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I Hate Feeling Like No One Wants To Spend Time With Me For Me

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    I sometimes wish my parents had a bigger role in my life. As of now my father is in and out of jail and my mother is an antisocial prescription user. If I didn't have my close friends I don't know what I would do. As it is I'm feeling alone and it's sort of making me down. I know...
    magenxmajestic magenxmajestic 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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