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I Hate Cheaters

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 26-30, M 15 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    Why do people cheat? I have been on

    both ends of the stick and it wasn't fun. It hurts so bad. Especially when you realize how bad you hurt the person you cheated on. Be single if you want to continue to flirt or get out of the relationship if you are unhappy!!!! And people who have social accounts flirting and...
    sweetgirl723 sweetgirl723 18-21, F Dec 31, 2014

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Beware Of Fornicators (for Maybe The Younger Women And Men).

    It takes work to make a relationship good. Both parties have to want it. Sometimes, the relationship doesn't last long. Perhaps it is worth reminding that when one has low self-esteem, and a bad self-image, one grasps other people's partners because one is not capable of doing...
    stephaniebis stephaniebis 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Would I be a hypocrite

    if I said I hate them yet I have cheated ??!
    Jusjellybean Jusjellybean 18-21, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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     Is EP just one more online place to troll

    for those who love another, but want something more?
    brknheart2 brknheart2 61-65, M 6 days ago

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2014

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-18, F 12 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    Confirmed! my husband is cheating i want him to

    come back to me and choose me and my son, what should i do? I really want a revenge and inform the family of the girl that he is having an affair with marriend man.(offcourse i will involve my husband name ilove him so much) But if i do that i think im pushing him more to her...
    Ilovemyhusband27 Ilovemyhusband27 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 5

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    I just got a butt dial from my partner.

    He was getting a ******* from another guy. I heard sucking noises and the other guy talking after they stopped. Once he realized what he did he turned his phone off. I have been waiting two hours for him to get home.
    randyh0808 randyh0808 41-45, M 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    cathouscc11 cathouscc11 26-30, F Jan 5

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    Why would you want to be in a relationship

    if you're just going to cheat on your partner? I don't get what's the point of it. If you're going to cheat just stay single and avoid the pain you'll cause on your partner.
    cateshady cateshady 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    Why the **** did you say you love me?

    Why did you stay with me for that long... U said I was the ******* one for you!!!!! YOU ******* CHEATED.. Why? Cuz you felt sorry for her.. Should have ended with me instead of giving her the presents you told me you bought for me Saying I'm ur crazy ex ?????? Who the **** u...
    LBNF LBNF 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    I have been cheated by a girl.

    I loved her almost 7 years.I told her to wait one more year for our marriage but she is not ready to wait. I was not good in studies.she told me to be good and she wanted me to work in good company.I achieved almost everything in my life.I sacrificed a lot for that girl. she is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    I Had Been With My Boyfriend For 1 Year & 2

    Months & So Recently When We "Were" Going Out In Our 3rd Relationship Yesterday When I Broke Up With Him Before I Broke Up With Him I Was Trying To Confront Him Because He Had Not Been Wanting To Talk To Me & I Asked Him If He Was Cheating Or If He Was Doing Something & Then...
    dessmart1 dessmart1 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    I really don't approve

    and think it's selfish. You either breakup or just get a freaking divorce. So to those lovely home wreckers, with their 'but I love him' boolcr*p. A guy who's already married or in a relationship, yet still want's to stick his shoe in your box is not much of a man at all. Never...
    MadNocturnes MadNocturnes 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    The hardest thing I ever had to do.

    ..say goodbye to you. Truth is I totally love you...even after what you have done to me ....I still love you. I know ..how? Because when I decided to love again I decided not to hold anything back! And I totally gave my heart to you. Not ever knowing that you weren't not doing...
    stillhavehope3 stillhavehope3 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    Today....I thought of you

    and decided that I really need to let you go. I no longer will allow my thoughts to drift to the happy times we shared. I want to completely and utterly let you go from every aspect of my life. I no longer desire you. I no longer miss you. I no longer want you. I no longer need...
    stillhavehope3 stillhavehope3 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 1

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I was with my husband 29 yrs.

