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I Hate Cheaters

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    throwawaychild throwawaychild 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 11

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F Jul 20, 2014

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    conniee3 conniee3 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    "Don't tell me what I'm doing is wrong!

    I've already been told that 1000x times, and I know [or: "it's our choices]." If you know it's wrong then ******* STOP. You people disgust me. You shouldn't be seeking support for your behavior, you should be seeking help to end it.
    IproxyI IproxyI 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    It upsets me how this world is filled with

    cheaters who don't stay loyal to their partners. Even if it's just flirting with someone else, I still consider that as cheating. If it isn't working out with the person you are with, tell them! don't lie to them behind their backs! Don't keep secrets! Be flipping honest! Brake...
    Gabe05 Gabe05 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    my dad cheated mom with his friends wife .

    . and his friend rent our first floor and they used to talk on durty things on facebook ... she is a ***** and he think that he will marry her .. and when i heard that .. i stopped eating and i dont feel even in mood to do anything .. and i spent every night awake .. i couldnt...
    saifounnn saifounnn 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    There is nothing I hate more then cheaters.

    In no situation is it okay. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with them before doing anything. You simply shouldn't be in a relationship if that one person isn't enough for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 2

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 16 Responses May 28, 2014

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    They are so thirsty and scared they will miss

    out on something .. I mean stay single and ready to mingle if u want to cheat ... I just want to throw gatorade in a cheaters face ... The thrist is real....😡😡
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 70+, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    We'll my ex bf is a cheater!

    He cheated on every girl he's dated. We'll I started talking to him again. And he has a girlfriend I knew that but I started talking to him cause I was bored. We talked for like a month. Then I dumped him. Anyway after awhile I felt bad an I told his gf what he's been doing. I...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 35 Responses Jan 29

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    I want to out that other woman .

    .. I just don't know if it's something I'll regret because its coming from a place of hate.
    sp7799 sp7799 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 4

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    This girl and guy are going out at my school.

    They are in a long distance relationship right now. The guy is my ex. He told me that they date each other and other people at the same time and I was like "what?!, why are y'all still going out then"? He said that they can't let each other go even though they like other people...
    Jamie361 Jamie361 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    "You can't help who you fall in love with.

    " No, you can't. But you can back off before it turns into love, and you can certainly make the choice to not continue and distance yourself once such deep feelings arise. What no one wants to admit is- they don't want to. They make a conscious choice to keep going, even at the...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    Look people if you cheat,

    proud of it, and admit to it on EP in a group or post stories about it on here....I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND OR HAVE YOU IN MY CIRCLE...I see that stuff and I will delete you from my circle... It sucks to be the one cheated on, by your spouse or significant other. To feel...
    tornsin tornsin 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M Mar 22

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    The few relationships I've been in,

    I've been loyal. I've never cheated, and I never will cheat. I expect the same loyalty from any woman I date. If I'm giving you my all, I expect the same. If you can't be loyal, you can't have me. Simple as that.
    SerSean SerSean 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26, 2014

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    all I wanted is someone to care about

    and to have a family, to have someone to hug when feeling down...I got all the success I wanted in life but I failed to make him respect and care about me. what is cheating? are there kinds of cheating which we should not care about? is there any excuse for cheating? when a...
    welobibo welobibo 26-30, F 8 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm pretty open minded!

    Live and let live I say! But not at the expense of others joy, peace, and sanity! Cheaters suck and so do the people who knowingly sleep with them! If you wanna be promiscuous fine but get out of relationship and do it with someone who is single! Too many lives, families and...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    I've never cheated. I've been cheated on.

    it's not that hard to be a decent person. you're an idiot if you cheat. period.
    oceanskat oceanskat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    I hate cheaters and worst are ones

    that are married and then they don't tell someone there married. I have she she 18 had boyfriend his 30 dating for year. He get her pregnant she tell him he drop bomb shell his been married for five years "happily" he not gonna do nothing so in order to get back at him she want...
    Maria1996 Maria1996 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Sometimes I wish that all the sudden all the

    cheaters would just drop dead. The only problem is sometimes you don't know who the cheaters are and someone I was close to might die. That would be kinda ******.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    one of my friends is going out with this girl I

    don't know her but anyways I was over his house yesterday and he tried to kiss me .... I threw the cat at him .... I panicked and I walked out of his house ... should I tell his girl? like idk I don't like drama
    AngelinaMilano AngelinaMilano 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 16

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    The one person I trusted my darkest secrets too

    ; happens to be the person who betrayed me. I don't trust anyone not even my sister with anything and I always keep things to myself or to this loser. Now that the person i thought was my best friend/soulmate proved that he didn't give a **** makes me so secretive to people...
    FreedomPeaceHappiness FreedomPeaceHappiness 18-21 2 Responses Apr 5

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    My family has a legacy of cheaters

    that I'm definitely putting a stop to at my leaf. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother, my father's parents, and then my father cheated on my mother in a "like father, like son" pattern. The apple does fall far from the tree, if it rolls away, and by God, I must have fell on...
    Emeraldsky222 Emeraldsky222 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11

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    All good is hard. All evil is easy.

    Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    30 years of marriage down the drain

    for my mom. Dad decided he wanted a benefit buddy. If I could there are worser names I could think of to call him and her. Not only that but he wants to keep his girlfriend and my mom...ha...go to where satan lives. My mom worked her blood and sweat to raise me and my siblings...
    Butterflies83 Butterflies83 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 26-30, M 15 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    I believe that cheaters choose to cheat.

    Many people who cheat like to say, "I couldn't help myself" or sometimes they even blame their partners, like, "You weren't giving me the attention or sex I needed". However, it all comes down to a choice. I was in a relationship that I wasn't happy in and had wanted out for...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    I was with my husband 29 yrs.

    The last year of that my female intuition kicked in. It told me something was up. I started nosing around his paperwork. Sure enough he had a relationship going on line. I actually found a spread sheet with my assets on one side and hers on the other. I sat down had a cup...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Imagine if the cheaters

    and third party had to pay million dollar fine to spouse they cheated on. After all there people who still fighting to get married cause there places where not everyone can.
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    There are numerous older men in the world

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    alisoncc11 alisoncc11 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 5

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    I really don't know anyone that's been married

    for more than 10 years and hasn't cheated on their wife it really makes me not believe in marriage or in men... Does you guys know anyone who's never cheated and been faithful to there significant other?
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    To me the act of cheating is bad

    but it isn't the worse part. The worst part comes when you start questioning why you were not good enough. Your self worth goes down, your self esteem goes down. The chance of having a normal relationship is destroyed. Why, because you can't trust. You throw those insecurities...
    Nottheaveragegirl Nottheaveragegirl 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-17, F 13 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    What is the ******* point in cheating?

    If you Arnt happy with the relationship break up with them! instead of acting weird and making them think like there not good enough! Save them the heartbreak and don't leave them hanging..
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    How to be a private investigator ; 1: check

    phone records How often are calls & texts made to a certain number. 2. save number to contacts and than open Viber app , find number and see the profile pic , is it boy or girl? 3. Copy and paste number to facebook and if your lucky sometimes the persons profile comes up...
    FreedomPeaceHappiness FreedomPeaceHappiness 18-21 3 Responses Apr 4

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 38 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    Why do we cheat? It's NOT a male

    or female problem. It's a human problem. I HATE reading "all men cheat" or "its just about the sex"... Painting men as out of control sex maniacs is destructive, sexist, and scary. Women cheat too! Cheating isn't ok. And here are some statics about why we do it. (I'm sorry...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 11 Responses Mar 21

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