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I Hate Cheaters

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    If my future partner cheats me,

    I'll leave immediately, no matter what. Even if we have children. I won't stay in an unhappy relationship because of children and ruin my life. I don't mean I'll leave after suspecting him of cheating, only when I actually know it. If someone cheats, they either don't love or...
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2015

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    He came clean and had me log into his account

    and delete it all. I looked through what he wrote, not once was I mentioned. Yes, he was honest about this, but what else is he hiding? Maybe he will do it again, maybe he has other accounts I don't know about. So if I cannot trust him, there is really nothing left at all.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    so ******* loyal to him,

    but he cheated on me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jan 9

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    how do u fix a relationship

    after being cheated on?
    ChangingLife2015 ChangingLife2015 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    Some people treat relationships

    as a video game... They play them and when they get bored they cheat.
    MglMndt MglMndt 16-17, M 6 Responses Sep 26, 2015

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    I was with my husband 29 yrs.

    The last year of that my female intuition kicked in. It told me something was up. I started nosing around his paperwork. Sure enough he had a relationship going on line. I actually found a spread sheet with my assets on one side and hers on the other. I sat down had a cup...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 7 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I hate when women cheat on me ,

    because they think that I'm not good enough for them
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 3 Responses Feb 3

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    So he had the nerve to go kiss other girls

    behind my back then come back a few months later trying to hug me and text me wassup like hah. no. GTFO.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

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    Is it honestly even realistic to expect a

    monogamous relationship anymore? Some people tell me it's not, and I'm almost starting to believe them. Seeing everyone talking about being cheated on, Or the ones doing the cheating.. How do you do that to someone you love?
    haileyx3 haileyx3 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    im such a sap. my husband cheats on ne

    and i feel bad when I don't do things for him
    jaws92 jaws92 46-50, F Jan 25

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    I have dealt with guys in the past

    who would send dirty pics to women and get them in return. Some of them had women on the side. It's something I won't tolerate in a relationship. If you have issues with me, then talk them out with me and try to come up with a solution. If you are not happy with me, then leave...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    I think it's funny that people

    who treat you like crap get offended when you finally do the same to them.
    MglMndt MglMndt 16-17, M 3 Responses Sep 7, 2015

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    How does one handle a cheating husband whom you

    have 2 kids with? Not mine, but a friends. He constantly treats her like crap and they get into fights all the time but she keeps going back. Any thoughts?
    VVmommy VVmommy 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 8

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    The crazy thing is that some women

    and men on this site think it's okay to cheat on their spouses. Well there's one word for you "divorce". Because let's be honest if he/she did the same thing to you you would be devastated and most likely you would never trust them with your heart ever again. You married that...
    Alex4eve Alex4eve 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    Even though you're 100% against cheating,

    are you always afraid that you're going to end up being the cheater?
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F Jan 27

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 13 Responses May 28, 2014

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    The first text I found said thanks

    for everything dream man how about calling me gabbylicious? Who thinks they were having sex at that point?
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 14

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    There is nothing I hate more then cheaters.

    In no situation is it okay. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with them before doing anything. You simply shouldn't be in a relationship if that one person isn't enough for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 2, 2015

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    think my bf is cheating.

    talking and commerical comes on for the new James bond movie and he says good movie even though we missed the beginning. because I was 45 minutes late not true I was 10 and who was 45 minutes late
    DeShawn20 DeShawn20 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    TerminaHero TerminaHero 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    I'm 15 and I've been in one relationship in my

    life. I broke it off for various reasons, mostly because I'm scared that I'm going to cheat. My parents have always stayed faithful and I haven't had much experience with cheaters but I'm just too scared that I'll cheat on somebody to be in a relationship with them. I don't even...
    ObviouslyNotHuman ObviouslyNotHuman 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2015

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    I think I spoke about this in one of my earlier

    entiries, but anyway, my bf admitted to cheating on me 2 years ago, while I was pregnant. Since that day I have not been. The same towards him. I've told him and tried to convince myself that I've forgiven him. Well there are times when I just feel like that is so. I do not...
    ihopetoseeclearly ihopetoseeclearly 22-25 6 Responses Dec 13, 2015

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Myselfhere1 Myselfhere1 31-35, M 14 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    tine23 tine23 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 2, 2015

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    Help! I think he's cheating

    but I can't prove it. I just have to know because I can't do this anymore if he is. The latest thing that happened was we were texting and then he sent "And kiss your beautiful face." But their was no related text before that and it didn't make sense in our convo. Then he...
    JessygotaBooBoo JessygotaBooBoo 22-25, F 7 Responses Jan 27

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    I believe that cheaters choose to cheat.

