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I Hate Breaking Up With People

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    My boyfriend broke up with me and I miss him it's been two days and I have not eaten I'm so out of it and I never been so horny in my life he would make live to me as if he would never see me agin he put in over time on my body to the point I would go to sleep listing to his...
    thunder41891 thunder41891 22-25, F Sep 17, 2013

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    How To Break Up With A Nice Guy?

    Ive been dating this guy for about 7months he is a nice sweet guy and we have alot in common (but not completley).he gives me alot of gifts and i do the same for him only thing i dont like is he has strange body launguage lol and to scared to make moves. I wanna break up. with...
    ProhibitingFake ProhibitingFake 13-15, F Jan 27, 2013

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    But I Effing Will

    Chron has a dark side and it won't be unleashed here. But when people wrong me, I won't cry about putting you to the porch. You're done and I don't have the time capacity, nor do I think it's fair to those who don't, to give others second and third chances. If you know me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 25, 2011

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    For Some Unknown Reason I Attr...

    For some unknown reason i attract either crazy obsessive guys, or deadbeats
    hothungrybiotch hothungrybiotch 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2007

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    Heh...I Haven't Had That P...

    heh...I haven't had that problem too often.
    terrerare terrerare 26-30, F Feb 2, 2007

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    Today I Say Goodbye.....

    Today I say goodbye to someone I trusted and once called my love Blind and deaf he could not hear me, my love did not listen. He heard only the words coming out of my mouth, Not the meaning behind them which came from my heart. The most poorly used of all the senses, Yet the...
    eleanorigby eleanorigby 41-45, F Mar 20, 2011

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    I have been in a relationship

    for nearly 5 years, wanting desperately to be out of it for the past two. He's a great person with a great heart, and I have been so afraid of hurting him that I have dragged out the inevitable. I broke up with him a week ago, but he keeps telling me that you don't let someone...
    hometownlady hometownlady 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    Dont Like It At All

    dont know if i could ever dump someone - dont have the heart for it, luckily relationships so far have ended mutually!
    Donalh Donalh 22-25, M Sep 4, 2008

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    It's Hard To Do

    I am in the place of wanting to breakup, but every time I try to it just never happens. She drives me crazy. I ignore her phone calls. I am going to puke if I have to buy her one more meal.... and yet I am still with her. I don't know what is so hard about making yourself...
    azzypan azzypan 22-25, F Feb 16, 2010

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    Hate It....

    This is like, the one thing.. i HATE doing... it makes me feel so bad if i have to and it really doesnt help when they beg me to stay with them... i already feel bad.. i dont need any begging to make me feel worse.. thank you very much!! ugh... not talking bad about anyone but i...
    love071 love071 13-15, F Nov 24, 2012

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    I had to break up with my boyfriend today,

    and it wasn't necessarily easy. But then again, he did it to himself. If you can't take our relationship serious and start acting more mature, then I'm not continuing this relationship anymore. As much as it pains me, we must part, find new people. A long distance relationship...
    amerairlover1 amerairlover1 16-17, M Jan 4

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    I'm Afraid You Are Not The One For Me....

    I want to break up with a wonderful man. He is by all means a great catch for the right woman. The thing is, I don't think I'm the right woman for him nor him for me. We each have wonderful qualities individually, and we are quite good together. The problem is that I don't feel...
    eleanorigby eleanorigby 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 31, 2011

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    Do You Think I'm Wrong?

    I made a terrible mistake.  I feel awful about it.  I've cried, I tried to fix it but it just didesn't work.  I knew it was too soon to jump into a new relationship.  He was my friend and has been for many years.I was still in the process of divorce but I let...
    onmyown2009 onmyown2009 36-40, F Oct 9, 2009

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    ..but .. I Would Rather Be The Dumper Than The Dumpee

    It's never easy breaking up.  I still which I could have been the one to dump. I tried to end it so many times, I should have stuck to my guns. blah.
    NeopolitanSkye NeopolitanSkye 36-40, F Feb 29, 2012

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    Broke Up With The "perfect" Guy

    I broke up with with a wonderful guy and feel so bad for hurting him and yet so relieved. I'm introverted, had moved to the city from my hometown two years ago and it was the happiest I have ever been; I relished the anonymity and freedom. We met and it was the first time I got...
    spacemonkeyg78 spacemonkeyg78 31-35, F Nov 12, 2011

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    I Did It Once But That Was a G...

