Post

I Hate Crying

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 213 People

    "I cry about these things; my eyes overflow with tears. There is no one who can give me strength again." -Lamentations 1:16
    SirenofScarlet SirenofScarlet 18-21, F Dec 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Tears Dry On Their Own - Last night was nothing special. Nothing amazing happened, no painful and traumatic experience occurred...I simply realized just how lonely I really am. And...
    iamrae22 iamrae22 22-25, F Jun 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Crying - I can't say I've never cried, but I hate it. If crying is suppose to be a stress reliever, then why does it leave such a vacant feeling? When I cry, my voice gets all...
    bLuuejewels bLuuejewels 16-17, F Jul 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No Tears. - Crying is only a sign to me of giving in. Oh, you cannot let them beat you down. Those words they say; spiteful, bitchy, hurtful words...Pass them aside. Though they...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I didn't know humans could produce this many tears.
    AKatieToRemember AKatieToRemember 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No Tears No Pain - Crying makes me feel weak, vulnerable to people in some way. I use to cry so much even over t.v programs lol but when my mum died i don't think i every cried the...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F Jul 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Never Even Do It. - I haven't cried once since like, ninth grade. That's about four years ago. This excludes laughing really hard and the tears that escape when yawning a lot...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M Nov 15, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate crying. I feel so weak and helpless and crying is something that I feel like i have no control over. Crying before bed in my opinion is awful. You just lay there, nothing to...
    SirenofScarlet SirenofScarlet 18-21, F Dec 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If I Had A Choice.. - If I had a choice I would never cry. I think if there was a procedure to do it, I would have my tear ducts frozen up or something. I hate how easily I cry...
    KindaSilly KindaSilly 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 22, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel so unloved right now :'( </3
    SirenofScarlet SirenofScarlet 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Some days are really hard.
    asktanisha asktanisha 18-21, F Dec 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Hate Crying At Movies - Call me strange, but if I know or even suspect that a movie will make me cry, I tend to avoid it, I know it sounds like a cliche, but there is enough to...
    laurie37 laurie37 18-21, F 1 Response May 23, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Grrrr - Worse than that, I still can't shake all the years I was told I was weak nor did I ever understand the statement that I would be given something to cry about. I hate it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The One. - The worst type of crying is the silent one. The one when everyone is asleep. The one you feel in your throat, and your eyes become blurry from the tears. The one where...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 16-17, F Mar 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Refuse - I have to be having a pretty horrible day to ever actually cry about it. I won't cry in front of anyone if I can help it, and I actually don't much like crying by...
    Lexila Lexila 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2010

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Crying when you are tired and having your night not going as planned is awful! It always makes the crying worse and makes your whole day seem like it sucked. At least i can always...
    SirenofScarlet SirenofScarlet 18-21, F Jan 13

