I Hate Bossy and Controlling People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 617 People

    I cannot stand people trying to control my life,

    I do what I want haha. No one likes being told what to think or do (as long as it doesn't hurt someone or themselves) right? Each to their own I say, within limit :)
    NotgoingsoloAus NotgoingsoloAus
    22-25, M
    Dec 30, 2014

    Her Bf Had The Grapes To End Our Years-Long Friendship

    I had this friendship w/this girl for about 3 years. I know she cared about me and I was there for her during some dark and difficult times. Well, one day, in the days before I had call display, I get this call and my "hello" answered with "who is this?" Wuddyou mean "who is this...
    ImperialAerosolKid ImperialAerosolKid
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Sep 20, 2013

    Poem- She

    she walks down the streetacknowledgment is all she yearns forthey walk briskly byignoring her smilesshe does not fit into their livestheir regulationsthey sink back into their shallow shoresand drown on false expectationsand fade into the paintings that other people have...
    simplyhaleyruth simplyhaleyruth
    Aug 13, 2011

    I can't believe controlling people

    where they get to a place they think it's ok to call u stupid for not doing exactly wat they want..
    alyssaliv alyssaliv
    22-25, F
    Feb 13, 2015

    Bossy & Controlling

    These two qualities in people make me stay away from them.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 3, 2011
    alyssaliv alyssaliv
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    Bossy Friend

    I have a friend who is bossy and selfish. She's always bored and calling me, and wants to always hang out. She thinks everything is about her and doesn't seem to listen to me. She's my husband's friend's wife too, so it's hard to avoid her. She likes to get argumentive and...
    closer closer
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Nov 29, 2011

    Your really getting mad at me

    for spending money that i worked for when ive bought you your Christmas already i spent $25 to pay my cheerleading fee its not always about you
    hayhay2016 hayhay2016
    18-21, F
    Dec 18, 2014

    Bossy Friend

    I'm new at this school and when I first came, there was this nice girl that talked to me and sat beside me. She would ask me the exam answers a couple of times and I would give the answers to her, it was allright! But now I feel that she asks way too much and not in a nice way...
    Underthemoon0 Underthemoon0
    18-21, F
    Oct 2, 2013

    Pet Peeve, Annoying Behavior

    I dislike bossy people because they won't leave you alone. I known a few people who were bossy and always trying to control things.In middle school, I had to complete a group project. We were supposed to create a puppet show about the dangers of drugs and alcohol in society. I...
    dave0903 dave0903
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 5, 2010

    I'll Drink Whatever I Want!

     I live in a small town with only one gas station which also happens to be the only place you can buy any sort of groceries for about a ten mile radius, so whenever I want candy or a drink or something I'll always stop there.  So the other day I went there after work...
    PorcupineMan PorcupineMan
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 28, 2008


    'Cause I'm bossy and controlling myself.   
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 1, 2011

    Just Settle Down

    I am the kind of person that usually only needs to be shown or told once. After that I really don't need to be babysat by someone on a pathetic power trip.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Apr 1, 2011

    Controlling Boss Experiences Destroyed My Confidence

    Hi All, I'm sharing this experience in hopes of finding some solace and reassurance. I have two degrees, one in English, the second in Accounting, which I went back to school for. I discovered later in life that I really like working with numbers. I had a successful five year...
    GivePeaceAChance65 GivePeaceAChance65
    1 Response May 8, 2013

    My Bossy Friend

    It all started in the 6th grade. I always tried to follow her and her group because they came off as "cool" to me. I tried to be extrmrly friendly, and do tried so hard to get them to like me. Eventually I was one of them, and it was great, they were actually really...
    XoalleaXo XoalleaXo
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Jul 23, 2009

    I Hate Bossy Controlling People

    I have a younger sister  that is very bossy and controlling.  If she can't boss and control a person she wants nothing to do with that person.  She insults those she can't control.  She's a pisces.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    Dec 10, 2011
    Kingshelman Kingshelman
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    Um, Your Wrong!

    Apparently some people think they can be the boss. They are wrong! You are the boss of yourself to make your own decisions in life. Plus, you do live once. Why listen to someone who does not care for your decisions? I am writing this because my housemate texted me this earlier...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 24, 2013
    StellaNoir StellaNoir
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 7, 2014

    So my best friend that ive known

    for awhile chose her boyfriend of 4 months that shes been in an off an on relationship with over me. I've never had anything stress me out this much before. it's like i cant focus on anything without wanting to break down or take out my anger on something. This all started when...
    regular04 regular04
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 18

    She Needs To Be Stopped...

