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I Hate Feeling Lonely

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    I Am Fed Up With Feeling Lonely

    I hate feeling lonely.. and I don't know why this is!! I have a job, but I am quite young, and I only work with older people. I don't do other activities after work, which I probably should do.. but im just feeling soo lonely and unfulfilled!! All I see all the time, is people...
    amydance amydance 22-25 5 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    Lonely Love

    A mirror, and one side is a lovely couple, the other side is the lover is grief and lonely. Well I am that lonely person in the mirror, and I always feel lonely, without him, and I hate it.
    Nijiko Nijiko 18-21 2 Responses May 4, 2012

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    Pondering....

    Lying here with the birds wake up call, feeling restless once more, what's the time now where you are? Maybe you're out of just real busy. Waiting Contemplating Pondering and pondering. Dreaming of your presence, feeling you, smelling you, tasting you. Need you to tease me...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 19, 2012

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    Awful

    Been feeling it more and more and having no one to talk about it. Life does get in the way at times, but it always creeps back.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Oct 26, 2013

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    Tired Of Being Lonely

    As i type this, my husband is sleeping beside me. Hecame home early from.work today...first time bfore midnight in.a week, and just laid on the couch and watched movies. I know he works so much and gets tired, but i stay home with a 4 yr old alk day (we only have 1 car that he...
    gatsbygirl gatsbygirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 29, 2013

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    Is just the feeling when you really want a hug

    and you know that nobody is there for you ....It is horrible feeling
    eleniseime eleniseime 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2013

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    Uh.........

    I suffered from a really bad period of depression around this time last year. Fortunately, I have the love of an amazing boyfriend and a great little sister, and they helped me through it. And I think I've come out a much better person. No, I know I have. I'm not the same...
    delcesca delcesca 18-21, F Aug 30, 2013

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    Life Path

    so I was reading up on numerology and found that my life path number is 7 and it says I'm a loner, and that it's hard for me to trust in my future, I'm a pessimist and a perfectionist yet idealistic and a foot in both worlds of reality and dreams. I prefer to be alone in this...
    chantelliefay chantelliefay 18-21, F Nov 25, 2013

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    I hate this feeling. Going day by day with no

    one to talk to. Having no close friends or anyone for that matter to call a friend, to share random stupid things about :( I always feel like I try to talk to others via net & I'm always the one interested in talking & being silly. I never get the same thing in return. I can...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    Hate the feeling of being alone.

    I lost contact with my friends from high school. They got marry or had child. Im the only one that decide to go to college. For that my childhood friends and people who I care critique me for being the only one getting an education. So I decided to pull away. I can't make...
    malu1835 malu1835 18-21, F Jun 18

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    No More

    I really don't know what to do anymore. I feel this is a bit silly, as posting online might even make me more upset but I'm just sick of everything going on in my life at the moment, and I feel uncomfortable venting to my 'friends', particularly because I don't have any that are...
    coliflower13 coliflower13 13-15 2 Responses Nov 7, 2012

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    Lost

    I dont understand why i feel this way at times, and it seems to be occuring more and more lately. i am around people all the time the good the bad and the ugly, i ensure i have a smile when i see people always, ensure to have a laugh, i am as ive been told the life of the...
    cheryl34 cheryl34 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    The Black Hole, Is There Any Light At The End Of The Tunnel !!

    Im a 48 yr old female. I sue to be very out going and bubbly, have a lovely husband and lots of nice friends, until bulimia took over my life and took the lot away from me. I Llive in surrey and dont have any friends. I so miss a girlfriend to have girly chats with and shopping...
    Butterflymax Butterflymax 46-50, F Feb 5, 2012

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    I'm looking for an older woman,

    30 and up .... who is also looking for a chat partner to talk about everything and anything ......
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M Feb 18

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    i hate feeling lonely,

    and missing someone who means the world to u , and smetimes it seems like they dont care or they dont even love you back.........#feelingsad
    sheenaboo sheenaboo 18-21, F Jan 29

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    So Lonely

    Hi all. Well, after driving home for 3 hours from my partners new house, I've been stuck to the laptop trying to find a way to beat this dreadful loneliness. I'm originally from europe, but after meeting my partner in australia while traveling I decided to stay. We have been...
    lonelyL lonelyL 22-25 1 Response Oct 21, 2012

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    I don't think anyone likes feeling alone .

    . It's been a while I don't feel lonely and I am so glad I haven't! I'm such a cheerful person and I love to talk. So obviously I hate being alone...
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    People All Around But Still Alone

    Sometimes the feeling hits, loneliness.  It can happen anytime randomly.  Sometimes even when surrounded by people.  How can this be?  Even though sometimes it seems like I have everything in the world, loneliness rears its ugly head and leaves me feeling...
    chance1 chance1 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 3, 2009

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    directioner02 directioner02 13-15, F Jan 16

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    Is it wrong of me to feel envy toward others iv

    never had a truly happy moment that was for me iv had happy moments when I see my sister do great things or when I talk to my mom but not me alone iv put my life on the line for people constantly and yet I can never earn people's respect lets like I'm not ment to be happy
    kintobeans kintobeans 22-25, M Jun 25

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    Being lonely horrible.

