I Hate Feeling Like The Third Wheel

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 119 People

    kenner17 kenner17
    18-21, F
    Aug 3, 2014

    I'm going to keep this short

    and sweet. my best friend and i have been best friends ever since 2nd grade. I love her too death and nothing will ever change that but now we both like the same guy and everything changed. all 3 of us are friends and we all hang out but I sometimes feel like the third wheel. I...
    amarie99 amarie99
    16-17, F
    Aug 14, 2014

    I feel like I'm never going to be "cool enough"

    or "wanted enough" to be someone's best friend
    juliarose101 juliarose101
    16-17, F
    Sep 1, 2015

    My best friend has a boyfriend.

    And she sees him every morning when we walk to school. And I'm always left, walking behind them and I hate it because he's in a huge group and I feel like they're always judging me because I walk alone. And it sucks because my boyfriends a year older so he's in college now. So I...
    Anon156 Anon156
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 3, 2014

    I'm always the third wheel.

    My friend and I been friends for 4 years and she has been with this guy for almost a year now. Every time she asks me to hang out she always brings her bf! its like she can't breath without him , and its frustrating because I miss my best friend and when he's around I can't talk...
    Purpletears17 Purpletears17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2015

    My two best friends (one girl one guy) started

    dating a year ago and now whenever all three of us go somewhere I feel like the third wheel.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 12, 2014

    At the moment, 3rd wheel seems to have a hold

    on me. I wish it would let go. Sometimes its fingers just brush me, but I always know it's there. Maybe I need new friends.
    stupidfears stupidfears
    16-17, F
    Sep 27, 2014

    I have two other really good friends,

    but it seems like they're a lot closer. I know I can't do anything about that, but it bothers my that they treat each other better than they treat me. I can't talk to them about this because they don't understand. Sometimes, it feels like they're rubbing it in my face that they...
    nativetongue nativetongue
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2015

    Recently I met my boyfriends friend

    that he has been friends with for many years. That story is a weird one already. But when we hung out, I ended up feelings like the the third wheel. They would talk and talk about things I had no idea about. Made me feel horrible. Everytime I tried to make conversation I felt...
    MissBloodKittie MissBloodKittie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 27, 2013

    I get invited to hang out with my

    so called best friend but he always invites his girlfriend. And I feel left out and I just hate feeling like a third wheel
    thelonewolf66 thelonewolf66
    18-21, M
    Jun 1, 2014
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