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I Hate Cheaters

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    You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself!

    How dare you message me and ask "Ok with married men?" or "lets have sex", when you are Married or in a Relationship! That is absolutely disgusting and horrible! Of-course I said no because I am not a home wrecker, nor am I like that. I told you to divorce or break-up with your...
    DivinaRuh DivinaRuh 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Today I got angry just

    because I saw two people together. It wasn't because I was jealous. I know I won't find anyone for a long long time. People my age don't appreciate someone who is asexual... I was angry because a girl who used to be my friend was with yet another guy. She's hurt everyone she...
    IcyDragon IcyDragon 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 14

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    When you're in a relationship,

    no matter how exclusive or how open it might be, you're going to have some agreement between the people involved about how you're going to deal with anyone else. Going behind a partner's back to do something that goes against that agreement is a horrible and hurtful thing to do...
    VioletThorns VioletThorns 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My best guy friend and my roommate have been

    seeing each other for a little bit. they aren't officially together but they'll go out on dates and do couple-y things and my roommate talks about how sweet and amazing he is. but then she'll get drunk and hook up with other guys. my friend doesn't date or hook up with anyone...
    rosie212 rosie212 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Every relationship I've ever had,

    they have cheated on me, I am also hated in the city I live in, I never had a bf or gf here, and I never had my first kiss, I'm a 15 year old emo girl, I'm single, I'm pansexual, I'm only 5'1, I'm Irish American and Mexican, I'm very smart :)
    emoliz emoliz 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Nuh uhh! You never saw it coming!

    Well. Today was a total surprise for me. My room mate's ex came by with out notice and dropped in for the day. This is a person who in the past has cheated, lied and stolen. He came here with the intent to make up with my room mate and get back together with him, apologize for...
    Skunktails Skunktails 26-30, M 2 Responses May 7, 2009

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    I have been noticing a lot of stories about

    cheaters that are proud of what they do.Seriously? So disturbing.What is wrong with you? You have no morals.And im talking about people in their 30s and 40s.Dont you know better? You cant even admit that you're wrong!
    needcoffeeasap needcoffeeasap 46-50, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been cheated on a couple times,

    I always get over it because the guys aren't really worth being upset over but my most recent ex isn't trying to leave me be. He's just something else. This kid was so controlling and I've heard things from his own friends about him that still hangout with him to this day. So he...
    kayceebby kayceebby 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    I found messages from my mom to another guy

    (not my dad) that suggests she's cheating... There were terrible pictures too.. I'm only 16 and don't know what to do
    lizmarps lizmarps 16-17, F 7 Responses Apr 4

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    A few months ago my world fell apart

    when my mom discovered my dad had been cheating. They have been married 30 years. She kicked him out and he moved in with the witch. I am shattered. My whole family is shattered. We were all so close and I don't understand how this happened. When I talked to my dad he slipped...
    lostchild2 lostchild2 22-25, F 13 Responses Feb 22

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    I used to play second life

    but I quit because there are too many players and scammers on it. I'm a lesbian and I used to go to a gay club called GGLR. That's where I met my ex-gf. I fell in love with her, and what's crazy is that I still love her. I don't want to, but I do. Anyways I was a dj at this club...
    KathyH71 KathyH71 41-45 Dec 28, 2013

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    You Know What'S Worse Than Cheaters?

    People who take cheaters back.
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18, 2013

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    To Tell Or Not To Tell... Probably Not.

    I've never been cheated on, never been in a relationship, but I still hate cheaters. I just want to smack them so hard they fall to the floor. Here they are, in a relationship with someone who obviously cares, and then they just go about kissing and snuggling and having sex with...
    SomeoneInDenmark SomeoneInDenmark 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Why, Oh Why?

