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I Hate Conflict

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    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Mar 24

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    I Hate Conflict

    Be it physical {between p'ple} or mental...i hate conflicts. They are so unhealthy, ever leaving someone with depression, anger or bitterness.Today, i just turned-down an offer to translate for a group of people in a certain christian conference simply because my mind was in a...
    lilyofthefields lilyofthefields 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 16, 2010

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    I am a very outspoken person.

    But I absolutely hate conflict. If I get put in a stressful situation I usually panic and feel the overwhelming need to get the hell outta there ASAP. If you yell at me, I'm outta here. I panic just at the thought of someone being upset with me. Ugh. Problems, problems, problems...
    breeze90 breeze90 22-25, F Jul 28

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    I'm A Lover, Not A Fighter!

    Simply put, I value peace over violence. Yes, I know that sometimes we have to fight in order to gain peace.
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Sep 17, 2011

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    Conflicts that turn into shouting matches,

    name calling, physical threats and physical assault should be avoided by everyone. But just because one may hate conflicts does not mean they will not quickly react to protect and defend their honor, their country, their loved ones. I am one that will not tolerate the get in...
    altoneaston47 altoneaston47 66-70, M Jun 1

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    I Hate Conflict

    Be it physical {between p'ple} or mental...i hate conflicts. They are so unhealthy, ever leaving someone with depression, anger or bitterness.Today, i just turned-down an offer to translate for a group of people in a certain christian conference simply because my mind was in a...
    lilyofthefields lilyofthefields 26-30, F Jan 16, 2010

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    Its Dumb

    i hate conflict..i hate it. it makes me wanna slapp some one in da face.errrrrrrrrrr
    brooklyn917 brooklyn917 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 5, 2009

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    One of the reasons I have the issues I do in

    life, and in my relationship, is the fact that I am conflict averse. I am avoidant. If there is a big thing that will likely have people angry or upset, I will avoid that issue and do everything in my power to not have it brought up. Now, add to that my inability to keep my...
    atkinspj atkinspj 31-35 Jun 1

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    Not All Conflict

    Ok, I've been thinking about this group ever since I joined it. I really don't like conflict; it's uncomfortable. But I can't say that I actually HATE it. Conflict is neccessary. As people are all different, with different views, beliefs and feelings, we are not all going to see...
    CagedRaven CagedRaven 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2009

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    I'd do almost anything to avoid it,

    and consequently don't speak my mind sometimes when I want to. I especially hate conflict with guys because when they get angry I am really afraid they'll hurt me.
    elliebear22 elliebear22 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Because

     My parents have never argued, so I'm not used to see conflicts... I hate them, I rather yield than to keep on fighting... even when I know I'm right. I think arguing is wasting of time.... I'd rather be ignoring than shouting...  I apply this at...
    bublina bublina 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 5, 2009

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    Conflict Suffocates Me

    I always get this overwhelming feeling when there's conflict in the house, I couldn't cool it or ignore the both of them either. So I sighed loudly and retreat to my room. Ecen in school I get suffocated with conflicts that I act stupid just to calm myself. Anyway its not good...
    amejad amejad 22-25, F May 25, 2010

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    Sick With Anxiety Over Conflict

    I tried to post this story once but it got lost so here is the condensed version: I am having a conflict with a girl at work. I can usually handle her remarks that she feels are jokes or "giving people crap" as she likes to term it. But frequently being told "way to be a...
    gruenegal86 gruenegal86 22-25 2 Responses Apr 22, 2012

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    Conflict Brings Breakdowns

    I've always hated conflicts. Every time I'm around one--even if I'm not involved--I get a headache and feel sick. Truthfully? Conflicts of any kind terrify me. I feel that they will never get resolved without someone getting hurt, and I hate it when that happens. Conflicts serve...
    LoreilDarksky00 LoreilDarksky00 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2010

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    I Just Dont Like It!

    i dont like conflict between other people, or between me and another person. its just a hassel that can be lived without...most of the time theres no real need for it. the main conflict that gets to me though is violence, and when a stronger person puts down a weaker one, cos its...
    sezy sezy 16-17, F Oct 26, 2007

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    Its Not About Who Is Right, Its About...

    It's not about who is right, it's about trying to unerstand each others intentions and perceptions. Most of the time the REAL reason why people argue, is because they have a different point of view. That sucks, but it's a human thing to have your own point of views. Try to...
    AngelicLights AngelicLights 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 23, 2011

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    enza105 enza105 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Conflict ...

    I step into a room all is quiet or there is just this energy that is toxic to everything in the area, that is how i know there was fighting or arguing there just recently. All my life my family has done nothing but argue amongst themselves. I really can't stand it, once the...
    TheCheese TheCheese 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 9, 2007

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    Red Hot Anger

    I wrote it in my blog so I'll talk about it in general.  I hate conflicts with a passion.  The ones I get into never seem to get resolved unless both parties involved want to sort it out.  And I don't mean in the way I used to which was to act upon my Revenge...
    Ozislander Ozislander 31-35, F Jun 23, 2010

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    It Upsets Me

    On a deeply intensely personal level. I can't deal with it, well I shouldn't say can't deal with it, I can if I absolutely have to. But I desperately avoid it.
    DelightfulBabe08 DelightfulBabe08 26-30 Oct 9, 2008

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    It's Made Out To Be A Weakness...

