I Hate Confrontations

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    And Yet.....

    I love to argue.. I mean, nasty argue.  I get dirty.  And yes, I really hate that about myself and strive every day not to get into it with people.....but when I do....my hot blooded Portuguese blood just takes over and WHAM!  I'm all muddy and slinging it at you...
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    Apr 7, 2010

    Stand Up

    I hate confrontations, but when one arises one of two things will happen. Either I'll try to talk my way out and come to some resolution or fight my way out, and as always, I wind up the last man standing. I'm still here as someĀ  aren't. Yeah, I carry a burden of guilt, but if...
    neonshades neonshades
    51-55, M
    Jun 16, 2012


    Confrontations,Hate 'em,Not me,Avoid if possible,They're not worth it,Why bother?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    1 Response Nov 21, 2011

    Confrontations are one of my fears.

    Fighting makes me nervous. My parents have had such violent fights that even a minor argument can send me into a panic attack. There was one night where my mom was yelling outrageous accusations at my brother and I. She called me things that still hurt to this day. Through out...
    tRueInSAnItY tRueInSAnItY
    18-21, F
    Nov 23, 2014


    I don't like confrontations and sometimes confrontations is what we need to make a situation better.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2011

    So today at work I dealt with this

    and it just bothered me to my core. I'm a grown man and I teared up in front of a woman/coworker of mine because of what happened. I work in retail customer service for a big chain grocery store, customer came to me and asked if we were out of organic blueberries we had on sale...
    Isayis23 Isayis23
    31-35, M
    Aug 2, 2015
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