I Hate Fighting And Arguing

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 549 People

    I've had too much growing up.

    Now, I would rather give you your way or ignore you than fight about anything.
    rsgalindo01 rsgalindo01
    31-35, M
    Sep 5, 2014

    My goodness. He won't stop yelling

    and fighting me. Day three now is it since my first posting on it ??? I have been upstairs in my kids room avoiding him until he calms down and he gets mad at me for not spending time with him. How can I if he just going to ***** at me so I stay away
    jcain739 jcain739
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 1, 2014

    I am sorry I just speak

    before I think sometimes ok most of the time and this has some terrible consequences I keep hurting the one woman that I actually love and this is because I'm insecure and overact to stupid little things and read to much into things. I really don't want to argue with you as it...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2014

    Anyone Else Sick Of Arguing.........................

    Seriously.....pulling out my happiness on this one. We"re all here because we have at some points in our lives felt alone. This has been said before but for some reason instead of letting it unite us, Why don"t we think before we post things that may hurt others take a deep...
    Anto815 Anto815
    46-50, F
    Oct 4, 2011

    Had my share of that back in the day.

    Want to love life and everything it has to offer now.
    somedobutsomedont somedobutsomedont
    41-45, F
    May 21, 2014

    At Least Tell Me What I Did Before You Start Yelling

    This has been a week of serious WTF hostilities around here. My co-workers are on edge. My boss is being agressive and paranoid with a hair trigger. My boss's boss actually yelled at someone for the first time since I started working here nearly 7 years ago. A good portion of the...
    FordPrefect42 FordPrefect42
    41-45, M
    7 Responses Feb 2, 2011

    Hate Arguing

    I hate arguing! At my house we are always argue. Sometimes i just rather work all day so i won't have to go home. There was a point when i got up at 6 got ready for school lefted my house at 7:30 got out of school at 10:50 went to work at 11 and left that job at 6 and went...
    SweetLaydee SweetLaydee
    22-25, F
    Feb 13, 2010

    I have done the most stupid thing ever I have

    been wanting to meet this special woman who is such a major part of my life it isn't easy for either of us to meet it's a complicated long story and she gave me the ideal opportunity to meet her and talk to her and what did I do like fool I change my plans so we won't meet this...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey
    36-40, M
    1 Response Sep 5, 2014

    More Than Anything Else

    I hate fighting with someone even if I'm right. If someone yells at me I usualy just walk away and I have only ever been in fistfights to protect my loved ones. But I try to avoid conflict as much as I can.
    ClinicalExtacsy ClinicalExtacsy
    18-21, T
    May 12, 2010

    I'M Always The Bad Guy.

    Brian and I have been fighting for two days now. I started it, but I didn't mean to. I was joking about something stupid and he got angry at me. I tried explaining my joke and then he made me feel like I try to show my friends and family that he doesnt care about me. I never said...
    kpagan418 kpagan418
    18-21
    Feb 18, 2013

    Just had one with mum.

    She's upset and mad because I haven't eaten in 3 days. Maybe she's just worried because I have been feeling ill lately. I took medicine with no meal. She's furious. I want to eat to apologize, but I have no appetite. Mum also asked me to tell honestly what the hell is happening...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    Hot And Cold........................

    My husband can be really nece out of the blue disconnects emotionally out of the blue which upsets me . Then he shouts at me for being upset. Then he is nice to me. He claims he does"nt know he doing it and that he wants  it all to be nice/ How do you cope with someone who...
    Anto815 Anto815
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2011

    I just can't really take it seriously,

    I'm not someone that gets mad, maybe that's why. But I don't like confrontation in the first place. It makes me feel annoyed and tense, I don't like that....
    LikeICare13 LikeICare13
    13-15, F
    Feb 10

    You know it's bad when your morning starts off

    with a screaming match and throwing your coffee on someone..
    Femininewiles Femininewiles
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 18, 2015

    I am proud of myself.

    Me and my man almost fought over me eating or not . It was cause he cares . But I kept my cool and we didn't fight. I think these pills are working.
    jcain739 jcain739
    41-45, F
    Oct 3, 2014

    Used To Avoid It

    I used to avoid fighting and arguing at all costs - I was the diplomatic punching bag of whatever selfish ***** wanted to use me.  This. is. NOT. the. case. anymore. Nuff said.
    MovingForward28 MovingForward28
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2010

    I used to constantly fight

    and argue with everyone and it's just sad how it happens and I feel like crying for letting my anger control me.
    FoxFan64 FoxFan64
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2015

    A Ram With A Conscience

    I may be an Aries Ram however that doesn't mean I like fighting or confrontation. In fact I don't like it, I hate who I become when I get into a fight. I hate slinging mud and barbs or getting to the point where my blood is boiling. I see it as being my worst yet I will not...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 22, 2010
    Frankineedles Frankineedles
    16-17, F
    1 Response May 30, 2014

    I would rather bang my head into a brick wall

    than fight and argue. when one wakes up in the morning you would think a good morning would be a nice way to start the day.
    1bigbuck 1bigbuck
    46-50, M
    Jun 24, 2015

    F & A

    It is about the biggest waste of time, energy and emotion there is.
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Apr 21, 2011

    No Ones Listening.

