I Hate Conflict

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 17,041 People

    Participating in this Drains my energy level .

    .. and Disrupts my positive frequencies .
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014
    41-45, M
    Feb 26

    I rather just be like ok fine

    and agree rather than fight like there's few things I would rather fight about
    CallMePonyTail CallMePonyTail
    13-15, F
    Feb 3
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Jun 29, 2015
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 2

    Hating conflicts makes me runaway from problems

    all the time. And look where it got me? Almost 30 with no achievement. Need motivation from any source I can.
    niddurahak niddurahak
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 12

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    Liminalghost Liminalghost
    41-45, M
    Mar 4

    Conflicts are why I'm usually alone.

    I'm currently looking for an apartment so that I'm not on top of fighting all the time. It makes me depressed. Then I get upset at myself for being such a wimp at things. I try to act tough, but in reality I'm a huge softy. I don't see a problem with it; I only feel my 'loved...
    CrimsonMoons CrimsonMoons
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    7 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    I have always hated getting into verbal

    confrontations. I hate being yelled at and yelling.
    aaronfunn aaronfunn
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 2

    If I know there is going to be conflict

    or there may be a disagreement I'll just agree or avoid making a choice .
    Gambler715 Gambler715
    51-55, M
    5 Responses Dec 11, 2015

    My mom talks to everyone about stiff I don't

    want her too. But she gets mad if I tell someone if we went eat out. I don't want my family to know I went to mental hospital. It's something personal and it makes me so mad that she keeps telling people that.
    BrokeAssBxtch BrokeAssBxtch
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 21, 2015

    So I was done doing my grocery shopping

    and waiting in line to pay I have a full cart and there's this old lady with only 2 items in her hand, me being a decent human being I tell "please go ahead" she thanks me and then this morocan lady in front of us which btw...was already being attended by the cashier, starts...
    Luka20 Luka20
    22-25, M
    12 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    And this is the logic behind

    why Trump might get in. Why would adults comment on a teen relationship imposing their values on it? Akin to why someone would vote for Trump... Check out this story: http://flip.it/4V29n From NYC, a Flipboard magazine: http://flip.it/BnWpX
    Liminalghost Liminalghost
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jan 20

    I try not to be mean to some people

    who are wrong at some times, but when I correct someone, I like to do it in a politely way so I won't create any conflict between us, because I just don't have time for any conflict.
    Tagstar2000 Tagstar2000
    13-15, M
    2 Responses Nov 22, 2015

    When you stir up a pot of ****,

    you better be prepared to put your hand in it.
    koh72 koh72
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Apr 20, 2015

    I avoid conflict as much

    as possible I like making peace .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2015

    Nothing feels worse than being at unreconciled

    odds with someone you like and respect. It kills me. It makes me feel desperate inside. My pride and digity is often a small price to pay for attempts at resolution, and sometimes even that doesn't work. I had someone VERY VERY special to me refuse to talk to me for five...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Mar 6

    Live and let live cats vs dogs nikon vs

    canon playstation vs xbox samsung vs apple atheism vs religion christian vs muslim don't even get me started on men/women or races... I never understood why a lot of people can't agree to disagree.... or why some people think others' opinions need to be corrected... or why some...
    mynoseiskillingme mynoseiskillingme
    31-35, F
    Jan 2

    What is your defense mode

    for conflict? I either shut down and remain silent or try and deflect with humor. My wife hates both.
    ProcrastiNATE1492 ProcrastiNATE1492
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Jan 20

    You know I'm naturally a nice person,

    I can't help but be caring and I like to help a lot but please don't **** with me. My tolerance fluctuates and there's only so much **** I can take from a person let alone multiple people.. usually if I don't say anything at first it's because I don't expect someone to act a...
    SweetDreamsRubi SweetDreamsRubi
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Mar 26

    There is an small island

    which is a disputed territory between Canada and Denmark. It is called Hans Island. The militaries of both countries periodically visit the island in order to remove the other guy's flag and leave a bottle of Danish Schnapps or Canadian Whiskey. This is what happen when nice...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Mar 12

    In my family I am the mediator,

    I am expected to step in and calm the conflict. It is wearing thin on me, the fact that everyone's favorite past time these days is arguing or physically fighting; it makes me sick to my stomach. I just wish the world a day or even a moment of just absolute peace and happiness...
    Doonadai Doonadai
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 8, 2015
    lifealwayschanges lifealwayschanges
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Aug 31, 2015

    Are WW aware that BM are flocking to them

    because they get free housing, car, their child support payments paid, free food, they don't have to work and if they do work, they're taking care of some side piece chick while giving them mere crumbs. While their away, they get to play. These BM are merely PIMPING WW. A...
    Sheilatruelove Sheilatruelove
    31-35, M
    Apr 19

