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I Hate Drama

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    I don't like confrontation much.

    Most of all situations are stupid and not worth the time or trouble.
    Booksaremypassion Booksaremypassion 41-45, F Mar 5

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    Drama is for high school people I'm

    so over that I don't like it or like to surround myself with people that do or crave the attention and have the urge to start drama we all are adults and if someone has a problem with someone go to them face to face and say it! How I feel
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777 26-30, F Mar 4

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    oakdolphinking oakdolphinking 13-15, M Feb 23

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    I Wish He Didn'T Hate Me..

    Ok so I like this guy and he seems to hate me... I mean we've talked and joked around in language arts ONCE and it was awesome! But before and after that he just seems to want nothing to do with me! In math he sits next to me and we NEVER talk but he talks to the people behind us...
    kenken058 kenken058 13-15, F Nov 3, 2013

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    Just My Luck

    im not entirely sure how i ended up in my best friends drama but im tired of hearing everyones mouth.
    xsempiternxl xsempiternxl 16-17, F Nov 18, 2013

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    Drama In Life

    I'm in 8th grade. And this years already getting tough. I Have a best friend thats mad at me because i tryed helping her out with a boy problem an no they completly flipped the whole story around! No she doesn't like him anymore and she's heart broken. I just simply said "I'll...
    Bunnyboo13 Bunnyboo13 16-17, F Oct 9, 2013

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    Okay I'm done with the drama.

    .... Ugh I hate myself so much.....
    GaleJake GaleJake 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    People if you don't like an username,

    a post, a picture or the context of someone's post there is no reason to argue and then continue bashing them. It's uncalled for. Just leave it alone.
    blackpantyaffair blackpantyaffair 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Drama Free

    I think that says it all. I don't go out of my way to find it, would rather avoid it at all costs. So tired of people going out of their way to cause it in other people's lives then sitting back and enjoying the show. People whose lives are so pathetic that they have to knock...
    digitaloverload digitaloverload 31-35, M Nov 22, 2013

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    Ok I hate personal drama.

    Why are my wife's friends idiots? Wife is on phone now with her bestie. Bestie has her own business, but has refused for years to raise her rates, or charge her customers properly (overtime, last minute, but necessary purchases), and she wonders why she is broke and overworked...
    AlexGreyson AlexGreyson 46-50, M 2 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    Already This Morning!

    Here I am a 28 year old Mother with her life almost together, and I still have highschool drama to deal with EVERY DAMN DAY!!! Already this morning I get a text from som girl with horrible grammar... you know the type to talk in slang and all that jazz. I'm reading text from a...
    jessybaby28 jessybaby28 26-30, F 8 Responses Sep 17, 2010

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    Cut it from you're life

    and life becomes simple. It's how I came to terms to living in this **** world
    maggielue maggielue 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    D.R.A.M.A.

    Dumb Retards Asking For Attention this goes to the barbie ******* at school who freak over the smallest things, and make a big scene!!! -.- cant take your drama!!!
    ProfessorPsycho ProfessorPsycho 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Seriously any drama always hurts me.

    Whether it's friends or family it just sucks period. And I just shut it out if I can.
    Stimpy101 Stimpy101 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 20

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    Striving to Be Mistake Free.

    I posted a story last night at 2 am. The beginning of the story I pasted the definition of a word. Unfortunately When pasting the definition I had also copied another paragraph with the definition. Mello disagreed with that paragraph. I went and read the paragraph she mentioned...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 43 Responses May 20, 2008

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    Many Of Those Who Say They Hate It, Cause It

    One of the things I've noticed is that a lot of the people I've interacted with in real life that say they can't stand drama are the very ones who cause it. Then they blame those around them for creating it. They project themselves onto others, yet they are blind to their own...
    justbeit justbeit 46-50, M 7 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    Those Girls

    People don't even know me and they think they can sit there and judge me. What the hell is that? I have learned that those girls and those people will turn others against you and start roumors you don't even know how people manage to start. All they are loking for is to start...
    ThatGurlDailyy ThatGurlDailyy 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2011

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    Sometimes You Just Need to Be Selfish...

    because it's the finest form of self preservation.  Try this little template on for size. 1.  "I do not like how I feel when I'm with you, in this situation", or insert your own issue at will.  Note: never use "how you make me feel" etc...
    IAmStillSomeone IAmStillSomeone 41-45, F 8 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    You Can't Escape It With Some People.

