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I Hate Crying

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    Crying

    I can't say I've never cried, but I hate it. If crying is suppose to be a stress reliever, then why does it leave such a vacant feeling? When I cry, my voice gets all croaky, I get the sniffles, and anything that comes out of my mouth is incoherent. I HATE crying, yet I've done...
    bLuuejewels bLuuejewels 16-17, F Jul 8, 2013

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    I hate seeing women cry* It's the worst thing,

    they look so sad, and then when they try to catch their breath, it just makes my heart melt. The worst time this ever happened was when a very beautiful and lovely friend of mine said to me, 'Why doesn't he want me?' and then started crying. That was a horrible thing to see.
    Ryanholmes20375 Ryanholmes20375 18-21, M 4 Responses Jun 23

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    No Tear Zone

    Now growing up I always had to be strong. Grew up in an abusive household so not much time for tears. Had to take care of my baby brother and most times had to help my mom. So I learned to keep everything inside and to this day I still do. My mom cried all the time which is...
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 28, 2011

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    I Refuse

    I have to be having a pretty horrible day to ever actually cry about it. I won't cry in front of anyone if I can help it, and I actually don't much like crying by myself. I don't really know why, I just think there's better things I should be doing other than crying about...
    Lexila Lexila 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2010

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    Tears Dry On Their Own

    Last night was nothing special. Nothing amazing happened, no painful and traumatic experience occurred...I simply realized just how lonely I really am. And I cried. I felt so silly for crying over something I can't really fix right now, and I hate crying in general. But I couldnt...
    iamrae22 iamrae22 22-25, F Jun 8, 2013

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    No matter how happy I am.

    It never lasts. I lay down at night and I think about all the days ahead of me. Days without him. It kills me to know that were apart. I miss him. Even if we talk every minute of everyday, I miss him. It gets worse at night. When it's dark and quiet. I'm left alone with my...
    BrokenPhoenixx BrokenPhoenixx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    If I Had A Choice..

    If I had a choice I would never cry. I think if there was a procedure to do it, I would have my tear ducts frozen up or something. I hate how easily I cry, and how people look at you like you are weak when you do.
    KindaSilly KindaSilly 36-40, F 6 Responses Oct 22, 2013

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    I feel so vulnerable

    when people see me me crying. At that moment they could say anything and it will either make me feel happy or even worse. I hate when I give people that chance to potentially hurt me. I figure I would rather act like I am always happy and break down later than to break down in...
    Nirvana4Life Nirvana4Life 18-21, F Jul 15

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    No Tears.

    Crying is only a sign to me of giving in. Oh, you cannot let them beat you down. Those words they say; spiteful, bitchy, hurtful words...Pass them aside. Though they hurt to the core, don't let it bring you down. That's right... Head up. Walk away. No tears.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 4, 2013

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    Lol. Omfg. Avoid it

    whenever possible many ways. Think of other things. Easy thanks to brains. And bipolar rapid. Throw rocks. Make twigs shorter. Go carnal cerebrally. Locate comedy. But cant avoid it forever. Howl like a coyote. Ask God why. And bawl as i...
    converted converted 46-50, M Jun 19

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    Sick of It

    I have pretty much spent the past 3 weeks crying. I'll be sitting at a traffic light and its just enough time to think and get upset. I can't stop it I don't want to be this person who brings everyone down. I don't want my girlfriend to be the chick with the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 15, 2009

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    It reminds me I also hurt.

    ..it also reminds me I'm weak for allowing influences in my heart. I irk at the thought of falling in love again and feeling helpless, powerless and surrendered...yet tears and pain are my Constant reminder that I am alive...and strong enough to live another day.
    beloved03 beloved03 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    “ A wise man once sat in the audience

    and cracked a joke. all laughed like crazy. After a moment he cracked the same joke again and a little less people laughed this time. He cracked the same joke again and again, when there was no more laughter in the crowd, he smiled and said, “when you cant laugh on the same...
    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 21

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    I hardly ever cry. I only cry

    when people die. Or my eyes water due to allergies. I went through so much trauma as a child and throughout my life, that my tear ducts sting whenever I do try to cry or when I do. Recently, my best friends little brother got emitted into a hospital for something pretty big...
    Art2Design Art2Design 18-21, M May 5