    I've always known and understood that I do not receive conflict or confrontation very well. In fact, although I do not like to use the word "hate", it very much describes my dislike of both conflict and confrontation. I do not see this as a flaw, or something to be ashamed of...
    SoulSucker SoulSucker 22-25, F Aug 10, 2011

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    I break down and go silent.

    I start to cry and blame myself instantly. someone could have ruined something but it's my fault just to make the storm blow over. I hate conflict.
    briannarenee briannarenee 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    I Avoid It.........

    At all costs. I will bite my tongue, step in the middle, do anything I have to. I don't like raised voices, hands that gesture too fast, yelling, cursing, or anything else anger induced. I will do all I have to to stop it. It makes me very nervous & fearful. I'm terrified of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 10, 2009

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    A Part Of Life

    It's always going to be around, we just have to decide how much of it we choose to let ourselves be exposed to. Personally, I avoid it as much as is possible.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Feb 1, 2011

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    I Dont Like It.

    I can have a debate with someone based on reason and logic, some level of understanding..but when it becomes a competition of who raises his or her voice the highest...i hate it. People who talk over the other person and say shutup a bunch of times like it helps them prove a...
    BronzeEspada BronzeEspada 26-30, M Jul 22, 2012

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    4NeonFun 4NeonFun 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    C. is being really bad lately, especially today. I'm a bit afraid that if she keeps escalating in her behaviours she's going to be dangerous to my mother. She came over to her when...
    Nyxii Nyxii 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm from Kuwait. It was a day when I need to invite a new joinee in my office. So woke up early since I had to open the small office. I went early and saw a person sitting in the...
    thirureddy thirureddy 22-25, M Aug 4

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    Drama has its place, on stage, in movies and television and in books. But in interpersonal relations, I can live without it. Attention-seeking melodrama, woeful pity parties to...
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    Benitakey Benitakey 31-35, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Observing our current society of my generation, I wonder does ethics and morals are relavent today? I mean why I heard from Aaron clarey, a mature YouTuber once stated that you...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    It’s almost impossible to resolve a conflict with your loved one by staying away from it completely. Ignoring problems don't make them go away.
    Jensa16 Jensa16 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I'm worried about things between Israel and Palestine...peace seems so hard to get there...too many people died... My hope for a promtp end of the conflict...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    I definitely am not good at it. I try to act strong but I cannot handle it. I responded to a post here and misunderstood her statement about a guy on EP. I said that I thought he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 2

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    A year ago my best friend and I were having conversation at chow baby with one of our old teachers and she was concerned that she was settling for her boyfriend. Back then I...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    I hate the people who said it was okay, it wasn't my fault, and allowed me to be victimized. I hate the people who told me that it was okay that I have depression. Because...
    YesterdayIsOver YesterdayIsOver 13-15, F Aug 9

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    I think I'm in need of physcological help. I hate school, I hate homework, I hate how my mind set hates everything, I hate how I can't change that fact, I hate life, I hate food I...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F Aug 19

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    what i have for myself is beyond hate. i hate everything about myself. i hate my own existence. i hate my parents for having me. i hate god for creating such a weak helpless being...
    SlaveToMyBullshit SlaveToMyBullshit 18-21 1 Response Aug 1

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    yes i hate. Because for years he treats my sister and me as we are bad people . As if we are going outside with boys and we do bad actions because his mind is full of these bad and...
    themoodofsolitude themoodofsolitude 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I hate myself and I hate my life . My mom will be the death of me. I kno teens go through this "I hate my parents stage" but this is way past a stage. I strongly hate my mom and I...
    BrownSugar96 BrownSugar96 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    I hate Myself. SO much it hurts. I'm horribly ugly. I hate that there is sexism. I hate being a girl. I hate my big breasts. I hate my hair, my face, my brain, my everything. I...
    DarkOnTheInside13 DarkOnTheInside13 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 15

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    I hate having asian parents. Why? Because they push you so hard in school and wanted a Full marks as always. They wanted me to be a doctor but I wanted to be a vet. I hate it when...
    Mitzeeeeey Mitzeeeeey 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I hate myself the pain and humiliation I caused my parents by marrying outside my religion. I hate myself for for forcing my husband to convert to my religion albeit for show...
    Hbee1980 Hbee1980 31-35, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hey, I'm 18 male, and I really can't take my parents anymore. I'm thinking of running away all the time. I'm sorry, this is a bit long but I would really appreciate someone's...
    Balkan1996 Balkan1996 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 1

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    I don't hate you. I don't hate that we failed. I don't hate myself. I don't hate that it was a mistake to marry you. But I hate that you lied to me over and over. More, I hate...
    icandoit13 icandoit13 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    I was always close to my brother when we were growing up. When we grew up and moved into our own lives, I lost contact with him for a few years. Then I signed up on Facebook and we...
    Baralinel Baralinel 26-30, F a week ago

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    I learned from an early age that my parents didn't love me, they hated me. Don't misunderstand my parents love her daughter, they just hate every characteristic that makes me... me...
    SSLCO SSLCO 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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