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I Hate Cheaters

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    James pomar mercado You

    such a cheater. Now you are having a baby with someone whom you only dated less than 6 months. Wow After me, one phillipina, after her, white military girl, and now Korean within one year !! Lol And I am with someone who is better educated, kind and sweet. You lose your mind...
    JJPJJPJJPcheater JJPJJPJJPcheater 26-30, F Jul 15

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    My ex was cheating on me

    for over a year of our relationship while was accusing me of cheating. A found everything out when we broke up. I had no emotions anymore apart from shock. Met up with that gal as he was hiding me from her. Told her everything and found out he went for dinner with him the next...
    vmiss vmiss 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 17 Responses May 28

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    This is to all the girls out there

    who ever been cheated on, used or lied to, i know how u feel and ur not alone. u might feel like ur the only one out there who ever been treated that way BUT UR NOT ALONE. it sucks but hard times dont last forever it might be stormy now but it doesnt rain forever so back stright...
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 2 Responses May 8

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    I hear about so many people

    that cheat (friends of friends, randoms and familiars) and I think it's so disgusting and wrong. Especially when they do it with no shame or remorse and brag about it? What the hell. I refuse being friends with a cheater. Not because of the action per se, but I think it says...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I like the idea of the "scarlet letter".

    Not really to shame these losers, just to let decent men and women out there know who they are dealing with, And not just for the men and women who are married and committing adultery, but for the ones they are cheating with.
    shellseagirl shellseagirl 41-45, F 3 Responses May 28

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    You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself!

    How dare you message me and ask "Ok with married men?" or "lets have sex", when you are Married or in a Relationship! That is absolutely disgusting and horrible! Of-course I said no because I am not a home wrecker, nor am I like that. I told you to divorce or break-up with your...
    DivinaRuh DivinaRuh 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    PROUD TO SAY I HAVE NEVER CHEATED!

    I have always been a loyal girlfriend. I have been cheated on and so has my bf. His ex of 2yrs cheated on him and lead him on. I don't even know her and I resent her. I know people can change but she didn't even admit it to him WHEN THERE WAS PROOF. Whatever, he's allllll mine...
    blushkat blushkat 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    I don't even like to waste my time thinking

    about people who cheat on their significant other... It ****** me off. They don't realize how much that truly hurts the other person, being cheated on is one of the worst pains there is.
    anamariabrownson anamariabrownson 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I HATE cheaters. I have been cheated on

    but I've never cheated and I refuse to accept it as something normal. Apparently something like 50% of all married people have had an affair. My second sexual experience was with a married woman while her husband was at a army base making her money. I cared at the time but I was...
    Blake00048 Blake00048 18-21, M 3 Responses Jun 24

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    My ex-boyfriend cheated on me.

    I was 16 at that time and he was 20 years old and in college. He cheated on me with a girl who was a grade above me in high school. I’ve never felt so betrayed and hurt emotionally until then. I simply don’t understand why people cheat on their partners. If they’re not...
    chloeforever chloeforever 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 3 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I have a few thoughts about how we can better

    deal with the cheaters that run rampant on this site. Essentially, we just need to ignore them....they clearly enjoy enticing those of us who find their behavior disgusting into arguing with them. We should not give them the satisfaction. Message me...we can discuss it...
    RaverFan RaverFan 41-45 1 Response Jun 25

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    Nine Signs He's Cheating

    When you get suspicious that your significant other is cheating, be careful not to appear to be paranoid. You have to walk a fine line — you don't want to make false accusations. So, while I'm sharing this list of cheating red flags, I concede that it's a tricky...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F 11 Responses Dec 16, 2008

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    I don't know what it is,

    I simply can't understand it. Perhaps it's my rational mind or my backbone that can't see why you would cheat on someone simply on impulse. Even if your relationship has lost it's spark; talk about it! Communication is the key in every relationship, and if things don't change...
    iamadreamergirl iamadreamergirl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 17

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    MrIndeedNL MrIndeedNL 13-15, M May 28

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    Anyone had a best friend

    who hooked up with your boyfriend and feels absolutely betrayed especially after that so called friend is with your now ex-boyfriend. How do you come out of the pain and humiliation?
    radisglad radisglad 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    You Know What'S Worse Than Cheaters?

    People who take cheaters back.
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    GonUnleashed GonUnleashed 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    Once And Your Done

    Sorry no cheating cheat on me once and it's OVER forever. I Don't care how much you love me...if you loved me you wouldn't have done it in the first place >:)
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 8 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    Don't act like you take marriage

    or vows seriously when you are heading into your third and forth marriages and you have cheated on every one of your spouses.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 27

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    Don't act like your affair "just happened"

    as if you had no control over it and then write that you met your mm on a dating site.....if you weren't looking to have an affair what exactly were you looking for on a dating site???? Please someone tell these cheaters to at least keep track of their own lies!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 27

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    Why Cheat?

