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I Hate Cheaters

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    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 1 Response May 12

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    Why cheat? Why....you're only hurting yourself

    when you cheat. NO ONE is worth losing someone you love over, but I guess if you cheat then you must not really love the person. Cheating hurts and it sucks. All of us have been cheated on at one point or another. Don't cheat. Just get out of the relationship if you're not happy...
    emylauren27 emylauren27 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ridemywavvvve Ridemywavvvve 31-35, F May 3

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    My dad was cheating on my mom.

    He did it three times and my mom didn't want to divorce him because of me and my little sisters. My friend was messed up really badly by her "boyfriend" He knew she was already battling depression and then he cheated on her, multiple times and she kept taking him back because...
    Boo4Kayti Boo4Kayti 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Okay, what does it say about my friend to give

    my other friend crap for cheating while she was in a relationship, then she goes and ***** a guy with a girlfriend. I just don't know what to think about her, I've let this girl become my best friend and I'm not sure yet if it was a good idea or not
    Sccrgrl60 Sccrgrl60 16-17, F Apr 26

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20, 2014

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    Cheaters honestly scare me.

    I stray away from relationships because I don't want anything like that to happen. I can't even fathom how id feel if I was cheated on or even worse I never found out. I won't cheat I don't need that I just want a good virgin woman who wants a lifelong monogamous relationship...
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M 2 Responses May 13

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    All good is hard. All evil is easy.

    Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-17, F 14 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    Idk why people rather cheat

    than leave. I never understood that. I've been in a bad relationship for like 4...5 months before we ended it. I never cheated. I had opportunities but I just couldn't live with the fact that I cheated on my gf although I wanted to break up with her. Like i told all my exes...
    RastaGotSoul RastaGotSoul 22-25, M May 16

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    Ha! Looks like he's back to cheating again.

    .... Im sooo glad I got rid of him.... Can't change a leopards spots shame shame shame
    BlueRose601 BlueRose601 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I am a married woman of 2 years we share a 16

    month old and I have 2 from previous relationship. My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant and I found it in my heart to forgive and now I found out he was leaving work early meeting up with a woman getting oral sex.....I am so torn . my heart is broken. help me
    RaychillRay RaychillRay 31-35, F 24 Responses Apr 23

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    I'm afraid to start relationships.

    I don't want to be cheated on, I don't want to be betrayed.
    elsasaunt elsasaunt 16-17, F 3 Responses May 16

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    Has anyone been cheated on

    and how did you get through it?
    tayliajane tayliajane 18-21, F 8 Responses May 6

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    Look people if you cheat,

    proud of it, and admit to it on EP in a group or post stories about it on here....I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND OR HAVE YOU IN MY CIRCLE...I see that stuff and I will delete you from my circle... It sucks to be the one cheated on, by your spouse or significant other. To feel...
    tornsin tornsin 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    I believe that cheaters choose to cheat.

    Many people who cheat like to say, "I couldn't help myself" or sometimes they even blame their partners, like, "You weren't giving me the attention or sex I needed". However, it all comes down to a choice. I was in a relationship that I wasn't happy in and had wanted out for...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    throwawaychild throwawaychild 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 31-35, M 15 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    I hate cheaters and worst are ones

    that are married and then they don't tell someone there married. I have she she 18 had boyfriend his 30 dating for year. He get her pregnant she tell him he drop bomb shell his been married for five years "happily" he not gonna do nothing so in order to get back at him she want...
    Maria1996 Maria1996 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    My family has a legacy of cheaters

    that I'm definitely putting a stop to at my leaf. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother, my father's parents, and then my father cheated on my mother in a "like father, like son" pattern. The apple does fall far from the tree, if it rolls away, and by God, I must have fell on...
    Emeraldsky222 Emeraldsky222 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11

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    My husband used to cheat.

    Weird. Wasn't like he didn't get it at home. Ex husband I should say lol
    Darcy994 Darcy994 51-55, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    Let me ask as a man who would appreciate a

    woman's point of view. I am married to a wonderful woman and my closest friend. She has a number of ailments that stops us from intimate physical contact of any type. She has progressed to this point over a twelve year period. We have had no, I said NO contact other than...
    readthepost readthepost 56-60, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 16 Responses May 28, 2014

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    This girl and guy are going out at my school.

    They are in a long distance relationship right now. The guy is my ex. He told me that they date each other and other people at the same time and I was like "what?!, why are y'all still going out then"? He said that they can't let each other go even though they like other people...
    Jamie361 Jamie361 16-17, F Apr 13

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    I get sick and tired of people blaming men

    who cheat on their women. Women are slip by if they cheat. No one cares. Stop painting men so badly. Women at 10x worse off when they cheat.
    DaFufinator DaFufinator 18-21, M 2 Responses May 21

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    The few relationships I've been in,

    I've been loyal. I've never cheated, and I never will cheat. I expect the same loyalty from any woman I date. If I'm giving you my all, I expect the same. If you can't be loyal, you can't have me. Simple as that.
    SerSean SerSean 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 38 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    There is nothing I hate more then cheaters.

    In no situation is it okay. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with them before doing anything. You simply shouldn't be in a relationship if that one person isn't enough for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 2

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    It upsets me how this world is filled with

    cheaters who don't stay loyal to their partners. Even if it's just flirting with someone else, I still consider that as cheating. If it isn't working out with the person you are with, tell them! don't lie to them behind their backs! Don't keep secrets! Be flipping honest! Brake...
    Gabe05 Gabe05 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I was with a man for 7 years.

    went through everything together. I just had his baby only 2 months ago to find out he had sex with another woman getting her pregnant also while we were living together in my last month of pregnancy. I spent many nights alone crying wondering where he was. it hurts to find out...
    DejaaVuu DejaaVuu 18-21, F 5 Responses May 5

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    I hate gross married men

    who message me on here expecting me to drop my panties for them. They also think it's their right to have sex behind their wife's back. **** you and I hope you get castrated. Same goes for women who do the same thing.
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 1 Response May 11

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    "Don't tell me what I'm doing is wrong!

    I've already been told that 1000x times, and I know [or: "it's our choices]." If you know it's wrong then ******* STOP. You people disgust me. You shouldn't be seeking support for your behavior, you should be seeking help to end it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14

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    I've never cheated. I've been cheated on.

    it's not that hard to be a decent person. you're an idiot if you cheat. period.
    oceanskat oceanskat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    Proud cheaters = Human garbage.

    Really. The world would be better without you. Cheaters = What?? Knock it the hell off if you know it's wrong! Screw all of you ********. No one better cheat on anyone I know lol I wouldn't be able to stop myself from doing something bad, I admit this.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 12

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    "Have you ever hooked up with her?

    " - Yes. A long time ago, before we were together. "HOW DARE YOU DO THIS TO ME!"
    basketspace basketspace 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Sometimes I wish that all the sudden all the

    cheaters would just drop dead. The only problem is sometimes you don't know who the cheaters are and someone I was close to might die. That would be kinda ******.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    Julieccaa Julieccaa 26-30, F 1 Response May 12

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    i keep seeing people have cheated on their

    s/o's with their best friends. seriously people are just horrible horrible horrible. i hate people. that's all i can say...
    CynicalIntrovert CynicalIntrovert 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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