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I Hate Cheaters

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 13 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Never lose sleep over a man

    who sleeps with another women. Instead, go to his house while he's sleeping, and light it on fire. ^-^
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Sep 17, 2015

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    Was cheated on in 2011

    after a near 5 year relationship. I found out when I looked for someone on Facebook. The guy had the same name as the person I was looking for so he came up as an option due to my gf being a mutual friend. He was using a picture he took of her in her underwear as his profile pic...
    Christuner666 Christuner666 26-30, M 4 Responses Dec 1, 2015

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    I hate when women cheat on me ,

    because they think that I'm not good enough for them
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I hate when people cheat on my best friend

    people need to stop doing it!!!!!!!
    ILoveMyBestieForever ILoveMyBestieForever 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    TheTruth94 TheTruth94 22-25, M Nov 4, 2015

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    think my bf is cheating.

    talking and commerical comes on for the new James bond movie and he says good movie even though we missed the beginning. because I was 45 minutes late not true I was 10 and who was 45 minutes late
    DeShawn20 DeShawn20 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    My dad cheated on my mom

    and ruined a 23 plus year marriage. Why can't you just admit you're unhappy and move on before you hurt someone so badly. Story time. My man texted me from his deployment today and said he caught his friend on a dating website. Kicker this guy has a fiancé at home. My initial...
    ally1194 ally1194 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    .Two Ashley Madison clients are reported to

    have taken their lives after hackers published their details according to police in Canada..If you can't handle the heat stay the fk out of the kitchen - lie and deceive then get caught so you off yourself? Two words - DARWIN AWARDS!!!! .... (Don't know them? Google them it is a...
    evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    Life is full of pain

    and hardship, but if you have the chance to learn from it, you'll be thankful it happened. Back when I was in high school I fell in "love" a few times. In my first relationship, my girlfriend had been cheating on me with her drug dealer, it was painful at the time because I...
    ahzzazel ahzzazel 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 1, 2015

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    I hate how people try

    and justify cheating. And trying to make it seem like it's not a big deal. It's a HUGE deal. If you cheat on someone, you'll end up making them have trust issues. Sometimes I wonder that's why people cheat. People cheat just to hurt you because it makes them happy.
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    Some people treat relationships

    as a video game... They play them and when they get bored they cheat.
    MglMndt MglMndt 16-17, M 6 Responses Sep 26, 2015

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    Is it honestly even realistic to expect a

    monogamous relationship anymore? Some people tell me it's not, and I'm almost starting to believe them. Seeing everyone talking about being cheated on, Or the ones doing the cheating.. How do you do that to someone you love?
    haileyx3 haileyx3 18-21, F 2 Responses 56 mins ago

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    TerminaHero TerminaHero 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Myselfhere1 Myselfhere1 31-35, M 14 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    No matter if we were married

    or not, how serious our relationship were or how many children we had, I WOULD NEVER EVER STAY WITH A CHEATER!!! My partner isn't allowed to cheat me at all and if he does, I can't forgive it and leave immediately. I love myself more than some dumb, arrogant and weak man!
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2015

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    There is nothing I hate more then cheaters.

    In no situation is it okay. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with them before doing anything. You simply shouldn't be in a relationship if that one person isn't enough for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 2, 2015

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    Dealing with an issue right now.

    It's def a hurt that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Hurts even more when kids are involved. Not sure if I want to even try and save my marriage.
    softballmom0723 softballmom0723 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

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    how do u fix a relationship

    after being cheated on?
    ChangingLife2015 ChangingLife2015 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    I don't feel any sympathy

    for women or men that get involved with someone that's married and end up getting hurt. YOU put yourself in that place. YOU let yourself get hurt knowing the circumstances. It's actually pretty sad that someone would get involved with someone's husband or wife. Even if that...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2015

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    Please dont read this

    if youre suicidal. I just read this story about a woman that was cheated on and she tried to kill herself. Half the comments read "hes not worth your life." Ughhh, but I think thats the perfect revenge. If your husband finds out you killed yourself after finding out he cheated...
    thischickiswack thischickiswack 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    I have dealt with guys in the past

    who would send dirty pics to women and get them in return. Some of them had women on the side. It's something I won't tolerate in a relationship. If you have issues with me, then talk them out with me and try to come up with a solution. If you are not happy with me, then leave...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    To me the act of cheating is bad

    but it isn't the worse part. The worst part comes when you start questioning why you were not good enough. Your self worth goes down, your self esteem goes down. The chance of having a normal relationship is destroyed. Why, because you can't trust. You throw those insecurities...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2015