    When two people argue, no ones listening. Those outside of the argument are those that hear you but their not listening either. When attacked you have to stick up for what you think is right but it's easier to just walk away. Talk about the situation after all is calmed down...
    kvitka kvitka
    36-40, F
    Feb 13, 2010

    Getting Too Old For It

    It just seem's that most of our young married life we waste fighting and argueing. 99 % of it is over stupid stuff. The worst part of it is that you know exactly what to say to her to tick her off and she know's exactly what to come back with to tick you off. And most of the time...
    Robert1256 Robert1256
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 4, 2010

    Keep Me Out Of It

    I don't like violence or confrontation. I avoid them at all costs. I try to keep the peace wherever I am- arguing stresses me out.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2010

    I believe that most,

    if not all conflicts arise from miscommunication between involved parties. I always try to quell conflict by talking things through, because arguing and fighting is stupid and just not worth it.
    orlyfixation orlyfixation
    22-25, F
    May 21, 2014

    Lol

    i call it the, "NO CRY ZONE.!.!"
    aliceinwonderment aliceinwonderment
    36-40, F
    Feb 13, 2010

    With His Grace

     I am a Christian. I am not Perfect & never will be. The Bible Commands me to Love others  & Pray for them.   We are taught to Pray for  even Terrorists,r  & ones that bring harm to Mankind.  I believe in the Death Penalty.  ...
    sweetnshort sweetnshort
    56-60, M
    1 Response Nov 12, 2010

    I'm Ready To Be Done

    It's certainly one thing to want to change things to make them better, but there are other reasons we would like to see certain behaviors stop in others. For me, it's the whole concept of arguing and fighting with anyone for any reason. I think I have been exposed to so much of...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Feb 23, 2011

    Don't give in don't give up.

    .. On understanding. Give up on yourself, get over yourself... whatever you have to do to understand... Do it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 23

    Honestly... I think I'm a pretty good fighter.

    .. Like... I could probably beat up a grown man lol. Ever since I was young, me and my sister would get in serious fights... Usually we'd just scream.., then.. I'd scream at her and she'd pin throw me into the wall and pin me by my neck.. I'd claw her till she bled, knee her in...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Sep 9, 2014

    I hate fight with the girl I love.

    We aren't dating anymore but when I argue with her I feel like I'm broken in a million pieces. I keep saying sorry even when it's not my fault. I cry a lot over it. I use to cut myself and punch stuff. Now when I feel the need I just walk. But I have a problem I tend to not stop...
    lilhelp lilhelp
    22-25, F
    Dec 8, 2013

    I was outside and I was playing football with

    my friends and then these women called Chloe and summer came out they started arguing and fighting us I just walked to the tree and sat down crying but the fact is I was abused as a kid my dad so I hate fighting then I walked inside my house and my mum started to hit me with a...
    jeanpierre11 jeanpierre11
    16-17, M
    Jun 3, 2014

    Ugh

    immature and pointless. unless its needed, i wont do it
    LittleFerrett LittleFerrett
    26-30, F
    65 Responses Feb 12, 2010

    Some People

    I  Hate to Fight  & Argue. When I was growing up my parents use to Fight & Argue all the time & I swore to myself that I was not doing that when I was grown. Don't get me wrong I will stand my ground when I need to. At work if some of my coworkers are Arguing I will...
    sweetnshort sweetnshort
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 24, 2010

    Aggravated

    so my boyfriend and i have been arguing a lot lately. I really hate arguing with him, especially when it is over the dumbest little things. i guess there is never a way to stop arguing completely because ive tried, but there are so many ways to avoid the arguing. Lately avoiding...
    honeysgurl honeysgurl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 10, 2011

    Not Sure If This Is The Way To Go About This..

      but I have just started an anonymous, online advice column and I need letters.  If you have ANY personal problem for which you need an objective opinion, please message me and I will try to help.  Thank you!   
    SharkyGirl SharkyGirl
    22-25
    Feb 13, 2010

    I Feel The Best Things In Life Are Not Free

    There is an old saying that the best things in life are free i disagree slightly i understand the meaning of this saying but in my opinion the best things in life have to be earned ie respect trust friendship and love all have to be earned i guess i was raised in what is now...
    lovelypaul69 lovelypaul69
    36-40, M
    1 Response Sep 8, 2011
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 18, 2014

    Sometimes it is inevitable.

    ... A misunderstanding, a poorly stated comment, an insensitive remark....seemingly small things that lead to an argument, a fight, and the ensuing distance between two people. I do hate fighting, but I also know that if we can see past the anger to the fear and the hurt that...
    lostit77 lostit77
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2014
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