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I Hate Being Yelled At

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    I'll Take The Blame If You'll Just Be Quiet - All of my life,I've tried to avoid conflict. I'll let someone hurt me before I'll hurt them. I'll take the blame and make the...
    meganj1959 meganj1959 51-55, F Nov 11, 2013

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    I didn't do anything wrong, I hate being yelled at for something I didn't do or start or cause. I get yelled at at least twice a day by someone in my family, and I hate it so much...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    A Teacher Who Yelled. - I don't know what it is. Some sort of flight or fight response. But when someone yells at me I clench up like I'm about to be slapped. I had this teacher...
    Thevy29 Thevy29 26-30, M Oct 3, 2013

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    Bah! - Nothing sets me off more quickly then someone yelling at me....I'll usually just sit there and let it happen and then afterwards just say to them "are you done yet...
    ForeversNever ForeversNever 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 13, 2008

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    I'm a Nervous Wreck - When someone really is angry and yelling at me... if I'm not yelling back, I'm shaking and trying to leave. What's worse for me is hearing someone else...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 11, 2007

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    Lol who actually likes being yelled at though
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F Apr 6

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    I'm worried my engagement to my fiancé isn't going to work out. He just yelled at me for throwing away something he had put in a trash pile and said "******* stay out of my stuff...
    dontfloatthemainstream dontfloatthemainstream 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    When I get yelled at I don't get sad, I get angry. Especially when it's for no reason or for the smallest things. I don't know why but that's how I've been for a while.
    CDavisJr CDavisJr 16-17, M Mar 1

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    Bad Memories. - Being yelled at throws me into defensive mode. This mode was adopted in my childhood. When I'm yelled at I shut down. This is a total shut down. Emotionally...
    Mello Mello 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    It Makes Me Feel Hated If It Is Regular -           It makes me feel hated, especially if the same person yells at me frequently. ...
    MDenise MDenise 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 26, 2010

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    I Can'T Stand It. - When someone yells at me I just go into my shell. I can't stand being yelled at, it brings on flashbacks, and things I don't need to think about. Having complex...
    justme8903 justme8903 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2013

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    I get really nervous when people tell at me. I don't know what it is, but even when people are playing - I cringe. I hate it! I just hate it. I never told anyone - I just take it...
    WasteYouthWithMe WasteYouthWithMe 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 14

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    I Have Always Hated Yelling - When people yell out of anger it sends chills down my spine, even if it isn't directed towards me. It makes me extremely anxious even hearing my...
    dejaentendu90 dejaentendu90 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    I hate it so much . My mom just yelled at me for not answering my phone and she is ridiculous . I answer the phone and she starts yelling “ WHY DIDNT YOU ANSWER THE FKING PHONE...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 5

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    Come on people! It's not that bad!! Someone is just really trying to get their point through to you bluntly and by impulse they speak louder. cx Meow how many times have we been...
    Mewkittyx3 Mewkittyx3 18-21, M Mar 27

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    I Won't Listen - So raising your voice at me doesn't do any good. You can get your point across without trying to intimidate me or whatever it is you're trying to do before I tuned...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 2 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Tantrums Don't Deserve Attention - If I'm not agreeing with you, don't insult me or start yelling at me. Enough people do it in real life for me to not care. My Dad and brother...
    MonstrousScholar MonstrousScholar 16-18, M 6 Responses Nov 26, 2007

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    When I was young my parents often fought and my dad yelled at my brother and I... I can't really handle it when people yell at me and confrontations scare me even more now but I...
    Tabithaaa Tabithaaa 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 7

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    I just can't take it it's something to do with my disability but when someone yells at me I just burst into tears my dad used to be the worst at doing that
    Dynamite500 Dynamite500 18-21, M Mar 3

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    I hate being yelled at so much, I get sick to my stomach at any sign of aggressiveness towards me. And I start shaking, and I cry, and it affects me for hours afterwards. Even if...
    Pastelbee Pastelbee 18-21, F Feb 15

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    I Don't Like It.....it Gives M... - I don't like it.....it gives me a sense of danger and violence I get scared and feel like hiding. I don't like yelling at all
    Sora Sora 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2007

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    I Don't Know How to React - I grew up in such a quiet household...  I didn't know what my mother would sound like if she yelled until my little sister was 3 years old (she was...
    hAnih hAnih 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 4, 2008

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    I start to cry.............and that why im not in the military lol
    cleverusernamethatnooneelsehas cleverusernamethatnooneelsehas 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2013

