I Hate Getting Angry

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 170 People

    Hate It.....

    I have the anger of my father (old school Italian) and the anger of my Mother (Irish) so the two blended in me, I hate being angry. I usually will walk away with what ever is making me angry, and If I cannot, I will tell people your making me a little angry and to back off....and...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jun 23, 2011
    Iloveprettypussy Iloveprettypussy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015

    Aaarrrggghhhhh!!!

    i try to control my temper at all timesthere's no point loosing it...the other person won't understand anyway, and on top of that it'll make me look bad,even when i am the one who's rightso why cause all the damage?because.... its a very complicated place (world)and all of the...
    amateurgenius amateurgenius
    22-25, F
    Nov 3, 2011

    Getting Angry

    Getting angry, Hate it, But unfortunately, Sometimes, One's gotta act, Show displeasure, When I do, Be warned, I mean business!
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 27, 2012

    Painful

    When I get Angry There is Nothing good to come out of it. I am cold heartless and just don't care who I hurt. it's never pretty. it hurts the people I care about. :(
    matthewsmommy matthewsmommy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2008

    It happens a lot and I try to reduce the

    effects by clearing my mind and making it go blank. Then I just focus on what actually is happening, not just my own version of reality, this way I can see the situation from different perspectives. When I do that I usually end up finding the humour in a situation.
    iMarto iMarto
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jun 23, 2014

    Battousai Ken

    Anger has always been an issue with me. Ever since i could remember, my anger has gotten me in deep situations. My mom was mean as hell, especially when she was angry, but because she was the adult, it was easy for her to express her feelings and emotions. As the kids, me and my...
    kaybudd22 kaybudd22
    26-30, M
    Sep 13, 2012

    Especially when it's over nothing of great

    significance, like a malfunctioning iPod charger. I need to take anger management! O.O
    Whoami30 Whoami30
    31-35, M
    Aug 16, 2014

    Really Bad

    When I get angry, it's like a simple f*** you to everyone I'm with. I get silent, I work harder and faster and whatever I'm doing, and I snort through my nose. I become real formal, not caring to make jokes or anything like that, plus I become real short and silent with people...
    JollyDevittaRoger JollyDevittaRoger
    22-25, M
    1 Response Sep 17, 2008

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