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I Hate Cheaters

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    With the internet and mobile phones it's made

    it easier for people to get away with this behaviour. You could be with someone and never know :(
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I have dealt with guys in the past

    who would send dirty pics to women and get them in return. Some of them had women on the side. It's something I won't tolerate in a relationship. If you have issues with me, then talk them out with me and try to come up with a solution. If you are not happy with me, then leave...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    How does one handle a cheating husband whom you

    have 2 kids with? Not mine, but a friends. He constantly treats her like crap and they get into fights all the time but she keeps going back. Any thoughts?
    VVmommy VVmommy 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 8

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    ONCE A CHEAT.. ALWAYS A CHEAT This is soooo not

    true. I once cheated on my husband and will tell you it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. Not all people return to cheating, and it changed the dynamics of my marriage. I cant believe I almost threw it all away. Please dont automatically close the door if in this...
    VentiQuadLatte VentiQuadLatte 41-45, F 7 Responses May 2, 2015

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    Even though you're 100% against cheating,

    are you always afraid that you're going to end up being the cheater?
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F Jan 27

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    My family has a legacy of cheaters

    that I'm definitely putting a stop to at my leaf. My grandfather cheated on my grandmother, my father's parents, and then my father cheated on my mother in a "like father, like son" pattern. The apple does fall far from the tree, if it rolls away, and by God, I must have fell on...
    Emeraldsky222 Emeraldsky222 18-21 2 Responses Jan 11, 2015

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    Some people treat relationships

    as a video game... They play them and when they get bored they cheat.
    MglMndt MglMndt 16-17, M 6 Responses Sep 26, 2015

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    tine23 tine23 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 2, 2015

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    If my future partner cheats me,

    I'll leave immediately, no matter what. Even if we have children. I won't stay in an unhappy relationship because of children and ruin my life. I don't mean I'll leave after suspecting him of cheating, only when I actually know it. If someone cheats, they either don't love or...
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 12, 2015

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    how do u fix a relationship

    after being cheated on?
    ChangingLife2015 ChangingLife2015 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 23, 2015

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 13 Responses May 28, 2014

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Myselfhere1 Myselfhere1 31-35, M 14 Responses Dec 10, 2014

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    I never been cheated on

    because I've never been in a relationship. However, my best friend did get cheated on by her current boyfriend. It happened when she was visitng me for part of the summer. I remember one day he called her and they had this HUGE fight because he accused HER of cheating. That...
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 23

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    I am a married woman of 2 years we share a 16

    month old and I have 2 from previous relationship. My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant and I found it in my heart to forgive and now I found out he was leaving work early meeting up with a woman getting oral sex.....I am so torn . my heart is broken. help me
    RaychillRay RaychillRay 36-40, F 22 Responses Apr 23, 2015

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    "Don't tell me what I'm doing is wrong!

    I've already been told that 1000x times, and I know [or: "it's our choices]." If you know it's wrong then ******* STOP. You people disgust me. You shouldn't be seeking support for your behavior, you should be seeking help to end it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14, 2015

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    Dealing with an issue right now.

    It's def a hurt that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Hurts even more when kids are involved. Not sure if I want to even try and save my marriage.
    softballmom0723 softballmom0723 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

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    No matter if we were married

    or not, how serious our relationship were or how many children we had, I WOULD NEVER EVER STAY WITH A CHEATER!!! My partner isn't allowed to cheat me at all and if he does, I can't forgive it and leave immediately. I love myself more than some dumb, arrogant and weak man!
    DiscoveringTheTruth DiscoveringTheTruth 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2015

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    Seriously?!?! You said you hate cheaters

    but you don't even realise your one yourself!!!
    KD126 KD126 16-17, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    He came clean and had me log into his account

    and delete it all. I looked through what he wrote, not once was I mentioned. Yes, he was honest about this, but what else is he hiding? Maybe he will do it again, maybe he has other accounts I don't know about. So if I cannot trust him, there is really nothing left at all.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 11 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    Wow I got blocked by some guy just cos I told

    him that cheating is wrong after he said he respects women loads but he loves the excitement of cheating on them.
    polarbearlove polarbearlove 16-17, F 32 Responses Aug 16, 2015

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    I hate how people try

    and justify cheating. And trying to make it seem like it's not a big deal. It's a HUGE deal. If you cheat on someone, you'll end up making them have trust issues. Sometimes I wonder that's why people cheat. People cheat just to hurt you because it makes them happy.
    Peridot23 Peridot23 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Oct 20, 2015

