I Hate Cheaters

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    Is it honestly even realistic to expect a

    monogamous relationship anymore? Some people tell me it's not, and I'm almost starting to believe them. Seeing everyone talking about being cheated on, Or the ones doing the cheating.. How do you do that to someone you love?
    haileyx3 haileyx3
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 12, 2016

    I just dont understand

    why he cant admit to it. It's all out, we've broken up. It's like he wants to make sure every last piece if me is crushed. He wants me to go insane wondering the why's of so many things. From what I could see he was in love with her. Why did he come back and try again with me? I...
    Fractured247 Fractured247
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2016

    I don't feel any sympathy

    for women or men that get involved with someone that's married and end up getting hurt. YOU put yourself in that place. YOU let yourself get hurt knowing the circumstances. It's actually pretty sad that someone would get involved with someone's husband or wife. Even if that...
    ChocolateCloud ChocolateCloud
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 4, 2015

    Proud cheaters = Human garbage.

    Really. The world would be better without you. Cheaters = What?? Knock it the hell off if you know it's wrong! Screw all of you ********. No one better cheat on anyone I know lol I wouldn't be able to stop myself from doing something bad, I admit this.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 12, 2015

    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka
    22-25, F
    12 Responses May 28, 2014

    My wife married me despite catching me cheating

    before we got engaged. I have given her a hall pass. But to be honest, if she decides to use it I would not mind sharing.
    kenywal008 kenywal008
    56-60, M
    1 Response Mar 24, 2016

    Why do you have to break someone like that?

    Not only does that hurt in the most painful of ways, but you're also caising that person who you've been cheating on to develop trust issues with newer partners. They would feel that no one will truly want them, become very paranoid and jealous.
    Marie107 Marie107
    22-25, F
    Feb 24, 2016

    Some people treat relationships

    as a video game... They play them and when they get bored they cheat.
    MglMndt MglMndt
    18-21, M
    6 Responses Sep 26, 2015

    The crazy thing is that some women

    and men on this site think it's okay to cheat on their spouses. Well there's one word for you "divorce". Because let's be honest if he/she did the same thing to you you would be devastated and most likely you would never trust them with your heart ever again. You married that...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    I am a married woman of 2 years we share a 16

    month old and I have 2 from previous relationship. My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant and I found it in my heart to forgive and now I found out he was leaving work early meeting up with a woman getting oral sex.....I am so torn . my heart is broken. help me
    RaychillRay RaychillRay
    36-40, F
    21 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    I believe that cheaters choose to cheat.

    Many people who cheat like to say, "I couldn't help myself" or sometimes they even blame their partners, like, "You weren't giving me the attention or sex I needed". However, it all comes down to a choice. I was in a relationship that I wasn't happy in and had wanted out for...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 6, 2015

    Out of all of the sad pathetic stuck up humans

    I have to face I think cheaters are my most hated variant. their foolish mistake is they think they can get about their cheating nature without me noticing but their not slick and I will find. out last Valentine's day with my ex girlfriend. I found out she was cheating. so Iied...
    SladeBolinLeaderofEp SladeBolinLeaderofEp
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    The man I was in love with cheated on me

    and it's completely destroyed me. I feel like I can never trust anyone ever again.
    princessisabel princessisabel
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    I just found out my boyfriend was cheating on

    me. now he's my EX☺️🙄
    boldbrimmer21 boldbrimmer21
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2016

    .Two Ashley Madison clients are reported to

    have taken their lives after hackers published their details according to police in Canada..If you can't handle the heat stay the fk out of the kitchen - lie and deceive then get caught so you off yourself? Two words - DARWIN AWARDS!!!! .... (Don't know them? Google them it is a...
    evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    I found out my best friend cheated on his

    girlfriend. Guess who lost all of my respect and a friend. Loyalty, that's all it takes, it is not worth cheating no matter the circumstances. I HATE CHEATERS!!!!!
    BigFootJoel BigFootJoel
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 16, 2015

    "Don't tell me what I'm doing is wrong!

