I Hate Child Abuse

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    Why can't people just be nice to children?

    Why can't people stop beating their children up? Don't they care about how their children feel just a little bit? Children aren't meant to be beaten, they're meant to be loved. Don't you see how many children commited suicide because they're abused? Can't you see?
    deepdowninside71 deepdowninside71
    13-15
    7 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    I was the victim of sexual child abuse.

    It was a friend of a relative. She was a middle aged drunk. Just the thought of her touching me makes me sick. I love being on EP but gay man send me photos of their dicks or women tell me that they get turned on by spanking there kids I thing of leaving this site. No gays come...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jun 29, 2015
    BastilleBlue BastilleBlue
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    To Any Abusive Family Member

    to any mother and father or any family member that may be thinking of abusing their child ,i would say do urself a favor and kill urself but if ur so selfish to do this then plz after u finish ur sick work do ur child a favor and kill him/her because u already killed their souls...
    dead6 dead6
    22-25
    4 Responses May 15, 2012

    I hate child abuse of any kind it is just wrong

    for someone to hurt or abused a child in any way or form
    puppydoglover puppydoglover
    13-15, M
    4 Responses Nov 13, 2015
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Mar 14
    EmVitty EmVitty
    36-40, F
    Apr 5

    My brother just called me.

    My mum apparently is back from Europe and having cancer removal surgery from one of her lungs tomorrow :-/ I haven't spoken or seen her in a year because at 46 I finally stopped wanting her love and over to accept the man who is still in her life touched me many times in not...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    There are some crazy people in this world

    that don't deserve children, some teachers don't deserve to teach, and some babysitters shouldn't babysit. That's all because of when some of these people take their children for granted, they only have children for money, or even treating it like a toy which is so sickening to...
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Mar 16

    Physically hurting your children should never

    be acceptable. It’s never okay to hit a child, even under the guise of "discipline" or it being "for their own good". In no way is hitting a child beneficial for them. "In the old days kids used to have respect for their elders". I definitely did not "respect" my parents...
    WithoutChemicals WithoutChemicals
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jul 30, 2015

    I hate child abuse so much!

    I think that it's just wrong for someone to hit there own child or hell even if it's a stranger or anyone really it's just completely wrong! I totally disagree with it! It gets me upset and it makes me sad and depressed when I hear/see people a busing children!! Another reason...
    Takenandinlove Takenandinlove
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Nov 13, 2015

    I lived in a very abusive home

    as a child, till I was thirteen. My mother was very sick and twisted. Her scars have marked me for life, but I survived.
    Kailey76 Kailey76
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Feb 3

    finally my abuser is getting what he deserves.

    ... cant wait for the court case soon to get my victory
    deathmetalgirl deathmetalgirl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 23, 2015

    abusing a child is one of the worst things you

    can do. child abusers deserve the worst punishment. a child never forgets that stuff. Never.
    Flying4 Flying4
    13-15, F
    1 Response Mar 3

    I've dealt with a lot of mental abuse.

    I was always protected from people outside the house but I had Zero protection from Family members including parents. It's not okay for others to cause harm or be mean and unfair but why is it okay for them to do it? That's what I've been wondering since childhood until now.
    FrostyElsie FrostyElsie
    22-25, F
    Feb 12

    Do you consider threatening with violence,

    specifically a belt by whipping it against metal so they can hear the sound, abuse?
    Sochocolate4 Sochocolate4
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    I was abused for six years then went to live

    with my father. While I was there I was sent to many mental hospitals. At one of them I was rapped. And I'm still affected by it today. I won't stand for child abuse
    Mylifename Mylifename
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    Children are our future!

    ! If you hurt them the future will hurt you !!!!! So stop it!!!!
    bestimmung bestimmung
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 23, 2015

    IS THIS CHILD ABUSE??

    I NEED HELP ASAP! Should I call CPS? I'm 18 and my best friend (also 18) has a 1 year old baby. I've been up all night worrying. She left her baby home alone after I refused to watch her. Myself and her family won't watch the baby unless she has work. I quit because she left...
    lzgroupie96 lzgroupie96
    18-21, F
    21 Responses Nov 20, 2014

    This controversial photo collection show

    children crucified to the backs of people who inflict violence. Erik Ravelo, a Cuban artist, arranged the harrowing combinations in order to highlight different ways children are both directly and indirectly harmed by adults. One photo is directed at the sexual abuse of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 18

    you don't have to forgive the people

    who hurt you. It's okay to not feel safe around certain people no matter who they are. just because someone is your parent DOES NOT make it okay for them to hurt you and you DO NOT HAVE to love them or let them harm you. People need to stop thinking that having children is a...
    skeletonofpuns skeletonofpuns
    18-21, T
    Dec 15, 2015

    Child abuse is the worst thing

    that someone could do to a child. No child deserves to be hurt in any kind of way. Child abuse effects you for your entire life. It leaves you with a bunch of problems. Kids who suffer from child abuse go through Years of pain, years of tears, and years of self-hatred towards...
    HisLittleAriel HisLittleAriel
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2015

    This is the last day of Ep.

