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I Hate Feeling Like Nothing I Do Matters Or Is Noticed

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 13 People

    Why This Group

    I have spent my life trying to do things that leave a lasting impression and short of being shocking I seem to end up being either invisible or just cause some small ripples that dissipate very quickly. This group even will (by my prediction only have one member...me). If you...
    twitchy415 twitchy415 22-25, M Oct 22, 2011

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    I Cant Stand It

    Its how I feel whenever I do something for anyone and then when I do nothing for someone, or something i see as nothing, for some reason the person seems to be over joyed that I did it when its something ive done 1,000,000 times. OR the worst is when I CAN do something and the...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Oct 24, 2011

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    Feelings effing suck. How can someone switch from bring so happy to feelings so hurt and depressed in an instant just by thinking of one dumb person.
    Mariyah22 Mariyah22 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I swear this city hates me. I don't want to be here much longer. It's like nobody will even engage me in a conversation. Not even my coworkers. I feel invisible most of the time...
    stellag23 stellag23 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 7

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    I will not go into the details bcuz its rather complicated So after the long message he sent me, it got me feellin pretty down. I realized I must accept the fact that this online...
    YongTauFoo YongTauFoo 18-21, F Jan 8

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    There comes a time that giving up looks good. I'm tired of pressing on when it feels hopeless. Nothing I do is good enough. Just tired of trying. Tired of believing that tomorrow...
    sml4 sml4 46-50, F Jan 14

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    Lately I feel like I am spinning my wheels. If I am excited about an opportunity somone sees it as a failure.
    True2myHeart True2myHeart 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    Everything is the worst. Blah
    Eechay Eechay 31-35, M Jan 12

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    I don't feel as if I have control of my life in our society. I understand how everybody stays motivated.
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Jan 13

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    Got tired of my mom saying i should be nicer, i should dress better and i should start using make up. I do all these thing but i still cant get nee friends, dates or a better...
    Mikaela1920 Mikaela1920 16-17 3 Responses Jan 15

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    I don't feel this way. I do what I do that appeals to me. I don't aim to please others. It's nice to know if they are appreciative or axed by it but that's not my goal.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    no matter how much I do, how much effort I put in..to maintain my relations, or to stay strong, or to perform well at office, or to understand people around me, or studying, or...
    angelcares angelcares 22-25, F Jan 15

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    I hate feeling like there is nothing I can do when someone has made a terrible mistake and I want to shake them. This girl I went to school with and used to be friends with, but...
    Harlequingal93 Harlequingal93 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I hate feeling like this. I still feel so insecure sometimes - mostly about my appearance and about aspects of my personality. I know I really shouldn't feel insecure, but I can't...
    Sapphire14 Sapphire14 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I'm so blessed, I really am, I have a great family, good health, clothes on my back, an education, but alot of the time I feel like I don't have anything good to say about myself...
    RescueMe22 RescueMe22 16-17, M Jan 1

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    Crying at funerals? Forget it. Crying at all? Never. I hate feeling vulnerable because I think it makes me look weak. It makes me look like I can't deal with the issues that...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Warning This Is A Rant; I really hate this part of been a girl :( the need of constant reminder that we are wanted and loved by someone. Why as humans we need that? The wanted...
    PandaaMee PandaaMee 22-25, F Jan 7

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    I hate how you give meaningful and deep advice to ppl expressing how much you really care for them as one human for another and try to make them feel accepted yknow? And then they...
    MonsieurKJ MonsieurKJ 18-21, M Jan 13

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    I'm scared to get close, and I hate being alone, I long for that feeling to not feel at all, the higher I get, the lower I'll sink, I can't drown my demons they know how to swim...
    mcrxforever mcrxforever 13-15, F Jan 8

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    When you finally shed those trappings in which you have to act like someone else, and can just "be yourself," it's a great relief. Who knew it took so much energy to act like...
    streetcsi streetcsi 41-45, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    So i have always been all about the "quality over quantity" thing when it came to friends but now im second guessing myself. i guess i started to realize it last night on new years...
    Kateq989 Kateq989 16-17, F Jan 1

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    I feel like I'm either missing out or being left behind. About 40% of the kids I graduated with went to school locally or moved somewhere else to go to school. I'm seeing and...
    DarkGoddesss DarkGoddesss 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I do think online relationships are real. But in some relationships the fantasy and real life are so conflicting. I like the online people I talk too, but I'm afraid I hurt...
    Sewmuch2do Sewmuch2do 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    sometimes I feel invisible . Being noticed is reassuring .
    LTBS64 LTBS64 46-50, M a week ago

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    i hate it when you are home alone and you feel like you are being watched
    freegirl29 freegirl29 13-15, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    It's that feeling of not being able to help yourself feel better:(
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 13

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    I almost forgot about this site. I feel highly confused and empty and apathetic. I'm confused about life choices. I need some peoples attention but I feel ignored. I hate it...
    luvsoylatte luvsoylatte 26-30, F Jan 19

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    I think the worst feeling isn't sad or depressed.... its empty
    Differentisgood Differentisgood 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I don't like to tell people in real life my problems because I want to look put together and strong for my friends and family.
    xxangellynnxx xxangellynnxx 16-17, F Jan 1

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    i feel like nothin.. just because i cant be bothered feeling for emotions xD
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    How does, we stopped 2 hours ago for a beer, and left you alone to deal with the kids (who were asking for you all day) equal "we're staying out of your way so we don't get in...
    readum16 readum16 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 12

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    I'm not a victim I shouldn't dwell on it even if I was considered a victim I am forever grateful Because I don't deserve anything yet I have everything
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F Jan 6

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    Would you still love me if I told you that the perfection you see is a veneer of perfectly formed lies created to entice you? Would you care about me if I showed you all the flaws...
    Incognitobae Incognitobae 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    This picture explains it all.
    ClaireH19 ClaireH19 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Sinus issues are annoying and I want to rip my face off.
    tabbi123 tabbi123 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    Everyone I knew is ignoring me and is barely there. WTF?
    Chpt16 Chpt16 16-17, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    :((((( Le sighhhhhh!!! :((
    anisha07969 anisha07969 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I just want you to stay put long enough so that I can talk to you, how can I say the things that need to be said when you won’t be stay home for more than a few hours? The kids...
    readum16 readum16 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 18

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    Everyone i try talking to just ignores me :(
    MorticansDaughter98 MorticansDaughter98 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    In high school, I was that shy chubby girl that never said a word. That's when I realized I was nothing. Feeling like nothing is the worst feeling in the world. When I walked down...
    Speranza27 Speranza27 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    for the last few days I felt nothing but an empty shell just going through the motions I've even started telling my girlfriend that I'm OK I'm going through a hard time and I...
    Lookingupalways Lookingupalways 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I hate feeling the way that I do. I actually got up and cleaned my room, did some laundry, and read a really nice book. I made a bunch of plans and to-do lists to try and get my...
    BigBlittleb123 BigBlittleb123 16-17, M Jan 2

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    I'm pretty much done. I don't have much drive and hope anymore. Nothing I do is ever right. I hate feeling like I'm totally worthless to someone. Its hard having your only parent...
    JustDevy JustDevy 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I hate my parents. I started bowling when I was 10. I am 17 and lost interests but they physically won't let me stop. I don't think they realize how depressed I am. Everytime I get...
    kaylar626 kaylar626 16-17, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    Mehta couldn't I have been one of those lucky girls that doesn't experience morning sickness? I feel sorry for my partner at the moment...as when I get morning sickness I say "it's...
    moonlighteclipse moonlighteclipse 16-17, F Jan 8

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