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I Hate Conflict

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    I avoid conflict as much

    as possible I like making peace .
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 23, 2015

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    If I know there is going to be conflict

    or there may be a disagreement I'll just agree or avoid making a choice .
    Gambler715 Gambler715 51-55, M 5 Responses Dec 11, 2015

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    I'm scared of being in an argument with my

    friends and losing them but it's hard for me to not say what I think.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

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    Live and let live cats vs dogs nikon vs

    canon playstation vs xbox samsung vs apple atheism vs religion christian vs muslim don't even get me started on men/women or races... I never understood why a lot of people can't agree to disagree.... or why some people think others' opinions need to be corrected... or why some...
    mynoseiskillingme mynoseiskillingme 31-35, F Jan 2

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    I hate the conflict which arises in

    relationship especially with friends . Its very complicated to deal with them >.<
    nissa24 nissa24 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26, 2014

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    I work in a beauty salon oftentimes it gets

    quite loud , not because of the equipment but the conversations are that loud . The other day one of my coworkers was louder than usual . I made a polite observation on the topic and she blasted me with " this is a private conversation , do you mind"? In a rather rude tone. I...
    Chip1217 Chip1217 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 25, 2015

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    I have always found it odd

    that people who think passive aggressively ignoring a person is making a point to them. The only point it makes to anyone is your inability to articulate your point of view because deep down you know you can’t win. It’s better to assert yourself and tell the person you are...
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 14, 2015

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    I'm terrible at conflict.

    .... I always cry!! Whether they be sad tears, angry tears or embarrassed tears. Tears are no use at all when you are trying to put a point across.
    snoopysgirl snoopysgirl 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 13

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    I love my fiancé to death

    but sometimes I get really sick of his negativity towards others. He has certain people that if their name comes up, not many if any good things come out of his mouth about them. It gets so tiring. Today I asked if our roommate was done taking a shower because I want to wash a...
    Morrgin Morrgin 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 31, 2015

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    sasysister12 sasysister12 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    Wolflover1999 Wolflover1999 16-17, M 3 Responses Oct 17, 2015

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    i canhandle some conflict.

    especially when its my own and im grown enough to be able to deal. But when my parents fight is the worst. theres nothing i can do to make the other see their point of view. getting involved makes me feel ****** and sometimes im put in the middle. its so stupid to me. its...
    cillasavage cillasavage 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 20, 2015

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    In my family I am the mediator,

    I am expected to step in and calm the conflict. It is wearing thin on me, the fact that everyone's favorite past time these days is arguing or physically fighting; it makes me sick to my stomach. I just wish the world a day or even a moment of just absolute peace and happiness...
    Doonadai Doonadai 31-35, F 5 Responses May 8, 2015

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    lifealwayschanges lifealwayschanges 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 31, 2015

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    And this is the logic behind

    why Trump might get in. Why would adults comment on a teen relationship imposing their values on it? Akin to why someone would vote for Trump... Check out this story: http://flip.it/4V29n From NYC, a Flipboard magazine: http://flip.it/BnWpX
    Liminalghost Liminalghost 41-45, M Jan 20

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    First of all I would like to thank

    and appreciate my boyfriend for his down to earth nature and his undying devotion towards me . I love him so much which was the inspiration for me to write this post . Quite often couples enter into conflicts and unless this is resolved both persons will be having a tough time...
    rsushama73 rsushama73 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2015

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    I ******* hate school.

    .. It's full of a bunch of stupid *******
    NathanielShu NathanielShu 13-15, M 3 Responses Dec 1, 2014

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    i hate conflict why do you argue with somebody

    who is not arguing with you it makes me mad angry make me cry my mom argue with me about the same things.she is mad at me for no reason.if i cry she won"t talk to me. i am terrible at arguing.of course you kids mess up why do you scream and yell i can understand why is it every...
    youwokeme99 youwokeme99 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    A guy at work has a teenage daughter,

    who ran away and ended working the streets. He felt bad about it but with the help of a friend he managed to track her down, bring her back and now they are a happy family again. This experience of his leaked out at work and another guy there said that he was an awful father...
    kimmler100 kimmler100 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 3, 2015