    I did it once but that was a good reason. He used to beat me but even than I felt horrable about it. SO never did I do it agian. There were some I proably should of but mostly got broken up with. If I had it all to do agian I would of done the same thing.
    LauraLDS2003 LauraLDS2003 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 29, 2007

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    As the Song Goes, Breaking Up ...

    As the song goes, breaking up is hard to do. Although, sometimes it isn't so hard. I think it depends on the relationship and person. My first ever relationship was super easy to cut off. I was growing feelings for someone else at the time. My second relationship was a horrible...
    teenanonymous teenanonymous 16-18, F Jul 29, 2007

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    I Am So Lonely

    without him. he will end it soon because that's what happens. were too different, he wants to party, I want to be alone. he is social, I am moody. he eats, I nibble. I see him and I respect him, but eventually...enough is enough. it hurts but I guess it has to happen. he is who...
    theonegirliusedto theonegirliusedto 18-21, F May 4, 2013

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    Too Many Texts

    I am dating someone who is driving me crazy with text messages. It was fun at first, a novelty,but now.. 7 to 10 texts a day 500 total in the month we have dated and not just how are things have a great day. She will ask serious relationship questions and I have to stop and deal...
    maxwellsmart maxwellsmart 41-45, M 1 Response Nov 15, 2008

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    Guilt

    I have been dating this great guy for about 2 months. He has so many qualities about him that I have been looking for. However, I never felt the spark between me and him. We hung out a lot (and had fun) and did connect with each other for 2 months. The emotional connection...
    alegna88 alegna88 22-25 1 Response Mar 29, 2009

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    I'm Putting Ep to the Test!

    I'm breaking up with my girlfriend! There's just a few problems She lives with me. I don't think she can handle it. She hasn't done anything wrong (actually she does very little). There's someone else. Our relationship as it is, is quite flawed. There's...
    ThisIsNotBilly ThisIsNotBilly 26-30, M 21 Responses Nov 11, 2007

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    It's Been A Month...

    I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years about a month ago and I still feel so horrible for breaking his heart. I know this is the right decision for me but he still doesn't understand. I've told him I need to be by myself to think about everything but he just doesn't understand...
    Punkjunkie Punkjunkie 18-21, F Sep 4, 2011

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    Kind of Forget Really

    i havent had the opportunity to break up . been married for so long but i can remember in school i think i tried to make the guy do it so i wouldnt look so bad ... yeah that sounds right . but then i felt horrible because i got dumped...lol
    luvbugg77 luvbugg77 26-30, F Mar 27, 2007

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    Beating a Dead Horse

      I had dated a woman for two months.  I liked her a lot, but she had a lot of issues.  Ex-husband stuff, she had dated a lot of guys since her divorce last April  and slept with five of them.  They promised her committment and love, but all...
    maxwellsmart maxwellsmart 41-45, M Jan 30, 2009

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    No Woman; No Cry

    I hate breaking up with people because I consider myself a nice guy. I feel like they will not like me anymore. Duh! I want them to be OK, but if the relationship is destructive then you are doing both of you a favor. I have almost given up on finding the right one. Maybe I will...
    maxwellsmart maxwellsmart 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 18, 2008

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    I Hated This!

    Luckily I am married now so I don't face this problem any more but I used to have such a problem with this. There's a film I really like but annoyingly I can't remember what its called. Its got Matthew Mconnorly in it (I know I've spelt that wrong havn't I?) Anyway, he has to...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 5, 2008

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    Breaking Up; I'm Hurting.

    I'm a great guy. I've got so much to offer. I'm a firefighter. I have a career and great future ahead of me. I'm not bad to look at, and my sex drive is over the top. But the girl I decided to rebuild my life with is ending it, and I have to move out in the next few months...
    pusherseven pusherseven 41-45 Nov 19, 2012

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    Happy Thanksgiving

    I am thankful I did not have to break up with anyone and noone broke up with me this thanksgiving.
    maxwellsmart maxwellsmart 41-45, M Nov 27, 2008

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    Because....

    Not only do you have to deal with the pain, of ending a relationship, because if you are in a relationship with someone, you do love them, even if you don't want to admit it. I had to end, a year and a half relationship, and not only did I have to deal with the hurt and pain of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Nov 10, 2010

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    Should I Or Should I Not?

    I have been with this woman for almost two years. I love her but I am not in-love. I love her but I don't like her sometimes. She is so delicate, so sweet and lovable. But on the other hand she is too clingy, too sensitive, manipulative, shes always right and can be very annoying...
    kraftycap kraftycap 22-25 Jan 27, 2013

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