    I have no sympathy for anyone who cheats on the person they claim they love so much. It doesn't matter what age, gender, race, etc. you are, if you really love someone, why cheat on them? Love in a relationship should be conditional, not situational. Arguments, disagreements...
    AngryBlackChic20 AngryBlackChic20 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    Everyone thinks they are slick keep playing

    with stones around the things u should treet like glass lol it'll be really funny when it breaks SOMETIMES GIVING UP ON SOMETHING IS REALLY A PERSONAL VICTORY ...
    karlakashes karlakashes 26-30, F May 23

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    Just for heads up, if you hit on me

    and you have a significant other, I WILL call your pathetic *** out.
    keeganicole keeganicole 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    1 The Impact of Extramarital Affairs on Family

    Members Last Updated: Oct 21, 2013 | By Kathryn Rateliff Barr The Impact of Extramarital Affairs on Family Members Your disconnect after infidelity affects both your immediate and extended family members. Photo Credit Digital Vision./Digital Vision/Getty Images Infidelity...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 17

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-18, F 11 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    I'm sat reading 'experiences' from ppl all over

    the world whose had or having affairs at wrk/with the neighbours or the best m8. The WOMEN r so worse!! "I love my husband he's a great man, provides for our children and works hard. He pays all the bills. But my affair so much fun. Says he's gna leave his wife for me." Blah...
    FuzzBroadway FuzzBroadway 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 37 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    "M., All I can say again

    and again is that I LOVE YOU. Our love is true and it will stay in my heart forever. K." This message was the greatest farce in my life.
    Merinder Merinder 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    I believe in monogamy

    and i really hate when people cheat on the person they were supposed to love and care about the most! My dad cheated on my mom and tore my family apart. Wish he would of left her first would of been better even if it sounds messed up
    WendyDarlin WendyDarlin 18-21, F Apr 30

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    i just can´t understand ,

    if you have the whole world in your arms , why cheat? why can´t people give the deserved value to the people who love you more than anything? why bite the hand that feeds you? damm if those cheaters knew what it is like to have no one there for you they might just love their...
    Hugo655 Hugo655 18-21, M 1 Response May 28

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    Backstory: My freshman year,

    I really really liked this guy Sam. I had met him in marching band and we just clicked. I battle depression and other mental illnesses, but he didnt care and he always made me smile. But... he liked alot of other girls. That year he got caught doing it in the bathroom at school...
    wordsandmelodies wordsandmelodies 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    Cheating Sucks

    Cheating is the worst you can do to your partner followed most likely by lying wich sucks a lot too ...I'm glad I didn't had to live through that experience and I know never will . There are the lines of cheating ... is it just the act of sexual intercourse or does it start...
    Thetallguy Thetallguy 26-30, M 9 Responses Jul 17, 2011

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    Sometimes, I think some men really don't know

    what they really want. In one breathe, they are looking for women who are independent and intellectual and not needy ; in another, they want someone that depends on them to make them feel wanted. It doesn't get better when you get older that's for sure. Once men hit a certain...
    shortydgb shortydgb 51-55, F 6 Responses Jun 29

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    I have no respect for cheaters.

    Why not just be single if you're going to act as such? Why would you even break the heart of a person just because you're not in the least bit satisfied? Just break it off. Now as for the married cheaters.... They definitely get no respect from me. I take vows seriously. If it...
    XxVivaLaBellaxX XxVivaLaBellaxX 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 15

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14

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    Beware Of Fornicators (for Maybe The Younger Women And Men).

    It takes work to make a relationship good. Both parties have to want it. Sometimes, the relationship doesn't last long. Perhaps it is worth reminding that when one has low self-esteem, and a bad self-image, one grasps other people's partners because one is not capable of doing...
    stephaniebis stephaniebis 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 18-21, M 5 Responses Jun 16

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    When you're in a relationship,

    no matter how exclusive or how open it might be, you're going to have some agreement between the people involved about how you're going to deal with anyone else. Going behind a partner's back to do something that goes against that agreement is a horrible and hurtful thing to do...
    VioletThorns VioletThorns 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    I've been cheated on before,

    but I have moved on. There is nothing tying me to that person anymore. If you want to cheat, fine. If you want a married (wo)man, fine ... As long as they don't have kids. As a child of a broken home, I will allways side with the children on this one. If your reading this and...
    Drcreegan Drcreegan 22-25, M 1 Response Jun 12

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    I need some quick help here,

    my girlfriend is arriving tomorrow from a 10 day trip overseas visiting her friend, who was a boyfriend 20 years ago. I have never not trusted her, and I am a trusting person, not controlling, so I had no problems with it. I think she is cheating, she has agreed to explain or do...
    jj4487 jj4487 46-50, M 4 Responses Jun 9

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    Don't talk about how we are all full of hate

    and you are all full of love when you are the ones hurting so many people that don't deserve any of it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 27

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    Any married man that would tell his young child

    all about the wife's 3 month affair but not even mention that he has been having an affair for 6 years is a hypocrite and causing additional harm to the child. No parent should be having screaming matches in front of their child and then allowing the child to get involved. No...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 27

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    Related Experiences

    So I've had a flurry of angry messages about how horrible I am because I don't sext since I feel it's cheating. Some of them are saying how it's judging cheating and cheaters and...
    TheWomanYouHate TheWomanYouHate 31-35, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    This is pretty self explanatory does anyone else hate people like this who don't care about who they're hurting?
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Seriously I hate girls that go after men because they are in the military. Aka tag chasers. Military life isn't all it's cracked out to be. I seriously don't get it. I can't stand...
    F0REVERY0UNG23 F0REVERY0UNG23 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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