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I Hate Cheaters

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    I don't understand the point of being with

    someone and then "Oh, I have changed my mind. I will go after this one instead" and comes to you, "I'm leavin you" all kinda craps.
    Artz4Life Artz4Life 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 18

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    I discussed when someone cheat on their

    partner guy or girl I ******* hate it
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M Aug 9

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    Ohhh I hate to start my day like this.

    One of my friends is been cheated on. They were married for at least 10yrs and have 3 kids. The guy is seeing many women for sex. I can't believe it! I felt her and it so painful.😢 I think if a man loves his family, he will be truthful and honest to them. Having an affair is...
    Yojj13 Yojj13 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    If you're in a relationship with someone you

    love, I don't understand how you can actually cheat on them...I've always been loyal to my partners and I even take other relationships seriously like that. How could someone actually go ahead and cheat without feeling guilty? I wouldn't be able to handle that tbh..I'd feel so...
    PrincessPolarBear PrincessPolarBear 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    laxprincess laxprincess 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    Why Cheat?

    I have no sympathy for anyone who cheats on the person they claim they love so much. It doesn't matter what age, gender, race, etc. you are, if you really love someone, why cheat on them? Love in a relationship should be conditional, not situational. Arguments, disagreements...
    AngryBlackChic20 AngryBlackChic20 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Once And Your Done

    Sorry no cheating cheat on me once and it's OVER forever. I Don't care how much you love me...if you loved me you wouldn't have done it in the first place >:)
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 8 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    PROUD TO SAY I HAVE NEVER CHEATED!

    I have always been a loyal girlfriend. I have been cheated on and so has my bf. His ex of 2yrs cheated on him and lead him on. I don't even know her and I resent her. I know people can change but she didn't even admit it to him WHEN THERE WAS PROOF. Whatever, he's allllll mine...
    blushkat blushkat 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14

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    Even though I am one.

    .........I hate myself I guess...
    RavenEP RavenEP 16-17, T Aug 22

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    When one cheats they should stop thinking of

    the one or two things they gain and realize the multitude of things they've just lost.
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Why be in a relationship

    if your just going to cheat on that person. Ugh it's so stupid, childish and pointless
    honeybree20 honeybree20 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    I hear about so many people

    that cheat (friends of friends, randoms and familiars) and I think it's so disgusting and wrong. Especially when they do it with no shame or remorse and brag about it? What the hell. I refuse being friends with a cheater. Not because of the action per se, but I think it says...
    Bootsycurie Bootsycurie 22-25 3 Responses Jan 4

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    I see many women moaning on here in the "I'm

    the other woman" what do they expect ? All they are is a bit of extra sex please think more of yourselves. There is such thing as divorce, they are not going to leave the wife if they were why wait till they have a new bed. Sorry to guys that have been cheated on as that happens...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 6

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    Don't act like your affair "just happened"

    as if you had no control over it and then write that you met your mm on a dating site.....if you weren't looking to have an affair what exactly were you looking for on a dating site???? Please someone tell these cheaters to at least keep track of their own lies!!
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 27

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    Why you cheat men mhm!

    ! Real men don't cheat ..truly i tell you... Be men if you love, then love for REAL.
    abuishaan abuishaan 18-21, M Aug 26

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    rollingdoro rollingdoro 22-25, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Just for heads up, if you hit on me

    and you have a significant other, I WILL call your pathetic *** out.
    keeganicole keeganicole 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I went out with the girl next-store to me

    for about a year, she was pretty and nice and we kissed a few times. One day we were sittin on the fence talkin and she says to me "Ethan I'm breaking up with you im seeing someone else" and then she got up, walked into her house and I barely ever saw her again. I don't want...
    Nyanbi Nyanbi 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 18

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    My frnds do have a bf

    but those bastard boys are bloody cheaters. My best frnds bf is a liar too and so i cant trust anyone and even i cant believe on any guy so i am single and alone bcuz i dnt want to get cheated
    rshh30 rshh30 18-21, F Sep 4

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    Not for the "you broke someone's heart,

    dirtbag" reason, but because it's breaking a promise. Which is lying. And if you're old enough to understand that you want to be with someone, you should be old enough to know not to lie. When you make the agreement to be in a monogamous relationship with someone, you promise...
    LeonardFinch LeonardFinch 16-17, M Aug 24

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 16 Responses May 28

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    If you don't wanna be with someone anymore,

    at least have the balls to do it the right way!!
    JnyJny JnyJny 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 19