    I've already been told that 1000x times, and I know [or: "it's our choices]." If you know it's wrong then ******* STOP. You people disgust me. You shouldn't be seeking support for your behavior, you should be seeking help to end it.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 14, 2015

    To me the act of cheating is bad

    but it isn't the worse part. The worst part comes when you start questioning why you were not good enough. Your self worth goes down, your self esteem goes down. The chance of having a normal relationship is destroyed. Why, because you can't trust. You throw those insecurities...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2015

    I have this app called Whisper.

    I'm sure most of you have it. Lol. Anyway, I was arguing with this guy about cheating. In short, he told me that cheating should be justified because we don't know what we want and we're indecisive. If we weren't indecisive, we wouldn't cheat. I was pissed. I asked him, "If that...
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    Doesn't it **** you off

    that people let cheaters off the hook nowadays? I am so ******* sick and tired of hearing them say, "Everyone makes mistakes. No one is perfect." People of today are now supporting cheaters and making THEM the victims. No one cares about the REAL victims. It is so disgusting...
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 11, 2016
    tine23 tine23
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 2, 2015

    i had a very bad dream last night.

    my boyfriend was with another girl on my bed. and he was just staring at me with a glance on his face and then suddenly he started kissing that girl sitting next to her. and i lost my mind. then i woke up. :(
    winkoryouwillsink winkoryouwillsink
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 26, 2016

    My sister Abby has been dating this boy Jeremy

    from her school for well over a year now. We aren't allowed to date until we are 16, but that didn't stop her. She risked our parents' trust and got herself into a lot of trouble over him. Months ago, my friend Mia found out that she was pregnant. She claimed that Jeremy could...
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    hmmm . i think .. its only coz it hurts .

    . and also . then therefore . it can b used as a weapon .. for sum its a turn tryin to get away with it or even getin caught . for sum their secret of it adds their additional spike . its quite a dynamic thing . some ppl dont consider what theyr doin as cheatin . sum do it as a...
    cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle cdwishimatgurlCalandraBelle
    36-40, T
    Feb 16, 2016

    On this site I see all sort of married men in

    a 'sexless marriage' and 'looking for fun' if you actually cared about your marriage you wouldn't be here. Cheating hurts a lot more than just being truthful with your spouse. Maybe monogamy doesn't exist.
    humblebee97 humblebee97
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Oct 22, 2015

    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    TerminaHero TerminaHero
    7 Responses Oct 12, 2013

    I can't believe how many ppl THINK I cheat on

    Words Scrabble etc. I have a high school education from 1978. Which means I could probably test into an associates degree with about a week's refresher course in advanced math. Then those who do cheat get mad when you beat them anyway.
    kenywal008 kenywal008
    56-60, M
    Mar 24, 2016
    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 23, 2014

    Look people if you cheat,

    proud of it, and admit to it on EP in a group or post stories about it on here....I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND OR HAVE YOU IN MY CIRCLE...I see that stuff and I will delete you from my circle... It sucks to be the one cheated on, by your spouse or significant other. To feel...
    tornsin tornsin
    36-40, M
    1 Response Apr 16, 2015

    I wouldn't date a guy

    who has cheated.
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 27, 2016

    Ok my thing is....Why does men go

    and get into a relationship with someone and already have a wife or girlfriend, hell I might not never understand but I sure would like to know. I'm feeling like this, don't get into no relationship if you have no intension of staying in one. You playing with people hearts...
    mzmeeka mzmeeka
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 20, 2016

    Rob Salinger!!! Mickey

    and Maude are waiting for an explanation.
    Sunnymornings Sunnymornings
    61-65, F
    7 Responses Mar 30, 2016

    Ever have a person cheating on you during a

    test, but they lie and say they don't? You aren't learning anything not getting any smarter. You want an A? Study and EARN IT. Do something. Hate studying? Me too, but I'm putting up with it. I force myself to do it cause I know it will help.
    SmartyGenius SmartyGenius
    13-15, F
    Apr 21, 2016

    So he had the nerve to go kiss other girls

    behind my back then come back a few months later trying to hug me and text me wassup like hah. no. GTFO.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    Wow I got blocked by some guy just cos I told

    him that cheating is wrong after he said he respects women loads but he loves the excitement of cheating on them.
    polarbearlove polarbearlove
    18-21, F
    30 Responses Aug 16, 2015

    my heart is heavy today.