    When the novelty wears off, a relationship becomes routine in the daily grind of mundane life. After all the exploring of each other’s bodies and life is done….couples become disjointed. Partner is taken for granted and life becomes boringly complacent. They crave for the...
    thestarseeker thestarseeker 26-30, M 3 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    I don't even like to waste my time thinking

    about people who cheat on their significant other... It ****** me off. They don't realize how much that truly hurts the other person, being cheated on is one of the worst pains there is.
    anamariabrownson anamariabrownson 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I Love Karma

    To start off id like to say cheating isn't an accident its a choice. I was with whom I thought was love of my life we were together for 3 years we were inseparable we did everything together until she enlisted in the army reserves which i was ok with i supported her in...
    bigchief93 bigchief93 18-21, M Jan 10, 2013

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    Nine Signs He's Cheating

    When you get suspicious that your significant other is cheating, be careful not to appear to be paranoid. You have to walk a fine line — you don't want to make false accusations. So, while I'm sharing this list of cheating red flags, I concede that it's a tricky...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    Why Cheating Is Irresponsible

    First and foremost, no one seems to realise that their married boyfriend is cheating on his wife, and if you get you way and he marries you, he'll probally cheat on you in return No one considers the impact on the family. Its all about how sad a woman is because she feels she...
    shazzbott shazzbott 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 4, 2009

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    One of my friends surprisingly told me

    that my ex gf is being cheated on by her new bf with another girl in class :/ and I don't know what to do because me and her don't talk anymore but I still care for her and I don't want her being hurt
    gregbombastic gregbombastic 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 21

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I Have No Respect For Cheaters

    No, I have not ever been cheated on but I have no respect for cheaters, homewreckers, and the like.  What really bothers me are married people who cheat behind their unsuspecting husband or wife's back.  If you don't love your spouse or you want to have sex with someone...
    sydhw sydhw 31-35, F 1 Response Oct 16, 2007

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    I hate people who cheat on

    whoever their dating it is messed up if you do not want to be with the person or if you want to be with someone else break up with the person you are dating if you like two people pick which one you love more so not cheat
    ILoveBaxter ILoveBaxter 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I actually don't "Hate" cheaters.

    Hate is a pointless emotion that will just eat you up. That being said I think the act of cheating is incredibly selfish and pointless. Being a betrayed spouse I know first hand what it does to a family. When I experience something I try to understand it. I try to see...
    KellyP64 KellyP64 31-35, F Feb 15

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    Kimberly Slosek From Connecticut Sleeps With Married Men

    Kimberly Slosek from Connecticut sleeps with married men This girl has no problem sleeping with married men -- she has even said so -- I have no patience for cheaters whether they are the Married one or the single one;... Did you know: In 7 states you can sue the "Other Woman...
    mah263 mah263 46-50 3 Responses Mar 17, 2011

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    Beware Of Fornicators (for Maybe The Younger Women And Men).

    It takes work to make a relationship good. Both parties have to want it. Sometimes, the relationship doesn't last long. Perhaps it is worth reminding that when one has low self-esteem, and a bad self-image, one grasps other people's partners because one is not capable of doing...
    stephaniebis stephaniebis 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Liar Liar

    Really? Even though I've seen the evidence, you are going to deny it, and try to make me believe it's all in my head. Burn in hell. I hate you.
    ivansmummy ivansmummy 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 18, 2013

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    Why Cheat?

    I have no sympathy for anyone who cheats on the person they claim they love so much. It doesn't matter what age, gender, race, etc. you are, if you really love someone, why cheat on them? Love in a relationship should be conditional, not situational. Arguments, disagreements...
    AngryBlackChic20 AngryBlackChic20 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 6 Responses Jan 26

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 36 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    My first serious boyfriend was in a band,

    but on the side he was an aspiring play writer. He was pretty serious about this play, so I introduced him to my "friend" who happened to be an out of work actress. Anyway as time went on he was constantly round her house "practicing lines" and I saw him probably twice a week...
    BulletproofLoneliness BulletproofLoneliness 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I'm sat reading 'experiences' from ppl all over

    the world whose had or having affairs at wrk/with the neighbours or the best m8. The WOMEN r so worse!! "I love my husband he's a great man, provides for our children and works hard. He pays all the bills. But my affair so much fun. Says he's gna leave his wife for me." Blah...
    FuzzBroadway FuzzBroadway 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-18, F 11 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    I Hate Cheaters, I Can't Even Think About

    Kissing Another Man Thats Not My Boyfriend. How Can Any One Think Of Sharing Their Wife Or Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Or Husband! It's Down Right Wrong And I Hope People Can Get That Through Their Head!
    KateMost KateMost 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really hate cheaters.

