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I Hate Feeling Like Nothing I Do Matters Or Is Noticed

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    I Cant Stand It

    Its how I feel whenever I do something for anyone and then when I do nothing for someone, or something i see as nothing, for some reason the person seems to be over joyed that I did it when its something ive done 1,000,000 times. OR the worst is when I CAN do something and the...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet 26-30, F Oct 24, 2011

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    Why This Group

    I have spent my life trying to do things that leave a lasting impression and short of being shocking I seem to end up being either invisible or just cause some small ripples that dissipate very quickly. This group even will (by my prediction only have one member...me). If you...
    twitchy415 twitchy415 22-25, M Oct 22, 2011

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    HAtE is a strong word but I hate feeling like this.
    supamom supamom 41-45, F Aug 12

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    I'm going to keep this short and sweet. my best friend and i have been best friends ever since 2nd grade. I love her too death and nothing will ever change that but now we both...
    amarie99 amarie99 13-15, F a week ago

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    I hate it when someone publicly challenged me and I feel like I look bad. I hate being criticized or lectured especially in public. I feel attacked.
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F Jul 31

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    My best friend has a boyfriend. And she sees him every morning when we walk to school. And I'm always left, walking behind them and I hate it because he's in a huge group and I...
    Anon156 Anon156 22-25 1 Response Aug 3

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    No feeling is worse then guilt, shame, anxiety & embarrassment
    lostsoul1726 lostsoul1726 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    I'm feeling totally and utterly blank right now. But I want to write this speech, come first in the Oratory Competition and go onto Nationals. My mental illness will not override...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F a week ago

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    I always feel like a third wheel..
    kenner17 kenner17 18-21, F Aug 3

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    I broke up with the person I loved most in my life. Long distance relationship are hard. But I thought we would be able to fight it. Love is powerful. We loved each other so much...
    LadyHilarious LadyHilarious 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    Honestly, i feel absolutely no emotion right now, I think about my suicide thoughts and I don't feel sad, I think of all the pain I have felt and I don't feel sad, I think of the...
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    everyone forgets my birthday. im use to only having my parents and teachers tell me happy birthday. I really must be invisible
    loljofag loljofag 13-15, F Aug 13

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    Oh how i need someone to hug me and kiss my forehead and tell me im going to be okay
    amazing97 amazing97 16-17, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I'm not used to feeling like this. I'm usually in control and strong, but recently I just feel lost and vulnerable. I just want my life back. I feel like I'm only half here and it...
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare 13-15, F Jul 31

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    Change your focus they say. Take these meds they say. Do what shrinks say or go away. Thats professional help. Take meds that do nothing. Or meds that wreck my body...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    You know those situations in modern society where u are forced to conform to some sort of social stigma because everyone goes along with it, yea I hate being the one who feels...
    Shitbox Shitbox 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    Omg omg omg Yessss Hate it. Worse than meds. Or jerks. Well. Not worse than jerks but. Horrid feeling.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    Down with flu cough and sore throat .... :-/ hate the feeling, especially when I'm at work... It's raining and I wish I could go back and catch up with some sleep.. But I can't...
    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I think this is my problem a lot of the times. The reason I feel happy, sad, angry, depressed or bored is usually effected by being alone or feeling alone.. On here, I can be...
    heartdeflowerboys1 heartdeflowerboys1 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I feel like i am being suffocated by the people and the walls around me, like i say no but no one hears me. I feel like i have to say and do what people expect from me and to smile...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I feel him pressed up against me, his hands all over my body. I know what he wants but just the thought of it puts me off and I try my best to pull away slightly. I can feel his...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I can see why in Don Jon, there's this underlying theme of vulnerability. I can see why Jon turns to his addiction. He's afraid and unsatisfied with intimacy. He hides behind a...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F Aug 12

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    When you're left feeling vulnerable as a result of heartache. That has to be the absolute worst.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    When your feeling down and it makes other people upset it just makes you feel worse.
    dreadheadgal dreadheadgal 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    We were becoming good friends but the moment I said I was back with my boyfriend you disappeared. Its hard not texting calling or emailing. Even harder to pretend our friendship...
    annieannana annieannana 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I am married and not looking to get divorced but would like to talk to a man who thinks I'm attractive.
    lsulady16 lsulady16 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I wish I could have a good day. Its like I don't see them at all anymore.
    Workoutguy720 Workoutguy720 26-30, M Aug 2

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    So I find out my boyfriend was cheating on me. I balled my eyes out and couldn't stop. I had a panic attack and was freaking out. He came out and I flipped out on him. He said he...
    MyScarsTellAStory2000 MyScarsTellAStory2000 13-15, F Aug 5

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    I really wish I could find a friend with benefits it's been six months since my wife has given me any. But there are certain things I like in a woman. I think my wife is having an...
    jokerstwn jokerstwn 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    I try and talk to people about the way I am feeling as they are supposed to be friends and I am feeling as I am a bother because it is clear that some of them have not the...
    ador802 ador802 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    How do you ask a girl what your friendship is without saying the word friend so they can't be "friend zoned"
    Dg135 Dg135 22-25, M Jul 22

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    When I go back to university and my student house I'm not going to have any friends in my house and I haven't really got to know my course mates I'm going to be really lonely but I...
    annoyedgirl annoyedgirl 18-21, F Jul 29

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    Lol. The real panic and anxiety mood. Vulnerable to fear. Phobic of bad coming. Or loss of good. Lol.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Jul 31

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    I usually try to avoid parties. Cause when i go i cant seem to make friends. I always end up alone at my chair watching how everyone has a good time. When we r eating its not that...
    malu1835 malu1835 18-21, F Aug 2

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    I called my mom this evening to wish her an early happy birthday for tomorrow as I will be working then and not have a good moment to call her. She answered the phone happy and...
    namgal namgal 46-50, F Aug 2

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    Was at a party last week where a girl I was chatting to seemed nice and said she was 17 so I added her the next day but after she accepted it turned out she was 15 I messaged her...
    Dg135 Dg135 22-25, M Aug 8

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    I always try my best and it's not good enough for my family
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 9

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    My heart longs to be touched, caressed by the affections of one who truly understands me. One who can set my heart aflutter with just their presence in a room full of people. One...
    RoughRed RoughRed 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Probably codependant. Or crazy.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    I got a headache, It's been bothering me since yesterday. I just can't make it go away :-(
    AcousticLover AcousticLover 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I know ill never be good enough for anyone. ill never be anyones first second or even tenth choice. But it still hurts knowing that im not worth anyones time effort or love
    nevergoodenough98 nevergoodenough98 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    I'm tired of tryin to be perfect for everyone. I have flaws, many flaws actually. People need to accept that and not judge me because i'm not some perfect, gorgeous, model looking...
    leahxxgabrielle leahxxgabrielle 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I’m too upset to take a nap and too tired to do anything productive what the heck my thoughts are replaying the scene of today endlessly, make it stop.
    HaruhiOnAQuest HaruhiOnAQuest 16-17, F Aug 12

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    I'm sick of people, chocolate ice cream and netflix are now my two best friends :p
    Anotherrose96 Anotherrose96 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    The memories that you once loved are the memories that bring so much pain. Some are easy to forget but then some remain. They just hang around waiting to come out of no where. It...
    joyfullady joyfullady 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Today i am feeling down!!! I had a good day untill the night came around !!! Mu bf works out of town and only comes he on weekends so since i have no friends i like to hang out...
    paola04414 paola04414 18-21, F Jul 22

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