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I Hate Cheaters

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 11,155 People

    "You can't help who you fall in love with.

    " No, you can't. But you can back off before it turns into love, and you can certainly make the choice to not continue and distance yourself once such deep feelings arise. What no one wants to admit is- they don't want to. They make a conscious choice to keep going, even at the...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    I told my boyfriend j would only break up with

    him for 3 reasons; smoking/drinking, cheating and beating. And now I might have to add gambling addiction to the list...but he understands. I told him right from the beginning I don't put up with that and he gets it. And now I know he would never, EVER cheat on me:)
    Passionfruit101 Passionfruit101 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 9

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    me amd boyfriend have been together foe 5 years,

    he has cheated on me 1 time early on then 4 years later as far as i know i catch some flirting txts here and there, then i looked at his bank statements and found he stayed in a hotel and fancy restaraunt, he admitted he cheated on me then, but half truths, it was extremely hard...
    marki777 marki777 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 13

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    I was with my husband 29 yrs.

    The last year of that my female intuition kicked in. It told me something was up. I started nosing around his paperwork. Sure enough he had a relationship going on line. I actually found a spread sheet with my assets on one side and hers on the other. I sat down had a cup...
    yooper01 yooper01 56-60, F 8 Responses Dec 12

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    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    In my opinion people

    who cheat on their spouses are pathetic and selfish. I have a very strong hate for cheaters because my uncle caught his now ex wife cheating on him and it completely devastated him. If you cheat on your partner you should feel ashamed of yourself!
    Rockandrollfan Rockandrollfan 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30

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    OutOfSight23 OutOfSight23 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Cheating is so retarded,

    you'd get a nights fun, but you'd have to live with that betrayal for the rest of your life. If you're a person with pride and honour, that would eat you from the inside.
    Resoner Resoner 22-25, M 5 Responses Jun 16

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    I'm sat reading 'experiences' from ppl all over

    the world whose had or having affairs at wrk/with the neighbours or the best m8. The WOMEN r so worse!! "I love my husband he's a great man, provides for our children and works hard. He pays all the bills. But my affair so much fun. Says he's gna leave his wife for me." Blah...
    FuzzFuzz FuzzFuzz 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    Cheaters Should Be Shot

    I am very sick of guys cheating on their women. What is the point of being with someone if you desire other people. I have watched many girls go through breakups like crazy. I have been throgh many myself. I feel like I should grab the guy by his privates and cut them off.
    NationalGuardChic101 NationalGuardChic101 16-18, F 12 Responses Mar 27, 2007

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    One of the last things I don't want,

    here on the EP, is to bump into the posts "I am other women/man". The worst kind of social criminals in any society.
    Rightherenow Rightherenow 26-30, M 16 Responses Dec 10

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    If you make out with two people

    while you're dating someone you don't deserve to have a boyfriend. If he's loyal then you don't go around kissing everybody. Js. **** you, cheaters.
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    Beware Of Fornicators (for Maybe The Younger Women And Men).

    It takes work to make a relationship good. Both parties have to want it. Sometimes, the relationship doesn't last long. Perhaps it is worth reminding that when one has low self-esteem, and a bad self-image, one grasps other people's partners because one is not capable of doing...
    stephaniebis stephaniebis 56-60, F 6 Responses Aug 21, 2012

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    I was going through experiences on here n I see

    soo much support for cheating. Really? My husband n I have strong values. To him those girls r nasty *** ***** that have no values, no backbone, n once a cheater always a cheater. He perfectly rite. I mean I take care of my husband physically mentally n i love him madly. Yes we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 14

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    Just for heads up, if you hit on me

    and you have a significant other, I WILL call your pathetic *** out.
    keeganicole keeganicole 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    I hate them so much! My boyfriend cheated on me

    once at the beggining of our relationship,i went to a party and saw him kissing another girl,and that girl was the girl i hated! But he understood his mistake and he was really sorry,he never did it again from that time.
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    Why not just stay single?

