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I Hate Drama

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    Shrinking the circle!

    Yep, had to do a little pruning lol. I'm in my 30s now and quite frankly I just don't do drama. I got rid of a few friends, cut out a few family members, and no more facebook (dramabook). And let me tell ya, life has been so much smoother! Yay! One of my friends (of about 15...
    jlestep jlestep 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Work 50 Miles From Home To Avoid It!

    Ok, I didn't take my current job to avoid our small town drama. I just quickly learned that was one of the major perks of having a job so far from home. Even though I hear a lot of peoples' drama at my job... it's not coming from my neighbors, friends, or family...nor about them...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 6 Responses May 14, 2013

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    How To Be A Decent Human Being

    Say what you mean and mean what you say.
    MyNameIsHurl MyNameIsHurl 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    Just Grow - Up

    I did not ask for a part in your drama and don't wish to participate. Please grow -  up We are all "adults" here We left middle school long ago I don't want a part in your little play You must have me mistaken with someone that is interested in you life I am not I have my own...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F 7 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    JamesHuff JamesHuff 16-17, M 4 Responses Jun 26

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    D.R.A.M.A.

    Dumb Retards Asking For Attention this goes to the barbie ******* at school who freak over the smallest things, and make a big scene!!! -.- cant take your drama!!!
    ProfessorPsycho ProfessorPsycho 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Striving to Be Mistake Free.

    I posted a story last night at 2 am. The beginning of the story I pasted the definition of a word. Unfortunately When pasting the definition I had also copied another paragraph with the definition. Mello disagreed with that paragraph. I went and read the paragraph she mentioned...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 40 Responses May 20, 2008

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    I don't hate drama. I just hate

    that I can't help people.
    NovaScotia902 NovaScotia902 22-25 Jun 20

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    That is actually why i like ep more

    than facebook, a hell of a lot less drama,, and a lot easier to avoid it if it ever pops up. If im ever involved in any drama in real life, i just tend to sit/stand there silent, or walk away without saying a word. lol
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M Jul 16

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    Sometimes You Just Need to Be Selfish...

    because it's the finest form of self preservation.  Try this little template on for size. 1.  "I do not like how I feel when I'm with you, in this situation", or insert your own issue at will.  Note: never use "how you make me feel" etc...
    IAmStillSomeone IAmStillSomeone 41-45, F 9 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    At school there's a lot of drama

    for not just me everybody. Summer is the only long term break that's drama free for me
    jenney14 jenney14 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    cause life is too short!

    Just try to relax and everything will be allright. Drama makes things complicated!
    justbe00 justbe00 31-35, F Jun 19

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    Probably the reason I

    rather talk to boys than girls? ^.^ I dunno
    marvelherogirl marvelherogirl 13-15, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I used to be a very dramatic person.

    Everything that happened was the end of the world and anyone who looked at me was automatically calling me ugly, fat, or generally making fun of me. I was a pain to be around. Now, I'm generally chill. XD
    x0UnionJack0x x0UnionJack0x 18-21, F 3 Responses May 13

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    I made a fake face book to make someone feel

    better about them self now everyone's against me and calling me lesbian what should I do I tried to apologize but made things worse
    emmaluvsdubs emmaluvsdubs 13-15, F May 25

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    No Drama For Me, But Thanks For Asking

    I'm here to share stories with you . I'm here to be friends.  I'm here to support you when I can. I'm here to be silly with you and laugh at the goofy things in life. I'm here to cry with you. I'm here to be myself, just as real as I am away from this screen.   I...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 9 Responses Jul 11, 2009

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    I stopped talking to someone I called my best

    friend a while ago. She only complicated my life so it was for the best. It was on good terms and we came to a mutual agrreement. Recently, I've had people ask me about the situation and even wanna be mediators trying to get us to be inseparable again. They say it's stupid to...
    BrohovahsWitness BrohovahsWitness 18-21, F May 19

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    I don't deal well with emotions.

    I truly believe that life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it (Charles Swindoll). I like to deal with things and move on. Dwelling on it is a huge pet peeve of mine.
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    Unless it's on stage

    or on a screen where it belongs.
    utahwriter utahwriter 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 7

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    People if you don't like an username,

    a post, a picture or the context of someone's post there is no reason to argue and then continue bashing them. It's uncalled for. Just leave it alone.
    blackpantyaffair blackpantyaffair 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    I just need a no drama

    or bitching policy like serious all the drama queens love near me I just want to be drama free
    tajjonez tajjonez 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Funny how irresponsible people can be

    so loud and dramatic at times. It happened in school when a friend decided to rate her contribution in our group work honestly (her work was slipshod at best). She peeped on the rating (which she shouldn't be doing) and instantly raged, calling him out on it. That friend was...
    Minadora Minadora 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate drama queens like someone i used to know.

    ..**** you, you stupid b*tchy sh*t!
    emilesfault emilesfault 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Being Grown Up

    Being grown up rarely has anything to do with your age. It has more to do with your actions, words, tolerance, and the ability to let go. I see so many petty people who go on for days about the same thing...from being called a name, being disagreed with, being blocked and my...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering 70+, F 6 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    You Can't Escape It With Some People.

