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I Hate Feeling Like No One Wants To Spend Time With Me For Me

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    It Makes Me Sad

    It makes me sad that I feel this way a lot. I feel like nobody wants to spend time with me, just for me. I wish someone wanted to hang out with me for company, coz they like me. That would make me feel good.
    Goslyn Goslyn 31-35, T Mar 20, 2013

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    Spare A Little Time?

    I sometimes wish my parents had a bigger role in my life. As of now my father is in and out of jail and my mother is an antisocial prescription user. If I didn't have my close friends I don't know what I would do. As it is I'm feeling alone and it's sort of making me down. I know...
    magenxmajestic magenxmajestic 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    Let's be honest we have all felt this way in some situations. Mostly in the dark deeps of depression. I'm 20 years old (April 14-2014) and have been cast out of my "group" of...
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    No one wants me around and I know it for a fact. I have been told that no one wants me in this world. That I should die. That no one would miss me... I dont know what to do... I...
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    Everything was going so well just a year ago, now everything is upside down. Why? What did I do? Why am I like this? I know I'm annoying. I know I'm clingy. I know I get angry...
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    So my ex and I broke up, but she said she wanted to take things extra slow and work on us because she wants to be with me and me only. Today she admitted to me that she had sex...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    She was out of town all week. Her idea of quality time was for her and my grown daughter to watch episode after episode of a show about women buying wedding dresses. Was I wrong...
    alittlefun53 alittlefun53 56-60, M 5 Responses Apr 11

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    I've been struggling with illness for about five years ever since I went on beta blockers for a heart ailment. Last year i began to get crippling insomnia. I've lost two jobs...
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    I have been trying to fight to keep my darling Ellie alive since she started getting sick 3 weeks ago. She is 12 years old. Very old for a goat. I have three, twins (one of them is...
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    Just got home from a netball game. We lost lol. It's 12.28am, i just finished one bottle & i feel kinda lonely. I miss my boyfriend who's in prison & it always hits me at night...
    Charlie794 Charlie794 18-21, F Apr 9

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    Yeah like I hate it when I tell some one not to message some one r not to do something they do it anyway I just hate it grrrrrr
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    frozenkisses21 frozenkisses21 16-17, F Mar 21

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    I really don't know what's worse, opening up to someone and getting hurt, or feeling this lonely:/ all my friends abandon me in my time of need, and most people don't even want to...
    xMina97x xMina97x 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I'm always the cause of ruining someone's day or ******* something up. Never fails. Honestly I just want to disappear and be forgotten about at the moment. I doubt anyone where I...
    mwp483 mwp483 22-25, M Apr 8

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    I hate how guys can't just tell you if they like you or not.
    gabbbieeee gabbbieeee 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I didn't expect to be 30 yrs old and still feeling so lost n confused.. What's going on???
    Kathyis30 Kathyis30 26-30, F Apr 10

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    My heart bleeds everyday. Everyday my broken heart wants revenge. It wants to be vindicated. FUuuck
    Es777 Es777 26-30, M a week ago

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    I have list the best thing to happen to me in my life since splitting up with my girlfriend of 13years coz I always put helping others first I have never felt so Alone. I'm lonely...
    fish221 fish221 31-35, M Mar 31

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    It helps me relax and meditate. I feel at peace with myself and find internal stability with my emotions and thoughts. It's the only time during the day that I feel complete, and I...
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    Tired of falling for damn lies I don't deserve it
    R3b3llion32 R3b3llion32 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I'm in high school and I have a nice group of friends and a best friend. But I'm under the constant impression that I'm not wanted. My friends don't object to me being there but it...
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    I often feel like I'm just kind of there, but not really a part of any group
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    OH do I despise that! OH do I hate my urge to nurture people when all I get is crap in return! It's like, "FINE, go feel ****** about yourself cause I tried to be there for you!"
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    All I ever try to do is be the best I can be towards certain people. Yet, they still treat me like I'm dirt. I want to not care, but I know I love them too much to not to. Sigh...
    halieghnicole halieghnicole 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I feel like a failure at life and at school. I mean like I can't do anything right I'm so stupid
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    i came across something online and it just... got to me. is said "how to identify a controlling person" i looked at it because i heard someone in one of my past relationships...
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    Lucile199 Lucile199 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    No good deed goes unpunished, I know no truer words.
    cartmanlover cartmanlover 18-21 Mar 31

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    I get confused so easily when it comes to guys, I just pretend to understand so I don't annoy them
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F a week ago

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    All of the other students at collage and now my friends are shoving me away cos of my past yes I have done bad things in the past but have stopped Why can't people get over it
    tommo61 tommo61 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    I don't mind i just want to be apart of it or know exactly when it is going to happen.
    teddyconstantino teddyconstantino 26-30, M a week ago

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    If you want to have a nice life, try to enjoy it do what ever you want. Life is too short. Do the things that will make you happy. Live wild and free :)
    imaginetomorrow imaginetomorrow 16-17, F 1 Response