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    I want to live in peace

    and harmony with all people round me. I hate argues and conflicts.
    Loretta78 Loretta78 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    Today wasn't as good

    as I had hoped.
    CrimsonMoons CrimsonMoons 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 20, 2015

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    I just want a quiet life.

    life is to short.
    Mrpenfold78 Mrpenfold78 36-40, M Jul 13, 2015

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    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So I was done doing my grocery shopping

    and waiting in line to pay I have a full cart and there's this old lady with only 2 items in her hand, me being a decent human being I tell "please go ahead" she thanks me and then this morocan lady in front of us which btw...was already being attended by the cashier, starts...
    Luka20 Luka20 22-25, M 18 Responses Dec 13, 2015

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    Sometimes you've got to hold on tight

    and wait for the storm to pass hoping that not too much damage has been done that can't be repaired.
    donnas70 donnas70 41-45, F 3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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    I have always hated getting into verbal

    confrontations. I hate being yelled at and yelling.
    aaronfunn aaronfunn 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    What is your defense mode

    for conflict? I either shut down and remain silent or try and deflect with humor. My wife hates both.
    ProcrastiNATE1492 ProcrastiNATE1492 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 20

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    Sometimes it is unavoidable,

    but I would like to avoid it if I can. I don't really like arguing with someone because it can really upset me.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F Oct 31, 2015

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    Conflict is not necessary,

    however debate and resolution to issues is much needed.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    I'm a lawyer and I'm

    so tired of arguing about every little thing. What a waste!
    AbbottLewis AbbottLewis 46-50, M 3 Responses May 6, 2015

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    So I pick cautiously

    because I know life sometimes demands we stand.
    poiemajeremiah poiemajeremiah 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Jun 29, 2015

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    "The most dangerous animal in the world is a

    silent smiling woman" So they say...
    TulipBaby TulipBaby 41-45, F 8 Responses Dec 4, 2015

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    Conflict in my opinion is retarded

    and immature. If you have a problem just talk it out calmly, if you start or participate in a conflict then your just wasting your time and nothing productive comes out of it.
    nightskyvampire nightskyvampire 16-17, F Jul 6, 2015

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    Conflicts are why I'm usually alone.

    I'm currently looking for an apartment so that I'm not on top of fighting all the time. It makes me depressed. Then I get upset at myself for being such a wimp at things. I try to act tough, but in reality I'm a huge softy. I don't see a problem with it; I only feel my 'loved...
    CrimsonMoons CrimsonMoons 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2015

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    Lol to the gentleman

    that lied about his age and I offended I'm sorry. by deleting me you just made me laugh if you're 30 say you're 30 if you're 60 you're 60. And why lie about saying you from the US when you're clearly not
    cutebbw46 cutebbw46 46-50, F 9 Responses Jul 14, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Aug 8, 2015

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    When you stir up a pot of ****,

    you better be prepared to put your hand in it.
    koh72 koh72 41-45, M 5 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jul 8, 2015

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    Just buried an long standing conflict with a

    girl.... She didn't get the point at all and was arrogant and selfish the whole way through but I swallowed my pride and against every fiber of my being I said "let's make this water under the bridge". Subsequently downed 2 glasses of wine in lightening speed. It was totally...
    Nln91 Nln91 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    I rather just be like ok fine

    and agree rather than fight like there's few things I would rather fight about
    CallMePonyTail CallMePonyTail 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    My mom talks to everyone about stiff I don't

    want her too. But she gets mad if I tell someone if we went eat out. I don't want my family to know I went to mental hospital. It's something personal and it makes me so mad that she keeps telling people that.
    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 21, 2015

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    jealousy is the worst type of conflict in my

    opinion. silent, strong, and more destructive than any other type of conflict.
    Versouvent Versouvent 18-21, M 3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 12, 2015

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    “I’ve always wondered

    why love has to be so full of conflict and strife. Why can’t love be simple? Why can’t it just be as pure as two people who realize that they can’t live as well, or as happily, apart as they can together? A part of me at times wishes that I had this mentality but it's...
    RememberTomorrow RememberTomorrow 31-35, M 4 Responses Dec 8, 2015

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