I Hate First Dates

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    What To Do After The First Date With A Guy You Meet Online?

    This might be a little long and I apologize in advance. I will make it as to the point as i can. So I met this guy through a matrimonial website and we are both from a strictly religious background. I'm 23 and he is 28. When we first started texting, it was because he took my...
    tweetybird205 tweetybird205
    22-25
    Oct 7, 2012

    Wish me luck I'm going on one!

    !!!! Although it's a very old school friend I am very nervous!!!
    crazychick76 crazychick76
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2014

    I have a first date today with a guy

    that a meet a few weeks ago , I am a bit nervous. I still think he is kind of shady but I guess I'm willing to give it a chance . Don't knock it til you try it ?
    mimilsu mimilsu
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2014

    At 19 years old I'm embarrassed to go on dates

    because I still eat like a kid. I mean yeah we can go to Red Lobster but I'm eating fries and chicken strips with a chocolate milk
    shymic shymic
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Sep 21, 2015

    I don't want both parties to be stressed out

    because they want to impress the other person. I want to text the girl I'm going out with and tell her to relax and be herself. To lower any and all expectations. That way they can enjoy themselves and me.
    deathsdestruction deathsdestruction
    18-21, M
    Jan 1, 2015
    bunnybear321 bunnybear321
    18-21, F
    Apr 12, 2014

    It's sad that I always mess up something I

    really want...well ****. I guess I'll learn from that experience and continue to move on forward.
    Slowmo49 Slowmo49
    22-25, F
    Apr 20, 2014

    I'm supposed to take someone out this weekend.

    Never met her before and kinda starting to freak out. I have so much anxiety that I almost want to cancel. Simply because I am expected to play the dominant role and I really hate making decisions. I usually just follow whoever I'm with and now I have to lead pretty much...
    DigitalBlue DigitalBlue
    22-25, F
    Apr 8, 2014

    Actually the first two dates with this guy were

    great and then surprise! He asked me to a metal for our third date.... Classy! So I said no I'm not that kind of person I hardly know you and we are not even together . I also told him my boundaries like the first time we talked...did he think I was joking? Lol just cuz he's a...
    bunnybear321 bunnybear321
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 14, 2014

    Last night I went on a first date with a guy I

    have been chatting for over a month , everything was fine he was sweet when we were texting , today he has blocked me on whatapp deleted me on snapchat and won't talk to me I don't know what I done wrong , I'm not ugly , we were at a bar and all the time he was busy checking the...
    jdscanlon11 jdscanlon11
    22-25, F
    Nov 14, 2015

    So this guy and I both wanna go to the movies

    but he is always like " I'll see" and at the last minute he says he can't. Then tries to plan something. So now he is like I'll see. I don't wanna be pushy and keep asking! But I really wanna go and need to know! Cuz it's tomorrow! How can I ask him?
    taylorkup taylorkup
    16-17, F
    Feb 22, 2015
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