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I actually hate crying. It makes me feel weak and pathetic and needy. Whenever I cry it doesn't help get emotions out or whatever, it just makes me feel like a stupid child.
    discoveringisabel discoveringisabel 13-15, F Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am not a crier. I am not overly emotional like that, it feels weak and unnecessary to me for most things. I have never cried in front of anyone except my husband and my immediate...
    justsleeplessme justsleeplessme 31-35, F Feb 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    No Tear Zone - Now growing up I always had to be strong. Grew up in an abusive household so not much time for tears. Had to take care of my baby brother and most times had to...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 28, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Don't Cry! - Breath in don't let them out, Hold your breath, Bite your lip, Just don't let them slip out. Tears sting my eyes, I git my teeth, Breath deep, Determined not to let...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F Jul 31, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Proving I'm Worthy - I move in 1 week. I have no friends. I'm single. I'm scared about my new college. I don't know who I am. I feel incredibly guilty because my parents supported...
    iamrae22 iamrae22 22-25, F Aug 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I didn't know things could get worse but somehow they did damn life is a sick cruel joke
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can feel my tears slowly rolling down my cheek..
    hannahdhoover hannahdhoover 13-15, F Feb 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sick of It - I have pretty much spent the past 3 weeks crying. I'll be sitting at a traffic light and its just enough time to think and get upset. I can't stop it I ...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 15, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Idk if this is just me or.. Well anyway when I feel like I'm about to cry I just can't cry. I will not cry at funerals or sad movies. I just hate crying. When somebody is trying to...
    cats1234567 cats1234567 16-17, F Feb 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate crying I cry so much my eyes hurt I just want to stop crying
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F Feb 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Did Enough - When I was growing up and got spanked, I cried and cried, sometimes for hours, until the soreness in my bottom went away. When I saw a sad movie or television...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Jun 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I put on a happy facade but inside I feel burning pain because I am a grown man at the mercy of a person who is trying to help me recover from personal issues in my life. Last...
    opiumbliss opiumbliss 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't remember the last time I cried in front of others. I've never cried at school, and my friends have never seen my truly cry. Just nearly at tears from a movie *laugh*. I...
    paislin paislin 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was told one day by my mother that crying is bad and my father hates crying so I should never do it. I never shed a year in front of her. I was never a good chid in my mothers...
    Bluebren98 Bluebren98 13-15 1 Response Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is more to do with dating. But I hate always having to make the first move on someone. Cant someone come up to me for once? Bah, I probably wouldn't be able to realize that...
    Incanto33 Incanto33 31-35, M 55 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was a small child i had this horrible mean teacher she was really old had wrinkles and white hair and she didn't really know how to put make up on it all Started when I first...
    moonshine25 moonshine25 16-17, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There was a time when I never cried.. Oh how things have changed. Literally 20 minutes ago I was fine and now I'm crying. When did I lose control? Why am I always crying? I hate it...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 27 this yesterday and I hate my birthday...it's because I'll end up with loneliness and sadness and crying at the end of that day...why did I cry? Because nothing happens...
    asyilah asyilah 26-30, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm not sure how well I will be received here but I am sharing my story nonetheless. I was widowed at the age of 32 and my son was 2 1/2. I was not looking for a relationship after...
    MomofOZ2003 MomofOZ2003 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've been crying for 15 mins straight because my best friend is dating my ex and it's heart breaking it's my fault for dumping her I know I am a heartless bastard that just wants...
    Fwizzy Fwizzy 13-15, M 4 Responses Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    But I don't hate them. However, right now I can hear my mother crying in the next room. My father has been grumpy with me the whole week. I don't know what is going on! I just...
    Eisbrecher Eisbrecher 18-21, F Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My younger sister is very rude, dramatic, and very annoying. I used love my sister, I have pictures of me kissing her and hugging her as a child. Many pictures. She is like 15...
    ll0205 ll0205 13-15 Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hate is a very strong word, so I'll try not to use it. I have a stepson (he's 15 now) who I have been around since he was 6. I knew that he was gay the day I met him. That is of no...
    needinghelpbadly needinghelpbadly 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Crying. I despise crying. It's amazing how a person's simple words or actions can alter your mood. I cry for you (if you seem incapable). I cry with you (when you need a...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Once my mum scolded me and sort of slapped me, I cried. I was asked to stop. "No one's dying, why r u crying?" that's what she said. If i'm hurt, why can't i cry? Do i not have the...
    xxrara xxrara 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel as though I should not hate my parents, but the more I try not to... the more I do. I am 20. My parents have been apart since I was 4. They has an over 10 year divorce...
    AnimalsAreLife AnimalsAreLife 18-21, F Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate her! More than that, I despise her I wish she was dead. She thinks that she's all perfect and whatever she says is right, I'm just not. She verbally abuses me and nobody...
    bubbly12 bubbly12 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My father fought cancer for 2 years. My family didn't take it serious at first but I did and fought for alternative methods besides the poison chemo which I knew would do nothing...
    Hateforever Hateforever 36-40, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's longish but Every word is true. Ladies I am especially interested I'm your takes please brutal honesty....... I hope you get a laugh from my real life pains. This is my...
    googielee googielee 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was around 12 or 13, I became pretty sick and couldn't/wouldn't eat or even drink for days. I was taken to the hospital and they decided to do a blood test and get some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Did You Hear Me Crying Mama?- Though the scene unfolded over a decade ago I can still see it clearly. There's 11 year old me kneeling with face to the wall and arms up like I've...
    UnwantedMutt UnwantedMutt 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    On April 4, 2014 I lost my wife of 25 years to Lung Cancer. I miss her very much. She was my best friend and companion. I have done a lot of crying and more crying.
    vazquezj vazquezj 51-55, M 4 Responses a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't smoke weed and I hate to hear about it when people do. Can you just keep it to yourself? No I do not want to have a conversation in public with you about smoking illegal...
    rose114 rose114 16-17, F Mar 18

    Your Response

    Cancel
    epic stupidity--this includes, complaining just about everything and not doing something about it, crying over abusive addict husband and not leaving him 'cause he's got nice wheel...
    FoxxySilverCrow FoxxySilverCrow 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Hate my sister more then anything in the world. We have divorces parents and i chose to live with mum and she chose to live with dad. She gets treated like an absolute princess...
    hatehateee hatehateee 18-21 Mar 25