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    Who the hell carries a baby capsule everywhere?

    !? Isn't that meant to be left in the car or on the pram?!? Damn it!!!
    GunFinger GunFinger 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I can move on but i don't want to

    for i love him...he loves me too hut distance f^*ked us up/:
    Ayah7 Ayah7 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 28, 2014

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    Sometimes it's easier to give

    than to explain why you don't want to:)
    Drawingweirdo Drawingweirdo 31-35, F Feb 4

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    I hate the fact that my daughter will grow up

    without a father because he became so violent. People look down on me because I'm a single mother as though this is the path in life I wanted to take. I wanted nothing more than us to be together, have more children and raise them in a happy home but how could I have possibly...
    Naedy Naedy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    I hate how your ex broke up with you

    but he knew me made a big mistake so the. He flirts with u and you ask him why Him:I'm not..I just wanna be friends Me: stop texting me if your go to flirt with me and then be a jerk I hate guys (sorry to most of u guys)😡
    heyitsrowan heyitsrowan 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    I Hate Conflict. Every shape

    and form. Fist Fights, Marital Quarrels, War, Fights between friends, Physical and Psychological Abuse. I hate it. I've grown up with it, I've seen it, it tears me apart when I am experiencing these feelings. These emotions. I'm 15 Years Old. I live at home with my parents and...
    SydMB SydMB 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    I hate the conflict which arises in

    relationship especially with friends . Its very complicated to deal with them >.<
    nissa24 nissa24 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    Well. As my other experience states,

    my parents relationship sucks. And I am caught up in the midst of it all. Last night me and my family had dinner together at a restaurant, shortly after my parents dropped us off at a friends place. My parents go home. My parents get back, and my mom say's she needs something...
    SydMB SydMB 13-15, M Dec 4, 2014

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    Some men want to do is prove they're worth

    through pointless animalistic violence. Me, I prefer my books.
    SaveOurNow SaveOurNow 18-21, M Nov 12, 2014

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    I spent my student years living with my brother

    and sister in an apartment room in Yokohama. Japanese apartment rooms are not as roomy as those in USA for sure. Rooms are tightly aligned. The residents above our room were an old couple without children. Apparently, the old woman was very nervous with noise, and was developing...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 16

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    I would love to be able to disappear

    when I want to because a lot of hurt and tears would Never be
    tammi41 tammi41 46-50, F 3 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    Well. My mom is in the hospital.

    She has medication "to cure" her ADHD and Bipolar, but she took to much, drank too much, and started bleeding from her gut. Just when I thought it coudn't get worse. Today she picked up my sister from school so she could get a ride straight to the next town over for my mom's...
    SydMB SydMB 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    The yelling and screaming

    and I just do anything to avoid it
    ArtsyBitch ArtsyBitch 13-15, F Feb 7

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    Some people get into disputes with other

    commuters because they walk and play with their smartphone at the same time. They do that even when the station is full of walking people or the passage is very narrow. In Tokyo last summer, there was an announcement from the station speaker that the number of disputes caused by...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    If my friend shot my dog I would probably say

    I'm sorry because absolutely hate conflict!
    AvaDay AvaDay 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    Not All Conflict

    Ok, I've been thinking about this group ever since I joined it. I really don't like conflict; it's uncomfortable. But I can't say that I actually HATE it. Conflict is neccessary. As people are all different, with different views, beliefs and feelings, we are not all going to see...
    CagedRaven CagedRaven 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2009

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    It sucks how when someone hurts me

    or does something wrong to me, I just forgive and forgive them over and over. But then when I do something wrong, they don't anything to do with me.
    icecreamsoda icecreamsoda 16-17, F 4 Responses Oct 31, 2014

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    Imagine waking up in the middle of a conflict.

    Try to fathom what it must be like to always be watching your back, to always struggle for food, to live in a world that perceives you as an underling. What does it feel like to know that what you believe in only matters to you? Would you be able to grow? How would you find the...
    AshleyJea AshleyJea 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I Dont Like It.