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    I Did Enough

    When I was growing up and got spanked, I cried and cried, sometimes for hours, until the soreness in my bottom went away. When I saw a sad movie or television program, l dissolved in floods of tears, even if it was only a story. And even if I knew the storyline. When members of...
    MaryJanine MaryJanine 56-60, F Jun 4, 2013

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    hannahdhoover hannahdhoover 13-15, F Feb 2

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    Don't Cry! Breath in don't let them out,

    Hold your breath, Bite your lip, Just don't let them slip out. Tears sting my eyes, I git my teeth, Breath deep, Determined not to let them slip. I will not be seen so weak, Won't let one leak, No matter how hard it is.
    Raindrops18 Raindrops18 31-35, F Jun 18

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    asktanisha asktanisha 22-25, F Dec 30, 2013

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    I Never Even Do It.

    I haven't cried once since like, ninth grade. That's about four years ago. This excludes laughing really hard and the tears that escape when yawning a lot. Since that point in time, I've gotten and broken up with a girlfriend, graduated from high school, and watched the entire...
    tgf12 tgf12 18-21, M Nov 15, 2012

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    I Hate Crying At Movies

    Call me strange, but if I know or even suspect that a movie will make me cry, I tend to avoid it, I know it sounds like a cliche, but there is enough to cry about in this world already. A lot of people find this surprising behaviour for a girl, but oddly enough, I don't like to...
    laurie37 laurie37 18-21, F May 23, 2012

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    It seems that once I start.

    ..Every single thing that I have repressed since the last time I let my guard down comes flooding to the front of my mind, and I become inconsolable for a few minutes. I absolutely hate the feeling of losing control of my emotions. What's worse...is I hate the fact that there...
    katastrofic katastrofic 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    iamnoor iamnoor 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Like A Fukking F@g!

    But that's what I'm doing. I'm sooo tired of life. I don't think I can stay alive anymore. I don't wanna be alive anymore when there's no one here for me. Why do I always gotta be alone? Why do people gotta lie when I give them everything.....I always end up with a ******* knife...
    ScottyIsaDinosaurMotherfuckers ScottyIsaDinosaurMotherfuckers 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 8, 2011

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    The One.

    The worst type of crying is the silent one. The one when everyone is asleep. The one you feel in your throat, and your eyes become blurry from the tears. The one where you just want to scream. The one where you have to hold your breath and grab your stomach to keep quiet. The one...
    SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick SkinnyThoughtsAndRedLipstick 16-17, F Mar 30, 2013

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    Grrrr

    Worse than that, I still can't shake all the years I was told I was weak nor did I ever understand the statement that I would be given something to cry about. I hate it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 13, 2011

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    Proving I'm Worthy

    I move in 1 week. I have no friends. I'm single. I'm scared about my new college. I don't know who I am. I feel incredibly guilty because my parents supported me entirely when I left my abuser...financially, emotionally, college tuition, bought me food and gave me my old room to...
    iamrae22 iamrae22 22-25, F Aug 18, 2013

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    Idk if this is just me or.

    . Well anyway when I feel like I'm about to cry I just can't cry. I will not cry at funerals or sad movies. I just hate crying. When somebody is trying to tell me something serious I can't be serious. I try to ignore it and make a joke or talk about something else.
    cats1234567 cats1234567 16-17, F Feb 2

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    I actually hate crying.

    It makes me feel weak and pathetic and needy. Whenever I cry it doesn't help get emotions out or whatever, it just makes me feel like a stupid child.
    discoveringisabel discoveringisabel 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    I Allwas Cry

    my MOM is the one who makes me cry
    buliej buliej 13-15 May 19, 2010

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    I am not a crier. I am not overly emotional

    like that, it feels weak and unnecessary to me for most things. I have never cried in front of anyone except my husband and my immediate family and even then very rarely. I come from a gaggle of criers who do not understand me, but that is ok - they can cry me a river, I will...
    justsleeplessme justsleeplessme 31-35, F Feb 10