    The last year of that my female intuition kicked in. It told me something was up. I started nosing around his paperwork. Sure enough he had a relationship going on line. I actually found a spread sheet with my assets on one side and hers on the other. I sat down had a cup...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 9 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I'm sat reading 'experiences' from ppl all over

    the world whose had or having affairs at wrk/with the neighbours or the best m8. The WOMEN r so worse!! "I love my husband he's a great man, provides for our children and works hard. He pays all the bills. But my affair so much fun. Says he's gna leave his wife for me." Blah...
    FuzzFuzz FuzzFuzz 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    The few relationships I've been in,

    I've been loyal. I've never cheated, and I never will cheat. I expect the same loyalty from any woman I date. If I'm giving you my all, I expect the same. If you can't be loyal, you can't have me. Simple as that.
    SerSean SerSean 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    "You can't help who you fall in love with.

    " No, you can't. But you can back off before it turns into love, and you can certainly make the choice to not continue and distance yourself once such deep feelings arise. What no one wants to admit is- they don't want to. They make a conscious choice to keep going, even at the...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 37 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    I've never cheated. I've been cheated on.

    it's not that hard to be a decent person. you're an idiot if you cheat. period.
    oceanskat oceanskat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    If you want to leave then

    that is fine, it's your choice. But do not cheat then blame me for our problems.
    Fallenangel2014 Fallenangel2014 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 17, 2014

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 17 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    basically I live with my mum

    and dad, they are married but she has cheated on him with her friend and still keeps in touch with him. my dad knows but loves my mum too much to let her go. it goes as far as the man coming to our house to have a drink with us and stuff. its messed up and sucks, I love my mum...
    SamanthaM358 SamanthaM358 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    All good is hard. All evil is easy.

    Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    Just for heads up, if you hit on me

    and you have a significant other, I WILL call your pathetic *** out.
    keeganicole keeganicole 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19, 2014

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    I cheated one's and I feel really bad,

    but I did it because the person was doing it too, we were more friends then anything.
    roxette0909 roxette0909 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    You said you loved me then you go

    and ask girls for pictures of their "sexy bodies" I thought I could trust you and then you go and do this. I ******* loved you!
    munchkin07 munchkin07 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 16

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    It upsets me how this world is filled with

    cheaters who don't stay loyal to their partners. Even if it's just flirting with someone else, I still consider that as cheating. If it isn't working out with the person you are with, tell them! don't lie to them behind their backs! Don't keep secrets! Be flipping honest! Brake...
    Gabsters05 Gabsters05 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    my husband of 12 years has slept with 4-5 women

    in less than a years time, one of those turning into a serious relationship. i was finally told the truth this december and even though i HATE cheaters i was willing to forgive if he showed me he truly regretted ot and tried to make it up to me by being forthright and honest. he...
    taedior taedior 31-35, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    is it possible for the visuals,

    hurt, mental anguish, followed by the only feasible way of coexisting together, proving the desire to be with one another to "make it work" consist of you being tied at the hip, Damn near, proving faithfulness after being cheated on?? is this even a step in the direction", its...
    kattrx1 kattrx1 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    In my opinion people

    who cheat on their spouses are pathetic and selfish. I have a very strong hate for cheaters because my uncle caught his now ex wife cheating on him and it completely devastated him. If you cheat on your partner you should feel ashamed of yourself!
    Rockandrollfan Rockandrollfan 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    Anglerfish melt together

    when they mate.. if only people were like that. Then they would have to be your one and only.
    AnarchyOfAthena AnarchyOfAthena 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    I hate cheaters I was cheated on by 4 exes I

    have never cheated and I would never wish it on any one I am not an eye for an eye kind of person even though some times I wish I was but I know what comes around goes around and I believe in karma they will get theirs when the timing is right if not in this life then in the...
    thethebe thethebe 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    My family has a legacy of cheaters

    that I'm definitely putting a stop to at my leaf. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother, my father's parents, and then my father cheated on my mother in a "like father, like son" pattern. The apple does fall far from the tree, if it rolls away, and by God, I must have fell on...
    Emeraldsky222 Emeraldsky222 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...