    ??Then you can sleep around,flirt,and go out with as many people as you want instead of getting someone to fall for you and then hurting them.
    irreelevance irreelevance 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    If you are not happy in your relationship,

    communicate. Your significant other either is or is not willing to work on the problem. If they're not, leave. I don't care if you're married; marriage isn't even half the "sacred institution" it once was. Do you want to be miserable for the rest of your life? Leave. Leave...
    PerspectiveDetective PerspectiveDetective 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 15

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    Last Monday you emailed me

    and called me. You told me you loved me and that you would always love me. Today you tell me it is all in the past. I have to let go. I don't want to but I have to. I know you love me. I know you do. I just don't understand why you don't admit it. Maybe I'm the one in denial...
    stillhavehope3 stillhavehope3 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    To Anyone Who Has Ever Been Broken

    this is addressed to anyone who has ever been cheated on or stepped on by someone you once cared very deeply for. it's not your fault, you are wonderful and beautiful and perfect and everything else the people who cheated wish they could be. please don't ever blame yourself for...
    FancyThis FancyThis 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    letsgo2234 letsgo2234 51-55, F 5 Responses Nov 23

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    You Know What'S Worse Than Cheaters?

    People who take cheaters back.
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 5, 2013

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    I hate cheaters. I never understood how they

    can say they know how much it hurts since they've been cheated on. Yeah, if you knew how much it would hurt why'd you cheat? Either you don't care, in which case you have no need to be talking to me about it, or you wanted to hurt and break me.
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M Nov 24

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    You Should Be Ashamed Of Yourself!

    How dare you message me and ask "Ok with married men?" or "lets have sex", when you are Married or in a Relationship! That is absolutely disgusting and horrible! Of-course I said no because I am not a home wrecker, nor am I like that. I told you to divorce or break-up with your...
    DivinaRuh DivinaRuh 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 22, 2012

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    Once And Your Done

    Sorry no cheating cheat on me once and it's OVER forever. I Don't care how much you love me...if you loved me you wouldn't have done it in the first place >:)
    Jnrx Jnrx 18-21 8 Responses Mar 3, 2011

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    We haven't been broken up

    for long but I want to be over him so bad. He cheated on me twice and I took him back the first time but I couldn't the second time. Just to know he lied to me over and over with the typical lies like he loves me just makes it worse. Honestly I hope he sees this so he knows how...
    Savone52798 Savone52798 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    All good is hard. All evil is easy.

    Dying, losing, cheating, and mediocrity is easy. Stay away from easy.
    rahifsaad rahifsaad 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 6

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    Just don't be in a relationship

    if you not gon be all about that one person
    diandre diandre 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 22

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    My Husband Had An Emotional Online Affair

    I recently confirmed red flag feelings I'd had for several months about my cheating husband. He was having an emotional affair with some woman in Wa. He confessed to everything, cut all ties with her but I still can't cope some days.We've been together 13 years, we have 5 kids 10...
    NorthernOntarioMama NorthernOntarioMama 31-35, F 37 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    I have had 3 long term relationships

    and I stayed in those relationships after being cheated on multiple multiple times. the only reason those relationships ended was because they finally left me. I'm loyal to a fault and my loyalty has always been what causes me the most pain.
    manicrage manicrage 36-40, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I Had Been With My Boyfriend For 1 Year & 2

    Months & So Recently When We "Were" Going Out In Our 3rd Relationship Yesterday When I Broke Up With Him Before I Broke Up With Him I Was Trying To Confront Him Because He Had Not Been Wanting To Talk To Me & I Asked Him If He Was Cheating Or If He Was Doing Something & Then...
    dessmart1 dessmart1 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've never been cheated on

    but my dad cheated on my mom which caused the family just to pretty much split and everything change. I just don't understand why someone would even cheat on their partner. If you dont want to be with them just break up or get a divorce. Such idiots in the world.
    mclovin31321 mclovin31321 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    Cheating is about as selfish

    as you can get! There is no excuse for it whatsoever! You feel you are getting your needs met? Misunderstood at home? TOO BAD. Leave and then go do what you need to do. Why must you hurt someone like that? This goes as well for the other side. Cheaters could not cheat...
    venusdi venusdi 70+, F 5 Responses Jan 26

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    My dad is cheating on my mom.

