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I Hate Drama

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    Many Of Those Who Say They Hate It, Cause It

    One of the things I've noticed is that a lot of the people I've interacted with in real life that say they can't stand drama are the very ones who cause it. Then they blame those around them for creating it. They project themselves onto others, yet they are blind to their own...
    justbeit justbeit 51-55, M 7 Responses Feb 9, 2012

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    JasonMinaj JasonMinaj 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Everyone makes one little ting into a huge

    fight😑 it's kinda stupid.. People need to learn to get over the littlest things in life
    penayolisma penayolisma 13-15, F 6 Responses Aug 23

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    I hate it how young ladies are obsessed with

    how they look like these days... specially those who relte it to relationships ... I personally think if they spend time on their mind rather than their looks things will change alot for them
    atarod atarod 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 6

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    So. In a nut shel. My sister sent me some

    messages last year with dead threatens. She is the biggest victim of my mom's unhealthy mind. So I believe she was venting out some conversations they were having. And my mother would not even engage in a conversation with me about this matter I asked her to go to a therapist...
    pistacchia pistacchia 46-50, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yep. That's why I've been on my own

    so long. I married a drama queen. Any situation that might lead to dissapoitment became all about her.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    If one person decided to just not show up today

    I have wasted my whole summer because I need their approval for my project to be shown and they just don't show up today WTF!!
    221bcompanion 221bcompanion 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    My ex best friend had problems with my

    boyfriend ..he is very nice .he was nice enough to be friends with her until she let jealously get the best of her and ..she tried to break us up before and she still is
    Kayl1995 Kayl1995 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    It Becomes Apparent

    If drama is something that seems to follow you, it may not be the other people. If you feel that you are the cause and the effect of everything around you then really, it isn't other people, it's you. Like minded people will continue on and help you feed into it, be very wary of...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering 70+, F 2 Responses Feb 23, 2012

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    Why is it that in the "i hate drama" group

    PEOPLE KEEP POSTING ABOHT THEIR ****** DRAMA
    rehn65 rehn65 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 29

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 7

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    Cherrie247 Cherrie247 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 28

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    I condone typical drama

    if it's necessary. Though what I don't like is the useless drama that's unneeded, where as people go out of their way to create it. Not cool!! If you're worried about something or if you're in a situation that's upsetting you, it's alright just don't start something that doesn't...
    Tazzu Tazzu 22-25, F Aug 15

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    I don't deal well with emotions.

    I truly believe that life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you react to it (Charles Swindoll). I like to deal with things and move on. Dwelling on it is a huge pet peeve of mine.
    krispykreme30 krispykreme30 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    margot567 margot567 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Work 50 Miles From Home To Avoid It!

    Ok, I didn't take my current job to avoid our small town drama. I just quickly learned that was one of the major perks of having a job so far from home. Even though I hear a lot of peoples' drama at my job... it's not coming from my neighbors, friends, or family...nor about them...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 6 Responses May 14, 2013

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    People who cause dramas make me

    so mad. Some things are best left alone. Life isn't fair, but if you point it out every second you're going to cause trouble amongst people.
    Xeniabolton Xeniabolton 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 13

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    Just Grow - Up

    I did not ask for a part in your drama and don't wish to participate. Please grow -  up We are all "adults" here We left middle school long ago I don't want a part in your little play You must have me mistaken with someone that is interested in you life I am not I have my own...
    CMA1234 CMA1234 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 5, 2012

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    People if you don't like an username,

    a post, a picture or the context of someone's post there is no reason to argue and then continue bashing them. It's uncalled for. Just leave it alone.
    blackpantyaffair blackpantyaffair 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    You seriously want to beat my a$$ all

    because I said shut up....and it wasn't even directed at you! B!tch please! I've never even talked to you!
    EmoSakurachan EmoSakurachan 16-17 Aug 22

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    Me: X{3 Anyway 'drama' only suits me being

    scripted ^w^' For example.... Me: Hello Bob, if that is your real name! Brain: Not mine, but yours ^w^' Me: Nooooooo, my life makes no sense yet it is suspenseful OwO Whoa the suspensefulness owO I dont care thats not a word *run off to do something of less importance* Hector...
    SquirrellyGal2493 SquirrellyGal2493 18-21 4 Responses Aug 10

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    I'd rather talk to and be around men.

    Women are hard to understand, they are competitive, dramatic, and demanding! Once I made the decision to get off that crazy train with certain women, my life has been a lot calmer... Yes, I am a woman with many sides, but I feel I think more like a man. Not always good, but I...
    2manysides 2manysides 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    My boyfriend shows no affection!

    ! It's driving me nuts😞
    raquel80 raquel80 31-35, F 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    I self harm and cut myself badly i hate life to

    much , i am a **** who goes out with any boy she can get !!!! 😷😡
    secretlol secretlol 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 30

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    Striving to Be Mistake Free.

    I posted a story last night at 2 am. The beginning of the story I pasted the definition of a word. Unfortunately When pasting the definition I had also copied another paragraph with the definition. Mello disagreed with that paragraph. I went and read the paragraph she mentioned...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 40 Responses May 20, 2008

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    See image............

