I Hate Getting Swats From A Paddle

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    I got them this morning

    for not doing dishes. I still hurt.
    brooklynboyd2002 brooklynboyd2002
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 14
    g1985k g1985k
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jan 29
    alwaysotk10 alwaysotk10
    31-35, F
    9 Responses Sep 2, 2015
    heatherheadly2000 heatherheadly2000
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Feb 9

    My behind hates it because it hurts,

    but that's the reason I allow my behind to be struck with one, it hurts and gets my attention in a hurry
    HorseAngel33 HorseAngel33
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    I dread the paddle and know I've really screwed

    up when I'm sent to fetch it or am brought upstairs and find it lying on the bed. A few swats is enough for me to cry and start apologizing, but until daddy says I'm done, it usually many more before I'm sent to the corner.
    Babyabby4 Babyabby4
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 8
    tinytonya2001 tinytonya2001
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Nov 30, 2014

    today for being disrespectful.

    urgh I hate it and sometimes I will just burn that damn thing
    bananasandapples bananasandapples
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Feb 20

    My hubby told me I was getting paddled

    when he gets home for acting up
    bendovergirl88 bendovergirl88
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Oct 31, 2014

    I Hate Getting Swats...

    My spanking philosophy is that it is always better to give than receive. Just like Christmas!
    bunnyhunterz bunnyhunterz
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Oct 11, 2011

    I get paddle at home

    and school the paddle really hurts
    rachel200014 rachel200014
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Oct 17, 2014

    i had a bad attitude with my brothers wife

    (they just got married) and helping her clean up and she made me go to my room until my brother got home. when he got home he got out the paddle my mom used to use and said he was going to use it and i started fighting with him and crying. since i wouldnt cooperate he had to...
    Mady11 Mady11
    13-15, F
    5 Responses Nov 11, 2014
    tonyaoneal18 tonyaoneal18
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Apr 16, 2015

    I Refused The Paddle

    I was about to get paddled this morning from mom, it all started because I was about to go chill with my friends today, which changed because of my attitude and arguing. I was about to leave and mom said I was not going out with my pants hanging down, I am like mom its the style...
    jamesk17 jamesk17
    16-17, M
    7 Responses Jul 19, 2013

    I don't like to get swats.

    I guess my parents think it's proper punishment. When we are asked for the paddle we usually can't find it because my six year old sister hides it. Just don't like it.
    cindy123life cindy123life
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2014

    Swats From Dad

    OKso 5 years ago i was playing with my one year old sisters diapers and acidently used one and got caught and got in BIG TRUBLE with w my dad and he swated me like...
    frankfarter frankfarter
    13-15, M
    3 Responses Oct 24, 2012

    That Girl Again

    i was in gym class yesterday and this girl i am really starting to hate she was talking about me and i have had trouble with her before, so i walk up to her and she was like what do you want like really rude, i ask are you talking about me and she was like yes what you going to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Apr 10, 2012

    I hate when people ask

    for what is used paddle hanging on the wall arghhh so embaressed to tell
    ninica ninica
    13-15, F
    6 Responses Nov 5, 2015

    my wife paddles me when i am bad.

    her name is honey2828 in case you see me being bad.
    bendoverman69 bendoverman69
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 21, 2014

    Straight A's

    If u don't have straight A's I get paddled because I'm gifted. In 7th grade I had a 70 In math. That's 20 points away from an A so I was to get 20 swats. I took my pants and panties down and went over moms knee. I got the 20. But, I yelled s***t in the middle so I got 10 extra...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    9 Responses Oct 8, 2012

    I so hate getting swats from a paddle leaving

    me stinging like crazy as I'm always bare bot.tomed when it's used on me but I'm grateful for being a paddled gal because it breaks any bad behavior better than anything and it's given to me with the love of someone who cares enough to stop it.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 13, 2015

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    I have to get it so my mom can paddle my cute butt
    brooklynboyd2002 brooklynboyd2002
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    my mom does I hate it people ask me about it
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    I hate the paddle and mom uses it a lot she says I need to learn respect and to-do as I am told.
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    mom paddled me hard this morning
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