I Hate Break Ups

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    I think it's time for me to break up with my

    boyfriend of 4 years. We just want different things & have different plans, futures, and wants. I also feel distant from him & it's just not working anymore. I'm just trying to figure out how to do it. The only thing I hate about this is that he won't be friends with me after...
    Psychlover16 Psychlover16
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    Why are SOME men idiots can't realize they had

    one of the best woman out there who give up anything to be with them. Most of them realize when we are gone for good along with our feelings...When do men realize this??? In a month a year??Do the ever try to get her back?? Or give u a honest apology??? Do men have delayed...
    dnicebby dnicebby
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Aug 16, 2014

    6 months ago I met an older man

    and fell in love with him. He recently broke it off with me and I'm not even sure why. I think he was really insecure, but I also see that he's extremely stubborn. No matter what I say or do to prove to him that I'm his and that I love him, he still pushes me away. I'm crushed...
    skipbaeless skipbaeless
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 18, 2015

    It's so hard when you end up loving someone

    who turns out to be completely different than what you expected. When you love them for those certain qualities, but it turns out that they faked it. You feel betrayed, and the brokenness you feel hits you harder than usual.
    lovelysad lovelysad
    18-21, F
    Oct 6, 2014

    The ******* annoying thing is he just wasted 9

    ******* months. Wtf! So immature! And you know whats the reason?Yes, Hes cheating on me.
    fruitella06 fruitella06
    22-25, F
    Jan 9, 2016

    jjw1992 and I are on a break!

    I just had to do it but it just hurts so much!! :'(
    JamieTheTomboy15 JamieTheTomboy15
    16-17, F
    May 21, 2015

    So from my latest posts I think you all noticed

    that I just broke up with my girlfriend. She's got a great personality, really fun to be around with, it felt like I've really found THE one. But then she got really jealous and made me delete all my female contacts on either my phone contact or social media, i did delete few...
    Jamesthellama Jamesthellama
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Feb 29, 2016

    Why in most of the cases

    when people go through break up they either spend the night drinking. And also sleep with some random or at least try to take a close intimate encounter. This happens with those people as well who have been most loyal to their partners and after break up they love getting a...
    LahoreZero LahoreZero
    41-45, M
    Feb 15, 2015

    Empty Inside

    I have been feeling extremely lonely and depressed for a really long time now. I have alienated myself from the people who care about me the most, but I can't seem to pick myself up and move forward. I have been broken up with my girlfriend for about a year now and it's been...
    poetik1 poetik1
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 22, 2013

    Breaking up with my boyfriend today.

    .. Really down right now :(
    lizygurl lizygurl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 6, 2014
    kmetalsin kmetalsin
    22-25, M
    Sep 28, 2015

    so right now I'm very sad I had the love of my

    life who cheated on me twice and I took her back she is killing me inside our I cry when I go to sleep she knows how ugh pain she brought me and she wants me back
    mowerben mowerben
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    No Contact (No Easy Lol)

    So my ex gf and I broke up a few weeks ago, really tough. We were together for 4 months, knew each other for half a year. I was an idiot and phrased something out of frustration not the best, and to boot it was regarding parenting her children (yes I know, sensitive topic). I...
    SingleDad2013 SingleDad2013
    31-35, M
    Oct 21, 2013

    I am in love with my ex

    but currently with someone else and want to break up So my exams I broke up a year and a half ago but we have hung out a few times since and talked and we Facebook one another. We both still have feelings for one another and I think about him all the time. However I am...
    lostlife24 lostlife24
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 19, 2015

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    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa
    26-30, F
    Jan 20, 2016

    There's a lot I wish I could take back in my

    life but if I could make one wish it would be having u. Cause the way u make me feel inside no one can make me feel like. I am honestly dying without u. We've been done for a year an still madly Inlove with u. I trying to accept that your gone but. From the bottom of my heart if...
    skykidx1 skykidx1
    22-25, M
    2 Responses May 15, 2015

    So I had this boyfriend back in 10th ?

