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I Hate Cheaters

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    Why do we cheat? It's NOT a male

    or female problem. It's a human problem. I HATE reading "all men cheat" or "its just about the sex"... Painting men as out of control sex maniacs is destructive, sexist, and scary. Women cheat too! Cheating isn't ok. And here are some statics about why we do it. (I'm sorry...
    MommysGotTats420 MommysGotTats420 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 21

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    mikaaylam23 mikaaylam23 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 15

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    piak24 piak24 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake.Β 
    TerminaHero TerminaHero 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    So there was this guy

    that I knew for a while named Chris . He was everything I liked and more he was mixed with blue eyes super tall and cute. We both had a crush on eachother since we met at a carnival a year ago. But we were both scared to say something for a while and didn't actually talk until...
    Maleeataylor Maleeataylor 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    I've never cheated. I've been cheated on.

    it's not that hard to be a decent person. you're an idiot if you cheat. period.
    oceanskat oceanskat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22, 2014

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 31-35, M 15 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    That's right Lebitch,

    that means you too. You know damn well had it been any other player it would be called. I thought when Adam Silver took over as commissioner he was going to stop this stupid superstar favoritism ****? I guess not. https://mobile.twitter.com/IAmThatBlackGuy/status...
    ThereIsNoName3 ThereIsNoName3 31-35, F Jun 9

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    I hate cheats I loved u to bits

    but we not getting back together again because my best friend luke is on here and he was protecting from u Aaron
    cam2169 cam2169 13-15, M 2 Responses Jun 3

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16, 2014

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    i keep seeing people have cheated on their

    s/o's with their best friends. seriously people are just horrible horrible horrible. i hate people. that's all i can say...
    CynicalIntrovert CynicalIntrovert 18-21, F 2 Responses May 26

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    I believe that cheaters choose to cheat.

    Many people who cheat like to say, "I couldn't help myself" or sometimes they even blame their partners, like, "You weren't giving me the attention or sex I needed". However, it all comes down to a choice. I was in a relationship that I wasn't happy in and had wanted out for...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    So literally I was going with this lad For

    about 2 months and a half (Ik that's not a long time but he was my best friend before that) And like yesterday I found out that he was cheating on me He literally just said he likes her more than me And it made it worse the fact he was my bestfriend tooπŸ˜” so I've lost my...
    zareenatoor zareenatoor 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    There is nothing I hate more then cheaters.

    In no situation is it okay. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with them before doing anything. You simply shouldn't be in a relationship if that one person isn't enough for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 2

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    I hate it when someones in a relationship

    and I know it and yet they try to hit on me and I say go away I know your not single, and im not like that-you got caught tempting to cheat game over.
    Remi4ever Remi4ever 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I get sick and tired of people blaming men

    who cheat on their women. Women are slip by if they cheat. No one cares. Stop painting men so badly. Women at 10x worse off when they cheat.
    DaFufinator DaFufinator 18-21, M 2 Responses May 21

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    The few relationships I've been in,

    I've been loyal. I've never cheated, and I never will cheat. I expect the same loyalty from any woman I date. If I'm giving you my all, I expect the same. If you can't be loyal, you can't have me. Simple as that.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 16

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    It's so funny. There was this guy I swore up

    and down I was in love with in middle school and high school, but we were merely casual friends. I confessed my feelings for him. But alas, he was the cheating type and had many different women at once and brushed me off, his only interest was sex and passing girls around...
    HeyyMrsCarter HeyyMrsCarter 22-25, F 4 Responses Jun 12

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    I freaking hate cheaters

    and a cheater can be anyone your bf, gf, friends any one. So watch out guys. Don't want you to feel what I felt.
    angelloves angelloves 13-15, F Jul 13

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    Why cheat if you can be single?

    ? πŸ˜•πŸ˜•
    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    My husband used to cheat.

