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I Hate Conflict

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    I would love to be able to disappear

    when I want to because a lot of hurt and tears would Never be
    tammi41 tammi41 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I ******* hate school.

    .. It's full of a bunch of stupid *******
    NathanielShu NathanielShu 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    Lol to the gentleman

    that lied about his age and I offended I'm sorry. by deleting me you just made me laugh if you're 30 say you're 30 if you're 60 you're 60. And why lie about saying you from the US when you're clearly not
    cutebbw46 cutebbw46 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    Brutalities or wickedness of some individuals

    are beyond words. But I think people need to be very careful not to overgeneralize the whole group based on the small number of people or whatever sensational stories the media brings. People should try not to sow seeds of hatred and contempt in their hearts because I think that...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M Feb 6

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    Everyone. Is getting me mad 👎 I'm just

    going to go off one day I swear
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 7 Responses Mar 11

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 12

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    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Feb 23

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    One of the most violated public spaces in Japan

    must be the priority area on the train. The area is supposed to be a no mobile phone zone meaning whoever sits or stands there must turn off their device. The area is meant for old people, mothers with a baby, and the disabled including those with a heart peace maker. I rarely...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M 1 Response May 29

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    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Jul 8

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    I do. Like nobody's business.

    I've done some silly things to avoid conflict though, like allowing ppl to walk all over me just to "keep the peace" or to squash an argument. When I was in HS, one of my bullies had to write a letter apologizing to me for punching me in my neck, and she asked ME if I'd write it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19

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    There was a time when i would react

    and always try to get the last word, but i no longer do that. It could just be the process of growing older and mellowing, but the truth is that i find it disturbing and even distressing to put my heart thru the kinda turmoil it creates. Now I just walk away.
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M a week ago

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    I HATE crimes...I HATE argue,

    Or even fight with my friends/family either...That's means This is NOT important to me!
    ScropioLady ScropioLady 41-45, F Apr 14

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    Conflict is stupid. Like what the **** are we

    fighting over? Petty ****. The stupidity of some people is real.
    derangeddelinquent derangeddelinquent 13-15, F May 6

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    First of all I would like to thank

    and appreciate my boyfriend for his down to earth nature and his undying devotion towards me . I love him so much which was the inspiration for me to write this post . Quite often couples enter into conflicts and unless this is resolved both persons will be having a tough time...
    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    The worst thing a friend can do is backstab you.

    .. There are many things I can tolerate in a friendship because after all there is no such thing as a perfect friend. Though lying may irk me, being rude may test me, and ignoring, may tempt me to become vengeful. The thing that will cause a friendship to cease immidiatley is...
    lifespadawan lifespadawan 22-25, F 1 Response May 18

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    When you stir up a pot of ****,

    you better be prepared to put your hand in it.
    koh72 koh72 41-45, M 7 Responses Apr 20

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    To update from my last post me getting upset

    finally got him to talk and he told me the truth about why he didn't want to make pancakes. X,D because he didn't think they would turn out well from scratch. Lol guys, don't say you're gonna do something if you aren't. It's okay, and if he just said that to begin with I would...
    kdauthor kdauthor 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I hate the conflict which arises in

    relationship especially with friends . Its very complicated to deal with them >.<
    nissa24 nissa24 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    It's funny it doesn't bother me to

    argue/fight/conflict with people but it bothers me as a bystander having to watch others fight. I get angry sometimes like everyone and there is arguing and it never bothers me but when I'm on the sidelines I can stand to watch other people fight it breaks me.
    LockedInsideMe LockedInsideMe 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I avoid conflict and confrontation at all costs,

    I am a peaceful person, well physically anyway. I hate arguments, fist fighting and all of that other stuff.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My Step Dad treats me like ****

    and my mom always sticks up for him.
    pinkandsparkle95 pinkandsparkle95 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    deleted deleted 26-30 May 19

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    In my family I am the mediator,

    I am expected to step in and calm the conflict. It is wearing thin on me, the fact that everyone's favorite past time these days is arguing or physically fighting; it makes me sick to my stomach. I just wish the world a day or even a moment of just absolute peace and happiness...
    Doonadai Doonadai 31-35, F 5 Responses May 8

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    I hate conflict...with a passion.

