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I Hate Feeling Useless

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    It's Awkward - You know, like, when you're at someone's family's house for dinner, and everyone is off doing their own thing or catching up, and you're just kind of standing...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Mar 5, 2010

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    I'M Useless - Lately I been feeling very useless not able to have a very good friendship in my life. I kinda sick hearing people saying things will get better because it hard to...
    ChillyWilly82 ChillyWilly82 31-35, M Mar 7, 2013

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    Nothing - I am completely useless. All I do is take take take. I'm no good to anyone and just a dead weight bringing everyone down.
    newmurderer newmurderer 70+ 4 Responses Apr 30, 2010

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    Why Do I Feel Useless and Second Best to My Siblings - Most days I feel useless to most people in the world. Nothing I do seems to be good enough. To make it worse I suffer from...
    PabloEstrata PabloEstrata 22-25, M 2 Responses Sep 7, 2009

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    Stress. - I hate feeling worthless and unimportant and... well.... useless. Especially when everyone tells me that I am all of those things. I try my best to be my best, but it's...
    ASGKPFG ASGKPFG 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2012

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    Useless And Bored - I'm a 35 yr old male who feels like I have zero going on in my life. I have a boring desk job, live in an apartment, and have some friends and family, but I...
    joeyjohn78 joeyjohn78 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 14, 2013

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    I feel unwanted and to be honest I hate it. I feel like this at times and idk why. But then again could it be bc I worry too much? Idk but I just want to stop feeling this and stop...
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    Just got home from a netball game. We lost lol. It's 12.28am, i just finished one bottle & i feel kinda lonely. I miss my boyfriend who's in prison & it always hits me at night...
    Charlie794 Charlie794 18-21, F Apr 9

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    I hate this feeling. Going day by day with no one to talk to. Having no close friends or anyone for that matter to call a friend, to share random stupid things about :( I always...
    InnerrBeautty InnerrBeautty 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate how guys can't just tell you if they like you or not.
    gabbbieeee gabbbieeee 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really don't know what's worse, opening up to someone and getting hurt, or feeling this lonely:/ all my friends abandon me in my time of need, and most people don't even want to...
    xMina97x xMina97x 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    I didn't expect to be 30 yrs old and still feeling so lost n confused.. What's going on???
    Kathyis30 Kathyis30 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    Sometimes it's like no matter what i've accomplished through my years of high school and growing up it's all for nothing. I haven't done anything spectacular like volunteer...
    Lifeshouldsparkle Lifeshouldsparkle 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I just want to run away from all the things. Go to place where no one will bother me and sit quietly and do nothing. I want to tests or exams. I don't want my gf or parents. I just...
    angelslover angelslover 22-25, M Mar 17

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    I have a work colleague who I didn't think I liked at first because she would always talk over the top of me and felt like she didn't really listen to me. I try get along with...
    Pinkfluffypen Pinkfluffypen 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Tired of falling for damn lies I don't deserve it
    R3b3llion32 R3b3llion32 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I have list the best thing to happen to me in my life since splitting up with my girlfriend of 13years coz I always put helping others first I have never felt so Alone. I'm lonely...
    fish221 fish221 31-35, M Mar 31

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    No good deed goes unpunished, I know no truer words.
    cartmanlover cartmanlover 18-21 Mar 31

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    I got to see my wonderful boyfriend and I was going to tell him about what's going on but I can't bring myself to do it
    MissSkye MissSkye 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I get confused so easily when it comes to guys, I just pretend to understand so I don't annoy them
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    I hate the feeling of missing someone, even though they say it's what makes the reunion more special. I hate the feeling of losing someone, it hurts deep. I hate the feeling of...
    grey019 grey019 31-35, M Apr 3

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    I wake up every morning feeling useless and pointless and irrelevant. The only reason I haven't off'd myself yet is because I wouldn't want to make my parents feel like they...
    eMojave eMojave 16-17, M Mar 31

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    Okay….so…..I know this is trivial and probably in the long run very unimportant but I feel like I need to say it. So I used to like this guy a lot, but I never liked talking...
    CantThinkofAUsernameNow CantThinkofAUsernameNow 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I don't really hate Indian society, i would like to say i have a hate feeling for Indian Men. Honest, loyal, faithful men are very rare in Indian society. Most of them are lyres...
    heartofspring heartofspring 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want that feeling of being loved not just how a family or friend loves you but love from a person when I can just wake up next to them and feel that sense of safety and happiness...
    Dreamsarepoison Dreamsarepoison 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I tried to sustain my fear and hatred against him. I tried to put myself in his shoes. I tried to make sure that i didn't make any mistake that make him shamed. I tried to make...
    InFiDeL0020 InFiDeL0020 26-30, M 18 hrs ago

