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I Hate Feeling Lonely

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    When I go back to university

    and my student house I'm not going to have any friends in my house and I haven't really got to know my course mates I'm going to be really lonely but I need to think positive it means I can focus on my work I'll spend less money and I can always call my boyfriend or my best...
    annoyedgirl annoyedgirl 18-21, F Jul 29

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    One Of Those Times.....

    I was kept isolated as a child due to my father not allowing me to go to sleepovers or parties at other friends homes. As a result of this and not having siblings I got used to being alone and always had ways to occupy my time. Read a lot and played with my pets. I did have...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    Being lonely horrible.

    . I feel lonely right now but I don't understand why... I feel empty inside .. I've been feeling like this for sometime ... I'm kind of use to it but it's eating me up already... I just want to leave my house go out and walk ... Disappear from this world for a bit...
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F Nov 28, 2013

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    The Black Hole, Is There Any Light At The End Of The Tunnel !!

    Im a 48 yr old female. I sue to be very out going and bubbly, have a lovely husband and lots of nice friends, until bulimia took over my life and took the lot away from me. I Llive in surrey and dont have any friends. I so miss a girlfriend to have girly chats with and shopping...
    Butterflymax Butterflymax 46-50, F Feb 5, 2012

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    Life Path

    so I was reading up on numerology and found that my life path number is 7 and it says I'm a loner, and that it's hard for me to trust in my future, I'm a pessimist and a perfectionist yet idealistic and a foot in both worlds of reality and dreams. I prefer to be alone in this...
    chantelliefay chantelliefay 18-21, F Nov 25, 2013

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    Uh.........

    I suffered from a really bad period of depression around this time last year. Fortunately, I have the love of an amazing boyfriend and a great little sister, and they helped me through it. And I think I've come out a much better person. No, I know I have. I'm not the same...
    delcesca delcesca 22-25, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Pondering....

    Lying here with the birds wake up call, feeling restless once more, what's the time now where you are? Maybe you're out of just real busy. Waiting Contemplating Pondering and pondering. Dreaming of your presence, feeling you, smelling you, tasting you. Need you to tease me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2012

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    Hate the feeling of being alone.

    I lost contact with my friends from high school. They got marry or had child. Im the only one that decide to go to college. For that my childhood friends and people who I care critique me for being the only one getting an education. So I decided to pull away. I can't make...
    malu1835 malu1835 18-21, F Jun 18

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    MysticalBlade MysticalBlade 13-15, F Feb 11

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    Loney Road

    My story is kind of a long one. I'm currently 20 years old and I am in the military. My story starts back in middle school. I was home schooled 2-5th grade and went back to public school in 6th grade. I wa raised in a Christian home and have a lot of strong morals. Little did I...
    DeathxCheater DeathxCheater 18-21, M Aug 24, 2012

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    I usually try to avoid parties.

    Cause when i go i cant seem to make friends. I always end up alone at my chair watching how everyone has a good time. When we r eating its not that bad. The worst part is when everyone is dancing. And im still sitting down because i cant dance. Its very painful for my legs. So...
    malu1835 malu1835 18-21, F Aug 2

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    Awful

    Been feeling it more and more and having no one to talk about it. Life does get in the way at times, but it always creeps back.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Oct 26, 2013

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    Lonely Love

    A mirror, and one side is a lovely couple, the other side is the lover is grief and lonely. Well I am that lonely person in the mirror, and I always feel lonely, without him, and I hate it.
    Nijiko Nijiko 18-21 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    Lonely

    hey, I am 21 year old engineering student. I have always been into studies never into partying , clubs. I have seen my first love dating someone else . I am never successful at winning someone's heart. I try for the girls I like and I am never successful, they just use me studies...
    Geoengg Geoengg 22-25 Sep 28, 2012

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    Being Alone and Being Lonely Are Worlds Apart

    There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely, in my opinion.  I can be alone and feel quite content, in fact I have times where I prefer to be alone.  I can think in peace then.  But being lonely is horrible. A huge crowd of people can often...
    wavystarz wavystarz 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2007

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    directioner02 directioner02 13-15, F Jan 16

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    Lost

    I dont understand why i feel this way at times, and it seems to be occuring more and more lately. i am around people all the time the good the bad and the ugly, i ensure i have a smile when i see people always, ensure to have a laugh, i am as ive been told the life of the...
    cheryl34 cheryl34 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    Is just the feeling when you really want a hug

    and you know that nobody is there for you ....It is horrible feeling
    eleniseime eleniseime 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    no one ever want's to talk

    unless they need something, i hate being alone.
    jos951 jos951 18-21, M Aug 23

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    Sometimes I feel lonely,

    yet, as soon as I realize I'm getting to close to someone I freeze up and push them away. My mind is totally out of balance and I'm confused about what I want. I've been hurt so much times I can't remember the last time I put my trust in someone. I don't know how to give in...
    harleyq53 harleyq53 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    I hate the thought of being alone.

