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I Hate Feeling Lonely

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    Is just the feeling when you really want a hug

    and you know that nobody is there for you ....It is horrible feeling
    eleniseime eleniseime 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Awful

    Been feeling it more and more and having no one to talk about it. Life does get in the way at times, but it always creeps back.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Oct 26, 2013

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    Sometimes I feel lonely,

    yet, as soon as I realize I'm getting to close to someone I freeze up and push them away. My mind is totally out of balance and I'm confused about what I want. I've been hurt so much times I can't remember the last time I put my trust in someone. I don't know how to give in...
    harleyq53 harleyq53 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    i hate feeling lonely,

    and missing someone who means the world to u , and smetimes it seems like they dont care or they dont even love you back.........#feelingsad
    sheenaboo sheenaboo 18-21, F Jan 29

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    Loney Road

    My story is kind of a long one. I'm currently 20 years old and I am in the military. My story starts back in middle school. I was home schooled 2-5th grade and went back to public school in 6th grade. I wa raised in a Christian home and have a lot of strong morals. Little did I...
    DeathxCheater DeathxCheater 18-21, M Aug 24, 2012

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    People All Around But Still Alone

    Sometimes the feeling hits, loneliness.  It can happen anytime randomly.  Sometimes even when surrounded by people.  How can this be?  Even though sometimes it seems like I have everything in the world, loneliness rears its ugly head and leaves me feeling...
    chance1 chance1 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    Lost

    I dont understand why i feel this way at times, and it seems to be occuring more and more lately. i am around people all the time the good the bad and the ugly, i ensure i have a smile when i see people always, ensure to have a laugh, i am as ive been told the life of the...
    cheryl34 cheryl34 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    I don't think anyone likes feeling alone .

    . It's been a while I don't feel lonely and I am so glad I haven't! I'm such a cheerful person and I love to talk. So obviously I hate being alone...
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    MysticalBlade MysticalBlade 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 11

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    So Lonely

    Hi all. Well, after driving home for 3 hours from my partners new house, I've been stuck to the laptop trying to find a way to beat this dreadful loneliness. I'm originally from europe, but after meeting my partner in australia while traveling I decided to stay. We have been...
    lonelyL lonelyL 22-25 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    Lonely

    hey, I am 21 year old engineering student. I have always been into studies never into partying , clubs. I have seen my first love dating someone else . I am never successful at winning someone's heart. I try for the girls I like and I am never successful, they just use me studies...
    Geoengg Geoengg 22-25 Sep 28, 2012

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    I'm looking for an older woman,

    30 and up .... who is also looking for a chat partner to talk about everything and anything ......
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Feb 18

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    The Black Hole, Is There Any Light At The End Of The Tunnel !!

    Im a 48 yr old female. I sue to be very out going and bubbly, have a lovely husband and lots of nice friends, until bulimia took over my life and took the lot away from me. I Llive in surrey and dont have any friends. I so miss a girlfriend to have girly chats with and shopping...
    Butterflymax Butterflymax 46-50, F Feb 5, 2012

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    Uh.........

    I suffered from a really bad period of depression around this time last year. Fortunately, I have the love of an amazing boyfriend and a great little sister, and they helped me through it. And I think I've come out a much better person. No, I know I have. I'm not the same...
    delcesca delcesca 18-21, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Tired Of Being Lonely

    As i type this, my husband is sleeping beside me. Hecame home early from.work today...first time bfore midnight in.a week, and just laid on the couch and watched movies. I know he works so much and gets tired, but i stay home with a 4 yr old alk day (we only have 1 car that he...
    gatsbygirl gatsbygirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    I Am Fed Up With Feeling Lonely

    I hate feeling lonely.. and I don't know why this is!! I have a job, but I am quite young, and I only work with older people. I don't do other activities after work, which I probably should do.. but im just feeling soo lonely and unfulfilled!! All I see all the time, is people...
    amydance amydance 22-25 5 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    The Best Laid Defenses

    Equipped with heavy armor, but no sword, just a pen, I attack with feeling, emotion, longing, desire, Yet who can penetrate my defense? Now then, Who has the will to see beyond appearances so inexorably dire? In my solitude, my heart is preserved from the deepest pains...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M Feb 17, 2011

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    Being lonely horrible.

    . I feel lonely right now but I don't understand why... I feel empty inside .. I've been feeling like this for sometime ... I'm kind of use to it but it's eating me up already... I just want to leave my house go out and walk ... Disappear from this world for a bit...
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F Nov 28, 2013

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    Lonely Love

    A mirror, and one side is a lovely couple, the other side is the lover is grief and lonely. Well I am that lonely person in the mirror, and I always feel lonely, without him, and I hate it.
    Nijiko Nijiko 18-21 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    directioner02 directioner02 13-15, F Jan 16

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    Just got home from a netball game.

    We lost lol. It's 12.28am, i just finished one bottle & i feel kinda lonely. I miss my boyfriend who's in prison & it always hits me at night when im alone in my room. Hate this feeling, it ******* sucks. But i always get over it because that's just the way i am. Im tired but...
    Charlie794 Charlie794 18-21, F Apr 9

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    No More

    I really don't know what to do anymore. I feel this is a bit silly, as posting online might even make me more upset but I'm just sick of everything going on in my life at the moment, and I feel uncomfortable venting to my 'friends', particularly because I don't have any that are...
    coliflower13 coliflower13 13-15 2 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    Being Alone and Being Lonely Are Worlds Apart

    There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely, in my opinion.  I can be alone and feel quite content, in fact I have times where I prefer to be alone.  I can think in peace then.  But being lonely is horrible. A huge crowd of people can often...
    wavystarz wavystarz 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2007

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    Pondering....