    i left my husband because he is still cheating on me. it took me 2 uears to leave this time with the intention of not coming back. I've left a few times only to come back home again. this time I've finally had it. I've made my share of mistakes ...but i refuse to feel hurt and...
    jaws92 jaws92
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Apr 14, 2016

    It's funny when you ask people

    why they didn't break up instead of cheating if they weren't happy and they never give you an answer.
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    ONCE A CHEAT.. ALWAYS A CHEAT This is soooo not

    true. I once cheated on my husband and will tell you it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Not all people return to cheating, and it changed the dynamics of my marriage. I cant believe I almost threw it all away. Please dont automatically close the door if in this...
    VentiQuadLatte VentiQuadLatte
    41-45, F
    6 Responses May 2, 2015

    Sometimes I wish that all the sudden all the

    cheaters would just drop dead. The only problem is sometimes you don't know who the cheaters are and someone I was close to might die. That would be kinda ******.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 9, 2015

    I think it's funny that people

    who treat you like crap get offended when you finally do the same to them.
    MglMndt MglMndt
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    Well, in the ongoing saga of tales from my

    philandering ex boyfriend...he is engaged to another woman which, for him, is apparently a trigger to engage in a blind and panicky dash to find a side piece. Oddly, he thinks I might fit the role. Says he made a "terrible mistake" ending it with me about a year ago and wants to...
    Sunnymornings Sunnymornings
    61-65, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2016

    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    If someone you know knows your partner is

    cheating and they told you, would you get mad at them? Yes or No? If yes, explain why.
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 5, 2016

    Never lose sleep over a man

    who sleeps with another women. Instead, go to his house while he's sleeping, and light it on fire. ^-^
    deleted deleted
    9 Responses Sep 17, 2015
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    Mar 3, 2016

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    signeccaa signeccaa
    26-30, F
    Feb 24, 2016

    I have no respect for people

    who cheat Most people cheat because they are focusing on what they don't have rather than what they do have cheating is a choice not a mistake if they love you they won't cheat on you simple as that and if they do say thank you because they did you a favour now you can find the...
    SophieSophLJ SophieSophLJ
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    There is nothing I hate more then cheaters.

    In no situation is it okay. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with them before doing anything. You simply shouldn't be in a relationship if that one person isn't enough for you.
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Apr 2, 2015

    I have a question: Why do people choose

    cheating over breaking up?
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 20, 2016

    My dad cheated on my mom

    and ruined a 23 plus year marriage. Why can't you just admit you're unhappy and move on before you hurt someone so badly. Story time. My man texted me from his deployment today and said he caught his friend on a dating website. Kicker this guy has a fiancé at home. My initial...
    deleted deleted
    8 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    Concerned & worried. A married guy i know

    appears to have signed up to a dating site, using the work email address. He knows other people can see it! The emails he gets inform him he fits the criteria of these girls... These girls want to talk to you etc. I think he's unhappily married. I have a big suspicion. What...
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Mar 4, 2016

    Does anyone else feel like people are glorifying

    and encouraging cheating nowadays?
    Peridot23 Peridot23
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Feb 25, 2016

    When a girl puts her trust in you,

    and believes you when you say you love her, you've secured a place in her heart forever... To go against that trust, is to tear that place out of her still beating heart and leave her changed forever.
    KikFindme12thNumber KikFindme12thNumber
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2016
    deleted deleted
    Apr 17, 2016

    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir
    18-21, M
    5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

    I am in love with and was living with a Nerdy

    Man who continues to chase other women it is so bad that he was with someone else on my last birthday and this past Valentines day it has hurt me so bad I love him so much and don't know why he continues this cheating behavior so I have moved out of his house still seeing him...
    Anonymouse2016 Anonymouse2016
    Feb 26, 2016

    This guy thought I was boring

    and my sex life was bad because I wouldn't help him cheats. That's dandy!!! I'll let you keep thinking I'm boring while I continue to **** my husband anywhere and anytime I please. Not my fault you're on EP looking for something you're clearly lacking.
    HeyyMrsCarter HeyyMrsCarter
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 4, 2015
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