    Well...this is an addendum to the story I wrote previously about my boss....last Tuesday she belittled and was completely rude...bitchy and condescing to one of the other pharmacy techs that I work with....as a result this poor girl...ended up breaking down and sobbing...
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71
    41-45, F
    Jun 29, 2010


    I can't seem to please my sister.We live together and everything I do, she doesnt like. She says I am lazy, all I do on my days off is sit. I stand 40 hrs a week, at my job. I work in retail.
    indywoman56 indywoman56
    Jul 13, 2010

    I'm Part Of A Group Of Friends But I'm Always Left Out, Why?

    In high school I had a group of friends who would drink&party and that wasn't really me, so I kinda "left" their group and became close to another group. In this group, there are 4 of us. I've only been friends with them for about 2 years now, and they've been friends for 5 years...
    zebraprintnails zebraprintnails
    1 Response Sep 9, 2012

    I Am Confused About Bossiness

    while i often express my hate of bossy and controlling people in my life, i find myself bossing others around. i feel that it is wrong to boss others, but it is sometimes required to get work done. i therefore conclude that it is sometimes necessary to take control of a situation...
    sethdeath321 sethdeath321
    22-25, M
    Apr 22, 2012

    Why do other people try to control

    and tell you what to post on your experiences and questions i mean if they don't like reading it why don't they just block you then they don't have to see it
    CandiceMarieAllcoxx CandiceMarieAllcoxx
    22-25, T
    Aug 22, 2015

    I was severely controlled growing up.

    My parents were not nice people. I was married to a very controlling man, and recently got out of a relationship with a man who thought he could completely run my life. I am independent. I pay all of my own bills. I make my own decisions and do a good job. I allow No one to boss...
    justme1999 justme1999
    41-45, F
    8 Responses May 2, 2015

    I have this friend that's a bit bossy

    and controlling at times. Last time I saw her was before Christmas and she was pretty bossy and impatient with me when I spend the night. I didn't really want to spend the night. I tried telling her but she says I'm slow. I'm not Speedy Gonzalez you know. She knows that I have...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 16, 2015


    He was so controlling. I had to give up my friends cause he didn't like them or he didn't even trust girls cause they know guys. I couldn't go out wit my family. And if I did I had to call him and have him on the phone the whole time and if my phone dies I have to call him...
    laaanie laaanie
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 22, 2013

    i told my bf i wanted to be in choir

    and he was like your not doing that your just going to talk to other guys whuile i'm gone...if you don't trust me don't be with me end of story.
    hayhay2016 hayhay2016
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    I am at home just having multiple conversations

    and this guy that I thought o liked is getting mad at me because I'm not giving him all of my attention because I want to talk to other people through txts
    psychologyLover08 psychologyLover08
    26-30, F
    Mar 1, 2015

    Dr.Jeckyll And Mr.Hyde....

    Is what my boss is like....I've wanted to write this particular story for a while...but always managed to put it off...until today that is...she is the most self-centered...self absorbed...condescending....and narcissistic person I've ever worked with not to mention a complete...
    blackgirl71 blackgirl71
    41-45, F
    Jun 22, 2010

    I'm trying to save up

    for a car so I have my bank account set up where money goes into a separate account so I'll slowly get to my goal for the car. Well my boyfriend is pressing me to get a car already and now he's starting to keep track of my money and try's to tell me when I can and can't spend it...
    ksh909 ksh909
    18-21, F
    Nov 20, 2014

    this perv on my job, that's what he is,

    keeps walking around telling employees how he not paid 10$ per hour to do this and that and that's this persons job and than walks away do nothing just walk around and talk with his big lips smacking and he got mad cavity , mad stuff flying around when he talks.... try
    hunlove hunlove
    36-40, F
    Feb 25

    My Bother And My Love.

    It all started in 4th grade, i was playing with my friend jaylee and she suddenly introduces me to Kendra. We meet and become a group, not letting anyone join. 1/2 year later ... Kendra becomes Friends with Daiza and kimia, leaving us behind, yet ... Bossing us around. A few...
    tmwhi078 tmwhi078
    13-15, F
    Apr 12, 2010

    My Friend

    my friend came over for a sleep over and was totally bossy and controlling plz tell me what i can do i fell like not being her freind.
    lizzythomson lizzythomson
    13-15, F
    Apr 12, 2012
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