    I have a mother n law, well I call her outlaw, since my husband died. She thrives on making drama out of the smallest things. First it was over my husbands death, this wasn't normal grief, even my husband would argue with her while he was dying that it wasn't about her but about...
    honeysuckle23 honeysuckle23 46-50, F 8 Responses Jun 1, 2011

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    It's ironic that the people

    who complain about drama are the ones who fuel the fire with it; Simple solution to drama - keep your mouth shut!
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M Mar 15

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    Being Grown Up

    Being grown up rarely has anything to do with your age. It has more to do with your actions, words, tolerance, and the ability to let go. I see so many petty people who go on for days about the same thing...from being called a name, being disagreed with, being blocked and my...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering 70+, F 6 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    I Hate Drama And Live That Way

    I hate to be in drama And live in that as a kid; And don't wanted to live like that in more. When it is like that . I live and get out. Can not stand to be there. I like a clam sitting and not be in that. I get the shakes.
    ladywolf123 ladywolf123 51-55, F Jun 16, 2012

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    I Hate Drama.

    I hate it. I despise it. I don't even wanna touch it with a stick. I'm just really not good with confrontation. As tough as I seem to the people I know I'm very sensitive. I also have a low tolerance for bullshit. But my way of dealing with things is to walk away. Which isn't...
    LennonLover LennonLover 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2012

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    My Life Right Now!

    Drama is killing me slowly!! 😤🔫 The girl who I thought was my bestfriend is turning her back on me and our circle of friends! This is all over a stupid situation that didn't even include her! She's so Nosey and gets in everyone's business and now she's losing friends over...
    SweetLuvvv SweetLuvvv 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2013

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    Drama? Get Out!

    Some people live on drama life. I don't associate with them. Drama on TV like those talk shows? Gahhh! I can't stand them for long. It's like rubbing a cat's fur the wrong way and it ticks the cat off! I don't listen to gossip or drama stuff my neighbors gab about. I don't want...
    noaht43 noaht43 41-45, T Oct 25, 2012

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    I Don't Get It.

    When I get bored, I watch T.V or go for a bike ride. Some people just like to start drama. I have never enjoyed drama. I just want everyone to be happy. I even will tell white lies to keep people from fighting. I will keep a secret from my husband because I know he has a big...
    ss378008 ss378008 31-35, F Jun 17, 2012

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    How To Be A Decent Human Being

    Say what you mean and mean what you say.
    MyNameIsHurl MyNameIsHurl 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    I hate it when girls are

    so caught up in this drama that really don't mean anything I think that it's the most pathetic piece of crap it's stupid as hell I just wish some girls would keep their mouth's shut and have never even brought it up
    officalredneck09 officalredneck09 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    Check Your Bags @ the Door

    I think we all have enough bs to deal with every day that any self inflicted problem is over the top. Let it go your still alive,  cuz I can hear you whine. your making it worse. please  i just broke away from someone who said they hate drama,.......... holy sh*t I...
    Un4given Un4given 36-40, M 2 Responses Nov 4, 2007

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    Hate Drama

    I hate drama so much there one person that bugs me everyday if her drama life I had it hearing the same thing everyday now I'm pretty sure most if you has heard this before she had all these boyfriend first she loves them then she hates them then loves them again back and forth...
    loveciel loveciel 18-21, F Oct 28, 2013

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    Ok first off I hate drama

    so much. I've delt with so much friend drama its not even funny. Mostly caused by the same two people, just in completely different ways. The past two years at summer camp have been a walking drama disaster. And all caused by the same person. She is my best friend though and I...
    ordinarygirl101 ordinarygirl101 13-15, F Jan 13

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    No Drama

    I love my "stable", "boring" life, thank you very much.
    Awanputih Awanputih 18-21 Nov 1, 2013

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    So my best friend stressed me out again.

    This is what happen my friend likes her brother's friend and his only friend he has. So she wants to go on a date with this guy. But her grandma who she lives with will not let her go on a date with him else her brother goes with her on a double dated so she will be safe etc...
    yellowsunset yellowsunset 18-21, F Jan 16

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    Drama Free Zone

    I hate drama, so save it for your mama. Word, over and out.Peace
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Sep 30, 2012

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    I really don't care what people say about me.