    And will do anything to avoid it.
    Alwaysatthebeach Alwaysatthebeach 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    I'm tired of being on the receiving end of

    people's anger FOR NO REASON
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 6

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    I had to go on Short Term Disability from work

    due to an injury that occurred at home. I contact them weekly as it is required and they do not contact me back. I have also found out that some of my coworkers are spreading lies about me at work. It was not my choice to take time off. I was forced to take the time off because...
    persona1non1grata persona1non1grata 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    I've seen some rude customers in restaurants

    and cafes. These eating spaces in Japan are often small and narrow and there are certain expected behaviors because people are close to each other. Here are some violations that have made me irritated. 1. Small kids running around in the narrow aisle and causing dusts to hover...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M Jun 19

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    I'm a lawyer and I'm

    so tired of arguing about every little thing. What a waste!
    AbbottLewis AbbottLewis 46-50, M 3 Responses May 6

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    Sometimes it's easier to give

    than to explain why you don't want to:)
    Drawingweirdo Drawingweirdo 31-35, F Feb 4

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    Atom4815 Atom4815 18-21, M 4 Responses May 17

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    I don't think freedom speech means you can say

    anything. Words can themselves can be like sharp knives that penetrate people's heart and may even do irreversible harm on their life. I think some events won't happen if people have the least respect for things or persons that other people cherish very much and keep silence.
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M Jan 13

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    I had problems with controlling my emotions,

    and I would explode if there are people who make me angry even I ever make a person severely injured and it was very ****** me off
    AnsMj AnsMj 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 17

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    I have always found it odd

    that people who think passive aggressively ignoring a person is making a point to them. The only point it makes to anyone is your inability to articulate your point of view because deep down you know you can’t win. It’s better to assert yourself and tell the person you are...
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I don't like conflict.

    I usually coward down and allow someone to say what they feel, to make themselves better. I wish I had more of a backbone, and a bit more feistiness
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 8

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    My parents are legally married,

    but not actually in a relationship. My father smokes and my mother physically can't be in it because she gets bronchitis, and all I wanted was for the Family to be together for Fourth of July...
    IsisGuardir IsisGuardir 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I work in a beauty salon oftentimes it gets

    quite loud , not because of the equipment but the conversations are that loud . The other day one of my coworkers was louder than usual . I made a polite observation on the topic and she blasted me with " this is a private conversation , do you mind"? In a rather rude tone. I...
    Chip1217 Chip1217 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I just want a quiet life.

    life is to short.
    Mrpenfold78 Mrpenfold78 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I'm scared of being in an argument with my

    friends and losing them but it's hard for me to not say what I think.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    beautyasleep beautyasleep 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Conflict in my opinion is retarded

    and immature. If you have a problem just talk it out calmly, if you start or participate in a conflict then your just wasting your time and nothing productive comes out of it.
    nightskyvampire nightskyvampire 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I don't deal well with conflict.

    . Like I'll feel bad then like I'll apologize for my part then I'll try to make the person laugh. Or I'll simply just forget about it.. Holding grudges is way too much work and life is short.
    SuperRose27 SuperRose27 13-15, F 2 Responses May 19

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    A guy who's around 35 years old texted me

    and said that I'm kinda cute . It's kinda creepy right ? What should I do?
    gowybry gowybry 16-17, F 7 Responses May 24

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    I'm a new father, married

    for almost two years. Basically Me and my wife are going through a crazy crazy time which starts off like this... From the starting point I fell in love with her charisma and her beauty which led me to forget a lot about who I am or at least was. I used to do what ever the hell...
    steveyboy31 steveyboy31 31-35, M 2 Responses May 29

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    I avoid conflict as much

    as possible I like making peace .
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 23

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 29

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    I just lost it over him not making me pancakes

    because he said he would. Yup. Not even about the pancakes, it's more about broken promises. Though he said he didn't say promise. Look, if you said you're gonna do something and I ask really ?" And you said yes that to me is a promise. I thought we were lovers,not lawyers here...
    kdauthor kdauthor 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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