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I Hate Cheaters

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    Beware Of Fornicators (for Maybe The Younger Women And Men).

    It takes work to make a relationship good. Both parties have to want it. Sometimes, the relationship doesn't last long. Perhaps it is worth reminding that when one has low self-esteem, and a bad self-image, one grasps other people's partners because one is not capable of doing...
    stephaniebis stephaniebis 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    I've never cheated. I've been cheated on.

    it's not that hard to be a decent person. you're an idiot if you cheat. period.
    oceanskat oceanskat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    I really don't know anyone that's been married

    for more than 10 years and hasn't cheated on their wife it really makes me not believe in marriage or in men... Does you guys know anyone who's never cheated and been faithful to there significant other?
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    I cheated one's and I feel really bad,

    but I did it because the person was doing it too, we were more friends then anything.
    roxette0909 roxette0909 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Why do men cheat?? Then think it's funny to lie,

    laugh and treat you like a mug even more?
    topsy96 topsy96 18-21, F 60 Responses Feb 3

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, T 5 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    This is a poem for cheaters Roses are red

    Violets are blue You cheated on me So forget you You just dated me bc you wanted to You hurt me how could you You did something's I didn't like So hunny,babe, this is when I say goodbye
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    "You can't help who you fall in love with.

    " No, you can't. But you can back off before it turns into love, and you can certainly make the choice to not continue and distance yourself once such deep feelings arise. What no one wants to admit is- they don't want to. They make a conscious choice to keep going, even at the...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 7 Responses Jan 21

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    Cheaters suck! I sometimes wonder

    if most people who cheat actually realise the damage it does to the person basically for the rest of their lives, they can't right? Because if they do then they literally are the devil to do that to someone then live with themselves
    Buttercupqq Buttercupqq 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    Anglerfish melt together

    when they mate.. if only people were like that. Then they would have to be your one and only.
    AnarchyOfAthena AnarchyOfAthena 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 18

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    Why the **** did you say you love me?

    Why did you stay with me for that long... U said I was the ******* one for you!!!!! YOU ******* CHEATED.. Why? Cuz you felt sorry for her.. Should have ended with me instead of giving her the presents you told me you bought for me Saying I'm ur crazy ex ?????? Who the **** u...
    LBNF LBNF 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    James Pomar Mercado !

    You are a ******* cheater forever ! Sorry for your current temporary woman and baby.
    JJPcheater JJPcheater 26-30, F Jan 29

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 38 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    my husband of 12 years has slept with 4-5 women

    in less than a years time, one of those turning into a serious relationship. i was finally told the truth this december and even though i HATE cheaters i was willing to forgive if he showed me he truly regretted ot and tried to make it up to me by being forthright and honest. he...
    taedior taedior 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 26

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     Is EP just one more online place to troll

    for those who love another, but want something more?
    brknheart2 brknheart2 61-65, M Jan 20

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    It upsets me how this world is filled with

    cheaters who don't stay loyal to their partners. Even if it's just flirting with someone else, I still consider that as cheating. If it isn't working out with the person you are with, tell them! don't lie to them behind their backs! Don't keep secrets! Be flipping honest! Brake...
    Gabe05 Gabe05 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11 26-30, F Jan 21

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    My family has a legacy of cheaters

    that I'm definitely putting a stop to at my leaf. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother, my father's parents, and then my father cheated on my mother in a "like father, like son" pattern. The apple does fall far from the tree, if it rolls away, and by God, I must have fell on...
    Emeraldsky222 Emeraldsky222 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Our family best friend in the marines came home

    to surprise his wife, with a bouquet of flowers and a diamond necklace, and found out she was cheating on him. If you cheat on your man when he is the marines you are the lowest of the low, don't bother calling yourself a woman.
    camomeal camomeal 18-21, F Feb 6

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    I just got a butt dial from my partner.

