicken or the egg? Does someone who is physically attractive become more desirable, or are desirable traits more attractive? Not sure, but I have neither. I suppose I could get plastic surgery to fix the physical aspects, but not sure if science knows how...
    EnigmaVest EnigmaVest 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    The Picture

    I DONT THINK THAT THE PICTURE THAT I SEE RIGHT NOW TO DESCRIBE THIS  GROUP IS THAT FUNNY!!  IT'S ALMOST MAKING FUN OF EVERYONE THAT FEEL'S THIS WAY!!  HAVING SOME GUY WITH SPIT HANGING OUT OF HIS MOUTH TO REPRESENT THIS GROUP IS  BULLSHIT!!  I KNOW THAT JUST BECAUSE WE FEEL...
    sue75 sue75 36-40, F Mar 19, 2011

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    I Guess I Joined This Group On A Bad Day!

    I mean, I don't think I'm THAT ugly. (I have some pictures on my profile if you want to make your own decision!). But I am definately undesirable to most of the boys I know. I'm quiet and not very outgoing. I'm also not easy or desperate, which is what most boys go for at my age...
    LittleMissLucky LittleMissLucky 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2011

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    Related Experiences

    Just because I'm not sexually experienced. My friends who are all younger than me (only by a couple months) and have all done something sexual a couple times,..treat me like I'm a...
    msft16 msft16 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    I hate doing dishes and really only do them when I'm anxious or depressed. I figured out its a good coping method. And a good distraction. Needless to say all the dishes got done...
    Awesg Awesg 18-21, F 2 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I am a newly wed, and my husband has three kids (11yrs, 2 yrs, 11 months) with two other women. I have a 2 yr old from a previous relationship (whose "real" dad has never been...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    i hated it and i hate it now..this sickening pain and throbbing veins..syomach churing in vomiting rising in my chest anf thos dark night
    snuffal snuffal 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My story isn't quite like everyone else.. we live about 300 miles away so we only get the "princess" during the summer but that is a few months of my house being taken over and...
    EvilStepMom33 EvilStepMom33 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate it when I send someone a message and they read it and don't even try to get back to me, or just being ignored in general.
    Born2Inspire Born2Inspire 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I hate how black people are treated. We get no jobs. We look the ugliest. We get mocked all over the world. It's like god made black people just to get bullied and treated like...
    ihatebeingblack44 ihatebeingblack44 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    This is going to be very long winded and I'm posting this because I need to vent and need to know who else is going through something similar and how they're handling it. Here goes...
    Kristy37 Kristy37 36-40, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate the arrogance with which people declare that they know exactly who I am. I just came back to my hometown from college and I have changed a lot. In particular, I have become...
    puppywoof puppywoof 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate being a step mother!!! I hate it! I hate it! I hate it! I know that blending families is a hard thing to do, and I love all of my children. I am tired of feeling wrong...
    Wzv63w Wzv63w 26-30, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Damn hate being bored anyone up to chat message me
    dom8869 dom8869 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    I am ashamed of being part the male gender. Most offenders that relates to sexual offences(including **********) is mostly male. At least not all males are like this, including me...
    Profweird Profweird 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    IDK why he has to lie to me about things I'm not dumb he has lied in the past and still continues to lie even now. I have been lied to so many times in my life by a few ex...
    LuvLostSoul LuvLostSoul 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate being lesbian because my parents are extremely homophobic and i hate i always fall in love with women i can never have. :( :(
    Iloveowl Iloveowl 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost three years. We have been together for just about seven years. I love him dearly. We are undoubtedly soul mates. People go years and...
    mottkat mottkat 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi I would like to vent a little bit.I Hate getting treated like I am stupid in front of my spouse friends and in laws.They treat me like I am garbage or treat me like I am stupid...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 6 days ago

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    In my childhood, I cry easily. My mom hate it, she told me to stop crying. Crying is only for babies. I'm not a baby anymore. I know the way she said that to make me independent...
    yumemi yumemi 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    when you have insomnia, and other people are moody, etc and they blame it on being "tired", Really?? Tell me about it! So Am I, but I dont use it as excuse to be moody/bitchy, etc...
    EllenRB EllenRB 46-50, F Jun 25

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    Absolutely hate being sick. Hurting and running fever and it bites.
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    so if you don't know me please don't judge or hate me and so far people has welcomed me and I'm thankful for that :)
    AdorableBubz AdorableBubz 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    People will lie about anything these days. So pathetic! No one knows how to just be who they truly are anymore. So annoying bc I'm nothing if not honest, open, and REAL and I feel...
    FightingForHappiness FightingForHappiness 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 22

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    Am 5'6 and I just hate it! I used to get teased allot sometimes I still do and I just feel there's nothing left of me cause am useless. I cry thinking that if I had a choice I...
    Kadeez Kadeez 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I hate being lied to if I ask something just be honest that is all
    hornywife18 hornywife18 31-35, F 12 Responses Jun 22

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    First, I would like to say that I wish I had found this group prior to even getting involved with a man with kids!!! I would have ran so fast the other way. I'm 36...I have a...
    Dddsss123 Dddsss123 36-40 3 Responses Jun 22

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    I absolutely hate it, if you don't want to talk to me just say it instead of blanking me!! Also I hate it when your talking and you send them a message back and they don't reply...
    KD126 KD126 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I hate perverts on this site! Teenagers go on this site to help others and receive advice and actually make an effort to make someone's life a bit brighter, You guys deserve to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jun 19

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    I hate being single I've never had a girlfriend, never even had a female friend tbh I suffer from social anxiety so I hate being round lots of people plus I'm super shy and I just...
    ajit1995 ajit1995 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    What is wrong with me? I can't stand being alone with new people or even people I know but just don't speak to a lot. I panic at the thought of it. I can't order food at a...
    RadiateLove RadiateLove 16-17, F Jun 19

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    I hate it when I'm sick I have a hard time breathing and my nose get stuffy and I just don't look sexy when I'm sick
    Vswagger Vswagger 13-15, M Jun 19

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    I hate waking up 2/3 times during the night.. I am very sleepy now and i can't seem to fall asleep. When i finally do fall asleep, i can't stay sleep for long. Sucks even more...
    EternityF EternityF 26-30, F Jun 18

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    I hate it soo much!! sometimes the room is too light even though there's no light in it.. :(
    MrLazyCloud MrLazyCloud 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 18

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    I hate it when people label me as someone who is tough, feeling-less, serious etc… and make all kinds of jokes about the way I would treat my partner. Just because I don’t...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    I never asked to be a stepmom or have this girl in my family, it might sound harsh but i don't see her as part of the family and i hate having her in MY home
    StepmomLife StepmomLife 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I hate it when people try to manipulate the situation to make you feel like you did something wrong or to make you feel horrible. I'm not stupid! I know what you're doing and I'm...
    MyEpochStory MyEpochStory 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I cannot stand being lied to. I'll find out soon enough and then it'll be harder to earn back my trust. Liars are just unnecessary in this world. I'd rather someone tell me the...
    bookaholic14 bookaholic14 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    We have been married for 5 years but together for 12 years. We have 2 wonderful kids but I hate being stuck in this one way marriage. He hasn't worked in almost 5 years. I work...
    NoelleRose NoelleRose 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 16