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    That is literally my pet peeve. I hate it so much. I just don't want people to think in weak. But I haven't cried recently so I'm all good 😊
    Everystormends Everystormends 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    I usually pretend that I'm happy so that others don't become upset or sad. I hold back my tears so that others can smile.I hate crying sometimes because I always feel so vulnerable...
    Smileeboo Smileeboo 16-17, F Jul 2

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    When I argue with someone I cry when it gets really heated. I don't know why. Always have. I hate crying bc I feel like a baby & don't seem to have the same effect to an argument...
    Gingerl1652 Gingerl1652 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    i hate my school. i hate people who talk esotericly i can't understand them. i hate it. next time, when someone who is intellectual wants to talk to me, i will say no. i have...
    blue1324 blue1324 18-21 3 hrs ago

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    I really do hate it. I don't know who wouldn't hate it. Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me? That's bull, straight bull. Wounds can heal. It may take...
    KilljoyTillTheEnd KilljoyTillTheEnd 16-17, F 2 hrs ago

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    I really hate my ****** up life these days. Fuckinf fuq fuuwvwkwbqjckk. I really hate my dam mind too. I just hate.
    Sometimesilence Sometimesilence 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    I hate my parents so much. There is not one redeeming quality I can name. Let me explain a little. Firstly, my dad. He's not that bad, if you compare him to my mother, but he is...
    ICouldBeAnyone ICouldBeAnyone 31-35 6 days ago

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    I just feel really bummed out. I feel like i hate myself. I hate all the small things. I hate how I look. I hate how I yell back at my mom. I hate how I don't spend enough time...
    MissCheekyFaced MissCheekyFaced 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Okay I think this is extremely unfair but here is my story; My mum has been raising me since my dad was sent away when I was 9 (To god knows where, I have a feeling it is jail and...
    AsherWest AsherWest 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate myself, absolutely hate myself. Why do I feel like this, why can't I be normal? Why can't I love myself unconditionally, even if I were to be flawed, why? Why did I have to...
    EmmaTrowwy EmmaTrowwy 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Seriously, I HATE my boyfriends dog. He got his dog from his ex, and no im not jealous of the dog or that he got it from his ex. This dog is ruining our relationship. I recently...
    kimberlyfaith21 kimberlyfaith21 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate pictures of me I look so weird in them I don't know I am the kind of people who has no self confidence when it comes to pictures I look at it n I hate how I look in it...
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel claustrophobic in my own skin. I don't want to be me anymore. I honestly don't know how people go through life "happy" because for me life is literally just hard. It's hard...
    marisolitude marisolitude 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    Why do I hate myself? I look deep inside myself to answer the question and all I see is a monster staring back at me. In my eyes, I see Frankenstein without the scars and body...
    scooterp23 scooterp23 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 12

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    Since I've moved out from my Mum's place six years ago, I have moved 12 times. The longest I've stayed in one place in those six years is two years. I have moved around for various...
    annebelle88 annebelle88 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Yesterday they said your so crazy you should've married Aj Lee i'm sitting there mumbling to my self well i hope lucifer comes up and rips your soul you ******* i wanna become a...
    CrazyUnStableGuy666 CrazyUnStableGuy666 26-30, M 1 hr ago

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    I absolutely hate my dad. He's so damn annoying.
    Smiles1997 Smiles1997 16-17, F 54 mins ago

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    Whatever I do/try, I cannot keep a lasting relationship with people, friends OR boyfriends. This one guy started texting me a few weeks ago and he'd call me beautiful, tell me I'm...
    shlumbug shlumbug 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    i got spanked on fourth of july in front of family us kids were setting off fireworks which was really fun then i started fighting with derrick and he was being a d*** daddy and...
    Tygersilk Tygersilk 13-15, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    PLEASE HELP :😭HERE WE GO AGAIN I ACCIDENTALLY WENT TO PUT MY SHIRT AWAY AND THERE MY STUPID YOUNGER BROTHER THAT I WISH I NEVER HAD CONES UP AND I ACCIDENTALLY HIT HIM WITH MY...
    bela5562 bela5562 13-15, F Jul 6

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