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I Hate Cheaters

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    You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself!

    How dare you message me and ask "Ok with married men?" or "lets have sex", when you are Married or in a Relationship! That is absolutely disgusting and horrible! Of-course I said no because I am not a home wrecker, nor am I like that. I told you to divorce or break-up with your...
    DivinaRuh DivinaRuh 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    ufgh babydaddy just tells me he wants.

    to get drunk& never going to.stop really after we barely had our child borned.. is.like he dont give a ****..
    martiarena martiarena 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I had a boyfriend once

    who was a complete jerk he wouldn't even talk to me on any social media he dated this one girl behind my back and he didn't see how hurt I was guess he didn't care at all. The girl he dated was about 12 years old he was a pedobear to me and my sister. I kept hearing rumors...
    BrokenBrittanyLovesDaniel BrokenBrittanyLovesDaniel 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    If you can't stay in a relationship,

    leave. A relationship isn't a test so why to cheat?
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    I love how some cheaters

    after they cheat become really suspicious of their significant other of doing the same thing, nope it's just you hun.
    jenni234 jenni234 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 27

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    It would really suck

    if the first girlfriend I ever got in life cheated on me. Just imagine how much pain that would cause you. The first girlfriend you've ever had in your whole life cheats on you? I'd be in my room for like a week...
    deathsdestruction deathsdestruction 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    It's like being punched in the ribs.

    ..with an iron glove...my bones are crunching and shattering...I hate this road I take to her house...every week..I hate to see my cheating ex ..,but I do it for our kids. I just can't believe how much it hurts. I won't look her in the eyes though. It's been 4 weeks and I won't...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 7 Responses Oct 25

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    The hardest part of being in relationship is

    when you love someone more than you love yourself. In the end, he or she will cheat on you no matter what you do because in reality it wasn't your fault but he or she just like someone else. The hardest thing is knowing you've done everything but it wasn't enough. Because the...
    ezzy2014 ezzy2014 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Why do all men cheat (and in this case I mean

    emotionally) He can say it wasn't cheating all day long (because physically it wasn't) but his heart still strayed, he still needed to charm another girl to feel good about himself. But he says it was just trolling and ****. But I don't buy it at all.
    hyperstrange hyperstrange 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 18

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 15

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    When one cheats they should stop thinking of

    the one or two things they gain and realize the multitude of things they've just lost.
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 10

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    Just for heads up, if you hit on me

    and you have a significant other, I WILL call your pathetic *** out.
    keeganicole keeganicole 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I hate cheaters. I never understood how they

    can say they know how much it hurts since they've been cheated on. Yeah, if you knew how much it would hurt why'd you cheat? Either you don't care, in which case you have no need to be talking to me about it, or you wanted to hurt and break me.
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14

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    You Know What'S Worse Than Cheaters?

    People who take cheaters back.
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    "You can't help who you fall in love with.

    " No, you can't. But you can back off before it turns into love, and you can certainly make the choice to not continue and distance yourself once such deep feelings arise. What no one wants to admit is- they don't want to. They make a conscious choice to keep going, even at the...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 37 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    My dad is cheating on my mom.

    My mom confronted him big time, now he's sitting in his car outside
    RedUsaSoccerBoy RedUsaSoccerBoy 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 16

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    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 6

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16

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    Beware Of Fornicators (for Maybe The Younger Women And Men).

    It takes work to make a relationship good. Both parties have to want it. Sometimes, the relationship doesn't last long. Perhaps it is worth reminding that when one has low self-esteem, and a bad self-image, one grasps other people's partners because one is not capable of doing...
    stephaniebis stephaniebis 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I hate them with a passion!

    !! It's despicable, theirs nothing you can say that will make it alright, it's wrong! I don't understand why people would do this? Why not end your relationship first? It scars your partner, causes so much pain and drama. What where they thinking? It just makes me realize the...
    Mixedemotions2k Mixedemotions2k 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 17

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Why Cheat?

    I have no sympathy for anyone who cheats on the person they claim they love so much. It doesn't matter what age, gender, race, etc. you are, if you really love someone, why cheat on them? Love in a relationship should be conditional, not situational. Arguments, disagreements...
    AngryBlackChic20 AngryBlackChic20 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-18, F 12 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    I hate it when I see someone cheat on their

    partner or spouse. No matter the situation, you should stay by his or her side. If it's not working out then thats when you could break up with them and be with who you want to be with. But when you're in a relationship with a loyal and sweet person, you just have to stop being...
    gorgeusgirlSky3 gorgeusgirlSky3 13-15 2 Responses Oct 26

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    I consider flirting as cheating,

    my ex didn't I felt like I wasn't good enough for them and that certain females were way more important to me, they'd talk about me behind my back and they refused to stop talking to their previous ex.. I regret ever dating them and wish I kept to myself..
    kanashimi93 kanashimi93 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 7

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    PROUD TO SAY I HAVE NEVER CHEATED!