    ? and It all started the first day of school , he was the "new guy" and he sat in back of me or near me in all my class periods. One day he decided to starting messing around with me like playing with my hair and such because literally he is so childish! Some how I couldn't stop...
    needingadviceasap needingadviceasap
    16-17, F
    Aug 16, 2015

    in the end only 3 things matter: how much you

    loved how gently you lived and how gracefully you let go of things not meant for you. 'Budha'
    kmetalsin kmetalsin
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 27, 2015

    I did the hardest thing

    that I've ever had to do. I broke up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years. I feel so very horrible about hurting him but I wasn't happy in the relationship. I just wish that he understood where I was coming from it's not that I don't love him or care about him it's that there are...
    ksh909 ksh909
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2014

    I'll never know. The hardest part

    for me is, remembering when you discussed the future with them; and the sweet things that were said. Did they really care? Well, you'll never know... You believe everything they said was real, but you look back, and they slowly started to care less and less. You still cared. And...
    MajesticMia MajesticMia
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2015

    Their Breakup Resulted In The Death Of All My Friends

    Along a small, dark street, in a small, dark town, rain had begun to fall. It fell softly at first, and the gentle pitter patter of the raindrops gently rocked the town to sleep. It was a muggy summer’s night, yet an eerie, hair raising breeze tickled the air. Towards the...
    RosalieSmith RosalieSmith
    Jan 8, 2012

    some hearts cant be tamed.

    some desires take more then love to be attained
    kmetalsin kmetalsin
    22-25, M
    Oct 4, 2015
    MI123MI MI123MI
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2015

    Broke up with my best n only friend/first

    boyfriend. tomorrow is 4th of July we had plans. So I will be stuck at home while everyone is having fun. Wish I could disappear from earth 😢😏😔😢💔
    Juslikyou Juslikyou
    26-30, F
    Jul 3, 2015

    They fricken suck. It's been over two months,

    I don't even remember how long ago it was and I'm still not over it. I ****** up bad. I was a total moron
    Brudy6 Brudy6
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 23, 2015

    the most wonderful girl broke up with me.

    All I think about is her and wishing I had the courage to end the pain.
    coltonfawley coltonfawley
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2015
    clowerrr clowerrr
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 26, 2015

    He broke up with me over text message.

    OVER ******* TEXT. I thought I meant something to him. Apparently, not. The ****** up thing is, I still love him. But at least now, I can finally just drop everything and move on with my life. I haven't been myself the last couple of days. The stress, the worry, everything was...
    glassbonespaperskin glassbonespaperskin
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 15, 2016

    Never actually been through one XD I used to

    watch Disney shows and when the character would go through a breakup I didn't understand why it was so sad and hard for them. Now I think I understand.. Firstly, they're like a part of you, and them leaving is like leaving a gaping hole in your heart. Secondly, you feel like...
    Smileydork Smileydork
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    How Do You Say “goodbye” To Someone Who Had You At “hello”?

         It’s been a while since I’ve really written anything, aside from journals. I feel rusty. Looking back, I now realize that my best writing comes from getting over heart-break. Just the way human spirit is shown most through failure. I absolutely cannot believe it’s...
    rxcsoccerstar rxcsoccerstar
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2012

    Breaks ups are horrible,

    it's like something trapped behind your rib cage want to come out and scream. The worst pain ever, you just feel hopeless and helpless. It's been only 3 weeks from my break up and all I wanna do is cry, how losing someone can be so painful?
    deleted deleted
    Mar 31, 2014

    This is going to be tough,

    my relationship is ending with my boyfriend and there is nothing wrong with our relationship he didn't hate me or have a fight or anything. My relationship with my boyfriend is going to fluctuate this is going to be tough since we had been together for a longtime I really have...
    ErbiumbInTheEr ErbiumbInTheEr
    18-21, F
    Nov 10, 2015

    This will be the second time I'm ending a 3

    year relationship. I hate it. I know it's necessary but then you reflect on it and think look at all that wasted time I can never get back. I feel like as if I failed my daughter and I should have learned from the experience with my son and his dad. So now I have 2 innocent...
    brineff91 brineff91
    26-30, F
    Mar 12, 2014