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    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 6

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    I just need a no drama

    or bitching policy like serious all the drama queens love near me I just want to be drama free
    tajjonez tajjonez 13-15, F Jul 23

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    cicizzle cicizzle 13-15, F Aug 20

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    Drama Causes Wars Big And Small

    Were it not for drama, I believe this world would be peaceful. I mean think about it. Know it alls and greedy power mungers have caused more Drama on global and national levels throughout history. Then you go to the churchs or the townhall meetings or into the schools and homes...
    CAnnesdad CAnnesdad 41-45, M Nov 10, 2012

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    My sister likes to get into **** thats

    why I dont **** with guys if I dont like that one specific guy that ill have a off and on relationship with like hate hearing what my sister going through shes bringing me along with her too nah im just supposed to watch the babies and clean the house not watch her relationship...
    Xxchristinx18 Xxchristinx18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I have always been busy working

    and raising my children. I basically raised my children alone. I was so focused on taking care of them and getting ahead at work (I had a very stressful job most of my life, I was an insurance adjuster). I had no close friends, I was just busy being a mom and keeping my house...
    mom4ce mom4ce 51-55, F 2 Responses Aug 24

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    Drama has its place, on stage,

    in movies and television and in books. But in interpersonal relations, I can live without it. Attention-seeking melodrama, woeful pity parties to garner sympathy and unnecessary conflict and self-sabotage to be noticed - these things I don't have a lot of patience for. If I can...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 16

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    I have a lot of friends

    that are dramatic it gets so annoying I just wanna rip out my head
    Guywhopees Guywhopees 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 21

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    bbrucee bbrucee 51-55, M Aug 4

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    If you're hating on my opinion ,

    then keep it for yourself if the choices aren't made for you then don't look at it.
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    (So a internet friend of mine has family

    and friends that think she is possessed when she isn't, we will call her Mikki) Mikki: I'm not possessed, I swear. Priest: *starts chanting exorcism* Mikki: You can stop I'm not- Priest: *starts yelling exorcism* Mikki: *sits there, getting a headache from the yelling* I'm...
    DarknessFalls101 DarknessFalls101 13-15, F Aug 23

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    I've seen that people can become embroiled in

    all sorts of arguments and drama via social sites. It's not something I want, not in the slightest. If I'm online chances are I'm trying to escape drama in real life. I certainly don't like it there, nor do I want it on here.
    sometimeslonelytoo sometimeslonelytoo 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Being Grown Up

    Being grown up rarely has anything to do with your age. It has more to do with your actions, words, tolerance, and the ability to let go. I see so many petty people who go on for days about the same thing...from being called a name, being disagreed with, being blocked and my...
    SweetlyLingering SweetlyLingering 70+, F 6 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    Ever hear someone say they don't "do" drama?

    They must be laying in their grave because that's not possible. . "All the world's a stage, And all the men and women merely players; They have their exits and their entrances, And one man in his time plays many parts, His acts being seven ages." Shakespeare . All I can hope...
    thecheapsuitchronicles thecheapsuitchronicles 61-65, M 3 Responses Aug 5

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    Drama annoys me. I don't have enough time to

    stop and whine over who said what and kick them out of the "group" I will be friends with everybody. :)
    hellerpeople hellerpeople 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    It gives a broken heart.

    ..i meant other drama :p
    meokeju meokeju 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    Circumstances change

    and the road I was cruising along suddenly turned into a dead end. So I had to come to an abrupt stop and contemplate my options. After much consideration, I have decided that the most appealing route to take is that path over there, the one that wanders through calming forests...
    Helianthus52N Helianthus52N 56-60, F Aug 17

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    You made me change my mind

    when u start to cry..
    Elleshore81 Elleshore81 31-35, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was stressing this whole morning bc I thought

    I wasn't going to be able to pay for college but everything is fine... I hope
    221bcompanion 221bcompanion 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I say I hate drama, but ppl see I'm

    overdramatic. It's like I don't know how to be happy, it's like whenever I truly am happy I find something to get mad about and then more drama starts. I try to change but I don't know how
    PlatinumMillenium PlatinumMillenium 16-17, M 4 Responses Aug 20

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    Here where i live it's almost ALWAYS drama :/

    So i want to share the drama that's still not finished yet... It's a girl who has moved back to the city where i live, who has changed ALOT. She's separates best friends, like for example when she managed to separate the two boys who were best friends. The 1st guy was one of the...
    eph01 eph01 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    I am here for anyone

    that needs it, but I don't talk to anyone even if they say they're there for me. I don't want to put them down. My friends are drama freaks (but I love them) and it drives me crazy!
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    How To Be A Decent Human Being

    Say what you mean and mean what you say.
    MyNameIsHurl MyNameIsHurl 31-35, F 4 Responses Feb 16, 2012

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    I hate when friends if mine always argue

    and complain about each other. It kinda makes me want new friends ya know?
    Jordananon Jordananon 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    stu8624 stu8624 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I find working with men more enjoyable

    than working with women. Women like to gossip and hold grudges and all that fun stuff. (Sarcasm) Guys just punch each other and get over it. :P Women are cat-y. Not my thing. Women with their noses stuck up in the air just irritate me and I don't like to be in a bad mood...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F 9 Responses Aug 18

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    i live in a house FILLED with it,

    so... I'm don't exactly enjoy it.
    bowsandarrows bowsandarrows 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Sometimes I hate my job.

    This day is one of those days! Grrr!
    lizdollar35 lizdollar35 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 18

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