    I was abused as a child. When I was aged eight he abducted me. He made me take off my knickers. He played with me. He threatened me. He affected my life. I haven't got over it. I wish Ep was going to be here.
    Lauren30 Lauren30
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 20

    Please could anyone who has been in a domestic

    abuse situation with children fill in my short anonymous survey :- http://www.smartsurvey.co.uk/s/ZID51/ it is for a research project and I would be very grateful :)
    hereat hereat
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 1

    There was someone who I performed with years

    ago; for the sake of this story, I'll call him Greg. Greg and I had performed in several community theater productions. Being near him, weather it was onstage or backstage, was a humongous pleasure. I was always smiling when I was talking with him, or otherwise anywhere near him...
    PhillyAutismGuy PhillyAutismGuy
    31-35, M
    Jan 24

    Child abuse is more than bruises

    and broken bones. While physical abuse might be the most visible, other types of abuse, such as emotional abuse and neglect, also leave deep , lasting scars. The earlier abused children get help, the greater chance they have to heal and break the Cycle- rather than perpetuate it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Mar 3

    Bruises fade mother but the pain remains the

    same and I still remember how you kept me so afraid. Though I scream and scream will no one came running. If I cried onto you will you wasn't there for me . When I wake from this dream ,bond in ropes guess I'll never be free. I'm ok though and there's not a time for being...
    kittenmajor kittenmajor
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 6

    My Heart Hurts

    I picked up my grandbaby at daycare today.  I know the little babies  because it’s a very small group.  One of my favorites is Erin.  She’s about a year old with beautiful auburn hair, brown eyes, and dimples.  She always greets me with a...
    Myonis108 Myonis108
    56-60, F
    45 Responses Jun 8, 2009

    this song is made as campaign song ''stop

    abuse'' this is cover song,still beautiful in a differently way. i am also abuse survivor and this makes me cry and encouraged me always. i ask you a favor,plz read lyrics first,then listen to music. so i will leave links in the last. ''Tashikanakoto'' Gazing at the sky after...
    genjiipiexx genjiipiexx
    31-35, F
    Apr 17
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jun 21, 2015

    Stars litter the sky The moon is shining

    high This soft, September night Two lovers creep out of sight A maiden dressed in white With copper hair Restless for adventure She don't care That the wolf is in disguise She's been ensnared He got the devil in his eyes & stylish flair He shoves her to the ground Her soul...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 20

    I hate when perverts look at child porngraphy

    they say it doesn't hurt anyone and they say it's not a crime because they are not the one molesting..I went to court on Tuesday because the detective told me that the videos that my stepfather recorded rapeing me they are still on the Internet and being viewed all over the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Feb 20

    I remember when i was about 4 maybe

    even 3 years old i started being molested. It was by 3 different people a family friend (female) and my 2 older male cousins. The family friend stop molesting me at 5, but my cousins kept on molesting me until i migrated to the states (when i was 11).This really damaged me. I...
    Chocolategirly09 Chocolategirly09
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jan 4, 2015

    Well this is a story I never told about myself

    because I was always scared to tell anybody but when I was 8 my mom got married to a rich guy he was really nice and fun for about a year but onetime when my grandma was sick and my mom went to go spend the weekend with my grandma to see she was fine but then it started when one...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    24 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    Please could anyone who has been in a domestic

    abuse situation with children fill in my short anonymous survey :- http://www.smartsurvey.co.uk/s/ZID51/ it is for a research project and I would be very grateful :)
    hereat hereat
    36-40, F
    Mar 27

    I am studying architecture at one of the best

    university in my country because my life goal is to build a home for women and children who have been mistreated, violated, abused. I am a Moslem woman of color, which means I have a lot to fight for; Islamophobia, sexism and racism. I was depressed throughout school and the...
    GHVFIRA GHVFIRA
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jan 20

