I Hate Crying

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 374 People

    I hardly ever cry. I only cry

    when people die. Or my eyes water due to allergies. I went through so much trauma as a child and throughout my life, that my tear ducts sting whenever I do try to cry or when I do. Recently, my best friends little brother got emitted into a hospital for something pretty big...
    Art2Design Art2Design
    22-25, M
    May 5, 2014

    The One.

    The worst type of crying is the silent one. The one when everyone is asleep. The one you feel in your throat, and your eyes become blurry from the tears. The one where you just want to scream. The one where you have to hold your breath and grab your stomach to keep quiet. The one...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick
    18-21, F
    Mar 30, 2013

    I actually hate crying.

    It makes me feel weak and pathetic and needy. Whenever I cry it doesn't help get emotions out or whatever, it just makes me feel like a stupid child.
    discoveringisabel discoveringisabel
    16-17, F
    Apr 6, 2014

    Most of time after crying,

    I feel headache. I really hate crying but can't stop it...
    Sweetynail Sweetynail
    31-35, F
    Aug 11, 2014

    I can't stop crying like now.

    All I think about is the baby that'll never be in me. No one gets it no one gets how much I want one. I would do anything to get pregnant. Literally anything. I got no one to talk to about it.
    BooBear99 BooBear99
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    i hate it when you try to go o go to sleep

    but everytime you close your eyes youre head starts spinning and all these thoughts hit you and your entire body vibrates with pain and even your bones ache. the worst part is having no one to turn to because everyone has heard it all before and are tired of it.. thy just say...
    BrokenSilence22 BrokenSilence22
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2014

    I used to do that crying thing about every

    single day. Depression and anxiety can easily make it pretty frequent... But, since receiving medication, I haven't been able to cry for about 2 months. When I told my friends how wonderful it was not being able to cry for so long, they reacted so negatively, and they said that...
    tryingbutfailing tryingbutfailing
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014
    BlueBoy2015 BlueBoy2015
    18-21, M
    1 Response Dec 9, 2015

    I'm getting so tired of crying myself to sleep

    every night now.... I just want to stop and I can't.... it's the same thing night after night...</3
    KeKeNae KeKeNae
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 23, 2014

    I hate it when i cry then i don't feel

    or sound like myself I normally try to be the be happy go luck person but when i cry i feel weak and vulnerable and i don't like it. Does anyone else hate to cry?
    Cheshirecupacat Cheshirecupacat
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    No matter how happy I am.

    It never lasts. I lay down at night and I think about all the days ahead of me. Days without him. It kills me to know that were apart. I miss him. Even if we talk every minute of everyday, I miss him. It gets worse at night. When it's dark and quiet. I'm left alone with my...
    BrokenPhoenixx BrokenPhoenixx
    18-21, F
    Jul 7, 2014

    It reminds me I also hurt.

    ..it also reminds me I'm weak for allowing influences in my heart. I irk at the thought of falling in love again and feeling helpless, powerless and surrendered...yet tears and pain are my Constant reminder that I am alive...and strong enough to live another day.
    beloved03 beloved03
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 20, 2014

    It makes me feel weak.

    I am weak. and hopeless all the time.
    booklover200016 booklover200016
    13-15, F
    Jan 16

    Just because there's a smile on the outside,

    doesn't mean there's a smile on the inside
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 20

    I Did Enough

    When I was growing up and got spanked, I cried and cried, sometimes for hours, until the soreness in my bottom went away. When I saw a sad movie or television program, l dissolved in floods of tears, even if it was only a story. And even if I knew the storyline. When members of...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine
    61-65, F
    Jun 4, 2013

    Once i start i cant stop lol.