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    I feel that cheating is a necessary lesson in

    life that both victims need to experience I've been the cheated on and the cheater, though I will never do it again. I feel I understand what love truly is now. Anyone that cheats should demolish the relationship once the act has happened. Nothing ever happens for the bad it's...
    Mistakemaker80 Mistakemaker80 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    The more I kno the more I feel like this

    relationship is a lie ... Three different women one a ******** really !!!
    dnicebby dnicebby 22-25, F Aug 21

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    I hate cheaters for I have been cheated once,

    and scared to be cheated again.
    Icantmoveon Icantmoveon 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    For real though like

    why is it so hard for people to be faithful and committed to ONE person? If you can't do that then don't get into a relationship at all. No one deserves to have their time wasted when they can be out there with someone who will actually love them. And if you think cheating is...
    NaNaJene NaNaJene 16-17, F Aug 26

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    Cheaters are cowards.

    I hate them so much. Why be in a relationship? Ugh
    MacabreCannibal MacabreCannibal 16-17, F 6 Responses Aug 11

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    It really bothers me.

    Loyalty is everything to me. Why is it so hard for people to be faithful?
    butterflyacid butterflyacid 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    If you can't stay in a relationship,

    leave. A relationship isn't a test so why to cheat?
    dropdeadwilma dropdeadwilma 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    I used a dating website.

    . True story! But that's not the end of it. Out of the blue this guy started messaging me, he was "single" around my age and quite attractive. 'After awhile as we got to know each other we swapped numbers and texted each other. We even added each other on FB.. When he started...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm sat reading 'experiences' from ppl all over

    the world whose had or having affairs at wrk/with the neighbours or the best m8. The WOMEN r so worse!! "I love my husband he's a great man, provides for our children and works hard. He pays all the bills. But my affair so much fun. Says he's gna leave his wife for me." Blah...
    FuzzBroadway FuzzBroadway 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    My ex-boyfriend cheated on me.

    I was 16 at that time and he was 20 years old and in college. He cheated on me with a girl who was a grade above me in high school. I’ve never felt so betrayed and hurt emotionally until then. I simply don’t understand why people cheat on their partners. If they’re not...
    chloeforever chloeforever 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    Seriously if you don't want to be with me don't

    be selfish by having me as well as someone else at least let me move on to someone who actually cares about me. Don't stay miserable in a relationship it's better to hurt someone by telling them you don't wanna be with them rather than hurting them without them even knowing!
    Abbierose93 Abbierose93 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I don't even like to waste my time thinking

    about people who cheat on their significant other... It ****** me off. They don't realize how much that truly hurts the other person, being cheated on is one of the worst pains there is.
    anamariabrownson anamariabrownson 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    The movie "the other woman" is do awesome.

    I would love to be friends with my husbands mistress/ bfs other woman. Only if she didn't know about me when she was seeing him. And we could scheme together and get revenge and build a one of a kind friendship. I always wish my life was like a movie lol but that movie just...
    Rosaalie Rosaalie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    To me, there is absolutely no reason to cheat

    on someone. Doesn't matter what you're going through in your relationship, or in your own personal life, cheating is wrong and you don't do it to someone. If you're having issues with your relationship, or if you have fallen out of love, or if you don't want to be with someone...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    So this girl I used to date

    who is now married to someone else sends me a message on facebook asking me out to dinner. I said it was probably not a good idea given that she is married. She said, nothing sexual, just catching up.... you are really nice and I would like to continue a friendship. I said that...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself!

    How dare you message me and ask "Ok with married men?" or "lets have sex", when you are Married or in a Relationship! That is absolutely disgusting and horrible! Of-course I said no because I am not a home wrecker, nor am I like that. I told you to divorce or break-up with your...
    DivinaRuh DivinaRuh 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    I was scanning through my mom's phone

    and read text messages from this guy named "jerome" i know this guy but his texts can be misleading and first thought that my mom was cheating because of the text messages and i just can't believe it. You see my mom caught my dad cheating on her and he confronted him and he...
    xiumin xiumin 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    You Know What'S Worse Than Cheaters?

    People who take cheaters back.
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 16

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    My husband has been using an internet dating

    site to talk to women. One woman got our home number and called me. She explained that my husband told her at first that he was single, or she never would have continued the emails/pictures. She sent me all the emails/conversations they had online. They were very sexual, and...
    jlhaas1978 jlhaas1978 36-40, F 7 Responses Sep 5

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 37 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    Once I am in a committed relationship,

    I absolutely refuse to cheat! I have been cheated on... it sucks! I have helped someone cheat on their spouse... it sucks! I hate myself for helping her do that... even though I did not initiate it and kept trying to stop it, it doesn't excuse my actions. I feel guilty if I have...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 8

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.