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I Hate Feeling Like No One Wants To Spend Time With Me For Me

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    I sometimes wish my parents had a bigger role in my life. As of now my father is in and out of jail and my mother is an antisocial prescription user. If I didn't have my close friends I don't know what I would do. As it is I'm feeling alone and it's sort of making me down. I know...
    magenxmajestic magenxmajestic 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    I have a few different feelings that are similar and I can't stand feeling the way I do about it. First, my real family; I miss them all so much but especially my sister and...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 31

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    I feel like my life is draggy. There are only a few things i really do , take care of my children, work, keep in shape, among other responsibilities etc. But when i have time to...
    Fitguy1984 Fitguy1984 26-30, M Sep 2

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    i am so weird sometimes. i get so lonely but instead of seeking out companionship, what do i do? i push everyone away. i go hide. i drowned out the world with my music cranked up...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F Aug 23

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    Hi everyone, This is the first time I write about my feelings, but I found so many people in the same situation. I'm 28 years old, been married for less than a year and a half...
    soul1986 soul1986 26-30 2 Responses Sep 10

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    Damn waiting anxiously for the next time he will text me It sucks
    minyue minyue 18-21, F Sep 5

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    Control...being in charge of a situation. I have no control in love. I have plenty of love to share but confused. I have no control over portions of my life. Areas which I'd...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F Sep 12

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    I love feeling vulnerable when I choose too. I am working on trusting people but giving up complete or even a good amount of control stresses me out
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    This says it all, it's about moving forward , and learning from all your falls. You just get back up keep going forward and better yourself
    aboutdone728 aboutdone728 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    i being second to those i put first ),: he's slowly breaking my heart in to pieces .
    youngadult14 youngadult14 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    23 Things Why Spending Time Alone Is Awesome! by Jamie Varon, a Thought Catalog West Coast Producer, a writer and a coffee lover. 1. A weekend in which you have no plans, no...
    lovingRIZA lovingRIZA 51-55, F Sep 7

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    Sometimes I want to cry in class because of this. I used to be so loud and fun and now I feel so depressed. I hate going to a new hs because you're getting ignored. Sure there are...
    alyssagrey14 alyssagrey14 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    Some of my "friends" at school only come to me when no one wants to put up with their *** or they just want to annoy someone.Well guess what im ******* tired of it i just wish they...
    wannaloveyou wannaloveyou 13-15, F Sep 7

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    I mean Title says it all.... Except it's that I know im not good enough for anyone. I've poured my heart many times just to get it stomped on. Im broken and no one wants a broken...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Sep 9

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    I'm a person who is turned on a lot of the time. If you are too I would like to share photos or video chat with you. Even if your just feeling bored one night, just send me a...
    captianglaceon captianglaceon 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 4

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    The ones you thought would fight for you and love you more than you'll ever know, is the one you never thought will hurt you the most.
    arit1 arit1 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    So I thought he liked me, then he met her, stopped giving me attention, messaging me and spending his time talking to me. I thought we had something. We did, right? Or what? Was I...
    sunnychoke sunnychoke 16-17, F Aug 26

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    I hate letting my guard down. Makes me feel vulnerable at times. Seems like burned every time
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    no one ever want's to talk unless they need something, i hate being alone.
    jos951 jos951 18-21, M Aug 23

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    There is no place for emotions and feelings and no one cares.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 1

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    I don't have time for it anymore. Being used and abused for having it is not worth it. I love feeling nothing. It's the only way to get by in this world.
    Iyaniaya Iyaniaya 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I wish this madness was over, because I hate sitting back here being helpless watching all the pain and suffering your going through.
    Verix Verix 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I don't actually know if he really wants me or not but I want him I actually work for him and his wife...she is the main boss I give him BJ about twice a month and love it and...
    Steph9598 Steph9598 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 25

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    I hate when I feel so lonely . When I feel that way I just wanna cry and cry so much and eat as well idk y but I do.
    kikolola kikolola 18-21, F Sep 7

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    One of the worst combinations
    UnderworldNymph UnderworldNymph 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    We let people in.... Let out guards down and share things with them. But sometimes you end up wondering why....
    crazychick76 crazychick76 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    I hope the registration officer won't put in a difficult situation. Please stick with what you've issued on me when the moment I receive my offer letter. It was not my fault at...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F Sep 11

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    He's always so busy so I cherish the quiet times we can spend together.
    SweetSillySusan SweetSillySusan 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    The greatest pain in life is not to die, but to be ignored.To lose the person you love so much to another who doesn't care at all. To have someone you care so much about, throw a...
    redaura redaura 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    okay, im thirteen and in about 5th to 7th grade ive had really bad pimples and right now, their gone but i have black spots. my friends say they make me look cute but i cant help...
    swavvy123 swavvy123 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 29

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    I can't even deal with my own. There's some things you can't tell your kids and expect them to cope. And quit telling me how much you hate each other. If you feel that way tell...
    WhenICouldWish97 WhenICouldWish97 16-17, F Sep 7

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    I'm tired of feeling lost and not belonging anywhere. I'm fed up with being different from everyone around me. I'm sick of letting myself feel misunderstood and not fully accepted...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    My boyfriend got angry cause his mate bailed on him Then he says everyone's too much work for him these days..and I asked him am I too much work and he says most of the time yes...
    crazyminds crazyminds 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    Ah, the feeling of never being good enough is a persistent one. I always push it away, but it keeps coming back for more of my confidence.
    Theycallherelly Theycallherelly 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    So lately I have been working a lot on forgiveness. Forgivingthe person involved, fending off resentment, and most importantly, forgiving myself. Even though I feel like I have...
    justkeepswimming89 justkeepswimming89 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Noelict Noelict 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 8

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    I always have that feeling.
    evix33 evix33 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I did and it was a lit if fun. Want to try it with me?
    njguy888 njguy888 41-45, M Aug 28

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    No matter who it is I can never make a significant connection with them. My father, and mother both care for me I can tell, and I respect them but to be perfectly honest I feel as...
    aimlessglitch aimlessglitch 18-21, M Sep 2

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    Ive done this three times where i get naked and mast*rbate on skype with girls. One of the girls ive done it twice with while theother girl only once, and she was just watching me...
    sa9417 sa9417 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    To steal from one is plagiarism. To steal from many is research.
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    She came to visit 6wks after our first child was born. I was having postpartum depression and she proceeded to tell me about all the women my husband dated and she thought each...
    Kid50 Kid50 46-50, F Aug 28

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    Any ladys wanna trade I have ones of meand my husband and just me ;)
    sweety7268 sweety7268 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    It's my biggest pet peeve. I will go out of my way to avoid people with rude-tudes!
    Soozkat Soozkat 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I've worked in a shop for nearly 3 years and people could be so rude for like no reason. And the worst is, that no matter how nice you treat them, they're just gonna go on like the...
    spash spash 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    I talk to some people on here that I don't deserve to talk to. They are so nice, funny, sweet, and adorable. I don't know how I lucked out on meeting them, but I'm glad I did...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    No matter what I do, it's never enough. I feel isolated...trapped. If I don't do something right, I feel like I let everyone down. I want to find my purpose in life, but it's so...
    ohmyshortone ohmyshortone 22-25, F 6 days ago