    My mom confronted him big time, now he's sitting in his car outside
    RedUsaSoccerBoy RedUsaSoccerBoy 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 16

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    Cheaters Are Horrible People

    Men, women, doesn't matter. Just plain horrible. They come up with excuses all the time, like "I wanted to experiment," "My___ wasn't giving me what I needed," "This will make our relationship stronger." All bull. They shouldn't be allowed in public. If you love someone, you...
    drastunir drastunir 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 18, 2011

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    It would really suck

    if the first girlfriend I ever got in life cheated on me. Just imagine how much pain that would cause you. The first girlfriend you've ever had in your whole life cheats on you? I'd be in my room for like a week...
    deathsdestruction deathsdestruction 16-17, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    ive been cheated on in the past

    and it really hurts. I recently got a message from an past best friend and it just struck an old emotion I thought I was past. I don't understand how you think it is okay for you to think we could ever be friends again especially after what you and my exboyfriend did to me. now...
    cookii cookii 18-21, F Nov 17

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    Once I dated this guy

    and we have been dating on an off since 8th grade( I'm in 10th now) but he has cheated on me six times.ik I'm stupid but I was stuck in his loop. He was my first boyfriend an love and it was hard to get over that. But he is so dumb he dates the most ugliest girls ever. Everyone...
    Hiimamyimdead Hiimamyimdead 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    A little while ago I came across a girl on here

    who cheated on her boyfriend. She said how she regretted it but soon fell into the temptation again. She was 18 years old and was looking for peoples help about what she should do. Everyone was commending her saying she didn't do anything wrong, that she's just young and curious...
    Gophillies8 Gophillies8 22-25, M 4 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    it's so selfish to cheat

    and I see it a lot on here. People get turned on cause they're cheating? Cause they're playing with someone else's feelings? it's so wrong. You can't have it all, you have to choose stay single or stay faithful. Imagine how your parter feel when you are cheating at them. They...
    Jessoka Jessoka 18-21, F 16 Responses May 28

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    If you want to leave then

    that is fine, it's your choice. But do not cheat then blame me for our problems.
    Fallenangel2014 Fallenangel2014 26-30, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    Why Cheat?

    I have no sympathy for anyone who cheats on the person they claim they love so much. It doesn't matter what age, gender, race, etc. you are, if you really love someone, why cheat on them? Love in a relationship should be conditional, not situational. Arguments, disagreements...
    AngryBlackChic20 AngryBlackChic20 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 24, 2012

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    People who flirt with other women

    or men in a relationships... who cheat and think that's okay. Really? NO NOT COOL!
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    ufgh babydaddy just tells me he wants.

    to get drunk& never going to.stop really after we barely had our child borned.. is.like he dont give a ****..
    martiarena martiarena 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 20

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    I've never cheated. I've been cheated on.

    it's not that hard to be a decent person. you're an idiot if you cheat. period.
    oceanskat oceanskat 22-25, F 5 Responses Nov 22

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    The hardest part of being in relationship is

    when you love someone more than you love yourself. In the end, he or she will cheat on you no matter what you do because in reality it wasn't your fault but he or she just like someone else. The hardest thing is knowing you've done everything but it wasn't enough. Because the...
    ezzy2014 ezzy2014 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 21

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    Cheaters are jerks and they hurt your feelings

    and make a heart of pure gold turn to cold stone hard steel
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I really don't approve

    and think it's selfish. You either breakup or just get a freaking divorce. So to those lovely home wreckers, with their 'but I love him' boolcr*p. A guy who's already married or in a relationship, yet still want's to stick his shoe in your box is not much of a man at all. Never...
    AngrySantaCat AngrySantaCat 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    If You Support Cheating...

    If you support cheating, you support lies, deception, abuse, and etc. And if you say you don't support lies, abuse, and etc., then congratulations, you're a hypocritical, pusillanimous snake. 
    NaturalGropius NaturalGropius 18-21 9 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    A relationship is made

    for two, but some ******* dont know how to count.
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 21

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    Don't EVER give a cheater a chance.

    I was with my girlfriend for six years, which I was completely faithful every single day of those six years. Come to find out, she cheated on me and gave me an STD. And now she's trying to say she got it from me? Really? How low can somebody be? I hope she sleeps around even...
    Kernal22 Kernal22 26-30, M 4 Responses Dec 15

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    The hardest thing I ever had to do.

    ..say goodbye to you. Truth is I totally love you...even after what you have done to me ....I still love you. I know ..how? Because when I decided to love again I decided not to hold anything back! And I totally gave my heart to you. Not ever knowing that you weren't not doing...