I Hate Dead Beat Parents

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    Child Support The Laws And Security Laws

    STATE PLAN FOR CHILD AND SPOUSAL SUPPORT Sec. 454. [42 U.S.C. 654]  A State plan for child and spousal support must— (1) provide that it shall be in effect in all political subdivisions of the State; (2) provide for financial participation by the State...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    P.t.s.d Daddy

    He was an ex-Army boy with nightmares that rivaled my own. In a life not without it's hardships, we were fast friends and even faster lovers. Rebound relationships often burn brightly, but they burn out fast. It wasn't long until he started cheating on me, and I should have seen...
    AyvaRayne AyvaRayne
    22-25
    Feb 16, 2012

    $2.00 A Month Child Support And He Is 6 Months Behind

    I recently got married to a wonderful man who has been supporting the children that are not his, minus food stamps. The state has now taken my food stamps and is not raising my child support, nor are they making him pay his back child support. At $2.00 a month what can be done...
    kcarriec kcarriec
    36-40
    1 Response Apr 27, 2012

    Dead Beat Mom

    My ex-wife is a dead beat mom.I used to get mad about how much money she owes me in back child support, but now I realize I will probably never see a dime of it.Both of our kids are over 18 and living on their own. Sometimes I wonder if she think that the kids are grown and out...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy
    51-55, M
    1 Response Jul 9, 2012

    This Makes Me Sad

    First let me say my ex was a dead beat . Let me start by saying I know the system is a mess some pay so much they can't afford to live others the bare minimum. Joel and I raised my kids and our daughter , he never said anything about it except we were better off with my ex out of...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    Dec 26, 2010

    What Is A Parent ?

    its a person that loves a child they had supports the child even if the relationship breaks up or ends in divorce . so many dont know what child support means its support for the child s needs to eat ,for a home ,school suplies,doctor bills the things a child needs to live . my...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    Jul 23, 2011

    Child Support And The Laws

    ocial Security Act Home   CONSENT BY THE UNITED STATES TO INCOME WITHHOLDING, GARNISHMENT, AND SIMILAR PROCEEDINGS FOR ENFORCEMENT OF CHILD SUPPORT AND ALIMONY OBLIGATIONS Sec. 459. [42 U.S.C. 659] (a) Consent to Support Enforcement.—Notwithstanding...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    Deadbeats Should Be Held Accountable

    I have two children. Their father has his own business...a very successful business that allows him to travel on pleasure trips, to buy new boats, jetskis, add onto his house, buy motorcycles, etc. all the while he is ignoring the court order to pay child support to me.  He...
    CherryAlmond CherryAlmond
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 2, 2011

    Grrr...

    As someone who grew up with dead beat parents I can agree with this epxperience title completely. Not only were they dead beat but my mother was absent. But I just happened to be lucky enough to have my grandmother and grandfather there to raise me. And they gave me plenty of...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty
    18-21, F
    Aug 21, 2008

    My Step-daughter's Biological Mother Is The World's Biggest Deadbeat. That's A Nice Way Of Putting It.

    I met and married a man with a daughter who shares my name, my heart and my home. We have full custody. I call her daughter, and treat her as such (being adopted myself, it matters little to me who gave birth to whom). Her mother left her for some guy she met playing...
    fhgi fhgi
    31-35
    7 Responses Dec 28, 2011

    A Must Read Story

    This story is actually one I READ. I found it so real and touching that I just had to post it. Here's the blog: bit.ly/ntmO9e I think the good values and perspective are in there when it comes to deadbeat parents.
    stephanier stephanier
    26-30
    Jul 15, 2011

    A Letter to a Dead Beat Father ..

    Children are living breathing human beings - not cute little puppies that you leave on a street corner, drop with relatives, or abandon when you get tired of the responsibility. They are a life long commitment.You are self servant and engrossed with your own feelings, your...
    CamronBunny CamronBunny
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 15, 2009

    Need Any Advise!

    Need some advise to help deal with a dead beat dad! My fiance has 2 awesome sons from a previous marriage, ages being 5 and 7, we have been together for a little over 4 years. These boys are my life and I spend every waking moment with them. Here is a little back ground on the...
    CamronBunny CamronBunny
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 11, 2009

    I Have 2 Ex's That Never Parented When They Were With Us and After They Left.