    Many people who cheat like to say, "I couldn't help myself" or sometimes they even blame their partners, like, "You weren't giving me the attention or sex I needed". However, it all comes down to a choice. I was in a relationship that I wasn't happy in and had wanted out for...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 6, 2015

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    I hate when people cheat on my best friend

    people need to stop doing it!!!!!!!
    ILoveMyBestieForever ILoveMyBestieForever 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    "Don't tell me what I'm doing is wrong!

    I've already been told that 1000x times, and I know [or: "it's our choices]." If you know it's wrong then ******* STOP. You people disgust me. You shouldn't be seeking support for your behavior, you should be seeking help to end it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14, 2015

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    ONCE A CHEAT.. ALWAYS A CHEAT This is soooo not

    true. I once cheated on my husband and will tell you it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Not all people return to cheating, and it changed the dynamics of my marriage. I cant believe I almost threw it all away. Please dont automatically close the door if in this...
    VentiQuadLatte VentiQuadLatte 41-45, F 7 Responses May 2, 2015

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    I never been cheated on

    because I've never been in a relationship. However, my best friend did get cheated on by her current boyfriend. It happened when she was visitng me for part of the summer. I remember one day he called her and they had this HUGE fight because he accused HER of cheating. That...
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    No matter if we were married

    or not, how serious our relationship were or how many children we had, I WOULD NEVER EVER STAY WITH A CHEATER!!! My partner isn't allowed to cheat me at all and if he does, I can't forgive it and leave immediately. I love myself more than some dumb, arrogant and weak man!
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2015

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    Sometimes I wish that all the sudden all the

    cheaters would just drop dead. The only problem is sometimes you don't know who the cheaters are and someone I was close to might die. That would be kinda ******.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9, 2015

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    I think what happens sometimes is someone who's

    desperate gets involved with someone who they don't really find attractive, so they are left always looking at others and finding other people more attractive.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    Dealing with an issue right now.

    It's def a hurt that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Hurts even more when kids are involved. Not sure if I want to even try and save my marriage.
    softballmom0723 softballmom0723 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

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    TheTruth94 TheTruth94 22-25, M Nov 4, 2015

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    Look people if you cheat,

    proud of it, and admit to it on EP in a group or post stories about it on here....I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND OR HAVE YOU IN MY CIRCLE...I see that stuff and I will delete you from my circle... It sucks to be the one cheated on, by your spouse or significant other. To feel...
    tornsin tornsin 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 16, 2015

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    My dad cheated on my mom

    and ruined a 23 plus year marriage. Why can't you just admit you're unhappy and move on before you hurt someone so badly. Story time. My man texted me from his deployment today and said he caught his friend on a dating website. Kicker this guy has a fiancé at home. My initial...
    ally1194 ally1194 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    Life is full of pain

    and hardship, but if you have the chance to learn from it, you'll be thankful it happened. Back when I was in high school I fell in "love" a few times. In my first relationship, my girlfriend had been cheating on me with her drug dealer, it was painful at the time because I...
    ahzzazel ahzzazel 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 1, 2015

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    On this site I see all sort of married men in

    a 'sexless marriage' and 'looking for fun' if you actually cared about your marriage you wouldn't be here. Cheating hurts a lot more than just being truthful with your spouse. Maybe monogamy doesn't exist.
    humblebee97 humblebee97 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 20, 2015

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    Never lose sleep over a man

    who sleeps with another women. Instead, go to his house while he's sleeping, and light it on fire. ^-^
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Sep 17, 2015

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    .Two Ashley Madison clients are reported to

    have taken their lives after hackers published their details according to police in Canada..If you can't handle the heat stay the fk out of the kitchen - lie and deceive then get caught so you off yourself? Two words - DARWIN AWARDS!!!! .... (Don't know them? Google them it is a...
    evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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