    I have always been a loyal girlfriend. I have been cheated on and so has my bf. His ex of 2yrs cheated on him and lead him on. I don't even know her and I resent her. I know people can change but she didn't even admit it to him WHEN THERE WAS PROOF. Whatever, he's allllll mine...
    blushkat blushkat 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    Cheaters are cowards.

    I hate them so much. Why be in a relationship? Ugh
    MacabreCannibal MacabreCannibal 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    I honestly do not know how cheaters can do what

    they do!!! They not only betray someone but they also destroy someones belief in love! I could never be that person. If youre unhappy or unfulfilled leave. Simple. Dont try to use excuses for why you never left one person because its bull ****. If you actually love the person...
    Frenchfriess Frenchfriess 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 19

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    letsgo2234 letsgo2234 51-55, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    A week ago i bought apple earpods 5th gen

    and i was given duplicate earpods in the price of an origanal one . And when today i realized that i hav been given a duplicate one i went back to the shop and he kindly refused me to replace the earpods . So fully frustrated and exhausted i started shouting at him like anything...
    m2898 m2898 16-17, M Oct 22

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    Once And Your Done

    Sorry no cheating cheat on me once and it's OVER forever. I Don't care how much you love me...if you loved me you wouldn't have done it in the first place >:)
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 8 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    I hear about so many people

    that cheat (friends of friends, randoms and familiars) and I think it's so disgusting and wrong. Especially when they do it with no shame or remorse and brag about it? What the hell. I refuse being friends with a cheater. Not because of the action per se, but I think it says...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 3 Responses Jan 4

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    Ladies falling for the wrong man at the wrong

    time is like bein poison it hurt to the point u wish u could've change it all
    wethebest wethebest 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 15

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    I hate cheaters, one day

    when I was at school I was hang out with my best friend Jacob. Then school was over I got text from my boyfriend he sent me pictures of me and best friend Jacob walk together and he said that I cheated on him. I got so mad I said I will never do such thing I am very loyal and...
    zoeyflower zoeyflower 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 8

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    If you want to leave then

    that is fine, it's your choice. But do not cheat then blame me for our problems.
    Fallenangel2014 Fallenangel2014 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    I hate people who use me

    and don't want me for Rhykker! The person that I actually am. Why do ppl have 2 be mean? Just why? I just wish life could give me a break and I could just either be happy and stop feeling pain from ppl in past relationships for just not caring and move on. If I had it my way I...
    Rhykker Rhykker 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 14

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    ive been cheated on in the past

    and it really hurts. I recently got a message from an past best friend and it just struck an old emotion I thought I was past. I don't understand how you think it is okay for you to think we could ever be friends again especially after what you and my exboyfriend did to me. now...
    cookii cookii 18-21, F Nov 17

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    All good is hard. All evil is easy.

    Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    if your gonna cheat you dont deserve love.

    if you want to go & be with whoever, whenever then dont be with me, be single. an ex of mine always wrote on facebook how much he was mad about me etc, funny that seeing as he was cheating every day LOL silly people what happens in the dark will ALWAYS come to light!
    Abbierose93 Abbierose93 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    Cheating is completely disrespectful.

    Someone gives you their time and attention and you repay them back by being unfaithful... It's just beyond me
    euphorian euphorian 16-17, F 6 Responses Oct 19

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    I'm sat reading 'experiences' from ppl all over

    the world whose had or having affairs at wrk/with the neighbours or the best m8. The WOMEN r so worse!! "I love my husband he's a great man, provides for our children and works hard. He pays all the bills. But my affair so much fun. Says he's gna leave his wife for me." Blah...
    FuzzFuzz FuzzFuzz 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Why not just stay single?

    ??Then you can sleep around,flirt,and go out with as many people as you want instead of getting someone to fall for you and then hurting them.
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Just don't be in a relationship

    if you not gon be all about that one person
    diandre diandre 18-21, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I keep them all at arms length.

    I can smell them from a mile away. With their minty fresh breath and wondering fingers, these sleaze balls aren't hard to spot.