    The 1st ex was someone I married when I turned 18yrs and was pregnant.  Unfortunately, he left after our 2nd child was 3 months old & I was 19.  He did pay his measly $100.00 a month so his children could eat.  But lived in one state over and had nothing to do...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Sep 19, 2008

    Deadbeats Should Be Held Accountable

    I have been fighting this battle for 16 yrs. in the state of Maine.  The judicial system here is a joke.  My son's father owes over $40,000 and the state of Maine refuses to do any thing.  The state of Maine does not take the deadbeats drivers licence, nor do they...
    JoanofArk2 JoanofArk2
    36-40
    4 Responses Jul 16, 2009

    As some one who has known the pain of loosing a

    child, I often find myself wondering how some people are permitted to raise children. I see people who neglect and starve their children so they can get high. I've seen a man spank a child for crying because he had been spanked. I see these kind of things on a daily basis and I...
    sanchez77 sanchez77
    36-40, M
    Feb 5, 2014

    Deadbeat Moms The Book

    Eventhough, some people will dislike the birth of my book deadbeat Moms Stories, this book is certainly needed. check out the site at www.deadbeatmomstories.com
    deadbeatmoms11 deadbeatmoms11
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 23, 2012

    Deadbeat Dad Blog?

    A friend of a friend started this blog (confessionsofadeadbeat.wordpress.com), and it could be interesting. I already can relate to several of the experiences in the back story, and I'm following it because I'm curious.
    rougelioness rougelioness
    31-35
    Dec 20, 2011

    Just Another Deadbeat Story

    In April of 2008, my husband and I separated.  I turned stupid and by June of 08, I had looked up my first love.  We had dated for two years as kids, and I remembered he was the kindest man I had ever been with.  I already had two girls with my husband.  I did...
    mistyr26 mistyr26
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2010

    I Hate Dead Beat Dad's Or Mothers

    I dislike  deadbeat parents . this blog is not ment to  effend or hate on men , I am only speaking from my life and what my ex has done to his daughter  most men are good men ,. I did what was right for my daughter and i will not apologies for doing what was right for her .i...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Dec 29, 2007

    One In Particular Comes to Mind

    My stepson's mother has not had any custody for 9 months. She has also not paid a dime of child support. Legally, she has not been ordered to pay, but I don't think that's an excuse for not caring for your child. It's frustrating.
    GodlessSexMachine GodlessSexMachine
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2008

    He Makes Me Sick

    My ex is pretty much in the category of a deadbeat dad. John rarely picks up the phone to call our son and see how he is doing and he has the audacity to be late on his measly $84.00 a month child support. Meanwhile he is married with three other children he cant support, his...
    SpyderBaxter SpyderBaxter
    70+, F
    3 Responses Dec 13, 2011

    Makes Me Want To Destroy Things.

    I just love it when dead beats come up with all sorts of excuses and apologizes as to why they are not an active role in their child's life. Not only do I go through this personally in dealing with my daughter's biological father but now my best friend is dealing with it as well...
    CuteInChaos CuteInChaos
    18-21, F
    May 14, 2011

    Father of the Years In Town

    Father of the years in town showering my daughter with money  i told her spend all she can off him . lord knows last christmas he didnt even send her a card or any thing that hurt my daughter so bad.
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Feb 20, 2008

    Stop Making the Break Up About You

    I wished people would stop being so childesh when they divorce or break up,my ex that i lefted 7 years ago is spredding lies about me and my husband donlad my ex greg is telling everyone that the reason he wont come see his daughter is becalse i had a affaire with donald back...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Sep 14, 2008

    DID You Know

    Did you know that parents that dont pay all the child support payments you still can collect after the child turns 18 years old? did you also know that if you are owed child support and you are the child that was owed the child support after you turn 18 or 19 years old you can...
    lunnas lunnas
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Feb 4, 2008

    Left Alone

    My daughter has lived without her biological father most of her life. We decided to break it off when she was 2 months old, he was a terrible father and it lead me to my decision to part seperate ways, but I have a huge heart and gave him chances to be the father I thought deep...
    harleycs harleycs
    22-25
    1 Response Oct 15, 2012
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