    I just came back from a interview to see

    if my granddaughter was abused. She revealed her dad pinched her on her boobies. The police officer does not know if charges will be pressed. He said that if she was adult then yes they would be but it is different for a child. I was pissed by that statement.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 15

    I feel like a lot of people don't respect my

    opinion. They say that I should open my mind and change my opinion and they tell me how to feel and I shouldn't do this or that. I feel like they don't even listen to what I'm saying or even TRY to understand my perspective. It's always, no Jessica, you're opinion is **** and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 21

    You guys who are worried about me need to

    understand I'm a smart girl , I'm not stupid enough to give out my address or # , and I'm not stupid enough to meet strangers from offline nor real life , maybe you should talk to kids 15 and younger .
    kayzuzz kayzuzz
    16-17, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2015

    I was just thirteen when I started being abused

    by my Mum's boyfriend Pierre. A child. It went on for two years, with her collusion, even encouragement. It was ugly, scary. I know what pain is.Talking with a professional child abuse victim support worker was a pointless venture.Father Thomas has been my rock in church, and...
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 4

    Pedophiles deserve the worst,

    in my opinion. Worse than normal rapists, because at least those women have a slim chance of defending themselves.
    eminemlover123 eminemlover123
    16-17, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2015

    Real parents don't babysit their kids,

    they raise them, meaning that parents should always have to be there for their children, and not be out partying with people they never met all the time. Real parents are supposed to care about their kids, meaning that fathers should work to raise money for that child, and show...
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    13-15, M
    4 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    I have no name. Starting fresh.

    If I die before my father, he will be forced to attend my funeral. In my will and personal death note it will state that his crimes against me are read out loud in my funeral with him standing in the crowd and everyone realizing what a monster he is
    DexieAnderson DexieAnderson
    16-17, M
    5 Responses Feb 29

    Idk if this counts as abuse

    but my older brother molested me when I was 11 and he was 19 he used to sneak in my room at night or do it when my parents weren't home and then sometimes he used have a camcorder and tape me and make me say things I didn't want to say on camera he stole my childhood and I can...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    23 Responses Aug 18, 2015

    I need someone to talk too

    who can keep it confidential.
    beck102 beck102
    13-15, T
    3 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    It Saddens Me

    Since my nephew has come to live with us slowly as he has felt comfortable to do so, he has told me some thing that he has experienced. It breaks my heart and makes me angry at the same time. This child lost his mother at such a young age and while dealing with that grief he was...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    12 Responses Aug 31, 2011

    I remember when my mom would beat me

    and then leave my room and I would go in my closet and hug all her clothes and smell her perfume and cry and imagine she was hugging me, comforting me and telling me she was sorry. I really wish I didn't remember this. But I think this is part of the reason I'm a very physical...
    sparklinggarnet sparklinggarnet
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 11

    When I was very little around the age of 4,

    I was molested by a man. A haunting experience that changed me and has plagued me all my life. I'm over it now for the most part, but looking back I see behaviors in me that this earlier experience triggered. Mothers, always be aware of your children and where they are.
    Learning1928 Learning1928
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jan 25

    I've been abused all my life.

    I've been emotionally abused and neglected since day 1. I've suffered 12 years of bullying and 9 years of sexual abuse and hitting from my father. I will never know how it feels to have a real family. When my mother or step father hug me, I feel no comfort or love. I constantly...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jul 26, 2015

    Today marks the day December 9th

    that I was saved from that man (stepdad) and my mom that abused me and raped me every day it's hard for me to forget this day it took a long time for me to realize I was safe and that my life I was living wasn't normal that he made me believe that it was normal that it was okay...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    13 Responses Dec 9, 2015

    I'd like to issue as disclaimer,

    because I don't think I was clear enough (I'm not always the brightest bulb) but this is not actually real. I am so sorry to scare people, this is a chain mail, so while this is meant to shock and some of this has happened to me, I'm NOT going to commit suicide. Hi, I'm...
    FallOutBoy2001 FallOutBoy2001
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2015

    Although I don't like it.

    MOST of the stories of "abuse" now, are just parents actually doing their jobs as parents.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 25, 2015

    To all the parents out there,

    never ever trust just anyone with your kids. As a parent, you are always vigilant to any potential dangers to your child but at the same time I understand that you don't want to be suspicious of absolutely anyone. But you must. You need to question everyone's motive because...
    iatetheicecream iatetheicecream
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 30, 2015
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