    I can have a debate with someone based on reason and logic, some level of understanding..but when it becomes a competition of who raises his or her voice the highest...i hate it. People who talk over the other person and say shutup a bunch of times like it helps them prove a...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M Jul 22, 2012

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    I volunteered to mentor a colleague in her task

    because she was behind, and today she's decided that she can't finish on time because she's going on vacation. I thought, wow that's irresponsible, but hey at least it's not my problem. Then she talked to my manager and then sent me a mail saying that she's handing off the...
    AnxietyReactor AnxietyReactor 36-40, M 1 Response Feb 9

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    I don't think freedom speech means you can say

    anything. Words can themselves can be like sharp knives that penetrate people's heart and may even do irreversible harm on their life. I think some events won't happen if people have the least respect for things or persons that other people cherish very much and keep silence.
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M Jan 13

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    I ******* hate school.

    .. It's full of a bunch of stupid *******
    NathanielShu NathanielShu 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I can't deal with conflict.

    I agree with people to avoid conflict even when I don't agree. I go out of my way to please a person just to avoid a conflict. I experienced enough conflict as a child.
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'd do almost anything to avoid it,

    and consequently don't speak my mind sometimes when I want to. I especially hate conflict with guys because when they get angry I am really afraid they'll hurt me.
    elliebear22 elliebear22 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Age ten I was beat up + teased by some kid

    for knowing the dance to 'Stop' by the spice girls. Love it
    94everly 94everly 13-15, F Oct 26, 2014

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    Stuck between a rock

    and a hard place....
    DoorMattress DoorMattress 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

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    When I was married there were lots of arguments.

    I've been on my own for 12 years. I enjoy not having to fight every day. It's good to be free. :-)
    seewhathappens seewhathappens 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 10

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    Drawingweirdo Drawingweirdo 31-35, F Feb 7

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    NathanielShu NathanielShu 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2014

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    Xo12345 Xo12345 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2014

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    I have always hated conflict.

    ..when I was young..it used to make me feel physically ill. Even now...when I think that there may be issues with someone...my stomach gets all tied up in knots. I have learned not to run from conflict, but it's still really hard for me to stand up for myself.. Even watching...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 5 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    I'm scared of being in an argument with my

    friends and losing them but it's hard for me to not say what I think.
    queeenbey queeenbey 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Sick With Anxiety Over Conflict

    I tried to post this story once but it got lost so here is the condensed version: I am having a conflict with a girl at work. I can usually handle her remarks that she feels are jokes or "giving people crap" as she likes to term it. But frequently being told "way to be a...
    gruenegal86 gruenegal86 22-25 2 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Ever had anyone that's being very nosy?

    You're talking on the phone and they eavesdrop.
    noidea1234567890 noidea1234567890 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 26, 2014

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    Brutalities or wickedness of some individuals

    are beyond words. But I think people need to be very careful not to overgeneralize the whole group based on the small number of people or whatever sensational stories the media brings. People should try not to sow seeds of hatred and contempt in their hearts because I think that...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M Feb 6

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    I went shopping with my husband at walmart

    today. As we were going back to our car, there was a man in a car yelling at some people. My husband, who always walks ahead of me (he's faster than I am), tells the guy there is a parking spot on his right. The next thing I know, my husband is yelling back and forth with the...
    Kateydidntdoit Kateydidntdoit 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 6

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    Its Not About Who Is Right, Its About...

    It's not about who is right, it's about trying to unerstand each others intentions and perceptions. Most of the time the REAL reason why people argue, is because they have a different point of view. That sucks, but it's a human thing to have your own point of views. Try to...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Feb 23

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    Conflict ...

    I step into a room all is quiet or there is just this energy that is toxic to everything in the area, that is how i know there was fighting or arguing there just recently. All my life my family has done nothing but argue amongst themselves. I really can't stand it, once the...
    TheCheese TheCheese 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9, 2007

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    People just drive me nuts.

    So darn rude and ****.😔
    Taraaaaaa Taraaaaaa 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 25, 2014

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    I Hate Conflict

    Be it physical {between p'ple} or mental...i hate conflicts. They are so unhealthy, ever leaving someone with depression, anger or bitterness.Today, i just turned-down an offer to translate for a group of people in a certain christian conference simply because my mind was in a...
    lilyofthefields lilyofthefields 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2010

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