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    I think I spoke about this in one of my earlier

    entiries, but anyway, my bf admitted to cheating on me 2 years ago, while I was pregnant. Since that day I have not been. The same towards him. I've told him and tried to convince myself that I've forgiven him. Well there are times when I just feel like that is so. I do not...
    ihopetoseeclearly ihopetoseeclearly 22-25 6 Responses Dec 13, 2015

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    Wow I got blocked by some guy just cos I told

    him that cheating is wrong after he said he respects women loads but he loves the excitement of cheating on them.
    polarbearlove polarbearlove 16-17, F 32 Responses Aug 16, 2015

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    I think what happens sometimes is someone who's

    desperate gets involved with someone who they don't really find attractive, so they are left always looking at others and finding other people more attractive.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    "Don't tell me what I'm doing is wrong!

    I've already been told that 1000x times, and I know [or: "it's our choices]." If you know it's wrong then ******* STOP. You people disgust me. You shouldn't be seeking support for your behavior, you should be seeking help to end it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14, 2015

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    How does one handle a cheating husband whom you

    have 2 kids with? Not mine, but a friends. He constantly treats her like crap and they get into fights all the time but she keeps going back. Any thoughts?
    VVmommy VVmommy 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 8

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    ONCE A CHEAT.. ALWAYS A CHEAT This is soooo not

    true. I once cheated on my husband and will tell you it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Not all people return to cheating, and it changed the dynamics of my marriage. I cant believe I almost threw it all away. Please dont automatically close the door if in this...
    VentiQuadLatte VentiQuadLatte 41-45, F 7 Responses May 2, 2015

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    im such a sap. my husband cheats on ne

    and i feel bad when I don't do things for him
    jaws92 jaws92 46-50, F Jan 25

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    He came clean and had me log into his account

    and delete it all. I looked through what he wrote, not once was I mentioned. Yes, he was honest about this, but what else is he hiding? Maybe he will do it again, maybe he has other accounts I don't know about. So if I cannot trust him, there is really nothing left at all.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish that all the sudden all the

    cheaters would just drop dead. The only problem is sometimes you don't know who the cheaters are and someone I was close to might die. That would be kinda ******.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9, 2015

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    If my future partner cheats me,

    I'll leave immediately, no matter what. Even if we have children. I won't stay in an unhappy relationship because of children and ruin my life. I don't mean I'll leave after suspecting him of cheating, only when I actually know it. If someone cheats, they either don't love or...
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2015

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    Seriously?!?! You said you hate cheaters

    but you don't even realise your one yourself!!!
    KD126 KD126 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    I'm 15 and I've been in one relationship in my

    life. I broke it off for various reasons, mostly because I'm scared that I'm going to cheat. My parents have always stayed faithful and I haven't had much experience with cheaters but I'm just too scared that I'll cheat on somebody to be in a relationship with them. I don't even...
    ObviouslyNotHuman ObviouslyNotHuman 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2015

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    With the internet and mobile phones it's made

    it easier for people to get away with this behaviour. You could be with someone and never know :(
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    On this site I see all sort of married men in

    a 'sexless marriage' and 'looking for fun' if you actually cared about your marriage you wouldn't be here. Cheating hurts a lot more than just being truthful with your spouse. Maybe monogamy doesn't exist.
    humblebee97 humblebee97 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    So he had the nerve to go kiss other girls

    behind my back then come back a few months later trying to hug me and text me wassup like hah. no. GTFO.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

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    The first text I found said thanks

    for everything dream man how about calling me gabbylicious? Who thinks they were having sex at that point?
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 14

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    I honestly do I word's cannot describe the many

    times I've been cheated on. though I got lucky this time in the past cheated on yep. personally if a girl is planning to cheat then I'll immediately break up with them period. because it would be better to end it there then later when you find out. personally if your a girl and...
    SladeTheLegend SladeTheLegend 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

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    My family has a legacy of cheaters

    that I'm definitely putting a stop to at my leaf. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother, my father's parents, and then my father cheated on my mother in a "like father, like son" pattern. The apple does fall far from the tree, if it rolls away, and by God, I must have fell on...
    Emeraldsky222 Emeraldsky222 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11, 2015

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    I think it's funny that people

    who treat you like crap get offended when you finally do the same to them.
    MglMndt MglMndt 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 7, 2015

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