    I have a mother n law, well I call her outlaw, since my husband died. She thrives on making drama out of the smallest things. First it was over my husbands death, this wasn't normal grief, even my husband would argue with her while he was dying that it wasn't about her but about...
    honeysuckle23 honeysuckle23 46-50, F 8 Responses Jun 1, 2011

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    My Friend is going around telling my business

    just cause I hooked up with her best friend .
    danadia64 danadia64 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Indulging those who have a Histrionic

    Personality Disorder is beneath me. Take ur Drama to someone else :)
    Myztikal Myztikal 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    If I want drama I'll watch the Bold

    and the Beautiful. At least they're attractive and in makeup. ;-)
    JuzTmi JuzTmi 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 9

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    Oh those boys are too too much those boys are

    too too much! LOL. The commercial where the dad is helping his daughter learn a cheerleading chant comes to mind on this type for me. Been going through divorce drama for a while how. My husband send blank defendant papers a long with hate mail to let me know he was done...
    Freebabyy Freebabyy 46-50, F May 16

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    I can never understand

    why anyone would devote their time and energy into situations that does not benefit them Emotionally, Mentally, Physically, Spirituality or Financially.
    IamMell IamMell 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    Dramatic people! To sensitive!

    Take things to the heart and can't handle the truth or the fact that a person will be blunt with them. I'm not a ***** I just don't sugar coat stuff! If you can't handle that then don't talk to me! Simple
    browneyedgirl10 browneyedgirl10 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    Drama Causes Wars Big And Small

    Were it not for drama, I believe this world would be peaceful. I mean think about it. Know it alls and greedy power mungers have caused more Drama on global and national levels throughout history. Then you go to the churchs or the townhall meetings or into the schools and homes...
    CAnnesdad CAnnesdad 41-45, M Nov 10, 2012

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    Aaaaand that is the reason

    why I married my wife.
    DoctrineDark DoctrineDark 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    It Becomes Apparent

    If drama is something that seems to follow you, it may not be the other people. If you feel that you are the cause and the effect of everything around you then really, it isn't other people, it's you. Like minded people will continue on and help you feed into it, be very wary of...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering 70+, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    margot567 margot567 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    she called me a home wrecker.

    dude I don't even get guys please stop😂✋
    hannahastin hannahastin 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    Seriously!! Drama Is

    so annoying he said she said crap, and the Debbie downers I avoid them at all cost I love a positive outlook not someone who always has to wrapped up in stupid stuff there is more to Life than problems
    Foreverme23 Foreverme23 22-25, F May 13

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    Most People Bring It On Themselves And Dont Even Realize It

    they either surround themselves with drama filled people, or they themselves are causing it.
    EdgeCrusher EdgeCrusher 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    People who cause dramas make me

    so mad. Some things are best left alone. Life isn't fair, but if you point it out every second you're going to cause trouble amongst people.
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    I dated a really mean guy

    for a week in December before I came out as a lesbian. He tried breaking my fingers, insulted me, I took him to work and he almost got me fired, and he spoke about my large chest in front of my parents. Not to mention how many pants he broke of mine trying to rip them off. I...
    LezzieRose LezzieRose 16-17, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    BreMarley BreMarley 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I swear some chick always trying start drama

    why can't we just live in a peaceful world where everyone is happy. High school biggest place where drama starts they call you hoe just for being nice to everybody, the way you dress, talk , look people just wanna start by anything gets on my nerves. Its not just high school...
    Crazybunny101 Crazybunny101 16-17, F 3 Responses May 23

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    Many Of Those Who Say They Hate It, Cause It

    One of the things I've noticed is that a lot of the people I've interacted with in real life that say they can't stand drama are the very ones who cause it. Then they blame those around them for creating it. They project themselves onto others, yet they are blind to their own...
    justbeit justbeit 51-55, M 7 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    Story time… Back in 2012,

    when the season on NBC's The Voice was about to end. Team CeeLo was kicking butt, and Adam Levine had always really liked me. I never really payed it much thought. My friend Katy (Yes, Perry, we've played vipers together in LA.) came to visit me backstage. Adam...
    Julietsimms Julietsimms 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    There is absolutely no need

    for drama and life is too short. I never understood why some pick and pick and look for problems. I never understood hating, bullying and jealousy. Live and let live. I am one of the nicest, most loyal people you could ever meet, but if you disrespect me or someone I care about...
    OceanicXs OceanicXs 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Nearly everyday when I arrive home I am met

    with negativity, anxiety, and drama. I rise early and commute so when I do get home I just want to chill and have a beer. Maybe watch tv or go outside. This has been the norm for so long. I find excuses not to come home or to get away for anything. Drama queens/kings can...
    ptaylor4022 ptaylor4022 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Everything has to turn into drama lately!

    !! It all has to be a fight. It drives me ****** crazy and don't know when it will end. I would like to think we can move past it but I'm not sure if I see that happening😒😔 To be continued..
    fight2staypositive fight2staypositive 22-25, F May 31

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    Related Experiences

    Sometimes I really hate dramas... I rather watched Romantic, Comedy etc.. but drama? nah... But sometimes I admit that I used to watched dramas.. lol I don't wanna feel crying over...
    smjuap21 smjuap21 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I deserve honesty! If you have a problem with me, we can talk it out! And don't smile in my face, and frown behind my back, cuz I WILL find out. Don't be flip flop with and hate me...
    Linkson Linkson 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I hate my job. I'm a preschool teacher, which I love. I love working with kids but I have discovered that it's not about helping the children to grow and develop, it's about...
    ace3022 ace3022 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I completely hate the look. I'm ugly, gross, disgusting, fat, etc. I hate my face so much. I should just have a bag over my head for the rest of my life.
    CarsonKid14 CarsonKid14 13-15, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    My stepdaughter has been working all summer. She's made $400, and plans to work all year while going to school. I was happy to hear it. I thought getting a job would make her act...
    maemaddy maemaddy 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    So I have this cousin on my Dad's side and she's a total witch. My little sister is really good friends with her, even though she knows what she's like, which I don't get it all...
    thewaytodawn thewaytodawn 18-21 1 Response a week ago