    Im such an emotional person i cant with myself
    lesley2456 lesley2456
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14
    BlueBoy2015 BlueBoy2015
    18-21, M
    Dec 5, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 12, 2015

    I haven't cried in a few weeks

    and last night I started thinking about stuff and I cried harder than I have In months
    drowningmeslowly drowningmeslowly
    16-17, F
    Aug 16, 2014

    What's worse then crying is

    when your crying and you cry over something you know won't change or that won't happen. It also hurts to cry about it when no one cares.
    BlueBoy2015 BlueBoy2015
    18-21, M
    Dec 8, 2015

    I feel so vulnerable

    when people see me me crying. At that moment they could say anything and it will either make me feel happy or even worse. I hate when I give people that chance to potentially hurt me. I figure I would rather act like I am always happy and break down later than to break down in...
    DontCallMeSunshine DontCallMeSunshine
    18-21, F
    Jul 15, 2014

    I no people always say crying a normal,

    but I cry to much, and how badly I try not to it happens. Like with my brother the other day hitting me in the stomach so hard it left me dizzy. I couldn't help but cry, I looked pathetic saying " ARE You backing down why are You laughing". And when he says "Your a woman your...
    dreamychan dreamychan
    16-17, F
    Feb 28, 2015

    The only reason I don't like crying is

    because I get bad headaches afterwards.
    churchdadatnight churchdadatnight
    18-21, F
    Feb 20, 2015

    It burns my eyes and gives me a headache.

    I rarely cry, but when I do it takes forever to stop. I can't remember the last time I cried in front of somebody, I don't think it's healthy to not cry sometimes. But I just hold the tears back because who wants to see a crying whiny mess. I know I don't.
    TickleMeCell TickleMeCell
    18-21, T
    Apr 12, 2015

    Especially when someone's trying to cheer you up

    and sends a long meaningful message and it just makes you cry harder.. .-.
    ForeverKittenn ForeverKittenn
    13-15, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2014

    If I Had A Choice..

    If I had a choice I would never cry. I think if there was a procedure to do it, I would have my tear ducts frozen up or something. I hate how easily I cry, and how people look at you like you are weak when you do.
    KindaSilly KindaSilly
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Oct 22, 2013

    Im depressed. Life sucks sometimes.

    Feel like im on a never-ending rollercoaster of disappointment.
    latrice2173 latrice2173
    22-25, F
    Feb 3, 2015

    I refuse to let myself

    whenever I feel it coming I shut my eyes
    Iamalostcause Iamalostcause
    22-25, M
    Nov 10, 2014

    I Hate Crying At Movies

    Call me strange, but if I know or even suspect that a movie will make me cry, I tend to avoid it, I know it sounds like a cliche, but there is enough to cry about in this world already. A lot of people find this surprising behaviour for a girl, but oddly enough, I don't like to...
    laurie37 laurie37
    18-21, F
    May 23, 2012

    Sick of It

    I have pretty much spent the past 3 weeks crying. I'll be sitting at a traffic light and its just enough time to think and get upset. I can't stop it I don't want to be this person who brings everyone down. I don't want my girlfriend to be the chick with the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Aug 15, 2009

    I hate crying so much.

    It's been awhile since I've cried.
    BlueBoy2015 BlueBoy2015
    18-21, M
    Feb 11

    I hate it when my eyes burn from crying

    so much but I hate it more when my heart hurts from holding it all in :/
    notgranted42 notgranted42
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2015

    It makes me feel so weak

    and vulnerable. If I ever start to feel that lump in my throat(that feeling usually comes out of nowhere), I immediately shove my feelings away.
    Antivist0 Antivist0
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 9, 2015

    cry for half hour, sleep

    for 2 hours, then wake up with a headache so bad I don't wanna turn on the light.. fun
    keke8714127 keke8714127
    18-21, F
    Apr 2, 2015

    I hate it but I got to.

    My heart broken j can't deal. Like crying in public sucks! Like I just started crying while mini golfing cause I didn't want to leave this one little girl (who went through something traumatic) like uggggh
    BooBear99 BooBear99
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2015

    If only I could, when I feel like I'm about to

    cry all I can do is sit there even if I know that crying will help I can't. I can't cry, and it seriously sucks sometimes
    ItsNotJustABand ItsNotJustABand
    13-15, F
    Nov 13, 2014

    “ A wise man once sat in the audience

    and cracked a joke. all laughed like crazy. After a moment he cracked the same joke again and a little less people laughed this time. He cracked the same joke again and again, when there was no more laughter in the crowd, he smiled and said, “when you cant laugh on the same...
    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 21, 2014

    I really hate crying ugh :( it always gives me

    the worst headache... Such a sucky day.....
    xoSincerelyYoursxo xoSincerelyYoursxo
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2015

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