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    Loud Noises In General - flair my anxiety up. I have troubles with the vacuum and the shower as well. Yelling doesn't get your point across better - it just puts my back up and I...
    SofiaGrowsFlowers SofiaGrowsFlowers 18-21, T 1 Response Nov 16, 2013

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    Scares the **** Out of Me! - When someone yells at me it scares me so terribly because I don't know what they will do next. I normally just start crying. I don't know what to do or...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    I cry when people yell at me... Like automatically it makes me feel weak. I hate that. I know it's because of my past but I so wish I could turn it off.
    LivviyLove LivviyLove 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I can't stand being yelled at I will shutdown if you yell
    deven38 deven38 18-21, F Jan 2

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    I Really Hate It... - I was yelled and screamed at a lot as a kid, which is why I think I hate yelling. Not only that, but I grew up with adults screaming at each other all the...
    animallover110293 animallover110293 18-21, F 1 Response May 28, 2013

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    It's like I don't know what to do. I am a soft spoken person and hardly ever yell. I think people yelling look ridiculous so when they're yelling at me I tend to laugh and that...
    TMcMillan14 TMcMillan14 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 3

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    Argggggg!! - My sister is such a ******* moron! She thinks I don't do my fair share around here! How would she know? Shes not here have the time and when she is here. She spends...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 3, 2013

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    Please don't yell at me:'( I try...
    IcyDragon IcyDragon 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I am yelled at by my parents almost every day, and end up crying in my room a lot. On Thursday and Friday I was yelled at by two different teachers. Thursdays incident I was...
    sassysarah98 sassysarah98 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I can't handle someone yelling at me. For years I was in a marriage that was verbally abusive. I never knew when he would blow up and just yell at me for any little thing. it got...
    swan731 swan731 66-70, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I can't help but cry when I'm yelled at :( it sucks.
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    Shake Shake Shake - I sometimes when I get yelled at. It makes me nervous and I get a twitch in my neck. It seens a cold shiver down my spine. It bothers me when I get them. I...
    firestarterfairy firestarterfairy 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 4, 2008

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    it just makes me sad. exspecially when my mom or dad does it. Not only it gives me the feeling that I'm in trouble maybe it is just so hard. It makes me feel like they don't like...
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    Blah Blah Blah - I am getting sick and tired of people always treating me like crap and yelling at me for no reason. Why do I always have to get yelled at by my parents for no...
    khawk7921 khawk7921 26-30, F 2 Responses May 15, 2012

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    I get really upset when someone yells at me. I get mad and tell them off, in which I sometimes cry during the process. I don't like people yelling at me (as I'm sure most people...
    Kairisheartless Kairisheartless 18-21, F Feb 1

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    If you shout/yell at me you will be ignored or I will shut down lol simple as that
    JonnyBurrows10 JonnyBurrows10 18-21, M Feb 4

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    Being Wrong Or Failure? - i think over the time, i stopped feeling comfortable at all sharing things, and started to become secretive of what i am doing or what's going on... over...
    amateurgenius amateurgenius 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4, 2011

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    Not Again - I hate being yelled at.  Last night was another big fight at our house.  My husband is such an ***.  I was having one of my employees over to give...
    tks tks 36-40, F 25 Responses Nov 16, 2007

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    My parents sometimes have these little outbursts for no reason and sometimes I get the blame for said outbursts even though I didn't do anything wrong. The only times i've...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Mar 28

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    Pshh no other adult apart from my mom and my nana can shout at me. You do and I'll cuss yuh bad, kmt.
    MixedLesbian MixedLesbian 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Horrible - I don't know exactly what it is about being yelled at, but I get such high anxiety when it happens. And if my bf and I are in the car and he yells at a driver or...
    Warmthoughtsofyou04 Warmthoughtsofyou04 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 13, 2008

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    I Don'T Cope Well With It At All - I can't take it. It always just hurts me really bad and makes me really nervous so I end up going into my own little seclusion. In that little...
    PoisonAmoeba PoisonAmoeba 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    Why Are You Mad At Me - I am 51 and I still have those feelings.  Why are you mad at me?  What did I do?  I never knew what I was doing wrong? I would try to share...
    Cassandra Cassandra 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    You know I understand she gets frustrated at times but why does she have to yell at me for it? I didn't do anything wrong and at times yes i ask a lot of questions but it's only to...
    Chrisian114 Chrisian114 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I really hate being yelled at. When I get yelled at I feel like I did something wrong and it makes me want to cry. Every time someone yells at me I cry for no reason at all... It's...
    SomeoneWhoBeenThroughIt SomeoneWhoBeenThroughIt 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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