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I Hate Feeling Ignored

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    Why Do We Feel This

    silence (of mind) we are bound to our needs or those of others
    burwi333 burwi333 36-40, M Sep 21, 2010

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    Hellooo?!?!

    I hate being invisibe or unimportant to people, especially those who I care about.
    SomewhereTomorrow SomewhereTomorrow 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 27, 2010

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    Waiting For A Returned Text

    I know this is lame, but when someone doesn't return my text messages within a reasonable amount of time, It really upsets me. I think the reason is because I feel ignored and not important enough to the person to spend 10 seconds on me. They eventually get back to me, but I let...
    Thrillskr Thrillskr 36-40 2 Responses Nov 2, 2010

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    Sorry You Feel Childish Enough

    Sorry you feel childish enough to have to play the "I'm ignoring you" game.  Just say, "I need a little time to figure out what just happened.  I'll talk to you when that happens."  How hard is that?  I just want to know why I'm not being spoken to or looked...
    Parthenopeaigle Parthenopeaigle 36-40, F Aug 30, 2010

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    I Def Feel Ignored

    I POST responses on facebook to my friends comments and sometimes id ont even get a response. i find that rude i know its just a site and not to make a big deal of it, but it is to me.
    MoonLight30 MoonLight30 26-30, F 8 Responses Jul 11, 2010

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    I Had To Sit Alone

    My cowokers have been lately ignoring me. I didnt cry and ask them why. I backed-off a little, too. It went to such an extent today that they made a newly joined coworker sit in my place (we usually sit together for lunch) and I had to sit alone. Noone offered me any company. I...
    newmsuv newmsuv 26-30, F May 17, 2011

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    I hate that feeling when i see someone i know

    him on the street and he turns back and makes me feel ignored !
    Manoooooooooo Manoooooooooo 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 27

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    Yeah like I hate it when I tell some one not to

    message some one r not to do something they do it anyway I just hate it grrrrrr
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F Apr 19

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    Being Ignored

    I'm not sure why, but for my entire life I have always felt ignored. Whether it be with my family, at work, or with so called "friends," I always feel like no one listens to what I have to say, and when I do say something, and I know people hear me, they don't answer!  It is...
    Shanta22 Shanta22 18-21, F Jun 30, 2010

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    Though I Have No Reason To...

    I hate feeling ignored because most of the time the feeling is not based on anything. I'm not a some sort of attention seeker, but I think I really need it (attention), a lot. When I'm not getting it I find myself thinking "Is everyone hating me?". I think that's just stupid! I'm...
    IdontKnowEther IdontKnowEther 22-25, M Oct 21, 2010

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    I hate that feeling when I'm ignored I just

    wanna scream and yell until I have no more energy. I asked my family a question and I'm ignored but when my younger sis asks something. Answers are being said. I'm over here like "hello am I invisible?..." And they reply with why are you being so rude and stubborn?... Idk I...
    starzygirl1 starzygirl1 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    I have a naturally quiet voice

    and its hard for me to project my voice so sitting with a bunch of people who think yelling is the way to have a conversation is hard. I was having trouble speaking with them because every time i tried to speak or did speak, they spoke over me. i got angry and left to take a...
    Anicia47 Anicia47 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    RedDust RedDust 41-45, F Nov 25, 2012

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    Please

     Hey! I am right here. Why can’t you see me?  I need you to know I am special, to talk to me, to hold me. I just want you to see me and to love me, please?
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 30, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Okay seriously. If your busy tell me!!! I friggin hate being ignored. Like I can't even tell you how much I hate. & especially when it comes to clueless D.A guys. You can't say you...
    ForeverYoung09 ForeverYoung09 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    If you don't like me then tell me. If you don't want to talk to me tell me. If you decide I'm too broken for you to be around or that you can't stand me, tell me. I hate being...
    Kmarcum99 Kmarcum99 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Hate being ignored .. I want a sincere one around me always
    kevinmattt kevinmattt 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    HAtE is a strong word but I hate feeling like this.
    supamom supamom 41-45, F Aug 12

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    I may be mad. But it's more maddening to be ignored. Well? you think I'm talking bullshit aren't you? Well truth is, facts and my feelings are **** and bull. I'm real. I don't give...
    Kywen97 Kywen97 16-17, F Aug 9

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    I keep being ignored by people around me whether in skul ,home or public .I used to be able to talk cheerfully around ppl but ,after being ignored many times i became scared and...
    Appolo123 Appolo123 13-15, M Aug 14