    Lying here with the birds wake up call, feeling restless once more, what's the time now where you are? Maybe you're out of just real busy. Waiting Contemplating Pondering and pondering. Dreaming of your presence, feeling you, smelling you, tasting you. Need you to tease me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2012

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    One Of Those Times.....

    I was kept isolated as a child due to my father not allowing me to go to sleepovers or parties at other friends homes. As a result of this and not having siblings I got used to being alone and always had ways to occupy my time. Read a lot and played with my pets. I did have...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    I hate this feeling. Going day by day with no

    one to talk to. Having no close friends or anyone for that matter to call a friend, to share random stupid things about :( I always feel like I try to talk to others via net & I'm always the one interested in talking & being silly. I never get the same thing in return. I can...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I am feeling lonely and unloved. My boyfriend (38) has bipolar and he ignores me and makes me feel insecure!! I feel like he maybe seeing someone else although he is very anti...
    Nikki2292 Nikki2292 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hate feeling worthless....
    Wishingtobegone Wishingtobegone 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    Yeah like I hate it when I tell some one not to message some one r not to do something they do it anyway I just hate it grrrrrr
    Wolflover247 Wolflover247 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    It's Rare that I feel this way. I try to notice my emotions. When I feel them, why, if certain people trigger it. I'm trying to notice these kinds of things so I can be happy and...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I really don't know what's worse, opening up to someone and getting hurt, or feeling this lonely:/ all my friends abandon me in my time of need, and most people don't even want to...
    xMina97x xMina97x 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    Having time to myself and doing what I want feels good at times. If it happens too much, then the feeling of loneliness sets in. I want to and trying to be more social, but it gets...
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Mar 29

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    I have list the best thing to happen to me in my life since splitting up with my girlfriend of 13years coz I always put helping others first I have never felt so Alone. I'm lonely...
    fish221 fish221 31-35, M Mar 31

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    Ok, so I'm bi and I'm really lonely and I just want a boyfriend, even though I'm bi I do because I just like guys a little more than girls at the moment I'm 14, the point is that I...
    BiGuyLover14 BiGuyLover14 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I hate how guys can't just tell you if they like you or not.
    gabbbieeee gabbbieeee 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I didn't expect to be 30 yrs old and still feeling so lost n confused.. What's going on???
    Kathyis30 Kathyis30 26-30, F Apr 10

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    Sometimes it's like no matter what i've accomplished through my years of high school and growing up it's all for nothing. I haven't done anything spectacular like volunteer...
    Lifeshouldsparkle Lifeshouldsparkle 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    I've been single for 2 years, all my best friends have boyfriends, and they all keep blowing me off to spend time with said boyfriends. I'm sick of it! Help me 😞
    allthebestintentions allthebestintentions 18-21, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I wish he was back miss his hugs and kisses <3
    huhsorryiwasoverthinking huhsorryiwasoverthinking 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Oh man anyone wanna talk theres no one to talk to :(
    powerstar38 powerstar38 18-21, M Mar 29

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    I'm tired of having this constant need and emptiness in my heart. I'm tired of being in love with love. I just want to love myself and be a whole and complete person with out the...
    Allrandom Allrandom 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    My heart is about to explode. I am thinking should let the person I love from my life or should I fight for that person. I am tired of trying and can't hurt my self esteem anymore...
    Rainagiri Rainagiri 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Tired of falling for damn lies I don't deserve it
    R3b3llion32 R3b3llion32 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    No good deed goes unpunished, I know no truer words.
    cartmanlover cartmanlover 18-21 Mar 31

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    I got to see my wonderful boyfriend and I was going to tell him about what's going on but I can't bring myself to do it
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I get confused so easily when it comes to guys, I just pretend to understand so I don't annoy them
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F a week ago

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    I hate feeling lonely...I wish there was someone there who cared
    Narnar7 Narnar7 13-15, F 9 Responses Apr 5

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    I want that feeling of being loved not just how a family or friend loves you but love from a person when I can just wake up next to them and feel that sense of safety and happiness...
    Dreamsarepoison Dreamsarepoison 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Last year my girlfriend suddenly broke the relation, my parents were away from me, I live in the city alone. Feeling lonely, can't find anyone to talk, make love.
    NuNu71 NuNu71 26-30, M 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Feeling lonely tonight. I can't wait until this weekend is over.
    Traveler721 Traveler721 36-40, F 3 Responses 36 mins ago

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    This **** sucks. I've been feeling lonely way too long. Im an introvert by nature and i dont mind being by myself but i hate feeling of being alone. Like no understand u, not even...
    Zoneout167 Zoneout167 22-25, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    On this site, there are so many people feeling lonely already, that means there are much much more people feeling lonely in this world. So actually we are not lonely in feeling...
    OTIOSUM OTIOSUM 18-21, F Mar 31

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    I am lonely because I don't feel that I connect completely with anyone in my life on a mental level. I enjoy mental stimulation, and I like learning about others. I do enjoy...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 1

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    I hate the feeling of missing someone, even though they say it's what makes the reunion more special. I hate the feeling of losing someone, it hurts deep. I hate the feeling of...
    grey019 grey019 31-35, M