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    I think I spoke about this in one of my earlier

    entiries, but anyway, my bf admitted to cheating on me 2 years ago, while I was pregnant. Since that day I have not been. The same towards him. I've told him and tried to convince myself that I've forgiven him. Well there are times when I just feel like that is so. I do not...
    ihopetoseeclearly ihopetoseeclearly 22-25 6 Responses Dec 13, 2015

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    TheTruth94 TheTruth94 22-25, M Nov 4, 2015

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    I don't feel any sympathy

    for women or men that get involved with someone that's married and end up getting hurt. YOU put yourself in that place. YOU let yourself get hurt knowing the circumstances. It's actually pretty sad that someone would get involved with someone's husband or wife. Even if that...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2015

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    So he had the nerve to go kiss other girls

    behind my back then come back a few months later trying to hug me and text me wassup like hah. no. GTFO.
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

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    There is nothing I hate more then cheaters.

    In no situation is it okay. If you feel the need to cheat, break up with them before doing anything. You simply shouldn't be in a relationship if that one person isn't enough for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Apr 2, 2015

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    To me the act of cheating is bad

    but it isn't the worse part. The worst part comes when you start questioning why you were not good enough. Your self worth goes down, your self esteem goes down. The chance of having a normal relationship is destroyed. Why, because you can't trust. You throw those insecurities...
    BeautifullyAmiss BeautifullyAmiss 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13, 2015

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    im such a sap. my husband cheats on ne

    and i feel bad when I don't do things for him
    jaws92 jaws92 46-50, F Jan 25

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    I hate when people cheat on my best friend

    people need to stop doing it!!!!!!!
    ILoveMyBestieForever ILoveMyBestieForever 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    My dad cheated on my mom

    and ruined a 23 plus year marriage. Why can't you just admit you're unhappy and move on before you hurt someone so badly. Story time. My man texted me from his deployment today and said he caught his friend on a dating website. Kicker this guy has a fiancé at home. My initial...
    ally1194 ally1194 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 5, 2015

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    I think what happens sometimes is someone who's

    desperate gets involved with someone who they don't really find attractive, so they are left always looking at others and finding other people more attractive.
    Paleandpolluted86 Paleandpolluted86 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 10

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    so ******* loyal to him,

    but he cheated on me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 9

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    Sometimes I wish that all the sudden all the

    cheaters would just drop dead. The only problem is sometimes you don't know who the cheaters are and someone I was close to might die. That would be kinda ******.
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 9, 2015

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    The crazy thing is that some women

    and men on this site think it's okay to cheat on their spouses. Well there's one word for you "divorce". Because let's be honest if he/she did the same thing to you you would be devastated and most likely you would never trust them with your heart ever again. You married that...
    Alex4eve Alex4eve 13-15, F 5 Responses Nov 30, 2015

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    The first text I found said thanks

    for everything dream man how about calling me gabbylicious? Who thinks they were having sex at that point?
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jan 14

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    On this site I see all sort of married men in

    a 'sexless marriage' and 'looking for fun' if you actually cared about your marriage you wouldn't be here. Cheating hurts a lot more than just being truthful with your spouse. Maybe monogamy doesn't exist.
    humblebee97 humblebee97 18-21, F 10 Responses Oct 22, 2015

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    TerminaHero TerminaHero 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    .Two Ashley Madison clients are reported to

    have taken their lives after hackers published their details according to police in Canada..If you can't handle the heat stay the fk out of the kitchen - lie and deceive then get caught so you off yourself? Two words - DARWIN AWARDS!!!! .... (Don't know them? Google them it is a...
    evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise evienneOwnedByMasterBlaise 41-45, F 9 Responses Aug 24, 2015

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    I hate when women cheat on me ,

    because they think that I'm not good enough for them
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Look people if you cheat,

    proud of it, and admit to it on EP in a group or post stories about it on here....I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND OR HAVE YOU IN MY CIRCLE...I see that stuff and I will delete you from my circle... It sucks to be the one cheated on, by your spouse or significant other. To feel...
    tornsin tornsin 31-35, M 2 Responses Apr 16, 2015

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    Please dont read this

    if youre suicidal. I just read this story about a woman that was cheated on and she tried to kill herself. Half the comments read "hes not worth your life." Ughhh, but I think thats the perfect revenge. If your husband finds out you killed yourself after finding out he cheated...
    thischickiswack thischickiswack 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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