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I Hate Cheaters

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 16 Responses May 28, 2014

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-17, F 13 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    I honestly do, why cheat?

    I didn't ask to have my heart broken that **** just happened so now I'm looking stupid and being told to get over being cheated on.. For what, for the next female to do it again.. Im so tired of this **** i just want to end all life, I wish I was in control of life it's self, im...
    GodlessWorld GodlessWorld 18-21, M Apr 1

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I've never cheated. I've been cheated on.

    it's not that hard to be a decent person. you're an idiot if you cheat. period.
    oceanskat oceanskat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    throwawaychild throwawaychild 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 38 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    I was with a man for 7 years.

    went through everything together. I just had his baby only 2 months ago to find out he had sex with another woman getting her pregnant also while we were living together in my last month of pregnancy. I spent many nights alone crying wondering where he was. it hurts to find out...
    DejaaVuu DejaaVuu 18-21, F 5 Responses May 5

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    How to be a private investigator ; 1: check

    phone records How often are calls & texts made to a certain number. 2. save number to contacts and than open Viber app , find number and see the profile pic , is it boy or girl? 3. Copy and paste number to facebook and if your lucky sometimes the persons profile comes up...
    FreedomPeaceHappiness FreedomPeaceHappiness 18-21 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    Imagine if the cheaters

    and third party had to pay million dollar fine to spouse they cheated on. After all there people who still fighting to get married cause there places where not everyone can.
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Look people if you cheat,

    proud of it, and admit to it on EP in a group or post stories about it on here....I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND OR HAVE YOU IN MY CIRCLE...I see that stuff and I will delete you from my circle... It sucks to be the one cheated on, by your spouse or significant other. To feel...
    tornsin tornsin 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 16

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    Idk why people rather cheat

    than leave. I never understood that. I've been in a bad relationship for like 4...5 months before we ended it. I never cheated. I had opportunities but I just couldn't live with the fact that I cheated on my gf although I wanted to break up with her. Like i told all my exes...
    RastaGotSoul RastaGotSoul 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Ugh. I just read a forum

    where a guy was posting about his cheating experiences and how he did not feel guilty at all because "men can separate sex from emotions hurr durr." He even said he wasn't the romantic type. Why DO cheaters and players even bother with relationships, then??
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    all I wanted is someone to care about

    and to have a family, to have someone to hug when feeling down...I got all the success I wanted in life but I failed to make him respect and care about me. what is cheating? are there kinds of cheating which we should not care about? is there any excuse for cheating? when a...
    welobibo welobibo 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 6

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    ONCE A CHEAT.. ALWAYS A CHEAT This is soooo not

    true. I once cheated on my husband and will tell you it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Not all people return to cheating, and it changed the dynamics of my marriage. I cant believe I almost threw it all away. Please dont automatically close the door if in this...
    VentiQuadLatte VentiQuadLatte 36-40, F 6 Responses May 2

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    I hate cheaters and worst are ones

    that are married and then they don't tell someone there married. I have she she 18 had boyfriend his 30 dating for year. He get her pregnant she tell him he drop bomb shell his been married for five years "happily" he not gonna do nothing so in order to get back at him she want...
    Maria1996 Maria1996 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    "Have you ever hooked up with her?

    " - Yes. A long time ago, before we were together. "HOW DARE YOU DO THIS TO ME!"
    basketspace basketspace 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 19

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    All good is hard. All evil is easy.

    Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    There is nothing I hate more then cheaters.

    In no situation is it okay. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with them before doing anything. You simply shouldn't be in a relationship if that one person isn't enough for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 2

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    This girl and guy are going out at my school.

    They are in a long distance relationship right now. The guy is my ex. He told me that they date each other and other people at the same time and I was like "what?!, why are y'all still going out then"? He said that they can't let each other go even though they like other people...
    Jamie361 Jamie361 16-17, F Apr 13

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    I'm afraid to start relationships.

    I don't want to be cheated on, I don't want to be betrayed.
    elsasaunt elsasaunt 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 31-35, M 15 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F Jul 20, 2014

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    My family has a legacy of cheaters

    that I'm definitely putting a stop to at my leaf. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother, my father's parents, and then my father cheated on my mother in a "like father, like son" pattern. The apple does fall far from the tree, if it rolls away, and by God, I must have fell on...
    Emeraldsky222 Emeraldsky222 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I was with my husband 29 yrs.

    The last year of that my female intuition kicked in. It told me something was up. I started nosing around his paperwork. Sure enough he had a relationship going on line. I actually found a spread sheet with my assets on one side and hers on the other. I sat down had a cup...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    "Don't tell me what I'm doing is wrong!

    I've already been told that 1000x times, and I know [or: "it's our choices]." If you know it's wrong then ******* STOP. You people disgust me. You shouldn't be seeking support for your behavior, you should be seeking help to end it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14

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    Sometimes I wish that all the sudden all the

    cheaters would just drop dead. The only problem is sometimes you don't know who the cheaters are and someone I was close to might die. That would be kinda ******.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    Why do we cheat? It's NOT a male

    or female problem. It's a human problem. I HATE reading "all men cheat" or "its just about the sex"... Painting men as out of control sex maniacs is destructive, sexist, and scary. Women cheat too! Cheating isn't ok. And here are some statics about why we do it. (I'm sorry...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 21

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    Cheaters honestly scare me.

    I stray away from relationships because I don't want anything like that to happen. I can't even fathom how id feel if I was cheated on or even worse I never found out. I won't cheat I don't need that I just want a good virgin woman who wants a lifelong monogamous relationship...
    MTBlake33 MTBlake33 22-25, M 2 Responses May 13

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    What is the ******* point in cheating?

    If you Arnt happy with the relationship break up with them! instead of acting weird and making them think like there not good enough! Save them the heartbreak and don't leave them hanging..
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    I am a married woman of 2 years we share a 16

    month old and I have 2 from previous relationship. My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant and I found it in my heart to forgive and now I found out he was leaving work early meeting up with a woman getting oral sex.....I am so torn . my heart is broken. help me
    RaychillRay RaychillRay 31-35, F 25 Responses Apr 23

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    BreakingBored BreakingBored 41-45, F 1 Response May 12

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    Has anyone been cheated on

    and how did you get through it?
    tayliajane tayliajane 18-21, F 8 Responses May 6

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    I hate gross married men

    who message me on here expecting me to drop my panties for them. They also think it's their right to have sex behind their wife's back. **** you and I hope you get castrated. Same goes for women who do the same thing.
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 1 Response May 11

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    Ridemywavvvve Ridemywavvvve 31-35, F May 3

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    We'll my ex bf is a cheater!

    He cheated on every girl he's dated. We'll I started talking to him again. And he has a girlfriend I knew that but I started talking to him cause I was bored. We talked for like a month. Then I dumped him. Anyway after awhile I felt bad an I told his gf what he's been doing. I...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 33 Responses Jan 29

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    The few relationships I've been in,

    I've been loyal. I've never cheated, and I never will cheat. I expect the same loyalty from any woman I date. If I'm giving you my all, I expect the same. If you can't be loyal, you can't have me. Simple as that.
    SerSean SerSean 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 16

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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