    He was getting a ******* from another guy. I heard sucking noises and the other guy talking after they stopped. Once he realized what he did he turned his phone off. I have been waiting two hours for him to get home.
    randyh0808 randyh0808 41-45, M 4 Responses Jan 24

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    We'll my ex bf is a cheater!

    He cheated on every girl he's dated. We'll I started talking to him again. And he has a girlfriend I knew that but I started talking to him cause I was bored. We talked for like a month. Then I dumped him. Anyway after awhile I felt bad an I told his gf what he's been doing. I...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 35 Responses Jan 29

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    How hard is it just to say,

    its over or sorry I am not happy no more! I don't want to be with you and move on. Instead of being a man you want to be a coward and run around and talk to other girls and say that you are single and come home to me and fill my head up with lies. I can't stand cheaters. I have...
    ceceleann ceceleann 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    I'm pretty open minded!

    Live and let live I say! But not at the expense of others joy, peace, and sanity! Cheaters suck and so do the people who knowingly sleep with them! If you wanna be promiscuous fine but get out of relationship and do it with someone who is single! Too many lives, families and...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 12

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    basically I live with my mum

    and dad, they are married but she has cheated on him with her friend and still keeps in touch with him. my dad knows but loves my mum too much to let her go. it goes as far as the man coming to our house to have a drink with us and stuff. its messed up and sucks, I love my mum...
    SamanthaM358 SamanthaM358 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Would I be a hypocrite

    if I said I hate them yet I have cheated ??!
    Jusjellybean Jusjellybean 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 24

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    But the pictures says it all.

    That what I believe. I don't need a cheater in my life.
    irene1993 irene1993 18-21, F Jan 28

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    Why did my boyfriend think it was funny to tell

    me he cheated on me when he really didn't he just said he did to make me jealous smh...😒
    kfritz19 kfritz19 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 16 Responses May 28, 2014

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    malishka123 malishka123 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    30 years of marriage down the drain

    for my mom. Dad decided he wanted a benefit buddy. If I could there are worser names I could think of to call him and her. Not only that but he wants to keep his girlfriend and my mom...ha...go to where satan lives. My mom worked her blood and sweat to raise me and my siblings...
    Butterflies83 Butterflies83 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    one of my friends is going out with this girl I

    don't know her but anyways I was over his house yesterday and he tried to kiss me .... I threw the cat at him .... I panicked and I walked out of his house ... should I tell his girl? like idk I don't like drama
    AngelinaMilano AngelinaMilano 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 26-30, M 14 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    The few relationships I've been in,

    I've been loyal. I've never cheated, and I never will cheat. I expect the same loyalty from any woman I date. If I'm giving you my all, I expect the same. If you can't be loyal, you can't have me. Simple as that.
    SerSean SerSean 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    my crazy messed up thought of the day u know

    ppl would prob stop cheating if they knew it cost them their ****.... a Lil crazy yes....but really think about it say u got a few ppl cheating n u cut off their dicks....do u think the witnesses of that would ever cheat again? most likely not. not saying that the world would...
    lil1ontheway lil1ontheway 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    adelecc11 adelecc11 26-30, F Jan 21

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    I just found out my best friends boyfriend is

    cheating on her. But she's too blind to see it or believe me! I tried explaining, and I want to leave it alone since I've done all I can, but the more I think of it, if im really her best friend, should I stand by her even if she hates me for it? I know for a fact he's cheating...
    camomeal camomeal 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 17

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    What is the ******* point in cheating?

    If you Arnt happy with the relationship break up with them! instead of acting weird and making them think like there not good enough! Save them the heartbreak and don't leave them hanging..
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    lenaparachutina lenaparachutina 13-15, F 4 Responses Feb 2

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    I was with my husband 29 yrs.

    The last year of that my female intuition kicked in. It told me something was up. I started nosing around his paperwork. Sure enough he had a relationship going on line. I actually found a spread sheet with my assets on one side and hers on the other. I sat down had a cup...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-18, F 12 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F