    Why would WW leave a race of men

    who take care of their own, have decent jobs, empower and build up their own race of women for a race of men who PIMP them, have no integrity, abandon their kids 9 times out of 10, have FELONIES, can't hardly get or keep a job and TRY to tear down their own race of women? I...
    Sheilatruelove Sheilatruelove
    31-35, M
    Apr 19

    I work in a beauty salon oftentimes it gets

    quite loud , not because of the equipment but the conversations are that loud . The other day one of my coworkers was louder than usual . I made a polite observation on the topic and she blasted me with " this is a private conversation , do you mind"? In a rather rude tone. I...
    Chip1217 Chip1217
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    i hate conflict why do you argue with somebody

    who is not arguing with you it makes me mad angry make me cry my mom argue with me about the same things.she is mad at me for no reason.if i cry she won"t talk to me. i am terrible at arguing.of course you kids mess up why do you scream and yell i can understand why is it every...
    youwokeme99 youwokeme99
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 2

    Conflict in my opinion is retarded

    and immature. If you have a problem just talk it out calmly, if you start or participate in a conflict then your just wasting your time and nothing productive comes out of it.
    nightskyvampire nightskyvampire
    16-17, F
    Jul 6, 2015

    First of all I would like to thank

    and appreciate my boyfriend for his down to earth nature and his undying devotion towards me . I love him so much which was the inspiration for me to write this post . Quite often couples enter into conflicts and unless this is resolved both persons will be having a tough time...
    rsushama73 rsushama73
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 27, 2015

    My daughter's boyfriend came to live with us 6

    months ago. He used to be her pimp so she calls him daddy says he's not her boyfriend. It just irritate's me. He quickly was trying to take over my household and thought he was gona control me and my finances. I have never allowed a man to control me. For the most part I was...
    RoseMarieJones RoseMarieJones
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Feb 27
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    Conflict is not necessary,

    however debate and resolution to issues is much needed.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 26, 2015

    Lol to the gentleman

    that lied about his age and I offended I'm sorry. by deleting me you just made me laugh if you're 30 say you're 30 if you're 60 you're 60. And why lie about saying you from the US when you're clearly not
    cutebbw46 cutebbw46
    46-50, F
    8 Responses Jul 14, 2015

    Everywhere, everyone,

    and everything has to be a label. Without it, there would be no conflict, and the world doesn't want that. What's the legacy you want to live and stand by?... I feel like there is a constant battle.. In the world. You can change. It's just fear you have to let go. I am starting...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Nov 21, 2015

    I want to live in peace

    and harmony with all people round me. I hate argues and conflicts.
    Loretta78 Loretta78
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 24

    I have always been shy of conflict,

    unfortunately that means a lot of times I get walked over. I have been trying to find the confidence to stand up for myself, even if that means it will result in conflict
    Simplyforgotten Simplyforgotten
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Mar 7

    So I pick cautiously

    because I know life sometimes demands we stand.
    poiemajeremiah poiemajeremiah
    36-40, M
    Feb 2

    I'm scared of being in an argument with my

    friends and losing them but it's hard for me to not say what I think.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Nov 16, 2014

    I hate conflict...with a passion.

    And will do anything to avoid it.
    Kyhla Kyhla
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2015

    I just want a quiet life.

    life is to short.
    Mrpenfold78 Mrpenfold78
    36-40, M
    Jul 13, 2015
    sasysister12 sasysister12
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 6

    I have always found it odd

    that people who think passive aggressively ignoring a person is making a point to them. The only point it makes to anyone is your inability to articulate your point of view because deep down you know you can’t win. It’s better to assert yourself and tell the person you are...
    GirlieGirl07 GirlieGirl07
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 14, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 12, 2015

    Sometimes you've got to hold on tight

    and wait for the storm to pass hoping that not too much damage has been done that can't be repaired.
    donnas70 donnas70
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 8, 2015

    I'm a lawyer and I'm

    so tired of arguing about every little thing. What a waste!
    AbbottLewis AbbottLewis
    46-50, M
    3 Responses May 6, 2015

    I made an incredibly huge mistake over the

    weekend and I am experiencing the heaviest wave of anxiety and fear. I don't know what to do, or who to turn to, and I know I can't keep it to myself for too long, because then things will really turn out bad.
    AcousticSoul17 AcousticSoul17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2015

    A student said to his master: " You teach me

    fighting, but talk about peace. How do you reconcile the two?" The master replied:"It's better to be a warrior in a garden, then to be a gardener in a war."
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 15
    solidgoldlady solidgoldlady
    66-70, F
    Feb 11

    Just buried an long standing conflict with a

    girl.... She didn't get the point at all and was arrogant and selfish the whole way through but I swallowed my pride and against every fiber of my being I said "let's make this water under the bridge". Subsequently downed 2 glasses of wine in lightening speed. It was totally...
    Nln91 Nln91
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 11
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