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    A big pet hate if mine being ignored... Cannot stand it... Not trying to be disrespectful to men or anything... Or cause a stir there, I know all men are different. I have had a...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    Ignored at home by my family, ignored at school by everyone, ignored by my friends.
    AnimeHalfBlood63 AnimeHalfBlood63 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    It's not that hard just to say "I'm busy", "I hate you", or "I don't want to talk to you anymore". I'd rather hear the reason no matter how hard to accept it than being ignored or...
    Rinkika Rinkika 22-25, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all. To have someone you care so much about, throw a...
    redaura redaura 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I get ignored at times by my man and I get mad
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F Aug 18

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    I was getting a coffee and met this guy.i was attracted to his accent. I decided to stay a little and had a conversation. He finally ask my number because he thought that I'm...
    Yojj13 Yojj13 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    My boyfriend and I go to different schools but we are so close distant wise. We hung out almost everyday in the summer and now we started school and promised to call eachother...
    lonelygirl3011 lonelygirl3011 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    You give signals of wanting intimacy, you become vulnerable and open up, share secrets and thoughts that were hidden in the deep recesses of your mind only to be met with in...
    SummerChristmas SummerChristmas 36-40, F 1 Response a week ago

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    There is nothing that makes me more angry than being ignored I would much rather stay and argue than to have somebody simply walk away and ignore me.
    emloves emloves 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Ergh. I've hated this for the longest time. (As a kid I could literally yell at people and they wouldn't give the slightest inkling that they knew I existed.) I even hate it on the...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F Aug 9

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    Assalam, i'm here because My Childhood Crush hates me...it bothers me for knowing the truth. i was devastated because i was too warped up for her and i paid the price. if you see...
    Iqbal13 Iqbal13 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    Yes i really hate when people doesnt answer to me in chats :(
    sapatov sapatov 16-17, M Aug 6

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    I hate it. It's my pet peeve when I ask something and the clearly hear it but don't answer. It's the thing that will set me off. A kid 5'9 in a town of people mostly shorter than...
    TheStillmanator TheStillmanator 13-15, M Aug 6

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    Especially by those claiming they hate it when people ignore them, but they are more than happy to ignore you when you try talking to them.
    Anth9012 Anth9012 22-25, M Aug 6

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    I hate it when someone hasn't talked to you all summer and when you get to school they're all like "ugh you got so anti over the summer" ***** wtf. You're the one that hasn't...
    XCameronnXx XCameronnXx 13-15, M 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I hate when people take to long to answer my questions. It literally ****** me off. I feel unimportant
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 7

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    I hate it so much. I feel invisible and I feel like no one remembers me. My parents always focus on my brother because he ODed three years ago. (Wow... It's really been that long...
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Yes i really hate when people doesnt answer to me in chats :(
    sapatov2 sapatov2 16-17, M Aug 13

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    I hate when someone insults you and then you say something back and they ignore you because you had a good comeback,its lame
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I hate it when my husband just ignore me everytime he hears the truth.
    ShanSai ShanSai 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I hate people who doesnt reply
    katelve katelve 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 18

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    I just hate those types of friends when you're talking to them and they ignore the crap out of you for no reason at all and make you look like a fool in front of others like they...
    keij10307 keij10307 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    I hate when you think you have a connection with someone and then you don't hear from them.
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    You know those situations in modern society where u are forced to conform to some sort of social stigma because everyone goes along with it, yea I hate being the one who feels...
    Shitbox Shitbox 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    Omg omg omg Yessss Hate it. Worse than meds. Or jerks. Well. Not worse than jerks but. Horrid feeling.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    Down with flu cough and sore throat .... :-/ hate the feeling, especially when I'm at work... It's raining and I wish I could go back and catch up with some sleep.. But I can't...
    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I think this is my problem a lot of the times. The reason I feel happy, sad, angry, depressed or bored is usually effected by being alone or feeling alone.. On here, I can be...
    heartdeflowerboys1 heartdeflowerboys1 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I hate it when someone publicly challenged me and I feel like I look bad. I hate being criticized or lectured especially in public. I feel attacked.
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Jul 31

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    I'm not used to feeling like this. I'm usually in control and strong, but recently I just feel lost and vulnerable. I just want my life back. I feel like I'm only half here and it...
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare 13-15, F Jul 31