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I Hate Cheaters

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    This is a response I posted earlier.

    But I need to get my number of stories up so here it is! Hi. I can only give you advice from my own experience. I was in a sexless marriage with a woman who clearly did not want anything to do with me. If I approached her in bed she would turn her back on me and scoot over to...
    scooper50 scooper50 56-60, M Sep 19

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 37 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    Why do all men cheat (and in this case I mean

    emotionally) He can say it wasn't cheating all day long (because physically it wasn't) but his heart still strayed, he still needed to charm another girl to feel good about himself. But he says it was just trolling and ****. But I don't buy it at all.
    hyperstrange hyperstrange 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Beware Of Fornicators (for Maybe The Younger Women And Men).

    It takes work to make a relationship good. Both parties have to want it. Sometimes, the relationship doesn't last long. Perhaps it is worth reminding that when one has low self-esteem, and a bad self-image, one grasps other people's partners because one is not capable of doing...
    stephaniebis stephaniebis 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    If you have to start deleting text

    before you go to your girls house, you're already there.
    desired101 desired101 13-15, F Oct 4

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Luv samsmith

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    phoenixprincess phoenixprincess 70+, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Don't act like your affair "just happened"

    as if you had no control over it and then write that you met your mm on a dating site.....if you weren't looking to have an affair what exactly were you looking for on a dating site???? Please someone tell these cheaters to at least keep track of their own lies!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 27

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    I hear about so many people

    that cheat (friends of friends, randoms and familiars) and I think it's so disgusting and wrong. Especially when they do it with no shame or remorse and brag about it? What the hell. I refuse being friends with a cheater. Not because of the action per se, but I think it says...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 3 Responses Jan 4

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    My ex and I were together

    for 7 years. The last year was extremely tough on our relationship, we have 2 very young children together. At the time, my husband was working two jobs...one at a financial institution two was tattooing at night. Turns out he met a girl at the tattoo shop, and began chatting...
    MsUnderstanding MsUnderstanding 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 6

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 15

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    http://liarscheatersrus.

    com/forum/unfaithful-wife-stories/anyone-get-turned-on-by-cheating Disgusting.
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I got cheated on. He told me

    after ten years. I was pregnant when he cheated. He did not get tested. After my mental breakdown I took him back as the hospital needed someone to release me to. He found and flaunted a new girlfriend. Now I am single.
    SomebodyAlice SomebodyAlice 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    I am never gonna be anybody's plan B.

    You either choose me or you lose me.
    KazeDream KazeDream 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    Once And Your Done

    Sorry no cheating cheat on me once and it's OVER forever. I Don't care how much you love me...if you loved me you wouldn't have done it in the first place >:)
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 8 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    We've been together for three years.

    He cheated and he said she's just a friend. He begged me and I took him back. He broke up with me by note and picked his best friend over me... Yeah, I'm hurt
    dejanalf dejanalf 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 5

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    A week ago i bought apple earpods 5th gen

    and i was given duplicate earpods in the price of an origanal one . And when today i realized that i hav been given a duplicate one i went back to the shop and he kindly refused me to replace the earpods . So fully frustrated and exhausted i started shouting at him like anything...
    m2898 m2898 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    Why do we post pic of the person we get with

    right after a long term relationship on FB knowing we are probably hurting a nice person we cheated on ??? Why I am hurting over this relation knowing I was the best thing that happened to him??
    dnicebby dnicebby 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14

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    I see many women moaning on here in the "I'm

    the other woman" what do they expect ? All they are is a bit of extra sex please think more of yourselves. There is such thing as divorce, they are not going to leave the wife if they were why wait till they have a new bed. Sorry to guys that have been cheated on as that happens...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    UPDATE: the 'love of my life' has cheated on me

    and this time I don't give a ****! His loss because now he has to go and live with his parents again on the other side of the world! And he doesn't have any money! Wanna know how I found out? I was driving down the street and a car hit the side of my car as he came out of a...
    mparker7789 mparker7789 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Let me say if you cheat on your partner

    for any reason you're a piece of ****, ok
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I haven't been cheated on before

    but that's a deal breaker for me. Like if you cheat we are done forever. And I hate when people try to say it was an accident. There is literally NO way your **** accidentally slid into someone.
    pinkypie5 pinkypie5 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 25

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    Cheating is completely disrespectful.

    Someone gives you their time and attention and you repay them back by being unfaithful... It's just beyond me
    euphorian euphorian 16-17, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself!