    .i'm faithful i'm honest i care about my boyfriend i'd do anything to make him happy as i could..i try my best. But i just feel like those other girls are doing a better job..😭💔 what should i do?😞😩😪 someone who has gone through this please message me & tell me what...
    kilajean kilajean 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I hear about so many people

    that cheat (friends of friends, randoms and familiars) and I think it's so disgusting and wrong. Especially when they do it with no shame or remorse and brag about it? What the hell. I refuse being friends with a cheater. Not because of the action per se, but I think it says...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 3 Responses Jan 4

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    It disturbs me to see

    so many people on here looking for married women and men. God forbid that you ever get married and your spouse has an affair, that would be an interesting story to read. And it's crazy that the married people are engaging in these "online affairs" in the first place. I don't...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    "Before You Cheat" - And by

    that I'm referring to "The Cheater (the one who cheats),The Cheatee (the one who the cheater cheats with) and The Cheated (the one who is cheated on) ". I feel bothered when I hear stories about cheating significant others and people who brag about it without any remorse, there...
    jadetheloner jadetheloner 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I Didn't Think Anything Could Hurt Like That

    Well before my last girlfriend, I heard about people being cheated on but it wasn't something I thought would touch my life in the way it did. We actually met each other when she came to stay with her dad, who was seeing my mom(awkward?) and I was over there alot because they...
    rls239 rls239 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 21, 2010

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    Ranting Topic: Cheating ~Finding out the you

    have been cheated on... Why is a girl my age ranting about this? Well, because I've been cheated on before. I understand how painful it is. One thing I want people to understand. If you've been cheated on, don't go ape s.h.i.t at the person your spouse was cheating with. They...
    HydroChronexia HydroChronexia 13-15, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    10 Signs Of A Cheater

    1) Your significant other is consistently "working late" or has repeated excuses to be elsewhere. They take numerous trips out of town. - Frequent excuses for their time is one of the first signs that can lead people to believe that their significant other is having an affair. If...
    sassy80 sassy80 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 27, 2012

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    Cheating Sucks

    Cheating is the worst you can do to your partner followed most likely by lying wich sucks a lot too ...I'm glad I didn't had to live through that experience and I know never will . There are the lines of cheating ... is it just the act of sexual intercourse or does it start...
    Thetallguy Thetallguy 26-30, M 9 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    Immoral and selfish to ridiculous degrees.

    I know what an affair can do to family.....I was smack dab in the middle of it before....so yes, a word of caution now....because I'm going to be extremely bias about this. If a person is so unhappy with their significant other, why go behind their backs and get together with...
    LReid23 LReid23 22-25, M 2 Responses Feb 5

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    Once And Your Done

    Sorry no cheating cheat on me once and it's OVER forever. I Don't care how much you love me...if you loved me you wouldn't have done it in the first place >:)
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 8 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    FloatingStoutCotton FloatingStoutCotton 18-21 10 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    15 Years!

    For 15 years I been with the same man off and on and just recently I caught him cheating on me on Facebook! He doesn't feel like that asking a female out on Facebook is cheating on top of all the other flurtasious things he says on there, I'm just sick of this, I am loyal I don't...
    Tamona35 Tamona35 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 18, 2013

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    On Line Cheating?

    Interestingly enough, On line cheating is not always looked upon as actually cheating. But if someone has their hands down their pants, well one hand down their pants while they are typing with the other hand, I consider that cheating *wry smile*. How did I deal with that? it...
    GingerSnaps GingerSnaps 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Especially When It Comes To A Family

    There is a man that my mothers known since more than 20 years and i ve read their conversations worst part is that he seems like he doesnt care about her and since she doesnt know that im awared of that stuff now i feel so lonely and dont know what to do should i talk to her?
    adesed adesed 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I am so angry. I give everything. All I get in return is to be cheated on. **** him who does he think he is. All those stupid *****.. I will never ever trust another man again. I...
    frances91 frances91 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's so annoying when you think that there faithful but then have his best friend tell you he's cheating on you AGAIN!!! 😡
    smilezlove143 smilezlove143 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I am now on a life long mission to destroy the personal lives of cheaters who continue on their life of self lustification and self gratification. This being a long weekend coming...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have news for you... cheaters cheat because they're unhappy. There's two sides to every story.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm so sick of seeing cheaters post on here. How can they be so proud of what they are doing??? If they only knew the damage they are causing!! And another thing NO ITS NOT THE...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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