    I am scared to be in a relationship in case I

    get cheated on, most boys my age don't find me good looking either because they give me low rates.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses May 16, 2015

    nothing better than being with someone

    for 6 years and have him make, 'friends' and fall for them.here's #4. its always, are we going to date? no, ok, I'll stay with my GF then. if they say yes, he's outta here. its his dilemma and no mention of oh I ****** us up. its I ****** myself up. just been bawling my eyes out...
    Stargasm Stargasm
    26-30, F
    Mar 16, 2016

    So... I might actually end up leaving my

    girlfriend. I've invested so much time, money, everything into her. But this is due to college.. But what bothers me is that the person she'll be with will do the things she wants since we only met when we weren't busy, but in college she can just walk down the hall and that's...
    MrUnglazeDonut MrUnglazeDonut
    18-21, M
    Feb 22, 2016
    chickobaby16 chickobaby16
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    Actually have only had this one now,

    dont even know if it is really a break up. Mostly where I fell in love and she wanted a friend. My fault, but done anyway. Have finally stopped the crying part and trying to get emotions back under control. What a ride though, dont know why I ever waited till I was so old...
    boldtimer boldtimer
    66-70, M
    Jan 9, 2016

    Your girlfriend Is gorgeous

    and loyal Why flirt with other girls ?? Why cheat ?? It's like throwing away a diamond And picking up a rock
    meowcatkitty meowcatkitty
    16-17, F
    6 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    I broke up with my gf

    because of a long distance relationships.
    Flowers97 Flowers97
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 16, 2015

    I broke with my girlfriend she still thinks

    about her ex. We been together for 8 months and I really love her. But once she said that it was over. 😢. I feel like **** because she was my best friend and I thought she might the one for me. I'm lost now.
    Tyou10 Tyou10
    22-25, M
    Jan 23, 2016

    We dated for a year, broke up

    and what sucks I see him everyday. Having 2 classes with him, is difficult. We never say hi, never talk to each other. The part still hurts the most is that I still miss him and its 9 months that we broke up.
    saabbrriiinnnaaaaa saabbrriiinnnaaaaa
    18-21, F
    Sep 5, 2015

    Just Now.

    My gf and I just broke up. I grew tired. I think I wanna be straight again. >.<
    natasha19 natasha19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 6, 2012

    The thing that I hated most about breaking up

    with my boyfriend was losing my best friend. The one person who I would normally talk to when I was feeling down was the one person I could not talk to during my break up, when I was at my lowest point. When you are with someone for a long time, you learn everything about them...
    tiffany567 tiffany567
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 23, 2016

    We're happy and inlove with each other

    after a while he have a lot of problem from work and family and so many things he still love me according to him but why he ask me to find another man to take care of me coz he can't do that he's life is full of misery he dnt want me to get hurt but by pushing me to d other guy...
    baby34428 baby34428
    36-40, F
    Sep 18, 2014

    I'm going through a break up

    and I am in complete denial. I'm so sad.
    btlover btlover
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 10, 2014

    Break Up After Being With A Guy For A Year And A Half.

    I am currently going through a break up after being with a guy I loved (and still do) for a year and a half. As a commuter of a city school, I felt lonely at one point or another but it didn't bother me after a few months because my relationship made me feel better. Now, however...
    anni72 anni72
    18-21, F
    Jan 11, 2013


    After a trauma, your body is at its most vulnerable. Response time is critical. So you’re suddenly surrounded by people—doctors, nurses, specialists, technicians—surgery is a team sport. Everyone pushing for the finish line. Putting you back together again. But heart-break...
    ShadowsAndLights ShadowsAndLights
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 16, 2012

    I honestly don't get how people can say they

    care about someone one minute and than break their heart the next minute and just walk away and act like they never meant anything, like all that time spent together was nothing!
    Jaymerz1 Jaymerz1
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2015

    I broke up w Seth. He's not ready

    for an adult relationship. I deserve better. Praying God sends the right man for me in His time.
    Sweetgirl4u2 Sweetgirl4u2
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 17, 2014

    My boyfriend broke things off 3 weeks ago.

    ..and I am still struggling with the break up. He finally talked to me last night to give me some answers....some help for closure...but it's still hard. I just feel like I wanna cry all the time. I feel so emotional.
    beautifuleyes13 beautifuleyes13
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 17, 2015

    The break up between me

    and my husband is tearing me apart so bad.
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 9, 2015
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