    How dare you message me and ask "Ok with married men?" or "lets have sex", when you are Married or in a Relationship! That is absolutely disgusting and horrible! Of-course I said no because I am not a home wrecker, nor am I like that. I told you to divorce or break-up with your...
    DivinaRuh DivinaRuh 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Just for heads up, if you hit on me

    and you have a significant other, I WILL call your pathetic *** out.
    keeganicole keeganicole 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    If you're in a relationship with someone you

    love, I don't understand how you can actually cheat on them...I've always been loyal to my partners and I even take other relationships seriously like that. How could someone actually go ahead and cheat without feeling guilty? I wouldn't be able to handle that tbh..I'd feel so...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 16

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    Why Cheat?

    I have no sympathy for anyone who cheats on the person they claim they love so much. It doesn't matter what age, gender, race, etc. you are, if you really love someone, why cheat on them? Love in a relationship should be conditional, not situational. Arguments, disagreements...
    AngryBlackChic20 AngryBlackChic20 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    I honestly do not know how cheaters can do what

    they do!!! They not only betray someone but they also destroy someones belief in love! I could never be that person. If youre unhappy or unfulfilled leave. Simple. Dont try to use excuses for why you never left one person because its bull ****. If you actually love the person...
    Frenchfriess Frenchfriess 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 16

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    "You can't help who you fall in love with.

    " No, you can't. But you can back off before it turns into love, and you can certainly make the choice to not continue and distance yourself once such deep feelings arise. What no one wants to admit is- they don't want to. They make a conscious choice to keep going, even at the...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    If you can't stay in a relationship,

    leave. A relationship isn't a test so why to cheat?
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    I don't HATE them. I don't hate anyone.

    But if their penis is cut off and put in the garbage disposal then used as a dog's chew toy....I don't feel bad for them. I'm not only saying men are cheaters either. But the stereotype of cutting a man's penis/balls off cuts off his pride is the reason why jokes like the...
    VainGoddess VainGoddess 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 14

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    I hate them with a passion!

    !! It's despicable, theirs nothing you can say that will make it alright, it's wrong! I don't understand why people would do this? Why not end your relationship first? It scars your partner, causes so much pain and drama. What where they thinking? It just makes me realize the...
    MixedEmotions2000 MixedEmotions2000 13-15, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Cheaters, I do not want to hear about how

    mystical your side piece's vagina or penis is. Or how guilty you feel about hurting your main squeeze. Shut up. Either stay with your main course or leave for the side piece or vice versa. You can not have your cake and eat it too. >:(
    bombchu bombchu 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 14

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    Cheaters are cowards.

    I hate them so much. Why be in a relationship? Ugh
    MacabreCannibal MacabreCannibal 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Oh Jill the fact I found out

    that your a cheater that's just bad you don't do “things" with a man when you already have a man 😂
    PabloBoyyyy PabloBoyyyy 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 6

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-18, F 11 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    I have never cheated on someone I love.

    I was contractually obligated (married) to love my wife and only two things in my thinking could void that contract; Infidelity or the death of one of us. Do I love her? Yes, but, the definition of that love has changed since she made the decision to find another to tame her...
    FrankK70 FrankK70 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 13

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    When you get called a home wrecker

    when the person who's calling you it, didn't have a home.. Nor a family. They lived in a house with her parents and he was helping raise someone else's kid!
    missmorgan3400 missmorgan3400 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 6

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 16 Responses May 28

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    have you guys seen the movie unfaithful .

    . i've seen many horror movies but this is the most horrible terrifying movie i have ever seen... real life is the most terrifying horror movie in my opinion
    antoneli antoneli 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 13

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    I'm sat reading 'experiences' from ppl all over

    the world whose had or having affairs at wrk/with the neighbours or the best m8. The WOMEN r so worse!! "I love my husband he's a great man, provides for our children and works hard. He pays all the bills. But my affair so much fun. Says he's gna leave his wife for me." Blah...
    FuzzBroadway FuzzBroadway 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    When one cheats they should stop thinking of

    the one or two things they gain and realize the multitude of things they've just lost.
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 10

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    A relationship is only

    for 2 people , but some ******* don't know how to count !
    SexyNightmare SexyNightmare 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    “boys are poisonous they tell you they love

    you 
for 7 months straight
and convince you that you are the stars in their sky
they look at you with crimson shining eyes 
and you believe that no one could ever love you like he does
but at 2 a.m on a school night
he tells you he loves another girl
and he kissed...
    camillee camillee 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 9

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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