    Weird. Wasn't like he didn't get it at home. Ex husband I should say lol
    Darcy994 Darcy994 51-55, F 3 Responses May 23

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    Let me ask as a man who would appreciate a

    woman's point of view. I am married to a wonderful woman and my closest friend. She has a number of ailments that stops us from intimate physical contact of any type. She has progressed to this point over a twelve year period. We have had no, I said NO contact other than...
    readthepost readthepost 56-60, M 1 Response May 26

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    Hiya I am a complete newbie to this

    but can't talk to anyone about this as I feel to ashamed, not that I have done anything wrong. I recently found out that my partner was going on a sex date website and has put in all his detail about his physical appearance and sexual preferences and is looking to meet up with...
    Faybe38 Faybe38 36-40, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    LRMommyof3 LRMommyof3 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 14 Responses May 28, 2014

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 40 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-17, F 13 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    Lol at men who get mad at me

    for not helping them cheat on their wives.
    biancalb biancalb 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Look people if you cheat,

    proud of it, and admit to it on EP in a group or post stories about it on here....I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND OR HAVE YOU IN MY CIRCLE...I see that stuff and I will delete you from my circle... It sucks to be the one cheated on, by your spouse or significant other. To feel...
    tornsin tornsin 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 16

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    Hii!I’ve been in unrequited love

    for 4 years now. I know it hurts a lot.I wrote a book on this topic too.The book trailer for my debut novel “You are my Wonderwall” is finally out.Please spare 2 minutes to have a look.The novel will be out pretty soon.Thanks.
    youaremywonderwall youaremywonderwall 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    sandyccaa sandyccaa 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    I was with my husband 29 yrs.

    The last year of that my female intuition kicked in. It told me something was up. I started nosing around his paperwork. Sure enough he had a relationship going on line. I actually found a spread sheet with my assets on one side and hers on the other. I sat down had a cup...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 8 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20, 2014

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    If my future partner cheats me,

    I'll leave immediately, no matter what. Even if we have children. I won't stay in an unhappy relationship because of children and ruin my life. I don't mean I'll leave after suspecting him of cheating, only when I actually know it. If someone cheats, they either don't love or...
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    If me and my girlfriend break up

    and 2 days later shes got another bf does that mean she was probably cheating on me? bear in mine we were going out for 2 years
    tommoz19 tommoz19 18-21, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    What is the ******* point in cheating?

    If you Arnt happy with the relationship break up with them! instead of acting weird and making them think like there not good enough! Save them the heartbreak and don't leave them hanging..
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    Proud cheaters = Human garbage.

    Really. The world would be better without you. Cheaters = What?? Knock it the hell off if you know it's wrong! Screw all of you ********. No one better cheat on anyone I know lol I wouldn't be able to stop myself from doing something bad, I admit this.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 12

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    To me the act of cheating is bad

    but it isn't the worse part. The worst part comes when you start questioning why you were not good enough. Your self worth goes down, your self esteem goes down. The chance of having a normal relationship is destroyed. Why, because you can't trust. You throw those insecurities...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    I am a married woman of 2 years we share a 16

    month old and I have 2 from previous relationship. My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant and I found it in my heart to forgive and now I found out he was leaving work early meeting up with a woman getting oral sex.....I am so torn . my heart is broken. help me
    RaychillRay RaychillRay 36-40, F 24 Responses Apr 23

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    I caught my ex I was 17/18 she told it was

    there "only time" when she ends pregnant with twins. Thinking there mine I give up my scholarship to PSU in Wrestling. To take care of kids thinking there mine. I went to every dr. Visit. I got the cribs. 9 months into she tells me it's possibility it could be his on day they...
    LoyaltynTrust93 LoyaltynTrust93 18-21, M 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    It upsets me how this world is filled with

    cheaters who don't stay loyal to their partners. Even if it's just flirting with someone else, I still consider that as cheating. If it isn't working out with the person you are with, tell them! don't lie to them behind their backs! Don't keep secrets! Be flipping honest! Brake...
    Gabe05 Gabe05 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm afraid to start relationships.

    I don't want to be cheated on, I don't want to be betrayed.
    elsasaunt elsasaunt 16-17, F 3 Responses May 16

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    Hey don't trust a user

    who goes by the name NinjaDevil he's a cheater he's a complete **** boy and not worth it he hurt me bad today and I'm sorry to say his new girlfriend wouldn't believe me so it seems she'll be hurting pretty bad too
    CookieMonsta16 CookieMonsta16 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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