    I've always been alone, my parents are too busy to pay any attention to me. My sister well she just doesn't talk to me at times. When I started kindergarten I was and still am a social freak, I've always had troubles talking to someone. Elementary and middle school were my...
    AnaTurtle AnaTurtle 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    So Lonely

    Hi all. Well, after driving home for 3 hours from my partners new house, I've been stuck to the laptop trying to find a way to beat this dreadful loneliness. I'm originally from europe, but after meeting my partner in australia while traveling I decided to stay. We have been...
    lonelyL lonelyL 22-25 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    I'm looking for an older woman,

    30 and up .... who is also looking for a chat partner to talk about everything and anything ......
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Feb 18

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    Morning y'all ! Well just got up not

    so long ago and having a cup of lemon tea however I am so dying to have a hug, a really big sincere hug! Well my husband of twelve years seems to have fallen out if love with me coz we haven't had a child together in this time . Life sucks for me right now--- pliz send some...
    namgal namgal 46-50, F May 7

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    I called my mom this evening to wish her an

    early happy birthday for tomorrow as I will be working then and not have a good moment to call her. She answered the phone happy and excited as we live in different continents she doesn't hear from me that often. I convey my good wishes and had wanted to chat for longer except...
    namgal namgal 46-50, F Aug 2

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    I don't think anyone likes feeling alone .

    . It's been a while I don't feel lonely and I am so glad I haven't! I'm such a cheerful person and I love to talk. So obviously I hate being alone...
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    I hate this feeling. Going day by day with no

    one to talk to. Having no close friends or anyone for that matter to call a friend, to share random stupid things about :( I always feel like I try to talk to others via net & I'm always the one interested in talking & being silly. I never get the same thing in return. I can...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    i hate feeling lonely,

    and missing someone who means the world to u , and smetimes it seems like they dont care or they dont even love you back.........#feelingsad
    sheenaboo sheenaboo 18-21, F Jan 29

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    People All Around But Still Alone

    Sometimes the feeling hits, loneliness.  It can happen anytime randomly.  Sometimes even when surrounded by people.  How can this be?  Even though sometimes it seems like I have everything in the world, loneliness rears its ugly head and leaves me feeling...
    chance1 chance1 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    I hate when I feel so lonely .

    When I feel that way I just wanna cry and cry so much and eat as well idk y but I do.
    kikolola kikolola 18-21, F Sep 7

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    No More

    I really don't know what to do anymore. I feel this is a bit silly, as posting online might even make me more upset but I'm just sick of everything going on in my life at the moment, and I feel uncomfortable venting to my 'friends', particularly because I don't have any that are...
    coliflower13 coliflower13 13-15 2 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    Is it wrong of me to feel envy toward others iv

    never had a truly happy moment that was for me iv had happy moments when I see my sister do great things or when I talk to my mom but not me alone iv put my life on the line for people constantly and yet I can never earn people's respect lets like I'm not ment to be happy
    kintobeans kintobeans 22-25, M Jun 25

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    The Best Laid Defenses

    Equipped with heavy armor, but no sword, just a pen, I attack with feeling, emotion, longing, desire, Yet who can penetrate my defense? Now then, Who has the will to see beyond appearances so inexorably dire? In my solitude, my heart is preserved from the deepest pains...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M Feb 17, 2011

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    I Am Fed Up With Feeling Lonely

    I hate feeling lonely.. and I don't know why this is!! I have a job, but I am quite young, and I only work with older people. I don't do other activities after work, which I probably should do.. but im just feeling soo lonely and unfulfilled!! All I see all the time, is people...
    amydance amydance 22-25 5 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    Tired Of Being Lonely

    As i type this, my husband is sleeping beside me. Hecame home early from.work today...first time bfore midnight in.a week, and just laid on the couch and watched movies. I know he works so much and gets tired, but i stay home with a 4 yr old alk day (we only have 1 car that he...
    gatsbygirl gatsbygirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Sometimes I want to cry in class because of this. I used to be so loud and fun and now I feel so depressed. I hate going to a new hs because you're getting ignored. Sure there are...
    alyssagrey14 alyssagrey14 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I love my time all to myself but hate the feeling that I'm all alone. To be surrounded by so many people kind of freaks me out but I also need that one person to talk too so I won...
    honeybree20 honeybree20 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 8

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    i am so weird sometimes. i get so lonely but instead of seeking out companionship, what do i do? i push everyone away. i go hide. i drowned out the world with my music cranked up...
    SadisticBitch SadisticBitch 31-35, F Aug 23

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    Still together yet so horribly lonely...
    jycdartmniac jycdartmniac 18-21, F Aug 22

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    I have a few different feelings that are similar and I can't stand feeling the way I do about it. First, my real family; I miss them all so much but especially my sister and...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Aug 31

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    Just lost another one of my great friends Idk what I did to deserve it. I am feeling very lonely though I honestly have no idea what to do now
    MsLouisLane MsLouisLane 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't know where to start, i mean, i'm surprised that i come here to share my experience... I'm not someone how can really talk about the problemes that i struggle with in my...
    Ousss Ousss 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My nights have suddenly gotten lonely and depressing and I don't know what to do about it.
    SuperWomanFly SuperWomanFly 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    I am feel lonely today wish had somebody to talk to.........
    Macrajat Macrajat 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    lost my family.i feel depressed and lonely when i see people enjoying with their family.my relatives are damn fake,hence unreliable..please help
    tiktok234 tiktok234 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Even though life is going pretty great, I can't help but notice this huge void in my life. I'm missing someone else to share my life with. To share myself with. I have all the time...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I wish this madness was over, because I hate sitting back here being helpless watching all the pain and suffering your going through.
    Verix Verix 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I hate letting my guard down. Makes me feel vulnerable at times. Seems like burned every time
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    There is no place for emotions and feelings and no one cares.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 1

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    I don't have time for it anymore. Being used and abused for having it is not worth it. I love feeling nothing. It's the only way to get by in this world.
    Iyaniaya Iyaniaya 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    I love feeling vulnerable when I choose too. I am working on trusting people but giving up complete or even a good amount of control stresses me out
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 12

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