    I am over it,and the drama every where is annoying. It's like what your mom or dad or someone that's older then you and you look up to says " if you can't say anything nice don't say a damn thing!" So I think we can learn from that because that is annoying the drama and judging...
    Meganh13 Meganh13 13-15, F Mar 21

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    Gosh that's just my luck I found a girl

    and started talking to her she was nice and we had a lot in common so we started dating. When I woke up today she told her ex (whom she never told me about) that I was beating her and so I woke up with him at my front door with a gun. I hit him with the door and then crushed...
    Bigdog1982 Bigdog1982 22-25, M 1 Response Feb 11

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    We Humans Often Create Our Own Messes

    As I get older, it is clearer to me that most of the drama in our lives is entirely unnecessary. As the years pass, they seem to pass quicker and time is more valuable to me than ever before. I rarely waste my precious time on drama of any sort, especially the elective kind of...
    hillbillycrone hillbillycrone 51-55, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2011

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    Have Seen Enough to Last a Lifetime

    I have been there done that.  I don't want it or need it.  You got drama, take it outside.  I don't need to hear it. 
    darlene darlene 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 24, 2008

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    Facebook

    Oh my goodness, my cousins just had a fight over facebook and sincerely it was so stupid it was entertainment for me all night. A posted that B's girlfriend was a ****. B commented defending himself and A's idiot friends ganged up on poor B. B made his own status where A acted...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 13, 2012

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    I have more guy friends

    than girls because when u get in to a fight it's over in like ten minutes and they dont care about how u look
    matti1342 matti1342 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    In All Honesty...

    Zero patience for it...I respect those that take responsibility for their own actions as well as remain open to learning from their experiences for personal growth.Top 3 Professional pet peeves:1. saying, "I don't know" w/o attempting 2 find someone that does...2. blaming someone...
    sunshinegirl23 sunshinegirl23 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 17, 2013

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    Just Grow - Up

    I did not ask for a part in your drama and don't wish to participate. Please grow -  up We are all "adults" here We left middle school long ago I don't want a part in your little play You must have me mistaken with someone that is interested in you life I am not I have my own...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    All the World Is a Stage.

    I didn't take a theatre class because I enjoy highschool drama. Yet the saying "All the world is a stage" can be used to compare the art of theatre perfomances to the highschool drama found in the everyday lives of so many people, including adults. Here are ten things...
    lilmisscuteness lilmisscuteness 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 28, 2008

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    Have not had this a hour even

    and already going to swipe this drama filled **** away!
    Wright11 Wright11 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 20

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    No Drama For Me, But Thanks For Asking

    I'm here to share stories with you . I'm here to be friends.  I'm here to support you when I can. I'm here to be silly with you and laugh at the goofy things in life. I'm here to cry with you. I'm here to be myself, just as real as I am away from this screen.   I...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 9 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    It Becomes Apparent

    If drama is something that seems to follow you, it may not be the other people. If you feel that you are the cause and the effect of everything around you then really, it isn't other people, it's you. Like minded people will continue on and help you feed into it, be very wary of...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering 70+, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Some 'Friends'

    My friends left me because they weren't chosen for the play. I'm the Student Director but I don't pick who gets what. Now no one is speaking to me.
    martina79416 martina79416 18-21, F Oct 18, 2013

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    Drama Causes Wars Big And Small

    Were it not for drama, I believe this world would be peaceful. I mean think about it. Know it alls and greedy power mungers have caused more Drama on global and national levels throughout history. Then you go to the churchs or the townhall meetings or into the schools and homes...
    CAnnesdad CAnnesdad 41-45, M Nov 10, 2012

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    To me I think there is lots of girls

    who gossip too much about every little thing, maybe that's why I have so many guy friends. -SG
    StRiKiNgEEk StRiKiNgEEk 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 1

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    I don't deal well with emotions.

    I truly believe that life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it (Charles Swindoll). I like to deal with things and move on. Dwelling on it is a huge pet peeve of mine.
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 7

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    Most People Bring It On Themselves And Dont Even Realize It

    they either surround themselves with drama filled people, or they themselves are causing it.
    EdgeCrusher EdgeCrusher 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    Work 50 Miles From Home To Avoid It!

    Ok, I didn't take my current job to avoid our small town drama. I just quickly learned that was one of the major perks of having a job so far from home. Even though I hear a lot of peoples' drama at my job... it's not coming from my neighbors, friends, or family...nor about them...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 6 Responses May 14, 2013

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    BreMarley BreMarley 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Indulging those who have a Histrionic

    Personality Disorder is beneath me. Take ur Drama to someone else :)
    Myztikal Myztikal 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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