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I Hate Conflict

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    Brutalities or wickedness of some individuals

    are beyond words. But I think people need to be very careful not to overgeneralize the whole group based on the small number of people or whatever sensational stories the media brings. People should try not to sow seeds of hatred and contempt in their hearts because I think that...
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M Feb 6

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    When ever I see conflict in any way I feel sad

    and upset. I always wonder why can't it end peacefully. I think conflict results in greed and stubbornness when it comes with people and I just want it to stop.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I hate it because I don't like seeing others

    fight and be sad when they don't have a bff.My parents fight and it makes me sad.that is why I hate conflict.
    MmEeTtOo MmEeTtOo 13-15, F Aug 16

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    I don't like confrontations,

    but I will stand up for what's right.
    meamiz meamiz 16-17, M Aug 23

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    cbnnhdxxsfnk cbnnhdxxsfnk 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I work in a beauty salon oftentimes it gets

    quite loud , not because of the equipment but the conversations are that loud . The other day one of my coworkers was louder than usual . I made a polite observation on the topic and she blasted me with " this is a private conversation , do you mind"? In a rather rude tone. I...
    Chip1217 Chip1217 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I ******* hate school.

    .. It's full of a bunch of stupid *******
    NathanielShu NathanielShu 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    I have always found it odd

    that people who think passive aggressively ignoring a person is making a point to them. The only point it makes to anyone is your inability to articulate your point of view because deep down you know you canโ€™t win. Itโ€™s better to assert yourself and tell the person you are...
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    Ladies please learn from my experience,

    DO NOT marry a man with young kids..it's so true what they say....everything will always revolve around them. Every decision you would like to make as a couple would be a waiting game until after those kids are 18, You will NEVER be number 1 when it comes to anything and it will...
    islandmissy islandmissy 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    axelbo axelbo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 29

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    In my family I am the mediator,

    I am expected to step in and calm the conflict. It is wearing thin on me, the fact that everyone's favorite past time these days is arguing or physically fighting; it makes me sick to my stomach. I just wish the world a day or even a moment of just absolute peace and happiness...
    Doonadai Doonadai 31-35, F 5 Responses May 8

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    Conflict in my opinion is retarded

    and immature. If you have a problem just talk it out calmly, if you start or participate in a conflict then your just wasting your time and nothing productive comes out of it.
    nightskyvampire nightskyvampire 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I hate conflict...with a passion.

    And will do anything to avoid it.
    Atthebeginning Atthebeginning 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 7

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    I would love to be able to disappear

    when I want to because a lot of hurt and tears would Never be
    tammi41 tammi41 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    It's funny it doesn't bother me to

    argue/fight/conflict with people but it bothers me as a bystander having to watch others fight. I get angry sometimes like everyone and there is arguing and it never bothers me but when I'm on the sidelines I can stand to watch other people fight it breaks me.
    LockedInsideMe LockedInsideMe 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Lol to the gentleman

    that lied about his age and I offended I'm sorry. by deleting me you just made me laugh if you're 30 say you're 30 if you're 60 you're 60. And why lie about saying you from the US when you're clearly not
    cutebbw46 cutebbw46 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 14

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    I just lost it over him not making me pancakes

    because he said he would. Yup. Not even about the pancakes, it's more about broken promises. Though he said he didn't say promise. Look, if you said you're gonna do something and I ask really ?" And you said yes that to me is a promise. I thought we were lovers,not lawyers here...
    kdauthor kdauthor 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I had to go on Short Term Disability from work

    due to an injury that occurred at home. I contact them weekly as it is required and they do not contact me back. I have also found out that some of my coworkers are spreading lies about me at work. It was not my choice to take time off. I was forced to take the time off because...
    persona1non1grata persona1non1grata 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 6

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    There was a time when i would react

    and always try to get the last word, but i no longer do that. It could just be the process of growing older and mellowing, but the truth is that i find it disturbing and even distressing to put my heart thru the kinda turmoil it creates. Now I just walk away.
    ClownNine ClownNine 56-60, M Jul 20

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    Haven't cried in a while.