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    I am currently living with my mom and I hate it. I know hat living with your parents again sucks once you have moved out but this is really bad. I lived with my dad before I moved...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    I believe my in laws have hated me from day one! My brother in law started it all with rumors he spread before I even met my mother and father in law. Now it streams from my father...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Its hard for me to be serious when it comes to verbally saying i care and love the people i really love because we just show it and all though we fight a lot we know we have each...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    1) I really want to stay up on the computer but my eyes are hurting already. 2) People don't have a good reason for messaging me back shortly after I message them 3) I am taking...
    baseCharlie baseCharlie 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    15 years old. Girl. I've been cutting for 3 years now and I don't know how to Talk to you. I don't know who you are but Thanks for Reading since nobody Talks to me or tries to...
    2wrp 2wrp 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    useless i am useless, i hate meself and want to shoot meself in the head
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 3

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    angry because im useless and worthless, and i know it im angry because i know im useless and worthless, i feel angry at the damn gun laws in this country, the most humane thing...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M Apr 3

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    I have mentioned before on here that our education system sucks, and here I will be making another point as to why. Grades. Do you want to know why kids really hate school? It all...
    PinkMellow PinkMellow 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Well I just started a new job and my husband has been nothing short of useless all he has to do all day is all the stuff he ******* I never do right. He goes back to work at the...
    VBLOVE1106 VBLOVE1106 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 28

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    Being female is just an unnecessary burden. I get stupid urges to be emotional, submissive, useless (I don't mean every girl is like that, just me) and it makes problems. The body...
    LordSphinx LordSphinx 13-15 Mar 31

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    I have nothing to look forward to in life anymore. I feel useless and like no one really cares about me. My family never asks me anything about my life, but then again I don't...
    tamstaub tamstaub 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's more like they aren't even there. I am bad at trying to making people feel better when they are down. I often don't laugh at jokes because I didn't know they were funny. I...
    Hersheychic Hersheychic 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I just want to put a bandage on the world. push a magic button to make everything okay. but I can't. and since I can't, I feel useless in this world. I need to help...
    KatKatastrophy KatKatastrophy 13-15, F Mar 21

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    (Skip to next paragraph to skip my rant, I have some questions) I'm not fun or cool and I don't have special qualities, I feel like I'm stuck in one small square and I'll never be...
    mahnouls mahnouls 16-17 1 Response Apr 7

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    See what I really hate is the people or stupid things that make people hate themselves let me just say this to anyone who's going through a hard time... Do not listen to people who...
    TheFlamingPhoenix TheFlamingPhoenix 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    My Life to me been F up since I waa Born been going thru so much aye Family dat hated me since I was yunger neva had anybody n my circle dat love me for me . I use to feel as if my...
    Moneea Moneea 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I know useless facts about the human body (mostly skin conditions) I have always wanted to be in dermetology but didn't work out so now i just educate myself about it I actually...
    shwaigy shwaigy 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    I've been struggling with illness for about five years ever since I went on beta blockers for a heart ailment. Last year i began to get crippling insomnia. I've lost two jobs...
    cherrybl0ss0ms cherrybl0ss0ms 22-25, F Mar 20

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    I've been struggling with illness for about five years ever since I went on beta blockers for a heart ailment. Last year i began to get crippling insomnia. I've lost two jobs...
    cherrybl0ss0ms cherrybl0ss0ms 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I'm totally in the same boat. I am 28, going on to 29. I am the youngest of three and my two sisters live out but my entire family treats me like a child. I can only really have a...
    lalalatututu lalalatututu 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 17

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    I have a ***** of a cousin. She's my age. 18. She's always starts drama over the most useless ****. And has sex with a different guy every week. I'm sure she has an STD by now...
    Lalafancy Lalafancy 18-21, F Mar 23

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    All this paperwork isn't even worth the $120 I'll be getting in tax refunds. I have the worst headache ever and my parents are so useless and unwilling to help me do this when they...
    acidxxxfire acidxxxfire 18-21, F Mar 26

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    My mom blew up at me because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31