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I Hate Cheaters

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    Why do we cheat? It's NOT a male

    or female problem. It's a human problem. I HATE reading "all men cheat" or "its just about the sex"... Painting men as out of control sex maniacs is destructive, sexist, and scary. Women cheat too! Cheating isn't ok. And here are some statics about why we do it. (I'm sorry...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Gross.. I guess people really do share any

    experiences on here, no matter how shameful they are. Don't add me if you're in one of those groups or think cheating is okay or that everyone does it. You're awful.
    crookedfryingpan crookedfryingpan 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    my husband of 12 years has slept with 4-5 women

    in less than a years time, one of those turning into a serious relationship. i was finally told the truth this december and even though i HATE cheaters i was willing to forgive if he showed me he truly regretted ot and tried to make it up to me by being forthright and honest. he...
    taedior taedior 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 26

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14, 2014

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    The few relationships I've been in,

    I've been loyal. I've never cheated, and I never will cheat. I expect the same loyalty from any woman I date. If I'm giving you my all, I expect the same. If you can't be loyal, you can't have me. Simple as that.
    SerSean SerSean 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 16

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    What is the ******* point in cheating?

    If you Arnt happy with the relationship break up with them! instead of acting weird and making them think like there not good enough! Save them the heartbreak and don't leave them hanging..
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F 3 Responses Feb 22

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    I was with my husband 29 yrs.

    The last year of that my female intuition kicked in. It told me something was up. I started nosing around his paperwork. Sure enough he had a relationship going on line. I actually found a spread sheet with my assets on one side and hers on the other. I sat down had a cup...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    They are so thirsty and scared they will miss

    out on something .. I mean stay single and ready to mingle if u want to cheat ... I just want to throw gatorade in a cheaters face ... The thrist is real....😡😡
    Prettibrowngirl Prettibrowngirl 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Cheaters suck! I sometimes wonder

    if most people who cheat actually realise the damage it does to the person basically for the rest of their lives, they can't right? Because if they do then they literally are the devil to do that to someone then live with themselves
    Buttercupqq Buttercupqq 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    It upsets me how this world is filled with

    cheaters who don't stay loyal to their partners. Even if it's just flirting with someone else, I still consider that as cheating. If it isn't working out with the person you are with, tell them! don't lie to them behind their backs! Don't keep secrets! Be flipping honest! Brake...
    Gabe05 Gabe05 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    But the pictures says it all.

    That what I believe. I don't need a cheater in my life.
    irene1993 irene1993 18-21, F Jan 28

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    there's a ton of females in this experience.

    where's the dudes? I have a theory........ women have no problem admitting they have been cheated on, sharing and working through all the emotions. men, well, we just don't like dealing with the rejection of this or the emotions either. I am divorced after 23+ yr of crap. well...
    smillyboy smillyboy 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I'm sat reading 'experiences' from ppl all over

    the world whose had or having affairs at wrk/with the neighbours or the best m8. The WOMEN r so worse!! "I love my husband he's a great man, provides for our children and works hard. He pays all the bills. But my affair so much fun. Says he's gna leave his wife for me." Blah...
    FuzzFuzz FuzzFuzz 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28, 2014

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    malishka123 malishka123 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I've always hated cheaters.

    I just can't understand why people do that. It seems so unfair. Just leave your spouse or partner don't be an *** and cheat. I know how much it hurts to be cheated on. Makes you feel unwanted. There's a special place in hell for people who do that I'm sure.
    DragonGoddess07 DragonGoddess07 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    I just found out my best friends boyfriend is

    cheating on her. But she's too blind to see it or believe me! I tried explaining, and I want to leave it alone since I've done all I can, but the more I think of it, if im really her best friend, should I stand by her even if she hates me for it? I know for a fact he's cheating...
    camomeal camomeal 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 17

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    How hard is it just to say,

    its over or sorry I am not happy no more! I don't want to be with you and move on. Instead of being a man you want to be a coward and run around and talk to other girls and say that you are single and come home to me and fill my head up with lies. I can't stand cheaters. I have...
    ceceleann ceceleann 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 16 Responses May 28, 2014

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    James Pomar Mercado !

    You are a ******* cheater forever ! Sorry for your current temporary woman and baby.
    JJPcheater JJPcheater 26-30, F Jan 29

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    Our family best friend in the marines came home

    to surprise his wife, with a bouquet of flowers and a diamond necklace, and found out she was cheating on him. If you cheat on your man when he is the marines you are the lowest of the low, don't bother calling yourself a woman.
    camomeal camomeal 18-21, F Feb 6

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    I've never cheated. I've been cheated on.

    it's not that hard to be a decent person. you're an idiot if you cheat. period.
    oceanskat oceanskat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    Why did my boyfriend think it was funny to tell

    me he cheated on me when he really didn't he just said he did to make me jealous smh...😒
    kfritz19 kfritz19 16-17, F 3 Responses Feb 3

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    I want to out that other woman .

    .. I just don't know if it's something I'll regret because its coming from a place of hate.
    sp7799 sp7799 36-40, F 8 Responses Mar 4

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 38 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    This is a poem for cheaters Roses are red

    Violets are blue You cheated on me So forget you You just dated me bc you wanted to You hurt me how could you You did something's I didn't like So hunny,babe, this is when I say goodbye
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F 3 Responses Jan 29

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    Cheating ruins marriages,

    families, and lives. It almost ruined all three for me, but I'm not ready to give up.
    AaronH96 AaronH96 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I'm pretty open minded!

    Live and let live I say! But not at the expense of others joy, peace, and sanity! Cheaters suck and so do the people who knowingly sleep with them! If you wanna be promiscuous fine but get out of relationship and do it with someone who is single! Too many lives, families and...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23, 2014

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    Sometimes I wish that all the sudden all the

    cheaters would just drop dead. The only problem is sometimes you don't know who the cheaters are and someone I was close to might die. That would be kinda ******.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9

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    All good is hard. All evil is easy.

    Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    We'll my ex bf is a cheater!

    He cheated on every girl he's dated. We'll I started talking to him again. And he has a girlfriend I knew that but I started talking to him cause I was bored. We talked for like a month. Then I dumped him. Anyway after awhile I felt bad an I told his gf what he's been doing. I...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 35 Responses Jan 29

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    30 years of marriage down the drain

    for my mom. Dad decided he wanted a benefit buddy. If I could there are worser names I could think of to call him and her. Not only that but he wants to keep his girlfriend and my mom...ha...go to where satan lives. My mom worked her blood and sweat to raise me and my siblings...
    Butterflies83 Butterflies83 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 26

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    "You can't help who you fall in love with.

    " No, you can't. But you can back off before it turns into love, and you can certainly make the choice to not continue and distance yourself once such deep feelings arise. What no one wants to admit is- they don't want to. They make a conscious choice to keep going, even at the...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    I really don't know anyone that's been married

    for more than 10 years and hasn't cheated on their wife it really makes me not believe in marriage or in men... Does you guys know anyone who's never cheated and been faithful to there significant other?
    DreamOnBeautiful DreamOnBeautiful 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    My family has a legacy of cheaters

    that I'm definitely putting a stop to at my leaf. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother, my father's parents, and then my father cheated on my mother in a "like father, like son" pattern. The apple does fall far from the tree, if it rolls away, and by God, I must have fell on...
    Emeraldsky222 Emeraldsky222 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F Jul 20, 2014

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    I also have no clue why their victims forgive,

    they just do it again and again...
    SShawnO SShawnO 41-45, M 6 Responses Mar 6