    Feels like ****.
    Sib232228 Sib232228 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I like to walk away from arguments life is

    so short why worry about all the drama
    piledriver3900 piledriver3900 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    PcIaMr PcIaMr 22-25, M Jul 28

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    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jul 8

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    beautyasleep beautyasleep 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I try n avoid it as much

    as possible, but ppl tend to take advantage of my passiveness n calm nature. they beg fa conflict....ima southern gal n one tuff broad, I can go 0 to 100 real quick....but, why must ppl drag that side out of me??? I hate conflict!
    StreetgirlnamedDesire504 StreetgirlnamedDesire504 36-40 Aug 18

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    I avoid conflict as much

    as possible I like making peace .
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 23

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    I grew up in a noisy family.

    I hated when my parents argued with each other, with my siblings. Since I hated the fighting so much I appointed myself as the peacemaker in the family (being the only non-argumentative one in the family) Whenever I sensed an argument brewing, I'd either distract them with a...
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    axelbo axelbo 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    The worst thing a friend can do is backstab you.

    .. There are many things I can tolerate in a friendship because after all there is no such thing as a perfect friend. Though lying may irk me, being rude may test me, and ignoring, may tempt me to become vengeful. The thing that will cause a friendship to cease immidiatley is...
    lifespadawan lifespadawan 22-25, F 1 Response May 18

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    I'm a lawyer and I'm

    so tired of arguing about every little thing. What a waste!
    AbbottLewis AbbottLewis 46-50, M 3 Responses May 6

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    To update from my last post me getting upset

    finally got him to talk and he told me the truth about why he didn't want to make pancakes. X,D because he didn't think they would turn out well from scratch. Lol guys, don't say you're gonna do something if you aren't. It's okay, and if he just said that to begin with I would...
    kdauthor kdauthor 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    dealing with too many emotional people in one

    time sometimes it exhausts me .
    axelbo axelbo 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    If you wanna argue, go find a fence post

    and argue with it...some of you will probably do this
    Josh1978 Josh1978 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't think freedom speech means you can say

    anything. Words can themselves can be like sharp knives that penetrate people's heart and may even do irreversible harm on their life. I think some events won't happen if people have the least respect for things or persons that other people cherish very much and keep silence.
    katsuobushi katsuobushi 36-40, M Jan 13

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    My parents don't like my gf

    and we broke up because she hates them too
    mmhernandez11 mmhernandez11 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I'm tired of being on the receiving end of

    people's anger FOR NO REASON
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 6

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    Hello, I'm Leanne. The day

    before yesterday, I misbehaved; making my mom angry- So I apologised. Yesterday, I yelled at my sister and this happened: My mom kept calling me possessed and a demon :( It hurt so much to hear these words (I'm 12) I had had enough of listening to them so I yelled 'leave me...
    LovelyLeanne LovelyLeanne 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I'm scared of being in an argument with my

    friends and losing them but it's hard for me to not say what I think.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    I don't like conflict.

    I usually coward down and allow someone to say what they feel, to make themselves better. I wish I had more of a backbone, and a bit more feistiness
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 8

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    I hate the conflict which arises in

    relationship especially with friends . Its very complicated to deal with them >.<
    nissa24 nissa24 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    lifealwayschanges lifealwayschanges 41-45, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I HATE crimes...I HATE argue,

    Or even fight with my friends/family either...That's means This is NOT important to me!
    ScropioLady ScropioLady 41-45, F Apr 14

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    I avoid conflict and confrontation at all costs,

    I am a peaceful person, well physically anyway. I hate arguments, fist fighting and all of that other stuff.
    Josimms23 Josimms23 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    Sometimes it's easier to give

    than to explain why you don't want to:)
    Drawingweirdo Drawingweirdo 31-35, F Feb 4

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    Conflict is stupid. Like what the **** are we

    fighting over? Petty ****. The stupidity of some people is real.
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 6

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