    . I feel lonely right now but I don't understand why... I feel empty inside .. I've been feeling like this for sometime ... I'm kind of use to it but it's eating me up already... I just want to leave my house go out and walk ... Disappear from this world for a bit...
    eflor1436 eflor1436 16-17, F Nov 28, 2013

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    The Best Laid Defenses

    Equipped with heavy armor, but no sword, just a pen, I attack with feeling, emotion, longing, desire, Yet who can penetrate my defense? Now then, Who has the will to see beyond appearances so inexorably dire? In my solitude, my heart is preserved from the deepest pains...
    KeasbeyNights KeasbeyNights 22-25, M Feb 17, 2011

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    Being Alone and Being Lonely Are Worlds Apart

    There is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely, in my opinion.  I can be alone and feel quite content, in fact I have times where I prefer to be alone.  I can think in peace then.  But being lonely is horrible. A huge crowd of people can often...
    wavystarz wavystarz 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 18, 2007

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    Loney Road

    My story is kind of a long one. I'm currently 20 years old and I am in the military. My story starts back in middle school. I was home schooled 2-5th grade and went back to public school in 6th grade. I wa raised in a Christian home and have a lot of strong morals. Little did I...
    DeathxCheater DeathxCheater 18-21, M Aug 24, 2012

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    I hate the thought of being alone.

    I've always been alone, my parents are too busy to pay any attention to me. My sister well she just doesn't talk to me at times. When I started kindergarten I was and still am a social freak, I've always had troubles talking to someone. Elementary and middle school were my...
    AnaTurtle AnaTurtle 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 18

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    Sometimes I feel lonely,

    yet, as soon as I realize I'm getting to close to someone I freeze up and push them away. My mind is totally out of balance and I'm confused about what I want. I've been hurt so much times I can't remember the last time I put my trust in someone. I don't know how to give in...
    harleyq53 harleyq53 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Lonely

    hey, I am 21 year old engineering student. I have always been into studies never into partying , clubs. I have seen my first love dating someone else . I am never successful at winning someone's heart. I try for the girls I like and I am never successful, they just use me studies...
    Geoengg Geoengg 22-25 Sep 28, 2012

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    Morning y'all ! Well just got up not

    so long ago and having a cup of lemon tea however I am so dying to have a hug, a really big sincere hug! Well my husband of twelve years seems to have fallen out if love with me coz we haven't had a child together in this time . Life sucks for me right now--- pliz send some...
    namgal namgal 46-50, F May 7

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    MysticalBlade MysticalBlade 13-15, F Feb 11

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    One Of Those Times.....

    I was kept isolated as a child due to my father not allowing me to go to sleepovers or parties at other friends homes. As a result of this and not having siblings I got used to being alone and always had ways to occupy my time. Read a lot and played with my pets. I did have...
    dartist dartist 56-60, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    ivonita2 ivonita2 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    Ok this is actually my 1st post and it's somethings that have been bothering me for months now. I got pregnant last summer by a loser. Although before that I didn't know he was one...
    tiffani425 tiffani425 26-30, F Jun 25

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    47. Bright. Caring. Disabled. Lmao. Not sure how to be an adult. Feel like rainman version of dear abby. Know behavior and motive. Plus recovery or coping...
    converted converted 46-50, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    It really sucks being with someone for so long, I know he knows me and what makes me upset but it's like he doesn't even care. It's so unfair the way I'm treated and maybe I'm just...
    LeslieMarie247 LeslieMarie247 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    the thing is im lonely when im not alone. when im on my own, i shed the several walls i have up at any time and let my guard down. When im alone, i can wear shorts and a tank top...
    FreeJazz FreeJazz 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I just came out of a relationship that was on again and off again for the last 6 yrs. Before that I was married to my first Ed for nearly 14 yrs (my second relationship was w/a...
    mamabutterfly mamabutterfly 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    My friends are either married or live far from me, I am single and I work long hours during the day. I have no one to talk to when I'm back home, let alone someone to go out with...
    PurpleQueen PurpleQueen 36-40, F Jul 7

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    Hey friends, I found myself loving a famous boy,and it's neither a fake nor a hormonal feeling.so let me tell u what the story is all about: One of my friends,that loves him also...
    Elina14 Elina14 13-15, F Jun 30

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    Would be nice for someone to tell me sweet things right now feeling sad for no reason.
    lostanchor lostanchor 18-21 Jul 10

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    That heavy feeling in my heart when I think about people I have lost. The feeling of wanting to cry so hard but having to hold them back because I don't want to explain why I am...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jul 1

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    don't like the feeling of having a cold/flu you can't go anywhere or do much it sucks
    deedeebear deedeebear 18-21, F Jun 28

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    I feel ugly everyday I hate going into public because I don't want people to see my face I pray to god sometimes to make me feel good but at the end of the day I still feel ugly...
    jailaharper jailaharper 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Someone I really care about has told me something about them. It's really sad, and I wish I could swap places with them right now. No matter what I say, nothing will help , and I...
    EmmaLL1999 EmmaLL1999 13-15, F Jul 4

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    I have a naturally quiet voice and its hard for me to project my voice so sitting with a bunch of people who think yelling is the way to have a conversation is hard. I was having...
    Anicia47 Anicia47 16-17, F Jul 5

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    I've only had one relationship my whole life. Know that I am single again I should be happy but I'm not. I'm a free agent god dammit. Why can't I just go on with life like other's...
    fifteenyearslost fifteenyearslost 36-40, M 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Yeah...thats how I feel today...
    whynoonelikeme whynoonelikeme 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm an older guy and long married for 25 years to a wife who shows no affection, shows quiet contempt, and cuddles with her dog as she baby talks to him, then turns to me, Ice cold...
    BocaMan BocaMan 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    I just want a man to make me feel beautiful again.. Sigh.
    Better32 Better32 31-35, F Jul 2

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    I have been an extrovert but because the society where I am living is very closed and have no entertainment I started to struggle in life and I lost hope in having regular social...
    Samuelsss Samuelsss 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    Although being single was amazingly beautiful but after this break up it feels like that missing piece of my heart is lost.
    SnowWhiteBlue SnowWhiteBlue 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9

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